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Marriage/Divorceuntildeath/r/MensRights29/10/16 01:25 PM
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Social Issuesuntildeath/r/MensRights16/09/18 04:06 AM
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False Accusationuntildeath/r/MensRights11/09/18 11:26 PM
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Social Issuesuntildeath/r/MensRights24/10/17 01:21 PM
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Social Issuesuntildeath/r/MensRights26/07/18 05:28 AM
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Marriage/Childrenuntildeath/r/MensRights12/06/18 10:11 AM
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Social Issuesuntildeath/r/MensRights24/10/17 01:48 PM
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Edu./Occu.untildeath/r/MensRights20/12/17 12:27 PM
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Marriage/Childrenuntildeath/r/MensRights23/10/18 12:22 AM
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untildeath/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:49 PM
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untildeath/r/MensRights11/10/18 02:43 AM
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Social Issuesuntildeath/r/MensRights21/12/17 10:48 AM
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Marriage/Childrenuntildeath/r/MensRights23/10/18 08:10 PM
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untildeath/r/MensRights26/06/16 02:33 AM
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Intactivismuntildeath/r/MensRights13/09/18 02:38 AM
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untildeath/r/MensRights13/07/18 02:35 AM
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0

That's seriously twisted logic considering one of the reasons why I support Bernie is because of his focus on gender equality.
/r/MensRights20/02/19 10:00 AM
4

I started using a safety razor about 9 years ago (because of a redditor comment) and it's been the best. Still using it and probably saved myself hundreds to thousands of dollars at this point. I always found Gillette products lacking, too.
/r/MensRights04/02/19 08:47 AM
16

I'm one of them :(
/r/MensRights17/01/19 12:28 PM
25

It's /r/nottheonion material
/r/MensRights17/01/19 12:19 AM
2

Honestly, I think there should be a pretty steep fine (if nothing else) for that lack of empathy to an issue that matters to quite a few men and women. I'd be seeking a new doctor, if not hospital, if she were my physician.
/r/MensRights06/01/19 02:15 PM
76

Gotta love the different standards applied to Bernie. Disgusting media.
/r/MensRights03/01/19 07:13 AM
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Yeah, there was sexism even in trying to find a lawyer. I'll update the sub after the court session.
/r/MensRights22/12/18 11:24 AM
8

Despite some of the misogynistic people in the sub, people like you and /u/Abbysol are why I'm subbed. My ex was abusive and I'm in the "haven't seen my children in a loooong time" club. Court system is so slow and I do worry how much of her aggression is now directed at the kids (who have been brainwashed to view me as a bad guy that abandoned them).
/r/MensRights21/12/18 10:44 PM
2

Baby steps, I guess. At least it doesn't say "Woman retaliates against young man who rejects her seductive approach."
/r/MensRights30/11/18 06:09 AM
56

Just to add to this, I remember trying to gain some support for leaving my abusive ex and finding a loving wife and a surprising number of people focused in on my loving partner as though all women are inherently evil. It was a shame that I received such a counter-productive response.
/r/MensRights04/11/18 02:52 PM
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Sorry, but this absolutely reeks of /r/thatHappened
/r/MensRights25/10/18 12:50 PM
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Glad this is getting attention. I stayed for 8 (of 10 years) largely because I knew my leaving would be bad for my abusive spouse (now ex-wife).
/r/MensRights23/10/18 08:11 PM
1

This is the current video that I'm watching and it addresses the issue of children treating you badly. It adds useful perspective (i.e., they do it to avoid the mistreatment of their parent....you can't blame them for focusing on their own survival) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jPRD9--wcUI&index=8&list=UUUXEHz3OECVwLz1X-SNM4lw
/r/MensRights23/10/18 01:12 AM
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Hope this doesn't get deleted. It's really a good resource for those of us that married a person with a disorder and are trying to move on in life. I know some members of the sub are sure to benefit (as I am) from what this guy is saying.
/r/MensRights23/10/18 12:23 AM
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username checks out
/r/MensRights22/09/18 06:02 AM
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That's why I prefer "gender rights" as there are inequalities that both sides struggle with that need to be fixed.
/r/MensRights17/09/18 11:58 PM
4

