That’s what feminism did. Before that it may have been a little more cooperative. There’s no way we can know but I do think going back 200 years, things were different...also out of necessity because now whamen have government, boyfriend and husband all cucked. Feminism is allowing women to do whatever they want as though they are goddesses. They’re not.
Even if you’re in the top 10-20%, it generally isn’t worth pursuing long-term mating (eg marriage.) Many of us top 20%ers go MGTOW for the peace. It’s a trade-off - peace or sex. Take your pick.
Addict here. It took some bad circumstances to force me to undo my addictions (weed and sex.) I think you have to change your priorities or eventually something like an STI or other setback will make you reconsider.