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Legit. You should tell her to figure it the fuck out. Or you’re out. It’s disrespectful that she keeps putting up with it. And you don’t need her. Or her baggage bullshit. Millions of hot girls everywhere. You said your piece. He’s obviously a serial dick pic dude. So he won’t change until she does or stops putting up with it. In other words. Stop dealing with it.
/r/seduction03/05/22 06:02 AM
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Literally. Almost anywhere is better. For 1. You know exactly how she looks. So you you are now back in command of whether or not you go for the 10... or a filtered to shit 5.. LOL It’s a lot healthier. You have to be in the moment, makes you genuinely a better person. You never know really where you’re gonna meet a real woman to spend a while with. Tinder is all a bunch of shit. Setting up most to fail. Projections of who people wanna be instead of who they are. Only gonna meet damaged shit on …
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:17 AM
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Getting off tinder & online dating was the greatest thing that I ever did. I got more tail than I ever did. With less effort. And more time to workout and do my hobbies. Which furthered the cycle. Come on dude.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:27 AM
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Stop being a bitch and just tell her that you Couldn’t help but notice that you found me on Instagram. That was great investigative Journalism. I want to take you out. Thank me later.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:26 AM
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No dude LOL That’s ridiculous. You can’t ask a girl out once, totally fine. If she says no, then you just drop it and just treat her as normal - no hard feelings. What would be uncomfortable is if you wouldn’t stop pestering. Or started coming in every day etc.. You’re a human being, you have the right give it a shot. Just don’t be scared of the outcome - and be respectful of the outcome. Literally nothing to lose.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:26 PM
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Literally.. just be super straight forward. Go in for dinner again. Be sure to share name and be comfortable. Bust her balls and get her to laugh and be comfortable. Get her to wanna hang at the table a little longer. Then. Not while she is going for the check.. because that’s what a pussy would do. while it’s at the height of when it’s vibing.. just say: “I would love to take you to dinner... not here.” Hold eye contact confidently. Not creepy. Wait for her response. If it’s positive. Ask for h…
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:32 AM
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Wear purple hair, and claim you’re a proud woman. Seems to be all the rage for men these days.
/r/seduction23/11/21 04:00 AM
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Dude. She made out with her best friend..... She’s a psycho. And also probably stringing that one along too. You didn’t get beta when you got uncomfortable with her behavior. You just didn’t like it. Understand what you like and don’t like. Leave her in the dust and find a hotter better woman that doesn’t pull stunts like that. One day she will be old and decrepit. You don’t wanna be stuck with a lady like that. It was never gonna go anywhere. Thanks to birth control and condoms we now have the …
/r/seduction02/06/19 03:14 PM
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Lololol... that woman isn’t good for anything at this point in her life but a night out and a few bangs. Enjoy. But don’t get attached. Not the type to keep around you. Proud to hear you’re feeling good. Keep on keeping on.
/r/seduction26/05/19 06:58 AM
3

Precisely. Good advise.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:26 AM
1

Fucking well said. So many people here misunderstand the basic principals on this sub
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:25 AM
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Make a move. If you’re comfortable doing it. She will be too. But don’t hesitate. If you feel like making a move. Make a move. Be genuine.
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:18 AM
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Tough love here my friend but... I hate to say it, but it sounds like you’re not ready. Even if she did choose you, you need to have a strong sense of who you are and the direction you’re going in life to be able to keep something good going. In short, once you are with someone, it’s not just about keeping your own image together, it’s also about being unphased by someone else’s insecurities that you will eventually get to know intimately. And handling them when they are stressed and not getting…
/r/seduction06/03/19 03:11 PM
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Be a man and draw your boundary. Show you’re not afraid to live without her and that you don’t need her to be happy. Live your life. If she doesn’t respect your boundaries and your wishes, leave her be and cut her out. My guess is that she will stay with what she has until she loses you, then she will come to you after you leave. But understand, that’s not good behavior and not a quality woman. Also - side note. Neither is having your cake and eating it too.. which she said with the rope comment…
/r/seduction06/03/19 05:05 AM
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I can appreciate the response and the thoroughness as well. However, technically, you didn’t disagree. You actually solidified the point by saying you attract all types - this type of woman would fall under anyone of those categories. Thus, you actually agree. You’ve just have a different set of parameters as to which you define your viewpoint. Totally cool!
