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Actually ED (for young people ie. not physiological) and PE go hand in hand. Both are a result of anxiety/nerves combined with a fight or flight response. As a younger man I had nerves with sex that usually led to ED, but occasionally I had PE too.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 05:07 PM
2

Daryl Davis https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daryl_Davis
/r/askTRP20/05/21 07:40 PM
-4

Shave off the beard. U look good.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 04:13 AM
4

If you're somewhat smart then college will be best for you for the long run. Try to get an education for cheap. Idk what options there are in Netherlands, but in US we have community colleges where you can spend your first two years relatively cheap and then transfer to another school for two more years to get your degree. Maybe abroad has better/cheaper options and would also make you different.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 12:41 PM
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Half of marriages end in divorce. It's true but the rate drops when you only count first marriages. The rate also changes when you account for different demographics. (You have better odds if you're white, college educated, affluent, older...). It's also important to remember that divorce isn't the only bad marriage outcome, you could windup in a dead bedroom with a witch for a wife.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:21 PM
3

Yall must hate having good sex. This is the time to enjoy some new things, but the autists are telling OP she is cheating with no evidence. Just enjoy the sex. Shit, if she did cheat at least you got some good sex out of it.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 01:36 PM
2

Shave that ugly ass beard. Dont wear beanies like an edge lord. Mixup your outfits. Lose weight - you got chubby cheeks. Wear outfits that show off your physique more. If its cold just take the jacket off for the photo or take photos indoors. Take at least one photo where your torso+face takes up 70% of the image.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 07:49 PM
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Ya if youre a young healthy dude who gets hard at other times, then 99% it's nerves not physiological (which is a good thing). People overstate death grip/porn as the issue - although I would definitely recommend not using porn. Viagra will definitely help and may allow you to build confidence. I would take a fractional dose maybe 1/4 and only use it for the first time with a girl, not as a crutch. I am not a doctor nor do I have experience with viagra. Even with my gf we have a great sex life b…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:25 PM
2

Bro I had the same issue. Performance anxiety happened a lot despite me often not even feeling anxious. Things that helped: hotter girls, enthusiastic girls, building comfort with a girl over time (first time maybe you have issues, but by 3rd time you be good), blowjobs, weed/alcohol (sometimes helped sometimes hurt, would not recommend as a fix - just sharing my experience it occasionally let me feel loose), yohimbe & L-Arginine available OTC (idk if placebo or not but these seemed to help me),…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:47 AM
1

Bro you need to lift. Clean up your neckbeard and hair.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:18 PM
8

Wearing a hat while bald shouts insecurity even if you're not insecure. I'd also prefer the same pic without the red overshirt to show your physique/shape. Second and third photos are God awful. Mask photo makes you look like a cancer patient lol. You need more good photos. Your hair in the third looks better than the pure bald imo. Look at guides on main sub. Johnny sinns is childish. Some women will get it and think it's funny. Most women won't recognize him and will be confused. Zero women wi…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:37 AM
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Everyone here is getting worked up when she was likely joking. Yours is the best response.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 04:14 AM
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Copied from a comment I read on here a little while back. Next time, try searching first This is so dependent on the person because we all have our own kinks, etc. but I'll attempt to help. If she has a praise kink, "You're such a good girl," "That's a good girl," "Be a good girl and get on your knees," "Be a good girl and put my dick in your mouth," "Be a good girl and bend over," etc. If she has a degradation kink, "Who's my little cum slut?" "You're such a slut for me," "Dirty little X with m…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:06 PM
3

Ya he likes when she gets manicures
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:44 AM
3

One step ahead of you there. I lift and have a good physique.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 12:37 AM
18

Gym
/r/askTRP26/11/20 08:11 PM
2

3-5 days is nothing. You could just set up a date for when you see each other again. I generally prefer calls, so if I wanted to talk I would find when she's free to speak on the phone.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:47 PM
3

Outdated but you could learn some things
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:19 PM
7

Moisturizer w/ sunscreen is gonna be much more expensive than just plain Moisturizer. I would honestly buy separately because you can moisturize at night without the sunscreen going on your face. That said, I used Cerave moisturizing cream (comes in a tub) and Cleave ultra-lught moisturizing lotion (w/ spf)
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:32 PM
4

MMF is different from a train
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:27 PM
1

Honestly there is a lot of great info in the sidebar of the personalfinance and financialindependence subreddits. I would also recommend the books The Four Pillars of Investing and A Random Walk Down Wall Street (pick and read one of them)
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:24 PM
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Applies to a lot of stuff. A basic savings plan and automatic investments into retirement accounts is minimal effort but will put you ahead of 80% of Americans
/r/askTRP12/11/20 01:00 PM
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After a couple drinks, playing some music and dancing/singing can be a good time. You gotta calibrate to the girl and maybe not do it the first time you meet. It also helps screen for girls who know how to have fun.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:32 PM
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Don't compare your physique to a cartoon. Compare it to actual people athletes, bodybuilders, etc Just get on a basic strength training program with compound lifts. There are guides in the sidebar and elsewhere on reddit. Taper look comes from large chest, shoulders, and lats combined with a narrow waist which is more controlled by genetics.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:16 PM
3

Have you considered the fact that bugging her computer is actually illegal and has way more potential to ruin your life than her bitchy actions? Get your head straight. This is corporate 101. Document everything, save emails, conduct conversations/complaints over email (or write an email synopsis after an in person meeting that the person agrees with). Go to HR or your employer once you have documented evidence of misbehavior. You gloss over the fact that you got with another woman at work. Dont…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:03 PM
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Shes insecure. I would just ignore her. Listening to her validates her insecurity.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 11:38 AM
5

