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I’m gonna honestly say that it’s NOT bad to fall for your friend. I was only a friend to my fiancé for 2 years before I even started seeing her as anything other than just that. It’s when you pretend to be just a friend and don’t be honest with the person that you’re in the wrong. You shouldn’t trick someone into romantic affection (because that’s not truly loving of you) and you shouldn’t just be friends with someone hoping they change their mind one day. If you start falling for them, let them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 10:38 PM
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Not everyone dating someone can just instantly marry them. Suppose money is tight, one of you is still in university, parents want you to wait (some of these are more legit than others but there are reasons you can't always instantly marry)
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:23 PM
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I seem to remember everyone simped on Kirsten Dunst when she was Mary Jane...oh how the tides turn for you blackpills
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:16 PM
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Isn't "saving yourself" a form of voluntary celibacy? So not blackpilled at all
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 07:15 PM
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I would not call her a pickme but go off if you know me so well
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:01 PM
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And you’ll financially abuse her I’m sure
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:26 PM
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Nobody said shit about attractiveness not even OP. We don’t know whether OP is ugly or attractive and it doesn’t affect this covo
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:24 PM
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Excuse fucking me, but that Chad sounds like a douche who no sane girl would ever want to settle down with
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:23 PM
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What does this have to do with the “pills”
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:21 PM
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Counterpoint: she’s my friend and we like to do stuff together and she’s kind to me. Get your head out of your misogynistic preconceptions and maybe try to see women, at minimum, as humans who are no better or worse than men
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 12:20 PM
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That’s the funny part: it’s not true
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 03:11 AM
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Wow by the time it’s Sunday again we’ll have a blackpill civil war.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 03:08 AM
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Frankly I don’t care what Trump does. That asshole will be in prison soon enough. Plus, why do I care what a known criminal and rapist makes me look like. Hopefully I look way better than he does considering
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 12:59 AM
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You have no proof of that but your biases. Besides, good guys don’t seek to make people suffer
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 05:36 PM
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You are a child yet. There’s a lot of time for shit to happen
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 03:09 PM
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You’re fucking 17, you have never been in the real world.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 03:06 PM
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You ever think this attitude is why you are alone?
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 03:04 PM
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What a creep you are
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 02:30 PM
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I mean, i don’t believe I’m blackpill ideas, but I was never approached by girls until I was 20. So in a very real sense, this cult would have called me “hopeless”
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 02:28 PM
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It’s absolutely a cult — a group of people who commiserate and worship these central (and unproven) ideals that are actively damaging their lives
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 02:23 PM
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Schlopschlopschlopschlop - a really thirsty dog
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 02:21 PM
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So basically you have internalized racism. Cool
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:49 PM
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Holy shit the racism in this comment is…astounding
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:46 PM
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Hmm. I’ll take the gf who loves me and wants to spend her life with me and just ignore this. I’m ugly as shit, and somehow it still all worked out for me
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:44 PM
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Where’s the rush coming from? Why is HS the cutoff for being a virgin or you’re hopeless? You realize that there are likely more people who are virgins coming out of HS than there are who canonically fucked
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:42 PM
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A woman would, most times, reject both. It’s not a zero sum game of “must fuck one or the other”. Both are probably unattractive, and only the most mentally ill women would want the Taliban member. Also, I see your racism against Middle Easterners and Southeast Asians. Very nice 🙄
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:39 PM
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But minors SHOULDN’T be sexting isnt that the point. It’s not a matter of “didn’t you do it too?” It’s a matter of “holy shit, let’s try to stop our children from practicing risky sexual behavior and instead be safe online”
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:27 PM
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That’s definitely asshole behavior and probably why girls steer clear of you now
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:25 PM
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Which is it? That women settle down with the stable money-making, but less “Chad” guy or that being that guy will preclude you from keeping a woman for a family? Make up your minds, inceldom
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:16 PM
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That’s a lot of genetic racism towards almost every race in one post. Wow
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:13 PM
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You know, if this dude got OFF the drugs and cleaned up, I bet he’d be at least a little successful.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 12:53 PM
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So…we’re blaming the man who led her on, right? Not the woman seeking a genuine connection and being deluded into thinking she’s in a committed relationship?
