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Then you're beyond ignorant. School was absolute misery for me. I'd love for you to be a fat, depressed, short haired, socially anxious, teenage girl and see how well you do. First time I got naked in front of a boy, it was from a bully pantsing me. I was wearing those snap champion pants, so everything went down. Do you know what it's like to be a self conscious teenage girl with a bunch a boys laughing at your 'muff'? That followed me around for years. Honestly, fuck you and fuck guys (and lad…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 07:30 PM
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Yes, you're clearly twisting my words. Please quote where I said what you're implying because so far you haven't. I said men aren't rabid sex fiends. That's fact. Are you honestly going to tell me you and every guy on earth would fuck anything so long as it had a human vagina? I've met countless women in similar circumstances where sex wasn't some sort of buffet for them. School was the worst for me. I was terribly picked on by boys. They'd follow me home after school and throw food on me, calli…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 06:56 PM
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Not a whole lot, I'll be honest, though not for lack of trying lol. I was on countless dating sites. However, the only time I actually managed to meet men in person was when I'd post ads on craigslist. I wouldn't post a picture and I found those men more open minded. We would talk first, see if there was a bit of a vibe, then send pics. 99% of the time it wouldn't go further than that. I did meet a couple men, neither of which were physically attractive but because they were mentally stimulating…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 06:26 PM
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Or maybe you don't? I've personally never bought into the stereotype that men are always down for sex with anything that even slightly resembles a female. In all my 30 years of life I've maybe met two guys that could potentially fit that description, but they were appalling human beings in general. The rest were just regular blokes that had standards and wanted to sleep with people they liked/were attracted to.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 04:53 PM
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Yes, because these men wouldn't have slept with me if they didn't find at least my personality attractive. I also wouldn't have slept with them if I thought they might treat me bad in bed. So, yeah, nice is like the bare minimum requirement for casual sex. Yes, click. If we have zero chemistry or attraction and can barely hold a conversation without disliking each other or it being extremely awkward, the sex would be horrible.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 03:44 PM
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I'm not sure why you're being intentionally stupid to get your preferred narrative. I literally just told you my experience when it comes to casual sex... The only times I've found someone to sleep with was pursuing them and getting to know them a bit first. I said nothing about dating.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 03:32 PM
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This only works if you're somewhat decent looking and sometimes willing to settle for a guy that's absolutely disgusting. I'm a woman and I went through a 5 year dry spell in my early to mid 20s. I've also never been hit on in a bar or anywhere for that matter 😬 I've been made fun for for my looks a lot (mostly by men), so that probably has something to do with it lol. I've also never slept with someone I was attracted to besides my husband. When I got lonely and desperate I'd give any guy a cha…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/20 02:58 PM
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I can only speak for the few Christian churches I was once a part of and that's how it was.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 06:36 PM
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This is literally what religion teaches women when a man cheats. But, yes, I agree there is a general double standard when it comes to cheating. In general, women seem to some how be seen as a victim when they are the cheaters themselves. Are at least they seems to try to manipulate people to think this.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/20 04:36 PM
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You give me WAY too much credit. I didn't really do anything to lose weight. I got sick. I went from about 235lbs to 112lbs in less than a year. Granted, I have managed to keep a lot of it off. Gone as high as 150, but managed to get it back into the 120s which is where I'm at now. I'll be honest, though. I'd say 90% of guys say what you do about personality. I've always been super upfront about everything (my body, health issues, etc) and I think guys appreciated that. When I was dating I met a…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/20 02:49 PM
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Nah, you just have to have some health issues, especially one that prevents sex (or makes it extremely painful). Also, extra skin from weight loss. Literally had a guy ghost me after I showed him my ugly boobs, lmao. I was single for about 6 years (majority of my 20s) because of all this, granted I never blamed men. No amount of personality or even a pretty face can make up for no PIV, an unsightly body, and health issues that prevent me from doing a lot.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/20 02:17 PM
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Victoria, bc
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/20 05:01 PM
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Where on earth do you live where things are that cheap? My husband and I can't afford to rent a one bedroom ($1600ish), but my dad owns a one bedroom apartment and he doesn't inflate the costs for us. We just pay the mortgage rate, which is a few hundred below rental rates. The deal is we pay for anything that goes wrong which meant there was a point in time that we went without an oven for two years since we couldn't afford one. After taxes my husband makes about $2000 a month and I'm too sick …
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/20 03:25 PM
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Get help dude.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/20 03:45 AM
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You need psychiatric help, you're toxic and deranged. Victim blaming is very disturbing. Doesn't matter how dumb I was, still wasn't my fault. Been through the self blame shit. I'm past there thankfully. If you pity my son I'll take it as compliment since you're an absolute piece of shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/20 01:58 AM