Social skills. Make as many friends as you can. Put yourself in social situations as much as possible especially if it makes you uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 04:08 AM
17

She is more likely to get in a car accident than be affected by the attack. Do you ask her every day if she was in an accident? Youre just hamstering a way to reach out to her.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 04:17 PM
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Your mindset is that something you say not being funny is a reflection on your character. This is an insecure unconfident frame. Your humiliation is an overreaction to a tease because you sense everything as a threat when you have a weak frame. Instead you should be able to laugh off any criticism or fire back in good fun because the joke is not a representation of your character and everyone says unfunny things sometimes.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 11:28 PM
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If its the first time you fuck it can be a comfort thing. Gets easier as you get more comfortable around the girl. Also, this just happens from time to time for almost no reason at all. If it's an isolated incident then don't worry unless it happens more often. You're probably in your head too much even if its not quite the level of performance anxiety. Sometimes, too much anticipation makes it difficult for me. Good luck.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:31 AM
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Should have escalated that night you were in town. If you get a second shot consider yourself lucky and don't fuck it up.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:27 AM
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Don't drink so much you lose control of your faculties Yes you should end your relationship.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 02:56 PM
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Ignore, don't even try to laugh it off or be witty If you absolutely have to say something, then try "sounds like a nice guy" "good for you" etc
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:22 AM
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I had a woman pay for a $100 dinner for us. Basically if youre smv is way higher than hers these things are possible. Never make a big deal about it, don't draw attention to it, don't offer to split or anything out of a beta bucks sense of duty. If she says "I'll take the bill" just respond "OK great" not "are you sure?" nor "its a lot of money" etc.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:26 PM
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Why would you want 10 plates lmao? Have you ever even had 3? If you had you will realize there's no time for 10.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 05:24 AM
0

TRP is amoral, yes. Saying God is not real does not violate the principle of amorality. I never said you shouldn't practice certain moral principles espoused by various faiths. I never said that the nonexistence of a god means you should act in any certain way. I agree that RP should not merge with other philosophies. That is why I think the RPChristian community is laughable. Would you agree?
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:32 PM
1

condom too tight - check for any redness or irritation at the base of your dick after taking off the condom girl not hot enough thinking too much about orgasming or trying to orgasm restraining your inner desires - if you're naturally dominant dont restrain yourself from letting that out - girls are sturdy they can take what you give them too much porn use different positions have different stimulus - find what works for you - generally missionary is a good one release tension in your body - you…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:56 PM
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Some men would consider this a blessing lol. If you are getting hard during sex and enjoying sex then you're probably fine. I would definitely recommend getting blood work done if it's something you're worried about.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 12:34 PM
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Skincareaddiction - these crazy bitches know how to get nice skin lol. Would definitely recommend going on there and finding a recommended cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen to use. Nothing feminine about having healthy skin Financialindependence - use the sidebar there to setup your investments, savings, credit cards, retirement accounts, etc. Look for the flow chart on the sidebar/wiki
/r/askTRP23/10/20 12:33 PM
3

There's 4 types of guys Virgins Guys who can get sex only with a gf or rarely if they "get lucky" Guys who are sexually successful and can easily find multiple ONS/plates/fwbs/etc Guys who are extremely sexually successful and can basically get more pussy than they can handle due to their status/fame You are probably type 2. TRP tries to teach you how to be type 3.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:55 AM
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I find even this takes too much time. Plates get feels and then go crazy if you don't cuddle/comfort for 2hrs after you fuck them. My ideal scenario would be a plate who comes over with a cooked dinner on a weekday, fucks, cuddle/chill for 30min and leaves.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:52 AM
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Chess, lifting, basketball, hiking/backpacking, reading/audiobooks, journaling, movies, cooking
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:25 PM
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You can also put light pressure on her upper shoulders/clavicle and it has a similar choking sensation.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 09:51 PM
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If she doesn't make my dick rock hard easily, then it's a no go plain and simple. I've wasted a lot of time on girls who were good "on paper" but didn't do it for me physically. It's the sad reality.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 11:28 PM
2

Beware buying sex toys off Amazon. A lot of them are fake cheap knockoffs and may even use materials that are unhealthy for use around intimate areas.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 06:53 PM
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What you do is fine. If she has earned it, you can reward her with more time/attention.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:41 PM
2

Knitting is closer to gilf territory
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:51 AM
1

Lol he is probably way more rp than you. Its not nothing to have that many followers at 17. What he posts on his story may not be what he actually feels. He could just be a beast at understanding women's emotions.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:34 AM
7

Good luck finding your 🦄
/r/askTRP09/10/20 04:16 AM
2

6'1 190 is not that big, a little above average. Dont overtime things. Keep active and eat healthy foods.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:29 AM
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Read books Develop social connections Call your family. Stay close with those who want the best for you. If possible, find internships/summer jobs Learn a new skill - at your age I started to learn how to cook
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:52 AM
1

