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Yea, I was getting the same vibes that they were trying to pull something together.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 05:44 PM
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being paid to sit at home and not have to deal with work is an incentive. But I look at the lives of most single mothers and I really, really don't see an incentive. I'd much rather work than have to spend all day in a shitty rental in the middle of a higher crime food desert raising children alone. Are they being told that their future is going to be better than that, or is it just the future they're accepting and taking?
/r/MensRights24/08/23 01:41 PM
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I think she's probably just going to dig her hole deeper but doesn't care because she has a new lawyer to pay for it! She'll drag the relationship through the courts to do it. Hopefully she hasn't shat on any beds recently...
/r/MensRights23/08/23 01:44 PM
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I think all single guys should download the app as well so they get an unbiased time that it takes to do certain chores. That 3 hours of doing laundry might turn into 30 minutes of loading/unloading/folding and 2.5 hours of TV. If they want to go that way, lets book-hours chores and compare them to the workday!
/r/MensRights22/08/23 01:38 PM
2

And make sure to lift with your back a lot. Tall guys have more back issues. I'd trade being shorter for not needing back surgery at 39 anyday!
/r/MensRights22/08/23 02:08 AM
71

If we're gonna be honest "dad bods" is just a way for women in their 30s to try to compliment the only guys they can land anymore. They're looking at the idea of having to work for the rest of their life, so now "dad bods" are acceptable and they try to put a positive label on being older and out of shape.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 05:52 PM
7

Do they call the police when a mother checks in with her daughter?
/r/MensRights16/08/23 05:15 PM
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I don't agree with special undercover police squads for it, but my 15 year old niece has been catcalled more than once. There is a small minority of men that do it and know they can get away with it because nothing will be done. It should be illegal either way, but common guys, lets not pretend this is an equal gender issue. We SHOULD be calling out the guys who do inappropriate things.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 04:59 PM
3

Pretty sure one of the most major racist stereotypes is a middle aged lady peering through the blinds of her cul-de-sac suburbia house with 9-1 already dialed so she can quickly hit the last 1 if she sees a black lady pushing a stroller start down her sidewalk.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 04:16 PM
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A majority of people are telling him to peace out. I'm finding this more and more common thankfully. people telling guys "Hey, you don't have to play the game if it's rigged" is no longer a silenced opinion. Now it's countered with "I wish they'd just be quiet and "GO THEIR OWN WAY" faster!".
/r/MensRights14/08/23 07:22 AM
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That dude looks like the type pathetic enough to beg for feet pics after he let her walk.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 05:39 PM
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/r/MensRights10/08/23 12:44 PM
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If the shoe was on the other foot…. It's not always pussypass. I'm still pretty pissed Cosby got out as quick as he did. He definitely deserved to spend the rest of his life in prison. But at least he saw SOME prison time!
/r/MensRights09/08/23 11:57 AM
9