Yeah, I took a gander at his comment history and he's either a troll or just an emotionally-stunted guy. Either way, he'll likely mature in 5-10 years and feel embarrassed by his Reddit behavior. Good luck to him.
/r/MensRights16/09/18 05:57 AM
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Yeah, I've learned long ago not to waste time "debating" with people on reddit, but I occasionally slip up and have to be reminded through an unpleasant and pointless exchange.
/r/MensRights16/09/18 05:50 AM
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Language is flexible /facepalm ​ First, that would depend on what language we're talking about. Second, language is not "flexible" Okay, we're done here. And I studied linguistics for three years, but you clearly are the intellectual giant so hats off to you.
/r/MensRights16/09/18 05:47 AM
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You're missing the forest for the trees (oops, I can't use that unless talking about real forest and trees, I suppose). Language is flexible and it's silly to argue something as pedantic as this. You'd not choose to feel any emotion regarding your daughter's murder...uh congratulations. I, on the other hand, would feel devestated by my daughter's murder and I don't think anyone (aside from you) would argue "well, you don't have to feel that way about it" and, moreover, I think most people (again…
/r/MensRights16/09/18 05:34 AM
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The colloquial usage is fine, though. If I murder your daughter in front of you, yes, I'm not technically able to make you feel bad about it, but it'd certainly be acceptable usage to say that the horrendous crime made you feel awful.
/r/MensRights16/09/18 05:19 AM
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You cannot make people "feel" something. Emotion is an abstract concept but one of the few defined features of it is that it is purely internal. No one can "make" you have an emotion. That being said, the person in question was indeed acosted. Well, I'd say it'd be a truly impressive individual doesn't "feel bad" when the entire community is treating him like a sexual deviant. I get your point, but I think "made to feel" is pretty apt usage here.
/r/MensRights16/09/18 04:37 AM
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I'm referencing this story: http://www.sandiegouniontribune.com/news/ny-dori-myers-bronx-teacher-sentenced-probation-20180912-story.html ​ I should have said "repeatedly rapes"
/r/MensRights16/09/18 04:06 AM
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No doubt had she been hideous looking, she'd face a bit more punishment (as ludicrous as the pussy pass is).
/r/MensRights13/09/18 09:55 PM
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This is one of the best "imagine the reverse scenario" crimes I've seen. Male teacher would be strung up by his balls (rightfully so), but so should this teacher.
/r/MensRights13/09/18 09:53 PM
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You know what pissed me off as much as the cries of sexism was her actual threats against him. No one has commented on that, but she threatened him which I have to believe is intimidating when the person is near the top of the game "You with NEVER be at another of my matches" Thankfully, the guy stuck to his guns, but I have to wonder if that would be (or has been) effective in the past.
/r/MensRights13/09/18 09:23 AM
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Extremely relevant to the circumcision debate. "They won't remember the pain." is no excuse for exposing a baby needlessly to circumcision (let alone the lifelong implications of that procedure).
/r/MensRights13/09/18 02:39 AM
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Not available in my country. Those fucking men!!! ;_;
/r/MensRights09/09/18 10:06 PM
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He got about $6000 in compensation after tricked for a year. I wonder what mother would be compensated if a father switched her egg with his mistress'?
/r/MensRights06/09/18 06:16 AM
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If I was the principal, I'd make the teacher apologize to the student because she overreacted and there'd need to be a better message taught to the child.
/r/MensRights27/08/18 03:16 AM
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Suicide is looking better and better every day
/r/MensRights14/08/18 11:40 PM
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My ex gets 70% of my current income and, when I filed for a re-assessment, she called me the most evil person in the world. Sadly, she's convinced our children that it's true, too :-/
/r/MensRights11/08/18 04:16 AM
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So embarrassing. Once I peed my pants so I know what it's like.
/r/MensRights09/08/18 11:21 PM
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Seriously though, how can this be acceptable?
/r/MensRights29/07/18 01:17 PM
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Posting this just because these cases rarely receive media attention
/r/MensRights26/07/18 05:28 AM
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lmao, so hurt by the /r/iamverysmart burn that you're chasing me around reddit. I'm flattered as much as your ego is delicate.
/r/MensRights14/07/18 01:13 AM
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Not directly related to men's rights, but this is something that needs addressing for men as well. It's still such an uphill battle for people to take domestic violence against men seriously, but I can tell you firsthand that battered men don't "escape" the trauma just by getting out of the toxic environment.
/r/MensRights13/07/18 02:36 AM
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Related, the other problem is that *everyone* that sees this video is pissed, but if the roles were reversed, far too many people would be laughing and calling the guy being molested a lucky sob.
/r/MensRights08/07/18 11:53 PM
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If regretful one night stands are rape, half of Thailand is going into the slammer
/r/MensRights07/05/18 03:34 AM
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70% here, going to try to renegotiate this summer.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 12:58 PM
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I think "Please don't destroy nice things that men do simply because they are men and you want to hate them." should be a tagline.
/r/MensRights23/04/18 03:38 AM
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Right up there with The View laughing about a guy getting his penis chopped off and being called out for it with "what if a woman's breasts were cut off." Sadly, they didn't "get it" like the audience here did.