Night game so underrated if you can dance. I could pull around 50% of the time given I didn't get too drunk. East coast US.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 01:52 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Keep the drinks next week to a minimum and don't go anywhere private with her. After the project is finished you can make your move. However, I don't know the film industry so maybe even this is a bad idea if you're likely to work on future projects together. Stop thinking about leagues and pedestalizing her. Assume attraction. Compliments and such are clear IOIs. Dont friend zone yourself by being too available, oversharing personal matters, or being her personal earpi…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:03 PM
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Yes during sex I whisper naughty/dirty/sexy shit into her ear all the time. Kiss her neck/ear a little and tell her how swxy she is, how wet she is, how she's a good girl, etc. Different girls like different things.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 06:59 PM
1

How about you try it and figure it out for yourself? Personally,, I've found that emotion is extremely powerful. I have developed a silver tongue and know how to speak to her deeper feelings and desires. This is how you can make a girl obsessed with you.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:24 PM
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Eliminate porn Masturbate infrequently and only when sex is not an option Focus on being present with the girl Control your breathing Have a good time and don't take sex too seriously Have more sex
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:22 PM
1

I disagree. Variety is great to an extent, but sex is much more enjoyable once you've established a rapport with the girl and you know what each other likes.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 12:50 AM
1

Its not a shit test bro. It's a comfort test.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:29 PM
4

Profile review plus tips on photos. Maybe include a follow up review. Maybe you have them show you 10-20 photos and you pick the 5 they should use.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 10:04 PM
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Props for posting this. You get paid to take tinder photos, but you could probably also get paid to do short consults like this if you're not already.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:04 PM
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Follow your closest friends first who will ofc follow back. Make posts once a month and slowly add friends starting with people you know best and working outwards. Dont let your following count outgrow your followers count too fast by following a lot of people at once. If someone doesn't follow back within a week or two, unfollow them. You can try to follow them later on once your profile is built more. Have your friends tag you in their posts and follow back any mutual friends who add you.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 03:26 PM
1

Those are the muscles you flex for kegels, but actually doing it while peeing is bad for you
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:04 PM
6

You're skinny fat. Hit the gym.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:32 PM
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Boohoo women aren't lining up to fuck me and I refuse to approach
/r/askTRP14/09/20 12:25 PM
1

He does have dysmorphia. He posts here all the time asking questions about his physique.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:46 AM
15

Its literally in the sidebar
/r/askTRP12/09/20 03:25 AM
5

Remove qualifiers from your speech as much as possible. No "just..." "I just thought you should know that...." etc
/r/askTRP12/09/20 01:55 AM
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Set up a date to see her in person
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:18 PM
1

Words don't make a girl wet. Its low value behavior like catcalling.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:10 PM
2

Gotta change your mindset. I get super hype when one of my boys fuck a hot girl. Don't compare yourself with others. There are enough hot girls out there for everyone.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:48 PM
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Don't escalate over text with a girl you haven't fucked.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:44 PM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP28/08/20 10:09 AM
2

My experience is that it shows you are somewhat social, but it is largely inconsequential to getting you liad. <1% of people will have high enough status where they can get laid off social media, but usually that means they're getting pussy anyways or would be using it anyways for their business/brand. For most people it just shows you're somewhat social/hip and it shows your basic social class (ie education, career, location etc). Not everything is about girls. I use it because my homies are on…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 10:00 AM
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OP cares
/r/askTRP28/08/20 09:52 AM
1

I said "obtain" consent, not ask. You're right, asking is unsexy.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:55 PM
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Alpha asking for consent is sexy Beta asking for consent is presumptuous and creepy It's virtue signalling. However, being non-needy and comfortable talking about sex is attractive, so you can obtain consent in sexy ways. It would never sound like that though.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 03:43 AM
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If she wants you to replace her sheets she will bring it up. It sounds like she's not really going that way. If you were doing something specifically that caused the sheets to rip then maybe you buy her a $40 bed bath and beyond giftcard or something. If not, just play it off as something funny that happened. There's a good chance she secretly loves that it happened. She can keep the ripped sheets and put them on the bed when you fuck. She could remove any mattress toppers or whatever that might…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 07:09 PM
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Well if she ghosted/ignored you, she probably wasn't interested in you anyways. Move on.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 02:35 PM
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"This one girl...." you need the sidebar I had a plate that moved back home across the country once covid hit. I didnt see her for 6 months. I texted her on only maybe 5 occaisions of about 3-5 texts each with her initiating most of the contact. Shes back in town now for school and hit me up. It doesnt take much communication. She is not your pen pal. Send her some goofy shit every once in a while if you want, photo of your dog or something like that. More communication than that puts an undue b…
/r/askTRP24/08/20 02:29 PM
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Gyms back open in my part of the world. In the meantime I wasn't doing a ton of strength work besides bodyweight. I switched my focus to cardio for a couple months and that has paid off pretty well. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:47 PM
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Ya my face is fairly good looking, but that doesn't matter to you. You have good goals. I wouldn't try to find one friend "to go out with" just make as many friends as you can and invite them to stuff. It's hard to find a guy who is willing to approach girls with you tbh. Anyways... ya if a girl gives and IOI like eye contact that is certainly a green light to approach. You dont have to wait for and IOI though. As long as you give a smile and show confidence most girls will be receptive/positive…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:05 PM
3

You cant say the other f word
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 05:42 PM
3

Bro I have extremely similar stats and have no issues getting laid. You need to actually meet and flirt with girls. Your physique can improve for sure, but you're at tye point where you'll have no problem getting laid if you have tight game.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:22 PM
1

