untrp Archive

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6	A coworker just tried to kiss me... wtf? I'm flattered, but I'm guessing kissing is as bad a sleeping with her, would you avoid it? It’s advised against given what could happen if things go south, but I’ve fucked coworkers before and it wasn’t that big of a deal.	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 05:53 PM
1	Is it normal to find it hard to come to terms with swallowing the pill? I'm struggling. That is actually a possibility too.	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 05:37 PM
11	What is the deal with younger girls and Snapchat/instagram? Filter your dick pic so it is dressed in a rabbit suit and dancing	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 04:59 PM
5	Does she want to fuk if she screenshots a muscle pic on snapchat? Yes	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 04:59 PM
2	Please tell young men that most of pornography is staged.... That’s why I watched porn. I used it as an educational tool and studied how and what the guy did to the woman he was with. Then applied that to my sexual life. Obviously doesn’t work for all porn, but the porn I watched back then was pretty good quality and had some great rough fucking. The male pornstars in those who really knew how to rough a girl up and dick her down are who I tried to emulate early on in my sexual relations and I found great success in that. Eventually I learned how to apply…	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/17 02:20 PM
3	Is it normal to find it hard to come to terms with swallowing the pill? I'm struggling. You seem uncomfortable with the idea of fucking girls. Am I right?	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 10:15 AM
3	Tips on being dominant/rough despite being a virgin? Hey man. Good on you. Hope you enjoy your experience. Don’t get too hung up with whether you’re being dominant enough or not. And don’t get too focused on what feels weird to be doing internally. Unless you’re a naturally dominant person, being dominant in the bedroom is awkward in the beginning. Everything feels weird to be doing. But over time, you get used to it. And being dominant in the bedroom may lead you to become more dominant out of the bedroom. Some advice would be to think of how ani…	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 10:01 AM
4	How do I get rid of manboobs? I know how it works. That’s why I included diet and calories in my answer.	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 09:46 AM
5	How do I get rid of manboobs? Bench Press, incline Dumbbell / barbell Press. But the most important thing in fat loss is your diet and calorie intake. Turn those moobs to pecs. It’ll take a while, but it’ll be worth it.	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 08:56 AM
2	Sister cheated on her BF. How to approach the situation How does a fat guy have Red Pill mentality when the number one rule is lift and fitness? How tight could this guy’s game be to overlook him being overweight?	/r/askTRP	27/06/17 01:23 AM
2	Budding alpha here, Is it bad to bone a few 6's or lower to build confidence and momentum? That’s a great way to develop confidence. If you’re aim is to be alpha, confidence is the foundation of that. Exhume confidence. Especially during sex. Bang them and feel great about yourself. Remember to be rough and exciting and dominant. Then use that to fuck hotter girls and become comfortable with that. Then move up until you’re banging top tier women and feeling confident about it the whole way through. You can do it. It’s little steps up in attractiveness. Think of it like weight lifting.…	/r/askTRP	26/06/17 04:32 PM
2	What does taking a girls virginity actually feel like to a guy? You can’t really tell the difference in any physical feelings. She’s a lot more inhibited than those who have though.	/r/askTRP	25/06/17 04:33 PM
4	Anyone else feel bad for "using" girls for sex and entertainment without committing to a relationship? You get used to it the more you do it. You also grow to realize that you aren’t exactly using them for sex. They’re agreeing to the sex. They want it too.	/r/askTRP	25/06/17 04:31 PM
5	She wants me to fuck her while her boyfriend watches. I don’t have anything to say about this other than, damn dude. That’s a fantasy of mine, being the bull in a cuckold. Hope you enjoy it.	/r/askTRP	25/06/17 11:18 AM
4	Women don't want to be raped, it makes no sense. No one here condones these instances of legitimate rape -Cyralea If you're already sexually active with a woman, discuss the concept of a safeword. -Cyralea	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/17 02:22 AM
3	Women don't want to be raped, it makes no sense. If you read the whole post, he's discussing role play rape and in bold he clearly points out that this isn't discussing actual rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/17 02:20 AM
6	How to gracefully respond when a girl who ghosted you suddenly shows interest Ignore. Have some respect for yourself.	/r/askTRP	24/06/17 07:49 PM
1	Best way to deal with the 'I went clubbing and hooked up with a guy shit test'? Do you want a relationship or a tight hole?	/r/askTRP	24/06/17 07:27 PM
5	Best way to deal with the 'I went clubbing and hooked up with a guy shit test'? A dismissive “Cool.”	/r/askTRP	24/06/17 06:37 PM
3	Both RP and BP need to consider the argument of what is considered RP pick up/game, and what is BP PUA. Can you explain to me what is decided as blue pill pickup game other than obvious tropes of chivalry and pussy pedestals?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/17 05:59 PM
–	Game? Looks first. Game second. If you can’t pass the looks, your game isn’t gonna work.	/r/askTRP	24/06/17 04:30 PM
3	Temptations When I was younger I went through this as well. I was in a relationship. It wasn't a very strong one. Pretty much felt like a friendship more than anything. Every now and then we would fuck. That was a problem to me. One day I figured, fuck it, I'm gonna end this now so I can have my sexual needs met and the freedom to do whatever I want. At the time, she was my only sexual partner. Never looked back. Never let a woman hold your needs hostage or negotiate with them to do so. Never give them that…	/r/askTRP	24/06/17 08:35 AM
4	Plate said no more to sex.. could be shit test. Ps I don't hate women all women are actually good ... good for something . I've only ever met women good for one thing...	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 11:52 PM
–	Am I Being Good Enough? Why are you withholding sex from your SO?	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 11:11 PM
2	Plate said no more to sex.. could be shit test. Frame is essentially keeping your cool, your position, and your ideals when challenged. You don't give into pressure, idealisms, or threats. You don't respond with emotion. In your case, you want sex with this chick. You mantain the position that you are involved with her as long as she is putting out. If she isn't putting out, you are cool with that, but as you have already displayed to her, that's something you get out of the relationship that you have with her. That's your frame in your relat…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 11:08 PM