/r/MensRights22/04/18 04:35 AM
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I was confused because I never get used to reading bottom up with those twitter posts.
/r/MensRights21/04/18 04:22 AM
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Depends, did the wife save your life? If my wife saved my life, she'd be guaranteed every ounce of me until one of us passes away.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 07:19 PM
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"I will be forever grateful" I don't think she knows what that means.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 07:17 PM
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My ex-wife wasn't quite as bad, but there was a lot of similarities (e.g., sleeping on floor, hitting, belittling, isolating, etc.). I empathize with this guy and I'm glad that fewer and fewer people find this "funny" as time goes on.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 12:38 AM
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That makes sense. I just hope the same scorn is given to smokers, excessive junk food eaters, alcoholics, etc. in that case. I just feel like (especially on Reddit), people take the low-hanging fruit of harping on fat people to bolster their own egos.
/r/MensRights13/04/18 02:09 PM
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How about short or tall, fat or thin, young or old, we just let people be and don't pass our own judgments onto them? If someone is comfortable being fat, why should you or I care?
/r/MensRights13/04/18 01:38 PM
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He sounds like a good candidate to be a motivational speaker is he ever changes his mind about taking about it.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 09:58 PM
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I owe my wife 9000 and will be about 18000 on a few months. Going to court soon to how the judge sees the absurdity of my situation.
/r/MensRights08/04/18 09:55 PM
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There's actually a related video that even better, imo. It has the woman beating the crap out of the guy--like really yanking his hair, pushing him to the ground, smacking him, she doesn't hold back. Then they have the guy push her back with the very vocal emphasis of, "Stop hitting me. I'm tired of you abusing me. I'm a man. Stop hitting me." Something to that effect and instantly, right to the second, guys come in and start aggressing towards this guy. These same guys watched with disinterest,…
/r/MensRights07/04/18 06:41 AM
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Yeah, that pisses me off (just like false accusations of rape) because it detracts from those of us (like me) that are really getting fucked over by the system.
/r/MensRights30/03/18 02:18 AM
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My ex currently gets about 70% of my income. Going to try to get it changed this summer (after 2 years). Finger crossed and wish me luck, folks.
/r/MensRights30/03/18 02:17 AM
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If the guy is foregoing social relationships in favor of a piece of rubber, he or she had problems before the piece of rubber entered the picture.
/r/MensRights25/03/18 01:00 AM
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Yup, I stay here and believe in the fight but sometimes people confuse mysogeny and men's rights.
/r/MensRights17/03/18 03:31 PM
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Thanks for the info. I thought i was making up the term for lack of a better one to identify the men's side of the fight for gender equality
/r/MensRights08/03/18 10:25 PM
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The thing is that most mens problems (e.g., custody battles, divorce/alimony discrimination, etc.) stem from the same original as the problems that women struggle with (i.e., patriarchal society structure). So, it's asinine for feminists to oppose men fighting for gender equality every bit as much as it is for "meninists" to oppose women fighting for gender equality.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 07:26 PM
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This....doesn't surprise me.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 12:24 AM
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Actually, I'd love a #hetoo twitter campaign (I don't use twitter), just to highlight men struggle with these issues too. Also, men have more shame to deal with because we're either supposed to like sexual attacks and/or we're "pussies" for letting women take advantage of us.
/r/MensRights07/03/18 07:18 AM
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They hate their spouse (and/or themselves) more than they love their children.
/r/MensRights04/03/18 03:26 AM
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What's worse (though often these two go hand-in-hand) is when the mother brainwashes the kid to hate their father. Lost two kids that way :-/ The kicker is that I did all the hard work raising through the baby and toddler years only for her to swoop in when child-rearing is actually easier (and more rewarding) and turn them against me. That's why I'll always fight for mens rights, anyway.
/r/MensRights04/03/18 03:26 AM
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The second the anus derives the same pleasures as a vagina with stimulation, count me in. Until that day, I'll take no penetration.
/r/MensRights18/02/18 05:34 AM
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Apologies for paywall, I have the article if anyone wants it. Just PM me.
/r/MensRights21/12/17 10:48 AM
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I thought this was a photoshopped joke. How could someone be so dumb? Man or woman, evolution failed with that one.
/r/MensRights08/11/17 06:03 AM
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Wow, could you imagine if they had abusive lesbian relationships in mind?
/r/MensRights08/10/17 10:26 AM
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It does make me wonder how many men get extorted to avoid having their name ruined (i.e., pay me X amount or I'll say you raped me.)
/r/MensRights03/10/17 07:32 AM
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Yup, this is something I try to get my feminist friends to appreciate as well. It's about gender equality.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 02:34 AM
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I...I thought this was just a comedic joke about "mansplaining". Was it serious?
/r/MensRights16/08/17 11:43 PM
0