Did you essentially move your GLOgang TRP tribe to telegram?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 02:55 AM
4

you know we wrap it up
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:30 AM
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Bro you would not believe. I met a girl at the beach last month and she goes on an on about witchcraft and bullshit. She decides to read my palms and her explanations fall apart after the simplest of questions. She had this special witch pentagram necklace and was showing me pictures of her "altar" back home (it just looked like a shelf with candles on it). To her credit, she claimed she thought astrology signs were made up bull shit.... 😂 Anyway, I still fucked her within an hour of meeting her…
/r/askTRP12/08/20 12:54 AM
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Going out to approach will definitely get you laid. AMS says himself it is still one of the best ways to get laid. His distinction is that when he goes out to the club or w/e he is there to have a good time and he already has a rotation and busy life. That's why he says he waits for choosing signals. I think approaching is a good way to get laid (it has worked for me) and it is also a really good way for a guy to build experience and reduce approach anxiety. However, after you have a basic socia…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 10:06 PM
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Random chit is fine. What matters is the subcommunication. You want to have a masculine frame. Good posture, smooth voice, strong eye contact, comfortable attitude, etc. Nerves will make all of the above worse. It doesn't get easier as you age. It gets easier with practice. Godo thing is, you don't have to go on a date to practice. Practice holding yourself well when interacting with friends/family and as you go about life.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 12:34 PM
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Same. Covid has fucked up my game. I primarily go to bars that have a young crowd with music and dancing. I love dancing and most of my interactions with girls come from that.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 01:51 PM
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Its also filled with way too many low effort memes, troll twitter posts, and platitudes (yaaass queen). The sub could learn a thing or two about moderation. I would recommend reading for a few chuckles lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 05:35 AM
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This reads like a troll post
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:22 PM
1

For extra rounds I don't wait until my dick magically gets hard on it's own. I will make the girl suck it a bit, play with her tits, dirty talk while stroking it, go down on her etc.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 05:05 PM
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Being active around new people is a great first step. Find people you like playing with or w/e and get their number "hey gimme your number so I can let you know next time I want to ball". From there, you can invite them to other shit after a while. I guarantee you're not the only one looking to find friends. I've found others are relieved when I reach out because they want to, but are anxious about it. Good luck.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:58 PM
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I read the whole post. It probably helped you clarify things by writing it. Nobody here mentioned friendship. You're in a new city, probably feeling lonely on lockdown, but you're looking in the wrong places for meaning in your life. Meaning/purpose doesn't come from girls or material possessions. It comes from your relationships with other people especially friends or family. If you're close with your family, give one family member a call once a week for 30min. For me, thats usually my sister, …
/r/askTRP23/07/20 03:58 AM
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Hard to beat Frankenchad though 😂
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 05:33 AM
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Im also seeing more blatant anti-semitism recently...
/r/askTRP12/07/20 02:04 PM
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Your photo reminded me of ritual scarring practiced in some tribal societies. Look it up. I think it looks pretty cool. Maybe you can draw some inspiration from it. Scars are part of what make us human. You have to own it. Do what your doctor says and just get jacked. Nobody will care.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 12:56 PM
1

Be sure to try on in person. Levis are notorious for variations in fit even at the same size. Most have 1% elastane, which is good, but some cheaper cuts increase that. I don't like the increased elastane, but you might. It's another reason to try on in person to see what you like.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 12:10 PM
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If English isn't your native language, it's probably better to say you "wrestle in the evening" instead of "wrestle at night"
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:54 PM
3

Good books but reading a bunch of self-help books will do the opposite of make you interesting.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 03:44 AM
1

You might have. It's pretty reasonable to be angry when people start getting sexual right next to you.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:04 PM
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Who fucking cares. Maybe he fucked her march 31 and then woke up april 1 with his cock in her mouth. Why are you lettinf a tinder girl spend the night and open up about her sexual past??? You started to "get close"?
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:00 PM
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Get there, change, workout, shower, change - takes 75 minutes Doesn't fucking matter what I do. You should find a program and start asap.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:36 PM
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Read sex god method and pay attention to the emotion part of DEVI. Autists on here hate talking about emotion, but it is extremely powerful with girls.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:35 PM
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Their perception of you will only change you if you let it. Moving in separately is not a solution to that problem, it is an avoidance strategy (there are good reasons to live alone if you want, but this doesn't seem to be one of them). Don't feel like you have to share everything about your dating life with them. If they ask you a respectful question, you can answer, but talking about cold approaching ten girls at a bar and getting laid unprompted can be seen as odd or as bragadocious. They als…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:31 PM
2

Gut feeling can be something your subconcious knows to be true, but your hamster can't admit. This feeling you should listen to. It can also be a hunch or superstition, which is a hit or miss. Humans have been shown to be bad at detecting lies in some situations, for example. Human beings aren't naturally rational, so I don't think the advice, "always follow your gut" is good advice.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:19 PM
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I mean you could go to clubs without them if you want. Going to clubs with/without them is independent of your living situation. The teasing they give you could be in a bad nature in which case they're probably bad friends. If the teasing is good nature, then you just gotta role with the punches. Realize that to 99% of people, cold approach is strange. You say "they are the type" implies this has never actually happened before, and you are assuming that reaction. You might be surprised onn their…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:14 PM
1