/r/seduction23/02/19 08:19 PM
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Lol no. They are just objects to bang and troll the seduction page of reddit to find new ways to manipulate women into feeing emotionally comfortable to bang
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:55 PM
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Just remember, you attract what you accept for yourself. This is the kind of woman you’ll attract, remember that when you do make a commitment. ;)
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:45 PM
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Don’t be a douchebag Who would even want someone who is testing the waters while in a relationship, low class woman - shouldn’t be worth your time. Maybe you have perceived her to have interest Solution, be a stand up guy. If she makes an advance, turn her away as you should have more self respect than to mess around with someone like that. Friend zone her. And her boyfriend. They will introduce you to a friend. All will be right in the universe. There are PLENTY of single women.
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:43 PM
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Women make moves all the damn time.... they are just really subtle. I like to call it the “handoff”... they put you in a position to take the ball and run with it. If you don’t, then it’s your fault in their eyes. They made the move of making it easy for you.
/r/seduction06/02/19 11:37 PM
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Bahaha honestly. Kind of hilarious. Now you need to friend zone them! Haha
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:28 PM
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This is the problem with dating... the games everyone recommends.. lol Just tell him you’d like to see him again. And pause. Let him figure it out.
/r/seduction21/01/19 08:11 AM
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Truthfully. Sounds like a boundary problem. Sounds like you’re trying to convince all the women you chase that you’re valuable instead of realizing your own self worth and not putting up with shitty behavior. Like. First. What do you want?... hookup? Fuck buddy? Or companionship/relationship? Second. What do you offer? Honestly... this might be a bit motivating, because it may not align with what you want. If you just want sex. You have to be really sexually desirable.. so. Are you? Are you in y…
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:48 PM
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Fucking aye.
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:39 PM
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Know the room. Use your eyes. Be loose. Not wasted drunk. Have fun. Entertain yourself. Don’t entertain your ego or seek validation. Situational approach. Vs direct approach. Makes you seem a lot less like you went out to get laid. Show your intentions and don’t skirt around it. Also. D. E. N. N. I. S. System.
/r/seduction12/01/19 08:36 AM
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Seriously - if she didn’t give you a time - just wait it out. Don’t bother her. She will reach out. Go about your day. If you’ve finished all the stuff you have to do CALL her. If she doesn’t answer. Leave it at that. She will call back or text you.
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:41 PM
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I had reading about college shit as a 28 year old. It’s so painfully obvious looking back that it reminds me how much I missed out on lol Also. Don’t waste your time texting a bunch of women all day. It’s a lot of effort for about a similar amount of return. Spend your time doing shit to improve your life. Workout. Eat clean. Drink less. Learn more. Save money. Enjoy yourself. And when you see a fox you want - give it a go. Treat them right and don’t play games. (By treat them right - I don’t me…
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:39 PM
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Personally - I would have put her in her place and put the ring back on her and winked. Then left. The kind of woman that isn’t worth getting involved with.
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:55 PM
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Your life will change if you don’t use apps... Also. Embrace the anxiousness and have fun with it. Then it becomes cute. Lol All about your perspective my friend.
/r/seduction21/12/18 12:11 AM
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Most of it is boundaries. Understanding what yours are. Accepting it. Living by it. It sounds like you have some sort of expectation, I would dive further into this. Why do you have an expectation? What is the expectation? The easiest thing that I learned is to do the things I want to do. Also, recognizing that attraction is more than seeing a hot girl. You may get to know that hot girl and be repulsed by her actions. Again goes back to boundaries. Don’t put women on a pedestal just because you …
/r/seduction06/12/18 01:29 AM
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Dude that’s fucked. This happened to me and my friend maybe a week or two ago. Definitely watch your drinks.
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:55 AM
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Great story. And added bonus of no alcohol
/r/seduction19/08/18 04:42 AM
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I will second this.. I’ve experienced this exact situation. And it’s led me to believe that I’ve hit a new paradox. Theory: This sub has broken everything down and built me (potentially you as well) into such a good version of myself that most of the reason that shit doesn’t pan out is because/due to seeming “untouchable” to these women. To explain. I’ve had numerous chicks who were solid 8’s or 9’s start to flake out. I could tell they were so insecure around me... I’ve become so comfortable an…
/r/seduction26/07/18 07:54 AM
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Bro. What are you doing? Cause I have the exact opposite problem haha Let’s compare notes.
