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ulqimate/r/seduction13/10/15 02:44 AM
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Yea, I was thinking of inviting him when I hang out with some of my married friends so he can just talk without feeling pressure.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:19 PM
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Yea he's made attempts before. I don't think he was always like this. I have a close friend of mine that he asked out on a date and she rejected him. It's worth noting that she said no to him like 2 years ago and he was pretty overweight. He has since lost a ton of weight since he started working out sinfe last yeat and last time she saw him as he was leaving my house he did say hi to her and when he was gone my friend didn't even recognize him and called him cute. She lives pretty far from him …
/r/seduction13/10/15 11:40 AM
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I think steps are the best way to go about it. Funny enough one of my girlfriends I regularly hang out with rejected him a few years ago when he was really overweight but now she thinks he's cute now that he's worked out for a year, but she lives kind of far from him and she's pretty aggressive with guys she likes so I don't know how a date between them would go.
/r/seduction13/10/15 09:08 AM
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Yea he pretty much can be called a beta male unfortunately and he seems just awesome in front of us and his other friends. Even in public, but as soon as women are involved he kind of calms down and becomes shy. He really loves his work and he's so passionate and proud of it but he thinks that isn't interesting/desirable to women.
/r/seduction13/10/15 08:58 AM
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The weird thing is that he sees working out as a necessity and I don't think he knows just how good it's done him. He looks great compared to when he was overweight about a year ago. I've been with him during a gig one time and he's mostly in a small sound booth reading lines and talking with sound directors/project heads on how to do it, what they're looking for in tone, etc. I think he does overrate the whole talking with girls thing. He sees it as a much bigger deal tan it should be, he defin…
/r/seduction13/10/15 07:55 AM
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Funny you say ladies' man cause not too long ago I introduced him to my mother in law and when she heard he lived on his own and didn't have a girlfriend she said "you must me quite the ladies' man!" And I thought he was gonna feel down about it he actually had a very hearty laugh about it and looked at her smiling and said "hardly" and I thought it was cool to see him take it so lightly. Books could be more his style and I let him know about it.
/r/seduction13/10/15 07:31 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. He's just great and glowing until women are around I've been trying to get him to show his passion for his work in front of women but he thinks that women will find it dorky.
/r/seduction13/10/15 07:04 AM
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He's mostly freelance but he frequents certain places very often for work. His situation is really good. Makes great money, lives on his own, good place. He has only male friends pretty much. He has female acquaintances from work. Yea there are plenty of women in yoga. I'll try and tell him to look and talk there. And talk to pretty much any woman without a motive.
/r/seduction13/10/15 06:29 AM
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I don't think he's very elitist at all. He enjoys all movies and I only use audiophile because he likes buying microphones and headsets for his work. Never really seen him talk down or trash other people's opinions/likes.
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:53 AM
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By that I meant that he's very proud of the things he's accomplished on by himself. Living on his own, owning a car. His goal was to have his voice featured in a mainstream show, game or movie. He freaked out when he finally got a small part in a pretty mainstream cartoon show after doing work for very small projects and even doing it free sometimes. I guess what I meant was he takes pride in his work and is very professional about all of it. His interests does involve movies, games, television,…
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:31 AM
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I believe he has mental hurdles that don't allow him to do it properly. I'm trying to help him clear some of these thoughts so that when he does try to talk to women he won't feel hindered.
/r/seduction13/10/15 05:04 AM
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I'm positive he wouldn't like the idea of getting a prostitute. To my knowledge I don't think he's ever been to a club. He's been in bars with me and my boyfriend but never seen him approach any women. He doesn't drink a lot when he does its casually, I've never seen him stupid drunk only tipsy and it's been during family occasions or us hanging out at our houses.
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:58 AM
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Well just going and doing it sounds pretty simple. I'm sure he needs a little more help than than a phrase. The thing is that he doesn't know how to do it
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:51 AM
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Unless there is a social anxiety disorder that is specifically towards women then I don't think he has one cause he's rather normal if not cheerful when not in those situations or talking about it. A counselor or a therapist is my last resort but I have thought about that.
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:50 AM
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I don't know of it will be as simple for him to just go and do it. I'm not really trying to convince him he's hot. I'm trying to get him to see that he is more than capable of being desired by a woman. He seems to believe that everyone can get someone but not himself.
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:36 AM
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Ironically he started working out mostly for health reasons. He was overweight at one point but he worked out for a year straight and lost something like 80 pounds and he looks better than he ever did in his life. He still works out out of habit. I've mentioned that other guys who aren't so pretty get women and when I show him he says that they're not really that ugly and he'll point out features that could be attractive on them such as they're eyes, hair, personality, humor etc.
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:45 AM
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I think you're right. I guess when it comes to having a relationship he is just a lost cause. It kind of hurts me to see him shy away from even talking about women cause I know it bothers him that people don't care. He's one of the funnest guys I've ever met and within our family he's the most successful and always a cheer at our family parties. I wish I could see him share that with someone.
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:30 AM
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He did but I don't think he knows what to ask for when it comes to help. I'm just looking for advice to give him to add on to what I'll help him with.
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:02 AM
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