Lmfao
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:04 PM
1

It depends if your friends would actually prevent you from "reinventing yourself." I don't really see why friends would limit your self-improvement, unless they are shitty friends. I moved in with two good friends to a city and it has been an excellent experience so far bar the covid situation. Having friends living together is a great way to build a social circle because it's easier to host small parties when you each invite 5 people, split costs of booze, etc. I think you're overthinking this.…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:57 AM
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She didn't even call you weak. She said you would come at her with "some weak shit". It's a completely different subtext and within the context of banter it's playful teasing, not disrespect. After dealing with a bunch of basic bitches, you'll eventually learn to appreciate a girl who's playful and has a silver tongue. You fucked up by being butthurt. Your solution to being butthurt is to ghost her??? Learn the difference between a joke and disrespect.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:51 AM
1

Why the hell are you debating a girl? There is no "winning" a debate. Debating her gives into her frame. She should be in your frame, following your lead. Disrespect means you withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 11:42 AM
1

Seems like it to me too. Even having more than 2 plates is a lot of time/effort, let alone wives. Wrt my initial post, the novel takes place in precolonial Africa, so it was important to have multiple wives to raise many kids to help with farming. I like quoting books on here because I find it amusing that so many people never read books and then you wonder why they ask bad questions.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:23 PM
1

In "Things Fall Apart" by Chinua Achebe, Okonkwo, a successful yam farmer and accomplished wrestler, kept his wives in separate homes. Each wife would bring him lunch on their assigned days. For supper, he would eat supper with every wife starting with his first wife out of respect for her. Be like Okonkwo. Don't cohabitate with females lol.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:38 PM
1

Secconding The Prince and The Selfish Gene
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:22 PM
1

If you'd like to immigrate, a degree will be instrumental. I'd say finish it up. The energy excuse is an excuse. You could probably make some sacrifices with other things to give yourself more energy. I feel we are similar because I sometimes hated studying for something if I personally thought it was stupid/outdated, but I realized that it was something necessary for my growth. On the other hand, you could see if working with your dad and potentially taking over his business is something you'd …
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:54 PM
1

Why don't you go and then tell us if it was a good idea?
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:57 AM
6

The hamster is spinning and spinning so it gets tired. You have to give it some rest and comfort. Otherwise, it will lash out in anger or dissapear in fear. You want her hamster to be active, not tired. Lead her well and she will put her trust in you. As long as you are both getting what you want, there is nothing to be wrong with this.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:37 PM
2

You're goal should be to be a high enough SMV where she would be surprised if you didn't get interest from other girls. Let your character speak not your words.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:48 AM
1

The only way this will happen is if there is a serious STD outbreak perhaps of HIV or something novel.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:14 PM
1

Well, you're right. OP is troll who has contradicted himself in prior posts.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 04:08 AM
1

There is a chance OP is lying, but you're naive if you think 80 at 22 doesn't happen. Everyone here will talk about 80/20 and the pareto pricipal, but not realize this is the logical implication.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 04:00 AM
1

Lol yes. People act like one double text will break a plate of 4 months. It's obvious she was going to break when she didnt respond. Same thing just happened to me. Maybe OP could have prevented her from breaking but it wouldn't be by any different text message.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 04:59 AM
1

Great post. I would highly recommend reading The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins if you are interested in the biological topics discussed in this post. He goes into the evolutionary reasons why there is a gamete difference and talks about evolutionary factors on intersexual dynamics. Dr. Weinstein has said he requires all of his biology students to read the book at the beginning of the semester, despite his disagreement with Dawkins on some of the finer points.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 12:12 PM
1

It's the girl's job to pursue your commitment and earn it. If you seek out commitment it lowers your value in her eyes. Read the sidebar. Sounds like these girls are plating you lmao
/r/askTRP04/04/20 07:02 AM
8

Switch up positions. Some positions will provide you more or less stimulation. Also, the short break gives you a moment to calm down. Control your breathing. Slow and deep breaths. Fuck her at your pace. No shame in going slow so you don't bust quick. Girls like hard and fast sex, but they also like slow sensual sex too. Dont feel like you need to go hard all the time. However, in order to orgasm, girls need something steady so don't change it up every 10 seconds. Relax your pelvic muscles. This…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:43 AM
10

Dont worry about it. A girl would rather have an alpha finish quick than a beta go on for a while. Your plates won't have to console you if you don't act like a dissapointed bitch.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:33 AM
12

"Eliminate porn" in an article littered with sexually suggestive or borderline pornographic images is hypocritic, but the advice is good. The sexual tension is the number one thing that makes pickup fun.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 12:47 PM
1

First, make sure its a good massage. Use a lubricant. I use grapeseed oil, but most cooking oils should be fine. Pour the oil into your hand and warm it up in your hands. Then, start with long strokes spreading the oil around. You will have to do more than one application. After that, ideally you would know basic massage strokes and give her something good. If you dont, just stick to rubbing her. Dont do any hitting/slapping type strokes unless you know what you're doing. Utilize your body weigh…
/r/askTRP30/03/20 12:40 PM
63

Tanning can make you look better, but it is absolutely not worth the long term harmful effects on your skin and even cancer.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 01:42 AM
1

I didn't know how to open a bra for the longest time. I would just tell the girl to take it off. It's a command so it maintains the dominant dynamic. After a few times the girls learn to do it without me asking. You're building up these smaller things like they're a big deal. "I can't eat breakfast because I don't know how to make toast"
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:31 PM
0

Why the hell do you care so much about what others think of you
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:45 AM
1

Then you get her phone number, ask her out, and escalate in person. If any of those steps fail it's because she just wants your attention not your dick.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 02:36 AM
1