/r/seduction12/07/18 10:33 PM
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Yeah, you definitely need to be masculine and lead this lady a lot while on the date. And make moves - but be yourself at the same time. Classic catch 22 scenario.
/r/seduction10/07/18 07:20 PM
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He’s not worthy
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:24 AM
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Lololz this is a great post. Primarily because people need to ask questions like this more often. Yes. More than likely EVERYONE on tinder is being used one way or another.
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:05 AM
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I have been really feeling this lately too... I live in a city predicated on nightlife. Seems like it’s the only spots to meet single women - online apps & bars/clubs. You can find the “high status/attractive women” in those place, but I’ve found they come with lots of problematic behavior that I don’t care to deal with anymore. I could go into detail on this but alas. I have been off dating apps for about a month now. Limited the nights out to the club 1 night a week now. Grocery stores/home de…
/r/seduction15/06/18 06:00 AM
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There are two types of bitches in this world. Bitches that get what they want using sex. And bitches that take the easy sex. Way to be, stay true to yourself. Keep being awesome.
/r/seduction08/06/18 07:03 AM
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Lolol 0.o why is this posted here.. what kind of setup is this haha
/r/seduction17/04/18 06:13 AM
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It’s weird. So many of my friends are scared shitless of using the superlike. However, myself, I prefer it. I look at it as bold as fuck. It lets them know I want to talk to them by pinging them. Closest thing to cold approaching in real life via online dating. I’ve had tons of success from using it. I’ve already went out on 2 dates with this one girl I superliked just in the last 2 weeks. I look at it as a more alpha kind of thing cause most people are scared to use it. I suppose it’s a perspec…
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:34 AM
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Lolol just meet a chick online - those chicks never want to be in a relationship and are endless hypergamists...
/r/seduction16/04/18 04:39 AM
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How did you meet her? Lol And you showed up with your dick out? Hahaha
/r/seduction13/04/18 12:18 AM
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She probably didn’t go on one date with him...
/r/seduction09/04/18 05:13 PM
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It’s so fucked up but it’s kind of true. Especially the cheating/branch swinging bit. The double standards really piss me off - if you’re a guy who’s able to pick up women as easy as a woman is able to pick up a new guy, it’s infuriating to be in a relationship where you stay committed only to find out the other has been lying about it - then you start to do the same and all hell breaks loose cause the chick claims it’s unacceptable and is worried you’ll leave her. Lol It’s like - okay. Then don…
/r/seduction09/04/18 05:12 PM
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I really appreciate your last line there. The double standard is real.
/r/seduction07/04/18 05:08 PM
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Lol I was just making joke. I actually sort of agree with you. I think the real solution is to man up and stop fucking these shitty women out in the world just because they are hot or just because we (men) want to get laid. We can take the power back and shape the world like real men used to. Do things because they are right. You know - Loyalty. Honor. Respect. Intelligence. Courage. I’ve been on this sub for a long time kind of commenting here and there. Most of these subs amounts to bantering …
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:24 AM
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As funny as this is... it’s horrible because some men do flirt like birds. They are a dying breed called beta males.
/r/seduction06/04/18 05:50 AM
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Check out the YouTube channel an ear for men. I guarantee you that you’ll see correlations in your relationship. Sounds like she has been unfair and mean many times. That’s not good for anyone. She has no right to just say shit that upsets you.. just to say shit cause she’s mad. Hold her accountable for her actions and the things she says. She owes a big ass apology if she didn’t mean it. That’s fucked. You can find someone better than that either way.
/r/seduction26/03/18 02:48 PM
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Do not keep her round as a safety. Out of respect for yourself and other good humans everywhere... if you’re going to start seeing other people. Break it off with her. The only thing we control in life is how we react to others. Just because you CAN doesn’t mean you should. Be clear with your actions. Don’t dick her around like that.
/r/seduction26/03/18 02:44 PM
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https://m.imgur.com/gallery/o24YWhd if you build one. They will come.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:56 AM
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I love these!! I hope this keeps going hahah
/r/seduction08/02/18 12:48 AM
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Awesome post. You’re spot on. I feel bad for women like that... she will never change and it will only get worse and weirder for her as she ages and loses the ability to control men with her looks and sex.
