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There's always going to be gender roles if women are seen as the "default" parent. When women are the main ones taking paternity leave and missing out on years of work experience/promotions because of it. There will always be a gender dynamic until it's as common for men to be a househusband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:59 PM
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I think low self-esteem is definitely a factor for her. I don't think they would go for the guys I go for. We value different things. She feels guilty if the guy takes her to a nice place, while I expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:42 PM
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I know there was a guy that ghosted her for two weeks and then came back to say sorry I was sick. We all told her to drop him but she still went on a coffee date with him after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:43 PM
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I don’t know who they swipe on so it was just a guess. They’re just surprised that I find guys who will take to me to nice places and pay for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:39 PM
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Because they can swipe right on guys I would swipe left on. They’ll talk to guys I wouldn’t waste my time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:28 PM
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I don’t know, their standards are too low and they end up going for the wrong guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:36 AM
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I would say a pretty girl is privileged in the dating market, but many women don’t know how to take advantage of it or don’t want to. Some of my girl friends are flabbergasted how I meet any nice guys on the dating apps that take me on nice dates. But they have the mindset of “all men suck” so they can’t find any good ones and allow the bad ones to treat them poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:45 PM
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I like the giving birth argument tho. Cause if men say they “let” women have rights, then women “let” men be born. I feel like this makes sense in my head 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:56 PM
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Thank you for the thorough response but I don’t think that changes anything from what I said. It’s still about whichever side has more support/power, regardless of gender. There could be women on both sides in a 60/40 split.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:23 PM
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No, because not all women are voting for one candidate, and not all men are voting for the opposite candidate. Why would the war be men against women? “The war” is Democrats versus Republicans and there’s both genders on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:33 AM
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Ahhh I see. Makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:10 PM
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You mean you want the guy to offer to pay for all and you’re happy to split instead. But if he starts with asking to split, you’ll be turned off? So same result but the guy’s initial offer is the factor for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:48 PM
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It’s a fine line. Guys want us to “give them a chance” so maybe I’ll go out with someone I’m not so sure about yet. It’s the cost of participation for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:14 PM
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No, I’m just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:04 PM
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25% is generally a "small to moderate" amount, not a "plentiful" one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:46 PM
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Let's start with your original claim. What's your source that "Plenty of women are fine with that" and I'll check for response bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:15 PM
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Yes, I’m just saying that the survey results you’re asking for would not show the whole picture. Women are not okay paying 50/50 even if they are okay actually paying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:52 PM
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I don’t make them. They offer to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:38 PM
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Not true, they don’t have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:27 PM
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We don’t refuse. I have no problem paying if he wants me to. I just won’t be that interested afterwards probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:26 PM
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Nah, even if I make the same amount of money, I still like for a guy to pay for things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:25 PM
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The problem is when the girls ghost after a few dates instead of sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:23 PM
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No, guys need to pay for dates. Guys just need to vet better. Pick better women to ask out who actually like you 😜
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:58 PM
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I can already get nice dinners and sex if I want from the dating apps, so if I'm going to be a sugarbaby, it better be worth it for me (and not traumatizing). I'm not desperate for money, so I can afford to be choosy about the amount and the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:30 AM
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Your examples are not complete or appropriate. > Hitting a man, and then being surprised or offended when the man hits you back. It would only apply, if afterwards, she wants him arrested and claims to be innocent herself. Otherwise, she's just experiencing the consequences of her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 11:22 PM
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I didn't say women aren't allowed to be upset ever. If he already knew what day her birthday is and didn't do a cultural norm, then it's reasonable to be upset. If he does that 10x and she doesn't break up with him but complains about him all the time, "why doesn't he prioritize me!" then that's on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:54 PM
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Recognizing what actions I could have taken for a better outcome. Ex. She gets upset because he didn't do something. Recognizing she should've communicated what she wanted him to do beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:49 PM
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Anti-hustle culture means not glorifying working multiple jobs, always be working. Gotta have a side hustle, etc. It means you’d rather have work life balance and enjoy your free time with hobbies that don’t make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:25 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:33 PM
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You can't say "always" in statements like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:32 PM
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In an era of modern dating apps, rising male loneliness, and the so-called masculinity crisis, this investigative documentary explores the hidden world of rent-a-girlfriend services and the online belief systems shaping a generation of young men. A year in the making, this documentary follows an anonymous British man in his 20s speaking publicly for the first time about why he rents relationships — a pursuit that has cost him more than £50,000. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BS7GR5s-Q1w
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:30 PM
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Just because we’re pushing back on a narrative, doesn’t mean it’s not true. We’re trying to push back onto decades of programming of being told what we should want and do in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:55 PM
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Sweet. Ok I have another take. Women are being loud about it as a protest to tell men we’re not gonna date you until you raise the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:49 PM
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But men stay in dead bedroom marriages for years and years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:47 PM
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It doesn’t matter if you believe we are happy or not. Whether you are married or single, there’s always moments of up and down. But we are still choosing to be single over settling. And we are ok with that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:24 PM
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I never said it wasn’t. We are perfectly happy with where we’re at.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:20 PM
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It’s the best option of what we have. Being single vs trash guys. So yes maybe that’s cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:19 PM
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Meaning we are happier single than date and deal with these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:17 PM
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Women get hundreds of likes on dating apps. We aren’t short of validation. I go on dates all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:13 PM
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I am tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:11 PM
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There are many bad relationships. Domestic abuse, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:08 PM
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Women like to promote it because society tries to tell us we won’t be happy unless we’re married with kids. It needs to be said to push back on the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:07 PM
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They may be attractive, but if they’re not gonna treat me well then I am happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:04 PM
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Sure, men risk being killed in a war to defend us. And women are populating the country so of course both genders should have a say in the country’s political future.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:01 AM
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Just be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:54 AM
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