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Don't be slobbery. Let him do the tongue thing, you can playfully lick the tip of his tongue while it is in your mouth if you want. Don't bash teeth together. Keep lips closed/pukkered/firm. Hold your head on a slight angle so you're not mashing faces together. Throw in some playful pecs, Eskimo kisses to mix it up. Make sure you're in some kind of embrace, hands will wonder. Have excellent oral hygiene. If you don't already floss every day, start. Don't overdo it on the lip stick or lip balm. D…
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:09 PM
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Tried this tonight. Ball gag was a stupid idea.
/r/seduction22/02/15 04:58 AM
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No idea what your context is but to make friends you have to be in a situation where you see the same people frequently and share unique experiences. Otherwise you just meet people and they will remain just as acquaintances. Team sports are good for this.
/r/seduction03/08/14 05:23 PM
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Be true to yourself. Do what makes you happy. But by 18 you should be on the path to a secure and rewarding career, respectful of others, obtaining independence and earning a reputation for accountability, keeping your word and achieving to the best of your capabilities. Have that going for you and your self worth will be all you need to make you feel no longer like a child. Looks don't matter, lifting doesn't make you a man, coping roots doesn't make you a man. Not many boys turn into men befor…
/r/seduction01/06/14 04:58 PM
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Having the girl you can call gives a huge confidence boost, reduces dependency on the interaction (so you can play a higher risk strategy) and also let you save your effort for when the right girl appears. Some other people call it cheating though, probably people who don't have that luxury of a girl who doesn't get jealous if a girl exists at all.
/r/seduction11/08/13 01:26 AM
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So is the hipster honey enjoyable overall? Or do you just get a kick out of pulling a hotter girl than your straight friends?
/r/seduction11/08/13 01:22 AM
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Get the date right, research what could be on that night that will clash. I don't like FB invites personally.
/r/seduction06/08/13 01:04 PM
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Can't expect more from a site named all women stalk
/r/seduction03/08/13 05:25 PM
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I can relate to this in that I don't develop attraction to girls that I game. If I was to be looking for a relationship this would be a big issue. Gaming makes everything clinical and calculated. That romantic night that you have with a hot girl was all planned and the outcome of an f close was guaranteed even though she thought it was wonderfully spontaneous. It is like you're a whore, pretending to love every moment. I like backpacking because the foreign city means you don't know how the nigh…
/r/seduction31/07/13 09:34 AM
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I won't bother making a FR for most shit as the haters wouldn't believe it happened and it's significantly rare enough that not many people would benefit from it. (good stories though). A friend got his dick sucked by a swimsuit model while 6 of us played naked twister around them (no one noticed at the time). This happened last week and I've f closed other girls since. I fuckin love holidays.
/r/seduction10/07/13 09:53 PM
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Could only be bothered reading the title. The answer to it is obvious: go out and fail. Think about what you are trying to do after reading the side bar and fail hopelessly. Bomb out on the hottest chick you can find, but not after bombing on the first, second and third chick you find on the way. Then walk away, you bombed - so what? That's what you were expecting to do right? Ok, so lets say you just bombed on all the girls you talked to. What when wrong? Did you have everything you wanted to m…
/r/seduction14/06/13 03:56 PM
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Just after the first girl walks away "oh. my. god. I thought she was never going to leave. AM I RIGHT?" - pause for everyone to high five your outstretched arm - "Who wants to come to the VIP section? There are a couple bottles waiting for us." - get everyone to head towards VIP cause they think they are taking advantage of you - arrive - "So, how do we get into VIP?" (don't walk confidently into VIP, doing this usually get my friends and I in no questions asked)
/r/seduction09/06/13 07:17 AM
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I also crashed and burned last night (like many times). But in a difference to your experience, I was the one to walk away. I just didn't get the response needed to tell me to keep going. Usually I know if it is going to be worth the time within the first 20 seconds (girls might have a guy they are dead set keen on at the party and don't want you to stop him from talking to her or some other women thing). If it isn't going well I bail or befriend, befriending is only necessary if you think the g…
/r/seduction09/06/13 07:08 AM
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There is a difference between not checking them out and appearing as if you are intimidated by them. Could they construct what you are doing (avoiding looking at them) as you being concerned that they will catch you looking at them? If they get that impression, you're doing more than just validating them you're wrecking yourself. Gym game is a hard one to dissect but most of the girls are there to tone themselves up for the purpose of becoming more appealing to guys, just ignoring them isn't eno…
/r/seduction08/06/13 11:09 AM
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Excellent post - except #3 needs context. Rookies will lean in to listen. You're not a rookie, you're leaning in for kino and to distract her. Her story was boring anyway. Obviously context will change this but the point #3 was trying to make is that you can't just listen to what they have to say like a school kid, you're wasting time.
/r/seduction28/05/13 02:00 PM
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Focus on the positives, that way I remember that I am better than everyone else. Easy. (I will concede that there might be someone out there who is better than me at everything but they probably already have a girl they are happy with so STFU ladies and take a number). If you don't have this attitude you're not doing it right.
/r/seduction28/05/13 10:56 AM
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I usually organise for someone to get abducted, tortured and taken ransom. After a couple months I then break into the basement where they are being kept pretending I had just been abducted myself and I had been told I was going to join them. They are desperate enough to believe anything at this point and once I've cut the zip ties we break out through the vents. This combination shows confidence and the climbing through the vents is a perfect opportunity for kino. Once outside I lead them into …
/r/seduction28/05/13 05:38 AM
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Don't try and entertain them all, let them make their own conversations and get to know each other. Groups of people who don't know each other can become awkward like that and leave it looking like your fault they aren't being sociable.
