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uniquan/r/seduction01/12/18 12:46 PM
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no suspicion, I was just enjoying my boba tea
/r/seduction16/10/22 07:50 PM
1

Ha it was hot and awkward when a gym crush did this once
/r/seduction16/10/22 05:32 PM
3

Kind of reminds me of two girls sat next to me at the food court when there are further open seats But no eye contact from them so it's probably nothing
/r/seduction16/10/22 05:08 PM
16

She will make it easy for you, work with you, if she decides to settle with you.
/r/seduction07/03/21 06:53 AM
0

I love ordinary guys usually guys quite abut older than me too ... the same thing attracts me every time ... they are confident and funny. This is my dating life right now.
/r/seduction27/02/21 02:59 PM
29

For me it was basketball then it was women then now r/WSB
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:02 PM
2

thanks, ill try to ask her
/r/seduction19/02/21 05:32 PM
8

When you see another guy hitting on a girl, you don't really care and move on to your business. That's how other people perceive you when you approach a girl.
/r/seduction01/02/21 02:16 PM
3

Wish I saw this a long time ago.
/r/seduction06/12/20 07:32 PM
1

Agreed. A guy cannot be attracted to every woman out there.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 06:18 PM
2

It's been several months since I've come across a post that I like from this sub. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 05:03 AM
3

I'm glad I read this. Now I feel rest assured with my relationship.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 05:57 PM
3

yess
/r/seduction13/01/20 10:29 PM
9

this is too funny and relatable, thanks for sharing
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:44 AM
1

thakns for encouragement
/r/seduction04/12/19 03:26 AM
1

I tend to re-approach people because my face recognition skill of the other race is not perfect.
/r/seduction04/05/19 03:09 PM
1

If you feel contentment in 40 years, why not? Otherwise feel free to switch partners for 40 years as much as you feel like it.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 11:45 PM
1

hey, I appreciate your observation and sharing it here
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:09 PM
1

wow
/r/seduction25/04/19 10:50 PM
1

based on the pic, he looks like he's day gaming a guy
/r/seduction18/04/19 09:18 AM
3

be direct(doesn't always work)
/r/seduction09/04/19 01:12 AM
1

at first glance, you look intimidating
/r/seduction09/04/19 01:09 AM
1

yes. mostly didn't have confidence
/r/seduction01/04/19 09:45 AM
1

roleplay it
/r/seduction31/03/19 11:02 PM
3

change is good for you
/r/seduction31/03/19 10:41 PM
3

they are shy. be the man and ask them what's up
/r/seduction31/03/19 10:34 PM
1

seems like you already know the answer
/r/seduction31/03/19 10:28 PM
1

If you can't think of one, then it doesn't matter what I say.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:27 AM
5

Don't judge them before you even talk to them. I have talked to a lot of girls from my gym, some were cool with hanging out, others were pissed off because they don't wanna be bothered.
/r/seduction26/03/19 07:59 AM
2

This sub is just a toolbox, just take whatever advice is useful to you. I get what you mean, having female friends is not bad.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:53 AM
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Do you ask for consent? Do they turn you down all the time? If yes to both then I don't know what to tell you, because for me it works sometimes.
/r/seduction20/03/19 12:18 AM
1

Oh well, it worked for me, so I'm hoping there are somebody out there who would benefit as well. I hope you find what you're looking for.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:40 AM
2

Hangout in the library. You don't have to study, just watch movie or play games in your laptop...eventually you'll do your homework. ​ " It has to feel good. I tell people this a lot - go to the gym, and just sit there, and read a magazine, and then go home. And do this every day. Go to the gym, don’t even work out. Just GO. Because the habit of going to the gym is more important than the work out. Because it doesn’t matter what you do. You can have fun — but as long as you’re having fun, you co…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:02 AM
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No he's not. You're overthinking it.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:55 AM
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hmmm oof I have terrible ratio too. I'm better off waiting for hints before I attack.
/r/seduction29/12/18 02:48 AM
1

As someone who was seduced by our family maid, I find this interesting. Give us an update if you do decide to test the waters. ​
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:30 AM
1

Reminds me of my supervisor who married a 76er's cheerleader.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:57 PM
1

Good question I too need to be mindful and not just literally ask every girl I fancy.
/r/seduction20/12/18 11:45 AM
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Some days I do cold approaches, some days I wait for eye contact. Depends on my mood.
/r/seduction15/12/18 07:53 AM
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too common
/r/seduction15/12/18 07:47 AM
1