"I don't hate women, just people like you!"
/r/MensRights08/08/23 09:21 PM
12

I hope for his own sake he ends up gay. Though I had a friend in high school that grew up with 3 sisters and no father that had to go through this stuff. She transitioned about 10 years ago. I fully blame his upbringing of "boys bad girls good". She had "men are bad" so engrained in her head she'd never be happy as a man. She wants to be treated like women are treated, not looked down on all the time like when she was a man..
/r/MensRights08/08/23 07:01 PM
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Gay male only areas exist because anyone is allowed on the grounds as long as they're a member. But unless you're a gay dude your membership isn't going through. If you want a male only business, make the membership process involve stuff that's equal opportunity but most women, ESPECIALLY feminists, would hate to do. Then when the few stubborn ones actually do it and get a membership just get everyone to be so completely passive about it that it takes any wind out of their sails. "Congratulation…
/r/MensRights07/08/23 08:37 PM
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I worked in a garage for 7 years. Never understood why mechanics got such shade all the time. Then I moved, got a new job and no longer have access to a lift. I fucking HATE dealing with mechanics. Had multiple attempts to screw me, a few successful (CUMMINS, FUCK CUMMINS DEALERS!) So yea, mechanics aren't doing it based on gender. They screw everyone. I'm betting partially because they themselves are so used to being screwed. There's a reason I got out of the field and it's not because I didn't…
/r/MensRights07/08/23 02:02 PM
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I think a lot more men are just "meh" towards women than hating them. Women exist. I interact with them professionally when I they must. But I have no interest being friends with them. Most of my hobbies are things women aren't interested in.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 01:21 PM
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“finding myself,” whatever that means. I feel like I'm a few steps closer with a CNC and an airbrush booth. Guys have their own version of "finding themselves" when they're sick of the grind. It just involves a LOT less sitting on random dicks. Usually. I did go through that phase in my early 20s...
/r/MensRights04/08/23 10:11 PM
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Dating is stressful. My hobbies are not. I only really have money to pick one. Every time I start up a dating app that's what it comes down to. Do I really want to sit here and message a bunch of people and wait for a response that may or may not go anywhere? Or do I want to be happy? I haven't been able to bring myself to message anyone in years. The interest is just gone.
/r/MensRights03/08/23 09:21 PM
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Ladders are the enemy of feminism. I've found they make almost any field they're required in male dominated. Even IT! There'd be more women in the field except for those damn ladders that you have to climb to get into the ceiling while starting off as a cable monkey!
/r/MensRights03/08/23 05:57 PM
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For a bit I thought they were a developing nation that was going places. But I doubt there will ever be a day where I think "I don't think living in India would be so bad". I know I'm an everyday shmuck, and life sucks for the shmucks there pretty hard.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:53 PM
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/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:51 PM
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That would probably put me into revenge mode. 'specially once I knew I was probably going to jail anyways. May as well get what I "earned".
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:36 AM
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Relationships no. I don't see it replacing relationships, only stopping some of the hurt of loneliness. Sex though is a pretty solid "maybe" for a lot of guys. The world of bluetooth toys compatible with VR is rapidly expanding and men's hope for having a wife/family/house is dwindling. I have a FWB that I've done stuff with in VR and IRL. Mostly in VR because we don't have to leave the house and things can get way weirder without spending money, preparing, cleanup. "In the moment" real sex is b…
/r/MensRights01/08/23 08:29 PM
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Prolly some basement dwelling legbeard that cranked out a screamer but can't get child support from an unknown father and hates all men for her bad decisions. She has plenty of time to DM mensrights users because she uses her parents for free babysitting even though she's unemployed.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 11:26 AM
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Meh, she's trying to get a rise out of us but that's some D level trolling. Teens on 4chan are far better at weaving racism and sexism together than she could ever hope to be. She sucks to suck.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 06:37 PM
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Happens with too many groups. You get people saying bad thing "Doesn't ever happen! It's just something that people made up to make us look bad!". Then when the bad thing DOES happen (because there are bad people in every group since forever) rather than ostracize the person for being terrible the community in general stands up for them anyways because "one of our own!". That just makes more awful people use the group as a shield because from then on you're not attacking the awful person, you're…
/r/MensRights28/07/23 04:09 PM
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That would be a separate issue/trial. And that would be the shitty part about false accusations. Now I'm leaning towards "people are out to get him" and it will take more to convince me that future accusations are legitimate. False accusations hurt real victims.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:02 PM
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I always looked at "toxic masculinity" as the whole "guys can't share feelings or cry" thing. That probably is the most toxic part of being a guy, knowing that so many women will look at me as weak if I have problems, feelings, stress, or if I cry/need help and the front I have to put up to keep that away from them.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 03:36 PM
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/r/MensRights23/07/23 06:20 PM
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Guy should have kept his legs closed, right? For how much they'll blow up over it being used towards women, they sure are fine with it being used towards men when it comes to paying for it.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 05:11 PM
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I had to have the "then let me get this scary white male out of your life" talk with two friends several years ago and yup, cut them out of my life. One of them went on the "white men bad rapists" tirade on social media and I responded with "my friends are white men, my brothers are white men, my dad is a white man, I'm a white man. None of us have raped anyone. Why are you calling men rapists?" and she doubled down. Sucks because we had a lot of fun over the years. But that shit was making me h…
/r/MensRights21/07/23 03:47 AM
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It has gotten better. The younger they do it and the more they're willing to freeze the better chances they get. But that's planning and money. They have to admit that they're probably not going to find a husband soon. "The overall chance of a live birth from the frozen eggs was 39 percent. But among women who were younger than 38 when they froze their eggs, the live birthrate was 51 percent. It rose to 70 percent if women younger than 38 also thawed 20 or more eggs."
/r/MensRights19/07/23 08:32 PM
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What would happen is the decent mothers would eventually be so sick of the women who won't hold up their end, most would stop meaningful participation and the oldest kids would be subject to parentification. Guarantee it would end up kids raising kids.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 08:25 PM
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4th page is dead on for me. If you're not in a position where can go out and on a whim then our lives are not compatible. And 95% of what I mean by "spontaneous" is no kids, and no pets that can't be left alone for a few hours. That's not me judging people with kids or pets. It's just not compatible with my lifestyle. But if I put "no kids, no pets" people take it as an attack.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 06:37 PM
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This is the reason they aren't a thing. Because they are in the best interest for a child's future health. They need to know if their medical history isnt going to match their parent's. ​ DNA tests will become standard at birth as they can detect more future complication, but they won't test paternity because it might hurt women.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 02:06 PM
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/r/MensRights16/07/23 12:53 PM
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My brother and his wife sold their second car (and even cut most insurance on their first) to fund their $20,000+ wedding back in 2008ish. They were willing to give each other rides everywhere for almost a year and a half just for one day. They're divorced now. That one day was the last time I shaved. Hopefully I'll never have to shave for anyone again. Don't get married.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 05:16 PM
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They wanted men to feel so bad about themselves, to be guilty of original sin. Now a bunch of people born men have no attachment to, or are actively repulsed by their own gender (I'm not saying this is the base for everyone who is trans, but there are patterns). I went through this in the mid 2010s when "white man tears" really hit their peak. I had friends telling me "men bad, oh except for you you're different". I had people pushing non-binary on me. I got the "I don't know what it means to be…
/r/MensRights13/07/23 12:39 PM
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They won't let go of that word even though making fun of men's body count completely negates any effort they want to make about men shaming women for their body count. It proves that it actually IS important!
/r/MensRights12/07/23 04:11 PM
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There was a second one? I'm gonna blame it partly on marketing, I had no idea she did a second one. I think I'm getting Marvel movie blind though, they all kinda blend in now.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 01:18 PM
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57% of single US adults are not looking to date. If you're single and thinking that you're fine staying single, you are in the majority. Personally this made me feel a hell of a lot better and I took the plunge, now I have a little CNC in my bedroom! I no longer have that guilt of "Well, I should keep my bedroom in a neutral state in case I have company, want to give a good impression". Now there's toolboxes, 3d printer, mini lathe, shop vac. Hobbies are a fuck of a lot better for me than mental…
/r/MensRights30/06/23 01:50 PM
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If you're sexually assaulted the very first thing you should do is file a police report. Don't talk to anyone else first, police report. Make it bigger than the company/school/whatever.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 04:40 AM
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Because guys know guys will usually cause less of a stink. So if they're getting paid minimum wage to kick someone out of the gym it's going to be the one that's not going to look him up on social media and dox him as an "incel" for taking a mans side. Even if we're not making the conscious decision, the drive to avoid confrontation at work can be strong. A blind guy is probably going to act more mature than an "offended" woman.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 06:20 PM
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I'm gonna be the dick that says that the pay gap is the "ladder gap". People who are willing to climb a ladder get paid more. Women don't climb ladders. I'm not talking about corporate ladders, social ladders, no depth to this at all. Women won't put their heads in ceiling tiles or climb around under desks, so they miss out on a lot of jobs. My IT job started with picking stuff up and climbing ladders to run wire. People who aren't willing to do that have trouble getting my job.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 02:11 PM
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/r/MensRights16/06/23 04:55 PM
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Being a guy in a woman dominated field usually involves some intense sexism as guys will have to double as security/maintenance as well. They tend not to respect mens time in this matter either. They need someone to go up a ladder to adjust the time on a clock NOW, and its certainly not going to be them!
/r/MensRights09/06/23 05:28 PM
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Because some men are richer than me I should suffer.
/r/MensRights09/06/23 03:10 PM
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A serious gay pride organization Gay men drove LGBT+ rights to where they are today. Then immediately after marriage was legalized woke dumped into "white men bad" stuff and the older gay community ended up more distanced and did their own thing. There's still plenty of gay areas with memberships that are only given out to cis gay men. You won't see LGBT+ groups/pushes like you did in the past because that missing group of gay men contains a lot of the money/influence that comes with older membe…
/r/MensRights05/06/23 01:52 PM
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In another sub someone brought up "If I had to pay someone to do all the things my wonderful wife does we'd be broke!". No shit, not many people can afford to hire a full time maid. If I hired someone to do all the things I do at home I'd be broke.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 03:19 PM
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She was going to lose access to her kid and was going to have to pay child support. Pregnancy is the most likely time for women to be murdered, and I think a big part of it is people looking at 18 years of heavy expenses for something they don't even want is enough to make people break. We can either change how we handle child support, or take the more popular route of pointing fingers and telling people to be better while doing nothing to curb the killing.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 09:43 PM
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One of the Twitch DJs i like for reported by a few people for the content of one of his tracks. The official response was that the sample was from the Police song "Don't stand so close to me", the track was fine. Made me feel old though that a bunch of 20somethings didn't recognize it.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 03:48 PM
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In my WOW days I used a voice changer and always played female characters because I'd ALWAYS get to go on raids, they'd always find/make room for me. I was able to be ripshit drunk most of the time and I was not the best player at all. Never got any weird comments.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 08:36 PM
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I think ladders keep women out of a lot of fields. I wouldn't have my IT position if I hadn't spent my time on ladders up in ceilings. And I get it, I don't enjoy a single moment I'm on a ladder. If I was shorter and had less strength it would be even worse. But that's something you have to push through to get the comfy work from home desk job years later.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 01:59 PM
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safe sex in 2023 means when she doesn’t know your real name, where you live/work and your phone no. Reverse the genders, "He doesn't have to know your real name, where you live/work, or your phone number" is totally reasonable for women for their "safety". So I see absolutely no problem with men doing it for their safety.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 01:59 PM
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How about you start by letting ACA cover our vasectomies before you bitch about guys not getting vasectomies? "Contraceptives, including sterilization, are covered only for women as preventive services by ACA-compliant plans. Since sterilization for men is not considered a preventive service under the Affordable Care Act, federal law does not require plans to cover vasectomies."
/r/MensRights11/05/23 01:02 PM
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I have a few friends that HATE their full legal names for various reasons. One dude has his father's name and did not have a good relationship with the guy. His father always went by the long version of the name, friend always the short. Yea, he could change his name. But it's not a problem with non-dicks, and it makes the dicks out themselves quick enough. The people that insist on "I use people's legal names" he just keeps at a distance because why bother? They're not going to put in an effort…
/r/MensRights06/05/23 04:45 PM
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Bob's Burgers is my favorite show and a big part is that the parents really are a team. There's no "smart one" or "level headed one". The kids make fun of dad more than mom, but it's usually playful and they include a disappointed groan or comment to show that if it was anyone but his kids he wouldn't stand for it. He tries so hard for his family. He gets excited when good things happen to them, he has to do something when bad things happen to them.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:36 PM
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Homer often strangled Bart in the early episodes.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 07:03 PM
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The IT gender gap is a big example. So many women say that they can't get into IT because of "toxic masculinity", boys club, blah de blah. But now IT is liberal as hell and full of gays/trans/furries. "Programmer socks" are a known thing. And there's STILL not women in the field! That's because a LOT of us started out in ceilings, under desks, carrying shit, racking equipment. We cleaned roaches out of people's systems, we had to call the police when we found CP on people's home computers. And a…
/r/MensRights03/05/23 05:50 PM
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If I know I'm about to get fucked over for life at a juryless trial for something I didn't do I'm going to be adding at least "arson" to those charges.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 01:33 PM
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Yea, no. I'm not being drafted. Conscript me and I'm gonna burn something really important down while taking myself out too. Force me to die for a country that doesn't care about me and I'll go treasonous. 100%.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 03:17 PM
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Was "Aquaman" really a movie you were going to spend theater prices on anyways? He filled a seat at the Justice League. Dunno, feels like "boycotting" something is taking a stand, changing my life in some way where in this case I just won't go out of my way to pay too much and see an at best mediocre movie with some bed shitter in it.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 06:04 PM
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It could go either way. If I was in your spot I probably wouldn't have. I did help a woman in a similar situation. Bus stopped running and she was desperate, offering money to people to give her a ride home. I gave her a ride, didn't take money. But it was a totally different set and setting, it was in a good area of Nashua, NH and during the day. I'm a 6'4 gay dude with a gun. She asked for a ride to the gas station next to her house so I didn't have to worry about going down unknown surface st…
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:13 PM
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I read that as "hopeless people believe crazy things" which is a pretty fair assessment. Had a co-worker go off the deep end after his wife left, took the kids and he had been living in his car for a few months (wife ended up homel. Pretty decent guy before, I only referred to him as "flat earthy" 6 months later because he had gotten so hard to tolerate with his conspiracy stuff. He lost his chance at a normal life. He'll probably never recover. Sucks but the kid's awful mother destroyed their f…
/r/MensRights20/04/23 02:15 PM
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I think the trans rights movement probably has the best shot of shaking apart a lot of female privilege. Unfortunately with the way things going it's going to drag women's rights down to men's rights for equality rather than boosting men up to match women's privileges. There will be no winners.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 02:23 AM
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86% of women end up mothers. That forces an end to their more carefree days. The people who say "I wouldn't date a manchild" are probably already too jaded/bitter with life to attract a "manchild". They still know how to have fun with their hobbies.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 04:29 PM
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They still exist, you just have to know where to look. Also, they're mostly either gay, or rich clubs. A woman friend of mine actually got upset when I was talking about one of them to her. She said it was sexist to be men only. But she was totally fine with women only stuff so she can pound sand. She was not able to comprehend if the roles were reversed and men wanted to go into a lesbian only camp. Of course that's not okay!
/r/MensRights09/04/23 05:30 PM
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Oh, so she's the type that would go on about how men are dangerous, but then look me in the eyes and go "Oh no, not you, you're different" because I'm gay? We fought for a long time to not be treated differently because of who we love. I've cut several people out of my life for thinking I'm "not like other guys" because I'm gay. People like this can fuck off. I'm exactly the same as a heterosexual man 99.999% of my life. The time I spend touching another guy Fuck off AOC.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 02:34 PM
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The more men realize that the government isn't on their side the more will take matters into their own hands. The more men realize the police aren't on their side, the more they'll take matters into their own hands. The more they're told by society that they don't matter, the more they'll take it into their own hands. "Homicide leading cause of death for pregnant women in U.S." It's a very serious issue. But rather than work out why it's such a frequent occurrence and trying to treat the root ca…
/r/MensRights05/04/23 03:07 AM
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Stuff like this feeds biphobia too. The feeling like bisexuals are just into same sex stuff for fun, but they'll want to settle down with the opposite for their white picket fence, 2.5 kids normal life once they've had their fun.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 05:22 AM
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Both my parents were drunks and fought a lot, but after my dad had a moment of "sobering up" while he was being an absolute shithead he never touched a drink again. This would piss my mom off because now she was the only drunk shithead in the house now. My dad wouldn't reciprocate in the screaming matches anymore. My dad had been brought to the drunk tank a few times while he was an actual drunk, but after he sobered up he was still the one taken to the station the first few times. But then I fi…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:51 PM
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because men in “their bracket” don’t want them. But they give zero shits that men in their 20s are dealing with nobody in their "bracket" wanting them. https://www.foxnews.com/media/more-than-60-percent-young-men-single-study-finds-young-women-dating
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:11 PM
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I hope she lives a life where guys are "scared" to have anything to do with her. A co-worker that you can never talk to one-on-one, that you always have to have someone else in the room and the door open. I'm sure that will lead to a successful career. And romantically? I wish her all the same luck I'd wish on a guy who wanted women to be frightened of him.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 03:10 AM
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I didn't vote for trump, but that line made me sure as hell not vote for her. And as much as I hated the trump presidency I'm still okay with her never being president. Grab them by the pussy < your lives dont matter. I'm sure you'll find a majority women who disagree with this basic statement.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 10:44 PM
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I'm gay, I hate pride month. Nothing like spending years trying to say gay is normal just for capitalism to go all "RAINBOWS! BUY OUR SHIT! WE'RE GAY AND DIFFERENT!"
/r/MensRights08/03/23 09:28 PM
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Someone is going to spend 40 hours in front of a computer every week for their job? Lets not test them at all on the most basic computer skills! I do work for henhouses that go for the thousand monkeys, thousand typewriters method. Bunch of hunt-and-peckers with zero computer skills.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 02:41 PM
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It's less "gender studies" and more that they need a position for Debra and her 8" acrylics who can only type at 4wpm. They're the most shallow, useless basic bitches but you can't fire them over being useless or they'll claim it was sexism. I've never met someone in HR young enough to take a gender studies class.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 01:43 PM
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That's something I hope comes from the trans movement. They'll have to end some forms of gender discrimination because people like me are willing to switch that letter on our license in a second if it gives me any benefits. Sadly I doubt it has any chance of lifting men up, it will probably just squish women down.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 01:41 PM
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I still can't believe she said that then still thought she had a chance at presidency. I'm pushed heavily democrat because I'm gay but I could not vote for her after she said that. It's also why I couldn't be too disheartened by how trump acted towards women while in office. Hillary would have been the same towards men but who cares, we're supposed to man up and deal with it. Do you know how gross I'd feel if I told someone to "woman" and deal with trump, what he does is fine? But women are fine…
/r/MensRights04/03/23 05:28 PM
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The DA supports child rapists. I wish Murphy's Law cranks it up to 11 on that sleezebag for the rest of his life.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 01:48 PM
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I've gotta deal with my own childish shit every day, I certainly don't need it from someone else!
/r/MensRights28/02/23 07:05 PM
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Even then I'm watching TV and fucking around on reddit, just less comfortable than I'd be at home.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 07:03 PM
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I tried to live by the rules. I have health insurance. But I got hurt while visiting a friend which was out of network. Just like that I've got over 70k of medical debt. I'm 6'4, good looking, was in good shape before the accident, wasn't wealthy but I'd never worried about bills either. And I was a whore. My "body count" is right around 100 at 40 years old. But just like that it stopped. I got hurt, I'm stressed about money, and I haven't been laid since. I'm still tall, I'm still thin, just no…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 02:06 PM
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Pretty sexist place for anyone to live. It's the result of tit-for-tat grabs for preferential treatment rather than true equality policy. Everybody loses.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 06:46 AM
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It's too bad that we can't just say "mandatory paternity testing". I don't think society could handle finding out how many children are from infidelity.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 07:53 PM
0

