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OYS #7 STATS: Late 20s, 5'10" ~161bs. READ: Sidebar, Prax, MAP, NMMNG, TRM1 READING: Models, WISNIFG x2 PHYSICAL / STYLE: Newbie gains are back again. Calorie surplus and enough protein definitely helped. It's a struggle to hit the calorie goal for each day, especially when I'm so used to missing meals. The easy fix, of course, is to just eat more and maybe eat more junk while I'm at it. Got new winter boots and a new suit. Brought stuff into the tailor this week and it's insane how clothes fitt…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/23 04:35 AM
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I cannot seem to correct my shoulder issue when doing overhead press and bench press. Warm up and perform mobility exercises. Lift but with much lower weight and slower movement. It could be a minor tear or inflammation, couldn't know for sure without an MRI. For these minor injuries, your best bet is to strengthen the shoulder muscles to help hold shit together. Doctor would probably offer you a joint injection of some sort. Keep in mind that it doesn't really fix the problem, it just offers te…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 10:20 PM
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MCT oil and binge drinking MCT oil is 115 calories per tablespoon. Unless you're severely lacking fats in your macros, there's no reason you should be taking in calorie-dense food when you're trying to restrict calories. Black coffee by itself itself suppresses appetite. You're overthinking the whole drinking thing. I haven't had alcohol in years and I don't walk around with a backpack full of LaCroix or whatever. Just ask for water or diet soda. No one cares.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 09:58 PM
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Aside from that, one of my tasks to work on is to research some sleep trackers so that I have more data on how I’m doing. Quantified Scientist on YouTube has a lot of videos that might help you. I personally went with Whoop, which is pricier than most, but I felt it was the best one for my goal (maximizing sleep + recovery). I could also wear it on my biceps so I could wear an actual watch. A good example of this was when people would ask why I’m not drinking. I was open and said, “it’s an exper…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 10:03 AM
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OYS #6 STATS: Late 20s, 5'10" ~158lbs. READ: Sidebar, Prax, MAP, NMMNG, WISNIFG READING: Models PHYSICAL / STYLE: Hitting the gym more regularly, no missed sessions (yes, even on Thanksgiving). Focusing on warming and stretching before lifts. Also started backwards walking on the treadmill to strengthen my knees. Do I feel goofy? Absolutely. I felt so self-conscious at first, until I came to my senses and realized that people go to the gym in order to be better versions of themselves. And that's…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 09:34 AM
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Appreciate the feedback. Starting small is definitely key. I've started looking at social interactions like reps in the gym, which builds up over time. The end of my LTR was a particularly bad time for me. I won't lie, I still get emotional about it which clouds my judgment and makes it hard for me to see that this is actually an opportunity. I've been stuck on "why is this happening to me?" instead of "what can I learn?". It's a longer journey than I expected, but gotta keep moving forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 07:34 AM
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OYS #5 STATS: Late 20s, 5'10" ~158lbs. READ: Sidebar, Prax, MAP, NMMNG, WISNIFG READING: Models (haven't read this in years) PHYSICAL / STYLE: Weight moved up a little, but I'm definitely slacking on my nutrition. I've lifted regularly for the past week (I have a 5 day program). I've been mostly avoiding squats due to knee pain, but I realize things will never get better if I don't try so I started incorporating the ATG/KneesOverToes stuff into my routine. Goal: Get to 165lbs by eating more and …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/23 05:42 AM
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I think getting your style to a point where it's neutral is really easy. The standards are pretty low (dudes are still wearing cargo shorts and basketball shorts everywhere). You literally just buy inoffensive clothing, make sure they're clean and they fit. The cycle of looking good --> feeling good about yourself is helpful too. From that point on, it's just a matter of finding pieces you like and incorporating them slowly. Similar to a new hairstyle, it'll feel strange at first then you just g…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/23 06:59 AM
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Great post. Style is literally one of the easiest parts of RP to nail, and first impressions are important. Just some more practical things to consider: Take care of your clothes. Don't wash everything on hot water, your shit will pill. I don't care if your lady does your laundry for you, this is something you must learn. Get a steamer and stop wearing wrinkly clothes. It's never a good look. If you don't know where to start, find a dude who you think looks cool and "get inspired" by their style…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/23 11:47 PM
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OYS #4 STATS: Late 20s, 5'10" ~155lbs. READ: Sidebar, Prax, MAP, NMMNG, WISNIFG READING: TRM1 Tumultuous few months. I can't say I'm proud of how far I've let myself fall. I've read the books, I know what I need to do, but I feel my brain just holds me back. Quit my job. Hit the road for a few weeks. Ended up on the other coast, moved into a new city. Applied for further education, something I've been scared to do but know I need to do. My older brother and his new girl visited me for a couple o…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/23 04:13 AM
