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| 2 | This sub makes no sense considering were all from different countries and different culturesIf you don’t want sex with him, why not leave him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | This sub makes no sense considering were all from different countries and different culturesCan say the same thing about a man cheating because his wife stops having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."Macdonald’s offering $12 instead of $11 doesn’t mean anything lmao. Both are exploitive regardless and once you’re hired they will abuse you and slowly take away your benefits I’m in a traditionally “prestigious” job that’s extremely selective (I make 400k+). There are relatively few people that do my job in the country but I still have to deal with corporate bs because that’s how it works. Every year my benefits, etc get reduced. Really every job is replaceable unless you are your own boss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."All women responsibilities can also be outsourced. And it’s often women saying they want a partner to protect them. And it’s often women choosing to spend money on makeup, expensive clothes, etc. Most men prefer minimal makeup. You’re revealing yourself to be someone who wants unequal responsibility in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 27 | Do you think there is too much discussion and that people make a simple thing complicated?Definitely. There’s an air of “men should be happy with what they get.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."Would the man still be expected to be masculine and masculine presenting or to physically protect her? And would women help with traditionally masculine home responsibilities such as fixing appliances or car maintenance? Would he be allowed to cry and breakdown in front of her repeatedly and be unambitious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."I mean they are high status physically fit men. Also you know they just mass message people on insta, right? Like they just discover posts near them and then message hot college girls. That’s how my friends were found despite only having 1-2k followers. And they don’t have to wine and dine because due to their status and mass messaging strategy, they will get plenty of biters. Women love bragging about having slept with someone important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."This is like employer-employee. Offer and demand. When there are more people looking for a job than jobs, they have to accept less favourable conditions. Employers have to make better working conditions when there is plenty of jobs available for people. Lmao you’re in your early 20s so it’s understandable your out of touch with the corporate world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:32 PM |
| 0 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."If you expect others to pay for you, that’s gold digging regardless of how much you earn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."It’s the same logic red pill say about beta bucks. Women post 30 will marry men they aren’t attracted to just because he seems stable and can support them after they’re done having fun with hotter men in their younger years. These are the men who have to wait to have sex and invest a lot of money. And the sex will likely stop after marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."Actually this is a great point. And just in her own life it doesn’t make sense. The men she is trying to date will earn many times what she does, making their time literally more valuable than hers. If anything she should be the one that looks good to make it worthwhile for the guy to show up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."Absolutely not true. My friends in college and postgrad hooked up with professional athletes and it was just them going over to the guys place to bang and then going home. And they would get messaged from insta lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Blog: "Women Don't Pay For Dates."So women who can’t give birth/are infertile should pay 50/50, correct? And should pay 50/50 with men who don’t want kids? And curious, how much say do you believe men have over that baby since they are in part funding it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle because they don't know the difference between attractive and sexually attractiveI’ve talked to her in another thread. She doesn’t believe in anything else except her own personal experiences and will think you’re dumb/insecure/etc if you don’t agree with those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?Ok, well I’m telling you what happens in most cases in real life. Most women hate sharing their money with men. It’s why you see them adamantly refuse to pay the bill, much less pay for the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?Because women hate feeling like their the ones providing for their partner and their partner is mooching off of them. There’s literally women here with good jobs that would refuse to date any man who asks to split the bill on a date. And the divorce rate for women in relationships where they earn more is extremely high and usually initiated by the woman and usually over finances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?Ok well, you’re an anomaly. Most women regardless of how much they earn, expect the man to pay. We’ve had multiple discussions on this topic on this sub and most women here want the man to pay regardless of how much they make. It’s also shown true consistently on any research/surveys done on the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?This whole thread is generalizing. You were literally generalizing in your own post. Anyway I’m in the 1% of wage earners and there are a lot of women in my field. And it’s a pretty common sentiment. And you see it in this sub too. Many women here have jobs but just go to any of the paying for dates thread they will be extremely resistant to spending any money besides the minimum. It’s why it’s hilarious when women say they’re not gold diggers because they have a