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cultural appropriation
/r/MensRights09/03/21 08:25 PM
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scientifically that's just not how it works. The reason why you black out is because you're not able to create short term memories. I totally think its reasonable for both men and women to be a little cautious when alcohol is involved. I don't see what the big deal is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/21 07:50 PM
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as someone unfortunately familiar with being black out drunk, just a tip, they seem completely normal most of the time but have ZERO short-term memory. So if someone keeps repeating themselves and can't remember what they said 5 minutes ago. Definitely don't sleep with them and they make sure they're safe (for both men and women) I had a girl record me saying stuff when i was blackout drunk... nice girl!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/21 01:21 AM
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not just running them over, that could be an honest accident, but then leaving them to die when they could have helped and saved them
/r/MensRights05/03/21 03:46 PM
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as someone who has been to jail, I'd rather go to jail for 1/4 of the time than be under house arrest for longer. It really is better to just get it over with
/r/MensRights05/03/21 03:45 PM
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None of it really made sense to me. Knowing the US justice system I kept wondering why the terms were so low for both men and women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 04:26 PM
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men in society are told it’s not acceptable to cry or be “soft” despite the fact that women prefer men who show feelings not important but as a 37 year old who has been in a lot of relationships, I STRONGLY disagree with this statement (sadly, I just think its a matter of biology, women like strong men) More importantly, however, is that you make fair points for more serious crimes. Men probably don't get help before they "snap" and men are more likely to be homeless and drug-addicted which puts…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 01:21 AM
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so men are just inherently more likely to commit crime?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/21 12:00 AM
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One of them I couldn't read. But the first, albeit surprising, was for a very specific crime. Worth knowing and thank you for sharing. The third has nothing to do with the conversation because its about infractions in prison. I'd still rather be in a female prison where people don't make jokes about being raped. I'm going to let your attitude go, but you sound like an idiot when you talk like that. I know you're just a kid but you need to learn how to talk to people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/21 11:58 PM
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And men are convicted more because the commit more crimes thats the same excuse they use for visible minorities. I hope you realize that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/21 11:42 PM
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dude how can you say that women are treated harsher in our justice system. Women have always been treated humanely, like someone who made a mistake. It's MEN both in our judicial system and in society that have to take responsibility for their actions. I've lived this. You're a liar
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/21 11:40 PM
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you were presented with evidence of how conservatives treat men and you just dismissed it. Then you grouped all leftists together as if we're all about toxic masculinity and manspreading.
/r/MensRights21/02/21 10:38 PM
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kind of like you just did
/r/MensRights21/02/21 10:31 PM
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so you're conservative then
/r/MensRights21/02/21 10:19 PM
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oh please, now you're being silly
/r/MensRights21/02/21 09:37 PM
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I just want to point out that this story is from TYT for the people here who think everyone on the left is anti-male, we're not!
/r/MensRights21/02/21 09:34 PM
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as someone who has had a serious interest in suicide, both personally and intellectually; it is partially true that the media won't report on suicides or do it very seldomly. I've always thought of it as final silencing in a life that was likely silenced too often. But I agree if a rape victim lost her case by some technicality, and she killed herself, it would be reported.
/r/MensRights19/02/21 06:16 PM
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I don't see this at all
/r/MensRights18/02/21 01:36 AM
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I was fired and treated like a villain. My labour board protected me though and eventually because I caused a shit storm, SOME of the people were fired
/r/MensRights18/02/21 01:35 AM
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this is really stupid and anyone who buys this nonsense really needs to get laid
/r/MensRights18/02/21 01:19 AM
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I come at defending men from a leftist position. So I don't deny the obstacles women face, I simply open it up to the issues men face. For example, I'd bring up the prison population, and say we talk about how minorities are overrepresented in prison but there's a huge discrepancy between men and women's sentencing. Men also make up most of the homeless population etc. Then for example, when they bring up the wage gap, I don't resist it, I lean in. I say yes, there is a wage gap but why? Female …
/r/MensRights11/02/21 10:17 PM
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exactly! I've been on sick leave after being sexually harassed at work (they were talking about my testicles and penis) and god knows what else. And yet somehow I'M the one who feels ashamed and I'm the one that got arrested when I "sent too many emails" because no one was taking my harassment seriously. Guy without a penis is some kind of joke to these twisted assholes. Anything penis related. No one even cares. I can't even imagine how this guy feels. I wouldn't have survived. And if I'm ever …
/r/MensRights15/08/19 10:46 PM
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omg go fuck yourself
/r/MensRights15/08/19 10:41 PM
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its only an oversimplification when its men... the 8% wage gap is obviously because of sexism and sexism alone, not an oversimplification
/r/FeminismStopsWhen15/08/19 10:10 PM
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its power, but when women are in power, no one gives a shit. They even come to down vote me every chance they get. I think I'm going to repost my blog naming them these cunts
/r/MensRights15/08/19 10:05 PM
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What a glaring double standard
/r/MensRights13/08/19 02:51 PM
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I think he's better looking than she is!