–	Seeing women and having fun but lately, I have been feeling no sexual desire at all. Any suggestions? Do you masturbate?	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 10:54 PM
3	Plate said no more to sex.. could be shit test. Hang up.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 10:54 PM
7	Plate said no more to sex.. could be shit test. Ignore for now. Invite her to hang and escalate to sex. If she's down, it was a shit test. If she stops you, say "Alright. I'll see you." Then get up and leave. She'll try to stop you and ask you where you're going. Just say "Well you don't wanna fuck, so I'm gonna go." She'll likely push for sex. She'll insist that she's down for some and that she was only kidding. Maintain frame. Say "Nah, it's totally cool. I got some things I need to get done, anyway." or "I've got plans." Anything that impl…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 10:48 PM
8	Got invited to a "girls night" Ignore, or sexualize it to polarize the situation. Respond with "Threesome?"	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 09:53 PM
1	What can someone in my situation do? You're coming to the community that you feel tells you to act like you're in a 90s American teen comedy and asking what you can do to change your life. I don't know what theories you're reading, though. There's a stickied post on the front page of this subreddit called NEWBIES READ THIS: A Comprehensive Guide to The Red Pill that I encourage you to read.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 07:37 PM
2	What can someone in my situation do? Continue to not put into practice what you read already and enjoy your life on the couch eating twinkies and ding dongs and watching Sci Fi channel while you check your phone for your current Guild standings. Bro. You gotta put these theories into practice in your life. You can't just read them and expect things to change.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 07:33 PM
2	Found TRP a few months ago. I'm your standard college guy who wants to get big and reinvent himself. tl;dr: see bold You gotta eat at a caloric surplus to gain weight and build muscle. If you're new to the gym, you can do so in any circumstances, but once your beginner gains stop, you need to track your intake and be aware of what you need to eat to meet your goals. Use online calorie calculators to figure out how much you need to be eating to gain weight. You cannot gain substantial muscle mass without gaining weight and you cannot gain weight without gaining fat. Find a routine to meet your g…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 07:01 PM
2	What should I do about my LTR, who has been pretty great until lately? You are unreasonably upset. She went on a wilderness retreat to be certified for search and rescue. What do you think that entails? Sitting around a campfire Snapchatting? Of course she's going to be encouraged to be immersed in the experience. You sound clingy and dependant. It's great you're holding her to certain expectations, but you got to look at the bigger picture and the circumstances in times like these.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 06:47 PM
3	Stuck between either studying now or working to afford my fitness goals Personal trainers are a waste of money if you know how to use the internet. Reddit alone has an abundance of resources for fitness goals.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:54 PM
4	Is there any evidence that having lots of sex partners interferes with a woman's ability to pair-bond? And what is a pair-bond, exactly? Isn't she only supposed to feel things for you if you're being high-status? From observation, I found that the majority of the men I knew to have had a high partner count tend to be more satisfied when they settle down, because in some ways they feel that they utilized their biological purpose without actually impregnating them. They went out and fucked a lot of different women, which is what we are biologically programmed to do. So they tend to look back without any reservations and would have could have outlooks on sexual encounters they could have experienced.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:52 PM
2	Used all game the wrong way, LTR going in strange directions You're contradicting yourself in a lot of your comments on this post. Do you want to be in a relationship with her or not? That's the first thing you need to decide, and you seem like you can't do that. It's fine to take some time to think about it. It's encouraging and logical to do so, but a man knows what he wants at the end of the day, and you need to work that out and make a decision. Thankfully for you, you're confiding these inconsistent thoughts in us. We're here to help. We'll give you …	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:33 PM
1	Finally had sex with her, she got off mid-sex and started crying. That is likely, but only if he proceeds without any thought or consideration in implementing it. If he addresses it and caters it to a woman's perspective and frame of mind, it's unlikely that shit will hit the fan. Hard nexting needs to happen, otherwise he will be at her mercy because of the situation he put himself in by going against what everyone says and shitting where he eats. Though I can't be one to criticize because I fucked a few of the girls at my last job and gained a pretty notorio…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:29 PM
2	June 23 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread I made it past my bench plateau that lasted what seemed like two months.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/17 04:24 PM
2	A question for experienced Redpillers It’s fine to take a day or two off for rest as long as you hit the gym again and break down the muscle. Rest is just as important as lifting. In fact, resting is when your muscle is actually growing and repairing the damage you did to it with your workout. That’s why splits and PPLs are encouraged. While one muscle is rebuilding, you’re breaking down another. It’s a constant cycle.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:17 PM
6	How can I learn to take on more risks in life? You know that nervous feeling you get in your throat and stomach when a new opportunity presents itself? Follow that. That’s a risk.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:14 PM
1	What's the deal with social media? TRP seems to have divided opinions Posting 24/7 on social media is a very feminine thing to do. Constant updates and seeking validation and opinions from others is not something you should ever be interested in doing. Even outside of this exaggeration. Frequent posters tend to rely far too much on others’ view of them than their own view of themselves.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:12 PM
2	Whether or not to break it with LTR Once you break up with a girl, never take her back. She can be a plate and you can fuck her, but she was demoted from LTR. Ghost her and get over her. I encourage you to explore other women and spin some plates. Of those plates, promote one to LTR if that’s what you so choose. I posted this in another thread, so I’ll post it here as well since it can apply to you. I always encourage men to spin plates. Spinning plates allows you to have your sexual needs met without relying on a single person to…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:09 PM
