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Roll with it. She's setting a boundary. Respect it. But she feels safe enough with you to stay at your place. Congrats: you gave an additional attractive woman in your friend network. This is an asset to your dating life.
/r/seduction10/08/26 07:34 PM
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Rejection is part of the game. Over time you'll care a lot less.
/r/seduction07/08/26 10:07 PM
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You are doing something wrong. Cold approach is basically just starting conversations. Bars have no problems with solo guys just talking to randoms. Getting banned or ejected from a bar means you are probably doing something weird or fucked up.
/r/seduction04/08/26 03:28 AM
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What exactly is there "to deal with"? She's obviously got something that sparks your curiosity, even if you dont remember her. You arent doing anything wrong or shameful. You now simply have another possible topic of conversation. So have at it.
/r/seduction04/08/26 02:20 AM
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Why eject? What mistake? It's only awkward if you make it awkward.
/r/seduction04/08/26 02:18 AM
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I kinda disagree. I'm a shit dancer. I go latin dance nights often. It's not too hard to strike up conversations. Maybe it's regional though?
/r/seduction03/08/26 08:58 AM
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Seduction technique is a subset of social skills. I mean, it's literally impossible to practice seduction without improving social skills.
/r/seduction03/08/26 06:11 AM
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It works the other way around too. If you have no social skills, then learning seduction in-field will massively assist you in learning them. Sure, you go through the 'wierd' stage. But awkwardness is a part of all learning paths on any field. So if you are scared of "being that guy", then you are delaying your social skill acquisition.
/r/seduction03/08/26 12:56 AM
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Why are you even asking this question? Latin dance club nights are the easiest environments I've ever been in for striking up conversations. You dance, get seen dancing and just chat with groups about whatever. You can start with simply sharing administration of the better dancers who are showing off their skill.
/r/seduction31/07/26 08:47 PM
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You are hallucinating. Describing your hallucinations and projecting bitterness isnt helping OP.
/r/seduction31/07/26 08:40 PM
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Your self-indulgent sophistry still isnt helping OP. Curry and David X might give advice that is imperfect. But it is still much more practical and actionable than your self-absorbed, vague smugness.
/r/seduction31/07/26 03:02 PM
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You have given OP no practical advice. OP is seeking advice that can be put to use in the real world. He has been reading material that gives practical advice. If that practical advice is of no value, then critique it an offer your own. David X and Currie basically just say to be honest in the moment. Tell the woman what you are thinking and feeling. Remember that women are as sexual as men are, and that they appreciate honesty and authenticity. They describe scenarios and how men can be authent…
/r/seduction31/07/26 10:34 AM
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What im reading from your post is that you are immersed in online content and you arent trying things out in the actual real world.
/r/seduction29/07/26 02:35 AM
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Try going for the instadate instead of the number. It's great to get to the point where you get the number. But as you've found, numbers dont mean much. Go for an immediate date instead. It helps to use time constraints, whether they are false or not. But a 15m instadate makes a world of difference in terms of the impression you make. Instead of just being a kinda cool ego-gratifying experience she had, you become a real person to her.
/r/seduction29/07/26 01:49 AM
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Experiment as much as possible with both. They both have pros and cons. As you build up experience, your intuition will tell you what the best approach is .
/r/seduction28/07/26 10:30 PM
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Go out on your own. Guys like that are incapable of reconfiguring their behavior. Accept the friendship for what it is, and accept your friend for who he is. But dont expect him to change.
/r/seduction28/07/26 10:26 PM
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Cold approach helps average guys become above average.
/r/seduction27/07/26 06:55 PM
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No. Accept that it will be hilarious, challenging and lead to amazing, enviable experiences.
/r/seduction27/07/26 04:46 PM
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"Do I know you from somewhere?" is a little weak. Unless you follow it up with something stronger. Just say "I haven't met you yet", and wing it from there. There's no reason to hide your curiosity. Also: You are in an opportunity rich environment. Enjoy experimenting with openers when you can. Be ok with messing up and getting things wrong. Give yourself kudos for approaching no matter the outcome.
/r/seduction25/07/26 12:31 PM
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Straw man. Im saying that cold approach is a door to sex. Men who are sufficiently good at cold approach have sex with women they approach. If you honestly don't believe this to be true, then you are clueless and just wasting everybody's time. If you've never had sex with a woman that youve cold approached, then you dint know shit and you are wasting everyone's time.
/r/seduction23/07/26 09:17 PM
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You shifted the goal posts on the middle of your post. Your headline is objectively incorrect. And nothing in the body of your text really backs ypu up. All you did was redefine "good with girls" to exclude... meeting new women cold and having sex with them. Cold approach is great for men who like having sex with women.