/r/MensRights12/08/19 01:38 PM
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Hmm but I wouldnt include inheritance cause I'm better a lot of the males inherited as well
/r/MensRights06/08/19 09:38 PM
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Is there an article? What event is this and when?
/r/MensRights03/08/19 12:55 PM
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As if men don't cheat for the same reasons. At least for the rest of the night ive decided to hate all bitches. I'll be back to normal at some point in the next few days. Fucking. Crazy. Selfish. Bitches
/r/MensRights01/08/19 02:39 AM
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Amen! I hear you brother
/r/MensRights29/07/19 08:09 PM
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Whatever they are just clothes but what bothers me is that if a man did that he'd be ridiculed at least, maybe even arrested. A girl does it and its just funny. Fucking bs
/r/MensRights29/07/19 08:09 PM
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The dangerous thing about this is that it makes retracting your story less likely. I say throw the book at liars if you catch then but maybe some kindness if they chose to tell the truth in the end. I'm just thinking about future false allegations
/r/MensRights28/07/19 11:14 PM
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Ah come on this is perfectly fine and it would be in the reverse too. They publicly posted it. Unless its a pic sent to someone in private with the person's permission (fooling around with your SO) then its game to use Edit: they were sent to her in private but she asked permission. I think its fun and cool that she painted a bunch of cocks lol Where i to thing the reverse would not be okay is if i was doing an art project like this, no woman would believe me. But at the same same time there are…
/r/MensRights28/07/19 04:52 PM
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1- carry a charger or battery so stuff like this doesn't happen 2- that guy was SO nice 3- notice the racism about going back to his own country 4- Why is the driver side on the wrong side???? 5- some bitches be crazy
/r/MensRights25/07/19 09:35 PM
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But post the article. I don't know why ppl dont post the article. It makes me think you're hiding something
/r/MensRights25/07/19 06:28 PM
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I was saying about that disgusting jerk, jeffrey epstein, that while it was clearly rape and disgusting, i have trouble calling it pedophilia. Its just a different thing This is not only rape, its pedophilia
/r/MensRights25/07/19 06:28 PM
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But thats the issue. I'm very pro-choice but I'm sympathetic to pro-lifers to some extent. The real issue is that you get health insurance from your employer in the first place You're looking at it from the perspective of the employer saying why should I pay for something i completely oppose I'm looking at it from, this is a health issue and it should be covered. Once, hopefully, you get M4A this will no longer be an issue
/r/MensRights24/07/19 08:02 PM
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Omg! So good!
