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I've been out of soap for about a month, haven't noticed a difference to be honest lol. Sometimes at the gym I use they stuff the provide in the showers, but otherwise I don't see a reason to spend money on it anymore! (I know, only a little, but besides the point)
/r/askTRP14/08/16 01:42 AM
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I was a fairly poor white kid who went to a mostly poor black school. Skin color has almost nothing to do with anything in my view, it's all socio-economics and how people perceive your tells (eg. urban accent). I'm a self-made getting-rich white guy who grew up basically as a poor minority (white minority amongst black and asian, some gangs).
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 03:17 PM
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If she likes you she's trying to impress you. She likes clear minds, it's a masculine trait I think, so she thinks that's what you want (meta hamster). She'll learn what you like and bring up more stuff like that. Then just let her talk and reinforce stuff you like. If she gets boring just playfully force yourself on her or tickle her or something to make her laugh/feel good and stop talking. Then chill out a little bit or change the topic or you get the picture.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:44 AM
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Smart girls like hood boys, dumb ass. Show her the sweet side when she's good.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:41 AM
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Despise what you can't have.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:38 AM
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I tell girls I date/want to date that I want a wife to support me in my quest, if it gets that far. Ie. they aren't career women, it goes over fine. I go on to mention that I won't get married on paper (unless beneficial--she won't know this or she'll try to game it--she'll think ever) but I'll give her a big rock and babies and a nice house in the city and private school and all that stuff. Bux for sure, but status matters and I'll pay.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:34 AM
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When she makes a threat (or my case an overt act toward) suicide, immediately call an ambulance. Don't fuck around, call 911 and get them there ASAP. Don't let her know you called, duck out, make the call, unlock the door so they can come in. Did this. She locked herself in the bathroom, I immediately ducked out to call 911 and say what happened. IIRC they were on the phone silently the duration of the call, till the squad and ambulance showed up. Officers took my report without incident, even t…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 12:24 AM
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2 HR girls who've fired me for various "anti-woman" sentiments have gotten tingles during exit interviews. Getting better about concealing my contempt for shitty behavior and honestly I don't hate women, I hate bitches (men and women alike). I think they can detect this even though I've broken company policy, probably understand the people I call out deserve it. I know, I shouldn't do this on the job, but sometimes it slips--usually when I don't give a fuck about keeping the job anyway (eg. fed …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:39 PM
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Women consume shoes, men consume women, puppies consume children.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:32 PM
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Likewise. Being 'nice' feels like the right thing to do, until the whack-a-mole effects start showing up. You've said A to please Johnny and B to please Sue and now they both want to hang out at the same time and contradict each other? Welp, better try to discredit Johnny because Sue doesn't like that stuff that I have in common with him and has a vagina that I want real bad. Forget that, now I just say that I'm not friends with girls and if they want to follow me around they can. I am friends w…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:27 PM
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Thank you for your symbolic-like breakdown yet again man. Are you learning / do you know Hebrew? What's your method of acquisition?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:16 PM
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I posit that drugs aren't addictive to people with passion/hobbies. I read an article about 'flow state' and how it dumps all 5 happy chemicals onto your brain at once, making drugs that give 1-2 of them nothing on flow state. I am certain gaming puts people into flow state. I've never been addicted to anything except programming including a bunch of things you list, but I am a total junkie if you get in the way of me and flow. I probably got into flow state gaming Simulation/RTS when I was youn…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 08:21 PM
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Yuck. Back in civics class I learned that in the US we prefer to let a guilty person walk free than to lock up an innocent one. I don't know if that's ever been true because I'm young, but I sure believed in it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 06:54 AM
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NICE, that's the feeling right there. Gotta be the right club but I it definitely resonates. Last night I was actually playing with just dancing confidently while hot girls encircled me--first scene party in 3-4 years (as opposed to general clubbing/shows), too bad I didn't watch this right before going! I was toking and got a little kiss from Molly, it was a good reminder what that state in the video feels like. I was at the party 'till 6a and generally was pretty sober after about 1a, ended up…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 10:10 PM
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I'm with you dude. I hated my dad for a long time, but now it's switched and I think my dad is alright and my mom totally fucked my brother and I over. I blame him to a degree for not reigning in my mom, but at the same time he was raised without a father by many older sisters so he's king BP in a lot of ways, though strongly stoic so seems kinda alpha in some ways. My mom definitely sewed resentment between me and the other family members, outright manipulation now that I am aware of it. Dad I …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 02:30 AM
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What is it about people that makes them bend to the whim of another person and have no self respect? I've done it a few times. In the name of working it out, etc. it's their fault for staying in a shitty situation. And absolutely this. You don't just say "no you can't control me," you leave the relationship when she starts to try. To build on this now, first relationships with boundaries seem hard. If you've never been in a healthy relationship--eg. had emotionally abusive/missing family and mos…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 02:22 AM
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Interesting take on "just be yourself", I'd always thought it was generic advice that worked for all the alphas they knew--all the guys that seem effortlessly hot. Your version makes sense as an unspoken implication. But the former continues to ring true to me, because the more I build my routine the more I am pretty hot without trying. Eg. haircuts scheduled every 4-6 weeks ahead, enough shirts for a couple weeks of dry cleaning, and going weekly, laundry day, own place that I clean (soon to ha…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 02:56 AM
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Makes me feel lucky. If I had a trillion dollars I'd be doing roughly what I'm doing now. It's challenging and everything, only shit part is the coworkers trying to steal and shit all over everything. There's always one. Recently it's leading to terminations, can't go on forever. I'm a hard working honest guy but I keep getting fucked in the workplace, I wish I could just write open source and freelance and get the same stimulation as the big scale projects corporations give me.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 10:10 AM
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Thanks dude, I fundamentally get this right now. Started a new job, getting bullied. Came in and accidentally out shined my entire team hard (from scrappy startup to slow moving corp). I've spent the night reading workplace bullying literature. I've been bullied a lot/majority of the time in the past in retrospect :\ . I've also been a bully, probably. I notice myself now feeling emotions but I do use them to label 'foe' 'probably foe, maybe just having bad day' instead of reacting a lot more of…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 09:45 AM
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How would you incentivize phone free dining? If it makes you sad, it might make others sad, which is an externality... how would you subsidize healthy meals at an establishment, so to speak? Discounts for not having phone out? Check phone at the door, get a drink/app ticket, etc... ideas?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:49 AM
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In terms of another post this morning, tldr: getting women is a system, not a goal :) They do care about themselves, they just didn't have the tools to fix themselves, they didn't have self awareness to notice they did, and they didn't have opportunity. They had anger, and in turn a deranged subconscious. Degraded subconscious, deep. They did have the opportunity though, and they know it when they are faced with people who took it. I'm from a kinda rough past too and killing it now, don't go to …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 05:40 PM
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Other guys who get it can stack things in your favor to an extent, can make good wing men. 5'6" here, almost always the shortest of the group by a good amount (6"+ majority, money'd/high achieving/good gene circles). Some guys can be total fucking dicks, others see the handicap and want everyone to have a good night. I can be on fire solo too, so it's all good with the right environment. I've seen that prayer before and think it's a good one. Play to your strengths and you can still generate eno…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 08:47 PM
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I am pretty open with new dating prospects/cool friends that I don't look at porn and think it's damaging, but that I do maintenance wank from time to time, and note the difference in how I feel. I'm not judgmental, people seem to catch that... I find the few cool people in self improvement/hobby related ways, so they are pre-vetted to some extent. Not with many people, just a few, but it's generally well received with some agreement.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 08:28 PM
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Also in some metros, to add, fiber gigabit (20-50x cable throughput) at home with sub-5ms pings are becoming common. Musicians can collaborate at 20ms, stew on that for a few minutes. Down with the filthy bitches, up with bitches who walk the independent woman walk.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 08:25 PM
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Dropped out of HS, later went to Uni and put my head down and did well. Was low level chad, in a sense. Pre RP by a few years. Honest, but I ran through girls every couple months and didn't think of that as frequent, from the time I was 15ish (started to have great skillz). Mostly semi-ldr between hoods/departments. I was uber nice guy but had chad moments strong enough to draw them in for a while. I enjoyed the game of school, knew what I was getting from it. Maximized my investment the best I …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 02:37 PM
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I don't hear it as a break up song. I hear it as a song saying he doesn't fuck with small people who accuse him of fucking with them in some sense. Like when some ugly chick accuses you of being suggestive and all you can think is "is this bitch serious?". Edit: Upon relistening the E-40 verse is where my ears perk, and how I hear it more generally. The following Big Sean verse follows the message.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 04:00 AM
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More stimulation needed. Living in your head too much, getting rusty.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 08:41 PM
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I take a mixed approach. Sometimes girls are feminine and giving them some time in exchange for that is worth it. I don't have much access to feminine women but I like them when I have a chance to spend 20 minutes with them. I didn't have sisters or anything to practice with, so I give them the time so to speak. If I've just met them, I give them a couple extra dates because I'm vetting them. I've had ONSs and a couple plates, by no means a Casanova. When circumstance allows I'll be more into ON…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:59 PM
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For the rest of the night I just kept approaching, both men and women. I'm trying to be more social with everyone, not just women. Most if not all girls were very receptive and very nice. It's almost as if I was scared of nothing this whole time. I take this approach when I go out. If somebody is offput by a stranger talking to them, I had always thought it was their problem. The other night a friend told me I need to look more, makes lots of sense, gotta thank him next time I see him. We're all…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:52 PM
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Cool, thanks haha. Yea I don't assume it's how they live at all, but the sentiment connects and it's a good product. Looking forward to the next one even more. Edit: we all sit here on TRP with our handles doing the same thing. Assume it's all a game and you're cool, spend your money/time as you see fit.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:33 PM
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Yes sir, I like to loop albums over whole days. Dark Sky Paradise is very good overall, I am sure I could find some flaws but it's overall very very high quality in my ears.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:29 PM
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A lot of rappers seem RP but they're really not. I'm very much with you. It's easy to write off Big Sean but I can listen to Dark Sky Paradise (Deluxe) all day no shuffle. Ice Cube is dope, my morning playlist starts with Too West Coast, followed by 8 Mile from Enimem. FWIW it does not include Big Sean (yet). Again, can't speak for his personal life, but it also doesn't really concern me since the message is delivered.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:26 PM
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That's okay to lose the steam when rage subsides. I am pretty habit oriented these days. I changed jobs, moved, etc etc within a couple month period and only made it to the gym 1-2x/week sometimes in the last few months. ONLY 1x a week, is better than I was ever before. 5x at its peak brought me a long way. Knowing that it'll get better when things calm down and not beating myself up was important too. What's the problem? It's good to not have rage. As you learn to deal with rage you'll almost n…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 06:08 PM
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The song "I don't fuck with you" by Big Sean was a driving factor of getting me into rap, concurrently with digesting the pill (last 1.5/3 years). Excellent album if you listen through it 20 times for context, very few traces of Blue Pill. Whether what he says lines up with his real life or not I don't know, but the message fits the red narrative. That song is one of the stupider sounding ones, but in the overall message it's actually pretty good. Another one that sounds stupid on the surface is…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 06:00 PM
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4 times no kiss was the problem. First time or maybe maybe bonus for history and her knowing you're a fucking pussy, you were pwned by "hang" 3.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 08:11 AM
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TLDR: He is internally stable, and his personality doesn't shift from situation to situation. Thanks, good work with the article. It hit home, but that's a reminder to myself. I consciously noticed a while back that I used to be very different in different situations, and now I strive to be the same across them. The narrative format was cool. Made us work for the point, which is ok for a red pill guy chillin' on a Saturday in relax mode. I am glad you didn't pretend RP guys don't have weekly sch…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:35 AM
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Hahaha, not surprised AT ALL. That was my working hypothesis but I wasn't going to out and say it. And he received threats? Dang, wouldn't think it would go THAT far, but people. Thanks for the clarification and archive.org link!
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 06:18 AM
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Likewise, one who moves from the high gentry (G2) to a 90-hour-per-week job in private wealth management (E4) is applying her refined intellectual skills and knowledge to serving the rich, in the hope of making the connections to become one of them. From a power perspective this is a GOLDEN reason to silo your employees if you're an aspiring E4. If connections are currency for the elite ladder, it's obvious. Further, siloing can keep dirt off your hands as you can engineer situations to rid your…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 06:02 PM
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Wow. I'm a huge fan of Michael O. Church, very curious why he took this down! I'd love to share it with my family and friends to explain my incomprehensible struggles to my mostly G2 friends. I am from an L3 home/family and live in a G2/G1/E4 life presently. Personally mostly G2 with some actual G1 in my profession (known by 1000s via press/followers) and some E3 in my circles. I occasionally fall down to G3 (E3 are commonly fired, I think that applies to G2 as well). A lot of my old friends are…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 05:53 PM
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Know what's hot as fuck to a girl? Calling her on the phone and being the best conversation she's had in months/her life. If you can find one with a long attention span. FOUND ONE and talked with her for hours, haven't done that since I was a teenager it feels like. A nice feminine one. I know, time is valuable, etc... but TBH it was about as long as a date, and free. She was entertaining enough and attitude good enough, she said she didn't want to meet right away and I said then we'll do a phon…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:49 PM
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It occurred that perhaps the ability to read a girl and treat her appropriately is what girls are selecting for. That the game is less important than your ability to to play it with her. And that creep-shame/crime is unawareness punished, to some extent.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:41 PM
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I find if the girl already likes me, she likes texting with me. If she likes me and I don't text her, she's fine too. Sometimes I give nothing and they get upset and at first I was a dick about it. Now I text them a little bit, mostly in response, with an occasional picture. Woopty, even your grandparents can send pictures and texts now. So overall, it seems like a tool that can be useful as you wish it or not. Conclusion: be attractive. Dicks get pussy, I guess :)
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:36 PM
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Thanks. Sounds intense, have been using similar methods at on transit at times. My train line is 30-45 minutes so it's hard to time an opening. They have to be what I'm looking for and likely to be looking for me. We talk the whole ride, or talk for a bit and then zone out and maybe back in, doing our own things. I sometimes use errands on the way home to camp a few seats. I don't go to them much, but if they IoI me and I can open naturally I jump on it. Standing, many get very very close. It's …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:45 AM
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Thanks, hadn't thought to do it to a stranger but with a grin it's well received when I playfully do it to people I'm already talking with.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:29 AM
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Even the nicest, most innocent, cutest girls are visibly sickened/offended if a neckbeard so much as looks at them. My instinct is still to wince and look away when I catch a girl's gaze; unlearning it, because they like what they see now. The more I let myself catch their gaze, the more smiles and twinkles I get
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 05:07 AM
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Wow. Between OP and this response, I've evaluated both possibilities in long anxiety fueled nights (sometimes into morning light). The implications of each are the same: stop worrying and get your ass out of bed maggot :)
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 02:29 AM
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Nice. I've been here and rode right past that red flag and worse, multiple times. That past idiot got fuuuuucked up, you dodged a bullet. Did ya'll share mutual friends? I'd hang out with them and casually mention the uneventful move out and good terms before she can do any ish :). Congrats on the dodge
/r/askTRP05/07/16 02:20 AM
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Firework boat party tomorrow early, should be a better environment than loud late club :)
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 07:36 PM
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Went out and danced with lots of girls. Did not use this line. Practiced eye contact and instant approach and kino. Had some girls orbit me, but I still can't close them. Some would keep showing up infront of me and I'd approach/kino and they'd leave, only to reappear and keep doing it. It was a specific theme tonight, red white and blue, and I was America'd out, so I was just approaching others dressed up with reckless abandon. It's 4:45am now, had 2 gin and sodas + a Heineken at the end becaus…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 11:43 AM
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A joke, or an efficient business model?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 01:20 AM
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I can never find Should be "I have not yet found"... the way we phrase things to ourselves can limit us.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 01:16 AM
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I found extended stay hotels are a reasonable option. The prieces vary, the closer to business/travel centers the more expensive, but sometimes you can find one by a transit hub and stay for about 1.5x local rent in the area, with 7 and 30 day discounts. I lived in a number of them, and they are reasonably maintained with weekly house keeping and space for 2. Usually motel style, which means external entrance with balcony and easy parking (if you/girl has a car). They're often cheaper to book di…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 01:08 AM
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Do you feel like you're winning anything in life? Those periods inspire my sex drive. Currently I'm discovering a new pool of women who I have something to offer, with the new RP mindset and a healthy injection of NGAF. Haven't been laid in a while, but I'm getting propositions and actually being pretty conservative in getting into a great new life situation and toes back out after a light kinda forced monk mode (financial + family + medical shit storm). But now I feel really good about my life …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 12:35 AM
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If I am in a period that's good for me to get laid, eg. killing it at work and keeping house clean, "in the swing of things" so to speak, I don't have time to fap. When I start, I think about how awesome nofap is and maybe edge it a little but just remember I should be doing other stuff and let the energy accumulate and come out later in the week with a gal. Much more gusto when my nut is trying to bust, weeks 1.5-3 are amazing. I'll let myself clean it out a couple times after 3-4 weeks, and re…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 12:23 AM
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Day ~15 of nofap stretch (almost never fap in last 3-4 years, after making fun of a friend for doing nofap and then just trying solo without reddit after seeing YBOP), haven't been laid in fucking forever... got the man tingles and it's a night of perfect logistics >:] -- thanks for the guide, have incorporated these myself in the last few years and had a wondrous turnaround.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 12:18 AM
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YES. I moved to a nice city into a house at the same time as this other chick, and she gave me the king treatment, it was fucking amazing... never looked back. Found another Latina out by chance, she was a good plate for a while until I started listening to her and she lost all respect. I haven't had a plate in a while, been in kind of a shit place without realizing it, not even respecting myself :... in any case, back to a good spot, can already feel tentacles creeping out of vaginas from a lot…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 04:12 PM
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LMFAO, I am going to test this tonight :). I know for a fact the answer is yes with vast swaths of women including FOB Latinas and I happen to love their king treatment :) :) -- this can work on them, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 03:52 PM
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I once cut a circle out. The one salvageable girl is one I went in for a kiss with on the first night we met. She noped and I said had to try and shrugged and we were cool after that. Turns out I was dicking her friend who lived there before her good too--the former room mate is what started dragging me through the mud, yet the new girl who noped me is loyal to me. She'll fuck me eventually if I take it (our social circles touch maybe 4-5x/yr), she was about 2 years pre wall at the time... "hey,…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 03:44 PM
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Solid advice... I find #2 less true as my chest and arms expand from LIFTING. Shirts that used to run long on me now fit pretty well, makes sense when you think about yourself in 3D.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 05:51 PM
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There was a post about "mama issue boys" a while back... MiB traits. Worth a review.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:24 PM
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I see a lot of guys who hit new money wake up and turn it around, if they aren't taken in by an opportunistic woman too quick
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:55 PM
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Step 4: Get a panel done Go to a Men's Health specialist and get a full panel done. In particular, look for vitamin deficiencies and imbalances in your testosterone and estrogen levels. Vitamin deficiencies can usually be addressed simply, but hormones are a more difficult. General tips for "More T and Less E" are avoiding plastics, eating right, filtering your water, taking zinc / ZMA at night, losing weight and hard lifting. Which brings us to Thanks for the reminder and list... awesome all th…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:44 PM
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Careful, first one he's publicly with and the Valentine resurfaces and it's a pattern of behavior.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 06:01 PM
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She was beaming about it being a great idea and gave me her number then told me to text her that night. So I did, and didn't get a reply. The next morning she told emailed me that she got busy and would text me tonight after work. It didn't happen. I notice they ALL do this, not sure if intentional or not. I never count on receiving texts or them being available without a plan at a time in the future, as they get my time for free and they know it. No potential for good. Definite or spontaneous m…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:54 PM
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It sounds like you're against the systematic multiculturalism that's being spoon fed to us more than natural emigration/immigration that happens, with people enthusiastic to assimilate to their destination's way of life and bring their own flavor to America. Somewhat tangental, but I want to be seen as average among the best people in the world (while being the best, mysterious), so in that sense multiculturalism is essential to my career. I've heard Canada's system described as using a point ba…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 04:28 AM
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I'm sure you must not be racist, even if not pro-multicultural? Eg. I have some close acquaintances who seem like decent hard working people and have good Game who are Indian, quite fond of hanging with them. I don't know how they feel about me and their Game, obviously it's easy to hate/envy/fear a fit white guy who seems to be getting it right now. They're getting it too though, we don't seem in competition (abundance). I've always been pretty pro-LEGAL immigration, though never really anti-il…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:22 AM
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This seems fair. Seems like she'd feel good getting pummeled too. I have mentored a number of chicks who I was fucking, and they liked that I never cheated (followed honor code always) or treated them special in that context. They were proud of their own accomplishments, especially after many failures that I let them take. I was pretty romantic otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 02:47 AM
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Shit like this. I will marry in ceremony and title and stay in my non auto-domestic partnership state. Or I will get a proven accountant to set me up right, no matter the cost.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 02:33 AM
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New habit, about 9 months in. Had a pretty invasive surgery and layoff in that time that each knocked me out of regularity for a couple months each... night and day in the day to day. It's instinct that if I'm feeling lazy and bleh to "just fucking go" to work out, like CPR. It is absolutely essential! Yea I def do the big 3 or at least 2/3 if it's packed every session. My old clothes don't even fit, and I've not pushed or done more than just work out consistently daily, not even upping my weigh…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 08:28 PM
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My instinctual thought to describe my feeling reading this thread is "holy shit, I love NeoreactionSafe"... exactly like a fan, as you say. Meta fucking Saturday. Today I have relabeled love; respect, thanks mang.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 08:20 PM
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(the numbers of how much you lift don't lie) The only truth I know sometimes. Am I being an asshole? Is my boss gas lighting me? Is that bitch married? I don't fucking know. Shit, I'm tired 1/2 way through 2nd set at last week's working weight, what did I do different? One of a few incremental daily changes... sleep? food? jack off? work hard? etc... baseline source of reality. Line not going up when it should? Down? plan it out, make it go up and to the right. Edit: a lagging indicator of healt…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 05:32 PM
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I really rather hit the bong :) I have the skills to stack the bills up, just didn't care about stacking before. Well now I know what stacking buys me. Before long I'll have a home gym with plenty of greenery :)... perhaps I can garden between sets, and just breathe fresh air instead of gym sweat. I extend my "best ___ in the city" line to include gym. In the middle of the city with a roof top.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 06:48 AM
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I wish I could have a bong in the locker room. I rip it before I get on the bus to lift / run / swim all the time, and pretty frequently while I'm at home doing calisthenics / yoga and stuff. Feels so good.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 06:08 AM
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Depends what you like. A buddy and I went on his first bachelor party with a couple tents and got some bundles of fire wood and spent peanuts (next to nothing). I think it was under $600/3 all together. We were pretty yuppie relative to high school by that point, too... so excess spending on food etc. He would do no such thing now... he'd be the dude saying $5k/head range now. I was nodding along at $1k/head figures, TBH, until some later children knocked me into memory lane. I'd likely not do t…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 06:20 AM
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Heh... I fucking hated most of my last relationship. By the end I was fat and pathetic, and yea we went through these phases. As soon as I started pulling her (edit: during consensus/possibly branching), she was 180 and gone. Other comments have joked about using "I love you" as a way to make her run away, I think it'd work.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:20 AM
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Words like 'beta' entering the public vocabulary? YESSSSSSS I started talking about A/B with a girl I orbited for like 8 years shortly after finding TRP, maybe 3 years ago... our conversations on dating have been really interesting since. She's since become an Int'l plate and I've become soooo different in my new city :). She's optimizing her mating+resource strategy with great logic, from my view... she may not even be conscious how good her plan is. She knows what hypergamy and A/B are, is qui…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 05:09 PM
1