Some guys just want their wife to stay in the kitchen.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 09:20 PM
4

That's how I see it. It's the top 1% of mostly men that control all other men and women. But they'll average that across all men and say we're part of the "patriarchy", the group of elites that has their boots on the back of our own neck.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 09:04 PM
74

As someone with nerve damage this is the way. I've never had any issue with it (I do go back to the mens room to use the sink if I can). I figure if we want to get super basic about it the employees would rather me use the women's room than do the cleanup when my body gives out because I waited too long. Customers don't want to step over it, employees don't want to mop it up. We all win if I'm allowed in either bathroom.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 09:01 PM
5

I'm a gay hippy, I'm pretty liberal. I eyeroll at how fast posts on on further left leaning get locked. There's been plenty where it's been a legitimate interesting topic but some Doreen shuts it down on behalf of a group that would have been totally fine with the discord. They can't be the victim directly so this is their roundabout way. Plus the power trip. Such a power trip from such a rutabaga.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 09:50 PM
2

My heart just sank for a moment thinking about what would happen if I had lost access to all my music playlists. Doing print-to-PDFs of them all and backing them up right now. The loss of progress made me quit Farcry 2 for a long time. I got pretty far into the game and my data corrupted with a patch. The intro to that game is really long. For a while I didn't even have the heart to make it far enough into the game to even get to the same save point. My second playthrough was fun. Losing the fir…
/r/MensRights30/01/23 02:18 PM
10

The manliest man doesn't need to prove anything. He's already super daddy.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 03:12 AM
22

It probably also gets into the extent of the problem. It's one thing to say "There are more homeless men than women". It's a different picture to say "69.5% of homeless are men, 29.4% are women". It turns the word "more" which could mean anything into "double", something we all have a common idea about.
/r/MensRights26/01/23 02:14 PM
1

I've got the looks but confidence is at least as important, and I lost all mine when I injured my back a year ago. 2 months of having limited control of any functions in my pelvis region. I'm tall and pretty good looking, I never had any trouble before COVID. But I'm guessing my newfound anxiety and insecurity is a pretty big turn off. It's enough to overshadow looks it seems.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:48 PM
7

I've seen plenty of companies with "unlimited" sick/vacation time. But they also tend to be the companies that you won't get very far unless you're working overtime and don't take any sick/vacation time. My company has "unlimited" unpaid sick leave but while I was in the hospital for 2 months this year with fucked up lungs/spine I was still working, taking calls, whatever I could do to get myself billable hours. I was on 100% 60l/minute of forced O2 for almost 2 weeks and had to deal with custom…
/r/MensRights24/01/23 08:55 PM
27

The younger women are demanding they get priority on the best jobs, the 40s women are on OLD sites trying to find a guy to take care of them and their kids. Pretty direct conflict in interest between the two groups. Fucking wild how demanding women my age (40) think they can be in an area where the average income of 21k. (Not saying the guys aren't being unrealistic as well. Your chance of finding a woman who has never had kids and isn't overweight at 40 is reducing your dating pool by 95% if yo…
/r/MensRights24/01/23 03:21 PM
7

My mom said she'd always be there with bail unless she though we were guilty of home arson or rape. Even murder was "They could have deserved it"
/r/MensRights17/01/23 04:21 PM
8

I dunno. "Do what I say or no sex" is degrading, reward for being a good boy/girl is pretty hot.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 01:32 AM
3

Worst part is that if you DID choose to date them they'd be upset that they didn't see you as often as they want because you spend too much time working out. Of course they don't want to join you for any of it. If you're obese your lifestyle is not going to be compatible with someone who works out. There's just not enough time in the day.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 01:16 AM
1

The top tier of men are more privileged than the top tier of women. When you get to the rich and powerful yes, men have it better. For the rest of us slobs there are spots where guys have it easier, and there's spots where women have it easier. There's also spots where guys get screwed and spots where women get screwed. Overall I feel like feminism has put the large majority of men behind women. But women only care about that top tier of men and THEY have privilege so MEN have privilege. They ar…
/r/MensRights11/01/23 03:29 AM
28

Mrs. Doubtfire might be becoming a reality. If it gets guys time with their kids I'm all about this weird future!
/r/MensRights06/01/23 07:34 PM
10

And most all of the people throwing "incel" around would get their panties all in a bunch if you judged them on their sex life/sexual history.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 02:30 PM
-1

Just another Doreen
/r/MensRights04/01/23 05:29 PM
9

"Poop boners" are a terrible thing. I get them when I'm in absolutely terrible GI distress. They're how I know there is no god.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 04:12 PM
1

Have them list the reasons why they should lift themselves up. Have them list their accomplishments. That's why they have to put men down.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 06:08 AM
108

