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| 91 | The biggest red pill contradiction about women’s happiness | underwater_flying | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/24 06:05 PM | |
| 16 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count? | DISCUSSION | underwater_flying | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Does anybody else think anti red pill youtubers like Courtney Ryan actually help red pillers? | underwater_flying | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/24 09:03 PM |
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| – | Does anybody else think anti red pill youtubers like Courtney Ryan actually help red pillers?Those are her own words and actions not my assumptions. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/24 10:17 PM |
| – | Does anybody else think anti red pill youtubers like Courtney Ryan actually help red pillers?He has other qualities that attracted her but money is still a huge motivating factor for many women to get with or stay with a guy. I’m just pointing out that it seems contradictory that she criticizes women who want a wealthy man when she clearly did too. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/24 10:00 PM |
| – | Does anybody else think anti red pill youtubers like Courtney Ryan actually help red pillers?He’s not an ugly guy, I’m not making fun of him. He looks average. I don’t find it shocking that she’s attracted to him but she criticizes women who focus on money or want a high earning man when she’s one of them. Most of her followers are men too. I just think she panders a lot. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/24 09:27 PM |
| 1 | What are some redpill ideas that you do think are valid?You don’t understand what I’m saying. A woman can get a man without having anything else except her looks in western society but in most societies they expect you to have some skills and be very mature and have a lot of self control. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/24 10:45 PM |
| 2 | What are some redpill ideas that you do think are valid?Nope again not true. In most societies and throughout history women were expected to know how to cook and clean and be virgins and to be patient and not talk back to their husbands and to have sex with their husbands even when they are not in the mood. Do you think all of that stuff is easy especially when you start having and raising kids? Especially if you’re not using birth control and condoms? Most women don’t btw. Oh and she has to try to still look as good as she did when she didn’t have t… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/24 01:25 AM |
| 4 | What are some redpill ideas that you do think are valid?You believe that lie? Most young women in the west are not getting with a guy because of his resources. They don’t look at a guy and think about all of those things unless they want to get married and have kids soon. Most young women want a guy around their age. It’s pretty rare to meet a girl who is in a long term relationship with a guy over 5 years her age and even more rare if he’s over 10 years her age? You’re just using this lie to explain away your dating issues when you were young. Girls… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/05/24 01:15 AM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Hypocrisy in morals is something many people have a problem with. You’re talking about double standards in looks. Two different things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?These thoughts are VERY relatable. Maybe not to you but women are almost constantly comparing themselves to other women. It’s well known. So I don’t think it’s a stretch to assume they compare themselves to their partners previous mates. Many women don’t even want their partner liking other women’s pictures or watching porn because of jealousy and other reasons. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 05:25 PM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Again you guys don’t understand or aren’t reading the questions I’m asking in my post. I’m asking for WOMEN’s experiences but mostly men have replied spewing red pill talking points about sex. I’m not forcing my views on others. I know the average guy struggles with dating and sex in general. What I meant is that it’s probably average looking dudes that make up the bulk of those with a high body count because there’s not enough highly attractive men. That’s my point. And I think they get a 10+ b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 12:42 PM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?You guys are not reading my post? I’m shocked how many people don’t understand the questions I’m asking. But I will answer your points anyway. Women don’t desire men with high body count. They desire a man with attractive qualities and good looks. What I’m asking for in my post is answers from women who have been with or are with previously promiscuous men. How do they deal with comparing themselves to the other women. How do they enjoy the sex while thinking that this might not be the best sex … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Learn to read. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 12:27 PM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?This still doesn’t answer my questions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 12:25 PM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Did he ask you about your body count first? Also would you prefer that his body count was less? How do you deal with comparing yourself to his exes or thinking about whether the sex you guys have is his favorite sex? Part of why I asked this question is because I grew up thinking the sex would feel emotionally empty with a promiscuous guy because I think I would keep thinking about the other women he’s been with which might kill the moment in my mind. It’s hard for me to mentally “let go” when I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Again you didn’t read my post | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?When it comes to the sex I was pointing out the jealousy and comparison many women think about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 12:05 PM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Who’s the one with the high body count out of the two of you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?I mean they keep bringing up red pill talking points about sex in general when I’m talking something more specific. I choose this subreddit because women in other subreddits are more liberal and annoying. They believe in never judging peoples past or try to act like it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:56 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?My post is not about me. I’m curious how women stay with men with the double standards I talked about without feeling resentful or uncomfortable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:49 AM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?I don’t care about in depth answers if they are not about the questions I asked. Most of the long replies aren’t answering my question Most of the comments are spewing red pill talking points about sex and not trying to answer my questions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:48 AM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Yea but I’m talking about they deal with their partners sexual double standards and how they deal with feeling comfortable and confident during sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:45 AM |
| – | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Most people are not attempting to answer the questions in my post. They are writing essays and going on tangents about related topics about sex but not my actual questions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:43 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?I’m specifically talking about a woman’s perspective. I don’t care about the red pill men’s talking points about this and how they justify or rationalize their stances on sex. You said you don’t care about body count? why? I think a lot of women lie to themselves when it comes to this because they like the guy so much. Would you prefer for your husband to have a lower body count? Did your husband ask you about your body count when you first started getting to know each other? Has your husband se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:33 AM |