Six years of her dropping and flunking classes I paid for First problem. TBH I don't think you fucked up even by sending her to school or much else necessarily. I'd have cut her off after MAX 2 years. If she wanted to go back she could put herself through a semester and pass to redeem herself, or a similar agreed upon plan. You might've become beta and complacent as fuck during that time too, seems like you knew how to win and you know she was fucking up before year 6 dude. Cope however you must…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 03:26 AM
1

Damn, I lean in ALL THE TIME... damn. Also kinda deaf from concerts, and wear ear plugs at out to loud shows now. But I noted mentally "lean back and use facial expressions" when I can't hear from OP. Yay TRP nuggets
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 08:03 PM
4

It's true. Parents lived in a pretty ill maintained pad, and I brought a number of chicks through there and they didn't care... early 20s, so college and service industry chicks. I was insecure about it at the time for the first couple, but saw them ngaf over and over so stopped caring even though the beta thought I+they should care.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 05:38 AM
2

I lost the lay because I was too undisciplined and couldn't even maintain the simple task of keeping my room clean. I know some people would say fuck it take her anyway, but I have too much respect in myself to bring any potential fuck into a gross room. The lay isn't worth that much anyway. You did the right thing, from one random Internet guy!
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 05:32 AM
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It's easier than that. Step 1: Be white Step 2: Interact with a victim-mentality non-white person in a way that creates bad feelz
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 05:16 AM
3

LMAO, they do that in computer games? I got a Wii back when it came out and got stuck in Zelda in something maybe similar. I came back to the game after like a week or two and had no idea how to progress, nobody I talked to for like 10 minutes seemed to be telling me shit, turned it off and sold that shit. I fucking hate computer games dude, maybe when I'm old I'll go back to making Warcraft II and Duke3D maps :). Wandering around in a video game, to avoid wandering around in life... kinda meta.…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:55 PM
1

Same boat. My passion turned into my job, but now I can't apply passion to the day-to-day because I have no control over it (big league software engineering isn't glamorous, but it pays). So I'm learning management skills. End game? Trillions of dollars and a harem and mad respect from all the guys. If I have to settle for a house in the hills and a condo in the city and a couple side bitches and a few books out in my name, so be it :). I dunno man, at the end of the day money, power, respect, o…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:30 PM
4

Find a new one dude, learn from your mistake. I was laid off recently amidst a plume of layoffs in my industry, basically was on shit terms with my manager who inherited me. Keep going to the gym and eating good food (you've been doing that, right?). Learn to be stoic. Strategize about how you're going to find your next one and kill the interviews. Review the laws of power and other books. Take rest days, they really stir up the stuff in your brain in good ways. If you want particulars on day to…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 09:18 PM
2

I'm in a patch where I'm getting my finances together, and the best way to do that right now is by getting a 9-to-5. I am in the $200k/yr range. I could freelance and maybe squeeze more but I want some stability, been busting ass for 15+ years without much of a break, and nothing to show for it. Haven't been getting paid, apparently... or initial grind period over. I found the least bad job I could get paid what I wanted for. It's actually quite sweet and I could be a happy slave there for a few…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 09:01 PM
1

Motels are trashy, haha... they're pretty normal around the world where living with the 'rents is normal. There might be a "semi-upscale" one or a nice hotel lobby/starbucks bathroom around downtown -- protip: go a day ahead to figure out the door code :). Class is overrated. Good luck! (edit: added starbucks)
/r/askTRP30/05/16 01:36 AM
2

Cool, so then I think you need to set that frame and can use this as a test. She needs to show up and play the part, hopefully you've conveyed your expectation to her. She knows this about about the place and is excited for it? I've done this with a girl before, a plate who wanted to upgrade but always wore sweats out which I never liked to begin with. I invited her to a pretty nice sushi place, and what did she wear while I was dressed nice? Yea, forever a plate-or-less for her. As for the bott…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 09:00 PM
1

Step 0, how did you setup the date? Upscale lunch already sounds kinda boring. Only semi-upscale, why not all the way? I hope it was your suggestion :). You're stepping into a BB "gotta wait" relationship before you do anything. If that's okay and you want to do the date, just lead. Treat her like your friend and like you're at the date place for some particular reason... they make their own bread, or something. You'd be happy there even if she didn't show up, has to be your approach, then she'l…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:47 PM
1

she expresses her concerns indirectly or very directly about me staying loyal and fucking around with other girls. She's having trouble staying loyal and not fucking around with other guys. In her mind, since she is you are. MORE DREAD not less. She's insecure that maybe you're not worthy of her pussy.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:38 PM
1

One of my old plates would always say "what!?" when I'd pause. It was hilarious. It went on for months, and she only ever got mad but always kept fucking until I failed some other shit tests and she went nuclear (still tries to fuck when she's in town). Fix: realize anger is one step from horniness.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:21 PM
1

It also gives girls tingles. Never mind the beta fear of being seen with such an evil piece of literature, girls I close while reading this book always hit me up.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:08 PM
2

Yuck, sounds like we have the same problem. I didn't realize this is what I do, I'm too busy observing to think about what I'm doing :\ ... I get reputation as being quiet, then when I wile a little bit people get disgusted with my outgoingness because I don't fit in the box they'd put me in at all. Do you happen to be physically small? I was at an interview with two guys that towered about a foot over me the other day... uphill. Kind of an epiphany, I pressed on. Without all the practice from T…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:03 PM
1

We're in different domains so it's kinda apples to oranges, I'm in engineering where we need to brainstorm and cooperate so that we can have something that works. Sounds like you're playing fine in your domain, I can say with certainty that if an Engineering Manager/Director/VP behaved as you do you'd have an incredibly dysfunctional org and nothing would ship. So youd would feel pretty Alpha, but the company would be fucked and his Alpha would be pretty upset. Edit: of course, if you play the g…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:15 PM
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You got to be senior management how? If top priority is paycheck then by all means, step in line to submit to your boss and don't contribute new ideas. I work in an industry where brains mater, fwiw... same doesn't apply to burger flippers. I sure didn't get where I am being a good little follower. Was I a dick? According to some who wish they had my position, sure. Did I garner as much buy in as possible before acting? Of course. At the end of the day, line workers need to be able to think whic…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 04:28 AM
10

The woman is trying to get what she needs and she might get it, but she is not satisfied, I can’t really explain it, but it is something like that. I'll try: it's like when you're looking for a new specialized job because you hate your current one, but you still need the pay check. You start emotionally distancing yourself while you interview around, and might be kind of a jerk to your boss if you're getting close to walking and just DGAF anymore.' Understand that once an emotional break-up happ…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 03:26 AM
8

"daddy don't be frustrated, traffic is nice." Traffic is nice. If you leave with enough time to account for it, you fucking chill and listen to some classical music. If you don't account for it you're gonna have a rough time... you're accounting for it, right? :). Part 2 is laughing at everyone else being worked up, because they're not on top of their own shit and getting all emotional while you chill. Little girl sounds like a blessing! Congrats on STBx and sounds like custody.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 03:11 AM
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Careful with engaged audiences. Sometimes a person fires me up about something I'm working on and a few people circle around and listen. In those situations I'm clearly high status, but using animated movement can help keep the audience engaged. I also ask affirmative questions of the audience, which a high status person probably wouldn't do (because it's not required, alpha doesn't waste energy /s). Being animated and engaging the audience is high status if it's consistent with your persona, I …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 03:04 AM
1