Yeah, if you say anything even remotely critical of WW in /r/movies, you're downvoted to oblivion. It was/is sexist to assume anything other than it was a masterpiece lol My buried post on movies talked a lot about its shortcomings and how so many movies were better (e.g., Kill Bill, 5th Element). It has protection much like the new ghostbusters did.
/r/MensRights30/07/17 11:12 PM
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That's the kicker for me. This movie, according to a guy that was actually there, damn near approached looking through a window at the past. God forbid it be accurate. Lets force Wonder Woman into the mix.
/r/MensRights30/07/17 01:28 PM
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yeeeaaargh, we're dying by the dozens. How masculine! Hold by testes, I'm drowning! yay!
/r/MensRights30/07/17 01:26 PM
2

ha ha silence, but that's par for the course on any topic :)
/r/MensRights27/07/17 04:00 AM
10

I'm a professor and always include at least one lecture on men's rights if it relates to the course.
/r/MensRights25/07/17 01:07 AM
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In the US, I wouldn't even be surprised if parents encouraged their children to play with an adult just for the lawsuit opportunity.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 12:05 AM
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Same thing here. I was tossing my girl up in the air and another little girl asked me to do the same (as her parents were more interested in their phones). No way in hell I was going to help her have more fun at the risk of being labeled and threatened.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 12:04 AM
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Sadly, there's at least another story that's identical to this one where the child ended up dying.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 12:01 AM
2

I didn't even do the reverse in this case, but you're right. People would be mobbing that guy's house with pitchforks.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 12:00 AM
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This isn't even the most extreme example I've seen on these his/her rape pamphlets.
/r/MensRights22/06/17 09:20 AM
2

Why does the 8 year old boy get a pass? You're shitting me, right? You tell a cop that some 8 year old girl seduced you and see how that works out.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 02:54 AM
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As shitty as that is, I am glad that I'm not the only one. fistbump
/r/MensRights25/05/17 04:01 PM
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It is what it is. I just hope future generations don't have these problems.
/r/MensRights25/05/17 11:32 AM
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Holy shit, it's like watching myself in the mirror. Hurts. At this point, I just pretend that I don't have children (it's been years and any interaction is poison because "dad is bad")
/r/MensRights25/05/17 09:09 AM
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Nice, my ex got the children and has opted to "homeschool" them. Now they are poisoned to hated me and are completely unprepared for adult life. I wish this sentiment was present when I was getting my divorce.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 10:41 PM
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I like the analogy and will use it in the future.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/17 12:20 AM
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Truth. FWIW, I've been an educator for over 2 decades and have never had a problem (but I also play it extremely safe such as never a closed door meeting).
/r/MensRights19/04/17 01:36 AM
2

