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No, you're never gonna find a girl that's exactly like her in every way except this one's gonna want to continue dating you. Your entire outlook here is wrong. If you catch yourself thinking about her, you stop what you're doing, close your eyes, and tell yourself, "that part of my life is over. It was good while it lasted, but I've moved on." You're never going to get back what's already gone. Even if, by some chance, you end up dating her again in the future, unless one of you has changed, the…
/r/seduction26/07/11 05:25 PM
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There you go, man. When one of my past girlfriends broke up with me, I was torn to pieces, but the one bit of pride I had to cling to was that I would not call her, talk to her, or have anything to do with her. The one bit of contact I had with her was when I was moving apartments and I found a couple of her old DVDs laying around and went and returned them. And even then it was more "here you go. Seeya." than any sort of conversation. I'm not going to say I was immediately able to be all like "…
/r/seduction26/07/11 04:45 AM
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Genuine smile, strong eye contact, "thanks". Break away. Five minutes later, joking smile, "hey ms. fashionista, come here!" Proceed to open, chat, close.
/r/seduction21/07/11 11:13 PM
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Sure, you can keep that attitude up. But what you should realize is that there's really not much to speak up about. I feel like the idea of 'alpha' behavior is just as misconstrued as the idea of a 'neg'. Maybe even more so. It's not about being douchey and bro-ey. It's about being secure enough in yourself and in your masculinity that you don't feel threatened by risking rejection from women. There's no 'tricks' or 'ploys' involved. The real problem lies in guys who never get their self-confide…
/r/seduction04/07/11 01:20 AM
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Sorry dude, this sounds pathetic to me. "Deep and utter loneliness"? Grow the fuck up. There is nothing sinister about improving your conversation skills, self-image, and attitude. Many guys nowadays (and I suspect you're one of them) have this attitude like the world owes them a nice girl, and when they don't get one, they're upset and dismiss the seduction community out of some sense of intellectual superiority. Fuck that noise. Wanna know my reasons for coming on seddit? It's because I realiz…
/r/seduction04/07/11 12:32 AM
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Yeah, it sounds like your friends completely torpedoed that set for you. The tone changed because they associated you with your AFC friends, and all of a sudden you went from being this cool dude who rolls solo into bars to Chief Nerd. Try going out by yourself next time, or maybe just with one, and teach him some basics. I'd have some very stern words with Guy #3, too- acting bitter about hot girls and AMOGs is completely not cool, not just socially but life-wise as well. However, I have to say…
/r/seduction27/06/11 01:52 AM
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Do you have problems or fears about isolating? If so, it's usually just a matter of making sure her friends are all about you, and using the classic "hey, I'm gonna borrow your friend for a minute" or just some bullshit excuse; it doesn't matter, really, just keep things light and fun and don't make a big deal of it. The less you justify it, the better, really. If not, once you've isolated her, are you worrying about the right moment to kiss? The easiest way to create a moment is to just stop ta…
/r/seduction27/06/11 01:34 AM
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Art house film bar sounds like a win-- I wish we had one! Also, don't discount all the girls you meet even at the beach. Many sorority girls I know have great grades in hard majors, and you would never guess it. You're right, not all of them, but every so often you'll be surprised to walk into, like, Abstract Algebra and there's a cutie in there. Also, don't let your living there hold you back- it's your greatest asset. Being the cool local is definitely a DHV. Take the time to learn your city a…
/r/seduction26/06/11 05:03 PM
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Computer Science B.S. from Mississippi here. I was talking to a girl this one time, and she asked me what my major was (after failing to guess). When I told her, she said, "Oh what? You're way too cool to be a nerd!" My response? "So what? I'm cool, I'm smart, and I love what I do. How many people can really say that?" The only thing your major has to do with your social skills is in the amount of time you have to spend studying instead of socializing. And to be honest, social skills will help y…
/r/seduction26/04/11 09:35 AM
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No, I don't think so. Agree and amplify is for shit tests. That response would be childish and not addressing the point. His response was as close to perfect as you can get.
/r/seduction26/04/11 09:07 AM
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That's pretty harsh, man.
/r/seduction15/04/11 08:33 PM
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Hmm. Maybe it's just Mississippi, then.
/r/seduction15/04/11 08:06 PM
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Ah. 'Geaux' sounds like a username someone from the Gulf Coast (or New Orleans, for that matter) would use. Lot of people from the Coast call themselves 'coasties'. Carry on.