As long as I'm in bed for 8 hours, awake or not, I'm good throughout the day.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 05:21 PM
1

Appreciate your insight. Any more examples?
/r/seduction09/12/18 01:34 PM
2

cool. glad to know
/r/seduction09/12/18 01:27 PM
5

So use your energy wisely. Don't waste your time minding other people's business, because you would have 7billion problems.
/r/seduction07/12/18 12:41 PM
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You can't control what other people's preferences are, the only control you have is your attitude towards the situation. If you are getting laid, I don't think you would care what other people's business are about.
/r/seduction07/12/18 12:38 PM
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This is a really helpful post. Thank you
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:16 AM
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So many examples! I'm grateful!
/r/seduction01/12/18 06:01 PM
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What's easy to you maybe hard for other people. I'm probably good with some type of academia where you would struggle. But anyway, I like to hear people's different perspective regarding soft no's mostly.
/r/seduction01/12/18 05:56 PM
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I never liked the idea of homework, instead I call it librarywork.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:54 PM
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yes
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:50 PM
1

Having a rival makes us better. Keep us updated lol
/r/seduction09/11/18 10:49 AM
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I feel like am in the same boat. Let's see who gets a result first.
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:16 AM
1

I just did this yesterday.
/r/seduction03/11/18 03:23 PM
1

Point taken. There are cases when a person is just having a bad day. Some other day that person is approachable. I am not strictly speaking in terms of boy approaching girl, it could be vice versa, or guy to guy, and or girl to girl.
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:45 AM
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Are you thinking in the context of the first approach? Or re-approach in the classroom?(cause they basically share the same class)
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:13 AM
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Would it seem like a stalker if I tell her that in the classroom?
/r/seduction12/10/18 01:11 AM
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"Hi, still think I'm a stranger? More like a classmate"
/r/seduction11/10/18 11:03 AM
1

I love this thread. Finally. An enlightment.
/r/seduction10/10/18 11:58 AM
1

That's good
/r/seduction10/10/18 11:09 AM
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I like it when you're pissed
/r/seduction09/10/18 11:24 AM
2

A picture is worth a thousand words. Thank you.
/r/seduction03/10/18 01:13 AM
6

You said it yourself. You lack experience. Talk to girls more, even to the girls you are not interested in. Talk to guys as well. When you are comfortable socializing, you don't have to prepare what you are going to say.
/r/seduction24/09/18 11:46 AM
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How does this help? He doesn't know what to say, so how is flirting even possible.
/r/seduction24/09/18 11:44 AM
1

You can ask for 2 seconds of their time. Also, don't mind the friends, they don't really care. The friends will forget about you eventually because there's too many things going on in the campus.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:01 AM
3

Women only like their phones. Doesn't stop me from talking to them though.
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:51 AM
3

food for thought
/r/seduction11/09/18 06:14 PM
1

Just you
/r/seduction09/09/18 11:18 PM
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I share the same sentiments.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 01:53 AM
1

good vibes
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:45 AM
2

If the girl likes you, she will remove her headphones and continue talking to you, if she doesn't, it will be as obvious as daylight. So just approach and say hi.
/r/seduction25/08/18 12:15 AM
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Because you haven't approached enough. For some people who has approached 500+ girls, it becomes a routine, girls become faceless, unless you get to actually know them better.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:22 PM
7

wrong sub
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:04 PM
1

Careful, she or the next girl you hookup with could claim assault.
/r/seduction22/08/18 02:06 AM
1

I learned from public speaking course that a wall of text is like a speech. But we are not trying to listen to you, we are trying to read. Where are the spaces?
/r/seduction17/08/18 10:08 AM
2

Happens to me a lot. Most pretty girls almost look alike, add to the fact that I try to approach as much as I can.
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:50 AM
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It won't, because it's gonna be different words and you won't see it coming
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:24 PM
2

I've been cold approaching for 2 years. I still get cold feet sometimes.
/r/seduction12/08/18 06:36 PM
10

Realization is the first step.
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:11 PM
2

Based on the comments...don't think about it too much.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 10:36 AM
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The fact that you are asking this question means there is a point. Change is scary, be sure to bring guts with you.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:25 PM
1

Get busy. Find distraction. If this mentality gets worse, you're gonna end up regretting it.
/r/seduction02/08/18 10:12 AM
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I'll try for a week.
/r/seduction30/07/18 08:25 PM
2

If nothing is working, take a step back. Look for other things that will make you appreciate life. When you don't feel desperate, that's when you try to talk to girls again.
/r/seduction29/07/18 08:21 AM
1