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Whoa, slow down there cowboy. Lots of assuming you're doing. You're sounding very crazy. Not trying to be rude. Just an observation. Look at my other comments on this thread. I said I joined the group when I found out I was pregnant with a boy and wanted to learn what sort of obstacles he'd face in life, the things he'd go through, etc. The best people in my life are men. My husband is an angel, so is my father. 99% of men I've dated have been genuinely wonderful people. I've literally never bee…
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/20 12:12 AM
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It was r/mensrights. I deleted my comments long ago and left the group. I was getting hammered with hate. It happened well over a year ago. It was around the time I learned i was pregnant with a son (he's 13 months now), so i was looking at those sorts of pages to get a better feel on mens issues and the things he will have to navigate. No evidence to the contrary. I mean, I was young and stupid. 20 years old and met a guy online and got really drunk alone at his place the first time we met. So …
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/20 09:14 PM
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Honestly, as a woman I joined the mra Reddit community thinking I agreed with their stances. No. They were horrible to me just because I was a woman. They tore me apart on multiple occasions, the worst time being after I talked about getting assaulted. They told me I deserved it. I mentioned that police don't always believe women because they sure as hell didn't believe me. Since id been drinking when it happened, the police told me because I'm sober now I just regret it... I had literal bruises…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/20 07:45 PM
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I'm a woman and I've not had this experience in womens spaces, granted I'm not around them much. But I haven't witnessed anything like that. Plus women talk about all that stuff you mentioned. Oh, and I'm on a lot of groups online, too. Men are just as vicious as catty online women. Everyone seems to equally suck lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/02/20 07:47 PM
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I sometimes go with my husband. I have health issues and there's some months I don't leave the apartment at all. So if it's one of the rare days I feel up to going out and he needs a haircut, I tag along. I've never had any issues.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/02/20 07:43 PM
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I'm not in town. I'd never be able to afford that. I'm maybe about a 15/20 min drive from downtown. I live in one of the cheapest areas outside of town. Unfortunately the boonies are more expensive since they often have a bit more land. The average house in the boonies is like 1.2 mil. It's insane. Average price in town around $800,000+ I think, obviously way more if you want a nice house with a yard. One bedroom apartments outside of town are like $350,000+. I think the average rental price for…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/19 04:42 PM
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Too expensive to move. We could never afford that. Plus my husband works in retail and if we moved somewhere small he'd likely make half what he does and we'd be in likely an even worse spot. Plus I'm very unwell and need help with my son. I wouldn't get that if I moved since my mom lives super close. I also am on a waiting list for urologist. Probably another year to go until I get in,.maybe more. I've already waited 10 months. I desperately need help but everything takes so long here but this …
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/19 04:30 PM
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You must live somewhere cheap. I'm too sick to work and my husband makes between 50-60 a year. We live in a tiny one bedroom apartment that we can barely afford with our kid. No extras. No cable. One old rusty car. No hobbies. Don't even have an oven, lol, since it broke years ago and we can't afford to fix it. 60k is NOTHING.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/19 07:46 AM
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Really depends where you live. Where I live my husband makes between 50-60 a year and we're fucked. We live in a tiny one bedroom with our kid. Drive an old rusty car, our oven has been broken for about 2 years and we can't afford to fix it. We've NEVER been on vacation, that's simply out of the question. I can't even afford pants LMAO. I have one pair of leggings and that's it. I've had them since I was like 22. I'm nearly 30.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/19 07:41 AM
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So true. I was greedy af when I married my husband. We're rolling in that retail salary.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/19 03:14 AM
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I'm even more confused. So men have no control or say over what happens to their penis or who it goes inside?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/19 05:03 PM
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I'm confused as to why men shouldn't have to held accountable for their sexual irresponsibility.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/19 12:43 AM
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As a woman I personally think both genders have unrealistic standards for what constitutes as attractive. Women are definitely judged on far more then just being thin though. I once had a guy reject me because I have saggy boobs. To be fair he never saw them. I just warned him because I’m extremely self conscious about them. I’ve lost a substantial amount of weight (over 100lbs), so my breasts ain’t what the used to be. He told me he could never be attracted to someone with saggy boobs, which wh…
/r/MensRights01/09/18 10:53 PM
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I currently have a baby on the way, so I think I can explain this from a practical sense. My husband makes a lot more than I ever will. Which technically isn’t that much, especially when houses cost like $800,000 here (which we will NEVER afford). He also works in retail so he’s just a regular dude. I certainly didn’t marry for money. He also married me knowing I have debilitating bladder disease. More often than not it’s impossible for me to work. HOWEVER, if I could work the cost of daycare wo…
/r/MensRights01/09/18 02:03 PM
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To be fair I heard their contact started when he was 12. Plus he called her mom and whatnot. Creepy as fuck if you ask me.