Had a plate ask me if I knew what size bra she wore (she has big ones). I jokingly told her B. She laughed and then I teased her for her obviously wanting me to know that she had big tits. Just ignore stupid snaps. Make a comment on the background or something. If shes not a girl you're fucking you shouldn't give a shit.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 12:58 AM
1

Depends on the interest rate of the debt and your tax rate, but generally you're better off investing in tax-advantaged accounts (401k or ira) then you are paying off low interest debt (<6%)
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 08:40 PM
1

Learn the two-step. Basically you step back and forth with alternating legs to the beat of the song. Its more in the hips than in the legs. After that it's all about variation and flair.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:25 PM
2

The virus can be airborne. If one sick dude coughs your whole gym is at risk of getting infected.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 12:24 PM
9

Don't align yourself with the idea. The idea failed; you didn't.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 04:51 PM
4

Women have preferences. However, the degree to which she bends her preferences depends on your SMV and her arousal. Her spoken preferences are not the same as her actual preferences. You shouldn't be suggesting anything. It should "just happen."
/r/askTRP05/03/20 06:08 PM
1

I tell the girl to play with her tiddies while I stroke myself back to hardness. Sometimes it doesn't happen. If you don't sweat it, she won't.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:08 PM
1

Ok great. Say you fuck a girl and decide you dont want to plate her. How do you then friend-zone her. Just invite her over to pregame and shit?
/r/askTRP04/03/20 10:41 PM
3

Whats the best way to cultivate a quality social circle? My situation: young professional recently moved to a large (top 40 or so) US city living with 2 roommates who share a friend group from college. We all are decently high smv (lift, good jobs, attractive, and social). We typically go out 1-2 nights a week. My problem: A lot of our friends from school live far away or aren't social (have gfs, introverted). I'd like to expand this social circle to include high quality girls and guys in our ci…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 06:15 PM
2

You dont enjoy her company. If you don't enjoy a girls company drop her.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:10 PM
3

If you know shes at work or something or if shes a new-age type girl who only calls her grandmother than a text ahead of time can be good to get a time they're free/ready to talk. Some girls will be nervous over the phone with you if they like you, which is a good thing just keep it in mind. If I call and they dont respond, I will just wait for a call/text back unless it's something important then I shoot a text right after. You're overthinking this a bit tbh.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 01:42 PM
99

He needs a lawyer not a friend posting on asktrp
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:21 PM
2

The reacharound in FMJ was fucking a guy in the ass while jerking his dick. Interesting post though. Positions and techniques aren't as effective as psychological tgemrs (dominance, emotion) but important nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 03:39 PM
1

Religious belief is external too. They think "everybody in my church/community believes this, so it must be true." Or "if the scriptures say this, it must be true." If religion were completely internal, people would not coalesce into groups that believe the same thing, they would develop distinct beliefs based upon their own unique experiences.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 08:09 PM
4

Depends on your starting point, but 6-12 months sounds about right.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 01:56 PM
3

It's worth a shot. Act as if the stupid shit that happened on molly never happened. Flirt as usual but escalate with kino. Make your move like you should have done a while ago.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:35 PM
2

Also, if your best friend might be secretly crushing on this girl, you should reconsider if fucking her is worth it.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:29 PM
3

Girls will "lose interest" after you reject them. It's a way for her hamster to save face. They think, "I didn't even like him anyway."
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:27 PM
3

If you're trying to fuck this girl you've basically rejected her 2 or 3 times. If you're not, why are you posting this question?
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:23 PM
6

Don't battle the hamster head on. Rationally she knows it's silly to be upset at you, but her hamster thinks she deserves something. You don't have to go all out with candy, flowers, nice dinner, and beta-bux etc. Just give her a bag of candy hearts, light a candle and fuck her. Maybe gift her some sexy lingerie. She just wants a token so her hamster can get some rest. Golden ratio is to give 2/3rds of what she gives you, not 1/3rd or 0/3rds. Spiking the emotional energy periodically should be n…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 05:26 PM
3

Lol it's a joke
/r/askTRP11/02/20 10:55 PM
31

It works if you're attractive. If you're attractive enough some chicks (not hot ones though) will come up to you and basically proposition sex.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:41 PM
6

More for me Do your own thing
/r/askTRP11/02/20 08:32 PM
1

You don't have to keep raising the stakes and go full-blown offensive. AA has a limit, especially over text when your intention can be misconstrued. If they keep testing you just reply with "lol" and move on the next time you text her.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:34 PM
7

Be careful with the "slave" wordplay with black chicks 😂
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:33 PM
24

I had a fwb that I was fond of. I didn't want to hurt her so I adopted a "always tell the truth" mindset. She asked if I had met other girls, and I told her I went on a date with one. She asked if we had sex, and I said yes. Covertly, she knew we were not exclusive, but as soon as I made it overt, I upset her. She broke things off shortly after. My new policy is to not lie but to also not naively tell the whole truth all the time.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 02:15 PM
1

Cruises are full of newly-weds, well-feds, and nearly-deads. Avoid.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:48 PM
1

Having a good sense of style I had a fwb over and I had her grab something from my closet for me. I have a nice pair of shoes that I keep in the box. Later, on her phone, I noticed she had searched the brand of shoes that was on the box. These are kinds of things girls notice and will pay attention to.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 11:40 PM
2

My old man is pretty bluepill, but goddamn is he a good storyteller. Part of it is the fact that he has led an interesting life and part of is it the fact he has refined his stories. I have heard him say some stories multiple times, and you can tell he relays the stories in a certain way on purpose.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 11:34 PM
1

