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| 2 | No one told men marriage was gonna be a nonstop fuck fest.Yeah, no one told us sex stops after marriage either, and that a lot of women no longer feel obligated to put forth effort because "they won the game" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 01:12 PM |
| 6 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Companionship has to stand on its own now. There will be growing pains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:08 PM |
| 25 | Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative.There is no way to tell the difference between someone looking for sex and someone searching for sexual compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseIt's impossible to tell the difference between a man looking for fast sex, and a man looking for physical compatibility. I've had years long relationships with women I slept with on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.Almost as varied and unique as an individual experience? I gave overarching definitions that summarize the general idea by consensus. I can't take responsibility for misuse of these terms. Likewise, the responsibility of the understanding them is outside my scope. I haven't met the person that envisions themselves the villain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.Additionally, some people invent recognizable words or phrases to more easily convey an idea. That fact that you recognize them and their frequence of use is a testament to how effective that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:14 AM |
| 0 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.I don't. You asked for clarification It's like you're reiterating everything I said back to me. Notably, paragraph 4. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:09 AM |
| -3 | Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it.These hoops: The correct combinations of words or actions that will allow a man access to the area beyond the pants zipper. Relationships between 'friends and family and anyone' are typically mutually beneficial. In the dating world, there exists some women who 'like the man to chase,' or believe the man 'should do all the work. ' i cast no judgment on that. it becomes 'jumping through hoops' when the 'work' leads to no benefit. Like a circus lion made to perform, but the reward is only to be as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 02:51 AM |
| 2 | There's a trend now to sexually harass men, and somehow women are justifying this.I've noticed in 9/10 cases, feminists will choose revenge over equality | /r/MensRights | 05/04/26 06:54 PM |
| 1 | The concept of gender roles is outdated and stupidI'm very much team-based, mutual effort, split chores, split bills kinda guy. I keep running into women who initially claim to be a team member, but eventually admit to looking for a provider. I got nothing wrong against the dynamic, but why waste MY time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 11:08 PM |
| – | You told men to not approach you, so we listened.I have noticed a steep drop in "Men don't listen." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/26 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Why are progressive feminists letting their husbands put them in polyamorous harems?I've said it before; if women win the gender war, polygamy will become legal. If men win the gender war, prostitution will become legal. Women would rather be a side chick to a man they value than with a man they perceive to be a loser. Men would rather pay for sex than jump through all the hoops in dating, only to look forward to all the hoops in marriage. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/26 09:05 AM |
| 13 | Is it necessary to completely avoid women in the gym, if only for self-preservation?I home gym for this reason | /r/MensRights | 16/02/26 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.report me. idgaf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.Does that mean your not laughing anymore 😢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.Is this not fun for you anymore? Is this not why you came? To show up and antagonize people you thought were lesser than you behind the safety of the internet? Is it because you didn't think you would be outted as a liar? a fraud? a coward? Perhaps a bully even? Here's our compromise: you go get yourself a nice big tub of cool whip, turn the lights down, and watch some true crime and stuff your face instead of responding to this post. And we can both go about our day in peace. Have a lovely day … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.I expected more from someone who would pontificate about weak insults. Have a wonderful Sunday, ma'am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 05:28 PM |
| -7 | Why are radical feminists so triggered by MGTOW?Why post here instead of the feminist sub? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/26 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.AI can analyze writing style for gender. Have a wonderful night ma'am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.There is one thing more sad and pathetic: a woman wearing a man tag in hopes of being taken more seriously online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.I don't sound as embittered as you do. Your apology isn't necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.I'm sorry you saw what you wanted to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.A man going MGTOW today would be like a woman becoming a sufferagette. Go hang with your buddies. Make new buddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.MGTOW was around longer than a reddit sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:46 PM |
| 5 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.MGTOW were the pioneers of decentralizing women at a time when men who had options didn't have a template for doing that. It didn't need to be any deeper than men showing examples of themselves enjoying life solo and demonstrating why legal marriage was a bad deal. It served its purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?Personally, I have never cared about body count. Some men do, but I only speak for myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:17 AM |
| -1 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?Selectivity. While women generally work by consensus, one may think bob is a stand up guy, and another may think bob is trash. Keeping the gate well is a matter of perspective. Some are more critical than others of promiscuity. Letting bob "hit." Will carry different connotations depending on who is saying it and how. The woman who is successful is happy with herself and her decisions and doesnt care what I think. A gold digger that found her millionaire is as successful as the tradewife who fou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Do you view being penetrated as submissive, degrading or bad?The phrasing is related to the person doing the work in the context that women are the gate keepers to sex. Typically, the woman is not working as hard, and descriptors for women reference how well they kept the gate. If I "destroyed a sandwich," I ate it very quickly and efficiently. If I "destroyed her in the bedroom," I did such an excellent job of providing satisfaction that she became discombobulated. "She rode me till dawn." Obvs asserts that she was the one in control and doing all the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 04:40 PM |