/r/MensRights30/08/18 05:44 PM
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I think you’re confusing an American problem with a woman problem. I’m not American and mass shootings very rarely happen here. We do have single mothers however. Also I can’t personally relate to women ditching men for support checks. All my aunts and uncles (both on my mother and fathers side) have all been married since before I was born. There’s been no broken homes because of greedy wives. My parents split, but they had me pretty much 50/50 after that. It was extremely amicable and he wasn’…
/r/MensRights27/08/18 07:17 PM
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I don’t understand these insane comments. I’m a woman who despises feminism and adores all the men in my life. My husband is the most wonderful man I’ve ever met and I’m so excited to have a little man on the way. I want to support men in every way possible, yet when I read disgusting comments like this it makes it seem like the MRM is no better than feminism. You’re literally spewing the same shit a feminist would, just genders reversed. I hope you see the irony in that.
/r/MensRights27/08/18 01:59 AM
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Look, the first comment I made I was trying to be nice to you, not debate. Clearly neither one of us is going to change the others mind.
/r/MensRights26/08/18 12:43 AM
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I’d pick neither because I know literally nothing about who they are as a person. I’d say I’d go on a date if I had a friend that could vouch for one of them, but if that were the case they’d be able to tell me about what they’re like.
/r/MensRights26/08/18 12:31 AM
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I'm a bit appalled so I'm going to reply to the part of your comment that I think matters most. The twin scenario: So much for me depends on how we click. One guy could have everything going for him but the conversation could be dull and we have nothing in common. Whereas with overweight part time worker the conversation might flow and we can make each other howl with laughter. The person who I vibe with and who I have fun with would be the one I choose. What someone has doesn't make me happy or…
/r/MensRights25/08/18 11:21 PM
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Well you talk like women are dumb lizard brained dogs following hormones and base instincts, so I had every reason to doubt how you'd feel about my opinion.
/r/MensRights25/08/18 11:08 PM
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I'm a woman so I doubt you'll care about my opinion much but I figured I'd give you an honest one. If you want an average and normal girl forget all the alpha/beta bullshit. I can't think of single lady I've ever met that would be into the alpha schtick. I've never been with a guy like that nor desired one. In my experience the crazies flock to what they believe are alpha type dudes. I married the man of my dreams. He's the sweetest and kindest man I've ever met. That is what attracts me to a gu…
/r/MensRights25/08/18 10:19 PM
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Sorry if my point was kinda garbled. I was basically trying to say women or at very least I’m not some alien species. I see a lot of men on here talking like women are, especially when it comes to dating. My husband and I had the exact same thoughts and feelings while dating, same wants and desires, even the same insecurities. I doubt that’s all that atypical, but what do I know?
/r/MensRights22/08/18 09:13 PM
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I’m a woman and can only speak for myself... obviously. The more handsome the man the more intimidated I feel. It’s not because he’s scary but it’s because I feel inadequate and unworthy of his time. I definitely felt this when I first met my husband (he’s by far the most handsome man I’ve ever been with). In turn I acted disinterested simply because I never thought I’d even be a blip on his radar. I didn’t want to embarrass myself. Then he told a mutual friend he thought I had pretty eyes. I st…
/r/MensRights22/08/18 08:35 PM
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Nah, I like smart dudes, or least dudes smarter than me which isn’t hard to find. I for some reason love it when my husband explains to me how to do things or how things work. I like watching him fix things then be amazed because I honestly wouldn’t have figured something like that out. He’s definitely no hulk either. He’s the same height as me and has a slender physique. If I want to buy him clothes I can actually try on the clothes myself and if they fit me, they’ll fit him.
/r/MensRights22/08/18 08:17 PM
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Just curious what am I as a woman supposed to do? I dislike feminists and don’t agree with them at all. I genuinely feel rage and hatred when I read feminist posts or watch feminist videos. The men in my life are very precious to me. I even have a little boy on the way. I’m genuinely scared for how women and the world at large will treat him in the future.
/r/MensRights22/08/18 07:21 PM
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Babies literally die because of botched circumcisions. I’d say that’s a ruined life.
/r/MensRights14/08/18 12:40 AM
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Because slicing off parts of a baby’s penis is wrong.
/r/MensRights14/08/18 12:37 AM
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I'm a 28 year old woman and have been asked to do a pap once or twice. I've only been asked to do a breast exam once which I vehemently said no to since I'm way too embarrassed by my boobs.
/r/MensRights24/06/18 11:01 PM
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If everyone who lied went to prison half the world would be there. Also, what's to prevent rapists from sending their victims to prison? We all know how good the legal system is. What if some poor man or woman victim goes against a rich rapist in court with little evidence. The rich person has a better lawyer/legal team would have a greater chance at winning and claiming false accusation. What about people who falsely claimed somebody is a murderer? Should they be sentenced to death in certain s…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/18 05:54 PM
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The only problem I see with this is that it will stop women who lied and didn't get caught from going back on their word. There's been occasions where women will eventually confess they lied which ends in charges dropped. There's no way they'd eventually confess the lie if they'd face prison time.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/18 03:22 PM
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