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| 2 | Struggling with anger todayI got a letter demanding I attended jury selection. After the great injustice in regard to my divorce I was less than enthusiastic. I refused and emphasized my distain and contempt for a 16th century legal system that nobody can afford. I indicated justice is only for those who can afford a VERY expensive lawyer. My jury selection was canceled. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/26 03:43 PM |
| 11 | Three years after divorce - alternative pointI found that nobody cares, no one is going to rescue you and you are your best friend. Dating at 60 has always ended the same. Once I weed out the gold diggers, world travelers, pension seekers poor health issues etc it amounts to priorities. I'm always placed on the back burner ( as it should be?) anytime her grandkids get a snotty nose, her daughter stubs her toe, her son gets in trouble with the law, there seemingly is always a reason to get the dreaded 'dear John letter' Oh well, onward thro… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 04:50 PM |
| 3 | In retrospect, are you ever just COMPLETELY baffled at how you ignored the red flags?It's difficult to have logic and emotions working well at the same time. It's why doctors and lawyers don't usually represent themselves. It's easy to skip over logic when dopamine/love blinds red flags. It's the ancient pitfall of men and women and the family court system take full advantage of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 12:38 PM |
| 6 | I think I’m done boysYou will care once you figure out that you are your best friend. Life is a highway...get a motorcycle. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/26 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else have trouble dating after divorce?That would be ideal ( and it would truely be my preference) but in today's western world it rarely happens. Social media ruined it. The financial risk vastly out weighs the fantasy of a great loving relationship. Most of my friends and I have lost our life's work as our legal system is out to lunch and rewards poor choices and bad behavior. Anyone in a bad mood or not having fun or validated can easily turn to their phone and select from 4 billion other options. Remaining nieve equates to the wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/26 11:34 AM |
| 6 | Why Re-marry after Divorce?The world has changed. People are rarely satisfied now. At any time there are 4 billion other options on the phone. It's difficult to complete with the entire world. Social media has ruined dating and relationships. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 12:53 PM |
| 6 | Anybody else have trouble dating after divorce?You have yet to realize how fortunate you are...you will eventually absolutely cherish your freedom. Motorcycle, fishing, hunting, snowmobiling or what ever moves your curtains WITHOUT a controlling woman's approval or permission. If you're sexually active then just rent them. That way they can't take your life's work and assets from you because their " I love you but not in love with you' bullshit. Give it time...happy apexes! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Trying to get outSay nothing, empty the joint account NOW before she does. Make your own account and keep your mouth shut. Line up a new apartment, get a lawyer then blind side her like most women do to men. That would indeed be a breath of fresh air and a pleasant change. Eventually find one of 4 billion women... Be kind but firm. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 03:46 PM |
| 13 | You know what I think? I don't think these chicks really wanted marriage and kids to begin with. They just thought they did.Once/ if ever, men wake up and start thinking with their big head...it shall be the end of mankind at least in western civilization. Just rent women, it's much more affordable and financially less risky. Our legal system gave my ex my life's work. If I had just rented them from day 1, I would be a wealthy man in lieu of having nothing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/26 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Help me reason with my husband please. Idk how to talk him down from the ledge.If rough patch involved infidelity then not getting over it is understandable from my point of view. It`s something I suspect few would tolerate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Divorced man claiming I was narcissisticMet my girl in 1992. I took her and her daughter on, I bought a new house, gave her daughter a back yard and upscale friends and a reliable family unit. 32 years later my now ex became a different woman, violent, abusive and so she moved on. Said step daughter no longer talks to her mom. Anyway the family unit becomes a way of life until your life is flipped upside down. Divorce, half my income and wondering wtf happened. Even though our youngest daughter still lives with me, the recluse thing h… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 08:09 PM |
| 6 | Weird how everything fell into place like I predicted it would...The woman you divorce is not the same woman you married. Too bad we can't see who they really are beforehand. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 12:44 PM |
| 2 | I'm miserable, 38 years married.I`ve Divorced after 32 years with the ex. Do you know why it`s so expensive? Because it`s worth it!! I`ve found happiness and freedom again. Am I ever glad that monster is gone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else wonder how a sweet loving giving woman...Cops took my wife away in handcuffs. I never saw her again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice here. Care for vs. Love my wife.Day after day, love turns gray like the skin on a dying man...~Pink Floyd~ Did monogamy exist in prehistoric times or is it mostly a delusional modern phenomenon? Obviously it does for some but generally speaking, is monogamy just wishful thinking or perhaps engineered to keep families together? IMO it`s cheaper to keep her if you can stomach it. Keep in mind, no one can make anyone happy. Happiness comes from within. If you think your going to save her, think again. You only get one life to liv… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/26 05:49 PM |
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