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 12:49 PM
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Good job mischaracterizing my argument. It’s not that simple. It’s on par, I’d say, with the boss of a company saying “sleep with me or you’re fired” or a famous YouTuber offering to fuck one of his fans. Not illegal (at least not in the second case) but scummy. And of course women have agency! It’s not like every single woman in your fat eastern fantasy is throwing themselves at you
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 01:44 AM
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A shitty person for deciding that women shouldn’t be manipulated by white men with an obvious power imbalance? You’re richer than 95% of them, of course they think you’re a novelty.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 01:36 AM
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Because majority don’t…there are shitty people of both sexes, as you are proving now
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 01:31 AM
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The irony of men on this sub not wanting to take the “go to the gym” advice themselves
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:49 PM
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Is that how you really feel? Because if so…probably a good thing women avoid you. Maybe value women for more than their genitals
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:41 PM
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It’s a word used to censor incel since many places censor the word
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:17 PM
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This is wildly disturbing that you’re manipulating women into sex
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:10 PM
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Umm…considering how many women get into abusive relationships because they were deceived by the man they thought would be sweet, this is bullshit
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:08 PM
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Who can afford it lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 05:00 PM
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Wish that were so, my dudes
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 04:58 PM
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You had me going and agreeing and then…that last sentence is dogshit
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 04:54 PM
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What are you on about? There’s so few women that actually enjoy it or want to do it. Even if “Chad” (stupid term btw) wants it
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 04:50 PM
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I mean why do you think that there are Facebook groups for “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” It’s to warn other women
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 06:33 PM
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Instead society is filled with…shit tests, discrimination, and competition anyway. Women are not any more vindictive or capable of evil than men, just men have more acceptable outlets for their assholery. And let’s be real, women and men are both emotionally driven. Nearly no one is fully logical or rational in every decision. God, this sub really has turned into incel-central
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 02:10 PM
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Have you ever heard the phrase, “Don’t stick your dick in crazy?” That’s a saying because some men, too, find the crazy ones alluring. This isn’t a woman’s issue; it’s a human issue. Some people seek out the thrilling ones over the stable ones, which isn’t a good thing, but also not confined to one gender. That being said, most abusers don’t show their true colors at first. They lie and manipulate and make the girl feel good until they feel like the girl is trapped and then let the true monster …
/r/AllPillDebate11/07/23 02:07 PM
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I’m a little confused, but it seems you’re aligning with the black/redpill ideologies…and I’m not sure that’s a look we’re supposed to go for in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:33 PM
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Do you want to elaborate what that rule is or are you leaving everyone in the dark?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:50 PM
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Why don’t men also remain virgins until marriage then? Any reasons why they get off the hook?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:41 PM
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The way guys plow through sexually nowadays? Most girls liken sex to a sneeze that won’t come out. Frustrating and unsatisfying. It’s supposed to be mutually pleasurable, but too many guys use a woman’s body cause they don’t know women CAN like sex or they want to be dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:40 PM
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Is “Dave” still a woman-hating asshole? Because changing the name doesn’t change the fruit the tree is making, my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:16 PM
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Sorry I laughed that sounds like the Matrix quote. I like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:46 PM
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You trying to tell us there’s no such thing as ugly or unattractive or less attractive than average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:47 PM
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You trying to tell us there’s no such thing as ugly or unattractive or less attractive than average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:47 PM
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Which is a truly depressing thought
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:52 PM
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Yes I know that. I’m asking why that explains how the numbers are uneven
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:06 PM
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My man, the reason the women hooked up with the Vikings is because they bathed, exercised, and took care of themselves through their diet. That of course led to them looking better and having better “value”. The people of the cultures they went to were smelly, unclean, and usually pretty backwards. And then of course they reproduced with the best and produced better offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:07 PM
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The thing is, how do we know how to unless we’re given a second chance? Aka in a relationship where the two of you are more likely to try again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:01 PM
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How does this cause there to be 2x as many men single though? What are all the women doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:16 PM
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How does that inflate the numbers of women who “aren’t single”? You’re still dating that woman you don’t intend to marry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:14 PM
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Well then I’m extremely unusual. Thanks for the caffeine shot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:44 PM
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Depending on the relationship, there may be no sex involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:31 PM
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Considering 30% of current men (apparently according to those stats) don’t have what it takes to get a real woman, I figure that this is a little more than a small comfort to them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:22 PM
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I find this a weird statement. As far as I’ve been witnessing, men don’t have the negotiation power to just pick “any woman,” he has to choose one that is into him. “Gatekeepers” and all that. This is a new take I haven’t seen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:10 PM
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Not to devalue the whole demisexual label…but the more I learn about it the more I feel like it’s literally just a normal variant of attraction and not a whole sexuality to itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:47 PM
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Am I the only other person who watched his vlogs and was like…he was attractive. It was all his narcissism that made people hate him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:45 PM
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I don’t know. Maybe. I feel like that’s something that only mentally I’ll individuals get
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:42 PM
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Jerry Seinfeld argues it’s the alcohol lol In all seriousness, sometimes women just date unattractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:42 PM
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…why feel sorry for me? I accept how I look, and no, it’s not just a “go to the gym and eat better” thing because I’ve tried that. It made me thinner but still ultimately unattractive. Some things I really just could not fix through standard advice and I had to just suck it up and realize I can’t change all that, I just have to live with what I have and make the most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:40 PM
