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Aikido has a really really high learning curve that most people simply don't have the time/patience to actually practice enough to use it IRL.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/16 01:30 AM
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Yea I read the same thing somewhere else awhile back. It was that you're brain can't physically cope with being "close" with a certain amount of people. You can know the names of many, but sharing a direct connection has a threshold.
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:34 AM
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I think he's saying there's such a thing as no idealized outcome at all. The wording matters to some and not others. For some, the language used may greatly effect how they perceive the interaction. For others, the language is just a label they've assigned to their own feelings. For the latter, his way of thinking is probably hard to see as different. It's like how people have different general learning style.
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:31 AM
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ooooo this explanation did it.
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:20 AM
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Step 3:???
/r/seduction18/04/14 03:11 PM
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All things about trust etc aside, if you're both equate intimacy with sex (you can equate intimacy with multiple things at the same time including sex) then having sex early on doesn't matter or might even help. However if one of you doesn't envision banging regularly as part of a long term relationship, or your sexual preferences are just different, then not having sex on the first date will draw out the inevitable demise and leave you both frustrated. tl:dr; If you both like banging, banging o…
/r/seduction13/04/14 09:46 PM
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One of my favorite teachers once said something along the lines of "Happiness is an emotion. Emotions are by definition temporary. You can't be happy all the time, it's just impossible. What you should try to be is content. I'm content with my life with my family." I think its very true. However I think there are people in this world who just aren't meant to be content. Content people get a job, a family, and they stop. They aren't necessarily stagnating, but they aren't the constantly growing p…
/r/seduction14/03/14 10:47 PM
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You sound like you use homeopathy. "Fuck the science. This feels right for me so they must be wrong"
/r/seduction14/03/14 09:32 PM
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but my biggest one by far is living in mediocrity. I am fucking TERRIFIED of this. Like I'm going to go ahead and throw out that I have diagnosed depression/anxiety issues and if I got a typical job with a cubicle that'd be a short trip for my happiness after my small amount of student loans got paid off.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:19 PM
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Not an entirely bad idea.
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:24 AM
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Heh that reminds of the scene from the first Austin Powers movie.
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:57 PM
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What's the thinking behind the stressful situation and spreading out. Thinking about someone catching me doing that gives me anxiety.
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:26 PM
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Ask questions. If they're already talking about something, ask about that. Ask questions that aren't yes or no and that isn't something they're having to repeat. Then ask follow up questions. If they aren't on any particular topic, ask about something they can talk about. If you're new to the area, ask about what you can do around town. If they aren't from there, ask about how the two places are different. Everybody has a passion, whether it's a TV show or graduate research. If their body langua…
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:24 PM
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Like I said, anthropology.
/r/seduction10/12/13 03:33 AM
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Well here on /r/seddit ... nothing. It's an interesting anthropology note though.
/r/seduction10/12/13 01:30 AM
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The "USA USA USA" is typically a good indication.
/r/seduction15/11/13 04:16 PM
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Because of an American accent? I heard people were desensitized to it because of T.V. in recent years.
/r/seduction14/11/13 06:42 PM
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Well when you do it right, they're not even rejecting you. They're not able to spend time with you for whatever reason. The attraction comes from you being an interesting person. PUA is a numbers game. Rejection hurts less because you're time is finite and if they don't want to enjoy it well there is someone else who does. The disassociation they see is basically you confirming their rejection doesn't matter because she is a drop in the bucket of things you could do with your time.
/r/seduction16/10/13 11:23 PM
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Yes you can. People do it all the time with all sorts of pain. I'll take my bachelor's of science in psychology against whatever internet articles you've been reading as my source. You can either dissociate yourself from the pain, which is the act of creating a level of cognitive dissonance between what happened with you and the rejection or you can reframe the way you view the act itself, acknowledging the rejection and treating it like a game. Most pua's probably do the latter and its a lot he…
/r/seduction16/10/13 08:05 PM
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So whats wrong with disassociating yourself from it...
/r/seduction16/10/13 06:53 PM
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You've skipped some memos or something. Practice Practice Practice. Approach Approach Approach. You're going to get shot down over and over. There is no benefit to being "Authentic" when it comes to getting rejected. As long as you're not blaming everyone else for your failures, dissociation from rejection is a good thing. You don't take it personally because it isn't personal. The girl most likely wasn't rejecting you. Sometimes they really do have boyfriends. Sometimes they really aren't in th…
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:53 PM
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And whats wrong with that?
/r/seduction16/10/13 03:48 AM
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What is "authentic"?
/r/seduction16/10/13 01:58 AM
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Well remember texting is a means to an end. "Text Game" is about getting something set up as quick as possible, your life is too interesting for you to be spending too much time texting someone on your phone. Ideally you should of have tried to have tried to setup a date that night but back to the situation at hand. What to keep in mind You have an interesting life. You don't need to text her for entertainment Your texting should have the purpose of getting a date or "informing her of the privil…
/r/seduction22/09/13 05:44 PM
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I'm in college and I know the times I'm able to answer the phone for a phone call are completely sporadic before about 7 O'clock, if at all. So calling them means hoping that my walk in between classes aligns with their walk in between classes. And after about 4 I still have various clubs and other things. And if either of us are studying, we won't answer because a call is associated with stopping what you're doing as opposed to quickly checking your phone.
