unbiasedmike Archive

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2	[FR] I just got kicked out of a bar for being a "pick-up artist". Talk to the owner about his rude manager. If you have been going there a long time surely you have a rapport with some of the regular clientele as well as the staff and could use that to your advantage. Surely the owner wants people in there to have a good time (i.e. buy drinks) and doesn't want that reputation to be tarnished so s/he can enjoy the benefits new and returning customers.	/r/seduction	19/01/13 08:15 PM
1	"I don't give my number out right away" How do you deal with this and other shit tests? If it were me I would: smile, play it off, end the conversation politely and continue on my way. Two possibilities: I call her bluff and she stops me to give me her number or she walks away because she isn't interested. Either way it is a win.	/r/seduction	08/01/13 04:21 AM
12	A clarification for newcomers on feelings of embarrassment and "not giving a fuck" [xpost from /r/askseddit] Never seen it put this way before. Well done sir.	/r/seduction	03/01/13 11:45 PM
2	The sweet talker- Why does no PUA material discuss/emulate this classic player personality. No I mean manipulation as in lying (which is what you outlined). It is a total lie if you met a girl 2 minutes ago and tell her she's the only one you want. It isn't manipulation at all if you go out and aren't afraid to be yourself and tell attractive ladies that you are attracted to them and show them with banter and touching. Edit: I never use methods or game to attract women and I certainly don't portray myself as someone I'm not. I just display confidence in myself and show them I like them…	/r/seduction	28/12/12 08:21 PM
5	The sweet talker- Why does no PUA material discuss/emulate this classic player personality. It is manipulative lies that's why. Real seduction isn't about manipulation it is about self improvement, displaying your legitimate confidence and showing women that you have a great deal of worth. It seems like manipulation only because we are eliciting socially unusual behavior from women by letting her know it is OK to chase us, and that we are worth chasing.	/r/seduction	28/12/12 07:49 PM
1	How did you guys begin to improve and change yourselves? What did you stop or start doing? Indeed, but it gives you such power to make changes :)	/r/seduction	28/12/12 07:21 PM
8	Is it weird if a girl asks for a guy's number instead? Totally legitimate just expect that he will feel like you gave him the brushoff if you leave it at that. You should explain yourself, get his number if he wants to give it to you at this point, and call/text him in your own time.	/r/seduction	28/12/12 07:14 PM
1	The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing? I would say this. Even if she knows what you are doing it doesn't matter because you can still use that to your advantage. So what if she calls you out admit that it was cheesy and keep building that attraction. Don't give up till you win is the key.	/r/seduction	28/12/12 05:54 AM
6	How did you guys begin to improve and change yourselves? What did you stop or start doing? Mostly I stopped making excuses for myself. Until you really take ownership of your situation (the good and the bad) you can't make and real progress. As soon as I started telling myself to not be such a little whiny bitch things started improving :)	/r/seduction	28/12/12 05:41 AM
3	I'm a 22-year old virgin (m) and I've been asking myself his a lot lately... I didn't even kiss a girl till I was 21 and didn't get my v-card revoked until I was 22. From 22-24 I worked on improving myself/self-esteem by working out and learning to talk to strangers and above all else realizing that women are people and will be really friendly most of the time. I'm far from a big time seducer or ladies man; but I can talk to girls I want to, get phone numbers most of the time, get dates when I want them and get laid when I find a girl who's worth it (I'm super picky). It…	/r/seduction	21/12/12 07:04 AM
17	What was your big breakthrough moment? When I realized that women wouldn't shoot me down for just talking to them 95% of the time. Once this hit me and really sunk in my confidence in approaching to women shot through the roof.	/r/seduction	15/12/12 08:32 PM