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| 1 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on DateWell either keep around as a friend or friends with benefits if you want but it doesn’t seem like a girl to date if it bothers you. Should be talking to multiple girls to the point this doesn’t bother you tbh. When ur confidence is true and grounded things like this shouldn’t bother you. I’ve been that guy that used to get bothered about things like this but now I really don’t give a damn tbh. Its whatever. It’s important to let go and say it is what it is. Don’t take this the wrong way though. … | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on DateThis would be a turn off for me no doubt and a red flag for sure so I completely empathize with how you feel. However I can’t help but feel like you got some inner work you still need to work on. I say this cause I’ve been there too. Either A) a guy can have the amazing social skills and confidence and she’s still getting other dudes instagrams and flirting because that’s just who she is. B) your game/social skill need genuine work and that’s why she drifted off to other guys that have more expe… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I feel basically all success can be defined under neediness vs non-neediness.It’s not a game. It’s human psychology. It’s just how it works just like how the sun rises in the morning and goes at night. You can’t change the world, the world will never change for you. But you gotta change yourself for the world. It’s how the cookie crumbles mate. You can both like each other and not play games. It must be genuine to the point one becomes naturally un-needy. Not forced un-needy where you’re faking it to make it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | I feel basically all success can be defined under neediness vs non-neediness.Call her. Or even better FaceTime her. Try it out. It works wonders in building a connection. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 07:52 AM |
| 2 | I feel basically all success can be defined under neediness vs non-neediness.Mindset is not a button. It’s something you work on. You don’t press a button to get muscles. You go to the gym and train to get it over time. Working on our social skills and “game” will yield the genuine mindset that we strive for. | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 04:57 AM |
| 6 | Can't Seem To Get Any Girls To Talk To MeFocus on being friends. Relationships/seduction/sex should not be the focus. Just treat them like a friend, but this has to be genuine with no underlying motive. Practice this and you will gain more experience with girls. Remember not to be needy or creepy. Just be a friend. This is the start for you. | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 01:56 PM |
| 99 | I feel basically all success can be defined under neediness vs non-neediness.A woman or a man, is a “want” and not a “need”. Yes, I do want to date a woman. But I do not need her to fulfill my own happiness. I am happy with or without. The mindset - I want a woman so I can increase my happiness is completely okay. But the mindset - I need a woman so I can increase my happiness is not okay. This is the mindset I have realized as the truth. It allows you to win at life. Your post is good and an easy way for people who are starting seduction to get a grasp of what it means … | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 01:44 PM |
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