/r/seduction05/02/18 07:24 AM
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Lol.. you youngin. Look at you! Okay. If you are making out for ten minutes and NOT getting turned on enough to have an instinct to take it further... then maybe you don’t have the right girl. Serious note. If you feel like going for it - go for it! ... if you get turned down respect it. But be confident. She doesn’t make out with you for ten minutes without wanting/hoping you will. You want to show her pleasure - show her! ;) Happy learning. Lol
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:42 AM
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The easiest way to do it is to really look at her as a person, not as the "Hot 1-10 woman you're interested in because she might be (insert reason here)" Look at her personality, actions & behaviors, mannerisms, her body language, how she dresses herself, if her car is clean, her age becomes more relevant to a lot of things.. She is a person just like you or me so really pay attention to her. Easier said than done though, I'm sure. For me, it's been easiest when I'm staying true to myself. Knowi…
/r/seduction02/01/18 09:02 AM
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Yes exactly. I agree completely with what you said.
/r/seduction31/12/17 06:31 PM
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Okay, First, what's your motivation for wanting to learn?
/r/seduction31/12/17 10:16 AM
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I believe in free speech.. I hate seeing those deleted posts. It's happening all over reddit. I love this subreddit, lots of dudes trying to better themselves. Learning how not to be is just as important! Do you think in the name of providing good examples of how not to be might be beneficial? For example Deleting the post, or making it so no one can comment further - but then having it word wrapped in your post and hide the users name for anonymity? Best of both worlds. Again, just an idea.
/r/seduction31/12/17 10:05 AM
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Nope, an offer like that or an empty promise of change would make it a manipulation again... People only get so many chances in life. You dig? You stuck around for a couple months and put up with this. What makes it sad/feelings of sadness is if you think of it as bad timing.. As if her bad breakup was causation for everything that's happened and that if maybe she got a chance or had a little more time she would be different. However, you can't think of it that way. The best thing you can do is …
/r/seduction31/12/17 09:50 AM
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Ha! I knew it! lol Sometimes, I hate being right. The impulsive behavior is no good mate. She will not be faithful.. she will make excuses for all of her future bad behavior. The only way to handle it is to stick to what she said and respect it.. I mean... I totally get it. YOU care about her.. She, however, does not. Trust me when I say that. She thought you should end it so just leave it at that (if you end up responding to her by the time you get this - I bet she will have blamed saying its o…
/r/seduction31/12/17 09:01 AM
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Ab-so-fucking-lutely. Best advice I've seen on here in a long as time.. Seduction should be teaching people that as the number one foundation/principal. THEN all the alpha this alpha that, confidence, confidence, yada yada.. lol
/r/seduction31/12/17 08:24 AM
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gents - I have been to hell and back with women. I've started out years ago being really shy. I worked out, put in effort at work, worked hard and earned things for myself, worked on my social skills.. became really confident and started finally dating women I really wanted to date.. hell it even got to the point where I would be turning down women left and right.. A real - Started from the "bottom" made it to the "top".. kind of thing with dating. All this to say, I've been through it all. I ca…
/r/seduction31/12/17 08:20 AM
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Question to answer: did you really want to listen to her about her ex?
/r/seduction25/11/17 03:59 AM
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I mean. That’s cool.. but being alpha should mean respecting others relationships. I mean, bro wouldn’t want that happening to his girlfriend right? Stop making society suck people. Respect others.