2	A question for experienced Redpillers On and off for about four years is not going to give you the progress you want. You need to lift consistently 4 to 6 times a week in optimal training schedules for at least three months to start seeing the results in your efforts. Do not make any excuses. Make it to the gym and pump iron. Utilize each workout and make the journey towards your goals just as important as your goal itself. It’s a slow journey, but one that is well worth the time and effort. You will reap the benefits in the end. An…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:08 PM
1	What's the deal with social media? TRP seems to have divided opinions That’s what I meant. Do you want social media or not? Either way the women you intend to fuck will search you up. What do you want them to find when they do? There’s an air of mystery to a man who isn’t on social media that tends to make you more interesting and will usually cause a woman to obsess a little over learning about you if her attraction to you is strong enough. Or you can have a presence but not an active one. She’ll find your profile on Facebook, but you don’t go on it much so what …	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:02 PM
1	What's the deal with social media? TRP seems to have divided opinions Comes down to personal preference. What do you want?	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 03:48 PM
1	Acting like it's no big deal or ignore? More than likely that’s what she will do. It’ll be the same case as last time. It’s last minute resistance. And it’s primary there to express that she’s not that kind of girl. It’s just for her own reassurance. Shut it down and you’ll be fine. Up to you how to shut it down, though. Could be done in many ways. Personally I’m a fan of just continuing to be physical and groping and breathing heavy in her ear. Maybe some nibbling on her neck and earlobe and some hot kisses. Just act like an animal w…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 03:44 PM
3	Ex texts me out of the blue after 5 months. How should I proceed objectively? Seriously shocked that this is an actual question.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:59 PM
2	Acting like it's no big deal or ignore? It’s not too late. You can either make plans to hang out with intentions to escalate to fuck, of you can wait until she contacts you again and displays her indicators of interest. Either way, she’s still into you. Women are fickle in their opinions, but their attraction tends to be lasting and predictable.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:57 PM
2	Are all girls like this? Break up. Once again, good on you bro. I always encourage men to spin plates. Spinning plates allows you to have your sexual needs met without relying on a single person to meet them. It also presses upon your plates what you’re about and instils in them the correct notion that you are a sexual being whose desires will be met when you desire. When you are with them, you will get what you want and they will come to realize, accept, and appreciate that. Plates meet your sexual needs for a hole to fuck, and …	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:34 PM
1	Acting like it's no big deal or ignore? Do you want to fuck her?	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:07 PM
1	Are all girls like this? Break up. Awesome dude! Use that confidence and change in your attitude and self-confidence to your advantage. What you do next is entirely up to you. Now that you're out of this relationship, as you're already applying solid TRP fundamental concepts in your life, you could go out and do exactly what your ex had wanted to do and get laid and experience the freedom to do so. Spin some plates, get your needs met when you want them met, and enjoy the rest of your life without having to worry about this.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:03 PM
1	Anyone else figured out The Red Pill(ish) concepts without ever reading TRP? (most) women want a man to dominate them. that does not mean be selfish all the time it means make the right decision for the situation the vast majority of the time. it means take charge, take care of business. (most) women want to be dominated in the sack. it is pure primal evolutionary instinct at work. even the most rigid feminist (mostly) wants a man to take control and be intense. (most) women get bored with men that spend too much time trying to please them. if you want to get fucked and …	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:00 PM
2	is there any hope? I've wasted my life to videogames. No way dude. Some men start way later than that. Just remember, that's the you of yesterday. The you of today is already an improved man and will only get better. Read this to start off. Then read the rest of the sidebar. Then apply it to your life.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 01:45 PM
7	Are all girls like this? Break up. Good on you. She's trying so hard to get you back. She definitely didn't fuck any other guys at the time this all happened since she's been busy with her emotions, but that isn't your concern. She showed what she wanted, and you were okay with that. You said okay and walked out the door and laid down your intentions of not contacting her again. She's currently trying to break that. You've got an abundance mentality and a frame of steel. Way to go, man. Keep up the solid frame and don't give into…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 01:43 PM
2	Anyone else figured out The Red Pill(ish) concepts without ever reading TRP? Growing up in school, I had problems with the idea of fucking women because of a feminized household. I didn't have a strong male figure in my life to counter balance these teachings. I was closer to my mother than I was to my father. That didn't help me when it came to feeling guilty with feeling sexual inclinations towards women. That said, I knew the nature of female attraction for as long as I can remember was exactly as its described in here. I knew all about how the beta and blue pill valu…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 01:33 PM
4	Fucking beautiful escorts is cheating for you? It's cheating yourself. Getting laid is all well and good, but you need to establish yourself in a positive mindset and endlessly work to improve the man you are today. This is a fundamental block in The Red Pill. It's all about self-improvement, with sexual strategy. Relying on escorts to get laid prevents you from engaging your mind, body, and soul in improving. Because with the right amount of money, a woman can ignore these things about you and fuck you anyway. You'll never increase your SMV…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 01:25 PM
1	Is my Tinder game autistic or are girls just flakey? Awesome bro. Hope you get lots of success and anal.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 01:20 PM
2	Should I soft Next my LTR? Hard next. She sounds like a total bitch.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 10:17 AM