Try reading The Soul of an Octopus... even they get destructive if they're left in a tank with nothing interesting to do. They also run on estrogen and testosterone. A good teacher would figure out what made you tick, and reward/punish by it.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:28 PM
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I'm with you, and in a place where EVERYONE identifies with their job. I've found a few who "get it" and been told those words myself. Fly solo, do whatever you want. If work comes up, just give a canned answer and move on. You're talking to them for a reason, right? BE a man, lead the conversation where you want it. I often eject myself politely when a WK/BB buddy persists on the work topic. Watch the body language of people as you do these things, often you can loop back later if she/they get …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:00 PM
1

It's all good, glad I had dozens of tales here from other former Michaels to model my own path to success after :)
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:29 AM
1

True that, but it's really not a long term solution. With calorie restriction alone and calisthenics you can work your body into a pretty godly state. A well trimmed beard can mask shitty bite/jaw problems. In that state you can wear a t-shirt from target and not look like a high schooler. About the only thing that costs money is a daily facial cleanser, and that's like $15 a few times a year. Even a shit haircut looks okay on a good body. I might not be telling you anything, but for whoever's r…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 09:55 PM
1

But try to socialize with those that are going to influence you in a positive way, not those who will tear you down or are low energy. This is why I've generally stopped going to bars that just have drinks and TVs. Those assholes aren't there to improve their own lives... they sure aren't going to help mine. Music venues or museums with drinking? Count me in! :) This way you can stay in monk mode but go to the art gallery happy hour and enjoy some free art with a beer, and maybe talk to others w…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 07:11 PM
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Thanks for this. Reading it because I'm uncertain of my loserdom status... hence my commentary might provide some value. Years not weeks The way to get out of rock bottom is to take it slow and accept that it's going to take you many years to come out. Mindset. Doesn't seem possible. I was lucky to see a former FAT classmate lose a lot of weight with keto, the moment I needed inspiration (was on keto myself the day I got home, days later). This dude looked GREAT and was disciplined still when we…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 10:08 PM
1

I get annoyed walking up the street with certain people in the last ~18 months, who seem to have no sense of themselves. (as I've gotten in shape and worked with a trainer, weird). I probably used to be that way considering none of my new friends are that way, just old ones I see sometimes, and are quite BP. I consciously practiced this walking through seas of beautiful people (world famous city, tourist hotel area), and I only take contact as a signal of interest or my own drunkenness now. Lite…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 08:54 PM
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even especially if you're the only one on the dance floor. The hotties will follow suite soon. -5'5", great posture, kinda fit, chucks, jeans, pleated shirt, kinda ugly TBH :)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 08:49 PM
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Nice, I do this to job recruiters too. They seem eager to blab out bigger numbers when I use TRP's advice. I found my natural rhythm and a bunch of hippie shit, but practically speaking, I have a few blocks in my day where I know I'll be having lunch between 11:30-2:30ish 95% of the time, so I only say I'm available then for lunch interviews then. If they want an onsite, I give 3-4/5 days for a week. If They want a phone call, I give a couple small time windows on about 3 of the days. I also dis…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 07:36 PM
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Missed a HOT one yesterday. Met her 2 days ago, she 3x texted me about our convo when she woke up, I called her back and we talked for about 10 minutes. Said she was free looking to find a place for a beer but didn't know where, suggesting kama sutra, coming over, etc... the morning after meeting her. Like. Like. How fucking dense am I? She wanted me to invite her over. I was on the phone for 10 minutes and missed hint after hint. Fuck. But I had something to do anyway. She's not read my last sn…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 04:25 AM
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Thanks for the thorough post. I pissed all over my manager for my last few months out of frustration, pretty fatal move for me but god damn it, fucking piece of shit, it felt good. Also learned a TON and my inner machiavelli sociopath egg has spoken its first words and is learning how to take its first steps. Little bastard has been kicking hard for a while, being fucked by a master teased it out. Not really even shredded, I knew what I was doing at the end and it felt good as fuck. In the end t…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 03:56 AM
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Thanks dude. To clarify/update all later on, I'm all good. Thanks to anyone who's given any kind of good thoughts, and to the person who offered to help with airline miles. (edit: removed tmi).
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 08:07 AM
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-r-ASKtrp... how can you avoid a date with an 8/10? many of us will never even face such a problem of going on a date with an 8 dude. What's your question? My brother just died after about 10 days in a coma and I've not had enough money to go see the fam yet. Be lucky you woke up, too, bro. Smash it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:46 AM
1

While you are staring into her eyes at a candlelit dinner [...] Most people hate themselves. If he loves her this much, all she can think is what the fuck is wrong with you? In addition to possibly "what else can I get for how little?"... people despise a free lunch, and this guy has shown his cost.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 12:43 AM
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I feel you, I can't criticize anything, you took action you thought was best for that moment. But you have to look at everything on the forever term... "can this continue at this rate?" I hear a resounding no. Will it be another issue later? "is there anything in my power to make this situation sustainable?" if so "how much effort does it take, day to day?" Gotta weigh this, as cold and calculated as it sounds. Managerial thinking. Edit: Law #10... studying it now, because I'm that unlucky/unhap…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 11:59 PM
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Dude, I've been here too. My fucking world was crushed, boo hoo. While technically true, I'd just built an incredibly narrow world. Never again. I'll love a chick as much as I ever loved one before again when my SMV brings her (and I've vetted her and that's not turned me off), but not on an island again. Need several pillars of a successful life so if one or two break, there are others to keep it around. (idea cemented by the N. Korea political situation video, of all things). Even as a BP I kn…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 11:49 PM
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by making his genuine hurt seem like a bad thing. Feminine behavior, they're right by nature to shame. Not that I am innocent, but I can say he's inviting the shaming. approached me, 'needing to vent.' Tell him to fuck offfffff, more bitch shit. You can say it nice. Who are you that he needs to vent his feelings to you? Doesn't he have a brother or cousin or something? I put off going to bed for about 20 minutes to listen to what the problem was He raped you for your time, unless you consider th…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 11:42 PM
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How society and others view you MATTERS. KEY OBSERVATION right here. I refused to believe this pre-TRP... "fuck them, there are enough other people"... yes there are, in quantity. It was no fun being the lord of the bottom half. TRP helped instill the confidence to face that truth, turn around, and start climbing up the hill toward the "better" half. Not for everyone, I don't judge those who don't climb--doesn't mean I want to be friends :) Great guide, in notes and will review with time for sur…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 11:20 PM
1

-r-ASKtrp... I didn't listen to music anywhere I went when I moved to my new city for like 2 years, even on the bus or whatever. Now I do sometimes. Often not when going somewhere new. I use the radio when I'm on road trips, almost never do playlists. I sometimes do, sometimes don't at the gym. Always depends what kind of flow I'm making.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 10:54 PM
2

Haha, shit. Mixed blessing man, things like HGH and Braces are things kids who get Adderall also get. Those would've helped me as a short motherfucker with shit teeth (just saying, I accept myself and am learning Game). Probably also some parental involvement and clothes that fit. Yea, really was saying the last part rhetorically, kinda tangenting here. No reason we can't level up to a normal range with time, I think we agree. It's happening slowly, still becoming aware of ticks I have. Almost m…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 05:17 PM
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Jesus man... this thread is heavy as fuck. I'm with you. Came from a matriarchal family, was the sweetest best behaved little boy in the world... except when nobody was looking. Only realizing what a manipulative fuck I am in my 30s. I was on Adderall for a semester when I was about 25, and damn did it pacify me... Thank god my parents were like "hell naw" on the medications. My dad called anti-smoking brainwashing, I'd probably have listened to him about school a lot more if he'd not gone THAT …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:29 PM
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I'd say get a hotel if you do anything. She's got your number so she can probably find your real name if anything is linked to it. But real name isn't bitch or angry baby daddy rolling by your house randomly, or yourself on hidden teddy bear cam video, at least. Worst case he's got GPS on her car or some shit, but at least you should be clean.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:57 AM
1

Eh, I mean it's happened occasionally, but monthly? Find some new chicks! Or spend less time with them... (for anyone who suffers hearing about chicks they aren't fucking's periods, for fuck sake!!!).
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:49 AM
1

Rather than put in the work, what are you going to do? Simply say that getting hot girls is overrated and you're happy with a 6 because all hot girls are evil for wanting the best guys they can get. Not only that, you're going to drag others down with you and to your level, after all, if you can't have that 10 then why should they? This is what made me finally stop caring about having 'friends' around to not be out alone when I am looking for plates. There are a lot of annoying things about beta…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 03:27 PM
1

How do you know when all these people are on their periods? Literally the only time I know is when I try to take off a girl's pants and she says she's on the period (biotch).
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 02:59 PM
1

more like an equal human being then than any ... Though frowned upon men treating women unfairly in the sexual market place does more to encourage I'd argue you should have said FAIRLY... treating a low SMV girl less than a high SMV girl is FAIR (though BP would say "unfair" as you typed). I need to read it as FAIR for it to make RP sense, for what it's worth. women to loss lose weight ... Equality does not mean treating everybody equal. I like the idea of sameness vs equality, from programming …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:54 AM
1

Agreed... in our ideal state we are the selector. For myself and many of us, the set we can select from is often empty or contains only 1, because that's all our current market value can attract. We must keep working toward having bigger pools of options. Though, her set is ever-changing as well--both are dynamic, and sometimes they overlap. It might be worth considering the 0, 1, many possibilities as levels of game. I spent most of my life with the null set, occasionally getting an option and …
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:02 AM
1

LMAO, somehow you were down voted. This has been a personal indicator of Tinder excellence. Not saying much... these girls hardly try anyway. Nice work!
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:23 AM
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She's never yours, it's only ever your turn. If you look at it that way, maybe the rage will go away. (and if that's insightful, goto sidebar).
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 04:54 AM
4

I'm 150lbs and can drink all night and not have much of a hangover. I don't mix much and drink alright to good shit... 1/5 of st. george gin and fresh squeezed orange juice is a typical poison. wake up fine. a cup or two of water before bed if I'm on top of it. Toured a distillery and know what 'good shit' means generally... single distilled with a good process >> 7x distilled mixed grain, for example.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 05:46 AM
4

5'6" lift and dress well, could probably kick a lanky 6ft computer nerd's ass pretty easy, career game on lock and have my own place... With more game, I could spin plates. working on it. it's not easy to acquire them. there are niches where it is easy, and I'm kicking my ass into leveling up where I get returns. I am often completely ignored, like it's hard to get eye contact... but there are enough that I can move on and get some fun. Being assertive as a short gut is seen as pushy, so actuall…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 12:54 AM
2

I dig the idea, it's new to me. I'd call the situation "boiling frog" and this method the art and science of boiling frogs. In this case, the frog is a dead social life / possibly bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 10:17 PM
1

Indeed. IIRC the power posture stuff also bumps testosterone production and stunts cortisol... is there a link saying women feel worse on testosterone or better on cortisol? What other effects does being in a power pose have? (Asking rhetorically)
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 05:26 PM
1

This behavior should be selected for if we've experienced periods like this before, as well. Men who didn't breed during hard times (possibly for your reasons, outcome is the focus) but went on to breed a lot during prosperous times would be more prominent / exclusive in the gene pool after a few waves.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:03 PM
1

Nope, haha... nor have I. Doesn't mean chumps in recovery don't get the imagery while conquering approach anxiety :). But your question is deeper than you may know, asking myself questions like that while/before I do it in the moment encourages me. I've never seen a lot of shit that I worry about, so I can just do it and be like "well, that'd be a first." Cheers
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 02:42 PM
1

All good man. Please share when you find one that works for you!
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:36 PM
1

I'm 5'6" and often 'successfully' approach girls around 6" and up -- success isn't laying these girls, it's playing them to get more girls. 5'10" with great posture can easily stand taller than a 6" girl, also.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:48 PM
1

go to entertainment that interests you and just be present among people This. Sort of a rant/rave here. If you're living an authentic life, you're never worried about people asking questions. In a sense, I think it's the same root of "nothing to hide, nothing to fear" logic Edit: fallacy :). My biggest question I ask myself before I go anywhere, is "why?" ... I kinda leverage my overdeveloped superego here and I don't know if it's a long term strategy, but I think "what would I say if somebody a…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:41 PM
1

It can take years to cultivate friendships. Going to jump around a little in this post, because I'm still kinda struggling with this myself, but I've made progress. Recently I was at the birthday party of a person I met five years ago. We're both transplants, similar but also wildly different backgrounds. He's gotten married, bought a house, etc etc etc, and I've moved through other cities and back, and finally we're something resembling a group of friends with history. Five years, this is the f…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:25 PM
1

Posture and mobility if you're computer guy. I'm short and got relatively jacked, but my shoulers and hips were kinda locked so I still didn't quite look right. I've lost some size recently but gained mobility and posture, and am getting more attention than EVER. Girls literally throwing themselves on me. And I'm 5'6" as fuck and haven't bought clothes in a year, except 1 pair of shoes (though my shit is good).
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:12 PM
1

In the context of night life, I think it's easier if she's taller than average and you're shorter than average, because you're both having similarly awkward times in some aspects of life. You can relate. You could pull in some polarity and vibration ideas if you wanted to. Add she's in a dress and makeup and has long healthy hair and skin, and you're cut and well dressed and also have healthy hair and skin. I get along SO well and have SO much FUN with tall super feminine chicks. It's sort of im…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:04 PM
1

This is a great attitude. I used to say almost the same things as a BP, just now remembering. I basically followed positive communication patterns and they instilled dread, because I said it bi-directionally and in many situations. If she was insecure, I'd drop something like "Hey, I am choosing to be with you okay, you know I'd leave you if I didn't like you" and likewise if she'd start talking with a new guy I'd say like, "Hey, you're hanging out with this guy a lot... do we need to talk about…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 06:48 PM
2

I agree it's the way to go. Did it with my longest term ex numerous times. Even as a BP I just assumed girls with boyfriends got hit on all the time because I was always hitting on girls who had boyfriends, and so often it felt like a thin veil that could've been lifted if I wasn't such a good guy. Turns out many instances were probably indeed passable shit tests. So yea, laugh that shit off because if she wants to cheat she can do it easier without telling you or tipping you off. It's a shit te…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 06:34 PM
2

Hahaha... an old classmate and her cucked ex-boyfriend invited me to 3way one night when she was in town. We did it, it was fucking stupid. I could have took her solo to my room at any time, this guy was so cuck but was giving her a place to stay so we played along. I'd maybe tag team a few chicks with a friend, but no less than a girl for each guy will fly again. Maybe if she just gives head while she gets it behind before going out or something, those situations are interesting. But sharing a …
/r/askTRP08/05/16 06:09 PM
1

Sometimes we notice the behavior in others that we despise in ourselves. Time and again, I am finding I do the exact shit that pisses me off.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 05:48 PM
2

I'm 5'5" but with style/fitness/facial knobs turned way up, and my favorite dance floor game lately is to find girls well over 6" who look fun and in shape, and lead the pack :). Edit, adding: Guys don't seem to try to jump in, either... though one night this girl and I really vibed and we were winging each other and we got her this fucking beast of a dude, well over 6 and a half.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:11 AM
2

I don't see an evolutionary reason chicks would be turned off by guys who give it to other guys up the ass... seems to check off a lot of criteria for things that turn a chick on.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:35 AM
1

