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make excuses and choose ideology over reality. Until that changes, nothing will improve for you. Yes, but i am living the reality as an incel and have had negative experinces. It's not like i want to remin an incel or blackpilled, but i see now hope because i never experinced something which contradicts it. I'll try to send you a pic of my face if you want. I'm just trying to tell you to seek help or nothing will change, but you keep doubling down on redpill, pardon me, blackpill ideology like i…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 06:43 PM
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Tell you what: post a picture of yourself online, and I'll tell you which I think is uglier, your looks or your personality. Dollars to donuts, it's gonna be the second, and the second is the one you can work on with professional help. I guarantee you, I've dated guys who are objectively less attractive than you, and I did so because of their personalities. I already did and was told i am ugly. I have been called ugly IRL by friends, family and strangers. No one ever told me i was a shitty perso…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 04:29 PM
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I am willing to work for it but not because i hope it will get me women. I am passed thst point and don't do things for that anymore. So yes i already know there is no help for me from a dating standpoint, but i am improving myself to be happy and successful in life in general.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 04:25 PM
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I am blackpilled not redpilled. I really don't believe a lot of things redpillers say, but what i do believe is looks matter in dating and personality can't bypass an ugly face. That's what i know based on what i experinced. Personality helps once they found you attractive. Your advice doesn't really work for ugly guys since it hasn't been working for me before i became blackpilled.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 03:57 PM
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I'm not saying this to be mean, I'm saying this because you need help, badly, and you've been seeking it in the wrong places. As long as you view human relationships as transactional, and relations between men and women as adversarial, you will be bitter, lonely, and utterly alone, even if you do end up in a relationship. You have to start with you, or nothing will ever change. Seek help. Please. Looks matter matter when it comes to relationships and sex. I don't really gets what's wrong with ac…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 03:54 PM
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"Meet" meaning they get to know each other online and they meet in person. It doesn't matter though because online is all the same with female standards. There are some outliers true, but in general men who do well online tend to be attractive.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 03:26 PM
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Nothing has gotten me laid so far. I also don't believe that redpill works for ugly guys.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/21 03:24 PM
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This is how the RedPill works: -Men have it more fucked up in the sex market; this data from a dating app says so. -Ah, by the way, guys, flirt for those apps. Then those men think: The RedPill is real! Yes, we have it more fucked up than they do! No, go out into the real world and flirt in the real world. You'll have it easier there because nobody links in real life. You have less competition and it gives you a plus with the girls. Now they're all asking for WhatsApp I tried IRL and got 0 resul…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/20 10:12 AM
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Women dislike ugly men. Men are brainwashed into thinking that we are the superficial sex and care only about looks but it turns out women are more superficial than that. Even the MGTOWs recognize that as humans they cannot help but be gynocentric. The genes and such, is doubtful, because in the RedPill Detox Kit of this Reddit, it is explained that because of genetics not all women are attracted to "Chad" - Majority of women are attracted to chad espcially for short term. That's a fact. I am a …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/20 10:06 AM
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I know that. I don't see why you are bringing it up though? I don't hate women because of the fact this world is gynocentric.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/20 09:56 AM
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What laws? It's biological. Women don't desire me because i am ugly. You might say some men treated you badly but how does that adress my issues with women? I don't hate them because some have treated me badly i do dislike them because they are wired to hate someone like me. Even if some men treated you badly It's their issues not yours. You are still desirable to some men. There is no inherent gene in you that would make men treat you badly. Also, there is a difference between being called ugly…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/20 09:17 AM
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Dude the reason i made this post because i am unsuccessful. It's like asking a rich person about the experinces of a poor person. You are basically saying "why are you talking about money despite being poor only the rich people who have the privilege of having money should be talking about it" many redpillers also get women does that mean guys should follow their advice? Because based on your logic i have to be successful with women in order to evaluate the reason as to why i am currently unsucc…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:39 PM
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Because most people lose their virginity in their teens. So stop using my age as a way to tell me i am too young to know anything about dating or that my experinces are irrelevant.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:15 PM
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Unironically you are the one who has been ignoring everything i said. I also said have a mentality of a chad not become a chad. Basically have a postive outlook on dating as if had experinces of a normal person despite having had only negative experinces. That's not how it works. I wouldn't be able to turn postive if all i had was negative experinces.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:11 PM
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I am not deformed i am just ugly and i would date another ugly women. Now if i was deformed then yes i wouldn't mind dating another deformed woman. I mean the fact you are bringing up deformities is absurd.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 08:32 PM
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"Just have the mentality of a chad depsite being a complete incel, bro" again, changing my thinking despite being a compete incel isn't possible and i just realised that as long as i remain an incel and keep having the same negative experinces with women then nothing would challege my thoughts and listening to strangers about their experinces wouldn't change these though for me because as i said me listing to what women say is different with what i have experinced trying to date.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 08:29 PM
