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ultimate_self/r/Divorce_Men05/09/22 10:25 PM
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If you seriously ask this, chances are nothing you say will stick in her mind in a positive way
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:30 AM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:18 PM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:17 PM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:17 PM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:17 PM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:16 PM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:16 PM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:16 PM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:16 PM
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Right, it's so funny that weight has only become "uncontrollable" I'm the past 2 decades or so. For all the rest of eternity weight was never an issue. Modern humans are but a shell of what they once were.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:16 PM
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This is it. If she won't answer then you should unmatch her. Guys should learn to have a set of standards again. Be selective in who you spend your time on. These girls are running wild. Seriously, if she wants your height (which you cannot control) then you need to know her weight (which she can control), and if she doesn't answer, tell her you're not interested because her value system doesn't align with yours and tell her to have a good day.
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:34 PM
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It's very simple. You carry yourself differently. Like guys sometimes buy new clothes and all of a sudden they get more attention from girls. They wrongly interpret it as "girls like my clothes" when it's actually them feeling good about themselves while wearing the new clothes so they carry themselves in a way that attracts women. Same goes for sex. If you've had sex today you are less likely to display the needy behavior that dries a woman up. If you've had sex with 5 hot girls today you will …
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:34 PM
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Instagram is not a place to pick up girls. So my advice below is for in person... The nicest way is to give off that energy from the get go without being a massive twat. Girls are surprisingly chill about it as long as you didn't try to manipulate or deceive them in hopes of getting a quick lay. Actions speak louder than words. If you are a fun guy, interacting and shooting the shit and giving off good energy and treating everyone the same whether they are a 10 or a 1, guy or girl, you are autom…
/r/seduction27/04/21 05:47 PM
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Right, a cool guy is a cool guy no matter what. The true self is always shining through. I see a lot of social outcasts being social outcasts because of the way they carry themselves. And deep down they know it. If you don't like yourself it's extremely selfish to expect others to like you too
/r/seduction27/04/21 05:40 PM
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You aren't on his level of game then. It sounds like OP approached with a lot of tact and respect. He engaged the parents in a friendly manner, he was respectful and came off as a mature guy who has his shit together and willing to take risks to get what he wants. The subconscious message that was being conveyed was that this guy will do what needs to be done and is willing to be authentic and put himself out there. In other words, Dad probably has massive respect for the guy (especially conside…
/r/seduction22/09/20 08:13 PM
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Brilliant! Parents probably want her to marry you already. Did she text you
/r/seduction22/09/20 08:08 PM
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Yeah, real nice display of your "emotional maturity" bud
/r/seduction18/09/20 06:31 PM
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Honestly, it doesn't matter what I say. Its just an observation from me and everyone else who has had success with women. You come from a place of neediness and entitlement. At this point I can't wait for you to go make this girl feel uncomfortable and report back to us (if you'd even do that honestly).
/r/seduction18/09/20 05:52 PM
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You didn't. You got DOWNVOTED a LOT. In all your responses because you are the most tone deaf, narcissistic 15 yo I ever came across. You'll never get a girl
/r/seduction17/09/20 06:34 PM
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You are 15. You don't know how this works. You were given good advice here by many of us and you respond with stupid answers like this. So go ahead bud. Go do it your way and post again telling us how she rejected you and how its awkward now because you got rejected and how you are secretly angry and hurt. Go right ahead. You are not a pimp, you don't understand the social and psychological dynamics behind this and you ignore all advice. You even get downvoted like crazy and still think you know…
/r/seduction17/09/20 03:19 PM
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I get that but I've also seen shy, church going girls do some twisted shit
/r/seduction17/09/20 06:21 AM
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You have no idea how this works. I don't think you have any social awareness
/r/seduction17/09/20 06:20 AM
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Yeah, you're messing with this girl hard. Sorry but the downvotes should literally tell you what you come across as
/r/seduction17/09/20 06:18 AM
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RSD's Blueprint Decoded changed my life when I listened to it. I still have the audio files
/r/seduction17/09/20 02:09 AM
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I literally used to do this all the time. Like before I meet a girl from an app I'd tell them "just so you know, I'm not looking for a relationship, if we hook up, cool, if we don't, cool." I hooked up like 80% of the time. Girls love sex as long as you are a high value guy.
/r/seduction17/09/20 01:45 AM
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Dude. You will ruin your friendship. You are putting this girl in an uncomfortable position because your friendship isn't based on friendship at all. Your friendship is based on your own insecurities and manipulative tactics to "trick" her into "falling in love with you". Most likely you have brought nothing of substance to the table, you do things for her not because you are just a good person, you do things for her to make her like you. Imagine your sister telling you she wants to fuck you. It…
/r/seduction17/09/20 12:53 AM
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You are coming from the wrong place with this. You don't "get" a girl to do anything with you. Even if you do get her through sneaky tactics, because of the place you are coming from with this, you will lose her. If you are in the friend zone, most likely its because you put yourself there from the start. You have been trying to be her "buddy" not because you are just who you are, you have been her "buddy" to get close and hoping she will somehow fall in love with you. I'd say, if you are genuin…
/r/seduction17/09/20 12:50 AM
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Yeah man, think about it in the bigger scheme of things. When you stand close to a mountain it looks massive and insurmountable, but when you take a step back, you see it for what it is and its less intimidating. Just because you were the one who got rejected, shouldn't make it less funny. That's an extreme behavior on the girl's part. And if you think about it, who really acted weird? Is it weird to be friendly or is it weird when you run away from someone being friendly? Everyone in this group…
/r/seduction17/09/20 12:45 AM
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Laugh it off, its a funny situation and story and its something you can tell over again. Just reframe it. "This one time I started talking to a girl, she jumped up and ran off! Can you believe that?! Glad I dodged that bullet and came to talk to you instead!"