Agreed. Police dragged me home after I fled and asked her if I was hitting her. Brilliant logic.
/r/MensRights10/04/17 05:34 PM
9

I think it's a US thing. My first wife (a nightmare that I'll be paying alimony to so she doesn't have to work for another 9 years) was ambivalent to circumcision though we ended up not doing it. I left the US and found a better wife who views "no circumcision" as entirely a non-issue (akin to "why would you take a scalpel to his delicate parts?").
/r/MensRights12/03/17 01:34 AM
1

It's not so bad. I'm only fucked by the court system and giving my salary away for 10 years :-/
/r/MensRights10/03/17 01:55 AM
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I'm liking this analogy and it seems to point out the idiocy of this policy. I'm considering having a baby with my new wife (who's awesome) and the courts actually say they may not reduce my alimony payments because my new wife can cover my bills. What?!?
/r/MensRights14/02/17 12:28 PM
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As a battered spouse dragged back to my abuser and then observing as they caress her arm and ask, "Is he hitting you?" I can believe this.
/r/MensRights10/02/17 01:43 AM
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This hits so close to home it's not even funny.
/r/MensRights17/01/17 02:01 PM
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He'll be given a warning then.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 11:59 PM
1

Because the reply I get is often "Wow, you got shit on by one and you are making the mistake with another one!?!?" type responses
/r/MensRights04/01/17 06:35 AM
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Unfortunately, it leads to misogyny, too. I'm with an amazing woman now and I often get berated in this sub because I love my wife. As if I can't be exploited by a psychotic ex, but still meet someone amazing. There's a spectrum, fam.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 02:33 AM
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Sorry, OP, the bullshit thing is I looked into whether I could reduce my alimony because my current wife and I want to have a baby and we may or may not be able to because "I chose to have a baby so it was a known additional expense." I also saw the gem that they occasionally raise alimony considering the new spouse may be covering some of the husband's expenses. Holy..fuck. I hate the sexist american justice system.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 02:30 AM
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I had police drag me back to my abusive wife and then asked her if I was hitting her. Talk about bullshit.
/r/MensRights30/12/16 04:01 PM
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Truth. Source: am man complaining
/r/MensRights30/12/16 04:00 PM
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Just don't confuse us progressives with the leftists
/r/MensRights29/12/16 10:26 AM
1

Well, I don't view all women the same. The first one was crazy and the second actually gasp makes my life better and more fulfilling. Don't confuse the fight for men's rights as one of misogyny.
/r/MensRights20/12/16 12:42 PM
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It's like a new job title. Much cheaper to give the enslaved a new pronoun that they find empowering than something expensive like reasonably priced medication.
/r/MensRights13/12/16 09:33 PM
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That's interesting. I "ran away" to the park when my ex was being abusive (then, she was my wife). Someone called and the police forced me to go home "Of course you can go home. It's your home." Asshole cop quote. So, I wonder if I'd have been fined $1300 in addition to this comment (and them asking her if I was hitting her!). Goddamn, gender equality can't come soon enough.
/r/MensRights11/12/16 07:09 PM
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I'm a woman, gimme gimme There you go. She got used to the lavish lifestyle and now she's apparently forever entitled to it.
/r/MensRights10/12/16 05:43 PM
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Clooney, dude, you knew you weren't marriage material. Why, buddy, WHY did you of all people do it? You knew better!
/r/MensRights10/12/16 05:42 PM
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Clearly the male students are seducing their teachers so the solution is to force boys to be homeschooled.
/r/MensRights09/12/16 10:14 AM
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If it was shown that child robots successfully satisfied the pedophile's urges, I'm all onboard.
/r/MensRights25/11/16 03:34 PM
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I had to look up "bogan" and now I'm sad that I had to look it up ;_;
/r/MensRights01/11/16 10:38 PM
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That depends, did he ever try to push her or hold her arms to protect himself? If not, then no, the police aren't interested. If so, then he may have to spend a night in a jail cell.
/r/MensRights01/11/16 10:36 PM
2

