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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The implication that "if you're not a feminist, you're a misogynist" I haven't seen it	/r/MensRights	11/06/21 10:09 PM
8	Why does this sub massively exaggerate male sexlessness and the plight of the average male? Also; Any little thing a man does is labeled / seen as him compensating. Say he is short, and needs to move 3 boxes. He moves all 3 at once simply o be done quicker. He is labeled as compensating. A woman can alter her appearance to a large degree through makeup, tall shoes, spanks, push up bra, etc etc. But if you hint that they might be compensating, you're called an incel or gas lit. The bar to determine if a man is compensating is so much lower than it is for determining a woman is. And peop…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 06:57 PM
1	Why does this sub massively exaggerate male sexlessness and the plight of the average male? I agree. It's like people try so hard to paint men as pathetic and twist any action into something it isn't. They put things in these weird boxes that make no sense. I think a lot of it is just people weaponizing stereotypes and buzzwords. They know someone isn't sharing an incel or red pill view, but they throw those terms out to discredit / dismiss the point they are making. It's like when a woman wants to cut a man, she insults his masculinity or penis. Which is silly on a few levels. You're …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 06:52 PM
1	Men that slut-shame are of low quality Yeah but women hold perceptions on men based on silly stereotypes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 06:47 PM
98	The implication that "if you're not a feminist, you're a misogynist" The problem is - men just aren't supposed to say anything they observe out loud. You can be in a specific situation where specific women are making your life harder.Say at work. You talk about that specific situation and it gets twisted into misogyny, you hating all women, etc. Men can't criticize women. Ever. Even if the criticism is valid. A part of it is - people know the women will make it a huge ordeal and don' want the headache. Other people just buy int stereotypes. A huge problem with be…	/r/MensRights	11/06/21 04:23 PM
2	Women have no problem stating the negative effects of porn in relationships, but they conveniently ignore all of the benefits. Exactly. The real problem is - I think some women are just insecure and threatened by porn. They themselves are misguided and think men really believe porn is real and women are really like that in real life. They don't just look at it as a simple fantasy. So it gets twisted into this vile,addictive, crippling thing as a defense. More men have a lot more self control than women realize. A lot of men just use porn as an outlet. Some times you have goals and a relationship can get in the way. When…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 04:05 PM
1	Women have no problem stating the negative effects of porn in relationships, but they conveniently ignore all of the benefits. This is a very very very misguided. This isn't realistically happening anywhere. People really play up "porn addiction" and twist it into this crippling thing. No man is like - "Nah, babe with I could, but I'd rather just masturbate to porn tonight instead." The real problem women have with porn is - they are threatened by it, because they think men really believe that is what sex is and they feel like they can't measure up. And part of it ties into body image and insecurities. Men don't think t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 03:58 PM
2	Is Porn a Cause of, or a Symptom of, the Rising Number of Virgin/Sexless Men? I think the premise is flawed. Not all men are watching porn due to a lack of sex. A lot of men can persuade a woman to have sex with them, they just don't want to for a number of reasons. Maybe they are in a period they are working on themselves. There are also situations where they are in a relationship where the woman is withholding sexually or just shoots them down. Are these men supposed to go cheat? Porn is their outlet. I find it fascinating how anything a man does is immediately labeled …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/21 03:51 PM