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I've had the same experience. I'm late 30s and can easily get girls any age. It's a lot easier for me now than it's ever been.
/r/seduction25/05/15 04:36 PM
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What I always do, and I mean pretty much always, is just let them talk. I get away with saying very little, not revealing much about myself that might turn them off, and I learn a lot about them. Almost 100 percent of the time they tell me I'm so easy to talk to, but all I really do is let them talk about themselves and go on whatever tangent they want without trying to interrupt or trying too hard to make myself seem interesting. I completely disagree that you should the majority of the talking…
/r/seduction20/05/15 09:07 PM
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It shouldn't affect anything if you play your cards right and get them to like you first. I have an expensive house and expensive cars, but I never show any of that or talk about it before they are into me for me. Once they already like me they don't suddenly change into gold diggers, in fact some of them are intimidated and go out of their way not to be perceived as such. They don't ask for help with money or lavish gifts or anything. I'm pretty good at weeding out those types to begin with. In…
/r/seduction14/05/15 07:10 PM
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You're trying way too hard to impress.
/r/seduction14/05/15 02:00 AM
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Online dating has worked great for me, it's unfortunately worked so well that I spend most of my free time on girls I've met online, so I don't have a ton of free time to go out and practice picking up girls in other ways. I don't spend a lot of time online, I still have to meet them and close the deal in person. I definitely want to spend more time picking up girls in public though, I really don't have much experience there.
/r/seduction15/04/15 03:50 AM
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With girls I don't care about I experiment and see what I can get away with and then apply it in the future to other girls I do care about. I've definitely learned a lot.
/r/seduction15/04/15 01:04 AM
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This is the worst advice ever.
/r/seduction13/04/15 02:27 PM
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I think you handled it great. That's what I would have done as well. Ignore her for a while.
/r/seduction12/04/15 12:27 AM
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Ask her over to your place for a movie. She'll know what's up. If she comes, make a move and don't fuck it up.
/r/seduction11/04/15 04:09 PM
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Also like you said it affects every aspect of his life, it's not just about girls. He seems oblivious in a lot of ways about how the world works, and he doesn't seem to be learning. Does he maybe have Aspbergers or something like that?
/r/seduction03/04/15 12:16 PM
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He needs therapy, not advice from you. This thought process and behavior seems totally ingrained in him, and I don't think well meant advice from a friend or family is going to change him.
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:33 AM
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Just lean down and kiss her! There's no need for an elaborate set up. Just do it, it's that easy. I usually date girls almost a foot shorter than me, it's no big deal. Put your lips on hers.
/r/seduction29/03/15 04:13 AM
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How many of these girls have you actually had sex with?
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:45 AM
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It doesn't matter. She's hung up on him for whatever reason, find someone that knows what she wants and wants YOU.
/r/seduction16/03/15 04:38 AM
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Move on to another girl.
/r/seduction16/03/15 04:21 AM
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No, can't do it. :-( Not worth it to me.
/r/seduction05/03/15 02:53 AM
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I just had a girl actively pursue me for sex, but I just wasn't attracted to her and couldn't imagine having sex with her. A couple of years ago I probably would, because I wasn't as secure in myself. But these days I'd rather just stay at home and take care of business myself than have sex just to have sex when I'm not really interested. I'd say skip her and move on.
/r/seduction28/02/15 10:45 PM
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You shouldn't have asked what happened, that seems a little needy. Just play it cool next time.
/r/seduction07/02/15 05:31 AM
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And even if they want to, change is usually very difficult and slow. Some people can't seem to change even if they're self aware and they want to change. After taking on too many "projects", next time I'm going to try to date someone that's more where they need to be.
/r/seduction30/01/15 01:12 PM
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I dealt with this with an ex, didn't know how to handle it and it went to crap. Dated another girl like it and handled it just like the article said, but eventually I just got burned out. :-( I don't think it's healthy for me to take on another girl like this, it really is a lot of work and not for the faint of heart. The article gives good advice for those that are up for it, though.
/r/seduction30/01/15 01:01 AM
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I'm the opposite, I won't date anyone within my circle of friends. Makes it too difficult to make a clean break if it doesn't work out. Which it usually doesn't.