/r/seduction23/07/26 09:02 PM
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Not a trick question or trying to be mean: how old are you?
/r/seduction23/07/26 06:10 AM
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Cultivate chemistry. Learning about charisma. Learn how to generate it. Cocky/funny, pattern interrupts, push/pull, detachment to outcome, presence.
/r/seduction23/07/26 01:34 AM
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You are hallucinating. I literally have an anthropology degree. You keep demonstrating that your knowledge of pre-modern society comes from old cartoons.
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:49 PM
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Ironic, after you accused others of having no schooling. The idea that social constructs or rules governing conduct didnt exist "in ancient times" is absurd. I assume by "ancient times" you mean pre-neolithic... which is also a sign of being clueless. Your assumptions are drawn from old stereotypes in pop culture. Not from any understanding of the realities of the human past.
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:48 PM
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Referring to the Paleolithic as "caveman times" and drawing massive blanket assumption about human behavior from across the entirety of that vast timespan demonstrates my point: You have no clue what you are talking about.
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:42 PM
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The evidence is from your imagination though.
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:15 PM
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"Caveman times" pretty much only exist in the popular imagination.
/r/seduction21/07/26 09:29 PM
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Yeah, that phenomena has been discussed among therapists since pretty much the stone age of therapy. It's called 'transferrance'. Or rather, it's a subset of transferrance, which is when the therapist becomes a kind of canvas that the subject projects emotions onto. Freud published a theory on it in 1912.
/r/seduction20/07/26 10:57 PM
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Yeah, you are just proving my point. You clearly have no idea what you are talking about. Have you actually spent time in-field?
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:15 AM
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For starters, my comment was for OP. He is clearly unfamiliar with this area. Also, if you think that game is :for women who are already attracted to you" then you have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:26 AM
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Already a dozen comments and nobody has mentioned the raison d'etre of this sub. Idiots. Forget looksmaxxing. Acquire personalitymaxxing. Learn charisma. Learn the structure of seduction interactions. Learn cold approach pickup. Find and read Double Your Dating. Maybe read The Game for a semi-fictionalized bio of how learning game can be transformative. Hit up the sub wiki. Get in-field and practice.
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:08 AM
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You are misreading my comments.
/r/seduction19/07/26 12:37 AM
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You misread my comment.
/r/seduction18/07/26 07:57 PM
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The whole point of game is to cultivate your sexual appeal.
/r/seduction18/07/26 06:06 PM
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Sexual appeal.
/r/seduction18/07/26 03:16 PM
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First of all dont do dinner dates. Coffee/dessert dates are better. Better still do something where you can move your body. Park walk. Museum walk. Focus on having fun. Dont try to impress. Be self-amused. Just dump the whole frame of trying to prove something, or trying to tick her on-paper boxes. Have fun. Guide the conversation towars sex. If you feel desire be open about it.
/r/seduction17/07/26 07:03 AM
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"... if the girl rrally likes you..." The entire point of the game is to become more attractive. If your friend improved his game, his numbers would go up.
/r/seduction17/07/26 12:21 AM
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Your black-and-white thinking is distinctly rapey.
/r/seduction16/07/26 03:52 AM
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Disagree. Fundamentally, if a woman expresses disinterest then it is in everyone's interest that you just move on.
/r/seduction16/07/26 01:34 AM
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How would you know though? If you honestly think she's playing mind games, why would you bother anyway?
/r/seduction15/07/26 06:57 PM
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If a woman acts like she doesn't want it, then it's best to conclude that she doesn't want it. Just move on.
/r/seduction15/07/26 06:51 PM
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Nah bro. Small talk is fine. Ultimately it's an expression of curiosity about the person.
/r/seduction14/07/26 10:29 PM
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What tf is a "fake question"?
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:54 PM
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Your instinct is correct. She's enjoying the attention - which is fine. But enjoying attention is not the same as experiencing desire. Leave the ball with her and move on.
/r/seduction13/07/26 01:49 AM
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In terms of the core principles: these are best elaborated on by Tyler Durden / Owen Cook. The idea is that a learner can emulate the character traits of a "natural" - that rare man who seduces regularly and effortlessly. The purpose of that emulation is to discover those traits within oneself, and cultivate them. Over time one integrates those characteristics. That's the overarching principle.
/r/seduction13/07/26 12:09 AM
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Neccesary and insufficient.
/r/seduction12/07/26 06:58 PM
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