I'll never pass up a chance to drop a Rich Hickey talk... "Simple Made Easy" -- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rI8tNMsozo0 (simple vs easy, as opposed to complex... spatial discussion). The content is half important, much could apply to Game but as a whole this guy does a spectacular job at delivering ideas verbally. Some ride the edge of their seats, many will fall asleep, polarizing++. Inspiration. Thanks for the discussion!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:53 PM
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A friend did an experiment on me the other day. He works in competitive college admissions, so he spends much time on the phone. He had me close my eyes and said the same sentence to me twice, and asked which one he was smiling in. Night and day. I described them as different but wasn't sure which was smiling. One sounded more gung-ho for lack of a better word, the other sounded more like a kid but with the same pitch/tone of an adult. Was illuminating. I started holding a small smile when I tal…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 05:04 PM
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In Computer Science I'll tell you though, having worked with a lot of people with and without degrees, I will pick somebody who has a degree that they appreciate any day. I don't care what the degree is honestly. Because 1) you worked hard and learned something or 2) you had time to study and access to professors and didn't squander it. I hate this idea that you can go your whole career with time in a university being seen as counter productive. I posit that you can go 5 solid self-motivated yea…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:24 AM
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This. I give two chances for a counter offer after meeting somebody new for socializing. First time maybe they were spaced out / actually super busy. The second time though, guilt should be biting a normal person who gives any fucks about you and they should do it by instinct.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 08:54 AM
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Tends to work. I never do a first kiss before I get back to my room either, especially if we're out dancing first. I never go to theirs, keep stuff under my control. I just moved hella far from dancing so I might have to evaluate it in a cab/Uber. One time I had a girl rubbing my junk in the Uber (across a long bridge), but no kissing--also wasn't a date, we were just sharing a ride from a mutual friend's place =] (she then invited me over to "smoke" which we never did, might've asked her... lol…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:21 AM
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Thanks, been on them too. Much like the relationship, it hit a point where it became too late to implement game. It worked for a long time because all my colleagues liked me, but as my energy reserves wore down my attitude got worse and I lost there too. Walking away is an important tool, actually there's another new post on that by OmLaLa. I was thankfully interviewing around when I got canned, attempting a leverage move. Thanks again!
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 06:49 PM
2

I just went through the same game with... my ex-manager. I accept my loss, goddamn it boiling frog style. My self-esteem is visibly shit now, previously it was shit but I was tricking myself. He came from a big name enterprise co, and another manager quit at the same time because his level of game was insane and he didn't want to deal. Silver lining is I'm not crazy and my skin got way way thicker. Worst part is before this job, I was very intent on this not happening again. I didn't know what R…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 05:37 PM
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My younger and only brother passed away recently in a horrifying way. I'll just say it was a month in the hospital with a series of complications, in and out of consciousness without knowing if/when he'd wake. Fucking rough, a 29 year old man's life senselessly over. His last Facebook post is saying he only expected a checkup and didn't even bring his phone to the doctor. I can't even recount the story without being knocked on the floor with realness. I made this thread to say that if your relat…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 06:18 PM
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I'm having trouble with this dancing, last night I worked on it deliberately all night. I'm a good solo dancer, well dressed, fit, short... I get a LOT of interest, but have always had trouble when they'd start dancing with me I'd not know how to start dancing together suavely. The WikiHow article about how to grind is actually good. Last night I was doing it and I'd just put my hands on the side/small of a girls' back after they were in my presence and we'd made some contact, and I'd greet thei…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 05:12 PM
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Sometimes it's like a terrabit fiber line from the universe
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 08:05 AM
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Thanks, I like to think the latter :)... I'm currently interviewing and should be able to secure max salary, playing 3 cards concurrently (all great options no less, but abundance mindset is real). I'm at the point where I don't need to study to nail coding exercises, although I also attribute a lot of that to confidence and some game. People are usually friendly if I start down a different path than they're looking for and I follow if I don't have a strong opinion. Fuck the algorithm textbook, …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 06:27 AM
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For sure. I've been working on it the last couple of years. My last job was my first in the hub city of the industry, so I was essentially back at entry level. It was still 2x what I'd ever made, so there's movement. For the record, it was $133k. Looking at a nice bump in this round of interviews. I can talk at length about why it took so long honestly, idiotic BP programming, so not really worth going into. I have a different approach now.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 06:04 AM
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In my last job, I left with over 15 years of experience and was paid less than an intern (hot hot chick). I am a white male, she is a brown female... WHAT THE FUCK WAGE GAP, where are you when I need you? I'm asking for a 24% raise this round of interviewing, btw...
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 10:22 AM
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as a guy who passionately started programming at 12 and is now 31, I make less than any woman I know who still doesn't give a fuck at 23 and started past 18. vagina is way more valuable than skill or passion.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 10:12 AM
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My view on spanking clarified a lot because of this thread dude, this one sums it up perfectly, thanks. Was always a hard one for me. Just like guns... don't blame the tool, blame the shitty application. I know spanking can be effective because I remember when my dad did it, but my mom applied it like shit while my dad was stoic about it.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 03:36 PM
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Agreed. I remember different times being spanked. There were early times where it was probably effective. But toward the end, my mom would always escalate threats through "wooden spoon" out of anger (heat of battle) and eventually I think she stopped following through, because I remember just laughing at her as a teenager like she was pathetic. She broke one over my ass once, I don't remember it hurting (again, anger driven). Yea, I have severe problems with authority that I'm working on.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 03:31 PM
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I'm realizing this pretty realistically. In the last few years I've been destroyed 3 times in situations where I was aware I was under attack but chose to ignore, thinking the aggressor would go away or had no teeth. I just want to go to work or home and be left alone, but people take my non-involvement as arrogance or something, and the strangest rumors come back to me. 'Tis fucking lame.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 01:31 AM
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Sounds like you can IGNORE it by laughing it off and suggest hanging out again. Maybe say it's foggy for you too, you can get together and figure it out (beer emoji).
/r/askTRP24/04/16 06:24 PM
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Maybe gravity wasn't clear, I don't know why you'd say it's a myth though. It follows that in order for somebody to say yes to you, they have to feel like you have something worth saying yes to. If you're offering a party, you need to be offering other people coming. Which means if you're a doofus with no style or hygene and poor posture etc, nobody is going to expect a rager with models and instead will politely decline. I think we're saying the same thing, but that myth aspect is a surprise to…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 06:10 PM
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Create a life where women want to fuck you for doing what you like doing. You might have a few main things going on in life, if pussy matters then compromise and make one involve women. If you're unemployed D&D LARPer guy then... how can you get lots of pussy and keep that lifestyle? You could start DJing on the side. If you're rich you could throw the best parties for your fat nerd friends (who might also kill it with women!). If you care about learning, you could take college courses in the ev…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 05:45 PM
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There's a certain level of gravity required to do that. Can't speak for OP; but I took it for granted in my home city, until I kept moving and having nobody stick like they did back home. TRP says I'm missing social proof. It's not an excuse to stop trying, but it can be hard as hell to get 2 relative strangers to say yes to something to make a 'group'. I've spent most of my time in life with computers and was never given feedback about my peculiar mannerisms or told about the parties I wasn't i…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 05:31 PM
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Women let men work for them, think for them and take on their responsibilities - in fact, they exploit them. Yet, since men are strong, intelligent and imaginative, while women are weak, unimaginative, and stupid, why isn't it men who exploit women? I think anger phase is strongly characterized by refusing to do anything to give value to women. The end is realizing they have different value for trade. Back when I orbited chicks, I never let them walk all over me and I cut them off if they were t…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 03:21 AM
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Thanks for the repost(s)... this makes much more experience now days. Scarcity Mentality The “Take What I Can Get and Be Glad I Got It” I was raised to value this thinking. I took it as "make the best of it"... still valuable, but doesn't apply to everything. The thinking is of course damaging for things you have control over, like attractiveness. Leagues “wow is she out of my league I would just get shot down because I would need to possess A, B & C to be her social status equal for her to even…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 03:09 AM
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I once waited 8 years, ultimatum'd her post-TRP but before digesting it, like within a week of rage anger reading. I was convinced it wasn't about sex anyway. It's not now that she's pushing 30, when she got in touch with me after about a year of no contact because she was visiting my new tourist destination city--family in the area, so didn't really NEED a place to crash... but she took it. Funny that we only hooked up after I stopped giving a fuck--TRP confirmation experience, though I'd had a…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 02:06 AM
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Don't hate women honestly. They are just there for fun. Doesn't matter the outcome you want with them. Just as long as you are having fun with them. This has been a theme across life. "Don't hate the players, hate the Game." Red pill teaches us to make our own Game. Games should be fun (at least for us, beyond that is personal morality).
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 11:17 PM
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Meanwhile my friend keeps interrupting the natural flow of a good conversation. She's trying to talk about her family back in Italy and I'm trying to guide the conversation within the frame that I'm the guy she needs to qualify herself to. Torn on this. I try to include my bros if they interrupt my magic for long enough to be polite. Some have situational awareness to see that I'm macking and excuse themselves, others hover around and kill my Game. I'll find a way to adapt eventually, but it's o…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 09:07 PM
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Considering I'm an unemployed asshole not even wearing pants, I'm halfway there.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 06:43 PM
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Don't feed the trolls. Though interestingly it's got a cross. For the haters, want to know the future? Click my username, hit ctrl + f, type "softw" and you'll see 2 results--this comment and parent comment. I promise it won't delete your computer.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 07:48 AM
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One chick who gave me head and then drank beer and ate pizza right after tried to say she thinks she's pregnant weeks later (after weeks of annoying texts that I ignored, after telling her to stop talking at me). Yes I knew we were done before she blew me, why I didn't fuck her and fed her acidic food :). Didn't even respond to the text, she continued blowing me up for weeks and I blocked her as soon as she said her period came.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 01:43 AM
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I was about to post OP's question + situation, found this thread in due diligence. Must be the season. Saturday night I had 6 different groups of attractive girls approach me in 4 hours, and I froze/shut down every single time. I have no idea how to handle being attractive, lol... I've been dancing solo for ~10 years and can hold an audience at the club, that's how I draw so many (plus relative newfound attractiveness, despite gross shortness). My running plan has been to take lessons in Salsa o…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:30 AM
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Or maybe she's a good quality girl; I obviously wouldn't know and it's your job to find out. Just treat all guns as loaded. I always just remember I wouldn't trust a partner with what I wouldn't trust a bro with. Maybe I'm just not that trusting, but I should never be caught with my pants down. Just to reiterate the trite saying, TRP is amoral... just helps one know what to expect and hence not over-invest. Edit: also your late sentence "Just treat all guns as loaded.", I read something about gu…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 01:14 AM
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I do a lot of thinking about my position as a software engineer relative to my employer in the current tech bubble, as analogous to a woman relative to men in the dating market. My email box is full of recruiters and CTOs appealing to me, wanting my tits development skills. Sometimes I still don't leave jobs when I should, despite knowing. We're also wired to maintain homeostasis, so the cost of switching should be factored in if the analogy extends, which I'd argue it does. I'd say the analog t…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 01:05 AM
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Are long con trolls a thing? Jesus, Internet. I thought you'd make the world awesome when I was a kid. Now I kinda wish you'd go away, like for real. Anyway, thanks for the follow up!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 12:45 AM
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I think you're on track. I can't remember the details of the original story so I don't know if he's 'alpha' or 'beta' or what. My first instinct is that she's tingling for provider though. But in reality he's not using his money to try to be her provider, so got an alpha trait at least. Potentially alpha bucks because he didn't give a fuck when she dumped him or try to buy her love. Again though, I don't know how the rest of their relationship was, simply speculation.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 04:37 AM
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I read an essay called American Scholar back when I was quite BP. In thinking an "act or be acted upon" post from somebody, maybe you, it brought me back to the thought "Farmer" vs. "Man farming"... This excerpt has new meaning post-RP, pretty relevant to your comment: In the light of this hope I accept the topic which not only usage but the nature of our association seem to prescribe to this day,—the American Scholar. Year by year we come up hither to read one more chapter of his biography. Let…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 12:07 AM
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Good coworkers have more respect for you, some are fucking bitches about it. Rant warning, because I can't really blow off this steam in real life :) -- I've upped my game a lot in two years, and earned a couple of haters. Most of my coworkers think I'm dope, but a few have spread rumors about me (I've heard things back later). I'm not sweating it too much because I was on my way out anyway, gone now. I'm getting messages and friend requests when I bump into people, so all is good (I was laid of…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 10:29 PM
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Holy fuck. That could have also turned into a joke where the PI gymbruh fucked her (recently re-watched Clerks, "try not to suck any dick on your way to the parking lot").
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 06:59 PM
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I watch chicks with their dogs around The City and can tell which ones could make suitable mates. I don't have the shamelessness of an un-neutered bulldog to tell them that yet. Maybe tomorrow, because I lost my job with a month of pay and got 1/4 of fine Cali Thin Mints (edit: for <1% that sum :), 2Pac Cali Love literally playing right now. Cali is where I put my mack down. Edit 2: It's even more fun to watch couples with a dog... I feel I can tell which girls would stray.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:46 AM
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My father taught me to "never play with other kids' toys, wait until you have you own" hence whilst I currently have opportunites to dog walk/dog sit at university, I have decided to hold off until I get a job and I can get my own dog. Interesting. In retrospect, that would've been a good lesson. Recently in meditation I think a lot about how I'd blatantly use kids for their toys or cool shit at their house. I didn't have much stuff, or many friends... not many came over, except during my video …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:38 AM
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Dang. I've been studying Product Management a lot recently. Apply Lean Startup thinking to your bitches. It's good to fantasize, but ruthlessly test your reality.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:28 AM
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That's kinda funny... the boyfriend field theory, as a function of SMV triangulation. Characterized by an unstable fluctuation of boyfriend identity as the equilibrium threshold is crossed, from origin to A or B.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:08 AM
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I'm always weirded out sending half night stands home in a Lyft/Uber. Hey it's 2am and we just fucked, now go take a drive home with these other dudes who know you're easy! I am as opposed to this as ladies' night.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 01:29 AM
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You posted it a while back, I watched it twice in a 12hr period. I never watch shit, been over movies and games for at least 8 years; was repelled by feminist undertones even while loyal BP. Gold. The one problem is the 'woman on deck' segment in one of the first scenes... I live in a super feminazi thought police city / industry, so I can't really go on telling people it's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 02:47 AM
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I'd say if they're still in college, or you're in a first relationship outside of college and the dink life is what she's feeling, you can trust her on BC (better yet, IUD... tool of my last LTR). As soon as her babby instinct is triggered, watch out. I'll trust girls up to about 23, 26ish if they're a career bitch. Beyond that, case by case, but I don't see myself dating that old anyway. Edit: Vasalgel is expected soon, in case you're not aware. PSA.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 04:08 AM
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Yep. I do all these things. I've made some mistakes, not sure what they are yet, but outcome has been mixed. Best salary of life, many things come easy, but universally broken on some fronts still. The universe's response to me is the truest reflection of my inner state, so I get out and let it talk to me. I deliberately fuck it in the ass sometimes, and it does the same to me. Fuck haters. Find a new situation if it's not working. Leave your shit on the curb and take a bus if you have to. You c…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:56 AM
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Sounds like you need to try some expensive yuppie bars. That's where I go, lots of active people and reasonable hookup targets. Very tall people, I'm very short. Staff are tight if you pay. Have pulled some reasonable talent, just a couple times. Dates almost always walk right to my house with me after the good treatment, social proof or whatever. I never take them to my home base bar though, but I take guy friends sometimes and they get the good treatment. Spilled drinks a few times, replacemen…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 01:18 AM
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One possible reason, is they're reasonable to live in. In a city where a studio in the hood costs $1.8k+, living in a van by the park in a safe part of town becomes pretty appealing.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 04:17 PM
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SoMa is where ad-tech now lives, and your attention is what they want. There's a machine built around capturing, holding, and monetizing it. The new gold rush. Edit: Interestingly, in 1984 terms of tech candy land: inner party = VC / Suites. Outer party = rank and file tech/sales/etc. Prole = consumers.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 08:22 AM
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Fusion music projects lead to socializing with participants' crews, and certain types at industry conference happy hours. Both allow easy displays of very high value in a context where value matters to them. This is where I find girls who chase.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 03:58 AM
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The lows are probably lower as a shorty, no pun intended... heh. I'm 5'5 as well, but can cope. When I stay on my game I do fine and give my tall homies props when a girl cold approaches him. I don't hang out with guys who laser focus on pussy in any case, so if I'm excluded I just soft next the guy. If I'm not on top of my game then I am invisible and get a little butt hurt at times, but I'm working on it. I'm adapting some sociopathic responses because they're proving beneficial, but I'm all p…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 07:51 PM
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There was a post quite a while back about the end game for female orbiters. One outcome was they come to hate you after they give up or lose hope. I wish I could find it, because I've experienced it a few times now. Hell hath no scorn like a fallen bitch... anyone got the title of that post?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:59 PM
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I feel like a piece of meat walking through the gay part of the city and get approached in clubs by gay guys pretty often, but am straight as far as I'm aware. I've got a sexy petite hard bod. Can they really tell? Does my hawtness blind them?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:02 PM
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Very interesting primate grooming comparison. I've thought similarly about your latter point--using small talk / refusing to talk--replacing "small talk" in your description with "charm". Did you happen to read "what every body is saying" or similar recently? If no, highly recommended.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 02:58 PM
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Dude, if you're seriously ready to be out of bootstrap mode, give yourself something like 4 weeks and see what you can do, then look full time for a job and interview for a few weeks as plan B. Sounds like you're in an employable field. Try reading 7 habits of highly effective people or other stuff for 15-30 minutes every morning. I was phenomenally productive in that mode, at least. The Zen way is to have mindless routine, to free up your brain for useful work. Gl&hf.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 05:10 AM
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Viable is the emphasis, not Minimal. Design exactly as much as your initial audience cares. That might be a costly assumption... can you test their responsiveness to various levels of design first? Eg. present the same call to action with A/B on the basic vs. polished presentation.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 03:54 PM
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butch male homosexuals As a resident of said city for ~2 years, this is a new but understandable axis. I live with two butches and two bitches in my building... who correspond to people I've discussed RP ideas with or not.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 03:22 PM
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I grew up thinking pre-mix cakes were baking. Look at it this way, at least we know how to avoid the trap, even if we end up single and cooking our own damn gourmet meals for life.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 03:14 PM
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LOL shit man, are you like 19? That well will dry and fill with shit so fast your head will spin. Believe, I was a high school drop out from a Midwestern city and that well is nasty after 13 years. (was = got a fairly prestigious B.S. around 25). A couple good people who I still chat with at times, but West coast/transplant city girls... still like drugs, but at least have something going for them on average.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 03:07 PM
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Monk mode till Vasalgel. Bitches you know don't want to get knocked up only.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 11:28 PM
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You can find 18-20 year old virgins who aren't broken yet in the right circles. AWALT of course, but all eggs are like that too and ones that haven't been broken yet are some of the best food you can eat.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 11:06 PM
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The single best thing I did for my wardrobe was get premium denim and a couple pairs of subtle but nice shoes and button ups with stitching. People who don't know can't explain why my outfits are next level, but they know they look good and hear girls compliment them all the time.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 10:46 PM
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So I understand your anger. Hell, it even makes me angry sometimes if I think about it. Some of the nicest, most thoughtful guys I know will never get laid because they just arent aggressive and dont play the game. It tears me up inside sometimes, because I know ultimately their fate will be in their 30s when some washed up 5/10 who makes the first step toward them and will take them for everything they have. I don't speak overt RP to my WK colleagues, but almost every single one has a huge targ…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 10:36 PM
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I tell my BP/WK guy friends that I have "type A and type B" girls that I like, when they ask who I like. If they ask to elaborate, "A" is alpha/career/bad bitch/good fucks, "B" is 'good' girl/worthy basic bitch/feminine polarity. I flirt with type B as I go about my day, and type A when I'm out at night or sometimes at a career focused thing. Tinder is pretty clearly type A, while OKC might--might--pull a type B (if I used it). I think we're on the same page, adding my $0.02.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 10:15 PM
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I went at 24 and successful with no RP knowledge... had my pick of the smart girls in class. Only had serial oneitis, could have played. Learned enough that I can poke college girls now over 30, so it's all good. Gl&hf.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 07:27 PM
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Nailed it. I've ended up in the same methodology, to the T. I experiment with girls that I write off when it makes sense. Eg. a chubby but sweet seeming Latina, I paid her a tasteful and true compliment to see what will happen (edit: she's being sweet, so earned IMO).
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:50 AM
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Since you asked... Tinder/apps? Why do you get her number? And holy fuck, 30-40? I don't think I've gotten that many in my life, except one month when it was my goal to get numbers. You're focusing on numbers here like they have value, forgive me if I'm reading wrong. I'm near 100% f-close of the ~10 girls I've met since RPing, and I don't usually get their number 'till the end of a date. I tell them when and where to show up and what we'll be doing. If they don't show, which has never happened,…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:37 AM
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I lived with a saver also. She loved to consume but somehow her self control was very good. She pre-meditated her/our splurges, at least. Midwestern and Jewish (adopted Korean), I could have learned a thing or two from her. She handled everything and I wrote her a check every month. I wouldn't mind that again, though hiring an assistant/accountant is probably more prudent. I hate dealing with that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:14 PM
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I sometimes meet girls who don't drink... they still like D.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:33 PM
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One missing variable is foreign investors driving up the price beyond what locals can afford. They may occupy the property one week a year. Check out Vancouver's situation.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 04:16 PM
2