/r/MensRights24/07/19 07:13 PM
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Thank you! I feel like I'd rather talk to people i disagree with anyway and find the right balance
/r/MensRights24/07/19 06:31 PM
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This is so crazy
/r/MensRights24/07/19 06:29 PM
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Yes i understand that. Sorry that i phrased in a way that could viewed otherwise. But for me, i still think women should have free access to abortion. In an case I'm Canadian and i think there is a lot wrong with health care system. Once you make employers in charge of that, it makes it weird
/r/MensRights24/07/19 06:10 PM
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I agree that many if the online "feminists" can be like this. The people who called me an incel a couple of days ago. Many of those girls seemed to be asking for money using some exchange app I'm not familiar with. I felt a lot better about their insults after i noticed; "okay these aren't my ppl"
/r/MensRights24/07/19 06:08 PM
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Amen! Agree completely with this. We are completely sidelined and ignored
/r/MensRights24/07/19 05:10 PM
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Thank you! Intellectual and academic thought requires critical debate. If i agree with 90% of feminism and menslib than even more reason to take my complaints seriously. I might have some fair points. Oh well
/r/MensRights24/07/19 05:08 PM
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yes, its clear we disagree but that's okay, brother. Maybe we can learn from eachother. As a leftist, I do agree that sometimes we get caught up in the bigger structures and forget about individual choices. But when we're looking at macro phenomena, I just have to think that there is a reason certain people seem to decide in similar ways. I studied Sociology, and the person often thought of as the father of Sociology is Emile Durkheim. He studied suicide to try to show that even in this most per…
/r/MensRights24/07/19 04:09 PM
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I agree about it being okay to smear men. It bs. And if we're all rapists than maybe we shouldn't criminalize half the population!! How's that for a response!? Lol Here's where i disagree with you and why its cause I'm a leftist: Hobby Lobby is about abortion. Its more in principle, i see your point, but access to birth control and abortion is about access to health care. And i support that 100% I don't believe the wage gap had been debunked. Firstly its proposed in an asinine way to make it loo…
/r/MensRights24/07/19 03:46 PM
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Fuck you're right. The women just outright ignore you and call you an incel lol
/r/MensRights24/07/19 03:37 PM
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I mean in terms if anger at women. We're all human. I don't fault the girl whose boyfriend just cheated on her for hating all men for a little while. We're allowed to be emotional too and that includes men I do agree that there are many feminists who have made men's issue something you cannot acknowledge and do not allow for the slightest criticism, even when i mostly agree. I'm not familiar with that case. I just mean that I'm pro-choice, i acknowledge the wage gap (although with far more nuanc…
/r/MensRights24/07/19 03:21 PM
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The problem i have with this reddit (respextfully) is that I'm a leftist. I believe that gender structures play a role in our lives for both men and women in privileged and unfair ways. I find that most of the people here, even the thoughtful reasonable ones, have a more libertarian perspective. And then of course there are those who just seem to hate women sadly. I want to agree with most feminsts when it cones to what they think about women's issues but also argue for men's rights. I want men …
/r/MensRights24/07/19 02:47 PM
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Yes exactly. You're right on that 100%. Lol i told them they didn't need to respond to me anymore if they wouldnt allow me to post. They responded and then banned me lol... what is about human nature that always wants the last word?
/r/MensRights24/07/19 02:22 PM
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Fucking a, good attutude
/r/MensRights24/07/19 02:12 PM
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Well tbh sometimes I feel the same about this place. But at least you let me post! Credit where credit is due!
/r/MensRights24/07/19 02:05 PM
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Even through mod mail, i get the sense im talking to women. No matter what I talk about even if I slightly critique feminism, boom, you're done. Like that's not intellectual discussion. I studied sociology, all we did was sit around and respectfully critical of one another. Menslib seems to want to not have that discussion at all. Fuck that. I want no part of them noe that I know
/r/MensRights24/07/19 01:44 PM
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Given the post i wrote (which included a critique of HERE!). Honestly, I think you might be right. There is no place for me it seems when it comes to gender
/r/MensRights24/07/19 01:19 PM
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I'm always weary of just believing the victim, certainly in terms of a trial. But i think the police often fail rape victims. Rape kits not even tested etc. Its ridiculous
/r/MensRights23/07/19 07:33 PM
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Oh no i disagree. If this was swapped the guy would have been laughed at. She may truly be a victim here but in the reverse there's no way the guy gets treated as a victim. No way
/r/MensRights23/07/19 05:36 PM
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Especially in this case. When the guy is rich and famous, you're going to get some false accusations. And its not like i got any love for Ronaldo or any rich and famous. I think false accusations happen for money and when the guy was basically an asshole (but not criminal). You guys have any other reasons?
/r/MensRights23/07/19 05:11 PM
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Thank you for posting link. It annoys me as well. Still how did the husband "not allow her" its not exactly clear in the story. Genders reversed I think the judge would laugh at such a defense
/r/MensRights23/07/19 05:09 PM
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And publicly reviled until the end of time as pure evil
/r/MensRights23/07/19 05:05 PM
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Also. All the guys talking to her were black and brown. But still. Like I'm not a hot guy and i would not date that girl. Crazy that this many men wanted her
/r/MensRights20/07/19 04:38 PM
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I was really shocked by that video though. For one most of the guys just said hello, like fucking deal with it. But the girl was just an average girl, i juts find it hard to believe that many men are so drsperate
/r/MensRights20/07/19 04:34 PM
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I'm sorry, I'm going through some shit caused by my former employer, still on sick leave after being sexually harassed and then blamed for it Next time record them!