Oh good idea, art gallery
/r/seduction26/07/18 08:15 AM
2

Based from the comments in this thread, I fucked up. Sometimes I don't ask the girl for her number nor hang out afterwards. I just walk away. :/
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:12 AM
0

Well pick up is not for everyone. Some dudes are natural, maybe you can be one of them.
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:23 AM
1

There is a chance. Not every girls are into looks. For example, an actor once said she's tired of good looking guys who ends up just emotionally ruining her. Some girls are just looking for a stability. So you might come across someone like that if you keep engaging.
/r/seduction13/07/18 09:14 AM
1

This is like stoicism dating. I totally agree with this perspective.
/r/seduction06/07/18 11:30 AM
1

Thank you for the warning about the grad school gpa requirement.
/r/seduction02/07/18 10:15 AM
2

The last one is intruiging.
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:38 PM
1

Nice read. Thanks
/r/seduction24/06/18 06:37 PM
0

Good read. Maturity.
/r/seduction17/06/18 08:25 AM
3

I don't prefer those atmosphere either. In my experience, there are opportunity to talk to women in library, school, grocery shopping, park, and gym. I don't go to those places to look for women, I just don't want to stay at home.
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:32 PM
1

geodude, use harden
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:55 PM
1

Some are bound to think that, because there's so many of them.
/r/seduction23/03/18 07:43 PM
0

Many fish in the sea
/r/seduction23/03/18 06:02 PM
1

Guilty. I usually exit myself out before girls ask me to. "
/r/seduction02/03/18 09:40 PM
3

good reminder, thanks for sharing an inspiring post
/r/seduction12/01/18 06:49 AM
3

I just read an essay about Freud from aeon.com, didn't get it..but I do like fresh new perspective posts in this subreddit.
/r/seduction06/01/18 11:20 AM
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agree
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:44 AM
1

The first one..never tried it yet.
/r/seduction02/01/18 12:58 AM
1

I am somewhat in the same boat as you, but I will use my time to approach other girls and not think about girls who doesn't like me back.
/r/seduction19/12/17 09:57 AM
0

Away with your hopeless negativity
/r/seduction12/12/17 01:43 PM
4

the more you try to just go for it, the more you'll get better at it. then your funny/alpha/whatever-side will eventually show up
/r/seduction12/12/17 11:37 AM
1

i should go to bar alone..but i dont like alcohol/hangover/drunk
/r/seduction12/12/17 11:29 AM
1

I get told that I ask too many questions. lol
/r/seduction10/12/17 12:32 PM
2

Thank you for sharing your story. I can relate somehow.
/r/seduction29/11/17 10:34 PM
9

i needed this
/r/seduction26/11/17 06:24 PM
2

Tried ignoring my oneitis and my approach anxiety noticably increased. So I just let it be, still talking to oneitis all while approaching new girls.
/r/seduction25/11/17 12:13 AM
1

In my experience, they won't even talk back and immediately walk away.
/r/seduction23/11/17 01:37 AM
1

talk to her? if it's not cool with her, she'll let you know
/r/seduction23/11/17 01:29 AM
1

Too relate-able at my current situation..haha
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:08 AM
22

i like your words
/r/seduction12/11/17 02:42 PM
3

Will try to sexualize my study buddy and embrace rejection head on.
/r/seduction05/11/17 03:05 PM
2

Gold post.
/r/seduction05/11/17 03:04 PM
5

this is why we reddit
/r/seduction02/11/17 12:43 AM
1

pretty
/r/seduction06/10/17 01:30 PM
1

oh shit. I oughta experience night game then..I normally don't like noisy places but I'll consider it.
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:54 AM
1

I tell myself it's just awkwardness, if I can endure one second of awkwardness(saying 'hi'), everything else will fall in place. Also, I love talking to hot girls, so why the heck not.
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:46 AM
1

ahw man, i would send you a time machine if i had one
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:38 AM
1

did u talk 2 her
/r/seduction03/10/17 01:27 AM
4

talking like a 65 year old veteran
/r/seduction21/09/17 12:59 AM
1

Ouch. Dude you deserve better. Just game other girls.
/r/seduction20/09/17 10:39 PM
1

Man, that is a great idea. Wish I could try this once.
/r/seduction20/09/17 10:38 PM
3

keylogger? Man, you sound obsessed. If you can't fix yourself now, it may get even worse.
/r/seduction20/09/17 10:37 PM
17