Women: Men should get snipped! Also: "Contraceptives, including sterilization, are covered only for women as preventive services by ACA-compliant plans. Since sterilization for men is not considered a preventive service under the Affordable Care Act, federal law does not require plans to cover vasectomies. " And they complain about reproductive rights? Pffft.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 08:45 PM
27

Privately owned prisons are disgusting, but they only house 8% of the US prisoners. Our public prisons are at least as bad about using prisoners for cheap labor. We've had "Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction." loonnnggg before private prisons were a thing. It's a societal issue that we need to treat. With less motivation for t…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 09:06 PM
10

Saggy tit energy
/r/MensRights30/12/22 02:55 PM
21

has its advantages in the dating game Ehhhh, sorta? I've been listing myself as 5'11 for years to avoid people filtering by 6'+. Nobody complains when I show up taller than I said. People are understanding. It has its advantages in the hookup game for sure.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 08:08 PM
7

There's a lot of pressure to be a victim and out-victim other victims. It's not just women either, it seems to be a cultural thing being pushed on everyone. Left, right, men, women. My little tin foil had thing is that the powers that be love it because we all feel like we're victims to each other we'll ignore them. They can fight for the "victims" and get people to rally easier.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 02:55 PM
13

I gave up entirely and now I'm Bert and Ernie-ing up with the most important person in my life, my best friend. Feels so good to not be going at life alone. I'm getting older, haven't had an active sex life in a while, he's asexual so that hasn't been an issue. Even if things don't go great on the marriage field don't discount a hetero life partner. The feeling that there's someone at home who really has your back is something everyone should have. Family member (my brother comes to mind), frien…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 02:51 PM
38

The only places I've seen maintain male only are gay places that have memberships. Anyone can come in and rent a spot at the campground or get into the club if they have a membership, but the "committee" in charge of memberships only approves men. A woman friend of mine actually took offense to that saying it's discrimination. I asked her how an all lesbian nude campground would feel about a guy coming in? Unfortunately that's not a great example anymore. Cis lesbians are not allowed to have spa…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 10:23 PM
4

The Harbor Freight Hamburger Press manual is full of great warnings. It's a little clamshell thing that you put burger in and close it, it shapes the patty for you. Not a power tool at all, just a patty squisher that you use your own weight to squish. The only risk is if you hit someone in the head with it. But it has stuff like: 1.Avoid working alone. If an accident happens, an assistant can bring help. https://usermanual.wiki/Harbor-Freight/HarborFreight44934UsersManual209866.2022287649/view
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/22 10:12 PM
15

They're like condoms. If someone says you don't need one then you DEFINITELY need one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/22 10:07 PM
12

I don't treat every woman like they're evil, I treat them like they want to talk to me as little as possible. Around women it's a lot more about what you don't say then what you do say. Big smile, keep it short and everyone's happier. With guys I'll go into what I'm doing and talk to them a lot more. I'll ask more questions rather than poking around getting information myself. It's not always women I'm like that with. People working in sales or HR I do the same for. They don't care what I'm goin…
/r/MensRights24/12/22 04:49 PM
19

It's working, sorta. I stay quiet towards them. Still loud and friendly with the guys (and a few old women) I work with. It's just better to do my job in silence unless I have a yes/no question or have to have them show me what's wrong.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 04:46 PM
7

The "dead bedroom" thing is brutal. If a guy is upset over it he gets "Your wife doesn't owe you sex!". This is true, a woman shouldn't feel compelled to have sex when she shouldn't want to. But it should be easy grounds for annulment/divorce. There's two parts to a relationship. The mental part, and the physical part. Different people need these in different ratios. If you take away a big part of the relationship then just call the relationship over and don't get upset when the other party dips…
/r/MensRights23/12/22 02:49 PM
2

Did she have 8" long nails too? I've found people who don't want to work get them so they have a reason to only type at 3wpm and nobody will call them on it.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 01:55 AM
6

The kind of guy who does allow this is not the kind of guy women want. They're a pushover, or they're a cheater themselves. The only reason a woman stays with a dude after she (not they, she) forces the relationship open or starts porning is because of money. She's already gone emotionally. She's going for the monkeybranch as soon as she can.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 02:31 PM
5

Oh, they'll be banning them soon enough. You can't say stuff like that in a feminist sub without being banned from the sub. OHHHHH! The small penis stuff being banned? Never happening.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 03:28 PM
2

"Sexual assault is an act in which one intentionally sexually touches another person without that person's consent, or coerces or physically forces a person to engage in a sexual act against their will." Out of 7 of your friends, men and women, if they've ever been assaulted. Who has had a drunk person getting handsy/gropey when it's been made clear it's unwanted? "Sexual assault" is a tricky word because it has such a broad spectrum. From gang rape to a drunk girl grabbing someone's ass. Both a…
/r/MensRights20/12/22 03:16 PM
24

I worked hard. I had my shit together. I had health insurance with a $6,000 OOP max. I got hurt while visiting a friend and could not be transported back to my home state safely. I'm now over $120,000 in medical debt between the 3 places that had to treat me because I had the nerve to get hurt while out of state. That's after insurance, the insurance that I Thought had me protected to $6,000. The game is rigged. There's no point in working hard when you can lose it all so fast. There's a good ch…
/r/MensRights20/12/22 04:18 AM
1

Everyone is about this "canceling" shit, just the left is better at it. The right just sucks boycotting/cancelling. "Oh no, Starbucks has the wrong kind of coffee cups, attack on christmas!" that last just as long as Debra can put off her next peppermint macchiato fix. And sooooo many attempts at "THINK OF THE CHILDREN!" when they obviously don't give a shit about kids after they're born.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 05:06 PM
6

Usually women, want to not do my job, but somehow complain that my job pays higher. They want my CURRENT job. The one that I get to work from home 40 hours a week. They don't want the job I worked 12 years to get to this position. There was a lot of time spent in ceilings and under desks to get to this point. But they want this job without the ceiling time. I've actually never seen a woman working in a drop ceiling and doubt I ever will. Because they don't want to! Who knows, they might be bette…
/r/MensRights02/12/22 01:47 PM
17

A certain kind of man is proud of his high count. I'm pretty embarrassed about mine. Think it might have messed me up long term. Now I'm sober and have a crippling fear of intimacy.] I wasn't trying to sleep around. I was having less sex than most people in relationships. I just absolutely sucked at dating but I'm pretty enough to fuck.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 09:37 PM
5

I realized that my best friend knows me better than anyone else ever will. We've had countless friend-dates, we usually travel together. We're not sexual but that's fine. Heterosexual life partners should be normalized but if it ever started getting a foothold women would see it as a threat. Men spending money on themselves and their friend rather than on women/children?
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:09 PM
9

I've always wondered what the real figures on sexual assault were. When a woman gropes me at the gay bar I'm not going to call the cops. I'm going to let the bouncer know and he'll escort her out. It would be a waste of my time because the justice system would not care. Plus if it came down to it it's my word vs hers and we know how that would go.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:15 PM
51

Men, you shouldn't be trusting a woman on birth control like this Bit off topic but it's also why I won't knowingly sleep with someone HIV+. I know if they take their medication properly the chances of even unprotected infection are almost non-existent. But I can't trust myself to remember my medications every morning, I certainly can't trust others. I'm in no way saying it's the guy's fault for not wearing a condom. He loved/trusted her. But guys, if you don't want a kid, get your snip/wear a c…
/r/MensRights28/11/22 12:32 PM
6

A little bit of "witness tampering" and you can trade your kid's prison time for your own! Could be worth it in certain situations.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 12:41 AM
2

Turns out working for a living kinda sucks, doesn't it? Horses are out of the barn though. My generation is going to be the one that decides what to do about men not marrying women. We're getting to the age where a lot of us are voting and women are hitting the end of those 18 years of child support. They're suddenly forced back into the workforce. But unfortunately the jobs that they are after are disappearing. I work for medium sized businesses. Almost across the board when the owner decides t…
/r/MensRights26/11/22 08:33 PM
13

I always expect early removal for women because it can cause them "undue hardships" Wahhhhhh, I can't get a good job after molesting a child.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 03:08 AM
27

Against their autonomy? I think most people here are pro choice. We don't want to have to pay for someone else's kids. We don't want unwanted kids from single mothers fucking up our society. I'm pro-choice because I'm selfish. The autonomy I can't give a shit about because women care that much in return. It just happens to go hand in hand with me not wanting feral children around.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:14 PM
29

Aborting a child is not the solution to you making bad sexual decisions. (I'm very pro-choice, that line was just so fucking stupid it was bothering me)
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:12 PM
9

Fat single mother? The most basic of bitches. Blackmail was the only way to get any man to give her any attention.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 08:57 PM
12

Marry her and pay all her bills or you'll never see your kid again.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 08:55 PM
82

If anyone sends you this emoji just call them fat.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 05:05 PM
8

Hahahaha, this bimbo was stupid enough to expect a normal relationship from YEEEEE? 100% perfect example of a woman making an absolutely awful decision and then blaming men for it. They love to say that they picked a good man but then he showed his bad side later. BULLSHIT. They show you their bad side up front but it's ignored for the "tingles". The tingles exist so our lizard brains can look past someone's faults long enough to reproduce. It was very important to our species. Not so much anymo…
/r/MensRights23/11/22 02:40 PM
12

Well, be "gay acting" and go out with just your guy friends from now on. There's a special kind of grumpy women get when they're invisible/ignored by gay men.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 03:21 PM
34