/r/MensRights20/07/19 02:13 PM
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im seeing a shrink but every day is a struggle. For the first time in my life my suicidal thoughts are becoming almost homicidal. I hate them so much. Thank you for your kindness. I'll keep trying
/r/MensRights19/07/19 07:48 PM
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this is going to sound disgusting but I'm so angry, that I don't even care if they are raped anymore. I don't care. These cunts get away with way too much and im facing my own mortality. I have the right to tell the truth, let them get raped
/r/MensRights19/07/19 07:40 PM
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Exactly! They're keeping all the good guys away
/r/MensRights19/07/19 07:08 PM
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I am but its so hard when they continue to do this to me. Even my physical health is now seriously deteriorating. They're monsters and they get to go on with their lives and smile and meet new people and I'm the one who has to hide and be alone and have no joy. That's what they did to me and they just get away with it. I can't, I just can't
/r/MensRights19/07/19 06:41 PM
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Thank you. I'm trying but not sure I can get there. They even tell they are happy I'm suicidal. Its all too much. Humiliated, criminalized, treated like I'm a liar. One day at a time for now
/r/MensRights18/07/19 09:30 PM
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I'm a near expert on suicide (seriously). And people just dont care. There is some sympathy for women but men get nothing. Mental health issues are a joke when its men. Something to laugh at. Man up! is what we get. I'm near suicide myself, and I promise if I go, I will go away with some noise (not hurting anyone else of course... at least not physically, but maybe shaming some people).
/r/MensRights18/07/19 08:31 PM
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fuck, i would have never thought of it this way but its true
/r/MensRights18/07/19 08:28 PM
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didn't sound like it, but thank you. I'm going to provide more details soon
/r/MensRights18/07/19 08:27 PM
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My updated blog will be ready with nearly EVERYTHING (and everyone) shortly. Thank you for dismissing my sexual harassment and for thinking its okay to criminalize mental health issues
/r/MensRights18/07/19 08:21 PM
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how did you even find this post? You have no history here, suddenly you're here to write "oof"
/r/MensRights18/07/19 08:18 PM
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I'm quite certain this poster is one of many "followers" I have from the company. They continue to do everything they can to destroy my life
/r/MensRights18/07/19 04:22 PM
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I didn't even hit on her. I admit it might be possible as i was very intoxicated but i distinctly remember rejecting ber advances on basis of her weight. I was pissed about the comments, they hurt.
/r/MensRights18/07/19 03:36 PM
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If you're going to post a picture of an article, you should include the link
/r/MensRights18/07/19 02:06 PM
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This is bullshit. Its not the same thing. Winners of world cups get paid. Of course men are going to make more BUT what the US women's soccer team is saying is that they bring in more money to the association than the men do. You're talking about 2 different thing. Bull!
/r/MensRights13/07/19 07:44 PM
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I don't know, domestic violence is usually male to female so I wouldn't fault anyone for starting there but, yeah, they've certainly resisted change to include men as victims. That's the truly disgusting part
/r/MensRights13/07/19 12:37 AM
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its weird too, because I would expect this type of talk from really wonky types of feminists
/r/MensRights13/07/19 12:33 AM
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I understand what you are saying. I thought that he had a point so I chose to make the edit. I did not do my research on definitions and etc. because I thought that sexual assault was too severe of a description for what happened. That is all. I didn’t feel like I was “assaulted”, only “harassed” . Now, I totally see people feeling different ways about this but I myself chose to edit it to fit what I thought at the time was correct. I chose what I felt was right to the situation and to me. So th…
/r/MensRights13/07/19 12:32 AM
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oh now you're calling ppl incels, i can't wait for your response. I won't be responding, i know who you are
/r/MensRights12/07/19 10:19 PM
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yes, i know how laws are written. God forbid anyone ever charges you with a crime, you'll soon learn how easy it is to break the law. Its not because he's a guy that im saying it, but okay, if you want a girl who had some idiot slap her ass at night club say she was sexually assaulted and have it added to the sexually assaulted statistics, then you go ahead. I don't think the OP had his life ruined by the event and neither did my hypothetical girl. At least in layman's parlance sexual assault me…
/r/MensRights12/07/19 10:06 PM
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cheers!