Make friends in Sales and beyond to stay sane. Consider being a sales engineer/solution architect.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:37 PM
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I'll be in to scoop up a Victorian and a few new high rise condos, no doubt.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:34 PM
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If you take a summer off, do something productive yet enjoyable. There was a post recently about productive vs. consumptive hobbies. It might've been the post-Monk Mode one. Use the polarity it creates to enjoy the fuck out of the weekends/festivals/short trips/etc. Edit: To add, I'd say continue with a more sustainable routine afterward. I'm in the same boat, thinking about my 2-3 weeks in the sun in a few months. But I generally work hard during the week, and take some breaths on the weekend..…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:54 AM
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It's easy to tell the truth when you value truth telling and are a will-imposing strong man. Now picture you're 1/3 smaller than these men, but they fucking love your pussy and they have instinct to protect their tribe members. Men go kill some food, women stay around the camp and prepare the food and keep the offspring in order. The biggest baddest ass man probably kills the most food or leads other men, he's a great bet... pre-historic MIT graduate. The women can't compete physically with the …
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:34 AM
2

Another stoner checking in... calisthenics while baked like every day, got me in the habit of exercising daily for a year.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:10 AM
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Thanks... damn it. Fuck you SEO and ads.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 11:50 PM
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It was probably edited by the allies... good thing we are able to read without believing.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 09:29 PM
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Edit: this is upvoted, but the quotes seem to be fake. Sorry for the confusion. http://www.sftu.info/hitler-quotes-on-women/ Apparently there were a number. And now I'm following up on Hitler quotes quoting Hitler... jesus TRP, what next? Real men socially torture each other into believing that ‘real men’ socially torture each other into believing that ‘real men’ call it ‘male privilege’ to be forced to fight and die for ‘innocent women and children’. ... Our culture’s boys and men commit suicid…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 05:05 PM
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The actual rejection didn't hurt as me much as the fact that she lied straight to my face about why she rather have nothing than have me. I know I probably have oneitis but I just want to make her feel how I felt. I want to humiliate her as she humiliated me and made me feel like shit for 5 months. She ruined my senior year of high school Don't be mad bro, sounds like you need another drink from the side bar. A bitch needs plausible deniability in case she's ever in a desperate spot; it's incred…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 09:01 AM
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I was until I was about 19. I don't even remember how old I was, kinda remember the week it happened. I said no to a few chicks, 'took it slow' with every single one. No regrets, early 30s now. Sex is awesome, think of your sperm as 18 years worth of gold and stick it places accordingly. My life to that point was basically one giant monk mode, got a few hotties girlfriends but most we did was finger/hj. The girl I lost it together with would've let me go way sooner if I'd attempted. She was prob…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 08:29 AM
1