| 0 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?It’s not really a choice. We all get intrusive thoughts once in a while. We compare ourselves to our partners past partners or what we imagine they might be feeling or thinking when we are intimate with them. Many people struggle to accept their partners high body count even if they love them. I’m not talking about something I’m going through personally. It’s just a topic I feel passionate about and I want to understand how some women deal with this particular scenario. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Same thing with women. Women want a desirable man who has only been with them as well. They might settle with a guy with a high body count if they have strong desire for him but they don’t WANT him to have been with other women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Women compare themselves so much to other women why would women want a guy with a lot of sexual experience who is probably comparing them to many other women during sex? Many women don’t even want their partner liking other women’s pictures on instagram or watching porn. Also promiscuous guys cheat a lot. It’s crazy how many guys don’t consider these points when parading these strong assumptions they have about what women want in a partner. How does a guys high body count benefit a woman in any … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?This doesn’t answer the questions I’m asking in my post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 11:00 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?It seems like the majority of people commenting haven’t read my full post. I’m not talking about what many men think about promiscuity. I’m talking about how women who get with promiscuous men who think they are above promiscuous women deal with their hypocritical double standard and how they deal with feeling comfortable or confident in their intimate moments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 10:59 AM |
| 0 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?All your arguments are so weak and exhausting to go through. I also don’t understand your reasoning. The guy you thought was a 3/10 wasn’t desirable to you. It seems like you settled for him. Are you implying that a man becomes more desirable if he has slept around even if there’s barely anything desirable about him? Women regret hook ups for many reasons. I brought post sex clarity up to point out that sometimes women have sex with guys they aren’t really into because they got drunk or they wer… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?This doesn’t answer my question. People keep replying to my post with the male perspective when I’m trying to understand a woman’s perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 10:40 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?I wasn’t replying to you also you guys are missing the whole point of my post. I am trying to understand how women who get with guys with high body count who think they are above women with high body count deal with their partners double standard on promiscuity and how they deal with feeling comfortable in their intimate moments? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 10:18 AM |
| 0 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?If you’re talking about me saying guys with high body counts with girls with low body counts look down on their girlfriends. I think I already explained it. These guys usually don’t want their sister or daughter to get with a guy with a high body count so they probably think they themselves wouldn’t get with a guy with a high body count if they were a girl. If you’re talking about my last two points I think it’s also quite simple to understand. Being good in bed comes down to a couple of factors… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 08:34 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?I’m confused what are you talking about? Are you actually saying that it’s better for a woman to date a guy with a promiscuous past than a guy who’s a virgin? You do realize there are so many other factors that women consider besides body count? Also the idea that a guy is a loser if he’s a virgin especially the older he gets is mostly a western idea many other countries don’t have this view. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?You guys keep missing the point. Most of the guys who have answered haven’t really answered my question. I’m talking about how women with men with high body counts deal with all the baggage that comes with it and the double standards those men often hold. How do they feel comfortable with their sex life? And how do they deal with fears of cheating? Etc… Also the main or one of the main reasons men don’t want a woman with a high body count is jealousy and also the guy feeling resentful that he’s … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 08:19 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?But can you try to answer the question I asked in my original post? How do you think you would deal with knowing that he looks down on women who have slept around when he has done the same thing? Isn’t that hypocritical on a moral level? Also how do you feel knowing that when he’s sleeping with you he’s probably thinking fondly of all the other enjoyable sex he’s had with other women and the sex might not be as intimate for him as it is for you? How do you think you would deal with those thought… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 08:02 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Again I don’t believe women are attracted to men with a high body count. It’s a huge risk for her to invest in a relationship with a man who has a promiscuous past. Also there are many average or below average guys who have slept around but they still aren’t highly desirable. The people who keep bringing up these talking points can’t explain away these contradictions. More sex doesn’t equal high desirability. A lot of hookups happen because of many factors like alcohol,desperation,money, etc… It… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 07:55 AM |
| -5 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?You’re getting off topic again. I’m talking about the emotional side of their relationship and the woman’s experience. Also your point about fear of paternity can be applied to almost every relationship, the baby might not be his even if the woman doesn’t have a history of cheating or promiscuity. Also In todays age a paternity test can be taken I don’t know why you’re bringing up paternity as a counter argument. Honestly I’m not here to debate these tired talking points that can be disproven qu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 07:16 AM |
| -8 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?Honestly I don’t care about these studies and I’m tired of people using them in the ways they weren’t intended to be used by the people who did the study. They are not meant to be used as guides to your life decisions or judgments about people. Also most people don’t know how to read or understand the studies they spout so much. Men are also attracted to women who are desirable to other men. Many men brag that’s it’s an ego boost to get with the girl that other guys wanted but didn’t get with. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?I’m specifically looking for answers from women as I stated in my original post. I’m open to men trying to answer what they personally THINK women are going through in the scenarios I’m talking about but that’s not what has happened so far. You guys are just saying a bunch of blanket statements. Also both of the things you stated can be true. You can want someone desirable without wanting to share them. Women don’t need to know that a guy has slept around to recognize him as desirable. Him sleep… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 06:50 AM |
| 8 | How do some women date men with high body count who say they wouldn’t date a woman with high body count?I’m talking about how the guy feels like he’s above dating women who have a high body count and how he feels like being promiscuous won’t have any effect on his relationships. The hypocrisy in his judgment is the main issue I’m exploring in my post. Also I’m mainly talking about the woman’s experience and perspective here. How she deals with accepting this and how she feels comfortable and confident in their intimate moments knowing that he’s done this with so many other women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/23 05:45 AM |
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