/r/MensRights12/07/19 07:42 PM
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Yes. I agree with everything. Except as you said, you were harassed not assaulted. I laugh when women call stuff like this assault and I'm going to laugh when you do it
/r/MensRights12/07/19 06:27 PM
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But when the law is applied equally we get closer to a proper balance. Frankly, i think she deserved a fine or something but its still a step in the right direction because when women have to feel the consequences then it changes Look at drugs. Now that a bunch of white people are on heroine, there are bunch of politicians saying they want to end the drug war
/r/MensRights11/07/19 06:36 PM
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Its sad that so many of you upvoted this and nome of you, especially the dum dum OP bothered to look at the facts. The video is also about the Australian team https://www.vox.com/2019/7/10/20686692/us-womens-soccer-team-parade-equal-pay This is what allows feminists to say that you're just sexist... you clearly are!
/r/MensRights11/07/19 03:12 PM
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Lol fuck off
/r/MensRights11/07/19 03:08 PM
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Yeah but the women's soccer team actually brings in more money than the men. This is what I hate about discourse these days. We assume too much. The women should be making MORE than the men because not only do they win more, they bring in more money!
/r/MensRights11/07/19 02:58 PM
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I read the article thinking this was much ado about nothing. But its really incredible how if they said the things they said about men in this article, about women... it would be a disaster. Add to that, that men are clearly making the better decision (for whatever reason) and them being demonized for it. Fuck. This. Shit.
/r/MensRights10/07/19 02:08 PM
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Lol okay but this is a joke. I say it to gay men sometimes. No one makes a fuss
/r/MensRights24/06/19 04:17 PM
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I actually do this for men and women. It can be scary when someone is walking quickly behind you Nonetheless change man with Black man and see if its still okay. Cunt
/r/MensRights24/06/19 02:07 PM
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I don't know when life begins. I think after birth seems stupid and so does at conception. I think you can have a debate over what life is never mind where its starts. And so therefore, I think it should be left to the individual to decide. I don't think I would ever advocate for abortion if I got my gf pregnant. But that's MY choice and while its in her body, its HER choice.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 11:04 PM
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But i already said that men should have the right to choose too. That's the only way to make it equal
/r/MensRights17/06/19 09:45 PM
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What difference does it make the more women are prolife? You're the one making infantile arguments The women who think that life begins at conception can do as they please The women who don't can do as they please You talk about women as if they are one being
/r/MensRights17/06/19 07:23 PM
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I also went to graduate school, i just never finished my thesis after my father died Call me all the names you want but when it comes to politics, social theory etc, I'm one of the smartest minds who ever lived. And that's a statement from someone who is painfully anxious and insecure about everything else. I know what I'm talking about. You can choose to believe it or not, it won't shake my confidence or bother me in any way. My honours thesis was on gender (tbh it was poorly done) but i was ar…
/r/MensRights17/06/19 06:21 PM
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I said from the outset that men should be allowed to opt out of parenthood. I want to fight for that but the solution is not to take away women's rights!
/r/MensRights17/06/19 06:18 PM
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it just takes too long cause we're so far apart your statement implies that IF you can consider the fetus a being at the very moment of conception, that women should essentially be slaves to that being until it is capable of living outside of her body. So essentially women are indentured slaves for 9 months because they chose to have sex? Come on! On the very face of it, its ridiculous. Not to mention that we simply cannot have gender equality if women don't have the right to choose.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 04:42 PM
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No but that degree makes me smarter than you (although useless) and its clear I'm going to stop talking to you because you are clearly a moron and I don't have that much time
/r/MensRights17/06/19 01:48 AM
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INSIDE OF THEM... its their bodies. I have no problem with a PERSONAL pro-life argument but there is no argument to take away a women's right to choose PERIOD. I'm 35 and have an honours degree in sociology, how old are you?
/r/MensRights16/06/19 06:32 PM
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well im sorry i dont think claiming that a women has the responsibility to have a child because she had sex is a good point. Its insulting and ridiculous. I of course agree that this right should be extended to men, but anyone who even tries to make the point that women don't have rights over their own body because they got laid is someone that should immediately be ignored and dismissed. Its not a good point at all
/r/MensRights15/06/19 05:04 PM
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What was the the good point?