Because otherwise they might realize the reason they're a 35yo single mother begging for a real man to step up with nothing to offer in return and the problem might be them. "Fear" is the only thing that makes sense in her mind why she's not getting the attention she thinks she should get. "Fear" protects the ego. It pushes the view that men are weak, women are strong and have control of the situation. If you used "75% of men don't feel its worth it to chat up women" or "75% of men feel its easi…
/r/MensRights21/11/22 05:43 PM
11

Yup, and I think of the women who are treating height as important the same as guys who are treating waist/tits with importance. If that's what they're out for I'll pass, so I lie about my height. Almost nobody is going to have a problem if I show up taller than I said. People would have problems the other way around.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 01:00 AM
38

Only on dating profiles. I'm 5'11" on my profile and 6'4" IRL for this reason. If they're filtering by height I'm not interested.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:59 PM
26

Homicide in England and Wales: year ending March 2021 As in previous years, the majority of homicide victims were male. In the year ending March 2021, over two-thirds of all victims were male (70%) and just under a third were female (30%). https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/homicideinenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2021#:~:text=Sex,third%20were%20female%20(30%25).
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:56 PM
1

My roommate's ex wife is an exception. She was absolutely terrible before the divorce. She behaved during the divorce because they're in a state with 50/50 split, including debt. She had more to lose if she took half the debt so she have to behave and play nice with "my thing your things". When she'd get upset he'd say "Fine, lets just 50/50."
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:38 PM
3

They behave way, way worse when they're the ones made invisible. Watch how uppity a "girls night out" group gets at a mostly male gay bar when nobody is interested in them. They get drunk, upset, and sexual-assult-handsy.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:12 PM
4

The first one messed with my perspective for a moment. It looked like the dad's arms were the kid's legs and he's trying to butthuff the fireworks.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 03:26 AM
31

Yup, bunch of left swipes that think men are the reason they suck.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 05:45 PM
16

Happened to my brother. She had her eyes on her future FWB before they opened it and she tried to money branch during. Luckily both my brother and the new guy were equally "WTF are you doing?!" and she ended up falling on her ass instead.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 07:29 PM
25

The one proposing it is usually the one that's going to find side nookie easier. The other tends to struggle so it's not an issue for the more sexually successful partner. I'm guessing the guy opens the relationship because otherwise she'll just leave him. She'll start fucking the guy she has had her mind set on. Maybe they'll start dating, maybe he'll drop her when he realizes she wants to be more than a booty call. That's what happened to my brother's marriage. She had a guy in mind, made the …
/r/MensRights17/11/22 07:26 PM
26

I think the point is perving is much more "acceptable" for women to do. By "acceptable" I mean they get away with it.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 12:54 AM
2

I agree with you. I really don't like the idea of a teacher having OF but I don't think it's a fireable offense. Filming pornography at your place of employment though, that's a totally different story.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 08:37 PM
11

I feel that way about the number of guys planning on being "twitch streamers", but at least that usually bites them pretty quick and doesn't haunt them for the rest of their lives.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 08:35 PM
2

Depends on the state. In NH everything is split 50/50 including debts. Friend didn't lose anything in the divorce because if she went after him he'd go to court and she'd get 50% of his debt so it was in her best interest to let him keep his car and such.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 06:37 PM
3

They Can't Understand Normal Thinking.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 03:59 PM
2

I don't care about women's rights to abort, but the consequences of more unwanted kids would take more of my taxes. When they start hitting 14+ after being raised in an unloving/uncaring household they start becoming a problem for the community.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 09:04 PM
3

I'm liberal because I'm pro gay rights and unfortunately only one side is for that. Pretty anti-feminism myself.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 02:23 PM
10

It's like PETA. People for the ethical treatment of animals sounds like it's a group fighting for the right thing. Nope, not one bit/
/r/MensRights02/11/22 02:26 AM
15

If you've ever seen a group of women doing a "girls night out" at a gay bar you will see exactly why they think this way. They want a "safe night out" so they go to a gay club, but they're not used to being invisible to every guy in the place. They didn't want people bothering/interrupting them but they want some attention? Because as the night goes on and they get drunker they get aggressive and handsy. I've heard women say that gay-men exclusive clubs are sesxist and illegal, but they'll defen…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 10:29 PM
64

"A village pub owner has been forced to cancel his 12-year run of discounted Ladies' Nights — after one disgruntled man said it was 'discrimination'." "And men like him are the reason why us ladies love getting together on a Monday night!! Maybe keep it but change its name." As usual they'd rather double down on sexism and make the man into the bad guy
/r/MensRights25/10/22 12:18 PM
4

Because guys have better shit to do.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 09:03 PM
1

It's what I just did. Best friend and I had both struck out recently back in April and started joking about how we should just give up on romance and Ernie and Bert our way through life together. Some shit came up and we both kinda realized that there's nobody else that would ever know us better or have our backs than each other. Our families are already integrated. We've already been on hundreds of friend-dates and dozens of trips together. We have a better relationship than most couples. We do…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 03:54 PM
4

I don't know if I'd be able to handle that on top of what felt like my whole life falling apart. Pretty sure that would end with arson and me 6 feet under.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 01:57 PM
33

Their policy is to grease the squeaky wheel, and one of them mothers is a greasy ol' cunt. Policy followed.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 05:02 PM
4

So lets say this did get put into action right now. Imagine all the desperation you'd find on dating apps with women no longer able to trap your average guy anymore? So many women desperate to be mothers.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 12:48 PM
3

My parents thought about doing it just to separate my mom from the finances when she racked up a few million in medical debt
/r/MensRights02/10/22 05:23 PM
38

Unfortunately there's not a lot that can be done about the medication trials. It would have to be done on women who cannot have children which really lowers the volunteer pool in the age range they're usually looking to test on. Risking a guy's reproductive system is okay, risking a woman's is not. (Not my opinion, but it seems to be what we follow)
/r/MensRights29/09/22 02:51 PM
1

It's up to the states, and my state is on the conservative side of things. It looks like only 3 states do it. California, NY, NJ.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 04:29 PM
6

I've been offered viagra when I just wasn't in the mood 3 times in my life. Each time it wasn't an equipment failure, my libido was just nowhere to be found and I just wasn't feeling it.
/r/MensRights28/09/22 12:38 PM
3

Anything not M or F. Nonbinary, genderfluid, agender, whatever. It's the "And all the rest!" letter.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 10:47 PM
3

If my state supported it I would have gotten the "X" gender on my drivers license just in case I needed to get around corruption like this someday.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 08:27 PM
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" Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat. Women often have to flee from the only homes they have ever known. Women are often the refugees from conflict and sometimes, more frequently in today’s warfare, victims. Women are often left with the responsibility, alone, of raising the children." Hillary Clinton , November 17 1998
/r/MensRights15/09/22 01:25 PM
61

I've only been assaulted by a woman once. She slapped me. I slapped right back. There was a silence after that and we got away from each other. We were back on good terms in a few days. Been sexually assaulted by women 3 times being groped in gay bars. Told the bouncer, they were lead out. There was no use in calling the police. Nothing would have come of it except me wasting time talking to them.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 04:16 AM
4

If your partner doesn't "meet all your needs", you break up. Only a real fuckface tries to supplement their "needs" with another person behind their partner's back. "They're perfect except blank" excuses are so damn selfish. Head back onto the dating market and find your perfect partner. It might take a while, probably never because they're the type that's never happy with what they have. They'll always have a "they're perfect but" attitude that nobody can live up to.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 04:13 PM
2

Poor girl is probably going to grow up with a victim complex.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:24 PM
4

I've just never been able to connect with women. I share more hobbies, thoughts, beliefs with guys. I only have a few women acquaintances and I wouldn't have had them at all if they weren't friend-of-a-friend.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 02:24 PM
9

Your words will mean a lot. My parents were both drunks. They'd yell at each other all the time. Eventually my dad got sober. My dad would just take the abuse and that got her upset so she'd get physical. My dad got dragged off to the drunk tank several times. That changed after I got involved. Cops would show up to me holding my mother away from him and then she started to be the one brought back to the station. They only started believing my dad's side after my involvement. (It has a happy end…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 09:09 PM
2

Men are allowed to have hobbies after they marry?
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:09 PM
10

Being a single mother is the hardest job in the world! Heck, being a stay at home mom is harder than any job a man has!
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:04 PM
23

If you want creeping, gay bars are where it happens. Women go to them to avoid male gaze. But they're not used to being totally invisible around men. Male gays make them drunk and gropey.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 03:14 PM
14

If someone doesn't get excited over a McDonald's breakfast burrito I'm not at all interested.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 12:04 AM
6

No surprise. The "open relationships" I've been around all had the same issue. The woman was able to find other people to sleep with easily. The man was not. Even if we remove all the personality aspects of things it's just easier for a woman to find someone to sleep with her.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 05:30 PM
9