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Just adding some more actionable tips. - Brushing your teeth isn't enough. Tongue scraper + waterpik makes a huge difference. Can't mask your breath with mints if your tongue is just covered with gross shit. - Drink lots of water and always keep a lip balm for your lips. Chapped lips is never a great look. - Spend money on products. Don't buy the cheapest body wash you see in Target because that will dry your skin out. Brand-wise, I like Jack Black, Geologie and The Ordinary.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/23 12:01 AM
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OYS #3 STATS: Late 20s, 5'10" ~150lbs. READ: Sidebar, Prax, MAP READING: TRM1, NMMNG PHYSICAL / STYLE: I've been going to the gym for three weeks. I have a fear of injuring myself, so I've kept the weights low (RPE 6-7). I'm a weak mf with bad knees so training hasn't been ideal. I've started stretching so hopefully that'll keep my shit together. I've been procrastinating on hitting the stores, finding new clothes and changing up my frames. It's hard to keep myself motivated but I know it'll mak…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/23 02:51 PM
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OYS #2 STATS: Late 20s, 5'10" ~150lbs. READ: Sidebar, Prax, MAP READING: TRM1 Couple of weeks ago, my LTR broke up with me. It felt like a very unexpected blow that I wasn't ready for. I usually do the breaking up, so to be handed one was a hit to my ego. I was also under the belief that we were in a mutual agreement to always try to improve ourselves for the relationship. Didn't matter, just changed her mind. I felt dumb as shit. Wasn't mine, just my turn. This event, on top of other recent per…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 10:16 PM
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OYS #1 Been lurking for a while. Read up a lot of PUA when I was younger and fucked around in my early 20s. I want something more permanent now, and I want a partner who'll add value to my life. STATS: Mid-20s, 5'10" ~145lbs (skinny fuck). Living together with LTR mid-20s, together 1 year. READ: Sidebar, Praxeology, consumed a shit load of Rian Stone videos READING: Sidebar again, then work from there PHYSICAL: I haven't lifted seriously for a very long time. I'm not an athletic person. I rock c…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/23 04:23 PM
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What is this shit lol The average American is overweight, will probably lose in a street fight and will only consider seducing a cheeseburger.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:51 AM
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First off, 22 is young as hell. Stop worrying about your age. People shit on dating apps a lot, but it is a great way to practice talking to women. Delete your Tinder and make a new one, just to reset the algorithm. Have nice pics (ask a friend!), send a lot of messages and try to set up a lot of dates. Even if you're not attracted to them, it'll help you practice talking to women. Just relax, try to be funny, and most importantly kino escalation at all times. I don't know any of the "dating coa…
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:40 AM
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Were you not fucking around in the 5 years you spent travelling? Because that would have been the best time to do so, if you were truly curious. Honestly, I have not yet hit 30 but sex is starting to feel meaningless to me. I'd say go for it, but don't expect it to change your life. It is fun, but it won't complete your life. edit: holy shit dude your post history is kinda worrying
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:07 AM
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You're overthinking things with this one girl. Don't talk too much about the whole moving on shit, unless she brings it up. Talk about you instead, tell her stories or whatever. Read more stuff about attraction. Push pull, kino, etc. Always escalate on touching her. It's the same with every girl. Make everything fun. It's not fun to talk about her ex or moving on yadda yadda. I suggest you meet other girls. Maybe outside your academic circle or something? That depends on you, I personally don't …
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:10 PM
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I agree that fucking around with someone in a long term relationship really is really not worth the drama, but don't block and delete her right away. This could be a shit test, and you'll never know for sure if you block her.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 09:58 PM
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"Every single guy in all of my classes all have Aspergers and are all dead inside." Lol, man. Unless you're going to some sort of special university or something, not everyone in your class have Asperger's and you're just creating these excuses for yourself. I'm not from Canada so I don't get the whole 'people are jealous of kids with dorms' thing, but I fail to see how living at home would help you in developing your social skills. You'll just keep making excuses. I suggest really making an eff…
/r/askTRP07/10/18 02:34 PM
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It's pretty good and he's an entertaining dude to watch. Mostly inner game stuff, which is key to seduction. I don't really like his fitness advice about doing full body routines only, but pretty solid channel nonetheless.
