unforsee Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Where art thou charger? Missing for 11 days due to be 12 days by a PickMe in recovery	LESSON LEARNED	unforsee	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 05:32 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Had a guy I matched with on Tinder who wanted to FaceTime and kept comparing me to his ex gf. FDS Handbook 101	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 09:35 PM
2	It’s easy to be HV for a season but what constitutes HV long term ? Read the handbook on FDS	/r/askFDS	31/08/20 11:18 PM
7	What is considered “broke” by FDS standards? You’ve come to FDS for advice. FDS is a dating strategy forum. To date by FDS standards and be considered broke would mean not paying for a women on dates and outings for the two of you. Cheap is when you have no intention are reluctant to pay for a women. Frugal is when you save enough to care for your woman financially where you identify where you could cut cost in your budget, with no attitude. Broke is when you should not be looking to date a women, period.	/r/askFDS	11/08/20 11:27 PM
6	Never, and I mean NEVER, allow a man to disrespect your body like this. Too much text, just next them. You don’t need to justify your boundaries when they don’t ask. He doesn’t care enough to ask so he won’t care about your first response.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 01:31 PM
1	Dating with mental illness I wish you well on your treatment plan! Good going on getting help dear.	/r/askFDS	25/07/20 01:24 PM
1	What is your position on femdom? As stated I will not paraphrase properly. Using the word femdom already reinforces porn tropes. Your goal is self improvement yet I see no self reflection. Edit: I’m sure you’re a great guy, it’s good you have enough self awareness to come to FDS for advice. We emphasis ability and not intention. It’s time to level up if you want an equal partnership with a women than a sex doll. Trust me, I’m a women someone you’ve come to for advice.	/r/askFDS	25/07/20 01:12 PM
19	LV or HV Hobbies Hobbies are very individual, hobbies give a glimpse in your personality but not your character. Hobbies =/= LV or HV. Your character is based on self esteem, self development, how you treat both sexes and all people in your life. Please look past superficial things like hobbies to dictate LV or HV. Would you think a girl who is into shopping is LV or HV?	/r/askFDS	25/07/20 01:10 PM
1	I [M] gave up watching porn about 2 years into my 6 year relationship. Would a HVM confess or just continue To tell your wife or not tell your wife is a personal decision based on the dynamics of your relationship. However I would personally like to know if you’ve stopped. A main priority for you is to find a therapist or counsellor to talk things through. Go sign up for a counsellor ASAP. You’re going through a transition in your life right now. If counselling shows you the answer you seek, that’s just the icing on the cake along with a good mental foundation to love your wife and yourself.	/r/askFDS	25/07/20 01:06 PM
1	What is your position on femdom? You’re making a lot of excuses for your behaviour and you do not take accountability for your actions. I won’t even paraphrase properly because all these amazing queens are in this long thread trying to give you the FDS answer to no avail. “Need visual stimulus” is not taking accountability for your brain dependence on porn which is poisonous to your brain. Suggesting we put “gentle femdom” in our handbook when sex is to please women. We don’t fall into societal tropes that use female power as a…	/r/askFDS	25/07/20 12:50 PM
3	My mom's Girlfriend is forcing her to take contraception pill Your girlfriend taking the pill is up to her. But you should always wear a condom to prevent STI. It’s good practice to wear a condom to prevent unwanted pregnancies since the pill is not bullet proof. Wrap up.	/r/askFDS	25/07/20 11:50 AM
6	Me, Monogamy and Mate-Guarding The dating dynamic described about gauging how compatible you and the women you’ve met off OLD sounds like you’re more thinking than doing. If your goal is to decide how compatible you two are for you/ the women/ as a unit are there needs to be more action from your front, compatibility is built on experience. There’s too little information to say you’re LV, however there’s not enough information to say you’re HV either. HVW are to be pursued or she’s probably not HV enough, not having enough go…	/r/askFDS	23/07/20 08:18 PM
27	Reasons to never stay in a relationship with a LVM for 500. Girl studying means no contact with LVM, level up and set boundaries for yourself when it comes to levelling up. It’s not possible to multitask studying and vetting men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 11:03 PM
6	Let’s talk about future faking No problem! I also met his parents too, future fakers = audacity overload...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 08:29 PM
8	Let’s talk about future faking In my experience of a future faker, they brought up the milestones of marriage to me within 6 months which I was offended by, since we weren’t even boyfriend girlfriend. What told me he was a future faker was when he promised to fix my broken pan and sharpen my kitchen knife, when he had the opportunity to do so he didn’t. Future fakers try lure and place themselves into your mental real estate with big goals like marriage, to deceive you on how they’re LVM who could never fulfil what they lay o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 07:14 PM
7	Let’s talk about future faking Judging men by their actions to discard the future fakers. Needed this analysis of HVM, thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 07:09 PM
29	Nothing but tea Shaking chihuahua, love it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 08:43 PM
9	Where art thou charger? Missing for 11 days due to be 12 days by a PickMe in recovery Duly noted. Thank you queen!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/20 05:50 PM
7	When a woman in a relationship with a man finally snaps... Yes I could not agree more! All men are the same until they prove otherwise that they respect and treat you as an individual accordingly. No gaslighting. No emotional abuse. No ignoring us when we speak to them. No devaluing our inputs and emotions. No devaluing our standards ! No deceit. No pitting us against other women!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/06/20 08:43 AM
2	I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤ This needs more upvotes! Please upvote away for all our sisters to see. Girls please read this handbook! I once thought I was l living following HV principles but I was not. Being 141 pages in and I still am amazed at my lack of foresight. Oh how I was blinded by what I thought were HV male qualities in which was actually a LVM in disguise using lie, devaluing, triangulation, gaslighting, and deceit. And how I willingly engaged with this manlet! Using my time, emotions, and actions I will now sp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/20 07:56 PM
4	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/4/2020 Not the mention the high risk of her catching STD’s he exposed her to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 09:44 PM
12	What snapped you out of Pickmeisha mode? Would you have believed a resource like FDS if it had existed, or do you think hitting rock bottom is the only way for many? What is something on here that you don’t agree with? Congrats on setting hard boundaries in your relationship!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/19 10:34 PM
1	My ex cheated on me with his coworker but I'm going to be a lawyer.... Wow @kinkyaspiringlawyer, how long have you been reading about FDS for?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/19 01:58 PM