/r/MensRights15/06/19 03:15 PM
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this places is tainted with simple minded conservatives
/r/MensRights15/06/19 02:07 AM
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I agree but its more complicated than that. The women's right is about HER body. Men get screwed cause once the child is born, the courts act in the interest of the child I agree, however, that men should be able to disavow right and responsibilities to the child
/r/MensRights14/06/19 04:27 PM
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Pathetic. You take the worst feminists and use them to demonize all of them Stop acting like this is team sports, gentlemen, and we may actually get somewhere
/r/MensRights14/06/19 04:25 PM
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Ah true. These arguments are complex though because when we are talking about 15-16+ i agree with how women are treated and think men should be treated the same way. When its really children then everyone should be treated how men are treated But thanks, i didn't get it at first
/r/MensRights07/06/19 07:38 PM
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Meh I actually do think there are some real old time sexists in F1. I'm a big F1 fan. There are issues. F1 g forces are insane so it is quite physical but I have no doubt that women can physically do it as good as men. The biggest issue is have young girls get interested in the sport. And given the nature of the sport its rich young girls... very few middle class ppl make it to those levels. Its a fair question on how to get women more interested in the sport but it certainly not men's fault. Th…
/r/MensRights07/06/19 07:02 PM
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Affair/rape??? I don't get that one
/r/MensRights07/06/19 06:38 PM
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I signed the petition and donated. I hope you all do he same
/r/MensRights31/05/19 04:29 PM
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Oh my mistake, they didn't even have sex... wow! Sucks to be male and black, double trouble
/r/MensRights31/05/19 04:29 PM
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So sad. Its outrageous. And this is what I mean about sexual assault stats. Nevermind that he met her at a 21+ bar, does anyone think someone should go to jail because a 17 year old had sex and got her feelings hurt? I get my feelings hurt everyday and ppl celebrate that my feelings are hurt, no one goes to jail. The girl who did this is a real fucking bitch. Does anyone know her name?
/r/MensRights31/05/19 04:26 PM
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Prepubescent: relating to or in the period preceding puberty Not hating on your comments, you're hating on mine. And I'm sorry about what happened to you but you're the one who wants to tell me I was sexually assaulted for being in a relationship with an older woman. That's the only point I was trying to make. Sexual assault statistics are often inflated, they include things that are better defined as sexual harassment and in some cases really nothing. I'm sorry if you disagree with me but that'…
/r/MensRights29/05/19 06:03 PM
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You need to learn about biology if you think a 16 year old male or female is prepubescent. That much of an age gap at that young of an age CAN be problematic, I'm not claiming otherwise, but to call it pedophilia or sexual assault goes too far. Of course if anyone is forced to do anything against their will its sexual assault but that has nothing to do with age. And when I say forced, I mean forced, not "manipulated" in to it. Whatever that means.
/r/MensRights29/05/19 02:41 PM
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I would consider someone a pedophile if they are wanting to have sexual contact with a prepubescent child. Not a 16 year old. My god do we love to demonize in our society. Tit for tat everywhere you go. A lot of down votes in my original comment. If I was saying the same comment about 1 out of 3 women are sexually assaulted, you would all praise it. No one is interested in honest discussion anymore
/r/MensRights29/05/19 01:44 PM
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You shouldn't feel guilty. THAT is sexual assault. Sadly, from my own experience, when a guy has a few too many, nothing else seems to matter
/r/MensRights28/05/19 10:14 PM
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Yeah that's my point! I just wonder about stats like this for men and women. How much of it is 16 year old me dating an older woman?
/r/MensRights28/05/19 10:12 PM
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I imagine a lot of this is in childhood. But everytime I see one of these stats I think to when i was 16 and dating a 31 year old. Some of these idiots call that sexual assault. Or i think about when i was the dating the girl behind the bar and how many times we had sex when we were both pretty hammered after she finished her shift. Sadly, because actual sexual assault is very damaging and serious.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 06:00 PM
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The discrimination against BLACKS and the discrimination against MEN are BOTH a problem. Can you point out and REAL issues where whites are discriminated against? Cause I can't think of any but affirmative action stuff, which I tend to support and really only affects slimist amount of people. For example you are far more likely to get into an ivy league college for being rich and because your parents went then because you are a miniority. The whole point of my comment is that there aren't any re…
/r/MensRights17/05/19 10:15 PM
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they are both a problem, why can't we focus on both... and a lot more when it comes to the justice system. Maybe training better police officers and having consequences for prosecutorial misconduct (or lowering the bar required to reach that) You're the one being inconsistent, not me.
/r/MensRights17/05/19 09:32 PM
1

so there is no racial sentencing gap!!?