I would like camping/hiking with a girl but I feel sex in a tent after a sweaty hike would be terrible. Do you just do day hikes or car camping?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:15 PM
1

That sounds solid dude. I wish I could do homegym, but at least I have a gym at work which is the next best thing.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 08:06 PM
1

Fair enough. Consider a cleaning service if it would help tho. Sounds like your priorities are straight. I'm not gonna tell you to miss out on sleep or pull back on your job. Game on the weekends and build up a rotation over time.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:40 PM
2

See if you can spend money to be more efficient. Spend money on weights and things to work out at home at least a couple times a week. Hire a cleaning service once a week so you have less mundane daily stuff to handle. Buy some containers and large pots to prep bulk meals on the weekends so you don't have to spend as much time cooking/cleaning during the week. You could prob sacrifice 1 workout a week if all else fails to save you enough time. You only need to save a few hours in the week to hav…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 06:37 PM
0

Lol I make girls do that when I'm hitting from behind. When they come I'll tell them that they are such a dirty girl and they eat it up.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 04:30 PM
2

Lmao
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:03 PM
1

Dude barb can get it wtf, youre in for much worse
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:58 PM
3

Example white guy looks for those who lack imagination: cowboy - boots jeans and a simple tee or tucked in shirt. Depends on your region. In the south, this is less peacocking and more average. steve jobs - clean turtleneck and jeans, but actually step it up with the fashion having it fit well with nice shoes and flashy watch. You could also go the other direction and wear dad-core shoes and shit.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 03:25 PM
7

Approach her at school
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:13 PM
1

Bro you could def bump this up, but youre still doing better than 99% of people your age.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:08 PM
1

Search for a top post on it in the main sub. It's a great guide for how to structure a journ.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 03:07 PM
-1

If you know how to program you can use reddit's api to find stuff like this
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:46 PM
1

Start with a trip. Take two weeks and go. It would be unwise to go without a plan in place for your job in the states and plan for what to do with your current property. Look into whats possible for visas and careers. Research and write shit down and save important info on your computer. You will always have an upper hand in business in your own country because you know how things are and have social connections. If you can make a realistic plan for building your real estate portfolio over time …
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:57 PM
1

I will say roasting can be really funny and not offensive if you have a good rapport with the person and you stick to roasts that are absurd and/or avoid things they are insecure about. For example, don't say "you are so ugly" say shit like "you look like a freeze-dried mosquito"
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:29 PM
15

Curious on why your opinion is different for your country
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 12:47 PM
2

Fucking love norm
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:09 PM
2

Something has to give here. You only have so much time in the day. Reduce time on the business and get more sleep.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:02 PM
1

You are quite autistic. Assume Attraction. As soon as she complimented your outfit it should have been game on with light kino, firm eye contact, and basic push pull game. It took her to literally sit on your lap before you got the hint. You probably missed other stuff. Lucky for you, she was persistent, but some girls will take that as a rejection. Use a plausibly deniable excuse for her to come over and ideally you want it to be easy for her to slip away with you and not feel judged by her fri…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:59 PM
9

Yes, and it's twice as bad if you look sloppy doing it like you are too drunk or too handsy. If you're gonna fuck the 5, sneak her through the basement door. Protect your reputation.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:43 PM
2

Start scouting out things to do in your area. Hiking trails, local library, parks, etc. Join a gym and lose the weight. Thats the priority.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:09 PM
1

Ice cream dates are the move
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:42 PM
3

You can negotiate sex (although it is often insulting/degrading to do it explicitly). However, doing these things won't make her attracted. It won't make her want it.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:22 PM
9

The premise of AITA is itself bluepill as fuck especially when it pertains to relationships. You should live by your own moral code not an attempt to avoid a label of 'asshole' from others. Often the most moral choice is the choice that will invite disdain.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 01:12 PM
2

Shave your face Shampoo less often, perhaps every other time you shower. It may be greasy at first but it will get better with time. Use a shampoo without sulfates. Start by cutting your hair closer on the side with a clean fade. I'd go a little shorter on the top, but you can start with a small change.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:07 PM
2

You obviously like her or you wouldn't have made this post. You're claiming you weren't that into her as a retroactive justification for not making a move on her. Bro she climbed into bed with you and you didn't pipe her! Every girl will lose attraction for you after that. Even if the girl didn't lose attraction for you after that, she would feel rejected and avoid you. Either way, you fucked up. Doesn't matter though. There are a lot of women. Fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:09 PM
1

My buddies and I used to call each other ugly as a sort of generic insult. It often meant more of a temporary ugly like if you said/did something stupid. It was a slang term. The fact that you are getting butthurt about it means you're friends actually mean it, or you're a loser.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:10 PM
1

Some are douchebags some aren't. If you don't get along don't sweat it. With that said, often they are cold because they have a lot of kids rushing and are only interested in 1/5 of them, so they don't actively engage the other 4/5. It can be a way to signal to move on, but don't give up before you've had a good try talking to a few of their brothers. Good fraternities have a good idea of who their pledge class will be before rush even starts. Brothers will know young guys who have potential, an…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 02:06 PM
2

A lot of brothers, especially older ones, can get jaded from meeting a bunch of rushes every semester. Dont worry too much about it. The key isn't to meet all the brothers, it's to meet a handful of the active brothers and establish a good connection. They might seem like they don't want to talk, but you should still approach them. You should be considering multiple fraternities.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:43 PM
6