/r/seduction15/07/18 06:07 AM
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Not introvert-centric and not pure PUA material but Models by Mark Manson would be a pretty good start.
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:57 AM
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Just message her when something interesting comes up and tell her it reminded you of her, or some shit like that. That's really all you can do lol. Most guys here will tell you not to spend too much time texting because it demonstrates you're low value and think about her constantly yadda yadda... I say go for it. Better to keep your name popping on her mind from time to time, rather than only once a week.
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:54 AM
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"Are you free on <day>?" or something like that. It's pretty normal. Take her out for drinks or coffee or whatever, just make sure you get to talk to her. Depends on the girl, but you can joke around that it's a date and not just friends catching up.
/r/seduction12/07/18 08:45 AM
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Sounds pretty solid, as long as it's with the right girl and you've been consistently doing this 'cocky funny' thing. It's sort of funny and gets her to think about making out with you. I think framing it as if it's her idea to make out with you would be a good variation. Just can't think of a specific wording right now.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:11 AM
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You still have a chance. You do not have to state intentions this early, you show it through kino. Go for hand holding the next time you see her. If you're nervous, then kino your way to her forearm/arm at the least to gauge her reaction. Most girls will let you, if they have even the slightest bit of attraction for you. Once you get to hand holding, the kiss close is pretty easy.
/r/seduction20/08/17 12:56 PM
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If you don't see what's creepy with your post, I'm not sure I can help you. You claim to not be invested at all but has clearly thought through the things that could possibly happen. You literally envisioned the perfect date with her. If you have the time and want to go shooting, then go do it with her. As simple as that.
/r/seduction20/08/17 12:45 PM
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Let go of the idea of her being the 'dream girl'. She's probably just another girl who happens to like the same shit you do and happens to be cute or whatever. I'd say go for it regardless, but keep in mind that she may not be into you at all (and that's okay!). Be confident and talk to her. If I were you, I'd get her IG or Facebook instead since they're much easier to ask at this age range. I suggest reading up more on seduction to put yourself in the correct mindset, check the top posts in thi…
/r/seduction20/08/17 12:31 PM
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Had a similar dream involving a girl I used to date but lost interest in. So I made an effort to connect with her after two years. Realized that I just really liked the idea of her being the 'girl in my dreams' and the real 'flaky-as-fuck' her wasn't attractive to me. Approach and you shall find out whether you're actually attracted to her.
/r/seduction20/08/17 05:20 AM
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You got off your ass and made an approach. It's a success.
/r/seduction20/08/17 05:10 AM
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I don't think this counts as a date. Is there even an actual plan to begin with? She has a boyfriend. Chances are she's bored with her current relationship and she's looking for some fun on the side. You won't "leave as lovers". She won't believe that you guys "are meant to be". Just because you're super friendly, doesn't mean you'll be "everything she wants". I don't know man, some parts sound pretty creepy. You're too invested in this. This could literally be nothing but a friend who wants to …
/r/seduction20/08/17 05:08 AM
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If you want her, try making that happen. I know the common advice in this sub is "fuck lots of women, don't fixate yourself on one", but it's not bad to use your PUA knowledge to get a girl you want. If she responds, good. If she doesn't, move on.
/r/seduction29/07/17 02:37 AM
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Middle children tend to feel like they're the one who gets the least attention. Pay some attention to them, make them feel important and you'll do fine.