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a woman over fifty? Yes.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 07:35 PM
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They still have an eaiser time getting dates and hookups. What they have to deal with outside of that is a different matter.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 07:20 PM
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Sure, but where did i say i deserve a woman? I know i am not owed lol
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 06:30 PM
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You see; the threshold of what makes a woman unattractive is lower than what makes a man attractive. You can find a morbidly obese woman who has no problem finding sexual partners at all and she wouldn't do bad with dating, but a male equivalent would suffer. a very tall woman wouldn't do as bad compared to a very short man. Women don't have it as hard as men do. That's just reality.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 06:28 PM
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Maybe saying she wouldn't have any problems is a stretch, but a female equivalent wouldn't have it as bad. That's just how the dating world works.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 06:25 PM
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I know my looks are a problem, but i know my female equivalent wouldn't be having any problem with dating.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 04:22 PM
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You are a person like anyone else built in a biological sex of male and or female wrapped in some DNA but constantly evolving in a ton based on how you perceive, interpret what you perceive, and then act on. This is evident in the truth that how you see yourself is usually not how others see you. Thus if the self was real like all real physical things it can be seen and understood by all as that thing. Thus seek to see yourself as capable of anything giving the right circumstances and you will f…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:28 AM
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Yes i know, but to say "the women will come later" is basically agreeing with me that now younger women are hypergamous and only go after looks and when they are ready to settle down then they would be looking for a more stable provider.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:23 AM
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Sure, but sex and relationships are human need. We are social creatures and have hormones that influence our desires. Idk what you expect men in my situation to feel like.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:21 AM
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Yes, but by 2030 50% of couples would've meet online. That's not comforting to know. I mean it would be ignorant to say that online dating didn't have anything to do with female standards these days.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:20 AM
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Yes, but things they say actually make sense, you know. There is practical advice and not generic open ended advice like "have a good personality" or "be nice"
/r/ExRedPill29/12/20 09:18 AM
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I'll try, but how would i believe everything they say? Why don't you tell me what would happen?
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:54 PM
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What does that have to do with what i said? I don't treat women badly if that's what you are insinuating.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:42 PM
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Whatever you say
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:41 PM
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No, it would be different because the woman would love me. I have a mother and i listen and care for her because she loves me. I also love my female relatives. What i don't listen to women is when they talk about things they don't get to experince or give dating advice because i noticed their view tend to be naive and they think dating is supposed to be super easy for everyone. Also, women sexuality is different since they only get sexually turned on by good looks and height.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:17 PM
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To sum up my view of women i dislike them because they hate me. I don't hate every woman though.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:07 PM
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Explain? Because all you have been doing so far is completely dismissing what i am saying while also critising me for dismissing what women say.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:04 PM
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i have been detoxing from these ideas for the last few months bt quitting incel fourms and doing as you suggested listen to women while it helped a little i still have some of the same feelings. I guess that the fact there some truth to what i think makes it hard to really detox from it.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:03 PM
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YOU have. Since when do you have the power to speak for every woman? Your experinces means jack shit to me because you are a woman and your experinces are way different from mine.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 09:00 PM
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How would you even know? You haven't dated anyone. You should listen to people who have had successful dating lives. AKA people who aren't redpill. I would listen if you were another ugly guy who has similar issues as i do. Listening to women about dating is pointless. You disagree that you have to fix your own life? Lmfao who is going to save you from your problems? Entitled as fuck Nope, i disagree with the fact that fixing my life would fix my issues with women. Plus i have certain issues ths…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 08:55 PM
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"Just wait until women are 30 and are ready to settle down, bro" i mean what you are saying basically reinforces what many redpillers are saying about women. Also, am already going to uni and in a promising career, but i don't care whether women come or not anymore tbh.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 08:05 PM
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Lol it wouldn't matter. I was called ugly by women before i became this way. It's not like if i stopped hating women everything would change. Also, i have my reasons as to why i feel this way It's not like i can flip a switch and change my view on women.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 08:02 PM
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Well, as i said my opinion on women wouldn't change thst easily and the things i have experinced wouldn't just disappear for no reason.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 08:01 PM
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I guess we all die then nothing in life really matters right? You are the naive one lol. I bet you also have standards when it comes to looks.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 08:00 PM