Don't game girls if you're trying to rush. Game the brothers. Try to meet a bunch of them and have a conversation. If you're cool one of them will ask for your number and likely hit you up to future events. Try to figure out who the rush chair or 'point man' is(aka the people who will be inviting you to stuff). Rush 2-3 fraternities and see where you fit in. If kids in the fraternity are goobers, move on. The girls at these parties arent looking to bang the underclassmen with no status; they are…
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:20 PM
56

She wants to peg you
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:15 PM
1

Care to share the gift?
/r/askTRP27/08/19 01:35 PM
6

The Old Testament
/r/askTRP27/08/19 01:31 PM
2

Thanks for the tip, but is there anywhere I can go to learn more about how to use rope like this. I was a boy scout so I can tie a few knots lol, but otherwise I'm starting from zero. I can't really fill in the gaps when you say "it allows for a variety of bondage and sensation". The other poster's idea to use padded cuffs is more appealing because it would be easy to figure out. I already use dominant word play that we enjoy a lot. Needless to say there is a lot I still need to learn about what…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:23 PM
2

To be fair my post is basically asking for vanilla stuff to get started and see how much we enjoy it. What is vanilla for the bdsm community is not vanilla for the vast majority of people. If you have experience with bdsm then I would appreciate your input.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:09 PM
10

Thanks daddy but Im looking for a different kind of tip
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:18 PM
15

Walk around the house shirtless and see if theres any IOIs. Strike up a conversation.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:52 PM
9

American Psycho
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:48 PM
1

165-175 is pretty light for 6'2 btw, but good job so far losing weight. Keep on working out. A big thing for me in school was where I lived. I could have saved $100+/month by living in a shitty place or further off campus, but I chose to live in a nice place with a community pool near campus and the nightlife. This meant pregames and postgames at my place and meeting people at pool who are also looking to party. Invite your friends to party and hopefully you have at least 1 friend who is sociall…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:05 PM
3

6ft 140lb is pretty light. You're on the right path. Keep lifing and eating big.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:19 PM
3

Pick up your brother from school once a week or so and strike up a chat about how he's doing in shool or whatever topic, it doesn't matter. Be masculine, maintain eye contact, and gauge her interest. Then make the move and ask her out.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:17 PM
1

Girlfriends are typically considered significant relationships in someone's life, so acting like you dont know how many is kind of silly. Also, not everything is a shit test that you have to A&A, but it's hard to know in this case with no context. With that said, you definitely don't have to give her a straight answer if you don't want to. Vague answers like "a few" are fine or you could simply tell her it's not her business
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:14 AM
6

Don't be a mouthpiece for ideas that aren't yours. Incorporate them into your life and see if they are useful for you. Keep reading literature/philosophy/whatever you like, but don't fool yourself into thinking that knowing philosophy/trp ideas makes you wise.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:05 AM
1

DARE not DEER. You're on the right track. The first response is good although I you could even exagerrate more depending on how you say it. "You can change my diapers for me" or something like that. If she shit tests you multiple times on it, you can just ignore it and change the subject or continue chatting. If it gets really out of hand to the point where it's disrespectful (doubt it would happen), then just say "have a nice day" and leave. You're also crazy for excluding 18-21yo girls
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:42 PM
3

The lightswitch effect
/r/askTRP24/07/19 01:35 PM
1

Isnt that article satire?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 12:51 PM
3

Pretend to go for it and then dodge and move to hear ear and say something. You can make talking into her ear sensual too if you want or play it off as normal if you're in a loud environment and it makes sense. Based on her reaction you can tell if she's receptive or not. Great way to tease her too.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 04:22 PM
5

The Illiad has a lot of AWALT examples straight out of the 8th century BC
/r/askTRP22/07/19 03:30 PM
1

Hang that shit up around your place. Sell/gift some peices/prints to your buddies for them to hang up.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:16 PM
1

Consider replacing routine texts/calls with video calls through facetime, sc, or hangouts
/r/askTRP15/07/19 05:14 AM
5

No a linear progression program is best for a beginner. I'm partial to Lvysaur's 4-4-8 beginner program (search on reddit). I think it is a better than SL 5x5 mostly because it prevents the T-Rex look with more upper body volume.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:38 AM
4

Plate her
/r/askTRP14/06/19 05:31 PM
1

Demote her to a plate. Cultivate new girls ASAP. Always keep two in the kitty.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:04 PM
1

In 4 months I would reconsider whether or not you want to be a police vs a software engineer. One makes more money and is more socially respected and the other is the opposite.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 03:37 PM
2

If you're interested in prediction abilities "Superforecasting" is a must read
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:23 AM
1

"good girl"
/r/askTRP24/05/19 02:20 AM
1

I lifted for 2 years in high school starting around your age. The first year I got a lot stronger, but it wasn't until I sat next to the strongest kid in my class one day at lunch that my trajectory changed. My lunch typically consisted of a pbj sandwich, bag of chips, cup of fruit, and an apple or banana. This other kid had 2 giant chicken salad sandwiches, a cup of greek yogurt, can of tuna, big bag of veggies, and two bananas. I quickly realized why he was strong and I was not. You need to ea…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 10:55 PM
1

Read the four pillars of investing
/r/askTRP18/05/19 01:25 AM
4

Good call
/r/askTRP15/05/19 10:36 PM
2

Roger
/r/askTRP15/05/19 10:35 PM
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