/r/seduction28/05/13 04:41 AM
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Finally getting some on topic answers. The issue I see is that traditional displays of confidences come across as scary, posture just makes a 200 pound guy even more intimidating, I don't even know how kino would go down. The shyness can just be towards guys so you have to be mindful when meeting a group as well. What characteristics do you tone down without coming across like a jellyfish?
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:46 PM
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Had a wordless conversation with the person on checkout and left as soon as she had paid. But as I said elsewhere; keeping it more general than this one girl is the aim of the post.
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:09 PM
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I was hoping that this would be a more general discussion than about one girl. But in case it is blocking that from happening: She is shy, I can tell you that much based on her presence in the lab. I have shown her how to do things in the past and others have had similar experiences. So you could definitely say she doesn't want to talk to me, but that's the point of the post. How do you calibrate for shy girls as to not make them feel uncomfortable.
/r/seduction26/05/13 01:11 PM
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Asked her how she was going with her research project. I've seen her around the labs before. And I was just being friendly
/r/seduction26/05/13 10:34 AM
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You might just be going to 'that type' of establishment. There is a huge difference between some clubs / bars and if you happened to only go to a couple of the same high calibre you'd get the opinion that every guy is buff, confident, cashed up and sporting a smoking hot women or two by their side. On the other hand, you might have too many teeth left to dare venture into another joint.
/r/seduction25/05/13 05:45 PM
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People I know who pull off their weight have to make up for it in personality. That means rather than be a normal nice guy, they have to be an entertaining person to be around. They are liked by anyone who meets them and have a very defined character that compliments social interactions. This goes against the stereotype so breaking the ice takes a bit of a run up.
/r/seduction25/05/13 02:51 AM
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tl;dr - didn't get laid
/r/seduction16/05/13 06:22 AM
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Don't make up a bullshit excuse. Arrive early and purposefully sit next to her. You've got maybe 5 minutes before class starts to get her interest and number. My friends do this every now and then and it works for them. I met a gf in a lecture, it made lectures more enjoyable soon afterwards.
/r/seduction13/05/13 12:54 PM
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don't feel bad. your fuck buddy(?) will either concede that she doesn't have exclusivity on you; which will keep things simple for you (good) or get jealous and irrational (bad but what's more important: your self interests or her illegitimate claim to your exclusivity?) or change your not-serious status. Maybe don't try fucking her friends PS: I made this mistake in the past but justified it to myself because I was going to get a better root from the FWB than anyone else because fuck condoms. A…
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:51 AM
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This isn't a reddit for half heartedness. You won't find people saying "be yourself and god will reward your true spirit." Nice guys come last. In this theme: Join the gym, find new friends as after 4 years you're probably mutual friends with your ex's, take up a sport, fix your looks / put in more effort so people notice you again. 4 years of being unavailable makes you invisible. Make your new found singleness known so that guys who liked you can know they can pounce. Start pole dancing as a h…
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:34 AM
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Screw that, just straight up fb relationship status request. Post results (Y) Make sure you do it on a day when you haven't already seen her, you wouldn't want to confuse her by giving her too much to think about. (this is not real advice, given PO's post he might actually do it)
/r/seduction13/05/13 03:52 AM
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Girls can get concerned if they are drunk and suddenly realise you're sober. They think they have been making a fool of themselves while you were mentis compos. I get this at the end of a night when they realise that if I'm driving... I'm not drunk. I haven't had this situation with a girl who I was trying to get with but friends have really changed their tune and become embarrassed. I slept with one girl who was fairly drunk and already in my house when I ran into her, she told friends that she…
/r/seduction13/05/13 03:42 AM
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I am genuinely concerned by that comment
/r/seduction12/05/13 04:09 PM
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Dating? Hell no. Do you go out in public wearing hideous clothing? No, same shit going out with a girl that doesn't make sense. People are going to think you must be a shit catch if you can only get a girl significantly less attractive then you should. They will do whatever they need to do to make it awkward for you just leave them. A fb post "having the best night!! xoxo - with /u/noccusJohnstein at DownTown KFC" - 18 minutes ago (A practice girl for me is one that is in my league but I'd be si…
/r/seduction12/05/13 03:56 PM
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You have to have a serious conversation with this girl. She could either help you reduce your creepiness that you don’t even realise you’re displaying or she’s fucking shit up for you and you don’t need that in your life. Confronting her before cutting ties will hopefully stop her from going around spreading it. As for the question, just brush the comment off in a way that implies you had eyes on her all night and your friend will come across as jealous. You never know, this staff member might h…
/r/seduction12/05/13 10:12 AM
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Receive a couple more compliments like that and you wont even have to 'act' confident.
/r/seduction12/05/13 04:12 AM
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This is a fairly big thing for me, if the girl I'm with is messaging other people and being antisocial as a result, I call her out on it. I went through this with my guy friends before a gf so my attitudes were well formed and arguments already had. If you are on a date, just tease her for bad manners. On the other hand, my conversations are free flowing and entertaining. If she is texting because it's too awkward to get more than a grunt out of you then it is you who has to change. My fav is wa…
/r/seduction10/05/13 02:02 AM
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That link explained the intuitive attitude I have to understanding what in my life I find enjoyable. Thx
/r/seduction10/05/13 01:49 AM
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When I go out with some of my very good looking friends they get girls walking up to them and saying "you're the most attractive man I've ever seen", no shit this has happened multiple times. the girls are 7/10ish but a dime a dozen in these places we go so they have never done anything about it. On the other end of the spectrum, my group of 8/10 average female friends hate some of my attractive male friends as they could pick arrogance and self servitude attitudes just from looking at them. I c…
/r/seduction10/05/13 01:24 AM
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