/r/seduction22/09/12 06:12 PM
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Some bars have policies that you do and your certainly not going to get around that until you know the bartender/bouncer. Plus people wonder why your there. No one gets off a long day of work to sit in a bar for a glass of water. But you have drink in your hand then your just there to unwind like everyone else.
/r/seduction20/05/12 01:31 AM
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Yea. I made the mistake of buying a pitcher to sarge alone. I was having major anxiety for a good while but I finally opened to one girl and ended up talking to the couple she came out with the rest of the night. It was a lot of fun because it turned into just shooting the shit.
/r/seduction19/05/12 10:48 PM
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That's not really befriending the bartender. That's chatting them up and hoping they remember you next Friday. The subject of conversation seems to be making long term connections. In that case you're going to want to go when you're not 1 of 100 people they bartender saw that night. You want to be actual friends with the bartender, and if you only talk to the bartender when you need to order a drink, as opposed to sitting at the bar and talking to them while you eat a meal/watch a game, then you…
/r/seduction19/05/12 10:46 PM
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So I hear. I havent gotten to play with one yet.
/r/seduction11/05/12 11:54 AM
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I feel like that version would only have one space for one tip and it'd say get another phone.
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:19 AM
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What do you mean? your posting under it right now? Of course Idk how banning works. I appreciated your post.
/r/seduction08/05/12 01:06 PM
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I did ask them. Both BS responses. This post isn't about getting them back. This also isn't about just having two relationships. These were the first two I've gone into the mindset with I'm not going to get sucked into another relationship. My previous relationships have always been with the intent of getting into a monogamous situation. It's in the past it's always been like "Well yea, I shouldn't of done that. I can see why that didn't work out." Maybe I'll need some more time to figure these …
/r/seduction06/05/12 07:04 PM
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One of them was a grad student that made me an offer to go over to her house late one night after knowing her for a few weeks. She had explicitly stated she didn't want a relationship at all and we weren't going to stop each other from seeing other people.
/r/seduction06/05/12 05:17 PM
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Indeed it is sir.
/r/seduction06/05/12 05:10 PM
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I had one pull away as we were about to finish because she wanted me to put a condom on before it was too late. So now I do it so well girls forget I have a condom on. Plus if I figured if I was bad I wouldn't be invited back a couple of time on the hopes I might be getting better. It's the random stopping of the relationship that's throwing me off.
/r/seduction06/05/12 05:09 PM
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I meant that as in I have been treating them as competent people to be reasoned with. That was mostly ranting.
/r/seduction06/05/12 05:02 PM
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Guess I should of said they both stated they didn't want one either.
/r/seduction06/05/12 05:01 PM
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haha im with you all except for the ex-marine part because there's no such thing as an ex-marine and a marine is someone I will never fuck with.
/r/seduction06/05/12 04:59 PM
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Im definitely frustrated.
/r/seduction06/05/12 04:57 PM
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Definitely dont burn bridges. This I know.
/r/seduction06/05/12 04:57 PM
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I said that as in I have been treating them as mature people
/r/seduction06/05/12 04:56 PM
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Okay to add on pursuing hot women, obviously the "hard to get" mentality stems from showing self-validation and confidence. Is there ever a situation where "hard to get" is appropriate, or is just a misunderstanding that when you're an interesting, confident, person sometimes you don't have time for a girl?
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:21 AM
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Oh piss off. That's advice I've been given, practiced, and told works repeatedly.
/r/seduction22/04/12 05:45 PM
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Its not an act? If you are a well adjusted, fun guy you don't care. She needs to meet your standards first.Thats why its a mindset.
/r/seduction21/04/12 06:40 PM
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The Mindset: You should be to busy to text her. When you text her its because you have obviously carefully decided to take time out of your busy day to do so. You don't care what shes doing, you're fascinated in your own life and if she happens to tell you what she's doing, you might find it interesting. The Reasoning: The girl may be a 10 but forcing text isn't going to do shit. If she's also plain boring, then looks mean diddly squat. If she expects you to do the work in the conversation, the …
/r/seduction21/04/12 05:19 PM
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You're not by any chance noticeably better at the class than others are you?
/r/seduction20/04/12 06:50 AM
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Oh I meant "moving forward" as a replacement to "always close" as a better alternative because I agree.
/r/seduction11/04/12 05:23 PM
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Moving forward maybe?
/r/seduction11/04/12 04:15 AM
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Best response ever. I was worried by the title you would be using gay as a derogatory method against them but my suspicions were unfounded. I love how its the perfect transition into asking if he's her boyfriend without seeming it making it look like that's all you care about.
/r/seduction09/04/12 04:20 PM
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But how do you know what the majority really is? I hate the way he muddied such a good question with "in clubs" but I have the same question/experiences but I never go to clubs.
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:59 PM
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She definitely doesn't have any emotional or possibly daddy issues by saying I love you to someone who clearly never said they wanted to be in a monogamous relationship. You have no drama in your future.
/r/seduction04/04/12 06:40 AM
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