unifactor Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	TRP advice is sociopathic, but something vaguely similar is needed Putting women on a pedestal is not the same thing as respecting them, and treating adult women like spoiled children is unhealthy for everyone. If a woman wants to be treated that way, I think it's a sign of immaturity and entitlement, not self-respect (and definitely not feminism). Like you're saying, a healthy relationship is a two-way street.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/18 10:05 PM
7	Thoughts on the sub TRP Women? Honestly, it sounds like you could use a little feminism, or at least spend more time on forums that have a more egalitarian worldview. Why do you read TRP if it makes you feel bad? Sometimes "painful truths" about the world can seem really plausible because they seem to confirm your fears and insecurities, but spending a lot of time on toxic forums that undermine your self-esteem can be a form of self-harm. Just because something seems plausible on the surface doesn't mean it's true. TRP and...…	/r/ExRedPill	11/09/18 05:19 AM
8	I still fear it's (at least some of it) is true You say you don't feel that anyone has disproved Redpill theories, but look at it this way: has anybody really proved them? When you read someone's redpill argument, what are their sources? Are they making a logical argument? Are there logical fallacies in their argument? Read a little more about mainstream psychology. Could you look at the issue in a different light, based on what you've read about psychology? Personally, I'm a woman and my motivations in a relationship are not AT ALL like what…	/r/ExRedPill	07/06/18 06:10 AM
9	Fear of cheating (GF going out at night) Asking her to send you messages throughout the night is definitely controlling, and will only cause things in your relationship to get worse. What if she forgets to text you, or doesn't text you "often enough"? It could be a completely innocuous situation but I guarantee it will only serve to increase your paranoia and anger. You also might be tempted to use incidents like that as an excuse to make her feel guilty about hanging out with her friends and pressure her into isolating herself from th…	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/18 05:30 AM
12	Unconditional security makes women bored? You can find evidence for a lot of things in the world if you look for it hard enough. I'm sure there are some people out there that kind of operate this way. That doesn't mean that it's a healthy way for a relationship to be or an accurate model for how relationships work in general. That comment is hard to 100% refute because it is also impossible to prove. People aren't machines that always produce the same output if you enter the same input. For example: "If she can always sense that at any …	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/18 06:19 PM
2	Improving Yourself Without Anxiety Sexuality is complicated and sometimes good people get off on fantasizing about terrible things. It's not good to support scumbags by watching their videos, but, well, there are worse things out there than leaked celebrity nudes. It's good that you recognized that your relationship with that kind of porn was unhealthy, but it does sound like you may be experiencing a disproportionate amount of guilt for your behavior, considering you never actually posted anything.	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/18 08:13 AM
5	Improving Yourself Without Anxiety Looking at porn and hooking up doesn't mean you're a bad feminist ally, as long as everything is consensual and you treat your partners with decency and respect. Respecting them doesn't mean you have to have a relationship with them, it just means that you treat them like humans and communicate honestly about your wants and needs, instead of trying to manipulate them, PUA-style. If you make a mistake, just try to learn and move on, and don't obsess over it. You seem like a thoughtful person and …	/r/ExRedPill	23/02/18 07:26 AM
3	If red pill is, as you say, abusive, and doesn't work long term, how do you explain the millions of women who stay with abusive partners? But you really aren't nice. Do you think someone who says "they pushed me into being abusive" is a nice person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/18 04:41 PM
5	If red pill is, as you say, abusive, and doesn't work long term, how do you explain the millions of women who stay with abusive partners? That's not how internalized prejudice works. I think that if you buy into TRP you might have internalized some pretty shitty stereotypes about men yourself, you misandrist baby!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/18 04:34 PM
1	CMV: My/A former slut can not fully commit to monogamy Honestly, early 20s is really young to expect someone to commit to a long term monogamous relationship. It think it's pretty likely that this relationship won't work out long term, but that doesn't have to be a bad thing in the long run, you both might come out if it better equipped to be in a healthier relationship with someone else. Can you see a scenario where breaking up doesn't have to push you into going "full TRP"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 06:31 PM
3	CMV: My/A former slut can not fully commit to monogamy Please don't read TRP for relationship advice. In a healthy relationship, neither partner should be using the other one, or putting the other one on a pedestal. Healthy relationships are based around mutual respect and trust. Sexual experience can be a good thing going into a new relationship, particularly for women -- it's good to figure out what you like and don't like and learn how to communicate that to your partner, and past sexual experiences can contribute to that. Now, maybe your gf in p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 06:23 PM
1	CMV: My/A former slut can not fully commit to monogamy I guess you're thinking of alimony, but OP said that he and his girlfriend aren't married. In any case, alimony isn't nearly as common as it once was -- feminism has empowered women to be more in control of their own finances, leaving them less dependent on antiquated social systems like forcing ex-husbands to pay for their care. Thus, the cost of leaving a modern relationship for both partners varies a lot according to the couples' situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 06:12 PM
9	A Letter for Blue Pill So you're basically arguing that your own argument is irrelevant to this discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 03:44 AM
1	A Letter for Blue Pill So do you agree or disagree that some aspects of TRP are immoral? I'm not sure what your argument is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 03:00 AM
7	Would a marriage where a woman is ten years younger work out better than two people of the same age? Thanks! It's been working out great so far!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 02:06 AM
5	Would a marriage where a woman is ten years younger work out better than two people of the same age? Only women with low self-esteem accept the fact that their value goes down as they age. Well-adjusted women seek increasing respect as they get older, just like men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 02:00 AM
27	Women do not love men. TRP science that is hard ot argue with... Because I can assure you that women really do have a full range of human emotions. But how can I convince you? It's like arguing with someone who believes that they are the only living person in the world and everyone else is a simulation.	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/18 01:54 AM
6	A Letter for Blue Pill Morality doesn't have to be bound by nature. Given the assumption that TRP is "natural", it is still an appeal to nature fallacy to argue that it is therefore necessarily "right". It's "natural" to let your kid die of measles, but in the age of modern medicine it is morally wrong to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 01:33 AM
2	American men are NOT Beta cucks. Blaming that drop in testosterone levels on feminism is quite a stretch. The article itself cites other possible causes, ranging from tight underwear to decreased physical activity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 01:19 AM
1	American men are NOT Beta cucks. Not generally, no. I'm seeing a lot of fanciful arguments in this sub that don't reflect the way most people actually live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/18 01:10 AM
14	Lesser known aspect of Feminism: the denial of the existence of genius Non-technical people get promoted to management positions in tech companies all the time, for many reasons completely unrelated to feminism. Networking, nepotism, marketing chops, and a certain kind of people skills (or bullshitting skills) will get you very far without much real knowledge. Yes, many women unfortunately buy into devaluing "nerdy" skills, but that's a separate issue that I'd hardly connect to any sort of organized agenda.	/r/MensRights	04/02/14 03:56 AM