Well since this is r/seduction..why don't you make new and attractive friends? As long as she remains loyal so can you. But dancing involves a lot of physical touching besides talking, it will eat me away if I'm at your position. Better have back up plans.
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:43 PM
1

pokemon
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:03 PM
3

Good reminder, brother!
/r/seduction12/09/17 11:46 AM
1

Happened to me last week in Chem class, except I immediately approached her after class.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:07 PM
3

This is like r/forever alone, but instead of sulking in the corner, the situation is interpreted in a positive way.
/r/seduction09/09/17 01:23 PM
1

https://mothership.sg/2017/07/buff-50-year-old-male-sporean-photographer-looks-like-a-dashing-young-20-something/
/r/seduction08/09/17 04:32 AM
1

Yep. Be brave and have a coping mechanism to be able to push through.
/r/seduction06/09/17 12:36 AM
3

Yes, talk to them.
/r/seduction04/09/17 02:46 PM
1

Why can't I like this comment twice
/r/seduction26/08/17 12:54 PM
8

Expect her to reject you, but who cares? At least you get to mentally move on from her.
/r/seduction26/08/17 12:39 PM
1

This is really touching. I can't quit this sub. I wish this gets stuck in my head and be reminded whenever I'm about to approach someone.
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:24 AM
16

I like girls who talks a lot. When the girl I approached to barely talks, I feel rejected already
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:16 AM
1

should be crosspost to r/motivation
/r/seduction24/08/17 03:15 AM
4

trick? How about try being honest to the girl? "I am so nervous and shaking right now, but anyway hi!" It takes some pressure off.
/r/seduction31/07/17 10:43 PM
1

Don't get caught, you never know if the guy has a gun and recklessly use it on you.
/r/seduction27/07/17 01:54 AM
2

You're fine. Trying is better than not trying. Meanwhile..I didn't even try to approach 3 attractive girls today. ragrats :(
/r/seduction13/07/17 12:08 AM
1

And don't think about making a friend or dating soon, in your lifetime there will be plenty of chances to meet new people, you just have to be ready by then.
/r/seduction02/07/17 02:29 PM
1

Start at simple goals like asking a basic or even random one question and get out of the awkward situation quick. Over time it should be easier to hold a conversation longer than a sentence.
/r/seduction02/07/17 02:07 PM
1

its called preference
/r/seduction04/06/17 03:26 AM
1

'dont judge a book by its cover'
/r/seduction26/05/17 03:04 PM
2

Yes, but it didn't mount to anything, I was otaku-level shy.
/r/seduction26/05/17 03:01 PM
1

Its more like a phase.
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:26 AM
1

Good read. I can relate.
/r/seduction25/05/17 11:19 AM
1

I'm going to ask my classmate out for a date. fuck it
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:49 PM
1

good story thumbs up
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:48 PM
1

12 hours ago..did you do it yet?
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:45 PM
2

If it was me, I'd start looking for a new girl to vibe with.
/r/seduction24/05/17 10:38 PM
3

For real. I thought it would be easy, since I've been approached before. I feel like girls are available when I don't actively seek them out, but when I do look, nobody is game. Can be comparable to a car key.
/r/seduction11/04/17 11:24 PM
4

I'm not a teen, and I think it's an insightful share.
/r/seduction25/03/17 04:02 AM
3

Go ahead, you have nothing to lose, only experience to gain.
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:57 AM
3

username does not check out
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:56 AM
1

PUA rules are not absolute. There's always exceptions in life. Todd Valentine said pua's have only touched the surface of what's possible in attracting women. I took it as there's infinite more possible ways.
/r/seduction09/02/17 01:24 PM
1

Maybe start putting yourself in another situation where you are forced to do a job/thing you don't like. Ex. If you are spoiled semi rich, get a job. If you dislike pets/children, babysit them.
/r/seduction04/02/17 03:46 PM
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Its just the beginning, let your brain process it for a while.
/r/seduction04/02/17 01:31 PM
3

rejection is better than regret
/r/seduction04/02/17 04:17 AM
1

Thanks for the reminder. cx I still get scared after so many approaches. Found a cute girl in shoprite the other day and just walked past her. whew
/r/seduction30/01/17 01:38 PM
3

The key word is first.
/r/seduction27/01/17 02:56 PM
4

lol
/r/seduction26/01/17 02:34 AM
2

worth it
/r/seduction25/01/17 01:36 AM
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Yeah, looks like he's addressing the wrong issue.
/r/seduction13/01/17 11:17 AM
1

I can relate. After rejection, the infatuation are gone.
/r/seduction13/01/17 05:31 AM
1

