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...no, I don't think that about everyone I disagree with, lol. there you go again being presumptuous
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 12:03 PM
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wow you sound insufferable
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 06:45 AM
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gonna go against the grain of the rest of these comments but I personally have no issue with it. my man having flings with other women does not detract from his love of me. do what feels right for you at the end of the day, the reddit comments don't matter. it's an unpopular lifestyle choice but if you like it then do it. if you don't, then don't.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 04:57 AM
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...but it's not and I didn't make up those terms. JK Rowling is a radical feminist, Oprah is a liberal feminist. You can dislike something and still acknowledge that there are real definitions to it. It feels disingenuous to say that it's all just a free-for-all that means nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 09:04 PM
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not to get too technical with this, but there are actually two main streams of feminism that argue about what OP is talking about. liberal feminism = the type that thinks objectifying yourself is empowering, women should be able to do whatever they want, men and women are equal radical feminism = objectification is bad, porn and prodtitution are bad, men and women are inherently different (many radical feminists are also anti-trans for this reason) I don't consider myself a feminist but I do bel…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/25 08:00 PM
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you sound insufferable. why did you feel a need to come into a women's space in the first place if you're so convinced that we're all evil?
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 03:27 PM
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they probably got it extremely unethically. there is a huge human trafficking issue in the surrogate industry.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/25 12:43 PM
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lots of married couples do it. and for the record... most men wish their wives would agree to something like that, ask any man who's been around locker room talk. if anything it makes them more committed because then they know they can have you and still get some sexual variety without you being a jeakous bitch about it
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 12:11 PM
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totally!!
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 11:56 AM
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I don't really have an answer but just want to say I feel you on this and you're not alone in that. I find for myself personally partaking in active physical activities or taking on personal creative projects help more than meditation and other passive activities.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 09:35 PM
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thinking that people here are jealous of you is wild lol. most of us here are in relationships ourselves and are doing just fine. I can't say I envy your overly sensitive reactions in this comment section.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 09:25 PM
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I totally feel you on the anxiety!! I tend to be an anxious person to begin with so it's been a lifelong journey to calm it down. asking more about her might be the way to go too, if you don't think you'd be too hurt by it. I find it helps me to know what happened and why they aren't together right now and why he feels that you are the right one for him but she wasn't. and tbh in some ways it does reignite my inner competitive fire but I don't view that as a bad thing because it pushes me to be …
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 09:15 PM
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so I actually can answer this from experience. my boyfriend has an ex who messaged him out of the blue a few weeks ago and she was really eager to have sex right away. I had no issue with that and so far it's been going well. We had previously spoken about bringing a third girl in sometimes so it wasn't like we hadn't already discussed. but I think the main question you need to have a concrete answer to is how he really views this girl. because in our case, my boyfriend has made it very clear th…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 08:33 PM
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I can agree that both have it bad in different ways but claiming that men have it worse is just ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 08:18 PM
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direct quote from you: a similar view on relationships you keep getting upset at people in the comments for taking your words seriously and then flipping back on them. I hope you don't act out in such a childish way with your boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 01:24 PM
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if you think redpill and sugarbaby are similar then you do not belong here whatsoever.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 01:04 PM
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but some women don't want to be mothers or be at home. have you ever considered that not every woman has this "delicate feminine nature" you're talking about? for those women, going RP would be degrading and stale. some of us are cut out to be with men and take care them and our families, others aren't. there's no abomination there.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 05:04 PM
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I agree. I had a similar situation to OP's when I was younger and being angry at the man for the way he used and manipulated me (and was so charming and good at it too) is what got me over it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/25 06:46 PM
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ah, makes sense. people love to run their mouths in the internet and say whatever they feel like lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 03:28 PM
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she did say "within the year"
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/25 03:01 PM
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I used to feel this way a lot. I found that two things helped. I sort of befriended his friends. Not that I'm close with them or anything, and certainly not flirtatious by any means, but I do have 1:1 conversations with them. It helps that we're all in the same community so I have opportunities to interact with them without my man there. This made me feel more at ease with his friends and worry less about what they might be doing or saying when I'm not around. I learned to focus on doing things …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/25 03:55 AM
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yeah I feel that this isn't very surprising