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Well i disagree. When it comes to dating since it involves genetics it becomes a bottleneck and when it come to what you can do. You are a woman though so you wouldn't get it. I mean you are on an exredpill forum. You know why many guys reach the point of becoming redpilled. Stop thinking all of us are somehow delutional and believe in something so irrational. Everything as i said in this post is based on how dating really is in 2020.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 07:59 PM
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I don't view women as subhuman.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 07:55 PM
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Wow thanks i am cured i guess tomorrow i will just get rid of my mental issues and go travel the world. Also you are older so you don't know the dating climate nowadays and why many people join these sites and become incel.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 06:24 PM
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Sure, but physical attraction is still important for long term.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 06:17 PM
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No you don't. It's not that simple
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 06:16 PM
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So does most people out there. You think everyone's life is peaches and regalia??? Nope, but it's a matter of conclusion. My traumatic experinces resulted in me having mental issues which stunned my social life and was born ugly on top of that. Everything else in life i am not complaining about but when it comes to dating and having sex i see no light at the end of the tunnel at all and that's just how it is. I also have other issues in life but i am not complaining because i know it's doable th…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 06:15 PM
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I mean i had enough shitty life experinces to the point i became so cynical and depressed. I don't really have anything to look forward to anymore and just don't take life seriously.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 05:55 PM
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Most women aren't demisexual though. That's you but women have sex with good looking men all the time. Your kind is rare.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 05:54 PM
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Do you want a woman to like you for how you look, or who you are? Remember everybody will become elderly. I just want a woman to like me. Physical attraction is pretty important in a relationship though. Wanting to be desired and wanting to be loved and having a good relationship without doing any work in you first, is the same as trying to find your dream job with 0 studies or degrees. Most people have sex in their young teen. You think they "worked" in themselves in order to get to that point?…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 05:53 PM
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What did you change and how did you do it?
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:29 PM
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You are saying being rewarded for hardwork is better. I am saying what kind of work we have to do when it comes to being ugly?
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:24 PM
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I was raised to think i was worthless and i am ugly and no one would ever want me no matter what i did. You are naive and don't know what you are talking about. You are a female trying to tell me how i should feel as an guy who grew up what being ugly what it is like?
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:22 PM
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You can't change personality. Trust me, i tried countless times.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:19 PM
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What hardwork is there is you are ugly though? And no it's not better because the effort it self isn't guaranteed to work plus there isn't a rule set in stone for us ugly guys to do to get laid.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 03:17 PM
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If you want someone to be attracted to you, then you have to put in the work. I already did but my looks and lacking personality are the issue. Yes I'd like to have sex but having sex without a woman having sex with you is the same as fucking a sex doll.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 02:34 PM
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Being objectified is infinity better than being not being seen at all. It's not even comparable.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 02:33 PM
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Already did. Also, It wouldn't count because the hooker isn't attracted to me. It's like telling a guy who doesn't have friends to pay someone to hang out with him. So no. It doesn't solve the problem.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 01:59 PM
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It's biological though. How am i to ignore these biological urges to have sex? Jacking off and watching porn makes ke want to have sex even more.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 01:44 PM
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No, but i can't seem to change this belief because nothing i said is wrong at all. That's the reality of the world and it actually bothers me and when you are in the disadvantaged side then you can't ignore that problem. I am unhappy because i am an incel so i don't see how i can change my beliefs.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 01:37 PM
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Biological value.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/20 01:35 PM
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International chads day
/r/MensRights19/11/20 03:48 PM
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A male feminist. That's a yikes for me, dude.
/r/MensRights18/11/20 06:35 PM
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Lol you serious?
/r/MensRights18/11/20 06:31 PM
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Yes actually. I would rather get approached by an "unattractive" woman than get no female attention at all.
/r/MensRights18/11/20 03:43 PM
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Cringe.
/r/MensRights18/11/20 01:41 PM
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It can be helpful for those whom it applies to. A man who is feminine will be made fun of and shamed which would results in many issues.
/r/MensRights18/11/20 01:41 PM
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Women only wanted to get approached by good looking men. Anything else is harassment. That's why i don't bother approaching women.
/r/MensRights18/11/20 01:38 PM
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He took his soul with that slap lol
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/20 01:22 PM
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It's always cringe looking at white-knights in the comments. She tried to hit him and he dodged. What other explanation do you need?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/20 01:21 PM
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