| – | Why is acknowledging misogyny on here so hard?Heavy reliance on invented "micro-aggressions" to push agendas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 12:22 AM |
| 11 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?I agree, Mothers who safely surrender their children should be hunted down for child support to lessen the burden on the economy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 08:18 PM |
| 49 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?You want a lumberjack when there are no trees to cut down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The "male loneliness epidemic" is only used as a gotchaI think it only makes sense since the majority of men do not receive the same amount of attention and validation online as a lot of women in our digital age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.You left out sexual incompatibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 06:45 AM |
| 4 | Wow, older women really are full of baggageI just related my own experiences. Perhaps we attract different types | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 10:11 PM |
| 79 | Wow, older women really are full of baggageI find older women operate less on the consensus and opinions of their friends, and worry much less about what other people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | It's not mysogynist for guys to tell their gf not to wear revealing clothes or not being comfortable with her going to clubs with her girlfriends.I'm a big fan of sitting down and having a brutal conversation about expectations at the beginning of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 07:17 AM |
| 6 | Why Do Women in Relationships Expect Single Men to Date Fat People?I'm not emotionally investing into someone I can't carry away from danger. 🤷♂️ | /r/MensRights | 28/04/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | There's a narrative out there that someone who has never been in a relationship is undateable because they "don't know how to be in a relationship". What are some examples of this?I recently dated a girl who only had two serious relationships prior. Couldn't communicate to save her life. Attempting to assess If she was troubled was impossible because she would reassure me that everything was fine, then exploded after she could no longer bottle resentment at not having her issues addressed. This is an example of basic relationship communication that hasn't been learned yet. I would expect this from someone in their 20s, but she was 34. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower ThemselvesThis is why I'm confused MGTOW was ever confused with red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 05:41 PM |
| 2 | "Are we dating the same guy" Facebook groups. Valid Safety Check or online harassment?I was recently posted by a lady I'm dating. My ex reached out and said kind things about me, then texted me and gave me shit for dating so soon after we broke up. The post was taken down a day later. The date states she uses the group strictly for its intended purpose. I still feel uncomfortable about it. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/25 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Sure, I'll explain: men are dictated what to pay, and it can be completely unreflective of the cost of actually raising a child, and regardless of income. When you've done everything right; when the condom breaks and you know neither of you are equipped to raise a child but you can't convince the mother to abort, there isn't a lot of recourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 04:21 PM |
| -2 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Men who have just been railroaded into child support no longer trust the justice system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.Are you discovering the overarching definition of dishonesty? Yes, lying is dishonest. Deception is dishonest. Ommission is dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:40 PM |
| 17 | Do women throw fits just to make men stay home with themMy ex wife of 13 years would seduce me to stay home then ignore me. If I took her out, she would start a fight in the middle of a nice restuarant. It got to the point where I was bored to tears from the manufactured fighting that I would ask for the argument before we left. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | It’s insane how much some of these people have lied to themselvesI think this one fails the Bechdel test | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I’m planning on divorcing my wife, what is the most respectable way of doing it?Before telling my wife I wanted a divorce, I found the most bulldog woman-hating lawyer I could find; a man who became a lawyer because his first and second wives took him to the cleaners. I saved his number and prayed I never would have to use it. I then offered to share a lawyer, and we would only communicate with him together. Shared lawyer did child support and alimony calculations. Visitation, tax, etc. It was all reasonable and fair She got uppity only once, where I had to reveal the backu… | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 07:34 AM |
| 18 | With the recent P Diddy accusations and law suit I have to ask. How many of you straight men have been aggressively hit on and assaulted by gay men.I've had more than one man swear they could turn me gay. Seems kind of hypocritical. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/24 08:16 AM |
| 2 | I'm homeless, 18 and I know you people are going to give it to me straightI was thinking maybe a CDL for OP. Truck Drivers are already semi-nomadic. | /r/MGTOW | 12/02/21 03:54 AM |
| 4 | I'm homeless, 18 and I know you people are going to give it to me straightI see a lot of practical advice here, and while that is all good and all, i am a firm believer that creating a strong mental foundation is essential to success. 'How' we do something is a extension of 'why' we do, and the 'why' can be tough to answer when we feel abandoned, lost, and alone. Belief is important. You need to believe that you are meant to be here. Either belief in god or belief in yourself will carry you through; The latter is significantly more difficult. This will help banish dou… | /r/MGTOW | 11/02/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | What's your answer to such a question? I remember when I met a woman in her mid 50's and instead of asking she was confident that she can find a hot rich man and bear his children."yes." (i make no mention about the conditions of which she accomplishes these things. It isn't really worth the time or argument.) | /r/MGTOW | 01/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Those poor, innocent whamen being "manipulated" into riding the cock carouselI used to go to lunch with a buddy and we would pass by a bikini coffee shop, and he would always comment about those poor girls being manipulated into selling their bodies. Eventually i got fed up and pointed out there was a starbucks and a dunkin donuts a block away on either side. | /r/MGTOW | 23/09/20 06:18 PM |
| 5 | 47F, divorcee, jumped back on the CC. Why can't she find a good man?Where is this conservative Mecca, and how do i get there? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Please help me to convince my friend to not be such a simp and chasing all these woman around.I'm sure its been said before but MGTOW is recruited by women, not men. | /r/MGTOW | 16/04/20 03:46 AM |
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