2	What things should not be shared with LTR? Don't share your weaknesses or reveal your emotions to her. Don't share your thought processes. Don't share your problems with her, unless you're ready to give her your solution as well and you are interested in her take on it. Leave her some breadcrumbs from time to time, because women like to think that they're finally breaking through to their men when he's stoic and he's "finally revealing himself" and you're finally letting her into your inner workings. Little does she know, you deemed it a…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 10:11 AM
1	Should I soft Next my LTR? Well, what is it that she did? She's a female, so drama is bound to happen. To what degree? How does it affect you? How does it affect others? If it's severe enough, soft next her. If it's not, follow other poster's advice and apply dread, which is something you should be doing from time to time anyway.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 10:07 AM
1	Acting like it's no big deal or ignore? Dude, she was definitely trying to fuck. She was prime and ready to go until you experienced her last minute resistance. She's rationalizing in her head why she shouldn't come over to your house. She's making an excuse that she's drunk to validate herself. Because in case she does end up going, she can say to herself, she was drunk. It's not her fault. She didn't have complete control to decide not to fuck you. The blame isn't on her now. She's not a whore. Her hamster is happy. You gave into he…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 09:56 AM
2	Question regarding social interaction with male friends Most guys are laid back and don't mind helping another guy out when he needs it. Most guys also don't like having shit thrown at them before someone cuts to the point. Be straight forward with them and just ask them their advice at whatever you need. Does it matter? Not necessarily.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 09:48 AM
2	Finally had sex with her, she got off mid-sex and started crying. You're going to get a lot of flak for shitting where you eat. Understandably so, because of obvious reasons that stem from possible scenarios that could result from this. But you were aware of this when you decided a couple of months ago that you wanted to fuck her. The consequences fall on you now, keep in mind. That said, you have oneitis. You spent months trying to game a girl and she knows you want to be with her. You pushed her away from being a little cuck, and worked hard at winning her a…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 09:43 AM
3	TRP: Fight club or The Bible? If she knows and uses the term plate, I'm ghosting her.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 05:11 AM
3	I grew up subconsciously thinking girls were above me because I wanted to have sex with them. What's the best way for me to ingrain the opposite point of view? The conventional mindset is pressed upon men by feminists who shame them and betafy them at a very early age into repressing their sexual desires and labeling them toxic and immoral. Without a strong male figure in a boy's life, this becomes ingrained in their thoughts while growing up, and makes early relationships difficult because the girlfriend will often times beg the boy for sex, and the boy will refrain from it due to years and years of it being stigmatized. Eventually, she'll break up wi…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:53 AM
1	"Hardcore" Christian/Religious Girls Help? You may not be looking for any advice, but in regards to anal, I find that women ease up to the idea if you ease them into it, preferably without permission. You should obviously get her permission first before you start fucking her butt. But generally I find with my plates that if I start by rubbing my thumb and putting pressure on their asshole while I’m fucking her, she eases up into it. Slowly start putting increasing pressure around it and then when she relaxes, slip your thumb in there. He…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 04:37 AM
17	I grew up subconsciously thinking girls were above me because I wanted to have sex with them. What's the best way for me to ingrain the opposite point of view? I sort of grew up with a similar mindset, except instead of thinking that they were above me, I thought I was in some regards immoral for wanting to fuck them. Something was wrong with the idea of having sex with them. I would be using them and that wasn’t right. Lol. I was a cuck. These days that’s pretty much all I want to do. And I sort of thrive off the idea of pumping and dumping. I think I’m a misogynist. They’re dick craving beings who want to have sex with you just as much as you want to…	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 03:52 AM
–	How do some of you keep your discipline? Not really, no, but others could feel differently. Monk mode is just a phase used to describe withdrawing from social activities and putting all of your focus and effort at achieving and working towards your goals. This is an optimal resolution for you, since juggling gym life, work life, school life, and social life on top of that is very difficult to do. Eliminating, or at the very least, restricting, social life allows you to spend more time focusing on the important things.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:58 AM
7	TRP: Fight club or The Bible? Obviously, in this scenario, treat it as if it was Fight Club. The Red Pill contains sexual strategy against women, who have their own sexual strategy that they use on men. It brings to light the strategies women use on men and has a solution to combat them. Why on earth would you divulge your blueprints to the enemy?	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:41 AM
3	How do I deal with people who comment on how much I've changed from before? A dismissive "Yep."	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:30 AM
–	How do some of you keep your discipline? In the beginning? Monk mode.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 02:27 AM
–	What the fuck does a man wear? Things are much different where I live, especially in the summer time. It's actually really rare to see guys not wearing tank tops in the summer time.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 01:42 AM
–	What the fuck does a man wear? Ehh, I've got some decent arms.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 01:37 AM
–	What the fuck does a man wear? Sometimes, yes.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 01:19 AM
2	Q4RP: in your RP jounery since swallowing the pill how has it affected your view on men, the state of men in modern society, specifically men who are just off' in some way shape or form who find themselves at places like RP to begin with? Honestly, it just makes me think less of the men who don't lift. I do find myself getting more and more disgusted at men who are physically out of shape and seemingly not willing to do anything to change it. If more men just put in some effort into taking care of their bodies and becoming stronger, then that would be great. As a man, I want to be seen and look like a man, and lifting creates that dominating presence that asserts masculine energy. I tend to think that all men should actively purs…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/17 12:30 AM
