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But you want to believe different. You want him to make a move and believe you're special. The thing is, the honest truth... you're probably not. Probably. You don't know me, and I only know what I know from my experiences. He's probably not that special deep down either. I get infatuated with charm pretty easily. Their demonstration has always been automatic; their bodies. And they can't accept when thats indeed what he happens to be looking for, one body is just as good as the next. Could you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/14 10:56 PM
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the most real life advice i've gotten
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/14 10:45 PM
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Yeah. If I wasn't already intrigued by this dude I would've beat the shit out of him with my sandal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/14 10:42 PM
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Thanks! I always like your posts. In the moment the casual touching thing was really great, but a friend who saw the arm thing said the same thing and that she smelled bullshit. I'm not interested in quick sex with this type of dude for the exact reason that I have no clue whether or not he's a good person. And I personally prefer men who are more reserved and coy (as I'm really aggressive and blunt), but every now and then I get interested in the overtly confident type. I think I might make a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/14 10:36 PM
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Coming from someone with a forever-teenager face, when older dudes approach me it seems to be about power and a desire for innocence/fun. It's kinda unsettling. It's funny, whenever I approach men (like at a party or a bar) they actually are usually concerned about my age and that I'm "too young."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/14 03:49 AM
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Yeah everyone is manipulative, but it definitely comes off when a guy is trying too hard to work it. I'm at the point where I can read game and it feels very fake. Still, I have gone home with one dude where I felt the fakeness. It was not my favorite experience and it felt very disingenuous. I'm all about real chemistry, albeit much harder to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/14 01:29 AM
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What benefit would TRP have in telling people they are inadequate Getting them interested in their product. It's a sales technique. You create a need and then escalate desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/14 11:24 PM
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don't listen to a word women say, look at what they do I'm going to have to disagree with you on this point. I don't know anything about this woman, but I know there are a lot of people that I know (myself included) who have naturally flirtatious and sensuous personalities and will flirt with anything that moves just because they can. And it's fun, and it's just how we operate. There was a guy in my life (from about 13-now) who at one point I really liked and I wanted him to be my first, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 10:22 PM
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Yeah, I agree, and I've experienced it (and it resulted in the best relationship). Usually this Nice Guy type of "pursuit" is based purely on the woman's looks and rationalizing that is her best trait. For a lot of "gorgeous" girls we hear stuff about our looks all the time and it's obvious that you're not interested in us as a person, but as a decoration. Works for some girls, not for me. It means a lot more to me when a dude compliments me on my bizarre charisma, or my penmanship, or my loud a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 09:26 PM
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I know that. She found fulfillment in caring for her children. Unfortunately that's not as necessary as it was a few years ago. I realize this. It's a matter of figuring out exactly what I want in life right now. Eh, for my standards it is. In 21 years I've found a total of 1. Possibly 2. I bring a lot to the table, I expect the same or better. Tbh, it is incredibly hard to find women who you can trust. Girls regularly "shit test" each other - especially really pretty girls. It's tiresome at fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 07:07 PM
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I'm living a mix of mostly 1 and a little of 2. My mom, who I am very similar to personality-wise, took option 3 -- by accident (I'm a surprise baby, woohoo). She has dedicated herself completely to her children's (and husband's) happiness and well-being and worked throughout our childhood to provide. But now that we're grown (or nearly so), she often feels lost in defining who she is and creating her own happiness and she no longer finds her job fulfilling. She told me once that she suddenly re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 05:53 PM
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Yep yep yep. Dudes projecting their own fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 04:51 PM
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No one can have it all. It's like that info graphic they give to college freshmen: study/sleep/socialize. Choose two. For a lot of young women (and probably men too?) these are the choices you have: chasing after ambition, your education, your career, art, what-have-you, building your confidence from within but often too wrapped up in yourself to share it short-term and highly volatile emotional romances that do not bring long-term happiness - but often teach you more about yourself than staying…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 03:28 PM
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But both market themselves on telling you that you are inadequate. Not that you "need improvement", but something about you needs to change. That may be how I've been reading it, though. I agree that many aspects of TRP that encourage growth that should be taken as general advice pieces (such as taking risks, learning skills, focusing on yourself first before a potential partner) but some interpretations, especially the ones belittling to women and referencing to us as children, really rub me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 03:08 PM