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:55 PM
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You're a coastie, aren't you?
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:50 PM
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/r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction11/04/11 09:21 PM
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I am definitely going to implement this. Thanks for the link man!
/r/seduction21/03/11 07:25 AM
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The poor thing was humiliated enough by her behavior. Call it beta if you want, but I'm not going to rub salt in her wounds by making her buy me a drink. Excellent point about listening to bullshit.
/r/seduction20/03/11 11:13 AM
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I know right? But I don't want to stir up shit. Plus if she was related to the fat bitch I wanted no part of that pussy.
/r/seduction20/03/11 10:58 AM
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Dude I want to watch that every damn day of my life.
/r/seduction19/03/11 10:35 AM
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I love this reference.
/r/seduction19/03/11 10:21 AM
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I think you did okay here. It's certainly nothing to beat yourself up about, man. Just remember: nothing's real, everything's a game. Her: Yeah, you should come see her. You: What, so she's so shy she sends you to do her dirty work? (Big shit-eating grin) Ha, bring her over here and we'll fix that. Hell, you can even use not knowing what to say as something to say. Big smiles help here. "Oh man, do you ever get that thing where your mind just completely blanks? It just happened to me. Quick, say…
/r/seduction19/03/11 10:20 AM
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Basically, you manufacture your own context for meeting somebody. Say you see a cute girl waiting in line for a pretzel. PRACTICE SESSION: Think of ten things concerning pretzels at the mall. "I never know what kind of pretzel to get... so many decisions!" "Man, this pretzel is going to completely make my day." "Did you ever bug your parents to buy you one of these when you were a kid?" (segue into story) "Where is girl who has free samples? Dammit, I want to try before I buy!" "I love that sign…
/r/seduction19/03/11 09:53 AM
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I think I actually did. The fat one, a dumb redneck chick, said something abysmally stupid in class once, and me being the know-it-all, I called her out on it, and was very harsh in explaining how she was completely wrong. I like to think I've grown up a bit since high school. I hope she feels like she's gotten some kind of revenge, and can move on. Actually kinda inspires me to let go of some of my old grudges.
/r/seduction19/03/11 08:29 AM
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Obviously your state control is better than mine Maybe, maybe not. It was really more like "all of a sudden, ice is falling! all around me!" Plus, it was mostly just ice, and a little bit of clear drink. I may have gotten a bit more pissed off if it had been a dark drink, or worse, beer. I'm just happy I didn't react. That would have made me look like a weak douchebag. And instead of the incident making my night better, it would have ruined it. In the end, I got my apology.
/r/seduction19/03/11 08:23 AM
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I'll tell you one thing that's always helped me with AA/the sense of feeling creepy: body language, eye contact, and smiling. Practicing body language is nothing more than training yourself to notice how you are carrying yourself, and correcting it. Head up, shoulders back, relaxed, and looking forward towards where you're going. Eye contact is INCREDIBLY important. Luckily, this is also the easiest to practice. Make eye contact with everyone you walk by, for at least a few seconds. You can prac…
/r/seduction15/02/11 06:05 PM
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Basically, to paraphrase, one or another of the PUAs back in the day was at some club or another, and there was this ugly Iranian guy in shitty clothes dancing all up on the hot girls. Every single one of them rejected him over and over, but he kept dancing and having a great time, and treated their rejections like a joke. Eventually he ended up leaving with a fine-ass girl, because despite his appearance, he was the most confident motherfucker in the club that night.
/r/seduction03/02/11 06:54 PM
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Dude, Neil Strauss is bald as all hell, and he's a legend. Shave your head and own that shit. Remember the story of the ugly Iranian.
/r/seduction28/01/11 02:05 PM
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Because the PUA community lends itself to the type of person who wants to get with girls that are out of his league in his current state. Many guys are just fine with the girls they're with/the girls they can get, and they're not the target market. 99 percent of PUA material ends up being "become proud of who you are, and become that of which you are proud", along with a framework that guys can fill in to get to that point. Many guys already have this self-esteem. A man is judged by his power ov…
/r/seduction23/11/10 08:55 AM
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I'm glad to hear it, Indiana Brones. Just remember, no matter what, you are THE coolest person you know, and she's lucky to be hanging out with you.
