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You definitely don’t have to be a fit ambitious dude to be attractive, all you have to be is clean and fun to be around honestly but yeah I agree, only half the battle is being “attractive”, you still have to do something about it
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:36 AM
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I disagree - working on yourself (A) is good for you and (B) makes you attractive. Women are much more interested in an ambitious guy with cool hobbies than a lazy stoner that plays video games all day (nothing against that, it's just not what most would find more attractive). That doesn't mean that women will come flying at you but if you put the effort into yourself then you will act differently and then you can work on the confidence to actually get girls
/r/seduction13/11/19 05:43 AM
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You've basically got step 1 down - you sound like an interesting enough guy that girls are actually interested in. Now you need to move on to step 2, actually getting the girl, which others have said is a different skill than working on yourself. You got your foot in the door but now you need to finish the job. I think you're right on target with getting professional help to work on your depression/anxiety that it sounds like is a barrier for you in certain situations. You're also very young - I…
/r/seduction13/11/19 05:39 AM
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Irrelevant that you've never spoken, there's a girl in my class that we knew each other but hadn't spoken for over a year and now we're close Just don't overthink it, say something light, talk about how bullshit that lecture was or how you can't wait to do whatever that weekend and get out of that class, anything really
/r/seduction25/10/19 04:51 AM
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I've been in similar situations where I sit in class thinking of all the things I can say to a girl, and it doesn't really work when you think too hard. Just don't force it, say whatever comes to mind whenever, but really you should try and talk to her when class ends and walk out with her, then you can really talk
/r/seduction25/10/19 04:35 AM
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I think that in practical terms this doesn't mean you should purposefully not give a shit (in my experience, most people typically don't like the guys that are obnoxiously aloof, not even with dating but just in general) it's more just going about your regular business without devoting a lot of your attention to chasing some objective. Even more simply the message is just to not try so hard that it becomes desperate and off-putting
/r/seduction25/10/19 04:25 AM
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Make a move or move on, she won't be the last
/r/seduction05/10/19 05:30 AM
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I think some introspection is needed here. Obviously we don't know exactly what you're saying but if you're showing up with an agenda it can be very obvious and off putting. ​ If she continues to be a bitch Instead of blaming her, it is much more useful to take a look at what you may have done that elicited that reaction - taking responsibility is an invaluable life skill and is the key for self-improvement
/r/seduction05/10/19 05:29 AM
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No question alcohol makes it easier - lets you act how you want to act (with moderate drinking of course). Once I became comfortable having fun with alcohol I decided to try and have just as much fun with less and less (not just with girls - in general), and I think its a great starting point and over time you will learn how to be less stiff without as much
/r/seduction05/10/19 05:21 AM
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I find overthinking women's intentions to be really hit or miss, so I try not to. Could mean absolutely nothing, could mean she's madly in love with you, ultimately it's irrelevant because she has a boyfriend and you aren't going to (at least you shouldn't) do anything. Don't overthink women - make them think about you
/r/seduction05/10/19 05:16 AM
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I've noticed things happen when you least expect it, way more often than not. The times where things haven't happened was generally when I was trying to hard. If sex is your main motivation, it isn't going to happen because you won't be acting naturally. Women like to see that you are a sociable man that doesn't require her for your happiness.
/r/seduction05/10/19 05:11 AM
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