–	What the fuck does a man wear? I usually wear solid color tshirts with a nice pair of jeans. On nights out I tend to wear the same thing, except I’ll throw on a fitted button down shirt over it and have it unbuttoned for the top three or so buttons. I tend to only wear Express button downs. If it’s hot, I wear a tank top instead of a tshirt. I still tend to wear jeans if it’s hot out. On rare heat occasions and the gym, I wear basketball shorts.	/r/askTRP	23/06/17 12:04 AM
1	"Hardcore" Christian/Religious Girls Help? My advice is to do whatever you want. You went into the relationship knowing this so it’s to be expected. Personally I couldn’t do it. I don’t want to have to comfort a chick for doing something that I actually require before marriage. I think it’s absolutely necessary to meet sexual needs and become sexual prior to committing yourself to someone in such a way. Not that I believe in marriage, but i digress. My point is that I don’t want to reassure her of her virtues and values in life after tak…	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 11:44 PM
3	How do you guys manage to stay strong when you're hurt? What /u/MrBowlfish said is right. Though, it's not even really about a tough guy facade. It's about being in control of your emotions. People like to run with the idea of being stoic, and they tend to confuse that with being emotionless. Being stoic at its root isn't about lacking emotions or weaknesses, or even about never showing them to others. It's about being able to put your emotions at your side and deal with shit. This is something men are expected to do because women cannot. They respon…	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 11:13 PM
1	"Hardcore" Christian/Religious Girls Help? Do you get the sex you want to get in this relationship?	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 10:04 PM
–	How much more should I cut before bulking? So TRP has shit tests, comfort tests, and tshirt tests.	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 09:46 PM
8	Is my Tinder game autistic or are girls just flakey? Take a look at this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/25xh53/tinder_game_field_report/?st=J48WT4XY&sh=a86ea23d That said I personally think it’s fine to see if a chick is up for anal. But you need to escalate to that because women like to pretend in their head that they aren’t using a hookup app to find some dick.	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 08:58 PM
22	Is my Tinder game autistic or are girls just flakey? Autistic	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 08:51 PM
–	The Alpha Monkey Dance Before and after examples? Curious to know what changed from your alpha presence to your betafied presence.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/17 02:53 PM
15	The Alpha Monkey Dance I find that faking it until you make if you’re doing it right is a gradual change in the back of your mind. To gain confidence back when I was in high school, I faked it until I made it and it was a gradual shift in the way that I thought of myself and my value. So it really depends on the kind of person you are.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/17 12:22 PM
30	Ever noticed girls acting shy around you after you bulked/got bigger? Is this the kind of reaction I should expect from now on? This is to be expected. If anything it’s a sign of encouragement because they are adjusting to your new image of yourself and are probably gaining attraction to you from it.	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 11:54 AM
5	What does it mean when a girl says you are like a girl/ text like a girl? As a man you are expected to be stoic and a rock. And encouraged to do so as well. Females respond with emotion. Men counterbalance that. If everyone responded with emotion and didn’t take the time to look at things logically, we wouldn’t be as advanced a society as we are. You are expected to maintain control over emotions. You’re a human, so you have them. Nobody is saying not to have emotions. But it’s what you do with them that matters. Compartmentalize them and take a step back before react…	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 09:00 AM
6	What does it mean when a girl says you are like a girl/ text like a girl? This is the most confusing post. You communicate in a very feminine way. It’s very emotionally based. You don’t brush things off. And you talk to her about guys and go on long tangents and get sidetracked in your point rather than just getting to the point. If you aren’t amused by something, don’t entertain it. Don’t talk to women about other men. Don’t humor them by engaging in discussions about making out with men. Don’t make texting a primary form of communication. I bet you reply to just abo…	/r/askTRP	22/06/17 08:33 AM
5	Why is sex so important? This should never happen, you must always keep abundance mentality whether you actually have abundance or not. Apart from lifting, this is probably the mentality and advice that I resonate with and practice as often as possible. It's a key in so many ways, and not just in relationships and sex, but in life in general. Even in situations when you're with a single girl and she's all you have, you can look at abundance mentality in multiple honest ways without having other plates or other potential…	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/17 02:10 AM
–	Men are sexually objectified but the objects are worthless As a straight male, I am not ashamed to admit that I don't find dicks to be unattractive in the slightest. Obviously they don't do it for me, but I can appreciate a pretty penis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/17 01:48 AM
–	Men are sexually objectified but the objects are worthless 100% because of the sexual pleasure. I don't want access to pussy because I want kids. I want it because it feels good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/17 01:46 AM
9	Men are sexually objectified but the objects are worthless I don't agree with this, but I see what you're getting at. I remember reading a discussion on here about how men are okay with accepting women who don't try, and while I don't have an answer as to why that is, I think it translates pretty well to what you're talking about here. There's a reason why in the Red Pill, the single piece of advice that is universally agreed upon by everyone there is to lift weights. It increases attraction levels in women to have muscle on you. To men, generally, wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/17 01:23 AM
2	Thoughts on friendships with women? Good on you for realizing the error in preferring female bonding over male bonding. Falling into the female frame of mind is usually the result that guys end up having to deal with when that happens. This creates its own set of problems, mainly dealing with relationships and sex. It's by far the number one reason younger guys feel shamed for having sexual thoughts. They're surrounded by females complaining about being used for sex all the time, it creates impressions that are hard to shake. I do…	/r/askTRP	21/06/17 01:06 AM
1	Been on 2 dates and had sex with a girl but thinking about nexting her. Well, if you feel like a 30-minute drive to get to her is too much to invest in her, then I think you have your answer. Personally, these are the kinds of plates I like to have. She's attracted to you, a little clingy so she is always looking to please and pleasure you, she's always talking about sex, so she isn't a prude and is probably always DTF, she doesn't have too much to say, so she won't be one of those girls who talks too much about senseless shit you don't care about. If she's using po…	/r/askTRP	21/06/17 12:58 AM