/r/seduction12/11/10 02:27 AM
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"Hey you. I'm sick of studying, let's take a break and go have a (coffee|smoke)."
/r/seduction08/11/10 03:27 AM
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I understand your hesitancy to move forward. Making moves should come naturally, and you're not very experienced in making it seem natural. This is fine. In regards to your awkward holding-hands thing, I'd personally not hit the hands first thing, because that's a very intimate gesture. Remember, you want to generate as little friction as possible. That being said, holding her hand and NOT kissing her can't hurt too terribly, a) because it got her used to your touch and b) it probably set her mi…
/r/seduction08/11/10 03:03 AM
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I found that the biggest accomplishment I've had is that I feel like a celebrity just about everywhere I go. I've had a rough couple of months without a social circle, where, in order to have some kind of socialization on the weekends, I HAD to go to the bars and talk to randoms. For me, it's less of a 'seduction' thing and more of a 'improve myself as a man' thing. All inner game. It's less of a long arduous path as it is a series of realizations about yourself which reinforce themselves as you…
/r/seduction29/10/10 01:14 AM
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This question's kinda vague, man. Eye contact is one of the most important of a number of aspects of body language that helps. Look at the way confident guys (look up Presidents Clinton and Bush) carry themselves, and try to consciously mimic these body language traits. As far as recognizing whether a girl is interested in you, look up IOIs. These are body language cues you can pick up on that indicate that they're into you. You sound new, so I'm going to give you a mission. For the next 24 hour…
/r/seduction28/10/10 03:02 AM
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16 other dudes I think he was just exaggerating to make a point. But good advice nonetheless.
/r/seduction28/10/10 02:37 AM
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Anecdote time. I'm off on an internship, and the girl I've been kinda talking to is living seven hours away. She is really into me. Like every second I'm around, she's smiling. Unfortunately, living by yourself in a strange town can take a toll on your confidence as you try to rebuild your social circle from nothing. She mentioned several times that she was hanging out and smoking weed with a guy named Mike. Naturally, I assume that they're fucking, and since he's in the army I can't possibly co…
/r/seduction28/10/10 02:36 AM
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Probably trying to see if you'll get jealous. Don't buy into it. Either way, it sounds like there's sexual tension going on. Get one of them over by themselves, smoke some weed, drink some beers, do what you have to do; just ramp up the kino, dare them to kiss you, and escalate from there. If things don't work out and you feel like you're being led on, stop hanging out with them for awhile. Go find other girls. No big deal. Don't lose your confidence over some silly bitches.
/r/seduction24/10/10 07:12 PM
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Dude, it sounds like they were into you. Basically take the stance of "damn, girl, if you're so into me, you should come over right now." Or the next time she starts asking you about how big your dick is, go apocalypse style and tell her that she'll find out when it's hitting her tonsils. Or you could achieve championship status and get the two to play Russian Blowjob Roulette. You're the gun, and they take turns trying to make you go off. Thirty seconds at a time (you keep time.)
/r/seduction24/10/10 05:39 PM
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Anchoring is when you associate a positive emotion with a sensory input. The general idea is to apply certain kino at points in the conversation when the girl is really into you, and according to the theory, you'll be able to apply that certain kino later and it will recall those emotions to her. While I don't think it's dishonest, I do think it's unnecessary.
/r/seduction09/10/10 07:03 PM
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Hey, man. Don't look at it as a failure. This is only your second or third time going out, which can be pretty intimidating if you don't go out much. ESPECIALLY if you're flying solo; it makes it really hard sometimes. The more you go out, especially solo, the more comfortable you'll be in general. This reflects in your body language, and eventually it'll be like your second home. You just have to keep getting on that horse. Also, picking the right clubs is important. My favorite one has dance m…
/r/seduction09/10/10 06:50 PM
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Cool cool. Nice job, man.
/r/seduction09/10/10 06:46 PM
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This, except if you're trying to get her number, spin it like this: "You should come hang out with me. Give me your number and I'll let you know next time I'm doing something fun."
/r/seduction09/10/10 06:45 PM
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This isn't exactly a field report. What happened? How did you get a date to a concert? Give us a play-by-play.
/r/seduction09/10/10 04:22 AM
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Saloon? images of swinging doors and cosmopolitan magazines, with cowgirls competing in quick-draw hair-straightener duels
/r/seduction28/04/10 07:47 PM
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