They think because if we're gay and don't like it that makes it any better?! Women will go out to gay bars to have a ladies night. They'll get drunk, then upset that nobody is paying attention to them. They're not used to being totally invisible in a room. They start to get aggressive and handsy and are eventually ejected. They come to avoid male gaze but get upset that they can't get male gays. Ask them how they'd like it if their partner was getting groped by other women. I'm sure they'd get u…
/r/MensRights24/08/22 01:01 PM
5

https://i.imgur.com/Y7YJuSc.png
/r/MensRights24/08/22 12:56 PM
51

They want to know why "toxic masculinity" and "every man is an island" shit comes from. Do a survey on the last time most men got a hug. It will be measured in months. There's such a stigma about even getting hugs from our bros. We are attention starved for most of our lives. I'm really looking forward to next weekend because my partner is flying in for next weekend and I'll finally get some physical contact for the first time since mid-march. I'm going to get to hug someone and be shoulder to s…
/r/MensRights21/08/22 04:29 PM
32

I feel a bit bad saying it, but I also like that when I hang out with my friends we don't have to tone things down for people's girlfriends/wives. It's such a more relaxed environment with just all guys. No more new-girlfriend-ruining-the-mood situations is something I could get used to! My feeling bad is I know my friends don't want to be single but I'm enjoy being around them more when they're single.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 04:01 PM
15

Nah, I didn't take it that way at all. I was just venting about my own issue with the woke movement.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 04:03 PM
29

I'm gay. It hurts to watch all the awful pandering most shows/movies have. Gay rights was about making us equal. Don't treat us different because of who we love. Things have gone the other way again. People treat it like gay people are something special. That's treating us different.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 03:47 PM
15

I imagine it would be "It's his fault for ignoring her when they needed to talk, your wife is more important than work"
/r/MensRights18/08/22 12:52 PM
3

Keep in mind it is said people cannot fake being something they’re not for more than 6 - 12 months. Adding to this beware of "tofu people". The kind of person that shares too many of your interests, your taste in music, gets along too well with your friends too quickly. Tofu people are super manipulative. Watch for them to start gently testing boundaries, showing the cracks in their plans, little things like that. They're extremely dangerous to your wellbeing.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 09:37 PM
1

Because moms are constantly trying to one-up other moms. Only moms care about this list. Moms make other moms feel awful because they couldn't give natural birth. Moms make other moms feel awful because they aren't able to breast feed. Men don't play that game nearly as hard so of course there's not as big of a list. It's no fun to try to make a dad feel bad about something if they don't care about pettiness, so they concentrate on other moms.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 05:31 PM
2

I think guys tend to be more likely to just get quiet when exhausted with things but will still keep trying to power through life. Men aren't allowed to talk about their feelings so when we're dealing with a lot of feelings we don't really talk. Then they get labeled as neglectful, or how they wouldn't even talk about it anymore. But women talk about it. They tell their friends all the problems they're having in the relationship. They're more open about what's going on. I feel like guys slow dow…
/r/MensRights09/08/22 09:31 PM
2

I don't hate women, I'm just totally indifferent to them. I like my mom, I like the one close woman friend I have. But I'm not making any side trips to involve any in my life. I'd prefer to hang out with just my single guy friends because the atmosphere is much more relaxed. I'm fine with my hobbies being very male-centric. I'm okay with women still being acquaintances that I see when around other people, but I'm not interested in going any further than that. I have zero interest in being around…
/r/MensRights09/08/22 04:52 PM
9

"If I didn't sign the prenup he was going to call off the wedding!" would unfortunately be enough for some courts.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 04:33 PM
7

Change it to no meaningful female contact and it's pretty true. I've talked to women clients. I've talked to women in the service industry. But honestly I cannot remember a single one of their faces. The encounters never go into my long term memory unless they were really unpleasant to deal with. I can't remember any of the people I talked to at the medical center last week except the guy who gave me directions on where to go and the guy who gave me my EKG. All but one person I talk to on discor…
/r/MensRights09/08/22 01:17 PM
20

Prenups seem like a good idea until you end up in front of the wrong judge. They are not as airtight as they should be.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 01:00 PM
31

VR has really come a long ways. There's bluetooth fleshlights that give feedback to what's going on. There's even insertable toys that work for multiplayer! You thrust, they buzz, they squeeze, you get squeezed! Heck, if you wanted you could be player 1 and player 2. Wankin' sure has come a long ways since Vaseline and a Sears magazine.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 12:57 PM
-2

Ahhh, Vijayawada, a mother of 4, is a child rapist and pedophile. I hope her name, Vijayawada, is always associated with being a pedophile and a rapist.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 01:18 PM
3

Feminism is about equality, and it's kinda working. It's dragging both men and women down to a level so low in an attempt to be equal. It's making the genders bitter at each other so we don't care about each other's reproductive rights which allows more rights to be lost. It's making both genders more likely to hit 40 disappointed in how we never found the american dream, or even the family we wanted.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:36 PM
4

I've met women who get upset about male-only gay areas. They say its discrimination and illegal. Luckily the older gay guys set it up as a private club. Anyone is allowed in if they have a membership. But the separate entity that handles memberships only gives them out to people of their choosing. It's not a place for women. It's not a place for straight men. It's a place for gay guys to be together where other people aren't treating them differently (bad, good, weird, any different treatment). …
/r/MensRights05/08/22 11:50 PM
97

It needs to be discovered who the father of her unborn child is, in case it's another one of her underage victims. NOPE! Her underage victim will be on the hook for child support! Wish I was kidding. As much as I'd like to see her dragged under the bus whatever kid is was shouldn't have to go through more. Our system is FUCKED when it comes to men. https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/ https://thoughtcatalog.com/james-b-barnes/2014/09…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 01:05 PM
7

Happened to my dad several times. They were both alcoholics for a while but my dad got sober and tried to be more rational. When my mom couldn't get him riled up to fight back she'd get violent. I guess she needed them both to be bad guys. But the cops would always take him into the station for the night. Then I got old enough and sick enough of her shit where I'd intervene. I'd come up behind and grab her arms. She never tried to scratch me or anything but she'd yowl and cry and tell me to let …
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:47 PM
23

It's been getting worse for a while. The single women are the worst. They're used to preferential treatment at bars/clubs (don't even have to pay to get in). So as the night goes on and they get drunker they get upset that they're nearly invisible to anyone there. Some of them get aggressive/handsy over it. The place I used to go to I never saw a man bounced, it was always women. They come to avoid mail gaze, but instead find male gays who aren't interested in them. I think they also have a case…
/r/MensRights03/08/22 12:50 PM
22

It's all a publicity thing. If someone looks her up "sexual assault" seems more tame than "rape". When a future employer's HR looks her up it's fitting that the see Amanda Hubble is a rapist, not a sexual assaulter. The resume will end up in the trash that much faster.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 07:52 PM
27

It's mostly that they play down things when it's a woman involved. It's nice to attribute a name like Amanda Hubble to "rape" rather than "Sexual assault".
/r/MensRights28/07/22 07:17 PM
92

"Sexually abused". Wat. Amanda Hubble raped a kid. Amanda Hubble is a rapist pedophile. Amanda Hubble who was a teacher, is a raping pedophile.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 06:54 PM
13

A lot of the more offensive lyrics about women are from rap artists. But their liberalism and BLM won't let them direct their messages towards the artists creating those songs. So they just resort to men=bad. I'm not saying it's just black artists doing it either. Eminem is pretty rough with some of his songs. It's a culture thing, not a color thing. But you say that certain cultures could be a little better about certain issues and people lose their minds.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 10:25 PM
5

I'm gay and I haven't had any real issue with discrimination since the early 2010s. It's mostly chilled out except in really red areas and in those places they don't need to know I'm gay. Partner is in a job where he'd get shit for it. They're the kind of place that would give someone shit for having a mixed marriage. Or a non-christian wife. I've got no problem being really good friends who live together. Only people who matter know otherwise. I don't care if other people are married or not.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 02:39 PM
5

Plenty of people with kids are failing way worse than I am. Having kids is a pretty awful metric for success and happiness.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 06:05 PM
7

start from a friends group or a friends circle This is such a gamble because if things don't work it can cause so much drama in a friends circle. People take sides, friends circle gets weird. Didn't stop me from sleeping with most of my friends circle like an idiot, bit things did get tricky a few times. Definitely would not recommend. It's not worth it.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 05:56 PM
8

Look at Tinder for 35+. They want a traditional breadwinner to be takin care of the costs of a home and children. They still want men for the traditional position but like Neov said there's no reward or acknowledgement of the position. It's more like something guys are just supposed to "Step up/man up" and deal with. Lists of demands with nothing in return.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:48 PM
6

That would be hard to find. People in the LGB+ community are going to have a bunch of cis-white-men-bad pressure. People outside the LGB+ community aren't going to be making posts.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:45 PM
10

There were definitely firearms in the parking lot of my school growing up. In hunting season the days get pretty short so they really need to keep their rifles in their car so they can go straight from school to meet up with their dad to go hunting. We were never worried. Columbine ended that.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:41 PM
1

I was pretty deep into LGB+ for a while. Unfortunately there's a lot of that stuff being spouted off in the younger group. When you're around it enough it starts to weasel its way into your head. You see some of the crazier pride flags with BLM stuff on it now, it's trying to integrate with gender/sexuality stuff.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:39 PM
44

Unless they're helping me in customer service or doing something rude like standing in the middle of the aisle at a grocery store they've become almost invisible to me. I can't remember any women I've interacted with outside of my customers. There was just no reason for my brain to put them into even short term memory anymore. I've thought "He seems like a fun guy!" plenty of times, but very rarely "She seems fun!" for any women except old ladies being silly.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:35 PM
138