Nice! Sounds like you've got it together, wish I could offer more.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 07:11 AM
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No wonder all the junkies hang out there (homeless and dancing yuppies, equally ;).
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 05:54 AM
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I don't know how all the Hollywood folks came into acting, but the acting department at my school was a very sensitive and gender neutral place, can't imagine a bad boy thriving there. A lot of work and training goes into acting (took an intro), can't imagine many went without some formal training. "Tortured soul" angle might work for occasional aggression/destruction towards non-living-things, but player would never fly.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 05:37 AM
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What are you doing now? Not a fighter, but getting in shape and am probably ready to start fighting given time in exchange for a day at the gym (currently 5x/wk). Core lifts, some explosive stuff like box jumps and rowers, probably some dumb bells. I imagine focusing on form and having a solid posterior chain would help. Mobility and balance for sure. I have a feeling swimming might help, breath control, fluidity/coordination (in the 4 main strokes), and plain amazing full body workout. Beyond t…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 05:21 AM
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Damn, not sure why so many downvotes and cross without any explanation. How's my internal self not on point? I'm not going to disagree, just gotta ask what it is you perceived in case you can give me something to work with.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 04:55 AM
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Hahaha, nice cut frame. I wanted to fix it to: "Go hard, keep moving forward, and MAKE shit happen." Obviously we slip sometimes but get up and return to step one. Learn from it after the crowd goes home. You can do it (on the grind, baby).
/r/askTRP01/03/16 07:07 AM
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Nice breakdown, thanks. Kinda funny that I'm in the best shape of my life, dress the best, make the best money... and can barely land a date. Where prior I was a beta with a strong niche and had Suburban girls lining up while I friend zoned them, while being poor and from the city (not quite Trailer Park Boys/Shameless, but they resonate strongly). Girls who saw me operate in my realm (programming) dropped their panties like none other, this was pre-myspace so I was kinda rare and bad ass... I w…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:03 AM
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To somewhat corroborate with one data point, I have an ex who turned into a total infant/little kid sometimes, conscious of the fact. Haven't connected the dots on it yet, not much interest in digging through the garbage can. Weirded the shit out of me, in any case. About a year in she told me about some creepy incident that happened when she was a kid. I have no reason to believe or doubt much of what she told me, but it surely wouldn't surprise me if something had happened to her. Can't say I …
/r/askTRP01/03/16 04:40 AM
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With "I'm on a new level" looping in the background.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 07:11 PM
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Lol, take a fucking chill pill dude. It's not very hard to imagine how having a minion would be useful and make economic sense. I don't care to change your mind, you replied to my comment.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 07:01 PM
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I'm with you there. Picturing 30ish+ engineers on the team, with 2-3 jr. supporting engineers. We don't call them that, but that's how I think of them. Trying to maintain the quick to market stuff and migrate systems to the newer and better engineered versions. Basically when it's time to pay the cash-money cost of technical debt.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:41 PM
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Do you want to have a constructive conversation?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:17 PM
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Depends how your org is structured. Often times there are a lot of tasks to support engineering activity. Think about run-off work that your hate doing, like formatting a directory full of files or building a tests for some disk access time or something. It takes me 2-3 hours to make such a plan, and then days days to execute it. So I make a plan and have an assistant do the latter. They aren't 100% utilized like that, but it's a valuable function and I can focus on much more valuable (expensive…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 06:06 PM
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Thanks, I wasn't able to find one and not overstate myself since somebody asked and I didn't have an answer (child comments). Mind sharing some resources?
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 05:53 PM
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Tone didn't come across, but yea, it's funny as hell (lmfao is saved for actual out loud maniacal laughter, not simply haha).
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 05:51 PM
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Insufferable. Former room mate, was jobless for a period and had nothing better to do than hate me. I feel for her husband after the honeymoon wears off, actually quite a cool guy. But they're all very talented professionals and our networks overlap a lot, and hers contains dozens of hotties so I'm willing to put up with a little shit.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 12:44 AM
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One drawback is that you can easily get a reputation as a player if people find out that you never go on dates but are regularly having ONS. If girls that you meet through friends and your various social circles think that you are truly not interested in any kind of legitimate relationship, they will avoid hooking up, even though they are extremely attracted to you. You need to give them a plausible belief that a real relationship is possible. Happened to me, caused a lot of grief as the sociali…
/r/askTRP28/02/16 12:18 AM
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I've seen communal family situations like this work out fine, despite all the doom on TRP. Yes there will be drama and shit. TBH I think this is the best possible outcome for a kid, so good on you for stepping up. You and other buddy will disagree on stuff, careful that you communicate well. Sounds like you're doing it for the right reasons, which is the only thing I'd pause and question... "who do I really want to do this?" Good luck... turn it into a movie someday.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 12:07 AM
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Plate: Well, I told them that I applied for a job and got a "we're not hiring cleaning ladies" response. Obviously I didn't mention your name or anything but I found it useful for the whole victim scenario. LMFAO. Fucking bitch. Curious how "please hire me" game works also. I have a couple young hot sw.eng/student chicks who I am considering plating but who also want me to get them jobs, so that makes me apprehensive. Neither are quite physically my type--taller, but good and feminine foreigners…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 10:17 PM
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I think the key to success is to have managers/leaders establish themselves naturally, so the girls (and everyone) can be happy in the submissive roles and respect the people they support. Small village style. I notice myself acting out when I have a shitty manager, I can't fault women individually for doing it with no consequence (APALT--hate the game). There's some management theory around natural vs. assigned leadership that I'll capitalize on when I go on to have people to manage. To some de…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:52 PM
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Thanks for the reminder to look up at the beautiful sky and ask myself if I'm a real person. The answer is for the most part, no. Yet I think I am more of a real person than the hordes. Beta-consumer-zombies screw all of us. Stop being self-absorbed and you'll start to see that those of us who give a shit are really all on the same team. Exactly as you say. Are you a real person? Or is most of your life a simulation? As a techie, it's easy to take this to literally mean a VR simulation. I've bee…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:40 PM
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Gotcha. Edited parent comment, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:26 PM
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I get it, diversity of thought is valuable and there's a "talent shortage". That's the trojan horse. Clearly these girls want to be in tech but aren't here, must be the patriarchy keeping them out. They want to be in tech now because it's glamorous easy money, and they sit on their asses on Netflix all day anyway so it's a natural fit. In a world where everything is blue it's hunky dory, and most people in this field are blue no matter how successful. If I were in their position (upper managemen…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:13 PM
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I'm not sure a focused study exists, what would the hypothesis be? It's been too many years for my notes to be readily available so I'm going from fuzzy memory now, but I didn't find any flaws in the reasoning around how it affects the metabolic system. I'm not incredibly motivated to catch up on it again, sorry, all I've got is my one data point of experience with it corroborating the things I've read now.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:04 PM
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I'm in it, and everyone wants to put their money on it. Get in it now for sure, I'm less certain about the future. Nobody I talk to outside of tech though really wants it, so I've got mixed feelings. They're too accustomed to shitty consumer electronics and planned obsolescence to want it. They might get no choice, but I see a future with a LOT of half-functional shit in it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:45 PM
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I'm glad my job is a boys only competition. Jesus, we're rabidly thirsty to hire girls. I could use more money, our low salaries are a double edged sword.... On one hand, no girls will work for us; on the other hand, no girls work for us.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:40 PM
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This article sums up the logic pretty well: Except here's the dirty little secret about glucose - when you look at the amount of garbage leftover in the mitochondria, it is actually less efficient to make ATP from glucose than it is to make ATP from ketone bodies! A more efficient energy supply makes it easier to restore membranes in the brain to their normal states after a depolarizing electrical energy spike occurs, and means that energy is produced with fewer destructive free radicals leftove…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:31 PM
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This is true. I've been up and down with lean a couple times now, definitely true that the up has been easier this time. I attribute it to body awareness, for the most part. There could be some memory effects in the tissue, I don't know anything about that, but I know that when I can focus my efforts and execute movement efficiently I can gain easier.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:24 PM
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Please give some info on this, because this is a really popular thing to say, yet I never found any evidence that it was harmful. Granted I was seduced by the result pictures, and I knew a guy who was doing it and killing it. I did it for about 6 months and actually felt great as my body fully adapted to ketosis (did one stretch of 3 months solid, with pee strips). I lost 50 pounds at the end of it, so naturally I was feeling good about that in parallel. My understanding is that some vital organ…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:13 PM
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I like to think that I'm just taking a tour of the industry and networking. It was my favorite toy in high school, let me beat the status quo. As a guy from a place of Protestant work ethic, the VC-infused culture is fucking disgusting. I just want to work on open source shit all day and have non-assholes pay me to generously to do challenging stuff for them with it. Maybe go work on site in a big city for a week a month. Let me code in peace (and pop bottles and models when the day is over :).
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:57 PM
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TRP saved my life. I thankfully work in a pretty RP friendly tech startup, 95% of interactions are with only men present. Most of our girls are in sales/marketing/etc and they're nice enough to everyone. Abundance abound, so their dirty nature is just sleeping, obviously. The one chick in management spews some women in tech bullshit, but she seems pretty well tempered and is tom-boyish enough to succeed. She gets lots of special girl power privilege, but she does a good job too. Us guys get a lo…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:44 PM
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I've dumped so many people. I hit some past folks up occasionally. I had a few benevolent RP friends in the past who didn't punk me and kinda shielded me from other kids, who I'm starting to reach back out to. No expectations really, but casually messaging them a little to see whats up. For the ladies, I live in an international city that almost everyone in some of my niches visits once or more if they can, so most girls drop their panties upon arrival. It's been years since college, but wheneve…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 05:26 PM
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I'd say it's an unenlightened response to injustice. I wouldn't write him off as a shitty person for making this mistake, but I'd certainly not want him around while he's being this way. I've been like this but I'm killing it. People see what's in-front of them and some still write me off when I fail tests. I get tested more, and pass some now. Hard to keep status, but I have increasing status and reputation to keep and worth keeping. I like to think if I ever see those people again in years and…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:54 PM
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Fucking cringe indeed. I saw enough after 30 seconds, I've been similar to this guy... no other guy was involved, just her storming out and me pursuing so no danger like this, but fuck. OMG TRIGGERED. No. bitch. is. worth. an. ass-hwoopin. Yea, so I'm triggered into no longer being that bitch with a penis by re-affirmation. Thanks. Correct answer is obvious, next your ex-girl and onto the next girl.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:43 PM
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Interesting sentence at the end, what's the original context? I feel the message of it strongly in my way of reading it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:19 PM
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She didn’t give me sex, I gave her sex, which she asked for. Thinking of it this way has been helpful. I didn't plan it consciously, but since a lot more girls have been coming onto me in the last few weeks especially, like hard IoIs and hovering, I started seeing sufficiently large SMV differentials as them coming to me or me spending time on them as giving (!!!). Like I could probably get free blowjobs from some of these chicks, and I don't think she'd be sad that she didn't "get" to come or a…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 05:20 PM
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This convo is all covert. Either she picks up on me taking better care of her than her boyfriend, or she picks up on the fact that I would piggyback on her cancer treatment to visit another country for free. Plausible deniability on my side. ... She introduced straight up the idea of sex in the conversation, even though it was to dismiss it. She wants the D. I look at her like she’s my prey, and I say very slowly: Is there anything I can do for you? THANK YOU, I've really been hungry for more ex…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 05:04 PM
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If we could teach two million people fizz buzz, we'd be at a good starting point. I get your point, but my point is to make your argument invalid. I don't watch TV, but instead spend inordinate amounts of time mastering my craft and the business around it, because I also happen to enjoy it. In other words, be like me :) If 100 million people are out of work, which they well could be, they'd have to very quickly find another plan. Meanwhile I'm 15 years ahead of the game (which includes global sc…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 04:45 PM
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But all your coworkers see you consistently coming up with good answers and eventually you go on to be an owner and shareholder of your next venture, and hire the good ones and maybe taking investment from your old boss. Not all places are as friendly to the arrangement, but any young single guy should probably be there fighting for his place at the top. Bonus: executive assistants' friends. Edit: care to explain the flaw worth downvotes? The bonus at the end? Poor taste there I admit... but fro…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 10:55 AM
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I love the irony. Spreadsheets giveth, spreadsheets taketh away. Better start collecting metrics that computers can't game, like soft hugs per second.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 10:52 AM
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We can and should get rid of as much management as possible through automation. Anyone who does valuable work (ie. other than manage) is probably safe. By and large, a bunch of washed up overpaid pretenders who block value and create debt. Edit: managers of the world downvoting? I'm a programmer and code is technical debt, and my CTO agrees. Weiner still in tact. I've had great managers and shit managers, and the shitty ones do too much ass-covering activity like standing over your shoulder whil…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 10:48 AM
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If all you want to do is #2, blogging about it is pretty effective at getting inbound leads. I skim the inbox and reply to stuff that looks good, not much if I'm already busy (I gotta get better at keeping the pipeline warm). It basically turns you into #1, if you can do things better/faster/harder/stronger than other people.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 10:43 AM
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I live in a yuppie neighborhood and that is absolutely true. There are new high end boutique shops with nice leather, attention to detail, etc, opening all the time. I can't remember the last time I ate meat the wasn't free range from a local ranch (Cali baby). I feel sorry as fuck for the homeless who couldn't keep their head in the game here, but quite honestly I'll get the fuck out of here before I ever get that bad. I have a feeling though, automation and maybe VR when everyone is unemployed…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 10:39 AM
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New technologies do not create new jobs. Proof? The only reason someone would employ someone else to do a job is that they have bitten off more then they can chew and require help The fundamental situation that happens as soon as you take investment. Congrats, you have a set of bosses who are going to piss on your vision feeling all important with their yellow polkadot sheds. You're going to have to hire yet more people to fuck up your vision, while you pay them to do it. I make stuff that crunc…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 10:20 AM
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I'm usually silent when in doubt/outside the majority, and have often been accused and had no defense. Faking just to float sucks, but I see the wisdom in it. Fucking red pill, so glad I found it despite the bitterness. I was a wreck last time I landed in a pile of sociopaths without it. Now at least I'm learning things, not being eaten as quickly... get money and get the fuck out of dodge, or got all in. We'll see if I have halo encircled horns by the end.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 09:59 AM
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Get your degree. If you feel bold, give honest explanations when they contact you for money later. I hate letting shit rot, but you gotta pick your battles. I doubt your concerns will ever individually make a difference, but if we can show up in aggregate in enough spreadsheets... Also AskTRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 09:46 AM
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Social skills, long game, not being manipulated into scapegoat. I charm new people and they like me. I have strong inner game and some long term friends who value it. But often, esp in my new city, a sociopath comes and starts gaslighting me and getting people to not like me through social warfare. I haven't been able to defend or take proactive measures against it very well. I'm counting on experience being the best teacher long term, hopefully not getting irreversibly fucked in the mean time. …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 07:28 AM
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I use my 5-10 minute daily warmup run as practice raising my standards. When I first started, I averted my eyes from all the girls. Now I just look at whatever I want. I don't stare. but there are some hot cardio bunnies every day, like at least one internet famous media chick. When I go pretty much anywhere now, I can honestly have the thought "I am around hotter all the time" and not feel like there's a snowflake in the room.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 05:34 AM
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Engineer hat says more moles.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 03:30 AM
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Nice! This has worked for me, I used to be a sneaky ass bastard. So many times of just stopping, and then fingering her a little after 10 minutes, and then off the rest comes. More recently I got up and told her "you can go now" after LMR... she took her own pants off then and there, said "I was just going to do it!" and I made her beg and tell me I was being unfair a couple times before I got back in bed. I was pretty turned off by that point though, should have probably sent her away anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 01:58 AM
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Kinda wonder how this relates to stress. I have to make sure it still works lately, so stressed but I'm literally never horny and ignore plates/girls who are vibing and total green light. Told a girl I was busy till mid-feb a month ago and am dodging again :\ . Other times it's wood all day and can't get enough of the plates. I'm in a kind of monk mode, I've had a number in my life sofar, leveling up. Could have survival value for fringe tribe members or something. Me build boat make Chad like B…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:35 AM
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Worse. I socially mess up a lot. So often I do these things like rage once or twice with a new group, often brining groups together, only to be excluded from future ragers. It hurts, all I can do is try to figure out what I'm doing wrong. I hate gossip, but maybe I just wish I were included and not subject. I get way more chances now than ever, eventually I'll find a game that works... keeping at it.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:19 AM
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I get exactly what you mean. I don't have the answer obviously. I'm in a place where I can put myself out there in any way I want, whenever I want, and I do. We've probably read a bunch of the same books. Three+ years of this shit. It gets tiring, like here I am 1AM Friday on the Internet. Bored of bars, slept for like 2 hours, housemates sick of me so just holed up. Napped off a beer + mezcal I had with dinner. Fuck this, apartment hunting this weekend. Get yourself out of your shitty situation…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:06 AM
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LOL... first Spanish chick I talked to was 3 days new to America on Thanksgiving, and for the beginning of the conversation all I could think was "who is this hot white rich mexican lawyer chick?"... turns out she's Spanish and that's European or something. #flyovercountrymistakes
/r/askTRP20/02/16 08:44 AM
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And have you made progress in overcoming it? Not OP but it resonates. I also get a lot of negative reinforcement when I try things, which makes me retract for periods before timidly trying again and often not getting the desired results. In many areas I shine, but socially I continually fail and crab bucket mentality makes me a target due to my other success (career/hobby, fitness, ons/plates).
/r/askTRP20/02/16 08:34 AM
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I am with you, but I was so blown away with these Sperry's and the detail on a few items I've bought, that I'm willing to look at a high price for craftsmanship. There's a world of difference between my old brown shoes and my Sperrys, and my $200 Levi's jeans vs. my old $30 Target ones. There is a realm of reason; to me, $100 = 1hr of a highly skilled person's time. So if I'd spend 13 hours making an article of clothing that'd last X years if I could do it, I'd pay $1300 dollars for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 03:47 AM
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The goal is 135 working on the bench, at 105 now (150 bw), did a perfectly clean 135 1RM. I usually don't have a spotter though, so the actual goal isn't quite met yet... 3x5 135 working, just had a taste. Thanks for the pat on the soulder though, I get what you mean. I hyperbolized when I said I met the goal, just tasted it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:43 PM
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Many thanks. Lines up with what I've seen in my city as well. Tire marks, 72 hours, etc... but not too strict. I've parked my (compact, low, no view, argh) car in the zone where I'd set up camp for a year, so my parking game is strong. I love big trucks... thanks again >:). Live-on boats are also an option in my area, seen a few on craigslist. Also appealing.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:32 PM
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I do social fitness stuff as a minor hobby and am in very good shape, nobody at the office approaches me or the other serious guys about fitness stuff like they do each other (ie. validation network, I am honored to not be invited).
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:53 AM
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Fucking crabs. I am becoming very cautious who I trust. Dudes can be like bitches. I better understand why reputation is king, in this land of opportunistic crab people. Thanks for the post, fuck haters x99. I just realized I hit a 6 week goal 5 minutes after I made it this week, 1x PR of 135 bench, boom. Nobody knows except my trainer and another guy who was nearby, not even myself until now. If you want an M3, you gotta test drive that shit. In my case, I want a 3x5 of 135.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:41 AM
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Not having the posture of a little bitch and looking like you can stand up for yourself is the best thing you can develop. Nailed it. A few words from my new trainer alone I think have boosted my SMV +1. Until last week my ass popped out and now my posture is being corrected via mostly barbell lifts and pro feedback. $500, but money well spent IMO. The price of a community college course, that you might want to budget for anyway. MA: I liked Shotokan Karate because of the routine it instilled...…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:27 AM
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I feel sorry for a shorter-than-I guy at work... while another is doing awesome. About the same age, both do interesting hobbies, but they have such different body comps and different outcomes... I hadn't noticed until now. Both great guys, clearly one Alpha (who sees mostly Blue, but likes the flavor of Red) and one Beta, kinda Red.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:20 AM
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Right with you, rough ride. I've started wearing nice things that fit well, fairly bland button ups and Levis. I sprinkle in nice things when I get them. Uniqlo if it's around, I hear Zara is another great option for balling on a budget. A foundation. I think a good guide to body composition is how well those sizes fit... small/xs slim should be very very trim and make those muscles tug the fabric when you flex, but still let you bend and move normally (eg. tie shoes). I'm 5'5.5" and spend a goo…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:14 AM
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I experience disrespect rarely at best, usually it's my imagination making shit up. One time a guy picked me up and moved me out of the way.... I am usually pretty conservative about who I approach, though. Having a high SMV taller friend helps a LOT. Too bad my old buddy had the habit of AMOGing me to the point of cock blocking 110% consciously, and then LMRing himself (lose-lose, fucking dick)--married, took off ring, often didn't finish or lied about finishing as the situation deemed fit. A b…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 08:05 AM
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I have a shorter than I friend (5'6" myself), we party till 3am and he goes the hardest at >35. We work out hard and drink+dance hard every now and then. We can take whatever girls our own confidence will allow, for me recently, I am having better pools to choose from than clubs so I am pretty NGAF there. "Impress me." Cultivate the social proof/and high value displays, waves of high quality ladies come with those connections.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:55 AM
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That being said, Fuck lifts. Fuck the fakery. Fuck the insecurity. It's pathetic. These could be words of a past me... I now accept myself as a person who leaves the office obnoxiously early to spend 2 hours at the gym, and come back and often do another energized sprint of work (or more often, grab a protein rich dinner, and start work early the next day). Believe, try 8 weeks of going to the gym, fucking around with no written goals upon entering (the experimental approach that worked for myse…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:47 AM
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The fit will submit and have the babies of dominant men, which is the main thing nature optimizes for.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:41 AM
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http://imgur.com/7VaZd7d I've seen a lot with the dark elastic band, in a trendy W coast city with way too much money and the source of metrosexuality. I've not researched them myself yet, though at the $200 price point I might be able to swing a pair this weekend (I need to check out apartments... competitive market, need shit like boots). My peers talk of dropping $800-1600+, regular non-manager/VP/C position people. Edit: I got some $300 Sperrys and gotta admit, they're nice after a lifetime …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:32 AM
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No doubt, there's a reason shoulders get their own day, Friday. (Arms on Sat ;).
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:26 AM
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Sounds reasonable. I'm 5'6 and 150/~18% and 30in waist, shooting for 170 and low %. I was 180 and tapped obese BMI (started keto promptly, fuck being fat); I thought that was a good mass though. I just want to be healthy. TBH I'm going to let my clothing size dictate my size for now, I'm growing into my wardrobe well. We'll see how it works when I add another plate to my lifts. I'll do a legit program for the rest of my life but my goal now that I have good health is to be the shape clothing unt…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 07:17 AM
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Shit test failed. Western men have been nexted. We're dildos until daddy comes home.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:59 AM
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I have seen so first hand the effect that parents and cultural values have on a kid, that I'm going to reproduce well beyond replacement and do an awesome job. I reiterate just because damn it feels good to have a forum where that's an accepted life plan. Football team, nice.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:54 AM
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It's amazing how far it's coming. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/virtual-reality-hackathon-tickets-20542075902 I know a very smart person partiipating here. I'm building this shit, designing the next 3 years' of use cases on the daily. (disclaimer: I probably won't be there, hard to swing the time at the moment).
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:37 AM
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I love the idea, I know where I'd park it... I should probably just do it, could probably secure a loan tomorrow and pay it with saved rent in a few months. All I'd need is a permanent address to get the right parking permit. I do daily gym anyway, so nobody would ever know and I'd have a better view outside... hmm... I could do with a year of occasional harassment from police or whatever it'd cost in fines. Should make a thread about it when you do.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:11 AM
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Nice, home gym? You'd feel all the chaddier chads chadding at her sweet little bootie shorts... you ultimate Chad? I try my hardest to not look at little asian bunnies that dudes bring in to train sometimes, but dem bright yellow short shorts make it hard (to hide).
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:06 AM
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That'd fly at my gym, sadly. You should hear ALL THE WOMEN complain about A/C in meeting rooms recently. TBH though, not many creepers so I doubt the issue would be raised. Middle of a big commercial area, almost everyone there seems to be using the company gym benefit (pretty standard perk in my industry :). Also close to some network TV buildings so we get very attractive people in there too. Everyone is plugged into their iPhones, but every now and then randos have conversations between sets.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:58 AM
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I'd say gym is completely optional while losing, esp. beyond cardio. Obviously there are benefits to exercise besides losses and gainz and you'll get them, but I took the no-exercise route and I didn't suffer for it (more in prev comments in this thread). I instead used the time to learn how to feed myself--2hr/day like gym now is on the level. I view it as a good tradeoff if time is limited.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:46 AM
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I lost 50lbs in 4mo without stepping foot in a gym... started 7 minute workout some days at the end. Now I've gained 15 lean and my only problem is eating enough. IMO lose then gain; they're competing goals. Learn to cook and nutrition instead of going to gym while losing; that's optimal, worked for me too.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:34 AM
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What is progress? I've been working the same weight since Oct, but my clothes are fitting better than ever even as the scale weight goes up :). Perfecting form and doing assistance exercises is valuable if all you're doing is putting in the time--really, some days I hardly try and my head is somewhere else, but it's important to go and see life not fall to shit in those 2 hours. I'm getting way better at getting in the zone no matter what else is going on, and yea the dopamine addiction is there…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:06 AM
2