3	How can I overcome the feeling that I missed out and am old now? Very late bloomer A shot in the dark here, but it might have something to do with sex and your n count. I didn't start fucking girls until I was 20, and I remember early on after I started, I would constantly face a lot of internal dialogue that I had to fight through with how I wasted so much time in my late teenage years and could have had pulled so many girls that were clearly into me, but I was too weak to pursue. Honestly, what helped me was getting some game and just pumping and dumping as many women as pos…	/r/askTRP	21/06/17 12:45 AM
1	What exactly does it mean when a girl in an LTR says her boyfriend "annoys her"? Test the waters with her around and flirt with some girls. Gauge her reaction. If it's similar to the reaction from dreading women, then take that as a deciding factor and IOI. Make comments about girls from afar.	/r/askTRP	21/06/17 12:35 AM
7	So I should talk less huh? If someone is yammering away about senseless things, first and foremost, I tend to think less of them. If they're talking about shit that has no value, then they create the impression onto others that they don't have anything important to say. It also comes across as seeking attention and affirmation from others if you're simply just trying to talk to fill the silence. If one is truly okay with silence, they won't look to fill it. They'll appreciate it. It's fine to be nice, but there is a diffe…	/r/askTRP	21/06/17 12:31 AM
3	Blue Pill Example + Feedback Needed (Greatly Appreciated) You need to do more than read it. You have to understand it, utilize it, and then exercise it. From your post, it doesn't sound like you're doing any of that.	/r/askTRP	20/06/17 04:27 AM
3	Blue Pill Example + Feedback Needed (Greatly Appreciated) Read this and all of the links within and then come back to us in a few months.	/r/askTRP	20/06/17 04:21 AM
–	Oneitis This reply is great, but I'm inclined to believe that most sensible RP men will see what is happening to them and rightfully respond by exercising dread and eventually hard nexting. Especially if they are displaying clear signs and IOI.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/17 04:08 AM
–	Guy I'm seeing is a Red Piller. Where he slides on the scale is a little less clear, but he has his ways of "punishing" me by shutting me out and ignoring me for one or more days afterwards. When does this usually happen?	/r/askTRP	20/06/17 01:00 AM
–	How to stay socially "loose" rather than socially "stiff"? I have a sort of out there suggestion if you have the time and don't mind doing so. Pick up a side job in the service industry; particularly in a restaurant. Other than my current career, there are two jobs I had that helped shape me in ways that I can't begin to describe how they have benefited me. The first job was a job in a warehouse loading trucks and managing inventory. That job gave me the work ethic I used to set myself to a higher standard than others around me and to further myself in …	/r/askTRP	20/06/17 12:38 AM
–	Guy I'm seeing is a Red Piller. I'm curious to know how you identified that he's a red piller. What are some indicators that you used to deduce this? Knowing these, we can maybe help address things and attitudes and clear some confusion in relating to him and his viewpoints.	/r/askTRP	20/06/17 12:33 AM
2	Extreme version of an extreme shit test? NEXT	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 10:39 PM
2	29 years old guy, Virgin Dilemma Are you saying you don't see why sexual compatibility is important?	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:38 PM
4	First date ever tomorrow, any last minute advice ? Greet her with a hug. This initiates physical contact and breaks the barrier. It also creates comfort and you can get a read on her based on her response. Since this is the first date, you don't really know much on that and how she feels about you, other than that she finds you to be attractive and a potential mate. Continue to initiate physical contact throughout the date whenever possible. You're going to get an idea on what to do, and immediately you will feel cold inside at the prospect of i…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:27 PM
2	29 years old guy, Virgin Dilemma Sounds like you embrace a lot of blue pill ideology. More focused on settling down in your old age (lol at 29 being considered old) than learning about yourself and experiencing different people. She could be the shittiest lay in the world and even without experience to know that, it'll drain you mentally. Sexual compatibility is important in any relationship.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:13 PM
4	29 years old guy, Virgin Dilemma You'll find that 100% of this community encourages fucking before marriage.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:06 PM
1	Any advice? You're in college and your problem is finding good looking girls? Ever consider stepping outside of your science building and walking over to the liberal arts building? Chicks in abundance there.	/r/TheRedPill	18/06/17 08:19 PM
3	Should I make a move or mind my bussines You can game her and see where it goes for some fun, but don't make her a plate. She will drag you down and will constantly look for ways to tie you down and break your frame.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 08:10 PM
2	Should I make a move or mind my bussines Not worth the trouble.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 08:06 PM
6	I see whore in all women Not necessarily. You could just hold some contempt for women (which you do) in general, and not necessarily in an angry way. The anger phase is usually used to describe the anger some people feel when they realize that what they were taught and encouraged when they were young and naive isn't how the world works when it comes to women and how they select mates.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 08:05 PM
5	Using money to increase SMV quickly? I find personal trainers to largely be a waste of money. If you're intelligent and know your way around Google, you can save the money. But if you have $2.5 million a year, saving a couple thousand a year seems like it isn't too much of a priority. But unless you're doing three full body workouts in a week, I'd encourage you to go more than three times.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 08:02 PM
4	Should I make a move or mind my bussines How much of a feminist is she? There's a wide spectrum of feminist women that range from a soft "Yeah, I identify as a feminist because I believe in equality." And then there are the nightmare feminists that you hear about all the time who are trying to push their agenda into the world and push men down and take what they've built as their own. If she's a soft feminist who isn't too involved and just thinks that everyone should be equal, then I would encourage you to go for what you want. If she…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 07:59 PM
