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If you’re genuinely busy as you say you are then she should understand that. But women don’t operate with logic. You can also give her a call every now and then and check up on her and what not but understand that the more attention you give her and the more you go out of your way to provide her with that time and attention the less she feels she needs to work for your attention and will take things for granted and get bored. Tread carefully On the other hand you can Do your thing and as others …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:56 PM
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Exactly! I think sometimes I tend to ignore peoples negatives as long as they are fun to hang around with because nobody is perfect. But there is also this one guy in my friend group who I suspect is a pathological liar and he has a tendency to gossip. I realized that gossiping and lying is his coping mechanism when he’s stressed but it’s gotten to a point where he tells people things I’ve told him. As a background he wasted 3 years of his life with bpd chick that cheated on him while they lived…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:41 AM
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I don’t think he was blaming me for how things worked out but I think that situation of being led on by that girl spiralled into a period of reflection where he felt that he needed to “work on himself” which is fine because we all need some alone time to reflect. But he came at me with this notion that I was never there for him, blah blah all this random bullshit. But you’re right the trash took itself out and I need to focus on my future. And you’re also right that I should not allow shitty peo…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:27 AM
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I don’t remember the last time someone did something for me. But I do know what kind of person they are and how they’ve treated me and what kind of relationship we’ve had. So a trivial incident doesn’t throw all that out the window However I know that for a woman how she’s feeling in the moment can warp her perception of you. She will believe that you were NEVER good to her. I’m just surprised that I’ve come across males whose brains function like this as well
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:11 AM
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You’re right that AHRLT but to what extent. To the extent where a 15year friendship can break apart because of the one time you didn’t pick up a phone call or you weren’t available. For women I’m aware that how she’s currently feeling is her worldview of how things have always been. Would this apply to males too?
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:02 AM
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I tried reading it but I don’t understand the premise of it. Women don’t care what you do as long as it isn’t what she expects of you? Also how would that apply to the example I provided of my male friend
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:00 AM
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Very interesting anecdote that I can relate to in many aspects of life. Cognitive dissonance and the ego is a dangerous combination. Thanks for sharing
/r/askTRP09/05/21 08:53 AM
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This was very refreshing to read my dude! I thought it was just me. I naturally have a confrontational aura about me and I’ve been told that I’m domineering or that “i try to be dominant” and keep in mind this isn’t from a stranger this is from people that try to disrespect me then have a surprise pikachu face when they realize it isn’t gonna fly. I’ve had fallouts and confrontations with more people than I can remember. I’ve had to defend myself in a group setting where I’m being attacked becau…
/r/askTRP07/05/21 07:17 AM
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Exactly then sometimes my cousin who I’m close to might get a word of what’s happening or I tell him what’s going on. Then he says I’m being too harsh on these people when I confront them about their behaviour or for ghosting them when I think that’s the best course of action and that they just need some guidance and that they’re acting like this “because they’re going through tough times” which is a reasonable thing to say but I’ve known these dudes for years so I came here for other opinions
/r/askTRP07/05/21 06:57 AM
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General gist is you’re browsing the subreddit by new with nothing better to do on a thursday night so get to reading sir!