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/25 06:54 PM
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I do not think this advice applies to gen Z at all. if I wore a sundress I'm pretty sure my boyfriend would laugh at me and tell me to take it off and put jeans on. (plus we are Canadian so sundresses aren't a great winter choice) lots of men do like some piercings (when they suit your face and are tasteful) and things like winged eyeliner. depends on the guy, depends how much it suits the girl.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 05:06 AM
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I am not American.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 04:04 AM
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I’m sure they enjoy the money and are there of their own free will. congrats, you live under a rock and have never heard of sex trafficking before! any self-respecting traditional man would at least try to put some effort into picking up girls rather than paying girls who were very likely trafficked. the average age of entry into prostitution is 12.5
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/25 03:51 AM
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this feels so gaslighting. pretending like she's "making shit up and hurting her own feelings" is essentially insinuating that there is no societal pressure to have bigger boobs and that she's making this all up in her head. and yes, porn does affect both men's and women's perceptions of women's bodies. but yeah you're definitely right on the trap part, I'm not surprised her man reacted that way and mine would have done the same
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 02:25 PM
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I disagree, respectfully. I have always been attracted to tradesmen and my boyfriend is an electrician, very traditional man, grew up in the country, works with his hands, all that. And I find him wearing carhartts A MILLION TIMES more attractive than some nepo baby city boy in a nice suit.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/25 11:26 PM
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your understanding of the point of redpill is skewed to begin with, so this is a pointless post.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/25 07:03 AM
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my biggest issue would not be the fact that he was intimate with other women, but the fact that he lied about it. I am okay with my partner having sex with other women but I want him to communicate that with me. I'm much more likely to leave him if he's a liar.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 05:00 AM
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I'm also 22 and agree!!
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/25 06:57 PM
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I also highly recommend reading The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner, it focuses on anger in women.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 01:21 PM
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I like the idea of Snapchat group. No idea what discord is hahah
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 12:57 AM
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I’m confused… in your previous comment you said you don’t want to date until you are more feminine, but now you are saying you are dating someone?
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 10:47 PM
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That is wonderful news! Please don’t let the naysayers saying it is too soon sway you… I am 19 and my fiancé is 20. We started dating when I was 18 and he 19. When you know, you know.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/22 10:09 PM
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Kurt Vonnegut is an amazing author, happy to see him being brought up here ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 04:42 PM
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In this, and other comments you have made, it sounds like you are making desperate attempts at justifying yourself. Saving money is a good habit. Spending it on thing you do not need is not. I understand that you are having other issues that are stressing you out, but that is still not an excuse for you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 01:25 AM
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I’m sorry to hear that this is happening to your relationship and I’m sorry that he isn’t really trying to understand where you are coming from because your concerns do sound legitimate to me. Maybe a good thing to ask him would be what you can do to help him reach his goals. That way instead of directly asking what his goals are, you are opening the floor for him to describe what he wants from you. In asking that, you are also forcing him to consider what he ACTUALLY wants and to articulate it …
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 12:04 AM
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I dated a guy 8 years older than me and he made the mom comment too. I’m glad I left that one quickly lol. Some men never grow up. It doesn’t sound like you two are very compatible on a logistical sense. Practicality is more important than just love sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/21 09:57 PM
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Just to add to this, I’m 19 and had similar experiences in high school. I would suggest watching Mrs Midwest on YouTube if you haven’t already, she kind of addresses the topic in some of her videos.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 09:36 PM
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No one ever said it chases you, all we were saying is that it’s a lot easier for a girl to find sex whenever/wherever she wants than for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:32 PM
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You are literally admitting you are a homebody. If you actually wanted to meet men you could just get tf out of the house lol. That’s totally on you. Even some of the ugliest women would have no trouble finding a guy to fuck if they really wanted one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:36 AM
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Totally agreed, I was in the same boat. Eventually we just grew apart I guess. I was in a hugely different mental space than I was when we had first met. After that I dated a guy my age which went much better because even though we both might change (still both young), at least we will hopefully grow together instead of the growth being one-sided.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 04:10 AM
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Agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 07:20 PM
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Glad you said this. I don’t like how these comments are automatically supportive of her. Restructuring her marriage will take time and effort on both sides and I don’t think it’s fair of OP to expect her husband to suddenly embrace his manhood and accept her decision to stay at home without them discussing it at all beforehand.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 05:40 PM