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It’s a wonder I found the one girl I did. She might have been the 5th person in my life who ever looked past my ugliness
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:38 PM
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I don’t know who he is, but if it’s an ugly nose, then I feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:37 PM
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That’s very true. I figure people like the OP think that any attention is good attention, and then are sad that they have NO attention .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:36 PM
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Then I really am abnormal in a sexless dating relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:18 PM
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I don’t think that the people you’re responding to have gotten one date, much less bombed one. You gotta pass the threshold to even get a date
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:14 PM
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I mean I always knew I was unattractive, but I think what really sealed it was going on this one app (I think it was called “Monkey” or something it was an anonymous videochatting app) and when I matched with a girl my age, they opened the videochat, said, “Ew gross he’s ugly,” and hung up. At 15 that devastates a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:07 PM
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Okay that’s a little unfair. We can acknowledge our own ugliness because we know what we look like; that is what they’re saying. That’s about as modest/humble as you can get because you’re not elevating yourself above anyone else. I’m fact you’re depreciating yourself below everyone else, so I’d call that humility if I ever saw anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:03 PM
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Therapy sessions too /j
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:52 PM
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Or there may not be sex. Some people don’t do that until they’re married, and you may have to weigh whether that’s okay with you. I just urge you not to assume “dating = sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:50 PM
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They do, just not super successfully. Source: I am a fat guy (190 and 5’7” at age 23) who has only dated 2 girls ever and maybe kissed 8 in my lifetime (and never slept with anyone)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:15 PM
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Something about this statement feels wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:11 PM
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Of course they exist, I am one, and you walk through your local Walmart and you’ll see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:02 PM
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Goddamn I’m a freak then. 6 years late woohoo!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:42 PM
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Christ, I’ve read better ABO fanfic than this guy’s fantasy. Some alpha he is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:32 PM
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Considering most don’t (usually because they’re either trained not to or because they’re burned by bad experiences), he’s not unjustified in thinking so. It’s all you hear online these days
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:16 PM
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Gosh I just want to know what all the deleted comments say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:29 PM
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Well then I’m very much a freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:17 PM
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I mean I’m not gonna go out looking for casual sex I’m already dating someone, and if we’re not doing it yet why would I cheat and look for casual sex. Kinda cheapens what I already have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:23 PM
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Idk what universe you live in, but I don’t know any guys getting “casual sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:56 PM
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Not to justify his point, because I see a lot of fallacies in his post, but I have to disagree with your statement “most men get laid”. Cause I don’t think that’s true. At least it’s not true in my case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:15 PM
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You know, if I had to put my thumb on the jugular here, I’d say it’s your attitude towards women that unconsciously confirms your bias that it’s their fault you dont get any action. Instead of blaming women, look at yourself and ask if you’re a datable person. What qualities do you bring to the table? Every day I sympathize more and more with Jerry Seinfeld when he said that 95% of the population is undatable. UNDATABLE!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:46 PM
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That’s the least of his offensive statements. How about his advocacy for playing women’s emotions and “pump and dump”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:45 PM
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When someone advocates for the subjugation of women, that’s wrong. That’s not facts or based, it’s wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:07 PM
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Facts? You gotta be shitting me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:06 PM
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Then sue me. I have morals at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:03 AM
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No I’m a libertarian who thinks that people in their right mind can work together and make shitbags so undesirable that no one listens to them anymore. He can say whatever he wants. But I’ll make it so nobody wants to listen to him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:56 AM
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I believe in shitbags getting what’s coming to them. I’ll let you in on a secret. He’s trash even if he didn’t trafficked young women (and that’s a huge if). His views on women and dating are so repulsive that he doesn’t deserve his platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:36 AM
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“Chose better” My enemy in Christ…human beings are often manipulative. Women have been choosing bad men for the last several thousand years, and men have been sticking their thing in crazy for just as long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:09 PM
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That’s just the thing. If I look at the Catholic Church and say, yeah the system underneath it is sound, it’s just the guy whose disgusting, then great, it’s just that creepy priest. But with Tate, it’s not even close. The entire mindset he represents is disgusting and sexist, and he is a symptom of the disease, not an anomaly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:50 PM
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I would rather be a beta if Andrew Tate is what it means to be an alpha. Good, strong men don’t rape, abuse, and traffic women, and I sure as hell don’t want to hate or force submission on a woman like he would. Relationships are built on respect, and a woman who respects you will be far more willing to let you lead if that’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:25 PM
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What was the purge? I’m so confused cause everyone is talking about it and I have no idea what’s going on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:53 PM
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I’d say that the drawer of playboys was just as creepy and skeevy back then as following the models are today
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:12 PM
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It’s probably due to their perception that rejection makes them “less than” others. Not saying they’re correct, just that when I was in a worse place, I thought that way too. It’s not an easy mindset to be in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:24 PM
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How often is it the father forcing/encouraging the woman to abort? I want to see the data on that
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 04:31 PM
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Sorry you feel that way. Seems I brought this to the wrong subreddit
/r/MGTOW03/05/20 02:51 PM
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Careful there. I don’t want to enslave women. But equality of the sexes doesn’t mean enslaving and killing men for a few thousand years to make up for what happened, just as enslaving whites for a few hundred years isn’t the way to make amends for slavery in the 1800s.
/r/MGTOW03/05/20 02:47 PM
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You say virgin like it’s a bad thing
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 01:59 PM
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This is disturbingly sounding like pedophilia
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/20 10:05 PM
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