/r/MensRights17/05/19 05:21 PM
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But you just said it, YOU are the one ignoring the victims "Men get sentenced to 65 percent longer sentences than women for same exact crime. This gap is 6 TIMES THAT IF THE RACIAL GAP." So the injustice here is against men AND people of color! NOT white ppl
/r/MensRights17/05/19 04:49 PM
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im not saying any of what you are saying is untrue. There are crazy black nationalists for example. Racism can exist anywhere. I have no white guilt. I know i didn't do anything. The difference between you and I is that I acknowledge that there is structural racism against black and brown people in the western world and no such structural racism exists for whites. Furthermore, I don't even think that racism against whites is even a social problem. It's so minute and inconsequential that it doesn…
/r/MensRights17/05/19 04:25 PM
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lol dude, honestly, you're shit on the ground compared to me. Calling me a moron is silly. You're like a little child. keep it simple is what people like you like to do but the world is not simple. As a white person, I cannot remember a time where I EVER felt prejudice for being white. So I don't know what the fuck you're talking about! It makes me mad, that you are watering down the issues men face by comparing it to issues white ppl face. You're not a moron, keep trying and learning, not every…
/r/MensRights17/05/19 03:56 PM
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I like to think about it as a glass ceiling and glass FLOOR. That women are walking on and stuck below. They always forget to mention the floor part though
/r/PussyPassDenied17/05/19 02:10 PM
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no but how does phrasing it like that help. It feels like an attack on women and its unnecessary to the larger point
/r/MensRights17/05/19 12:38 AM
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Come on man. I agree men should not be drafted but when you threaten women's right to vote, its not okay. I get you're angry but there's a better way to do this
/r/MensRights16/05/19 11:33 PM
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But see with comments like that... like who is dating these girls? That's on us. Stooooopid.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 10:59 PM
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I agree but there are limits too. Whats hard about these discussions is the definition of drunk can vary greatly. What is consistent though is that its the man's fault
/r/MensRights16/05/19 10:55 PM
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Sadly this is true. Imo everyone should stop acting like having sex with someone you don't REALLY want to but go along anyway is such a bad thing.... its what married people do once a month!
/r/MensRights16/05/19 10:51 PM
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reading these comments is so frustrating, are you really saying the white people are oppressed? Outside of Basketball and Hippity-Hop (I did that on purpose), white people are pretty much privileged all around. There are very few times that it doesn't pay off to be white.
/r/MensRights16/05/19 10:35 PM
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Yes but as an (off)white man (child of european immigrants), I have trouble having any issues with the comments on race. Is there structural oppression against white people!? For gender, I definitely agree that there is structural oppression against men (as well as women) and when prejudice is so overwhelmingly accepted, even without the structural element (which I'm not conceding) its clearly needs to become a focus. But given my comments, I am actually happy with their response; unless I misse…
/r/MensRights16/05/19 10:31 PM
1

now this I can agree with
/r/MensRights15/05/19 06:34 PM
1

I wasn't talking about you specifically at all lol at being married and not getting laid (see and this is something both brother and sister could bitch about) The politics comes into play when we start dismissing the historical relevance and necessity for feminism. We can say, as men, "hey what about us!?" but not to dismiss them. That's what I'm trying to say. There was a time Cassie Jaye couldn't have done a documentary, thank god she's now able to
/r/MensRights13/05/19 03:17 PM
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why even ask that question that way? There was a time when women could be raped by their husband and there was no law against it because women were expected to provide sex for their husbands! Come on, man! There is no historical equivalency between the sexes. So obviously, feminism is going to be given more credence.
/r/MensRights13/05/19 01:51 PM
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yes, and i bet she is embarrassed of this subreddit and would not condone half the post. She's not a republican! She's not some conservative who can't get laid! She made a very smart and thoughtful documentary!