3	How to get a super prude virgin in bed? A word of caution: A lot of women who are prudish are prudish because they are uncomfortable with their body and insecure, and therefore tend to exhibit sheepish behavior.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 07:53 PM
1	Brother is alpha and leads most dates Ask him for some tips.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 04:22 PM
1	When She Takes Away Your Self Esteem/Confidence Even if you are a guy with high SMV, you aren't everyone's cup of tea. Doesn't matter how attractive or not attractive that person is in comparison to you. You're not attracted to her. That's fine. She happens to be less attractive to you, to begin with. That's fine. Move on to the next one and worry less about someone not thinking you're pretty and more about how it affects you when someone tells you that they don't think you're pretty.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 04:21 PM
2	How to Handle This? She's not interested. Move on. Do not send her a message saying "You know, doing something productive & not chasing or saving dem hoes..."	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 04:15 PM
2	Brother is alpha and leads most dates You depend on him to drive you around and he creates and moves the conversation? Probably while you sit back and say nothing, right? Maybe play a game on your phone, maybe text someone, maybe browse Twitter? Use your observational skills and pick up what he is doing to lead the conversation. In order to get better at leading conversation, you need to understand how to have a conversation. Sounds like you don't understand how to have a conversation. Relax, it's indeed a skill. It's something you …	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 04:10 PM
1	Is my ltr a joke? Agree and amplify that.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 04:01 PM
45	I found out my boss is a fucking beta pushover who craves the acceptance of his employees and acts on emotions... Should I just find another job? You have a pushover boss who wants to be liked more than anything and you want to jump ship? Personally, I think you should utilize this to your advantage and exploit the shit out of that. Who knows what you could get from it? Show anyone higher how much better you could do the job in the meantime and you could be the boss.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 03:59 PM
1	Caring less about physical appearance as you get older? Just a rough estimate of when I think I’ll be done being single.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 11:10 AM
1	Caring less about physical appearance as you get older? Absolutely. If I had a son, that would be my objective. But as it stands on this topic, I'm still pretty young and I still just want to focus on me while dicking down some hotties when I feel the need. I'm not into the idea of settling down. I don't think I would be until probably 32?	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 10:43 AM
1	Any of you ever break up with an LTR for no real reason? What's the best way to do this? How did it go? tbh. Broke up with an LTR so that I could fuck more chicks and up my n-count. She thought I was an asshole. Probably still does. That's okay.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 10:30 AM
1	Should I be aggressive in my approach or should play it safe? Don't go any further with that conversation. End it with her next reply and move on with your life. If she reaches out to you when she's back, then she's definitely DTF. If not, that's cool too. There are others.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:48 AM
2	Caring less about physical appearance as you get older? Some people don't want children. You'll find that most on this forum tend to prefer not having them.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:45 AM
1	Caring less about physical appearance as you get older? Sounds like you have your own case of hypergamy going on there. Looking for your alpha? I'm in my late 20s. Physical appearance is and always has been number one for me, but can be overlooked slightly if she has an abundant personality, which is rare. I tend not to find many genuinely interesting women. A woman's saneness is always important, though. Her potential to be a good mother, and her career and stability are not, however. I am not interested in being taken care of by an alpha woman. I h…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:38 AM
4	Sorting my life out. Need advice on social skills Find a sense of humor and utilize that humor in interactions throughout your day. Escalate small talk into more interesting topics of discussion. Nearly any conversation can link into another conversation about anything. You can never run out of things to talk about once you know how to move from one conversation to another when things get too dry.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:17 AM
2	A fallacy in the fundamentals off TRP..? Generally, you should keep your confessions to a small group of guys you can trust and confide in, but things are different in a LTR. You need to sprinkle in some emotions every now and then, but remember to keep your frame and not appear weak. You are not weak. You are in control. Rather than complaining, vent a little, but do so in a way where you clearly know what you have to do and allude to having a plan in place to rectify the situation. Remember, it's a woman's job to be emotional. You ar…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:13 AM
4	Should I be aggressive in my approach or should play it safe? Sounds like you're good to me. Kind of surprised. Didn't think she'd be DTF given her response and your limited information you provided, but if she's responding to your demand by just saying that she can't right now because she's away, things are looking good. You're in control, which is what you want. Don't reply any further or you'll lose that control. Until she contacts you again, you're busy with other things. Have an abundance mentality. And don't sit around waiting like a kid in a candy s…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 09:09 AM
1	What do i do if a girl doesn't respond to one of my texts? Not much to go off of here. She either: Lost interest. This is most likely. Genuinely forgot to reply to you. Unlikely. She's glued to her phone. All women are. Wants to reply to you, but is holding out for a second text because women play games and feel better about themselves when they get more attention from men they like. More texts = more thoughts you had about her that you wanted to share = more attention. This is a power play to put them in control of the conversation. More information is…	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 03:55 AM
1	swallowing the pill - stage 1 Hit the gym and enter monk mode. Spend your summer bettering yourself and reflecting on the things in your life that you want to improve.	/r/askTRP	18/06/17 03:34 AM
1	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? Stay motivated. Stay persistent. You'll get results.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 05:12 PM
1	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? Generally, what I do before I increase weight in an exercise is add an extra set, and then once I complete that 4x12 (I tend to do 12 reps of most exercises), I drop it down to a set of 3x12 and increase the weight. Then work my way up, and back down again. Like I said, muscle building is a process, but there are resources that you can utilize throughout your journey, which is why I linked two.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 05:07 PM