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Absolutely, I think that the hyper-masculinity drive is warping perspectives of self-worth. While I always think it's important to remember that "The only common denominator in your failed relationships is 'YOU'" I don't think that the level of social analysis TRP is prescribing is necessarily healthy. Hell, reading women's magazines is not healthy, it's a ticket to constantly analyzing every pore on your face for imperfections. And IMO, there's no such thing of "how things were." The past is ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/14 01:41 AM
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That's because Nice Guys (and Girls) don't really exist. Do you mind if I ask in what ways they got nasty? For me, it was always guys getting very paranoid about my already existing guy/lesbian/lady bisexual friends, even though they've already been my friends since before this dude existed. The amount of attention I continued to receive from strangers was "concerning." Also, any professor I took a liking to (because I give off "bicurious" vibes... -_-) The idea is to be nice - but to make your …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 08:24 PM
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I can agree with all of them except being coy -- and those should apply to both genders. In my experience being coy gets you nowhere with dudes who are fun and confident, and if anything can make you seem insecure. Besides, it depends on the type of guy you're interested in. I like 'em tall, spunky, but a bit reserved and shy. Every guy who I've cared about has been drawn to my vivacious and at times fearless personality. If I'm trying to attract a guy who's a bit quiet by being coy I feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:56 PM
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Ha! Thanks. I think I might be ready for my first "adult" relationship when I get back to the states. Which is weird to think about since in the past guys always just found me, and now it's more of a matter of taking the initiative and being assertive. It's mental exercises like this that keep me on my toes when meeting dudes. It's good to be idealistic. I need to keep that in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:40 PM
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Ha, "female strategies" are smile, wink, wave, giggle, and choose your favorite. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:26 PM
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A lot of TRP creates unnecessary anger and anguish with the guys who post there. I remember reading a post that literally complained about young women who walk around with their sunglasses on and their headphones in like they're "too good to talk to anyone." No...that's actually because those women are tired of making eye contact with dudes who lick their lips at them. solipsism, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:25 PM
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They usually aren't shitty people until sometime after. Could be worse! Could've waited until marriage and THEN find out the dude's a jerk and the sex is bad! Plus it's always good to get your heart broken a few times. Somethingsomething you don't see the sunshine until you're in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:11 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 07:10 PM
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I think it depends on a woman's self-esteem and perceived self-worth that determines the "type" of guy a woman pursues (genuinely kind vs emotionally toxic). I wrote in another thread about how manipulative guys will literally make you think that they are your best option. I know for a fact that there was a year (17-18) where I went out with two manipulative low-value dudes in a row because my self-esteem had been crushed by one and then crushed by the other thinking that it was as good as it go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/14 09:57 AM
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The assumption that people who seem confident have a healthy sense of internal self-worth strikes me as false. I have known many confident people that had very low self-esteem. Unfortunately this is very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 06:08 PM
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But how do people find out the count at all, without telling? They get insecure and ask. Especially when a guy tries to ask/tell before sex, that's how you know they're emotionally insecure. Really I like your mindset, it really is none of anyone's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 05:03 PM
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But in a culture where her value decreases substantially for every additional man she is with Really? What about for a woman who doesn't place her personal value on her number of sexual partners? Or for a woman who really values a healthy sex life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 04:58 PM
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I don't recall my post reading that way and I'll try to clarify if that's how you interpreted it. This is the type of guy who does not handle rejection well, really not at all, and will continue to pedestalize and pursue the woman (not treat her as a regular human) while simultaneously guilt-tripping her for not choosing him. It's a psychological trip after the interaction is finally over and you can look it over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 04:25 PM
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This is mostly directed at "Nice Guys" who are physically (often very) unattractive and shoot almost exclusively and obsessively for women who are out of their league. Actually kind men who go for girls who are "on their level" are the best ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 04:08 PM
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women with very unicorn like traits who end up with the Nice Guy, tend to have in fact very low self-esteem for whatever reason Nice Guys are long-term emotionally manipulative and appeal to the woman "leading him on" BS so she feels obliged to his requests. They often try to promise how "different" they are from other guys while they can always get more confrontational, paranoid, and jealous of the attention the (usually very beautiful) woman gets. Because...they don't understand how on earth a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/14 04:01 PM