Yes, I purchased an expensive laptop two years ago. You got me.
/r/MensRights30/10/16 01:55 AM
23

I appreciate this comment. I'll edit my original post, accordingly.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 06:59 PM
6

My salary was higher than it is now and there was a month when I couldn't pay so I'm guessing they just auto-deducted it from my next paycheck (yet, I still had to pay the following month). I'm on a contract set to end soon, too so I'm not sure what I'm going to do except shrug my shoulders when collections comes knocking.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 03:12 PM
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Two children. ~1500 child support / ~1500 alimony. I may look into getting it adjusted because I think my salary has decreased. Something has happened and I'll never be able to balance a budget as it stands.
/r/MensRights29/10/16 01:32 PM
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He did no more or less than the situation required.
/r/MensRights20/10/16 11:16 AM
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Not surprising. I can watch terrible movies, but this is only the 2nd movie that I've ever been unable to watch. I quit before reaching the halfway point. The movie was truly horrible (and I'm a big fan of Melissa McCarthy and even loved her poorly rated movies). The fact that sexism was used as a shield (Hello Hillary) to discourage or shame people from disliking this shitpile enrages me.
/r/MensRights30/09/16 09:50 AM
10

That voice does not belong to a "cute little black chick."
/r/MensRights25/09/16 01:25 AM
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Whenever I see this, I repeat my worst story (not the worst one of abuse, but the worst one involving third parties). I left my abusive wife (ex now, hooray) and slept in the park just for one night of peace. Police were called and they forced me home. I told them I couldn't go home because my wife was abusive and they said (verbatim), "What do you mean? Of course, you can go home, it's your home." They forced me home back into the room with my attacker and then, to add the proverbial cherry on …
/r/MensRights24/09/16 08:32 AM
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Didn't Clooney just get married? In his defense, he's said on more than one occasion that he's not marriage material. I agree. He's too charming and he'll got to his grave a panties-dropping playboy.
/r/MensRights22/09/16 02:53 AM
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Well, someone said it on the internet so it must be true.
/r/MensRights22/09/16 02:51 AM
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Yeah, but TPB has gone way downhill and I haven't found a replacement yet. I'll be on the lookout though.
/r/MensRights19/09/16 03:17 PM
3

I'd love to see this, but it's not on Netflix in my country :(
/r/MensRights18/09/16 11:59 PM
2

Feminists really disappoint me often. I wish we'd all collectively switch to fighting for gender equality.
/r/MensRights18/09/16 01:05 AM
11

Every time a female colleague would use the copier, I'd rush over and tickle her until she was crying/screaming on the ground. I thought it was all in good fun. /s
/r/MensRights12/09/16 01:43 AM
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Look. I’ll be the first to say that it’s incredibly doubtful that any guy needs to be told by the journalist to stop tickling her. It's not exactly an epidemic infiltrating all relationships.
/r/MensRights12/09/16 01:42 AM
5

When you butt heads with CTR employees, you're going to have a bad time.
/r/MensRights09/09/16 10:33 PM
1

Don't think like I do is a misleading re-interpretation of what I said. What I'm saying is people shouldn't be allowed to vote if they base their vote are ridiculous fluff--whether they are voting the same way as I am or not. This isn't even about them basing it on an issue that I deem less important. This is identity politics--which is worse.
/r/MensRights09/09/16 10:30 PM
3

If you're voting for Hillary because she's a woman, you're every bit as stupid and shouldn't be allowed to vote as someone voting based on maleness, age, height, or any other irrelevant superficial characteristic.
/r/MensRights09/09/16 03:05 PM
1

No, but I think there should be financial consequences to smoking or obesity (and there are--e.g., higher insurance premiums).
/r/MensRights18/08/16 08:09 AM
2

Wow, that was logic behind "separate but equal"
/r/MensRights02/08/16 12:13 AM
4

I think he's very talented, but casting someone as well-known as Will Smith was a mistake. Might as well have Jennifer Lawrence be Harley Quinn.
/r/MensRights17/07/16 09:51 AM
46