/r/MensRights13/05/19 01:50 PM
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I agree with cutting people slack. One of the things I hate more generally is how sanitized we all have to be. But let's cut the girls some slack too, is what I am trying to say. Some girl gets annoyed and say all men suck... she probably doesn't mean it lol... and i have no issue with some guy venting their own frustrations from time to time either. And i agree when guys do that we're bad and crazy and whatever else, when women do it, no problem. The difference between feminism and MRM is that …
/r/MensRights13/05/19 01:14 AM
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I'll talk to you because you seem sensible. How is this comment appropriate: "If you think feminism is mostly beneficial to men this probably isn't the place for you. That's like going to a black civil rights group and saying Jim Crow was mostly good for everyone." Really? You think the stringent gender roles of the 1950's were okay? I mean this is just ridiculous. It's embarrassing because when I want to fight for my rights, and bring men's issues to the forefront, I have to carry the baggage t…
/r/MensRights12/05/19 01:56 PM
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when you're critiquing basic right like the right to choose and when you act like feminism wasn't ever necessary... then yes attacking ALL feminism IS an attack on women
/r/MensRights12/05/19 01:54 PM
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the snarky and immature posts about feminism ​ I'm sorry but women face and have faced serious oppression and I'm not going to just forget that. Yes, I know that men's issues and rights are too often ignored but I can believe in and fight for both things at the same time. It's that simple. ​ My sister, my mother (on mother's day), my friends, even my exes, are good people and I care about their lives. I won't play this us against them, and I have no time for people who will take away a women's r…
/r/MensRights12/05/19 01:09 PM
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everything is constantly being framed as victim and oppressor and gender just isn't like that. Its exhausting and pointless to talk like that. Anyway, thank you for calming ME down
/r/MensRights12/05/19 12:44 PM
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well unfortunately, although I desperately care about men's issues. I can't condone this
/r/MensRights12/05/19 12:40 PM
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maybe both
/r/MensRights12/05/19 12:00 AM
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yes, i get that, but imo it's the only sensible one
/r/MensRights11/05/19 11:48 PM
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what? I think you have me mistaken for someone else. I was just having an honest discussion. You're the one making assumptions about me. It's fine, I mean I said all I wanted to say. Disappointed in the outcome but I really don't have anything more to add. The only person who seems to be upset is you
/r/MensRights11/05/19 11:41 PM
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anyone who claims that we can have any semblance of gender equality without the right to choose is just lying See as a man, I just want that right extended to ME! That's the way I go about fighting for men's rights
/r/MensRights11/05/19 11:26 PM
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if you think women should go to jail for having an abortion (and while im pro-choice, i don't think there is anything wrong with being pro-life), then yeah I guess we have to agree to disagree, because to me that means you hate women or at least have absolutely zero compassion for their circumstances. I don't have to delete anything. I care about men's issues and am personally affected by them. I wish there was a more enlightened men's group out there that wasn't as simplistic at what you'll fin…
/r/MensRights11/05/19 11:24 PM
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No. I don't think its the same. Maybe I did imply that. But only in the sense of, I don't think it's cool to dismiss women's issues. I think I saw a post about a girl venting about the abortion debate (which recently took an ugly turn)... why can't we support that aspect of feminism? That's my point. Women should mad as hell about this. And we should be mad as hell about not being treated fairly in the courts and by society at large about a whole host of issues. Not all feminism is the same
/r/MensRights11/05/19 08:11 PM
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Well I agree with your sentiment. I am actually a leftist, social democrat. Maybe we don't wholly agree but we are probably pretty close on this issue. I think what bothers me about this thread is that we sometimes stoop to their level AND we often act like all feminists are this bad. I guess that's all I'm trying to say. If we act as bad as they do, it's all the easier for them to dismiss us
/r/MensRights11/05/19 07:58 PM
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Yeah but to be fair, as stupid as this is (I didn't know you still had this in the US and am a little suprised)... maybe its not a big deal because its never actually used? I'm quite certain it won't be used because women would have to be included. All things considered, win/win... no one has to involuntarily die for their stupid wars
/r/MensRights08/05/19 12:33 AM
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and also for women! I'm sure there are women out there that are thinking "why are you leaving the child with me!" As is usually the case, these gender issues hurt both men and women
/r/MensRights14/02/19 11:01 PM
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oh come on, thats funny!
/r/MensRights04/02/19 03:45 AM
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yeah exactly, but you were right to do so
/r/MensRights02/02/19 10:46 AM
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I think you handled it well. I think she was likely just messing around, but you're right it would not be tolerated for men. From my perspective, and I'm just giving her the benefit of the doubt, she may just feel a bit weird cause she didn't realize what she was doing was wrong. If I'm right she will definitely not do it again, and with time you might become friendly. I would let it go but of course not if she keeps doing it
/r/MensRights02/02/19 10:31 AM
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hmm I'm no sure I agree. Only wanted to add that saying men are disadvantaged does not mean feminism is not needed; they don't have to be mutually exclusive
/r/MensRights02/02/19 09:38 AM
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