undead_pavanayi Archive

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4	Hindu minor boy subjected to forced ‘circumcision’ in Chhattisgarh's Jashpur district; victim's mother and grandmother arrested In this case, it has a religious angle. The mother is a muslim and she seems to have wanted her son to undergo circumcision according to islamic faith.	/r/MensRights	14/01/22 03:18 AM
4	I don’t understand how feminists thing not hating men automatically means hating women Still the feminists don't realize why nobody picks them	/r/AntiFeminists	08/01/22 02:43 PM
14	The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendships If it is not reciprocated, it's simping	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 07:07 AM
2	Potentially radical opinion - the best way to escalate from a friendzone is to be a genuine friend. As a guy, the only friendzone you can move out from is when it was you who friendzoned the girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 09:13 AM
2	Let’s talk about arranged marriages To answer the last part, what I think about arranged marriages vs "love" marriages. A few years ago, when I was in an LTR, I believed that marrying for "love" was somehow superior and believed that we would have a "happily ever after".I was "blue-pilled" and had "one-itis" as the internet would say. That ended and we went out separate ways. Today I believe that marriage is an "institution" not a relationship and success depends on how that institution is run regardless of whether it was arranged…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:48 PM
10	Let’s talk about arranged marriages There is no guarantee that if would work out, but in an arranged marriage, there are more stakeholders involved, so the success of the marriage is a combined effort of the husband, wife and their respective families. There is a good side and bad side to it. Good side is that there is a support system to fall back and resolve hiccups in your relationship. Bad side is that, the other stakeholders would also get involved in decisions within your marriage	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:34 PM
5	Let’s talk about arranged marriages If the families are "similar" in terms of caste, money, social status, then getting married would be easier. Even if people don't go the arranged marriage route, they sometimes try to date people that fall in the appropriate buckets so that the families would agree to the union	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:28 PM
7	Let’s talk about arranged marriages Once you find a potential match, it is mostly parents and extended family that initiate the discussions and the families would meet. The first time the bride and groom would meet would mostly be in the presence of the family. Then probably the families would visit each other back and forth to understand the situation that each party is in. Once both parties are ok with each other, the parents would sit down to discuss the T&C and to set a date for the engagement/wedding. (Sometimes you have both…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:24 PM
9	Let’s talk about arranged marriages Once a girl or a boy reaches marriageable age (this varies depending on the culture), the extended family would bring prospective alliances for the person from their circle. Some people would hire a match maker who would try to match this person with some of their other clients. You may also put advertisements in newspapers as well that person "X" is looking for a prospective bride/groom. These days there are websites and mobile apps that provide similar services	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:15 PM
17	Let’s talk about arranged marriages I am from India so I can give an overview. The practice and customs may vary from place to place but generally the process is the same. In arranged marriage, more than the compatibility of the individuals getting married, the compatibility of the families are tested. Which means that the bride and groom need to be from the same caste and social strata. I'm not married BTW.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 01:11 PM