I'm willing to watch even a bad/midiocre movie at the cinema, but they went too far with the Hillary Clintonesque reliance on feminism and accusations of misogyny. I fight for gender equality, but the use of feminism as a shield against criticism hurts the movement.
/r/MensRights17/07/16 09:50 AM
9

I "ran away" from my abusive ex. Police dragged me back and then asked her whether I was hitting her. It's a real problem. I don't know if things are better now, but--5 years ago--there was no help for battered men. I went back once to solidify the divorce after finally getting away and I get the "stink eye" from a number of people in the neighborhood for "abandoning her."
/r/MensRights10/07/16 09:55 AM
42

My ex keeps asking for more when I already give her more than many people earn 40 hours per week. And, yes, she is still a "stay at home* mom despite the kids being 9 and 13 years old. Can't wait until they turn 18. Despite my forewarning, she's still going to act like a deer in headlights as though the financial teet being pulled away is a complete shocker.
/r/MensRights05/07/16 12:16 AM
4

I just submitted a CNN headline story about this a few days ago to this sub. Two days ago I actually paid attention and, ironically, saw 4 women "manspreading" and 1 man sitting knee-on-knee cross-legged.
/r/MensRights26/06/16 02:24 AM
1

I was just on the bus today and actually looked. Four women sat "manspread" style and one rather muscular guy was sitting with his legs crossed in the stereotypical female way (knee on knee). I found it hilarious.
/r/MensRights25/06/16 10:25 AM
1

I think this should catch on and apply elsewhere (e.g., ma'amsplaining).
/r/MensRights24/06/16 02:51 AM
3

I'm a proponent of gender equality, but this seems like a ridiculous "issue." I ride the bus every day and I've never seen any "manspreading." Then again, maybe I'm guilty because I don't superglue my knees together when I sit down.
/r/MensRights23/06/16 02:03 AM
1

I'll try that. I may try monetary pressure first as she's a "stay-at-home" living off my teat.
/r/MensRights17/03/14 01:54 PM
2

Admittedly, they were off-the-cuff, but I'll try some others. She got fraction questions wrong also (e.g., which is more 3/4 or 4/8). I'd be thrilled if this were a reflection of my questions being haphazard (asinine seems overly critical) rather on their stagnation in development.
/r/MensRights17/03/14 01:53 PM
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I dealt with this too. No one can understand it. We deal with all of the difficulties that women do (i.e., "why don't you just leave"), but with the added shame because we're "the stronger sex." I still remember when an officer forced me to go home with a chuckle saying "Of course you can go home, it's your house" and then they took my abuser into another room and asked her if I was hitting her. sigh
/r/MensRights26/11/13 04:28 PM
1

That's a good idea. It happens once in a blue moon, but I think I will get a recorder just to be safe.
/r/MensRights02/11/13 01:01 AM
2

I always close my door. However, I recently had a fairly attractive student come and she had a lot of personal issues on her plate to discuss. I closed the door (first time in several years) as I didn't think it should be "open forum" discussion. Sure hope it doesn't bit me in the ass in the long run. I did what I would have want a professor to do for me if I was discuss something personal.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 09:57 PM
1

I wish my ex was like this. She's so abusive that I've finally all but given up any contact with my children. Financially support them (to my own detriment), but minimal contact.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 09:37 PM
10

I'm glad that's all he got. A fall like that at 80 years could have led to a broken tailbone, fractured hip, and so on.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 10:18 AM
7

Or, just to play Devil's Advocate, they could be taking this stance either because A) they've seen a darker side of this world that we don't know about or B) they didn't realize the potential exploitation of attractiveness until they were older and wiser. Just throwing those ideas out there.
/r/MensRights15/10/13 05:51 PM
2

Worst resume ever.
/r/MensRights10/10/13 10:58 AM
11

I always tried to be politically correct, but inside I know that my (abusive) ex-wife was exclusively responsible for the decline of our marriage. Pity as she ruined the very idea of marriage and I'll never let any future girlfriend that far into my life again.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 02:26 PM
25