/r/seduction10/10/17 03:41 PM
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I mean. The good news is that you will be at the place you want to be if you simply turn down the next date you get. •_• ... chill man. Who knows. Maybe she really did have lesbian drama... I mean, have you ever hung around lesbians before? Ugh. They never shut up lol nice people, but sheesh. Very dramatic. Also. You probably should have bailed and called it for what it was - no chemistry. You had nothing to say but you weren’t honest with yourself - you weren’t feeling it but you thought she wa…
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:18 AM
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You are absolutely right. As I learned from this sub and tried to better myself, I noticed my short term game was amazing. I was having tons of incredibly fun dates... that usually went no where. I noticed I had a problem with achieving my goal (LTR) in the first place. What I will say - if you can master those paradoxes - you will keep that damn 9-10 that you managed to get a date with. Haha But it's exhausting. The genuine approach HAS to be there. And you absolutely have to know when to cut t…
/r/seduction15/06/17 04:31 AM
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The "oh really lol" .. was her thinking about it, but you didn't give her anything to think about. You said "really" and then she probably was like ehhhhh. Had peaked my interest but it didn't go anywhere from there. The "oh really lol" was your chance to turn her on via text. To really be vivid and turn her on to the idea of it. Just saying really was basically - no fun. Lol
/r/seduction31/05/17 05:20 AM
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You guys are all missing the obvious point... the guy seemed super confident going up to a girl that's taller than him.. it breaks all the social norms about dating. Lol Bravo my friend. Keep being a stellar dude and going after what you want.
/r/seduction18/04/17 06:04 AM
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You're welcome my friend! We're all here to help each other and grow and look out! I'm glad to hear you have had success from this. As far as American women, man, I'm on this sub too. Your guess is as good as mine! Haha! But in my experience, it's very normal. I think a ton of it has to do with the medium in which you're meeting these women. Tinder is known as the hook up app. So if there are women on there still, you have to think, maybe they just wanna hook up.. I'm sure some want to meet some…
/r/seduction03/01/17 07:53 AM
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Please understand, that making the escalation move at the right time, while a big turn on for her.. wouldn't have completely made her stick around. It would have helped your case but not made it. It displays confidence. Not the total package. (in that instance) As far as the persistence piece: I read your post originally and saw a lot of my own mistakes that Ive made as I have continued to hit similar brick walls when I meet someone I like and click really well with. And it was great to put it a…
/r/seduction03/01/17 07:46 AM
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Yeah man, it's all good. I have been there too many times thanks to this sub. I have had so many friends come up to me and been like "man Steve, you're so lucky you go out with so many chicks, you must feel great".. but they don't understand how much of a bummer it is because really it was just connection that was wanted in the first place. Background aside: You might still be looking at it a little on the negative side, my friend. It's not that you are less attractive, in fact. You must be quit…
/r/seduction03/01/17 07:23 AM
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Get over your emotional detachment problem. You want to date this chick. That's what you are feeling. Accept it. That chick doesn't just want to fuck you and then leave. She can probably do that to any number of guys throughout the day as she pleases. Why would she only sleep with you? (College, yeah, fuck buddies are definitely a thing because it's convenient and everyone can go back to their towns they are from free from pressure. Yada yada) This is the real world. If you offer nothing than yo…
/r/seduction03/01/17 06:51 AM
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Man, don't let it get you down. I know it's probably frustrating always having something you don't actually want, and not getting what you do... But you have to understand, you are right about the inability to accept compliments and self esteem. The biggest thing is that, you have to emotionally connect. You have to let yourself be vulnerable too. People self esteem issues are afraid to trust because if they trust the wrong person it will break them. You have to be nice. Continuously. Be there f…
/r/seduction03/01/17 06:40 AM
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Man, some of these posts on here are sad. The truth is, a high value woman, is in fact -high value person. It sounds like you really are getting caught up in the things this sub teaches for beginners and what most of us here (hopefully ultimately want - connection, intimacy) advance to. Really think about what qualities you portrayed. Reverse the shoe. If the chick had done everything you had done but to you.. would you have wanted to see her again? You might have thought differently of her. Yea…
/r/seduction03/01/17 06:29 AM
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Man, people forget how significant they are in life. You made an impact on that person. And EVERY person everyday. Ask yourself, is it the impact you want them to remember you by? If you've been on this sub, you already know that you are in control (for the most part) of your day to day things. If you're feeling that low. And it's late. Just drink a glass of water. Turn off all distraction. Go to sleep. If earlier, be productive. Exercise. Clean your place. Read. Learn. Explore a hobby or your c…
/r/seduction22/12/16 09:29 AM
2

Gather them all around and tell them that they are on a non filmed episode of the bachelor and you are trying to find your one soulmate for evening hahah
/r/seduction10/09/16 06:43 PM
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Yah. He conveniently skipped the most important part of the field report haha Although his point still was made. You can waste time online or you can just go right up to her.
/r/seduction19/08/16 04:11 AM
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No doubt. Don't care.