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I like this response. Things need to be brought up BEFORE they blow up, so it’s a good thing she brought it up. If he was more mature about it I would hope it could’ve led to a good discussion, too. A lot can be said about his bad financial management here but to me the biggest issue is the lack of communication between them. No one should feel bad about bringing up a legitimate concern.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 03:30 PM
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Completely agree on her educating herself. Imo big money decisions like investment should be a discussion between both parties.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 03:25 PM
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I also feel like if my boyfriend did that I would start getting emotionally distant from him. So let’s say that he really can fuck a bunch of girls and not have any other contact with them whatsoever. So what. That still bothers me, and that’s that. I would never respect myself so little to put up with that kind of behaviour.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 08:19 PM
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I totally relate to the anxiety thing… I actually was in a similar situation not that long ago and ended up scaring him off (I think) because I was a little too intense and forward about things too early on. The trouble is that the root of our anxiety is a lack of trust in the man. It is as though we think he will disappear if we do not lock things in soon enough. Of course, he cannot be your captain if you do not trust him. So, as another commenter said, vet him first - is he worth your trust? …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/21 06:35 AM
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Absolutely love point 3. Sooooo true. Men express things more physically, women express them more verbally.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/21 07:56 PM
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She is definitely very feminine. I would say so. I also find I relate to her quite a bit :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/21 05:48 PM
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On point #2 make sure to not only do cardio. Start lifting weights as well. Cardio will help you lose weight but it won’t make your body nice and toned. Also I second what another commenter said about hobbies. Volunteering is probably a good idea too.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 09:55 PM
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So true. I’ve been there... guys don’t like overdo.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/21 03:14 PM
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Protestant
/r/RPChristians25/10/20 06:22 PM
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This is lovely :)
/r/RPChristians12/10/20 01:38 AM
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Of course! I am naturally blonde myself. I’m talking about the platinum, obviously-fake ones.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 02:41 PM
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I don’t have anything to add to what others have said but speaking from up North (Canada) this is crazy to me... I’ve never been to the southern US so it seems sort of foreign, like a whole other culture! I have to say I personally kind of dislike the look of fake looking dyed blonde hair. Keep rocking your natural!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 04:21 AM
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Well, the best place to find traditional people is church. If you don’t want to do that, see if you can get into swing dancing in your area, a lot of traditional-minded people do that, it’s a great way to meet guys and dancing is a great feminine skill.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 10:58 PM
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I won’t recommend a company as many already have, but I just want to add that for maternity dresses definitely look into getting empire line dresses, they can be very classy when the draperie is done right (preferably in silk also, if your budget allows it) and are also perfect for the baby bump :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/20 06:09 PM
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I find that I can relate a little to this. The thing is, even though I’m perhaps the « dominant » one when I’m with my friends, when I’m with a man I trust, I 100% let him take the lead and it feels completely natural to do so. A true alpha male will still be able to hold dominance over you (despite your personality traits) and you will be able to submit to him without it feeling weird or forced. One thing I would recommend though is to hang out a little less with your guy friends. I’m not sayin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/20 08:53 PM
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This is very true. There is a weird societal notion that people are supposed to find this dream job and love every day of it. But work is work. You’re not supposed to love it, sure you can like it but ultimately the only reason for doing it isn’t personal fulfillment or something, it’s literally just providing for family.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 03:29 PM
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I also love browsing their fashion shows in the runway app!
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/20 11:56 PM
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I like that, it’s very clear communication.
/r/RedPillWives15/05/20 03:53 PM
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Classical and jazz. In terms of feminity I would say swing is the best (Frank Sinatra, Benny Goodman, Duke Ellington...). I highly recommend listening to « Make Someone Happy » by Margaret Whiting and « You Make Me Feel So Young » by Frank Sinatra, they both are very redpill in the lyrics (as is much of 50s music). Also, salsa/bossa nova/gypsy swing are pretty great. As for classical, pretty much all of it I would say is feminine - baroque, classical, romantic, impressionist, neoclassical.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/20 05:05 PM
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This is inspiring to hear ! I am currently getting an education degree but would love to end up a SAHM.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 04:44 PM
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Get a big fulllength mirror and put it somewhere in your room where you see it frequently. Watch yourself as you walk around and do things, and notice exactly what is wrong, then correct it. Experiment a little with posture and walking to find what’s right. But always go back to that mirror. They say that is how women were trained from a young age to have ladylike grace in Victorian times.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/20 06:58 AM
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Swing dancing, piano, sewing, cooking/baking, makeup, drawing, photography
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/20 11:35 PM
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