unhappyjobhunter Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How to keep homes and not pay alimony	unhappyjobhunter	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/19 04:48 AM
2	Negotiating divorce settlement in South Carolina	unhappyjobhunter	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/20 07:37 PM
1	Online therapy apps/website recommendations to help with decision	unhappyjobhunter	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/21 05:11 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Online therapy apps/website recommendations to help with decision My dad always said my mom had BPD when I was growing up. I'm fairly certain my mother in law has BPD and that is where the majority of the issues we're currently having are coming from. My mother in law guilts my wife into doing things or feeling bad about the way we live and then my wife relays that guilt to me. Then my wife's extended family gossips and makes my wife feel even worse about whatever thing her mom is pressuring her to do. Whatever my mother in law has is 10x worse than what my mo…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/21 08:09 AM
4	Bill and Melinda Gates divorce after 27 years of marriage Marriage is a scam	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/21 03:35 AM
2	Gender busting the property settlement .... Employed wife providing support for ex hubby post divorce That's only true if the court decides to treat it that way and sadly it's common for men to be treated as second class citizens in many courts across the country	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/21 11:40 PM
5	Update - Hired the lawyer. Wife is now on best behavior. My wife is acting like this too. She moved into her parents house at one point but then moved herself back in a month later and changed every behavior that made me want a divorce. I’m confused on what to do. I still have 8 months of separation before I can officially file. I’m about to take some time off work and travel the country by myself to figure things out. One of the main things was she had completely let herself go and refused to do anything about it, to the point where we weighed the sa…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/21 05:11 AM
3	How would you react to this So you only get to take home 1200 of the money you earn each month and have to pay her ~7000? If I were in your position I would move to a new country and renounce my US citizenship.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/20 08:29 PM
3	Not sure how to deal with alienation and a narcissistic ex. I could use some advice. I wonder if you could get them to have a heart to heart with you and then you explain the court system to your kids. Tell them you love them, etc.. and explain that their mom is upset about the divorce. Explain that you're both good parents, but aren't good together and then blame everything else on the court system. Explain that parents are encouraged to use their children against their spouses in divorce and that's what their mom is doing to you right now. Say she's not a bad person, she's jus…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/20 10:02 PM
1	Negotiating divorce settlement in South Carolina To be honest I don't know how agreeable she will be yet, I know she doesn't want to get divorced. Part of the way she talked me into the marriage was saying if it doesn't work out then we can get divorced and its no big deal. But during recent fights where I've hinted at a divorce she keeps saying she's "dependent" on me and doesn't make enough on her own to live. She even mentioned quiting her job and moving back in with her parents in our home town if she gets divorced, which makes me think sh…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/20 09:36 PM
0	Wife Wants $18k to Walk Away - should I take it? Do you have any other assets involved? I'd pay my wife 18k if she agreed to let me keep our home	/r/Divorce_Men	08/03/20 01:09 AM
1	How to keep homes and not pay alimony South Carolina, No Kids, we've been married 18 months, she makes 50k and I make 120k	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/19 05:23 AM