I like your wording.
/r/seduction12/01/17 05:07 PM
7

I agree with you. To give you two quotes. "Whatever works" and "The end justifies the means." keep it up
/r/seduction09/01/17 03:25 AM
2

Pleasant advice
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:25 PM
1

You're fine. Just feed your brain with ideas how to seduce women, day by day, take your time young-in.
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:22 PM
2

Maybe not pursue a goal or make friends in the mean time. Just make a small talk, as small as one line or single sentence with people and move on. Use compound effect, maybe.
/r/seduction07/01/17 04:18 AM
3

Good read. Nice insights.
/r/seduction07/01/17 03:34 AM
3

Follow up.. did she even reply?
/r/seduction05/01/17 01:45 AM
4

No touching and no sexual jokes is being friendly.
/r/seduction04/01/17 01:26 PM
1

Yes. Tough luck here, but it's better than not trying at all(which was my past). Never going back to be a pussy again. Started about a year ago.
/r/seduction02/01/17 03:48 PM
2

Expect to make friends. Don't come out strong and expect more especially with lack of experience. Take your time, one day your brain will click and find a way to achieve what you want and deserve.
/r/seduction30/12/16 11:37 PM
3

Imagine there are 5,000 women that you will meet over your lifetime. How many women have you approached so far, 300? Are you stopping now and let the 4700 get away? Fight on, dude. c:
/r/seduction30/12/16 03:09 AM
1

"Check out the book Fundamentals of Female Dynamics for a mature guide that teaches the core principles behind attraction." Next time in Dragon Ball Z..
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:06 AM
2

My vote is real approaching. Wish I could approach more but I live in the suburbs.
/r/seduction26/12/16 11:38 AM
1

It was all fun and games until the seductive storytelling.
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:45 PM
2

That's a bit sad in a way. Hope you get it back.
/r/seduction24/12/16 08:15 AM
1

Liked what you said here. Makes me wonder, is there any pro in youtube who just do it for fun or out of hobby and not after commercial money.
/r/seduction23/12/16 11:51 AM
1

If you aim for abundance instead of quality, you'll be happier. Eventually you'll be able to pull the ones you really like because of experience.
/r/seduction22/12/16 11:48 AM
2

Fill your head with other ideas. Overload the brain.
/r/seduction22/12/16 11:44 AM
-2

Don't be afraid to escalate. I always use 'just kidding' at the end to protect me when I troll the girls sexually.
/r/seduction22/12/16 11:40 AM
1

That's not your only 2 problems. There are some short and bald guys who has a girl.
/r/seduction19/12/16 11:57 AM
1

Troll them in a sexual way, then say jk afterwards. Jk's are like the smileys of the real world. In the middle of your normal conversation, ask if you can kiss her or touch her. Don't try to be platonic friend with the girl, I'm sure she has girlfriends that do it already, do it the man's way.
/r/seduction19/12/16 10:17 AM
1

Drop your religion first. Then maybe take up history classes in college, so you can see the true color of religions. Watch pick up videos in youtube and realize yourself that sex is natural as it gets.
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:05 AM
1

Go to mall, maybe she's there.
/r/seduction18/12/16 03:43 PM
1

Talk to her now.
/r/seduction18/12/16 01:31 AM
1

If I could still count the numbers of approach I did, that only means I haven't done enough. I think trying out new stuff is kind of making me scared still. That's why I try to stick to basic till I get comfortable and then mix it up.
/r/seduction15/12/16 11:47 AM
2

Yeah, it was a weird trick, I have not read it in any advice online. I just simply be myself. I'm sure you will find your own unique way if you keep brainstorming.
/r/seduction15/12/16 11:44 AM
3

I don't even get it. Maybe because I've only started recently. Currently approached 30 girls over my entire life so far.
/r/seduction15/12/16 03:15 AM
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I wrote down in my smart phone what exactly I was planning to say to that cute girl. "Hi. You're cute." Then a few steps away from her, I glimpsed at my cheat sheet, put the phone back in my pocket, walked to her, then deliver my scripted speech.
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:58 AM
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I will probably start to colorize my compliment after about 100 approaches of "hi, you're cute". For now, I'm sticking to simple and basic. Currently at 30+ approaches.
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:51 AM
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I have been doing this for a few months now too, quite numb now actually. And I'm still happier I get to get a closer look at the beautiful girl and interact with her, rather than awkwardly look at her from a longer distance.
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:45 AM
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What is sarcarm?
/r/seduction15/12/16 02:44 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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