/r/seduction28/01/15 08:38 PM
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I make seven figures but I never have to flaunt it, spend it on expensive dates, most of the time they have no clue how much money I have. What it has helped with a lot is my confidence, I know I would be considered a catch just because of my financial situation and although I would never want to be with someone that would want me for that it gives me a ton of confidence. The other thing it helps with is it makes me a more interesting person than I would otherwise be because I can afford to trav…
/r/seduction11/12/14 12:31 AM
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I'm in my mid 30s and I've been with more 18-22 year olds in the last couple of years than when I was their age. Age doesn't matter.
/r/seduction03/12/14 05:19 PM
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Picking up women doesn't give you any confidence. Maybe you should consider therapy.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:56 PM
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I was out of the dating game from 21 through 35, it's easy if you just relax. Just talk to a ton of girls, get your confidence up, it'll be smooth sailing. Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction18/09/14 04:42 PM
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I've never used my money to get women. But making a lot of money has given me a ton of confidence and flexibility that has helped a lot.
/r/seduction15/09/14 04:59 PM
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I've always had tremendous success texting. I never call anyone unless we get to the point where we're actually in a relationship. Before then it's text all the way and it's worked great.
/r/seduction04/09/14 12:09 AM
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It means you're too passive and you don't excite them.
/r/seduction06/08/14 04:11 AM
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As someone who has texted multiple women into bed I disagree. It's really easy to keep their interest and escalate over text. Women want attention. They want what they can't have. I've texted women for months, avoiding meeting them, ignoring them, and they keep wanting to talk to me and see me. Several I've just picked up for sex or invited over without meeting at all first. If texting isn't working for you, you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:38 AM
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Usually quick calls to organize hanging out together but usually not really long calls unless it was someone I was seriously dating. Usually even then not too much because nobody really had a phone in their own room and you had to stand in the hallway talking. And if you had a more private phone it was still a shared line and younger siblings or parents could listen in from other places in the house. I spent more time with people than at home talking to them on the phone.
/r/seduction24/06/14 02:14 AM
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I'm 36, and it's weird to call unless it's for work or someone I've known a long time for just a quick call. Trying to hold a conversation with someone over the phone with someone I'm trying to score a date with would feel very foreign to me.
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:24 AM
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Lots of success. Got a ton of dates, got laid a lot, most would have wanted a relationship with me and not just sex, but I'm picky. I think I finally found someone I'm going to stick with. Everything absolutely perfect so far.
/r/seduction23/06/14 07:36 PM
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If you were a girl would you have replied to that? She'd have to really be into you if she could overlook something that awkward.
/r/seduction10/06/14 01:38 AM
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Both are absolutely horrendous. Both conversations are awkward, both of you are trying too hard. I have had a LOT of success with text game, and I disagree that it should only be used to arrange a meeting. If you do it right you will have them ready to go before you even meet them. I have gotten multiple girls to the point where they're sitting at home waiting for me to come fuck them. The way to do it is to be natural, be relaxed, make her laugh, flirt very carefully until the time is right. It…
/r/seduction10/06/14 12:06 AM
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I'm 36 and I'm shocked at the number of 18-22 year olds that want absolutely nothing to do with guys close to their age and have no problems being with someone my age. My current GF is 19, my previous GF was 18, and I've been with more 18-22 year olds at my current age than when I was that age myself. And I'm getting the cream of the crop, girls that are beautiful, smart as hell, mature, and have their act together. I'm not specifically targeting the younger ones for serious relationships becaus…
/r/seduction08/06/14 09:43 PM
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This is the stupidest shit I've ever read. I come off as a relationship guy, and girls trust me immediately and think I'm different. But I can easily move from girl to girl and act like a player because they never see it coming. It's like the secretly slutty librarian that you would never suspect has a sex dungeon in her basement. Trying to judge a book by its cover doesn't work.
/r/seduction29/05/14 04:56 PM
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I feel the same way and I'm 36. I can get girls into bed easily, but once I do I lose interest. I think after having been with so many girls and have dated so many girls I'm really picky and don't want to settle when it comes to sex nor a relationship. Everything has to click or I'm not interested.
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:58 PM
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My experience exactly. Sexual chemistry can't be predicted in any way that I know of. Sometimes I'm taken completely by surprise, positively or negatively.
/r/seduction11/05/14 03:51 PM
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She was probably dating some other guy as well and liked him better and doesn't know how to break things off. Sucks, but you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:12 AM
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I've had the opposite problem, they get attached to me. If they're a lost cause anyway why don't you just come right out and ask them? Ask them to be really honest about whether there's something wrong.