Deciding that for the first several weeks it was okay to do whatever as long as I went 5x/wk was a good change of perspective. Habit first and foremost. I'd always gone in previous attempts with a printed program expecting to find the right machines and make progress from day 1. I still take my very low energy days/end of sessions to do low weight practice of an exercise I saw somebody else do or something. Important thing is to go, even if I feel like shit; I always feel better, too. It's okay,…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:21 AM
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I did keto and felt pretty great beyond humps of keto flu. I stayed in for 3-5+ wk periods for 4 months, so not many flu days. Overall, would do again if the time were right. Very good, consistent energy in monk mode. It was socially the hardest thing though, even restaurants have a vegan option... not keto. Now I err to the side of less flour/grain, more fat, protein (will always go overboard on cheese, my weakness). Maintained losses and made gaize over a few years now, best shape of life with…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 08:08 AM
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Fresh off the boat (FOB) Spanish girl... damn. Was very much not on top of my game when we met through a friend, but she had lots of charm for a white girl. I've since met a couple 1-2yr off the boat Russians recently and they seem pretty caring and feminine as well.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 05:49 AM
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Met a FOB Spanish chick recently... might want to look out for those.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 04:30 AM
1

I wish you weren't speaking truth. Plates are happy as plates. As soon as you give them more, they start treating you like shit and calling you essentially a bad boyfriend. Hard to get used to for an old romantic, but it seems that plates are happiest as plates only.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 04:25 AM
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Yea, it's on the cheaper side actually... SF. Takes money to get money, or something... adult diaper idea, still sounding good. Plumbing for night poo is the biggest issue of being homeless, otherwise shower and everything else is taken care of by luxury gym+laundry membership.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:02 AM
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I was thinking about this this morning... I pay $1600 for a fucking bedroom in a house full of BPers. With an adult diaper subscription and some freshly tinted windows on my car, I could sleep by the park and continue my daily shower-at-the-gym routine with as-many-times-as-needed daily laundry service, no-problem. Then I could blog about it. RED PILL IN PARK DAWG.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 05:21 PM
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Also, the simple implication of picking up a gym routine to women... 99% of the time a girl starts going to the gym only when she wants to wrangle a new pony, so coming from a girl who's getting your provisioning (time, resources) already it makes sense to discourage attracting competition.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 05:15 PM
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Last night some SJW-looking hambeast exited the club I was waiting in line for, and said "don't touch me" as she walked past... might have been rejected, backwards through ropes. I was chatting with my line mates and we all laughed our asses off at her. I literally had my hands in my pocket and was being adored by a young cougar and talking with a couple good looking gay guys behind and ahead of me. We joked and concluded that she needed and wanted to be touched. If they hamster about it they wa…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:35 AM
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Sadly I have 10k/month and live with a bunch of room mates and can hardly afford a day trip. Student loans... awesome investment, I've cleared a social rung or two, but payback's a bitch. I'm looking for stability until I'm back at 0, then it's traveling the world with no anchors for sure. I'm thinking that'll eventually get tiring.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:27 AM
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Probably... brainstorming. I don't think it's necessarily beta if you desire a "family life". I'm just thinking about the incentives for a woman to stay. She needs to be secure enough to not think she can get a better deal, and will actually get a worse deal if she fucks up. The money alone isn't enough to keep her around for life without the other ingredients, but I'm only thinking about the minimum budget for a family in isolation.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 02:50 AM
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I don't know your economy, but I'm in a pretty expensive place and $1500 won't even buy 1br rent. Baseline hos are pretty good. If they know, they might be looking more on the order of $10k/mo. That's my hypothesis, anyway... not expecting a real good chick till I can sustain that.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 09:12 PM
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Is that a real problem, is there something better? I've never been outside, but I moved from midwest to west coast and listen to kanye like all day and that shit resonates. I find opportunity. I hate that others have to suffer for that, indirectly. I like to think that if I come to be in a position to be the benevolent leader I will make life good for my figurative tribe. How big that tribe is has no limit.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 09:02 PM
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Ever considered giving a girl a budget to manage the house hold, and step in as needed? Divorce would basically be quitting with severance. Hedged risk against divorce. Because I haven't until now, but an old plate's dad gave her mom a budget and did basically that. When she told me I thought it was fucked at the time, while still being reasonable enough to remember.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 08:56 PM
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An outlet for guys who can't say this shit anywhere else yet. Same thing it was when I got here.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 08:15 PM
1

My bad, was gorillas last night. Came out of quite a bout of monk mode that culminated into a well received piece of work... sun out, hitting 75, etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 08:10 PM
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I always encourage people to give presentations when I present, push their comfort zones. I've done maybe 20 and been increasingly nonchalant about it. Incredibly introverted otherwise. Cameras to put it on the internet later where 100,000s of my peers will watch? Whatevs, at least I always have a closet full of dry cleaned shirts and a tight haircut out of routine now. I can honestly tell people it doesn't make me nervous... I also only talk about things I know extremely well.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:18 PM
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This is also good if you speak professionally. I've been reading a lot of my own writing out loud recently, and it's helped my speaking. I'm not awesome and feel nervous as fuck when things deviate from the prepared plan, but if it's familiar territory I am getting much better at nailing it. It's hard to pause and think for a few seconds with 100s of people looking at you, and I wonder if my roomies hear me talking to myself while they shit; but RP taught me that they don't give a shit about me,…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:08 PM
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I don't understand. There's a very quick change of feeling after the first puff. If you don't smoke much it's overwhelming, first few weeks of being a regular smoker I was in the atmosphere somewhere. Got it for depression after layoff from a startup I was way over-invested in and girl leaving, beginning of RP journey. After becoming a daily smoker all the overwhelming feeling is gone, and doing things like using a nice glass ice water bong (that I clean after every single use), smoking is a ver…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:50 PM
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they're actively looking for anything in RP literature to tell them that marriage could be a good idea and they don't need to question all of their assumptions. I don't know many people as intellectually honest as me, or 100s of guys on here easily more so than myself. Maybe TRP is true, sometimes I still consider the idea. It's clearly a giant troll on humanity, tricking betas into acting like assholes who out themselves as TweRPs we called them when we were 5. One. giant. fucking... wait,
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 09:10 AM
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Born alpha: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9RoDPXuUCJE Not to say Beta isn't instilled in us by the fem-dominant social system and fem-catering media. I think alpha traits come out with true value. This puppy is born with it, but there's clearly a hierarchy. Maybe he gets all the bitches still, depends on the species. Faking it works to a degree, but the reaction is harsh when you're found to be faking, so faking is to be used with care.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 09:04 AM
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their lives continued along the same trajectory and with the same intensity. This is incredibly rare. I've been with one woman who could keep up with me. She's married to some other dude because I dumped her for a whore, who I never even banged. 10 years later, she's still keeping up, maybe even ahead. We're friendly, though not friends, because we're both over achievers and our circles are close. This bro was loyal...
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 08:51 AM
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Women don't give a shit if you're red pill aware. Listen to Patrice O'Neal for a while. Fat black truth telling mother fucker, could charm anyone. They will find ways to sniff out redpillers sure, sniveling anger phase little bitches, sure. Heres one: mention narwhal bacons after midnight, kittens, bacon, swole, and then shit tests in rapid succession. TRPer identified by nodding approval.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 08:41 AM
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Very funny that you say #1. Want to know a serious red pill triple extra life bonus lesson? Putting a shirtless faceless ab pic on OKC is exactly what I did, and got my first date ever, with a pretty hot chick no less. (bonus, 511 vs my 56). My dumb ass mer her for shabu at some place by on Embarcadero, way too early in the evening... tried to get her to take the N back home with me. She almost did, despite my incompetence and her living in easy bay... my my how far I've come in 2 years, thinkin…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 08:26 AM
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Go to a bar, sit around long enough and some chick will get drunk enough to want to hook up with you. I guess you're really short and funny looking with bad teeth, no sense of fashion, and little social experience.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 08:00 AM
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Nice dude. A shorty myself, about your height... shooting toward 170 lean as well, glad it's working out. No reason not to try shoe lifts, especially if you can laugh your ass off if the chick comes home and sees. One time a girl came over and asked what was on my screen, and I read it and said 'how to something something game related' (didn't remember), and I laughed and she laughed. Like how a kid falls down and looks to see how it should react . What are your barbell lift numbers, if you don'…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:11 AM
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And an irritable piece of shit with too much booze. And miraculously methodically creatively productive ...on weed, man.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:35 AM
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I'm early 30s and a software engineer. Can't work hard the next day when hung over.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:11 AM
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If I hate running but I have to run a mile, I'd rather run it in 5 minutes than 10 minutes. That's 50% less running! I totally agree with that mindset, the thought runs through my head every day on the 5-10 minute treadmill run. I added a warmup run to the beginning of my workout 4 months ago. I'm well under 10 minute miles now, but when I started... I couldn't do a mile. I was in decent shape otherwise, not too skinny-fat. Small optimizations. I've dropped to 0.5mi most days, and am well under …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:59 AM
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Indica weed makes you docile, Sativa wakes your resting Picasso. I code like a motherfucker Cali-blunted as fuck. Didn't start till late '20s. Certifiably not a case of over-estimating ability, sober self can read source code history. "Write stoned, edit sober"... the best philosophy. Gin doesn't hurt much either.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:40 AM
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It's ridiculous. Something that struck me was a comment in a video a few nights ago... "how can we practice not thinking... without thinking about it?". I was there when I started reading about meditation, 5+ years ago. Stop. Just focus your vision on something for 1 second. Then 2. Then 4. Then 8. Now continue doubling numbers for the rest of your life. Remain focused. "Eye on the ball".
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:31 AM
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Agreed, I can do 5x/wk no problem aside from time... my gym is in the same building as my office, but those weeks still easily burn 10 hours. I do 1-2 heavy barbell lifts + 1-3 supersets after 10 minutes of running, finishing with a shower. I eat like a king, and am accordingly broke. I could easily save mad dough by cooking at home, but life situation isn't conducive to that right now. People respect my eating skillz, they don't know how much I lift. Eggs and refried beans fill in calories.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:55 AM
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Done, minimal fapping for the past 3 years. Funny how Sundays are the 'maybe it's OK sometimes' day... did it casually 3-4x/wk for a couple bouts of a couple weeks, absolute low points. Not worth it. Did fap-free for over a year. Conclusion is edging is OK sometimes, but presence and body awareness brings self control to control the squirt with increasing efficiency. Dabbled, "should" do more sitting. Have found meditation through thoughtlessness during routine... All over it, doing wonders. Wor…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:36 AM
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Patrice O'Neal on "so we've been together...": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXR1Z4sk3DU#t=2m50s
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:00 AM
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I had some white knights tell me to "stop following" some girl as I walked between dance floors once. I have no idea what they were talking about, but they seemed pretty pissed/serious. I took the ignore strategy and said "No idea what you're talking about" and kept on my path. Thankfully nothing came of it. That said, these PLUR guys seem to mass orbit the 1-2 girls in their little circles, so it'd make sense that if some random guy was creeping on her to keep her safe.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 05:41 PM
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My hospital has a sign that says "admission / cashier"... I couldn't believe the irony and immediately wanted to opt out of the procedure, because of the incentive to create complications or need a second try implied by that connection. Hopefully that oath doctors took overrides pressure from their bosses.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:16 AM
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Gold. Have received many of the same comments, been forever since I talked with a girl on the phone in sexy voice. Just leaving for work, telephone voice it is today.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:48 PM
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All the more intense. He stood up to her cuck step dad and didn't back down, raided in the middle of the night, etc. and held to his ground when he was (in his view) in the right. Whatever the object, that's pretty bad ass.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:48 PM
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Do girls "want" eye contact? Yuck. I'll never eat a bitch out, total act of submission. They love gobbling my tiny totally unshaven friend enough with fucking as reciprocation, never a complaint even from plates. Also, consistently, when I had a live-in LTR, probably lucifer's daughter but very RP, she wouldn't let me eat her and wanted me to leave it natural while she 'scaped... I insisted and 'scaped anyway, she hated it. Maybe that saves somebody some dignity/time.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:48 AM
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Gotta wonder if this girl ever sees her dad as the fucking man for holding his ground so hard. There is no way her college friends hearing this story won't become totally wet for dad, assuming realistic retelling. Edit: I'll tell it to my Tinder date tonight, kindergarten teacher, for shits and giggles
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:03 AM
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I know that the phone take away is the ultimate first world problem kids face, because of the isolation it enforces from the moment to moment contact all kids (and almost adults I suppose) In the late '90s I became livid when my dad threatened to take the computer away... I wasn't playing games, I was hanging out with my friends and building awesome projects. I can't remember now if he took it away or not, only the intensity... so, that should say something. I did indeed get grounded and lose pr…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:58 AM
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Thanks for the story. This sounds like me while thirsty. I'd probably have cut her loose before even going back with her, but I don't fault you considering the circumstances (namely, been there before). But you were sober and she was taking shots, so unclassy. If I were you, I'd hold off on kino/escalation in public. For one it's far less comfortable for a girl who has ASD (they all do, booze just quiets it) and is on home turf. For two, if she pushes the first few times that is going to create …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:44 PM
2

