unbotheredfeminist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Is anyone else getting reminded of their ex narc during the Heard Vs Depp trial? "How are you so sure the reactive abuse isn't Depp then ?" To invoke "reactive abuse", you need to admit that you've been violent. Yet, unlike Heard - who admitted from her very first deposition to have hit him various times in self-defense or when she felt threatened - Depp has stated that he had never ever laid a hand on her. N-E-V-E-R. (He only admitted to headbutting her after an audio of him talking about it surfaced in court, and now he's claiming it was an accident). This is the very basi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/22 12:30 PM
14	Is anyone else getting reminded of their ex narc during the Heard Vs Depp trial? ❗TW : RAPE, MISOGYNISTIC SLURS❗️ "I headbutted you in the fucking forehead, that doesn't break a nose" "Fucking cunt. You cunt, I fucking hate you" "When I told him he kicked you, he cried" "Hopefully that cunt's rotting corpse is decomposing in the fucking trunk of a Honda Civic" "Let's burn Amber. Let's drown her before we burn her. I will fuck her burnt corpse afterwards to make sure she is dead". "I become irrational when you're doing movies. I become jealous and fucking crazy". "Starring Bi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/22 08:47 AM
44	Is anyone else getting reminded of their ex narc during the Heard Vs Depp trial? Mutual abuse doesn't exist. Reactive abuse doesn't make the victim the abuser. This man who was 23 years older than her, a drug addict and alcoholic who's been known for his violent tendencies and who's been exposed as a misogynist isn't a victim. Crazy that even in feminists circles you find women defending this pos. Shows you that "believe women" is just something most women say like that but the second a beloved actor is accused then they believe the men. Internalized misogyny is one hell of …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/22 08:34 AM
11	I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation. yw 😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/21 01:18 PM
16	I pray that one day pick me women will be free from the shackles of male validation. just type the title of the post on google and you'll find it :) the post was deleted but the comments are still here	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/21 01:14 PM
32	Doctors are performing pelvic exams on anaesthetised women without consent. If you’re going into surgery you need to explicitly state you don’t want one. Stay safe out there. Yep in France too	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/21 06:26 AM
5	Do LVM abuse you via DM’s ? Let me tell you how to make them froth They don't get angrier, they lead you on bc they love getting attention (good or bad) from women. It's better to ignore them all together imo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 07:58 PM
235	after his creepy OLD videos, she's back with him with their nanny 😳🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 12:35 PM
36	I saw this post and I immediately knew I had to share it in here. I have no words. Eww he's disgusting and vile ! They should investigate the "car accident" just sayin'... I hope the mother wins the appeal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/21 09:39 PM
90	Ain't that the truth... Agree except for "Women pursuing career instead of family". Sounds like she's an anti-feminist "red pill woman" or whatever who believes women should marry early and be SAHM or put the family life before their career and independance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 07:09 PM
6	At FDS, we are not SWERFS. In fact, our goal is to help as many women as possible escape the industry. Here's why. You're welcome ❤️ You can check the Nordic Model Now website if you want to know more about the abolitionist movement ☺️ : https://nordicmodelnow.org/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 06:19 PM
18	At FDS, we are not SWERFS. In fact, our goal is to help as many women as possible escape the industry. Here's why. The criminalization of sex work in the Nordic Model only criminalizes the act of buying sex, not selling it. It penalizes the clients of sex workers, not SW themselves. And several studies show that decriminalizing sex work actually increases the amount of trafficking and pimping, because the legalization increases the demand.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 04:36 PM
7	Luxury home in Montreal owned by Pornhub exec burned down in apparent arson You forgot Jovi 🤮🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 04:08 AM
5	It’s tragic seeing women like this. You know how this story ends. But you can’t save them. If you want a relationship avoid these disgusting men and don’t give anyone sex before committing you poor, poor fool. NoT a pEdoPHilE, aN ePhEBopHile 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 10:42 AM
6	Hating men takes too much work, just acknowledge that they are dangerous and untrustworthy and stay away from them. Yeah me I think. I'm still very young (early twenties) but I don't see myself finding contentment in a romantic relationship. I really value my time and I'm easily stressed when surrounded by people so I wouldn't be happy sharing my space with anyone. + I'm too fragile emotionnally and men can sense that and try to take advantage of it. + I'm probably asexual so 😅 I wanna travel, make money, adopt pets, volunteer, be a good person and live my life alone and free, on my on terms 😇	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:56 PM
1	How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heart oh ok I think I misunderstood your comment sorry 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:30 PM
3	How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heart It is indeed "fucked up" imo ! There's nothing flattering about his comment. Saying that he fell for her because she didn't have sex with him right away means that his respect for women depends on their sexual choices, and that his attitudes towards them isn't the same according to their behaviour. That's just textbook misogyny... There's a "you're not like other girls" feeling about this sentence that would instantly turn me off. And the fact that he believes it's best for a woman not to have s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 05:16 PM
1	The advice on dating subs will have you down bad. Reserved guys ask women out too. It’s actually even more obvious when they’re into someone. Oh ok thanks for the explaination 😊	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 09:17 AM
5	The advice on dating subs will have you down bad. Reserved guys ask women out too. It’s actually even more obvious when they’re into someone. sorry but what does ppd mean ?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/21 10:53 PM