/r/askTRP07/05/21 02:50 AM
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My ltr was like this around when her uncle died in a car accident. Me being beta and blue pill as fuck couldn’t realize that people grieve differently or deal with personal problems differently and I was missing her attention which led to me being needy and insensitive as fuck. Don’t be like me and don’t find out the hard way yourself
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:01 AM
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Women do this all the time. They are very emotional creatures. Also understand that anything good you’ve done for her in the past will not be acknowledged by them when they throw their little tantrums. Best course of action would be to act like nothing ever happened or that you weren’t phased by her hanging up on you. Don’t show that you were affected by her hanging up on you but at the same time set out boundries, have a solid frame and don’t allow yourself to be disrespected
/r/askTRP05/05/21 07:56 AM
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Lockdowns itself isn’t the root issue since I’m out basically every day running errands, gym etc it’s just I can’t socialize as much as I used to and I guess it helped that I worked in a high volume setting so talking to people all day was somewhat nice
/r/askTRP05/05/21 06:04 AM
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Unfortunately I don’t think I can lock her in she isnt that much younger than me (about 5 or so years) and me raising my voice at her let alone hitting her makes me seem like the aggressor and I get ganged up on lol
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:22 AM
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Yeah the relationship building part is absolutely what I’m striving for. With the siblings that are around my age we basically act like strangers with each other because we grew up constantly fighting, resenting each other and ignoring. So even though we live in the same house I could care less what they do or say or even if we don’t talk. Same thing with parents although a bit better with mother tho. So with the younger siblings I’ve made it a goal to play with them and take them out whenever I…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:20 AM
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You’re right. I should be still comfortable standing my ground and addressing the situation whenever she acts up. However I wouldn’t even mind simply ignoring her but it’s just I don’t like the fact that she thinks it’s okay to constantly yell at little kids especially when they’re still growing up and I don’t want them to grow up with self esteem issues but it appears the other adults in the family don’t have the same line of thought as me
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:14 AM
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This is why I love this sub. Very precise and analytical. Things that fall under our radar because we’ve also been conditioned to not question the norm
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:58 AM
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Very good point. And I guess having that ability to emotionally step in or step back at will is powerful for a rp man. I just wasnt sure where to draw the line because everyone has different objectives and purposes and motives behind their actions. And with the nature of women thrown in there I guess that’s probably a turning point for many men who grew up being emphatic to those around them especially women and those experiences expose them to the realities of this world. I’ve just been doing a…
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:13 AM
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You are very much right my good sir. I’m a bit of a hypochondriac so I tend to look for solutions and answers to things that may not even exist. I need to work on that as well as living in my head. To be honest I can’t even watch sports replays of dudes breaking their ankles for example it makes me very uncomfortable so I don’t think I lack empathy or anything like that. I guess peoples bullshit has over time desensitized me to their own well being and a dgaf in that regards may not be a bad thi…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:57 PM
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Yeah It’s weird. I have a dgaf attitude and lack remorse when I’m confronting people about their actions and behaviour however when it comes to them making negative comments or criticizing me I tend to dwell on it and take it personally and try to rationalize why they would say that. I think I live in my head too much. I thought perhaps me being overtly confrontational and ruthless could point towards sociopathic tendencies
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:35 PM
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Bro are you autistic. 2 days without talking to an LTR. My niga what? If you don’t have the time and level of commitment required to maintain a LTR just next her and continue spinning plates. Especially in this digital day and age where everyone has access to their phones in the blink of an eye, even probably including you. There’s people out there that are on their phones watching hours and hours of netflix but will pretend to be busy. In your scenario I think that if she hasn’t shown you any r…
/r/askTRP23/04/21 09:56 AM
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Are you aware of how the world functions compared to what you see online? You go on Twitter and Reddit and all you see is blm, privilege, how white people are being oppressed and how nobody likes white people and a bunch of other random bullshit. Then you go outside to the beach, the mall etc and it’s all races coming together living their life chilling. Friend groups of all backgrounds. Nobody is hating. Nobody is pulling the victim card. Everyone is just on their grind. But you’ll have me beli…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:58 PM
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Successful white men blah blah who gives a fuck man get your shit together and live your best life stop writing essays over some bullshit. Black people say they are being oppressed white people say they are being oppressed it’s an oppression olympics or something. Get the fuck off the news and go outside and you wont even see 90% of the bullshit you read online. Also who cares whose more logical or what. logic doesn’t get you laid. Projecting to the world that you believe in yourself does. That’…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:45 AM
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You’re right that when you know you got your shit together you become immune to that kind of bullshit. But it’s tough when you’re working your way up and the people talking shit aren’t doing too bad themselves
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:48 AM
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Needed to hear this. Thank you
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:47 AM
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I really needed to hear this man. I’ve wasted so much of my time confronting people about random bullshit. It scares them but you lose a little bit of self respect while you’re at it
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:20 AM
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Also I think the issue as I’ve come to realize is That although I have dominant behaviour I need to work on being stoic so that I have my emotions under control which in turn would help me pick and choose my battles. And not let others dictate how I feel
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:35 AM
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I just mentioned that as an example because of how hot and cold people can be. I do consider myself dominant and as a leader, I set out my expectations. It just seems like some people despise someone that is dominant and can lead because it makes them very insecure. I remember someone once told me that “I like to be dominant” just because I’d always speak my mind and openly disagree with him or others Also you say I should lead but apparently giving advise to people is external validation like w…
/r/askTRP15/04/21 09:32 AM
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