So many missed ops myself... I basically put myself into orbit around a lot of girls who in retrospect would've been glad to do more (5yr older and had status, mystery, and mastery). As I reconnect with them I bone each and every one and they become long distance plates though, so it worked out just as well. They're like 25 instead of 18 now, but oh well.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:34 PM
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This is the worst when the white knight a co-worker who everyone likes and gets shit done, but also gets oneitis for every girl who starts working there. He's not in my social circle (anymore) but I have to live with him and pretend, professionally. He knows I am kind of a player and tries to protect new girls from me, not that I'd dip my pen in that ink anyway. I think he may inadvertently be helping me in some cases, because girls behave very interestingly toward me. They never really interact…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 05:37 PM
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The most RP guy I've met recently is about 25 years old. Have met his family casually, they are successful and RP as fuck. Glad to know this guy even though I'm a clown relative to him, having grown up pretty poor and in flyover country (edit: and in BP/feminist environment, most importantly). Fixing. Even though I'm a good bit older I'm learning a shit ton from him. Hopefully I can create something like what his family has going on so my future sons have it a little better.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 05:10 PM
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we both finish eachother off without cumming. I remember looking down (sober) at that chubby, ugly body as I shot my wad over her fat stomach. Huh? Anyway, I know the feeling. Recently booty called a self-aware 4/10 after going out with a well qualified girl who seems like an 11/10 relative to my current smv. Yuck, why? The only way I'll talk to her again is if she's taking up my offer to show her how to get a nice ass without surgery (she knows of my transformation, was interested). Luckily the…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 05:49 PM
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It's kind of funny and sadistic because if you're a guy with ex-girls who hit you up and have a BB who looks like you, this is a game-able strategy. My understanding is that assumed paternity is pretty much in stone after 2 years if uncontested. Obviously you'd want to finish your homework on this and "be sure" that the girl is willing to go along with it for 2+ years, but if everything checks out then you have a kid that some good fellow steps up and pays for, raised by a girl with favorable tr…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 05:18 PM
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Good point, I should remember that more. I use this method when I'm researching on the web and want to validate or explore some basic calculations. Self taught so I didn't have speadsheets until a decade after I'd been coding in interactive environments. Once I started using it for school it was helpful but fell out of my toolbelt once I was out of there. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 04:46 PM
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Feel free to remove this if it doesn't fit, I know it's edging at best. But when I consider the audience/scope (self improvement, computer savvy, career upgrade factoring into smv) I feel it's pretty well targeted and could be valuable to some. Just wrote it up quick because I'm in tutorial building mode, enjoy or not.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:19 AM
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Fuck sitting at home working on a tech talk while the neighborhood is buzzing, fresh hair cut, ball team won, after a day full of good interactions. Uncomfortable. But how many of your peers can get in-front of 100s of colleagues and tell them how they'll be building systems in 5 years and get a dozen interview requests per week? Those large bursts of value amount to much larger returns than 3 nights out at the bars. One dedicated follower bringing others to you is invaluable. I see it as a patt…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 05:22 AM
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From the original article: And what these men do seems so simple. Work out, focus on your career, practice your social skills and get confident, develop useful skills and interesting hobbies – essentially, quit wasting time. The Red Pill tells men that their time is valuable, and to use it well. Hand in hand with that, The Red Pill tells men that since their time is their most valuable resource, quit wasting it on women when you’re not getting something of equal value in return. Boom. It felt ri…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:34 AM
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Not a bad option. I've honestly made the beta choices knowing they might not be optimal since swallowing the pill and been burned, but the difference between red and blue is being able to MAKE the choice. I appreciate that when I make a 'beta' choice I get burned and can connect the stimulus/action and consequence now, and properly not make that choice again later.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 05:25 AM
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Haven't thought about oneitis in a while, used to be a chronic sufferer... so it gets better. For every girl up to 3 years ago I had it bad. Two years ago I got something again with my first plate. I didn't even like this bitch but she lived in my building and we fucked on the regs, something happened... sounds familiar. I also tried escalating with my first ONS a few months before that, all a few months into TRP. Now days, those bitches were nasty compared to what I'm pulling, and I only get ti…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 05:10 AM
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Martial art for the win. I attended maybe 5 sessions of Karate and met a guy in an adjacent department, but he's one of the few non-losers I'd still hang out with if we were in the same city. I was much more of a loser than him. Other winners were various people from my dorm, I went to all the events... frat guy, aerospace guy, maybe a few more who had natural drive or aptitudes. Being immersed in losers who are crabs really makes you question your own sanity at times. I know I've had authentic …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 10:15 AM
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Thanks for the actionable advice! I'll go one further and say that having a private BitBucket repo (free) with Markdown journal entries is amazeballs, basically a private blog and timeline. Changed my life, starting to have to find ways to archive etc, actually working on that these last few weekends. If you're not a programmer it's pretty straight forward to figure out and there's a web editor. It's nice because it's not meant to be a social/sharing platform, so there's no bells and whistles an…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 10:02 PM
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No doubt. Offering it constructively like I'd tell my manager in a 1-on-1, mods do with it as they may. I use "pissed" as hyperbole.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:42 AM
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Seems like a great idea and I'm looking forward to it. Just as an aside though, if I were planning to write for 2 hours and post something tomorrow I'd be pissed... more notice next time would be awesome. Thanks mods, et. al, for being the reason I quit the rest of reddit and never looked back about 2 years ago; gunbae.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:21 AM
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Hahaha... everyone in this city seems to have a gym front desk girl story. I posit it's the optimal career choice for our fair friends with eggs. Edit: gym girl OR guy ;)
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:22 AM
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Probability. Ask myself "what does this particular bitch have to gain from me?" If nothing material, it's probably my turn (ie. she's dedicated). (not (on-table? marriage)) so no worries.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:57 AM
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I buy this. I'm finding a niche with latina au pairs and asian students, where they come over for an oil change while continuing to collect beta bux from suckers. I don't ask questions, but sometimes they'll say things that make me grin inside because it's such raw RP. They clearly aren't getting fucked right, and they've mostly been open to brining in other girls and have offered to bring their friends over. And coming over isn't hanging out, it's usually about 2 hours in my room and them get d…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 07:14 PM
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The only way to neutralize the female advantage, i.e. qualifying men, is by legalizing prostitution. Absolutely. Last night I went out with a Brazilian girl and she said that prostitution in São Paulo is like smoking weed in Cali. I also went out with a Thai girl after that who was completely casual asking in if we could just be cuddle buddies while she continues to search for BB. I live in a feminist utopia city... holy fuck, lets get more of these girls here ASAP, put these fucking Tumblrina S…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 06:52 PM
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Noticed that as well, lots of step-family searches. All I can think about is hapless socially inept BP betas in their broken/cucked homes crushing on the only women who've ever breathed in their direction. I grew up as console gaming and personal computing were growing, mid-80s baby; I've seen a few normal kids or their younger siblings grow into these guys as they've drowned in gaming through puberty, who I can picture wanting to bone their step-family for lack of any other possibility or negat…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 06:43 PM
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Just desperate enough to say this was years ago and that this isn't a constructive comment. Sharing experiences, failure or success alike.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 04:44 PM
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Another data point, I got my last gf taken away for being drunk and locking herself in the bathroom threatening suicide/self injury. No arrest, but the cops came and took my statement and never treated me like I did anything wrong, despite being pretty drunk and in a weak frame myself. I was legitimately concerned about her, that was never a question. She went away in an ambulance and came back the next day, never heard anything else about it. I told her I'd call 911 if she did it again, nuclear…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 11:50 AM
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You would all wear hidden cameras, and then you would record how many times these women ask you to do their homework for them If you're on TRP the girls shouldn't be asking you. New girls in my office all learn quickly that they're not getting any special treatment from me. It's burned me in the past with BP leadership, but my current management are all pretty RP so I'm not as worried about dumb bitches right now. We hire pretty ones but they end up in external facing positions, which is fine. H…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:54 PM
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Agreed. A couple of my ex-gf's grabbed onto the math/theory easier than I did, even as a guy who'd been coding for 10 years before we were in classes. What both these girls had in common was drive and work ethic instilled by their families. They're both making six figures in big cities and have great careers now, one has a PhD from MIT.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:36 PM
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Where the fuck can I begin on the women in my CS class? Begin by being nice to them. You're not going to stop the infestation, so instead train her and use her in the future. Let her suck your dick if you want, as long as you keep being valuable to her she'll stick around and not fuck with you. When there are gender quotas and you're the boss, it'll be good to have useful idiots around. I started programming when I was 11, I LOVE computers, it fuels me everyday I'm in the same boat, I was a geek…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 05:26 PM
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With a little sprinkle of WebRTC we could do it in... 4 MINUTES.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:51 AM
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Sounds like you could stand to learn to compartmentalize a bit. You're dropping gamer slang in a forum that's luke warm about gaming at best, and getting called out as a red piller dropping red pill slang in mangina gameville, land of white knights. Hate to say bro but you brought this on yourself. Now, a good response is to ignore it and feign ignorance. Don't play totally stupid, but engaging people about it won't save you any face. Long term you'll be fine. Fade out until the drama has passed…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:01 AM
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I got so frustrated with her hamster that I started making noises and slapping myself with both hands. She moved out a couple of weeks later, but we remained together for a couple more months. In retrospect I was probably a plate to her post move-out as she groomed a new branch, because the sex was awesome. This was maybe 6 months pre-TRP. I'd started lifting around that time, but she said muscles were gross and I was a workaholic, so I backed off. I guess she probably turned the shit/comfort te…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:39 AM
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This issue hits especially close to home. I'm a guy who grew up with absolute DIScouragement from my dad, constantly telling me to get off the computer and go play outside. My main friends were about 10 girls from the neighborhood, and eventually the computer was just more fun. I was coding by 12 or 13, within a year of getting it. Never the less, despite dropping out of high school and continuing to be berated on what a fuck up I am, I eventually went and got a bachelors degree that I paid for …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:11 AM
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Unproductive or counterproductive transactions were considered to be signs of ego state problems. Analyzing these transactions according to the person's individual developmental history would enable the person to "get better". Berne thought that virtually everyone has something problematic about their ego states and that negative behaviour would not be addressed by "treating" only the problematic individual. Berne identified a typology of common counterproductive social interactions, identifying…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 08:55 AM
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I started calling her Cheetos. I hate that you're sharing this one. But since the cat is out of the bag, underwear model-looking girl by the name of pizza girl. Names like "Peewee", "Nad", or "Corky" are good for this. I probably have some of these, and I hope to never give one out. Redemption: Stoicism is the only way. Transactional analysis is an inspirational idea.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 08:46 AM
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Exactly, have things that take you outside the home. Have space/time partitioned off at home where you're still busy and her distractions won't be tolerated. I didn't know it at the time, but I had this toward my ex-gf who I lived with to the point where she left because I didn't spend enough time with her (and she had a new branch, naturally). Up until then though, she cooked fresh dinner every night and wanted to fuck non-stop and sugar mama'd me often (both STEM, she made more because corp vs…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 08:06 AM
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All those people are enterprising, further they are enterprising outside the law. They say "fuck you" to guys with big guns and prisons and are getting away with it. Being a fully independent business owner like a hot shot consultant is probably the next best thing, because you can do tingle-inducing things without fearing for your employment. Slave mentality is unattractive as fuck, which violates the rule #2 (1. be attractive, 2. don't be unattractive). It's not repulsive at all, and makes tot…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 04:58 AM
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Update: By the language in your previous post, I'd almost venture to guess that you know this. The only doubt is that you never used criterion-singular, so you might just be a logical dude. Fuck the haters, excellent break down. Your sin was formatting, see the BEFORE / AFTER post from today. If you'd said WOMAN / MAN in sub-headings, you'd have been golden. Instead you got the visceral reactions toward cucks.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:41 AM
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Equality, as you so poignantly point out, is not a thing. Thanks for the refresher OP, good read. I'll track down your other post next. I just have to bite on this one, since this post literally contains a glossary... I think you do a great job outlining that there is indeed be equality, contrary to your claim above, and claim that you mean there is no 'sameness'. Yes, 'spergy distinction, but if it's useful for strategy development I'm not above it :). In Computer Science, sameness vs. equality…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 01:17 AM
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3 years is how long I've been on the path, with vigor, and I'd say I'm starting to be able to expect positive outcomes recently, with some regularity. I've had good lucky encounters since the beginning, but it's nice not having to work as much for better results. Red pill changed my life so hard, but kinda like a million miles from home with a million more left (Avicii, partied hard to that track last night). I'd estimate at least another 2 years before my life is recognizably red. I'm still a b…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 12:42 AM
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A really common thing I see is "You MUST be funny!", "Make me laugh", "Funny guys only!" in girls' bios. LMAO, you read bios. They get the first laugh right there. Expect [...], but guys will do it because they're tired of humping their pillow. Who cares what they expect, just be yourself bro. Chad wouldn't get pissed because chicks want guys to be dancing monkeys, would he? Economics agrees it's good to get as much as possible for as little as possible, yea? I get where you're coming from, but …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 11:58 PM
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As a dude who's dated American white girls and American and "Real" Asian girls, I'll go with real asian for LTR any day (with a side of Latina ;). Fuck dating American girls for the most part. I do find white women to be hotter though, in general. I like bannana-hot asian girls who are basically white/are adopted into a white family (think Cal girls); but again, a blue eyed girl is more attractive any day. Maybe I'll engineer my future kid to have blue eyes and thick asian hair and no/lots of bo…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 10:09 PM
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Nice story bro. My little bro is hitting his late 20s and is a fucking hermit, lives for free with 'rents etc. I've suggested to my dad throwing him out, no joke. It takes a kick in the ass to change for the better, it's a simple economics and conditioning problem. Thankfully he's at least working recently, but obviously I want better for him. Optimizing for energy consumed minus energy spent... hella dopamine hits and madd Doritos all day with no job for multiple years = why the hell would you …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 09:44 PM
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1) Broken is indeed ambiguous, though not incompatible with AWALT. I'll explain what I mean, it isn't "not having ridden the carousel" exactly. Chicks can be fucked up like from a broken family that'll make them embrace multitudes of strange D, I'm talking chicks from good families who aren't damaged upon arrival. All eggs can become damaged, but I wouldn't buy a carton with any broken eggs in it and I'd be careful taking them home. I've dated 19 year old virgins from healthy Catholic families a…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 09:06 PM
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Great advice. I always grin when I hear girls tell betas/white knights to "just be yourself, a great girl will come along!!!"... I even give the same advice, but if it's a guy I give a shit about and I have a minute, I'll enlighten them on the subtext. "'Just be yourself', yes, but think about when girls have gone for you... what've you been doing? how've they seen you?" and go from there, it clicks. The biggest obstacle to "turning red pill" was an old acquaintance and his wife's meddling. We w…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 08:26 PM
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Two things here. 1) I agree, American black girls are categorically the least feminine girls I've seen, never dated one though. Have lived in two mid/low income black-heavy places. 2) On the flip side, they can be when they turn on their charm. If they're not charming you, they don't want anything from you (even simply Vitamin D). Funny thing is though, I'm a fairly short but increasingly built white dude and I've been getting a lot of black girl charm lately, so it exists. Context has been art …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 07:15 PM
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Thanks! Sounds like you've had quite a couple of years, looking forward to employing much of these approaches in a future LTR. Been having decent success learning to spin plates for a couple of years but the interactions are way more shallow than what you're shared. Same approach, but lacking any history with the person or knowledge of what makes them tick. LTRs obviously aren't the most popular thing around here, but with a woman who isn't broken I'd want to do it. How much would you say Woman …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 06:55 PM
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