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From my experience they all look away. They look away ahead of time really, especially desirable women. This is even when they're interested. I don't think eye contact is a common enough sign of interest for most guys
/r/seduction24/05/26 12:17 PM
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In those situations you have to setup a date immediately imo. Her spiked interest will probably only last a day at best. Sounds like you weren't that interested though
/r/seduction12/05/26 02:32 PM
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it is just an ick of the post-covid era. I've never heard this before what does this mean? Post COVID I remember a bunch of horny women wanting to hookup, think it was called a hot girl springtime or something. Maybe you're saying they hookup from apps now mostly? not sure
/r/seduction13/04/26 11:05 PM
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I've been around a bit and from what I've seen attractive women are approached indirectly everywhere. Starting with eye contact, guys are always leering at them and not breaking eye contact. Then you have guys trying to speak to them saying random indirect shit to break the ice.. "Turn that frown upside down honey bee" I saw a guy literally say that one time. I saw a cute woman on a train not realize she was sitting with her legs spread wearing tights and a guy rolled up on her to hit on her wit…
/r/seduction17/03/26 10:47 PM
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Are you voice calling these women when you get their number? Doing this reduces flaking for me, maybe by 100% I think. The hard part for me is getting the number so I can call. It's an extra step but my flake rate is around 70% otherwise
/r/seduction25/02/26 02:20 PM
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Any luck on this OP? Facing a similar sticking point, but I don't think it's a white woman thing I think it's more of a desirable woman thing. I've optimized my profile as well. I have great openers and am able to match with desirable women now, however, I think they are flooded with good options and it's hard to get them out on a date. Kind of like their interest is not cold but luke warm.
/r/seduction31/01/26 07:00 PM
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Can you dance? Have fun and dance with her. Then vibe and talk about situational stuff.. eg a funny thing that happened at the party, her dancing, what she's wearing, the current song. Talk directly in her ear if the music is loud. Then if she seems receptive, relocate her to a more comfortable area to vibe more and talk about mutual friends at the party etc, and build rapport
/r/seduction25/01/26 02:36 PM
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For me, anecdotally, when I attained a visibly successful career, after having an average one, is when women started wanting to date me on dating apps. Before, they did not want to date me. My looks didn't change. I don't think this is the same for a woman who becomes a software engineer, a doctor, or a CEO.
/r/seduction01/01/26 06:28 PM
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This is true. I was saying that it does not matter if the faces are covered in the photos. If children are in a man's photos at all it can be viewed as a sign of low emotional iq to many women. There are some women who don't care about this it seems, but it's something to be aware of.
/r/seduction24/12/25 02:40 PM
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Great question. Based on my experience finding success on apps combined with reviewing profiles along-side women.. not conveying strong emotional iq is one of the biggest issues most guys have on dating apps. You can convey emotional intelligence in your photos by first being groomed and wearing clothes that are considered fashionable and socially acceptable/attractive to women. Many non western men, especially my south asian homies seem to struggle with this greatly for example. Also conveying …
/r/seduction23/12/25 01:55 PM
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For that scenario there's not much time. So I did a false time constraint and went direct with a compliment along with the old "had to say hi". If that landed I'd ask them out. The times I've done this successfully there was usually a subtle indicator of interest, like the girl parked at the pump adjacent to mine when all the other fuel pumps were available
/r/seduction04/11/25 02:54 PM
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I'm like 2 for 4 at gas station fuel pumps
/r/seduction03/11/25 10:43 PM
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So I have to ask, what was a memorable situation you were in where you deployed a well timed ice breaker next to an attractive woman, and she surprisingly bit? And what was the icebreaker of course
/r/seduction28/10/25 06:57 PM
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Thanks. It's interesting to me hearing about how non conventionally attractive guys meet attractive women. I'm guessing you're doing non-needy situational openers as icebreakers? Maybe like a witty statement or observation, or maybe asking a non-threatening situational question instead? And then if she bites it's game on I'm guessing. I'd be curious to hear. Always looking to learn more here
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:59 PM
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Are you meeting these women via nightlife venues, social circle, or online?
/r/seduction25/10/25 10:34 PM
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Yeah. "Movie" basically translates to low effort fuck buddy meetup. If OPs not super hot she probably has better options
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:19 PM
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"if you have money, then women will come to you." Most guys who say this are broke and don't know anyone who has money. Many of us understand that most women are attracted to success, status, and fun lifestyle. Money is closely related to these things, but you don't need to be rich. The trick is conveying those things in ways women find attractive. Example, if you're a single dad with a lake boat and you have great photos of yourself on your boat posted on IG or dating apps, that would convey su…
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:36 PM
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Why are you so focused on the dollar amount? Most people who have money don't tell people how much money they have.