LGB+ community has a lot of that unfortunately. I had to distance myself from it all when a few friend started in on the "cis white men bad" train. I called them out on it. My father is a cis white man, my brothers are, my friends are, most of their friends are. They doubled down, I cut them out of my life. Sucks because they were good friends but that kind of thinking was starting to mess with me. It's a big part of why the older gay community isn't as big a part in LGB anymore. They're segment…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:07 PM
2

Ahhh, the "I hate drama" starter kit. They walk around yelling that life is so hard for whatever minority they are that they're pushing the hardest and everyone hates them for it when they're really just absolutely insufferable people that are stressful to be around.
/r/MensRights18/07/22 02:15 PM
6

You're going to have to provide the drugs if you want me to make posts on that level of crazy. It's going to take a lot of meth and time in the Florida summer heat to get into character.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 09:20 PM
75

In Ohio the best men become astronauts to get as far away from Ohio as possible.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 07:35 PM
11

I think its because its more fun to write it out to poke fun at them. "obese 38 year old traditional Christian woman with 4 kids who ARE HER WORLD who's looking for a man who has his life together, NO SHORTIES" needs to be expressed in its fullest. Oh, and she's done playing games.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 07:08 PM
24

Legbeards
/r/MensRights17/07/22 07:05 PM
12

Its only a matter of time when these underqualified people will do something stupid and things will go horribly wrong. Like when a woman music major caused the biggest privacy breach in America, probably the entire world? https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-switch/wp/2017/09/19/equifaxs-top-security-exec-made-some-big-mistakes-studying-music-wasnt-one-of-them/
/r/MensRights16/07/22 09:13 PM
1

That's my biggest reason for being pro-choice. The last thing we need is more unwanted kids. Many will be raised poorly by mothers who didn't want them. They're going to be poor and unloved which makes the chances of them becoming criminals significantly higher. We're going to be paying for the government assistance to raise them then the prison to keep them. Or we'll have to step around them zombified or tweaking in the streets. It will bankrupt a lot of men too who are stuck paying child suppo…
/r/MensRights16/07/22 01:28 PM
6

Up until the last few years nothing would have been done. The cops used to avoid gay pedophilia due to the "icky" factor. Glad it's finally changing, but there are still places it would be tough to get anyone to care.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 11:39 PM
12

100% guy here and I used to pretend I was a girl in my WoW games because there would ALWAYS be a slot open for me in a raid and I'd usually get the gear I wanted even if I was short some points. Paid $20 for a voice modifier that worked with Teamspeak and it more than paid for itself! There's definitely preferential treatment. I wasn't even that great of a player. Good at best. I did raids drunk. I did a raid while shrooming and blasting through nitrous. No need to bring my "A" game because I wa…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/22 01:34 PM
6

Youre supposed to always be in peak physical condition and work out But you're also supposed to spend as much time as you can with your partner. Morning jog, commute, work, commute, gym, come home, food, household chores doesn't leave much time at all. But they can't feel "neglected".
/r/MensRights14/07/22 06:04 PM
2

I know what would help in our relationship, lets get the government involved! The only reason I can see to get married to my boyfriend is the health insurance. I could be paying the same I pay for my ACA plan for significantly better coverage.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 08:17 PM
107

The biggest eyeroll for me is when they use "virgin" as an insult, but get upset when guys are curious if they're a virgin. If it's so unimportant then why would they use it to try to say that a guy is a loser for being a virgin? If a guys lack of sexual experience is a sign of failure then they have no ground to stand on when guys ask about their sexual experience. They'll swear that the number of guys they've slept with is irrelevant and in the past. But they'll call me gay for the number of g…
/r/MensRights13/07/22 03:54 AM
1

Worse than that. Years of trying to kill myself from depression and crippling alcoholism. I go off my meds and I'm not living much longer anyways.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 09:18 PM
1

Because most of them were sane and wanted to go for the choice where they had a chance of living. Doesn't work on those with a death wish.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 09:05 PM
7

I found that most of the types that are anti-mask were also the ones that obviously don't take care of their own body. Helps me get past the bit of anxiety I get being one of the few people still wearing one in a conservative area. I know their dirty looks/opinions shouldn't mean shit to me unless they're normal BMI.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:44 PM
1

I'd be grabbing my own gun and finding a way to make a difference on home turf. If I'm going to die anyways may as well do it on my own terms. Once I've armed myself their ability to make me cooperate drops significantly. The only reason I have a will to live at all right now is medication, I stop that and there will be no fucks left to give.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 05:26 PM
7

Same. I'm not going to listen to the garbage that comes out of a person's mouth after they accuse me of original sin. Their beliefs mean nothing to me.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 04:57 AM
43

I don't see any reason to go along with forced conscription. Why would I want to suffer through training, assholes yelling at me, and being transported overseas to eat garbage food and probably die in some far away hellhole while trying to kill other poor saps probably in a similar situation to what I'm in? The alternative is having some good food for my last meals and going after someone who really deserves it (some warmongering old fart in our own government who is fine sending OTHER men off t…
/r/MensRights08/07/22 10:24 PM
2

It's all going to come back to bite them. We've hit a point where things are going to keep getting more conservative/religious as our class war gets worse. Women, minorities, LGB+ rights, assistance, and benefits are going to keep backsliding as our world falls apart, as our water dries out, as our crops fail, as inflation goes up, as our country burns. They're showing us they don't care about equality or standing up for us and it guarantees they're going to find a lot more apathy from men when …
/r/MensRights07/07/22 05:20 PM
14

Whereareallthegoodmen is pretty different from MGTOW. It's way more about making fun of women on dating apps who are confused at why their bad decisions have landed them where they are, and women who think men should be falling over each other to get to them when they're obviously disasters. MGTOW is more about protecting yourself from the modern dating/relationship world from screwing you over and not making the same mistakes many of us already have. MGTOW is "Don't stick your dick in crazy" WA…
/r/MensRights02/07/22 07:14 PM
7

I wonder if women would be better about not constantly fighting OSHA stuff. My partner is a safety guy. The stuff he has to deal with makes it sound like there's a portion of the construction crew that have no interest in surviving the day. They get upset when he tells them "You can't do that" about something incredibly dangerous. He's the bad guy.
/r/MensRights02/07/22 03:12 PM
21

"Contraceptives, including sterilization, are covered only for women as preventive services by ACA-compliant plans. Since sterilization for men is not considered a preventive service under the Affordable Care Act, federal law does not require plans to cover vasectomies. However, eight states (Illinois, Maryland, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, Oregon, Vermont and Washington) require state regulated health insurance plans to cover vasectomies at no cost to the patient. Check with your State Dep…
/r/MensRights01/07/22 07:25 PM
4

Don't blame all men for the actions of a few unless you're willing to accept the blame for the shitty actions other women have done. I hope his woke articles get enough attention from feminists that one of them lets him sit in the corner of the room quietly while they get plowed by someone less self hating.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 06:12 PM
7

All it would take is all the men in trucking to stop working for a week for civilization to really unravel. That's just one field. Even if it required no training and they would be hired on the spot not nearly enough women would step up to keep everything from collapsing. Even if they had half a years notice that it was going to happen not enough women would sign up to prevent their world from falling apart.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 03:21 PM
9

I was a fuckboy for a while (lost interest in my mid 30s). They're not going to be getting less sex. They won't even notice. The type that will go on the "Sex strike" are the type on Tinder that already have "Swipe left if you're looking for hookups/something casual" on their profiles. The women with boring sex lives. The women with a partner that don't really enjoy sex with them and want to use this as their out. The people who like hooking up are still going to be hooking up. The ones who like…
/r/MensRights28/06/22 03:15 PM
20

The lack of any empathy on their part makes me fine with the lack of sympathy on my part. "Why is it that women’s rights have to be put on hold until men’s rights are sorted out?" We're not putting their rights on hold. We're just not willing to try to lift them up just so they can stomp us down. When they're willing to work for equality we might be able to get somewhere. But right now they want to put our rights on hold until women's are sorted out.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 01:25 PM
18

If we were going on purely reproductive rights I wouldn't give a shit about it being overturned. It would be equality in reproductive rights. A majority of women don't give a damn about men's reproductive rights so why should I give a damn when they lose theirs? My reason to be against the ruling is purely because unwanted children are probably not going to live great lives, it would bring more suffering to the country. And my own little selfish part is children who have poor home lives are goin…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:35 PM
2

I could see it going both ways. A bunch of innocent men might be thrown in jail for false rape claims. Or the anti-abortion group will say "Where's the police report?". If she's a month along and didn't file a police report when the "rape" happened, she'll face whatever punishment the anti-abortion group throws at her. They'll care too much about the abortion part to allow women to accuse men days/weeks/months later. Unfortunately This is what I hope will happen. The abortion issue sucks but men…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 11:02 PM
7

If men all vanished these women would fall back on classism. Their core is hate. They'd want the "undesirables" class of women to go to war and never come back.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 04:46 PM
3

That's the kind of men they want to control, but not the kind they're attracted to. Even the weak, docile ones are going to be sent off if they fit in body armor and can carry a gun. Most of the remnants would probably be those too obese or old to go to war. The older group are more likely to be conservative which aren't the friends of feminists.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 02:15 PM
12