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When I am pursued by older men (I'm 21 and I consider anyone over 5 years "older" because I look young), it is almost exclusively a chase after youth/girlish charm. Especially because as a woman you literally get sexual attention from men (sometimes much MUCH older than you) as soon as you hit puberty. It's as if the age difference is to secure a certain power structure. I get GridReXX, for a lot of my lady friends who are in a similar lifestyle as me (nearly college grad, looking to be financia…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 11:55 PM
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That dude? He's Brazilian, haha. They're literally on a completely different planet when it comes to sexual confidence and it's built into the culture here. I had a friend tell me before I moved to get ready for "the best game in the world." And it's true, they have it, but this guy didn't use any game. He was just hella fine and had a super calm, collected demeanor. He did get kind of weird in in-between sex conversation though, hahaha -- but also very honest and sincere when saying goodnight. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 10:30 PM
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Yeah, the reason why I described him as "natural alpha" is because this guy is built like a rugby player (played as a kid), does Jiu-jitsu, sexually aggressive (hair pulling/spanking without asking - which I like, but c'mon, ask), and had a scar on his back, the story of which he attributed to "Me when I was a teenager, on a skateboard, tied to a friend biking downhill in a town near Sydney." We're both 21. Any dude with that much intense testosterone as a kid/teenager is a natural alpha as far …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 08:09 PM
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I know for some of my friends who like to keep a list of boys they can get on call, it's about power or surrender. It's about orgasming. For one it's because she likes to get railed when she's drunk. For another she likes the company of a man, and while she likes the sex, she likes cooking and tending to him just as much. For another she loves the euphoria of overwhelming sexual physicality. A lot of them are looking to live for the experience. All of them are trying to avoid the emotion and pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 06:37 PM
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I consider any guy who does not immediately put on a condom no-questions-asked to be throwing a fit. So, I can give you a basic transcription of the conversations that night. Maybe he's not RP, but definitely the same type of manipulative narcissist personality type that I can't stand. Condom Me: Whoa, whoa whoa. I don't do sex without a condom. Him: Really? What kind of diseases do you have? Me: The fuck? None - unless I catch one from you. I don't know you like that. Unless you got papers from…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 03:25 PM
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In my experience, the best men and the most healthy interactions are when either party shows interest and their intention and waits for the other party to be receptive. I only shoot down guys who are out of my league (not my equal) in any way - looks, academics, financial ability (I've made a lot more than the average 21 y/o). When I was a teenager I would prefer guys based on their personalities - guys who were incredibly "nice" to me, we had shit in common, etc. But, as I came to learn guys wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 11:22 AM
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How did you feel about this then I guess? I'm getting mixed feelings about how you felt about that to begin with. That's why I'm a little confused with this. So: point blank. This dude had me ride on the front bar of his bike as we weaved in and out of traffic in one of the most insane cities in the world. It was a range of emotions. I felt terrified, excited, out-of-control, protected. I don't really like feeling out of control, but at the same time it was like this fear of uncertainty and inna…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 11:09 AM
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Guy made me feel feminine with the adventure and rush of the route back to his place and the complete command he had over me physically. Guy made me feel disrespected and degraded when he threw a fit about putting on a condom and assumed I'd blow him/be into anal after I had been put into enough physical pain to the point where I was no longer horny. And, yes, I do vocally communicate my desires in the bedroom. Try being a pretty 21 year old woman sometime. Sure, you get free shit and people wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 02:32 AM
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I felt seduced in that I lost control and that I was submitting to this man. I'm a petite woman, but I normally feel very strong and powerful with a good man. I felt tiny, weak, and possibly more "feminine" with this guy. Understandably, I probably give mixed signals because I physically look very feminine but personality-wise I've been described as "androgynous." He didn't use any lines, just confidence with his actions. This is the type of dude who's been hyper masculine and getting regular fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 12:58 AM
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Haha, how does my story make you feel hopeful? I felt really played and I'm still figuring out my feelings through it (it's been a little over a month and a half). I stumbled across TRP about a year ago but recently started reading it when I began to "date"/socialize again (a few months ago - and with a new circle) to remind myself what kind of behavior to avoid and what goes through the minds of guys like this. I've gotten a lot better at trusting my gut, but this was a definite slip of judgeme…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/14 12:31 AM
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Yes, well...kinda. The "natural alpha" type. Big burly (waaaay buffer than any dude I've been with) blonde hair-blue eyed Australian. My first hook-up outside of a relationship and my first of two one-night stands. ALSO the first and only time I've felt "seduced." I probably could've told you the guy was trouble if there hadn't been alcohol involved - but he had the same face as my ex and very easily adjusted his behavior to mine (I'm a giggly lush, he accommodated with boyish charm). He made th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/14 11:32 PM
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