/r/seduction16/09/20 10:39 PM
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Because you value their opinion of you more than you value your own opinion of yourself. Girls see this like its a 6th sense. Its an evolutionary thing. Its hard, I know. But this is why its important to know who you are, know what your morals and standards are, having goals etc. "I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for someone I'm not" Its 100% better to be yourself, some will love it and some will hate it but you keep your integrity. The key is to be indifferent.
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:38 AM
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Sounds like she just wasn't that into you. If you texted and then tried to call when she didn't respond... I'd just let it go. You subconsciously told her that you value her a lot and placed her on a pedestal, meaning you don't value yourself. I'd disappear for a week before sending a very nonchalant text. But probably its best to move on. If you didn't call her I'd have told you game on and to lay low for a while but the call is just a bit much. Sorry bro
/r/seduction12/09/20 08:31 AM
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Thats a very rigid way to look at the world. I think anyone who has the balls to take from life what they want should be free to do so, regardless of physical appearance or anything else. I'm a decently attractive guy, no Brad Pitt but handsome. I have a girl (an easy 9, but a 10 to me) still texting me to this day telling me how she wishes she could get another chance with me and how she is still in love with me and cherishes me even though she has been in a relationship with a supremely good l…
/r/seduction11/09/20 10:10 PM
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Exactly! Looks fade. How often do you see scrubby older guys with decently attractive women? Its not that uncommon. Sure a lot of them rely on money. But there are also many older guys that have learned a lot of lessons over the years and that life experience pays off. They've accepted themselves and are comfortable with who they are. Women pick up on that a lot better than us guys do.
/r/seduction11/09/20 07:01 PM
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Girls value are based entirely on their looks. Guys value is based on their perceived social status. Guess what, women age. If you as an average guy work on elevating yourself, that's something that doesn't fade with time. Its a bigger battle, but no amount of crying over how unfair it is will change that. You can either play the hand you were dealt, and learn to play it well or you can sit and sulk about it. At least one of these options give you a fighting chance
/r/seduction11/09/20 06:58 PM
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Why do you find it so hard to believe that a not so goodlooking and not tall can be good with women?
/r/seduction11/09/20 06:54 PM
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Jack Black. He is a short guy, as round as he is tall, not good looking at all. Yeah he is rich now, but he carved it out for himself based on his personality. He is as AUTHENTIC as it comes. Also take a look at someone like (and this is a fictional character but bare with me), Tony Soprano. He isn't traditionally good-looking, but man, he oozes sex appeal. Its in the way he carries himself, he is a man of standards and he knows who he is and he is unapologetic about it. Many women find that irr…
/r/seduction11/09/20 06:52 PM
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Looks are nice to have and if you take care of yourself it reads as "he values himself" and you'll have an aura about you for sure. At the same time, looks aren't reliable. Look at someone like Jack Black. In terms of looks, the man is a 1. In terms of personality.. guy is a God. If you have both? Game over. But even bad looking people can have great success. I have a friend who has almost no chin, is pasty white, very little hair left on his head and girls LOVE him. He makes fun of his looks at…
/r/seduction11/09/20 06:38 PM
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Strongest reality wins
/r/seduction11/09/20 06:33 PM
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Its uncalibrated if you are incongruent. In most cases being "normal" is what works best. "Normal" is also defined by the individual. Take someone like Jack Black for instance, the man looks like a gremlin but is known and loved for his personality, I've met many women that adore him and would love to "get in there". His is way out there but that is his normal. He isn't trying to impress anyone, he is just being his authentic self, some people will hate him, some will love him, but he stays true…
/r/seduction11/09/20 06:33 PM
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100%. Be true to yourself. Decide that your opinion of yourself matters more than a stranger's opinion of you. Its okay to have quirks. There are 8 billion people on the planet, you'll be someone's type no matter what
/r/seduction11/09/20 06:20 AM
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Don't be attached to the outcome. Do what you want, but have the basic skill to read a situation. If you are focused on your own amusement (without being a dick) you'll have a good time whether you hook up or not.
/r/seduction11/09/20 06:17 AM
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No it doesn't but it doesn't matter whether it works or not as long as you aren't attached to the outcome. The minute you make the goal to "get the girl" you set yourself up for failure. I'd rather be indifferent and have fun and if the sex happens, great, if it doesn't, great. I had a great time either way.
/r/seduction11/09/20 05:49 AM
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For me its always been dry humor and a "I'll burn this to the ground for my amusement if I feel like it" kind of attitude. I went on a date once to a pizza place. The girl was cute but it was kind of boring and I felt like she was shy and didn't think it was going anywhere, so when the pizza came I decided to amuse myself and "be gross" Started shoving as much pizza in my mouth as I could (once it cooled down). I almost choked from struggling to chew while laughing so hard. She looked shocked at…
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:54 PM
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A genius once said... "the close to the bedroom is only one last mile.... but its one long ass mile if you don't know how to run it"
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:44 PM
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Your goal shouldn't be to get girls. Your goal should be to work on yourself and as cheesy as it sounds "become the best version of yourself". If you feel good because of who you are, there is an energy that you give off that women find irresistible. The minute you try to impress the girl, you lose the girl. My advice: • work on yourself • be PASSIONATE about what you do • do things for YOU • put yourself out there (can't stress this enough, people are attracted to authenticity, know who you are…
/r/seduction09/09/20 07:01 PM
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