united_fruit_69 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life. "They always required a filtered, basic and dry treatment." What kind of women are you meeting? You can 'banter' with women all day, you just have to mind your delivery. Yes, on average, you can say more edgy and offensive things around men, but if that is all you got then are going to have problems...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 07:42 PM
9	Alot of guys dont have friends and that really hurts their dating life. The "glory days" of post y2k hookup culture ended really almost a decade ago...	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 07:31 PM
–	Having female friends is absolutely a positive in dating I was talking about getting advice from women in general. It greatly helps in any context for people to see you have real friends, but it is only a slight benefit if women see you have female friends. Other women will only feel slightly more comfortable around you in a vague sense, it will not reliably predispose them to wanting to talk to or engage with you. That really only happens if your female friends are bringing you into female social circles on a regular basis. Even then it's still mostl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 06:08 PM
–	Having female friends is absolutely a positive in dating Having female friends is great and highly recommended. For many things I prefer the company of women. But in regards to dating, it depends on the nature of your female friendships. Hanging out with women in general almost always has a higher probability of putting you in proximity to other women, but it is up to you to make use of that. Only certain "levels" of female friendship will really directly benefit you. Assuming you have not slept with these women: Female "acquaintances" will not help. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 05:35 PM
5	The cock sharing pact between alphas and mid-tier carousel casualties is fucking dead. This right here. "I had most success with dating when I was unemployed because I had time to actually pursue women to they extent they wanted." Really the only thing comparable is probably working in nightlife service industry, but that is mostly just for hookups, not serious dating. It would seem men who don't date have little to no conception of just how much time dating women takes up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/25 07:47 PM
2	Why do women not enjoy helping their male friends, by being a wing woman for them? By and large "wingmen" just get in the way and slow you down. But I would always perfer a woman wingman over a hetero man any day. A woman can offer all kinds of subtle openings to talk to other women, but its up to you to take them. Men as wingman are only good in certain particular scenarios, mainly group party vacation or 2 friends meet 2 friends. But in general other men are a hinderance and even a "threat" when talking to a woman, no matter their allegance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 03:28 AM
3	My take on how society has failed men and has contributed to extreme red pill ideology. They were not "homosexual cultures".	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 03:13 AM
5	My take on how society has failed men and has contributed to extreme red pill ideology. Characterizing the greeks (in particular) and spartans as "homosexual cultures" shows you know or understand very little about them. The same with Japan. It's disingenuous and frankly wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 01:01 AM
-7	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. This is definitely the case, and it exacerbates the dominance of physical attractiveness in dating. If all the dudes are just going to play video games and complain about women, then why would the women not choose the good looking ones. This is a reduction, but there seem to be only a few achetypes men fall into these days, and broadly speaking they are boring. Men put very little effort into cultivating interesting personalities or opinions. Personally I have trouble wanting to make friends wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 01:25 AM
2	Would you want to go back to life before the Sexual Revolution? These really were golden times. Basically y2k to the mayan calendar. Dating was good but hook up culture was really the thing. Very big party and nightlife culture, for better and worse. People were more open, women more forward, getting laid seemed easy, and most everyone was looking to cut loose. There was a lot of energy in the culture. I don't blame online dating, but really the "smart phone" in general for the end to this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 09:32 PM
49	Women have more Ick’s than men The irony is that "icks" were first really put into public consciousness through a man on Seinfeld. It was a running gag that Jerry would reject women for all kinds of little and absurd things that seem to have no real weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 07:51 PM
1	5 questions regarding your pill, please share if you can. No pill, though I think there are certain things both red and blue are generally speaking correct about. To attempt to codify such truths into a certain "pill" I find reductive and inefficient. Blue --> red --> none Blue pill worked but left me hurt and jaded. Red pill worked but left me hurt, jaded, and hurting others. No pill has been the most satisfying and successful. Not really With my lived experince, I have a hard time imagining any arguements that could change my mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 07:35 PM
1	How do you feel about the average person? It really depends on how you define "average". IMO there is statistical average (like what you list in you post) and cultural average, which is to say: typical, basic, and boring in terms of their interests, participation, opinions, etc. within a broader culture. A culturally average person is not necessarily statisically average. A statistically average person is not necessarily culturally average, but higher probability. Statistical average looks far worse so: 1. Maybe. 2. Probably not. 3. No.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 08:29 PM