ummmm--no Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Unfortunate proof of why sex appeal > everything else What you have described is a socially awkward person that doesn’t know how to behave in public. That is a pretty big issue in spite of the other benefits!	/r/seduction	05/09/25 08:20 PM
11	Good response to "having fun?" Let's be clear - I ALWAYS HAVE FUN!	/r/seduction	12/03/25 07:23 PM
5	How do I make a move on my girlfriend Hold hands when walking, playful bump into her or play a game that encourages touching. Put your arm out and escort her while walking - you just have to start making physical contact happen in some form to normalize it for y’all. Then when departing - joke and say something like - what, no hug goodbye? It will eventually escalate. Being shy sucks! I’ve been there.	/r/seduction	13/09/24 09:29 PM
28	An interesting experience I had congrats on the progress and attention is empowering but, yea, don't jump on that one. Lots to be wary of.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 06:30 PM
0	I approach 10 people. Now what? It sounds like you are forcing it a bit. I believe natural interactions produce. Forced interactions are just wasting time. Find events that encourage interactions. Sporting events, outdoor festivals, bars, etc will have people that somewhat expect interactions. And nothing cheesy - “do me the honor” isn’t natural and comes off weird. Make observations about what is happening in the area. “These lines for the bar are ridiculous - I have a better spot in the other side. Let’s go that way. I’m buy…	/r/seduction	02/09/24 11:14 PM
22	I approach 10 people. Now what? A couple things - Improve your opener- “give me the honor of…” is kinda ridiculous. And weird that it was guys or girls. That’s like saying I want to be a better baseball player but if I get caught up in a soccer game, I’ll count that as practice towards accomplishing my baseball goal. Focus on what you want to actually want to improve on.	/r/seduction	02/09/24 10:59 PM
15	Intimidation from a stunning woman Hahaha! My man calls himself a pioneer - with toys!. That is a pretty bold statement to self claim!	/r/seduction	24/08/24 03:32 PM
3	I'm gonna go flirt at the gym Isn’t it amazing how impactful (and rare) it is for a woman to make the first move. I have a couple moments similar to this that are permanently etched in my brain!	/r/seduction	17/08/24 05:44 PM
32	I'm gonna go flirt at the gym That would actually be fuckin awesome!	/r/seduction	16/08/24 11:56 PM
4	First “Cold” Approach… What did I do wrong? sounds like other than maybe a poorly thought-out invitation to join you at a time you knew would likely not work for her, you did great. Gyms are tough. Definitely slow play it and continue to build on the common ground of growing up together. I always would recommend treading VERY lightly with gym approaches. They likely just want to work out in peace.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 07:56 PM
2	Advice I recommend you go have a drink with her.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 06:45 PM
167	Hot girls mother is adamant that I come to a dancing party at a dance studio go to the class. You miss 100% of shots you don't take.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 06:40 PM
1	She mentions her brother… This is literally every dating experience in a small town. Just communicate and don't make it weird.	/r/seduction	07/08/24 07:48 PM
61	How to became friend with benefits with a woman? Pretty solid answer. Key point - you gotta be very good in bed. Heavy focus on her needs. If you accomplish this, she will be more inclined to agree to a FWB situation.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 03:00 PM
6	Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret? Being your self and being confident equates to high success rates if your natural personality is outgoing, fun, and confident - but not overly arrogant or brash. It also helps if you are a 9 or 10 on looks. I’ve had friends that hit for EXTREMELY high batting averages when we go out. They they pull model quality. They are the extremely rare guys that other guys want to be friends with and girls will fall all over. It is truly a joy to watch them work a room or table. It is an intangible charisma…	/r/seduction	24/05/24 08:01 PM
28	Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret? Pro tip!!	/r/seduction	24/05/24 07:50 PM
429	I slept with her on our first night hanging out. Thankful for this sub. sounds like you handled it like a pro! Great idea on the Easter egg help. Good way to take the focus/pressure off while you connect. Congrats!	/r/seduction	02/04/24 06:46 PM
1	How can I turn my dating life around by 30? The flip of the script to “how can I have a more exciting life” is really solid advice.	/r/seduction	14/03/24 08:46 AM
7	How to make myself push for action on sexual level Dude, you talk too much - sheez!!	/r/seduction	13/03/24 01:26 PM
9	Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type? this is a very nice way of saying you need to adjust your standards and be more real with your self-evaluation. X-type may be out of your league. Be happy you are still in the game attracting Y-type. Some of us are on the bench just wishing we could get a play or two.	/r/seduction	28/09/22 04:43 PM
4	Girl I've met a few years ago invited me to go to her city, in another country. Is this an invitation for something? Uno reverse card !! - I don’t use that phrase nearly enough!	/r/seduction	27/09/22 09:00 PM
2	This shit easier than I thought If this is true and you have been working hard at it and not gotten a date in 10 years, you need to adjust your standards and get a small win. Then build off that. I’m firmly convinced there is someone for everyone and there are lots of wonderful people out there that are not 10’s.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 11:59 PM
3	[Request] 19m virgin found a freak need advice Damn!! You jumped in to the deep end of the pool! Maybe try a few warm up laps before challenging Michael Phelps?	/r/seduction	15/09/22 05:39 PM
9	Her friend is way more my type Underrated comment. Came here to say this!	/r/seduction	01/09/22 05:16 PM