1	I met an amazing girl who comes from a trailer trash family and I'm not sure if that should concern me or not. The reason guys encourage others to consider things like a woman having a father figure, for example, is because it shapes her interactions with men. The same can be said for every piece of background information about someone. They shape who you are as a person in ways you may not be aware of. Should you judge these things? Not necessarily, but you should be aware and be able to identify these things.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 05:03 PM
1	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? You don't need to add weight every session. Example for how to progress: If you're doing a bench press and can only lift 35lbs per side with the bar and you can make it a full 3 sets of 10 reps, add another set to make it 4 sets of 10 reps. That's called progressive overload. It's a key factor in getting results. Take a look over at the FAQ in the /r/fitness and /r/gainit communities.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 05:01 PM
1	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? Lifting does not show results overnight. It's an ongoing process. You'll start to feel stronger a lot faster than you see results. And you probably won't start noticing results until a month in. In three or four months, you'll see noticeable differences. As long as you're adding weight to the bar in a moderate amount, or adding more sets at the same weight, and exercising considerable stress to your muscle, you are achieving results.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 04:54 PM
1	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? Height is not the number one factor. There are tons of short dudes that get great results. Coincidentally, all of them lift. How long have you been lifting? How many days a week do you hit the gym? How many days do you hit a body part? How long are your workouts? Do you exhaust your muscle? Do you track your calories? Do you eat at a surplus? Do you get enough protein?	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 04:42 PM
2	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? Get your ass to the gym, dude. Height doesn't matter as much as you think it does.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 04:38 PM
1	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? You sound like someone who wants the easy way out. If you want to sit in your parent's basement and get fat and masturbate all day, you can do that.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 04:35 PM
1	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? Lifting is a pillar concept in TRP. It's a pillar concept for every man. I respect a guy a lot more if I can tell he lifts than someone who doesn't. Doesn't matter if he's short or not. Short guys have a benefit because most short guys tend to put on muscle a lot quicker than taller guys. Lifting is nothing but beneficial. There's a reason when you look back in history, sculptures created by the Greeks of men feature men with clear muscle. Muscle is masculine.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 04:34 PM
3	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? What about women? You lift for you, not women. Women just so happen to be attracted to that (both in that you are self-motivated and constantly improving, and the fact that you have muscle).	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 04:30 PM
4	Not sure how to approach this almost broken plate Do you want something more? She is liking this attention she is getting. She gets to feel special with this other guy and desired with you. She's in the perfect spot. And you're catching feelings. Sounds like she has you wrapped around her finger.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 04:26 PM
2	Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us? Having a good physique means you care about your body and strength, which ties into your own ideals of self-acceptance, masculinity, and discipline.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 04:22 PM
3	I give off a gay first impression... Focus on changing points C and D. Do this by restricting your hand gestures and stop touching people when you’re making jokes and connecting. Observe groups of guys for appropriate touching ideas. A pat on the back and a handshake or fist bump is pretty much the extent of most male contact. Maybe a bro hug. Only break the physical barrier with a woman you wanna fuck. First two points are a way to increase your attraction to others. Don’t worry too much about those. It’s good to be well groomed a…	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 03:35 PM
1	I'm still new....What do I do next? If you send her messages like that all the time she is going to lose all her interest. She seems like she already has. You gave her the power. Never give a bitch power. You are groveling at her heels for a chance to see her pussy and that’s how she reads that too.	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 02:06 PM
2	Can you reconcile these contradictions? Treat women using a pull push method. Essentially do both. Pull her in with a compliment and then push her away with a dick comment. Personally I have achieved best results focusing on the push than the pull. I only utilize a pull when I can sense I pushed her too far. Play with her emotions. It’s exciting to her. Women love feeling a wide array of emotions. Approach women and make a plan with them. You are unphased by whether or not they agree. It’s cool either way. There’s plenty of women out …	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 01:59 PM
6	How to avoid the 'I love you' line Realize that a plates purpose is the fulfill your sexual need and give you an abundance mentality. Have two girls on rotation or more and you rotate who you choose to fuck. You are never spending all of your time with a a plate. It is always on your terms. To avoid the I love you, use them for what they are for. Plates are for sex. When you are done, dismiss yourself. They’re there to wet your dick and when they served their purpose, you don’t need to be hanging out with them. They serve a purpo…	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 11:13 AM
2	I'm still new....What do I do next? First of all, you gotta get some fucking condoms dude. That’s an essential item for any single guy. Now that you have your condoms, you gotta realize that she’s coming over multiple times. She is definitely DTF. What you’re experiencing is her last minute resistance. She doesn’t want to feel like a slut. That’s why she says that she’s not that kind of girl. She totally is, though. Unfortunately, it’s your job to get her into the mindset that it’s okay for her to want to fuck. Take a few steps ba…	/r/askTRP	17/06/17 10:53 AM
–	Confession : I have oneitis. This doesn’t sound like oneitis. This just sounds like some loss of frame in a LTR. Attraction is reciprocated.	/r/askTRP	16/06/17 05:55 PM
–	Need opinions of guys who are average height or close to it Sexualize your body language? Examples?	/r/askTRP	16/06/17 05:45 PM