Clearly it means he wasn't romantic enough!
/r/MensRights23/09/13 02:14 AM
85

Exactly. Too many would cheer the woman for punching a man (hell, it's celebrated in movies), but a single slap from the male to a female (even a cuckolded man) would be the controversy of the week.
/r/MensRights23/09/13 02:14 AM
4

You know, men are the first to get fired because they're less "useful" than women on these sorts of jobs (i.e., can't be with children along--women can; can't change diapers--women can). Frankly, I'm surprised you're "allowed" to change diapers. I'm assuming an adult female must be present while you do?
/r/MensRights16/09/13 11:41 PM
2

I'd rather this be accessible to others. I've bookmarked it, thanks!
/r/MensRights16/09/13 11:27 PM
1

I'm undecided whether he's a troll account or not as it's less than a day old and he's made other inflammatory comments. Calling someone an idiot is counterproductive, nonetheless. I agree with helping others to take responsibility for their lives, but that comes through education not name-calling.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 06:12 AM
1

I'm sorry, but you are misguided about the real complexity of these abusive relationships (especially those that developed learned helplessness as a child).
/r/MensRights05/09/13 12:32 AM
1

As a survivor of spousal abuse, it's counterproductive and incorrect to call someone in this situation an idiot. The relationship doesn't start out this way. I'm sure she didn't start swinging a broken bottle at him on their first date.
/r/MensRights04/09/13 10:11 PM
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I don't understand. Are you arguing in favor of staying in an abusive relationship because of fears of fines and incarceration? I agree with you that the divorce/alimony system is broken and needs fixed, but I'd also argue that those concerns are not a reason to stay. So, yes, even if there's the risk of multiple jail sentences, you should leave if you're being crushed by your spouse.
/r/MensRights01/09/13 12:30 AM
3

Not good at all. That was the source of my depression--I didn't care about leaving her or my resulting half year of homelessness. It took 6 months to recover. And, though I abandoned them in the form of my presence, I did ensure that their bills were paid. If there were any way I could have taken them with me, I would have. If anything, I think their chances at having healthy relationships as adults will be improved without seeing mother and father together.
/r/MensRights01/09/13 12:27 AM
5

Fear of the financial consequences is no reason to stay with a tormentor though. Your happiness and freedom is worth any alimony fees.
/r/MensRights01/09/13 12:25 AM
23

We do if it's alimony.
/r/MensRights28/08/13 07:11 PM
2

Not sure what I can do considering the financial and geographic constraints. I'll update /mensrights after I talk with her.
/r/MensRights26/08/13 04:08 AM
1

Thank you for this. It does sadden me (especially since my girlfriend is absolutely ecstatic about having me as a fatherly role model to her children). I was born to be a father and my kids really do miss out on that :(
/r/MensRights24/08/13 09:22 PM
1

Right, she believes in her innocence completely. I can't completely cut my losses as Tusse suggests. I can with her, but I have to do my duty for my children even if they never appreciate it. One example was going to visit her family. I didn't want to because of expenses (cross-country flight) and I really need to get work done. My 10-year-old daughter said pointblank (thanks "mom") that I didn't want to go because I didn't want to show my face. (Semi-related, I was working from 7am until 10pm d…
/r/MensRights24/08/13 06:54 PM
2

You know, the thing is, I know why she is the way she is. We even had a huge series of fights because she wanted me to take her last name rather than the other way around. Marriage shouldn't be legal until 30. She's not evil, but just horribly and irreparably damaged.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 06:20 PM
3

It's tricky, but you're preaching to the choir about a lot of this. I've never nor will ever put them in the middle of anything. I've never said a bad thing about their Mom. Even when I hear heartbreaking things like "Daddy, if you come visit, are you still going to cause trouble." Knife in my damn heart. Anyway, I've paid for the mortgage, her education (which still is going unused), utility bills, everything with the kids. I can't take them because A) my job is not stable--I could be fired at …
/r/MensRights23/08/13 06:12 PM
3

Yeah, it's heart-breaking. I was the one that raised them as babies even with earning my PHD. I feel like she's going to try to be a "stay at home" mom even when the kids are over 18. I think you're right. It'll have to wait as she spent so much of my money during this 4 month visit that I need to get out of red (again). Thanks for the bro-console. I do appreciate it.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:57 PM
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