/r/seduction16/08/16 10:08 PM
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It's funny because almost EVERY number I've pulled from a bar or real life scenario outside of school has been an overwhelming bust. ALWAYS an excuse train haha.
/r/seduction16/08/16 06:29 PM
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Hahah funniest thing.. this happened to me on a date. I literally told her after her rant. "Want to call it?.." she looked confused. I stood up went to the bartender and closed tab. Said let's get out of here. She thought I meant go back and have sex or something.. most dejected look on her face when outside, I thanked her for coming out. Gave her a hug and said I'm going home. Haha felt good to reject someone because you didn't connect or felt it was a match. Most honest rejection ever. And it …
/r/seduction16/08/16 06:22 PM
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If she found it funny, you could have followed that question up with another ridiculous name and just smiled. They would have thought you were fucking with them. And if you played it cool. They could have went along. lol I've been in odd situations haha
/r/seduction16/08/16 03:08 PM
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If she put your hand on her neck, clear indication imo that this girl was into "being taken" and roughly.. she probably wanted you pick her up and bend her over against the wall or something... lol and she wasn't very nice in the morning because she was disappointed that you didn't make the move twice in one night.. I mean.. a girls not gonna let a 6'5" strange man off the Internet over without having some intentions.. Now, let me be clear. You did the right thing.. Louis c.k. Said it best... ha…
/r/seduction19/07/16 07:04 AM
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So... I'm 5'8"... I usually get that awkward "how tall are" you question at some point with tinder dates.. This one particular girl.. I'll never forget. We were super vibing and before she was gonna come over, she asked how tall I was.. Turns out she was 5'11" but she didn't care because she still thought I was cute and confident. She still came over, my confidence f-closed. Very fun night. I assume she definitely wanted that kind of night so everything fell right into place, but important, I di…
/r/seduction09/04/16 12:58 AM
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Some of that video felt a little cringy.. But hey, whatever worked :) great job for going out and approaching! And also keeping frame!
/r/seduction10/12/14 07:48 AM
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Dude. You have a threesome opportunity if I ever heard one... I need to go back to college haha
/r/seduction05/12/14 01:58 AM
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Yeah. But you know. More seductive and descriptive haha get her mind thinking about it. Works every time.
/r/seduction16/11/14 08:19 PM
1

Would have waited until later the next night... And texted her something like.. "You said no dates, come over Blah blah blah"
/r/seduction15/11/14 07:48 AM
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it's definitely true. I"m 5'8 and a lot of girls who were just a little shorter than me maybe 5'6 have said they weren't interested because they couldn't wear heels. That being said, it's not like they weren't initially interested. I just didn't build enough value to keep her.
/r/seduction15/12/13 04:12 AM
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I'm think she is pushing and pulling. I think she wants you to just grab her and make a move like a strong man. Do it! She said she thinks you guys should play? .. I can think of a four letter word she probably was thinking of.
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:35 PM
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Yeah. I've recently moved down to Nashville from a small town. I need to get out and experience the nightlife too.
/r/seduction16/11/13 07:25 PM
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Right on man. Just leave it alone for a while. Save her number for a rainy day. And be spontaneous. Call her. She gets a thousand text messages a day. Calling will make you stand out.
/r/seduction16/11/13 04:51 AM
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Just give it some time, focus on other girls for a few days, let yourself realize that you don't need her. She may get curious as to why you aren't talking to her and may contact you. (although, if she really is that hot, she won't.).. basically, just play it cool. then ask her out. If she flakes, let her flake because you don't need to date her. It was her privilege to steal your attention for a few days. ;)
/r/seduction13/11/13 06:24 PM
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yeahhh.. that's definitely ruled out because she hadn't responded to my attempts to further escalate to sex. we would cuddle, feel each other up. but wouldn't let me get further than that. totally friend zoned haha.
/r/seduction12/11/13 04:21 AM
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at this point man.. less is more with her, don't have a conversation in text.. have it in person. Something that is cliche that i heard recently completely applies to this one.. . always leave her wanting more.
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:25 AM
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Okay, so what if you have both of those things, and she still claims "we're just friends"
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:04 AM
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60% of the time , works Everytime
/r/seduction12/10/13 05:13 PM
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Yeah man, you definitely made yourself look valuable to her. She clearly was NOT interested. Now she IS. you can totally score her if you move in on her.