21	I had to hang curtains because I was receiving disgusting texts from my LVM neighbor who could see in from his porch. I hate them, but I hate him more. It's bad enough that he was looking in my windows, but the audacity that he would text me about the "sexy hair flip" that I did "FOR HIM".... he's not legally doing anything wrong Whaaaat ? But it's still sexual harrassment if he sends you these texts, even if he's on his property 😟	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 08:50 PM
31	Anyone else watch American Gods (Starz)? Character Mad Sweeney sums up why men like anal sex: They fired him a few weeks ago ! 🤩 https://www.vulture.com/2021/02/marilyn-manson-dropped-from-american-gods-after-allegations.html	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 09:15 AM
3	Women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 20s. ooooh I'm gonna look into that thanks 😍	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 05:34 PM
2	Women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 20s. Oh no I'm in Europe 🥺 but thanks for your answer ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 10:06 AM
7	Women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 20s. Did you notice improvments in you hair too or just the skin ? And do you recommend any particular brand ? Thanks 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/21 09:25 AM
12	I found this thing called MDS. "Have 1-3 good long time friends to establish that you're a good person" That's so weird... Imagine keeping friendships just as a facade to attract people ?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 11:03 PM
97	Saw multiple men repost this on FB - especially the "if I'm giving her (money), she giving me money" took me out... What's your take on that ladies? "If I'm washing dishes, she cooking/If I'm washing clothes, she gonna fold them/If I'm sweeping the floor, she gonna mop it" ?!? WTF ?!? Why are these men acting like they're the ones doing all the chores when it's women that are doing all the house work without help in most households ?!? And it's funny how they want a 50/50 relationship WITHOUT fighting for equal pay for women !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/21 06:15 PM
46	What Should a HVW Say When a Man Asks Her to Pay Half on a Date? The thing is by explaining things to men (related to dating), you don’t help them grow, you just help them becoming better at masking and manipulating women	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/21 05:39 PM
264	There's an all-women African village. They wanted to escape abusive husbands, old pedophiles, genital mutilation, and so on. Now, many living there don't even want a husband at all anymore, and work together in their village. It's a facscinating short documentary well worth the watch. "And we have to be proud we are women" 🙌🏻❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/21 07:29 PM
3	Is anyone else filled with fear and dread at the idea of introducing their SO to their pickme mother? I'm filled with fear and dread at the idea of introducing anyone to my mother LMAO 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/21 12:43 PM
42	"I was a starter wife."- Justine Musk He's the worst	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/21 12:26 PM
48	Pornhub removes all unverified content, following reports of exploitation So happy ! Huge victory but not enough #ShutItDown !!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/20 07:16 PM
66	Don’t you DARE kink shame him 🤡 Her husband's a rapist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 04:30 PM
4	It doesn't have to be a substance to get you hooked (how pickmeshas are made) I think the hardest part of NPD is that the distorted version of the self prevents (most of the times) one's from seeking treatment. But if the person is self-aware and truly wants to change, I think it's possible. Some people had success with intensive therapy sessions, but it's a lifelong commitment 🙂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/20 06:43 PM
20	It doesn't have to be a substance to get you hooked (how pickmeshas are made) thanks ! I'm bipolar and found it offensive 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/20 01:23 PM
6	I'm a 23 year old virgin. Why? because nothing has convinced me that sex is worth it, thus far. Hi ! Just wanted to clarify that asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, not the lack of libido (someone can have a libido and masturbate and still be asexual) ☺️ I personnally don't really know if I'm asexual or just disinterested in sex like you, but what I know is that I feel perfectly fine without sex in my life 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/20 10:39 AM
23	My best friend Katie just died and my ex-boyfriend (her brother) wont let me come over her house I’m sorry for your loss ❤️ Do you have his mom number ? You could text her directly or go there and talk to her. It’s her house not his.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/11/20 08:42 AM
6	Most men are vultures waiting for vulnurable women to abuse As a woman with mental health issues, I'm so afraid of that happening to me. That's why I'll never marry, I don't want anyone to have a legal power over me. And that's why I pay an extra shit ton of money in private psychiatric practices for diagnoses and treatment. I don't want my mental illnesses to be in a public hospital record.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 07:58 PM
1	Remember all the Incels raging about Amber Heard? Yep. He even changed some sentences : from "Coke he's hiding from me. All on top of Xanax, Adderall, Extasy and hallucinogens" to "Coke he's hiding from me. All I was popping was Xanax, Adderall, Extasy and hallucinogens". - Official case documents : https://www.nickwallis.com/depp-trial - Uncut audio : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9pbrBmHI58	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/11/20 09:23 AM
1	Remember all the Incels raging about Amber Heard? - First of all, it's not just me who says that but organisations fighting domestic violence (I posted a link) as well as people familiar with DV cases. In the majority of DV cases, an imbalance of power exists. Here's another source : https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/is-mutual-abuse-real- http://www.justicewomen.com/tips_dv_victims.html - Mutually toxic/abusive suggests that both parties are abusers. But when you react to abuse, you're defending yourself. It's unfair t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/20 05:03 PM
13	Remember all the Incels raging about Amber Heard? It really upsets me when people say their relationship was "mutually abusive" bc mutually toxic relationships are extremely rare. It's a myth that hurts women and aims at preventing them to defend themselves and perpetuates the idea that a victim should be "perfect" in order to be believed.Bc abusive relationship are almost always based on an inbalance of power (for example an older man, multimillionnaire, with very powerful and influencial friends vs a young bisexual woman). Depp pressured Ambe…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/20 10:34 AM