/r/seduction28/07/17 01:51 AM
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In a way, yes but it really depends on how their parents raised them. This is from experience only. Only child's tend to be really suspicious of your actions and shit test the f outta you. Middle child's... well you know what they say about the middle child syndrome.
/r/seduction27/07/17 05:30 AM
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It's not bad to want a girlfriend. You can still use PUA/seduction to attract girls and screen potential girlfriends. But I think you need to get rid of the feeling that you "need" to have a girlfriend to complete your life. You're young. Date/hook up with girls and have fun. The right girl will come along eventually.
/r/seduction27/07/17 05:25 AM
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Forget about her, it's her problem. Some girls are just flaky af. Move on and find some other girls who will actually make time for you.
/r/seduction26/07/17 11:52 PM
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"Hey, let's have some coffee/drinks sometime? Tell me when you're free." "Hey, I'm going to this event. Would you like to come along?" "Have you seen this movie? Do you want to go watch it with me?" I could think of other variations based from those, but basically those are what I use. I wouldn't recommend a movie date for the first date though unless you've escalated to at least hand holding. Hold her hand and caress it. Girls melt for that shit.
/r/seduction26/07/17 11:45 PM
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I was really confused with the way this was written.
/r/seduction26/07/17 11:38 PM
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Sounds to me like you care too much about her. Seriously, you think about the other guys she meets on some app? Be more confident about yourself and know that you are a better choice. If you can't even believe that, then why would she? And if she doesn't choose you, her loss then. Do you have her on social media or something? If she posts an IG story or something, you can reply to it with some quick message or even an emoji.
/r/seduction22/07/17 03:10 AM
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Hit send. It won't kill you.
/r/seduction20/07/17 01:07 PM
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Get her number. Add her on FB. Make some poor excuse if you have to. Pretend you're planning to go to med school too or something. If you have some form of contact, it's easier to ask her out. But the important part is that you should go up to her and ask her out while you have the chance to. Make it casual af if you're scared. It can be as simple as "do you want to have coffee with me?" or just talk about some event you have to go to and ask her if she wants to come along. What's the worst that…
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:58 AM
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No ad campaigns, bro. It's creepy. It shows that you're absolutely craving for attention from her. Sure, that might get her interested in a while. Don't we all like it when someone pays attention to us? But when that attention dies down, we lose interest. So say you run this facebook ad campaign for her and she sees it. What's next? A newspaper ad? A billboard? Be in control. Be the one who cares less in this relationship. Attract her using your personality and how you present yourself, not thro…
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:42 AM
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It varies widely. The minimum would be 10, I guess? I don't really count. At most, I go for a week of texting before asking them out. If they're not free for that week, I try again for the next week. And if they're still not free, then I move on.
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:24 AM
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I joke around and flirt before going for a date. I do this to test whether she's actually interested in meeting me, so I wouldn't waste my time setting up dates with flakes. Also, it helps to build trust since some girls may not be comfortable in going out for a date right away. It puts you in their mind as a real person, instead of just another name on their phone.
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:05 AM
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Don't do it. Please don't do it. I get that feeling that you're infatuated with the idea of her. Now I know that this isn't what you wanna hear, but step back and think things through. It's one thing to do cheesy things to ask a girl out, and one thing to run an ad campaign. One is normal, the other is fucking creepy. Just write her a letter, make a playlist or whatever if you want to do cheesy. But no ad campaigns.
/r/seduction20/07/17 05:59 AM
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Ask him then? Just a word of caution, I think that objectifying women to mere sex objects fucks with your game in the long run. It demonstrates low value, in the 'PUA speak'.
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:50 AM
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Sometimes I get resistance on the make out to fuck transition and I just say 'okay' and move back to making out. Then I go for the usual weak spots like the ears and neck, and try again. Is this the 1 step forward, 2 step back thing you are talking about? If she's not giving in, I respect her decision. She just doesn't want sex. Or if she does, then I'm not willing to feel like a manipulative fuck just to get it.
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:30 AM
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I just naturally follow the 'escalation' ladder. No manipulation or anything, just make her wet and she'll want to have sex. Cuddle --> make out --> fuck Isn't that how it usually works? Also I like whispering some random shit into their ears, most girls like that.
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:12 AM
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