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:03 AM
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yeha man.. don't text.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:58 AM
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the worst part about what he said with it being a "ghost town" is that, you pretty much have to leave it at one message and be done.. sending more messages makes you look creepy. but that's where the timing is everything.. cause you message while she's not online your message/opener will get lost in a see of idiots. haha
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:57 AM
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yeah man, don't do it.. i've had many opportunities from these online kind of sites. and the ones that I try to get to sext with before we meet, never do it. definitely flirt, don't sext.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:55 AM
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I think the trick here is "inception".. you need make her come up with the idea to go to her place.. so, get her worked up and be super close to her house haha.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:50 AM
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haha actually no, that is all badass information. I'm about to move to germantown in a few months. Right now, I'm living up by gallatin, but i love the city. It always seems so fun. So that's why I plan on moving there.. I have heard that the gulch is awesome, and i have heard a lot of good things about bar louie. I'm definitely going to check out everything that you have mentioned. lol Thanks mate.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:28 AM
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See I think that's more of what it could be used for.. I am a newbie to the Nashville area and I want to know the cool places and things to do besides Broadway, cause that's a tourist trap. Still fun, but still a tourist trap lol
/r/seduction03/10/13 06:06 PM
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Yeah. A trick that I have picked up is to turn the notifications on my iPhone off and just the badges on for most stuff. The only thinks I leave on notifications are the bare essentials like texting, calling, and emails. Everything else I get to when I'm ready to check it. It kinda is awesome. Gives you a little bit of freedom back. I suggest picking up a hobby, or instead when your feeling bored and lonely, focus on school. That shit will pay off big time later. If your school has dual enrollme…
/r/seduction24/09/13 05:38 AM
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I have the same sense of time my friend. It doesn't ever go away. You just have to be more aware of it, and learn to let go. Watch this video. I think it's relevant. Louis C.K talking about the emptiness Moral of the story, let go a little bit and enjoy the time to yourself.
/r/seduction23/09/13 06:05 AM
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Out of state boyfriend - sounds like she may have denied you already. No girl is faithful to a man hours away, women like/need physical attention as much as men. I bet she fools around with guys all the time. Different School boyfriend - meh, okay, she might actually be for real with you there. But I stand by my previous statement. Do without that damn boyfriend! haha Test those waters! Hell, jump right in! It only takes a few seconds to get used to the temperature. Besides, what's the worst tha…
/r/seduction21/09/13 07:58 AM
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Yeah, exactly. It pretty much is it. Remember, we are all just primitive animals ya know?.. nothing more than instinct. The trouble is, civilization and chick flicks socialized us to "stop" and we "freeze in our tracks" like you said. I do it to. We are all guilty of doing it. It's okay, just realize that it's okay to fail, you will fail at some point. Also, in your scenario, if she has a boyfriend, then for her sake, make a move somewhere private/intimate. I said school because it might make yo…
/r/seduction21/09/13 07:25 AM
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basically, its touching. making the girl comfortable with you and her being physical. So, keep her laughing, and comfortable with you touching her, and sexualize your conversations.. now all thats left, is to find a way to get her into an intimate place during school and make your move.. or ya know, anywhere else intimate ha.
/r/seduction21/09/13 07:14 AM
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hmmm.. that would be interesting to know. It would come as a major surprise to me. I would think their thinking would be "why try for this hot gay guy, when 10 other hot guys will show up any minute" haha but i suck with women, thats why i'm here.... so..
/r/seduction21/09/13 06:49 AM
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This. And also kino. apparently it's as good as gold around here.. pun intended. If she responds well to kino, then your in. regardless if she has a boyfriend or not. That being said, use the force for good.. ha good luck brother.
/r/seduction21/09/13 06:20 AM
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uhmm.. link?
/r/seduction21/09/13 06:10 AM
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i'm willing to bet NO woman, would ever waste her time trying to "game" a gay guy.. they have enough scarcity mentality as it is. what would be the point. lol
/r/seduction21/09/13 06:09 AM
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Yeah, there is definitely an art to opening a girl on those sites, if you do it right, you def can take some girls home.
/r/seduction10/09/13 06:02 AM
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