/r/seduction24/09/25 01:12 PM
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Banter based on her profile is probably the strongest. It's fun and much better than dry texting. Also it's a skill that most guys can't do. Someone mentioned sexual innuendo but that's unoriginal and you risk being a turnoff
/r/seduction22/09/25 05:24 AM
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Waste of time. He would already have 10 girls in his phone ready to date. If you can't comprehend that, this topic is out of your depth.
/r/seduction20/09/25 04:28 PM
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This is really dumb to say in this scenario. OP has figured out the most difficult part with dating apps, which is getting lots of matches. Now he just has to handle this last sticking point before the flood gates open
/r/seduction20/09/25 01:04 PM
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Yeah, he's generalizing but it makes sense that some women will sleep with a hotter guy faster
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:36 AM
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From what I observe across the apps and even reddit r4r's is that many women are able to easily fuck hot guys. I'm aware of women in their 50s, with kids, who are able to get piped down regularly by gym bros. And they can get exactly what they want. I think there are some average guys who are savvy, who can slide into casual sex under the pretense of a long term relationship. But I think the women who just want sex, can aggressively go after the hot guys and fuck them, on any dating app. These w…
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:31 PM
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Even if they initially want a long term relationship, some will agree to just be casual as long as they find you attractive Are you saying you don't define the relationship until the woman brings it up, and then you say you just want casual? Also is this before you have sex?
/r/seduction13/09/25 03:15 PM
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Also guys here don't realize that many of the women in these scenarios are not that desirable, not saying OPs wasn't... but I'm sure a lot of us here have passed up on these scenarios many a time cuz we weren't into the girl
/r/seduction01/09/25 09:34 PM
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Wow you must be a stud. I'm still waiting for the day a woman picks me up at a planet fitness or a Costco just to pump and dump me
/r/seduction27/08/25 08:37 PM
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Lol you guys aren't even aware that you keep on proving my point
/r/seduction27/08/25 07:39 PM
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Case in point right here folks. These guys exist, and there's a lot of em.
/r/seduction27/08/25 01:26 AM
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Women walk a fine line in this regard. If they come off too easy, many men will treat them with less respect, and some will try to use them as a quick pump and dump.
/r/seduction27/08/25 01:00 AM
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Alot of folks enjoy meaningless casual sex right\ Many people don't tie their self worth to their enjoyment of casual sex
/r/seduction08/01/25 01:45 PM
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I'd think most people who find success are persistent and push through blockers, or just take a short break if they're burnt out but then return. You've identified a pattern. It seems you're not building enough rapport or comfort when you first meet someone or before the date. So you have to be persistent enough to find solutions for this. E.g. Talking on the phone instead of texting is a quick rapport builder that can help prevent flaking. Or meeting women in situations where you're able to org…
/r/seduction14/11/24 03:33 PM
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In addition it appears there is a growing number of desirable men with options who are matching with women and then treating them like expendable trash. Men acting as if they want LTRs but then being hyper sexually aggressive. Causing women to have baggage when they use the apps, or stop using apps all together.
/r/seduction13/11/24 02:42 PM
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Interesting. I think some women are intoxicated by status though. Women sleeping with roadies just to get access to rock stars etc. But to your point, whenever I've been around a not so desirable guy with a very desirable woman, the guy is typically a leader with a strong personality, and sometimes kind of annoying.
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:32 AM
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I would say if you have status you don't need to be a leader at all
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:16 AM
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Hi late to the party here, but what relationship intentions are you setting on your profiles that work best when you're looking for hookups/casual? e.g. long-term, casual etc. I have bumble lifetime and stockpile my likes as you do.
/r/seduction29/09/24 02:26 PM
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Hi late to the party here, but what relationship intentions are you setting on your profiles? e.g. long-term, casual etc. I'm currently looking to casually date and get hookups. My app profile is strong but I don't want to get filtered out by everyone if my relationship intentions make me seem like a fuck boy.
/r/seduction29/09/24 02:01 PM
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Interesting. Could probably run with this in a few different directions if savvy enough.
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:27 PM
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It's called living a life. Live your damn life and improve yourself. Stop worrying about how the women will come to you. Don't be condescending omega. My point still stands. If you're in a subreddit like this saying self improve and play it by ear I don't know what to tell you my guy. There are many successful guys who don't have women falling into their lap?
/r/seduction18/05/24 03:30 PM
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You still have to meet the women though right? What you say is too vague to me. I guess you're saying you'll make friends along the way and meet women who know your status through these friends I guess?