job but still expect a man to pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?Women don’t believe in sharing their wealth with their partner that’s why. So it doesn’t matter if she makes 50k or 500k, the man will not see any of it and still be paying for most things since women see the mans money as “their” money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 12:46 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?A woman making more would never agree to this. And if she ever did, there would be huge resentment eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?Women don’t believe in sharing their wealth with their partner that’s why. So it doesn’t matter if she makes 50k or 500k, the man will not see any of it and still be paying for most things since women see the mans money as “their” money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 12:32 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] If you don’t want women to have careers/work, what do you expect them to do to obtain money, resources, and meet their needs?Women don’t believe in sharing their wealth with their partner that’s why. So it doesn’t matter if she makes 50k or 500k, the man will not see any of it and still be paying for most things since women see the mans money as “their” money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Hot story in UK: "Instagram makes teenage girls feel bad about themselves." My take is Instagram simulates for teen girls what actually happens to men in the real world.Yup. The most attractive physical features on a man are things that are genetically determined and difficult to change especially the biggest one: height. I think part of this is on perhaps because it allows women to objectively rank men and create status. If any man was a let to buy his way into attractiveness (like women are able to do) it wouldn’t be as high status. There should be a post about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/21 06:59 AM |
| 2 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?Dude I know a doctor who does those surgeries. Crazy. It’s almost all men getting them done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 10:05 PM |
| – | Does Environment (Cultural, Social) Play a Part In A Man's Ability To Get Laid?It’s specifically only white men and maybe sometimes black men this happens for. Asian men are not getting the same treatment even if they go someplace they are rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)No duh? No one is arguing against what you’re saying. Literally most people agree women settle for prover men once they are done sleeping around with the men they actually find physically attractive. Yes the provider men make better long term partners and the hot men usually won’t commit anyway except to other women near their league. Most women as they get to their 30s drop their height requirements but now their salary requirements go up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveStill a shit take. It’s like alt righters who base everything about minorities off of their own biased experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveI live in SoCal. And going out to bars/parties/etc is super common here the whole year. Maybe if you live in like Minnesota or something. And really only women can filter in OLD. If you’re an average guy and getting 5 matches per year swiping liberally, filtering more isn’t going to help you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed?Women will hook up with men above their looksmatch but end up in relationships with their same looksmatch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveNo it’s really not and a couple reasons show why: it’s still the most attractive guys that are getting the action so the substances don’t impair who women find attractive the women already find these men attractive, the alcohol just gives confidence and plausible deniability. Women will go out on a night with the intention to hook up with a specific guy subsequent hookups don’t require alcohol. Often the women will just go to the guys place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveThe subset of society that partied/uses online dating? So like most of society that doesn’t spend their whole time inside? Especially in their 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveI’m tired of this take. Most men are equally into diverse women. There are men into older women, fatter women, built women, tatted women, etc. Just like how you recognize there are women that seem to attract a large percentage of men, we also recognize there are men who attract a large percentage of women. If anything studies show more women are attracted to similar traits than men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveCavill is a universally attractive guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveAt that point you can say the same for men to. There are a bunch of men into the bbw type. The reality is there are men who are attractive to the majority of women. You can look at male models Instagram pages and see plenty of women thirsting over them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 05:58 PM |
| 6 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractivethere’s a reason the men cast to play the “fantasy man” in movies/shows like twilight, 50 shades, 365 days, etc. all have a similar archetype. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveIt’s obvious he’s talking about generalities lmao. And yes most women will sleep with you at the initial meeting if they think you are hot enough. This is the experience of upper tier of attractive men who easily have ONS from women from bars, clubs, parties, dating apps, etc. These are the men you see women complaining about who have too many options and won’t commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveBecause it’s not true. It’s obvious there are men who are considered universally attractive or else they wouldn’t have so many thirsty female fans. Just because you’re more into Henry Cavill but your friend is more into Michael B Jordan doesn’t mean the base traits you’re looking for are any different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Yes, I’m sure. It’s something you frequently see play out in real life. The guy with little dating experience putting his wife who gave him a “chance” on a pedestal. These marriages last 5-10 years until the wife can’t keep up the charade of being into the husband anymore. If the single mother is good looking she’ll be fine in finding a partner. Milfs are literally something a lot of men are into. If she appears to be lazy and a leech then yes you are correct. But fit single mothers do fine on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.stacked against Indian guys (it isn’t, a hot Indian dude is a hot fuckin dude). It takes a lot more to be a hot Indian/Asian dude then it takes to be a hot white dude. Benedict Cumberbatch and Adam Driver are considered hot. This would never happen if they weren’t white. And the top 20% is always relative. So for example if every guy started working out, eating well, dressing well, and had good grooming habits then it would still be the top 20% of those men. And like 70-80% of men are currently … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 11:23 AM |
| 4 | Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you.Honestly no. That’s a privilege only mostly women have. For example the 5’7” guy with a good job who couldn’t get any matches on dating apps and went dateless for most of his 30s marries the woman who likely had an active dating life and now is trying to find someone to take care of her children/family? Like let’s be real the guy will look at her like the best thing ever but the woman will just accept him for the purpose she needs him for. That’s the reason there’s so many divorces. A lot of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 10:56 AM |
| 4 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.I don’t see any women complaining that a man would treat Margot Robbie different than he would treat an average women There are subreddits filled with women doing this. Not to mention the fat acceptance movement and all the woke women on Twitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Crux of young men’s anger towards dating market and women comes from different prices of admissions for sex for different men and the disinformation women put out about what they are attracted to.It also seems like you're trying to attract women who aren't your own ethnicity? This is a dumb argument and goes against what you are saying. Especially since this “advice” is never given to women. Black people only make up like 15% of the population. And in some areas significantly less. Asians only make up 5% of the population. Indians only 1%. If these men are not also able to attract whites women they will likely end up single for life especially since most minority women are dating out any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 07:06 PM |
| -1 | Women don’t react to static images of men the way men react to static images of women. This plays a role in why OLD sucks for many men.Plenty of women on ladyboners are attracted to static images of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t react to static images of men the way men react to static images of women. This plays a role in why OLD sucks for many men.For some people it really is easier making a lot of money than getting a date. I work in healthcare. Many of my colleagues will be in the top 1-2% of earners within a few years now. Many of them struggle to get dates and OLD especially is a wash. I will add the caveat that most of these men are minority men. Also I know guys in tech that are in a similar situation. Earning 120k+ by 22 but have never had a gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.120 pounds at 5'4" is literally a healthy BMI for any women without significant musclemass. If you looked back a few decades this was common. Even if you look at other countries with lower rates of obesity this is common. Again, you are falling for the new normal of being overweight/borderline obese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 11:46 PM |
| 0 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?With this argument you can basically ignore every societal issue. It’s the “racism isn’t real because Obama became president” equivalent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 08:58 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men?Women definitely use “this is why nobody wants to fuck/date you” as an insult directed specifically at men. Especially online. I see it on Twitter and reddit often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 08:35 AM |
| 5 | Will obesity collapse the dating market? - in the year 2030, 60% of American women will be obese.Most women are overweight. It’s just that standards have changed so drastically that overweight women are considered normal now. The women you consider slim are probably closer to the overweight side or normal at best. Finding a 5’4” woman who weighs 115-120 pounds is basically impossible after college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Having strong negative opinions of the opposite sex is a huge turn-off and red flag.The most popular men on college campuses are athletes and frat guys. Now these guys don’t have the self deprecating mentality that incels do, but many of them are definitely misogynistic and have little respect for women besides as things to fuck. College football players I knew were especially red pilled as fuck and this was independently of redpill forums. And yet they got plenty of women to sleep with them/date them. I mean these dudes are sharing girls, running trains, calling them sluts, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Having strong negative opinions of the opposite sex is a huge turn-off and red flag.The most popular men on college campuses are athletes and frat guys. Now these guys don’t have the self deprecating mentality that incels do, but many of them are definitely misogynistic and have little respect for women besides as things to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 07:57 AM |
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