/r/seduction08/05/14 11:47 PM
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Do you really want girls like that? Are they really all like that? Personally I do well, drive nice cars and have nice watches etc (including a couple of real Audemars lol) but I usually put that stuff away when I meet someone for the first time. I don't want to attract gold diggers so the girls that show interest in me without all that stuff are the ones I'm interested in. I can't even imagine having to deal with the types of girls you're talking about.
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:20 PM
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You're trying way way way too hard. I'm surprised she played along as long as she did. If I had been a girl I wouldn't even have responded to your opener.
/r/seduction01/05/14 05:06 AM
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I broke up with my most recent ex partly because she was always negative and complained all the time. I called her out on it and she blew up on me for minimizing her problems. She never contributed anything to the relationship but everything I did wrong was a huge deal. I just don't have any patience for whining any more and I'm not afraid to let them know that I won't put up with it.
/r/seduction27/04/14 10:10 PM
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I had these thoughts a lot despite being very successful. The main thing that helped me, as shallow as it sounds, was going through a bunch of girls. Eventually I started feeling desired and in control, but at first I felt like a fraud and that every girl was a coincidence and I couldn't do it again. But I did, again and again. Eventually I realized that maybe I'm not so bad after all, but it took a lot to get over that insecurity and start thinking of myself differently.
/r/seduction03/03/14 11:42 PM
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Well that was painful.
/r/seduction02/03/14 06:35 AM
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I've done this with countless girls, I got several to the point where all I had to do was pick them up and take them home to have sex. Without even meeting them for coffee or anything. In my experience start off being completely non-threatening, friendly, slightly funny without overdoing it or trying too hard. Be nonchalant in the beginning and escalate from there. Once they feel like you're not creepy and not boring they'll do a lot of the work for you. It is insanely easy in my experience, I'v…
/r/seduction22/02/14 12:29 AM
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She doesn't seem like the type of girl you should be in a relationship with.
/r/seduction11/02/14 04:35 AM
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From what it sounds like from what girls have told me they've usually had bad experiences with guys their age and they're tired of them partying and not knowing what they want, and not knowing how to treat women. I get more attention from younger girls now than I ever got when I was their age. I think a lot of it is I am more interesting now and I know how to be a gentleman.
/r/seduction09/02/14 03:23 PM
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I'm 36, and I can have girls of any age. Early 20s, it's a limitless supply out there. Even down to 18. No problem at all. Many many many girls tell me they have absolutely no interest in guys their own age. This doesn't have anything to do with my success, they don't know how much money I have. They just want someone who is mature and ambitious. That said, you should have some work/life balance to be a well rounded and interesting individual, otherwise the girls won't be interested.
/r/seduction09/02/14 03:41 AM
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That doesn't always work. Like he said a lot of them get attached after one time even if you're completely upfront.
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:40 AM
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For me it just happened. She liked to pay for me, but I didn't know she was rich until she told me she had inherited 22 million. She is also 10 years younger than me, so not a cougar. Didn't seek it out, and I have my own money which is probably why she felt comfortable telling me.
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:49 AM
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I've talked online/texted with a lot of girls, and I've been successful with several of them. Right now I'm talking to one that I couldn't meet for a couple of weeks, but she's already excited about spending a weekend with me having wild sex. There's no real trick to it that I've found. It's mostly: 1) Don't be creepy. 2) Be funny, charming, sensitive. 3) Make some kind of connection, make her feel understood and accepted. Those things work well over text as well as in person. I didn't escalate …
/r/seduction10/12/13 08:19 PM
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I've had the most success with going out for drinks later in the evening. A little bit of alcohol, especially if you're sitting at a bar or somewhere where you're sitting next to her really works. A couple of girls I could have taken into an alley and had sex with right after leaving the bar. I've had luck with other kinds of dates too but the ones that are easiest to turn sexual right away are dates after dark that involve a little alcohol.
/r/seduction30/11/13 09:59 PM
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I haven't been able to do it without the girl getting attached immediately. Even when they say they're not looking for a relationship and they're not jealous etc, it always ends up the same way. I think I'm too nice and give them too much attention or something.
/r/seduction12/09/13 01:30 AM
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You just have to make sure you're not annoying people. Some people are really outgoing in an annoying way, and they don't realize it.
/r/seduction09/09/13 02:48 PM
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Datehookup works!
/r/seduction08/09/13 05:21 AM
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Where do you pick up women if you're married? What do you do with them once you do? You must have some schedule limitations, not to mention that you can't bring them home.
/r/seduction14/06/13 09:26 AM
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