/r/seduction18/05/24 01:29 PM
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I think it’s due to porn. When you think about it, we mostly jerk off to videos of girls getting banged by men who are not us. From the third perspective ( the cameraman ) Interesting. I think this can push some guys towards bisexuality too. Starts with being aroused by porn with just women, then progresses to being aroused when she's with a guy, then being aroused by the guy too. This is just what a friend told me.
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:54 PM
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Quickest route for you might be singles meetup groups for folks in your age range. Nights out at least twice a week at different venues/bars with a wingman would help as well. The nice steak houses with good bars were the hotter scene for the attractive 40+ crowd from my experience. Can hit those solo too. If you have lower standards, Kik groups can be a good option. If you have any Home Depot runs, women can be more assertive in showing interest there.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:35 PM
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Not according to most of the women on the profile review subreddits. The best photos are of you participating in activities that project a fun lifestyle others would want to be a part of.
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:17 PM
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If you have a good dating app profile you can have a small to very large pool of women in most cities who want to talk to you. In person you have none.
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:20 PM
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I prefer being a big fish in a small pond. So cities like Denver, Minneapolis, Austin, Charlotte. The desirable women seem to be much more accessible in these cities. Some mention southern CA but it's not really affordable, it's transient, you're dealing with very exclusive venues and you're competing with a larger number of very successful savy guys from my experience.
/r/seduction30/11/21 01:51 PM
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Another black guy here chiming in. This black racial victim stuff I see on these dating subreddits is terrible. I've never let my race hold me back. In fact it's the opposite, it's empowering. I also do well on dating apps and have accomplished much more significant things without a thought about 'goodlooking tall white guys'?, man, get outta here with that.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:25 AM
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Thanks. You make the immediate kiss close before settling into your place sound easy ha. I feel there would need to be a smooth transition move there as well, otherwise going for the kiss could be too direct it seems. Additionaly for me I have a strong physical presence, so I must make any moves as organic as possible, especially when a girl is at my place for first time.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:23 PM
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Dropping dimes. Thanks for the high value reply.
/r/seduction24/07/21 10:00 PM
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Thanks this is interesting. On a first date with a dating app girl, what works well for you to transition from the date location to your place for the first date lay? For instance if I have drinks with a girl it feels clunky for me on the first date to be like 'hey wanna sing karaoke at my place?' It seems like you have an effective way of getting women comfortable enough to come back to your place on a first time meet.
/r/seduction24/07/21 07:20 PM
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Interesting. Since most of your lays are ONS from apps, what do you convey that you're looking for? Either through your profile or if asked?
/r/seduction24/07/21 06:46 PM
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Agree. Not really sure why op is trying to preach this in multiple sub reddits.
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:31 AM
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It sounds like he's working in an entry level restaurant job. I'd say this is the time to live free and have fun. I imagine most of the young attractive staff will not be around after a few months anyway. Op will probably be gone too.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:19 PM
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Do you think having a lot of ig pics in your profile are necessary for this strategy? I have around 7 or 8 pics that are very effective on Tinder/Bumble but I haven't tried IG because Im not active on it. And I don't have many pics. I feel like guys who would be successful at this strategy would have active ig profiles or at least have a lot of built up content projecting a fun successful life, social proof etc, but I have no idea if this is the case.
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:53 PM
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You can play along with it or dismiss it and continue talking to the girl about something else. Main thing is to not take it seriously and blow yourself out because of it.
/r/seduction31/05/21 10:08 PM
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Lol this is awesome. Thx for the reply
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:53 PM
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When you start to try and move things back to your place how do you transition? Do you say something like "Hey do you sing karaoke?" "do you want to?"
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:14 PM
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Let's get specific though, do you mean a situational observation or joke? Or do you mean a canned 'what time is it?' or similar kind of opener. The former can be challenging if there is limited time to open.
/r/seduction31/05/21 06:01 PM
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You look like a player. You're too short for me etc
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:51 PM
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It's easy to get distracted when you're already out partying and supposed to meet someone. A lot of better options, as far as fun things to do, can come along in the same night.
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:42 PM
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Despite your recent blowouts I’m very impressed you’re having success day gaming during a pandemic while wearing a mask. Hopefully some of those dates pan out for ya chief. In the bay here as well for now. Thanks for your response.
/r/seduction18/10/20 07:18 PM
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Along the same lines of you disarming those who you talk to. If you don’t mind sharing, what wardrobe style do you feel works best for you when you day gamed in these field reports? For instance.. gym wear, business casual, preppy casual, jeans and a fitted t-shirt etc. Are you wearing any kind of hat with your mask? I’m familiar with the techniques you’re using, but you seem to be doing a good job disarming from far away, like from across a street.
/r/seduction18/10/20 06:02 PM
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