All those men go to war, then women are left with a dating pool of all the men who aren't fit to go to war. It would also mean women would have to fill in for physically demanding, less than pleasant jobs that men usually do for current day wages that make it pretty damn tough to survive. I'm sure that group would love it SOOOOOO much. They can't see the actual consequences through their bitterness.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 01:08 PM
1

I dropped 100lbs in a year going low carb. Not because low carb is magic or anything, but it made me look at every single nutrition label or look up nutrition information on everything I ate and always made me think about trade offs. I could eat my dinner on a tortilla, or I could trade that tortilla for an extra oz of cheese with less calories. Forced me to think about everything that went in my gob, that's what made me lose weight.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 11:26 PM
1

I always end up with heavier guys so I guess that's my thing. But every now and then I wished I could spend a weekend hooking up with someone as fit as I am. There's just so many things that aren't possible with a bigger person. My partner is a bigger guy. Only reason I'd like him to lose weight is we're closing in on 40, the health problems from being overweight/obese start to get more real. Already had a few friends have heart attacks.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 05:32 PM
27

But only on women. When it comes to fat guys they don't want to lower their standards to date one.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 05:21 PM
7

It must all be from the zoomers not getting knocked up in high school or something. A vast majority of women 35+ in my area are single mothers of children who are their world.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 02:49 PM
2

This was the first year I didn't see any single-mothers-are-the-best-fathers stuff. I don't really go anywhere on the internet where single mothers tend to post, but I did see some last year and my internet habits haven't really changed.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 01:45 PM
18

I have to cook, clean, and do things that benefits a man. All while he can spend most of his day at work or screwing around on his computer playing games. I'm that man. And I'm able to take care of general life chores in an hour or two a day between work and fucking around. They make it sound so hard/degrading/whatever but it's what single people do for themselves every day. It really ain't as time consuming or difficult as they pretend it is.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 07:37 PM
2

Pay someone to steal any packages off her porch. It won't fix anything but it will be a way to help satisfy some spitefulness. Hit her right in the pettiness.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 03:44 PM
10

Some men have privilege, but a large majority of us are shmucks living/working under them. Very, very few of us will see any of that privilege. But because we're men we're responsible for the men that take advantage of us and have to foot the bills for the women that take advantage of us.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 08:33 PM
3

Only happens to me when my guts are so unhappy I have the screaming shits. Pretty rare but always stupid.
/r/MensRights13/06/22 09:18 PM
9

Many believe that a boner = consent. Because we can definitely always control what our dick is doing. Having an upset stomach so bad it gives me a poop boner is a sure sign that I'm aroused and ready to go. (poop boners are proof that if there is a god, he's a real jerkoff)
/r/MensRights13/06/22 05:14 PM
8

Anyone who thinks I should be punished for issues other people caused, 'specially before I was born is just dumping original sin on us. They can fuck off as much as any other group accusing me of original sin.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 09:21 PM
5

Hillary pushed me over the edge with her "Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat" thing. It's what finally made my wavering trust in the democrats finally collapse.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 02:08 AM
3

It's for this reason that if I see a kid that needs help I'll find a woman to deal with it. Too much male-stranger-danger stuff.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 10:02 PM
6

It shows that sex/virginity/celibacy is important if they're trying to use it as an insult. But ask about a woman's sexual past and it's unimportant and you're an incel just to thinking about it.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 03:43 PM
1

With her estimated net worth of 2.5million and her inability to continue her career because she has proven herself to be an absolutely inept actor on top of an abuser she's looking at a fun time ahead.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 10:25 PM
39

Sister in law did this. When she asked for an "open relationship" my brother wasn't game, so she separated from him. She was IMMEDIATELY sleeping with this tall handsome redneck (He's actually a good guy, hung out with him before this all went down. I like to think he didn't know the details of the marriage situation). My brother asked me what to do, I told him he needed to go the divorce route. "Lucky" for him because she had filed the separation he was able to finalize all divorce paperwork ex…
/r/MensRights31/05/22 12:51 PM
21

They've watered down the word "abuse" so bad I just assume that they mean "neglected" now, and "neglected" means "I didn't get what I wanted all the time". I feel bad for actual abuse victims because without them specifying what happened they're going to be lumped in with the women who got upset that their husband is at work too much and tired when he gets home.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 12:35 PM
18

I always blamed "the spark" or "the tingles" on old coding trying to make me overlook someone's faults to get me to reproduce. That's why they're awful feelings to try to build a relationship from.
/r/MensRights31/05/22 12:32 PM
10

In my area when people are missing fingers we think "snowblower or firework?". Snowblowers like fingers. They'll take them off even when they're not running (stuff stays under tension, people start cleaning out packed snow, tension releases).
/r/MensRights30/05/22 11:33 PM
45

Things will always be tribal. Without men they'll find a new group to blame their problems on. I'd expect some heavy classism (probably going hand in hand with racism) as they figure out who's going to do the dirty/awful jobs.
/r/MensRights30/05/22 06:44 PM
9

I've actually never had a problem with using the women's restroom. I've got really bad GI issues. If the mens is full or out of order for any reason I go right into the women's. I don't usually have the option of waiting and I assume that people would be more okay with me using the women's room than they would be walking around the mess I'd make of myself and the floor if I tried. I keep my eyes on the floor, go straight to a stall, do my business, then head over to the men's to wash my hands. I…
/r/MensRights29/05/22 07:25 PM
40

Very familiar with them. They go out looking for a "safe" ladies night out with their friends. Then as the night goes on they start getting drunker and more upset that they're absolutely invisible to most people there. Seem then get belligerent and handsy enough for bouncers to escort them outside plenty of times. They go out looking to avoid "male gaze" and end up frustrated by male gays.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 07:15 PM
8

If he loses I'm going to be calling all male abusers "imperfect victims" from now on, I hope others do the same and it catches on. If they want a race to the bottom I'm game.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 02:57 PM
4

You want privacy? Throw the damn phone away and cancel your service. I was at a friend's house a few years ago and was talking about a brand of oil that I used to use in my favorite vehicle that I took really good care of. I've never bought or used that brand since because it's more expensive and it's just not worth it in my current car. Didn't search for it. Didn't have any kind of automatic "hello google" stuff turned on. Phone stayed in my pocket. For a few weeks after I was bombarded by ads …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/22 04:11 PM
7

It's always been a bad idea to dip the pen in company ink. Even if things stay good between two people while dating if one of them ends up being promoted to a position of power over the other things get really dangerous again. Saw two people lose their job because one because a department lead, a higher position than his boyfriend, and someone sent corporate screenshots of social media showing they had a relationship. Corporate doesn't fuck around with that. They didn't care one thing about them…
/r/MensRights24/05/22 01:44 PM
27

I'll never understand the extremely out of shape women that are set on getting a guy who's in shape. It's pretty obvious that their lifestyle is not compatible. The guy is putting time into staying in that shape, and will need to continue that while in a relationship. That's a chunk of time most days that he won't be around her. On work days that's really going to cut into the time he can pay attention to her. That's without including his other hobbies which are probably fairly active that she p…
/r/MensRights22/05/22 06:47 PM
28

They set their standards that high but that's not what they get. I compare it to that guy who's broke but is always showing off a computer parts list of stuff he's "going to buy". He hints that it's going to be SOOOOOO much better than your computer, but it never actually materializes. He got fired from his last job because "I was too smart".
/r/MensRights22/05/22 06:19 PM
27

They need to be able to brag about stuff like this so people "know" that it's their choice! It's the same as "You can't fire me, I QUIT!". Or the person who's all "I lost my last job because I was too smart".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/22 06:21 PM
1

I'm pretty sure it shows a profile picture if they have one. Seems like it would be easy to filter passengers based on that.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 06:52 PM
11

People sit in the front seat of an Uber? I didn't even know that was allowed. Sounds super awkward.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 06:49 PM
4

I don't mind it that much. Makes it perfectly fair to say "Not my monkeys, not my circus" when it comes to women's issues. They can't have it both ways.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 07:24 PM
5

I tend to get women Ubers more common in rural to minor suburbia areas. Almost always male in urban areas.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 09:01 PM
8

Because you can't take advantage of men. They don't have feelings. /s
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:41 PM
4

I kinda cheated. Last month I asked my asexual best friend if he wanted to be partners. We've been beasties for 18 years. We've gone on tons of friend-dates and trips together. He's so much a part of my family he's the godfather of my niece. Hell, he's my emergency contact in medical situations. Nobody else could ever know me as well as he does. So we're gonna Ernie and Burt things. Tinder is right there if I ever feel like a sexual encounter but my libido chilled the hell out years ago. Helps t…
/r/MensRights12/05/22 10:53 AM
1

Wait, a homophobe? Is she implying that gay guys can't be masculine? Having trouble following that train of thought at all. If that's what she's hinting at then she's got her head in the sand. Gay guys are just guys. Full stop. We fought for a long time to not be judged or treated differently for who we are. We're not more/less masculine because of who we love. That's pretty homophobic.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 05:51 PM
24

I've got a low sex drive. It usually doesn't bother me. But I've been offered Viagra by a handful of FWB over the last 20 years because they hope that I'll be able to keep up with them if I take it. It always feels bad. First it puts a spotlight on my low libido. Makes it feel like somethings wrong with me. Second, I've never taken anything for my heart/BP before. I had high blood pressure up until recently. I'm not comfortable with putting something that could mess with my heart into my system …
/r/MensRights10/05/22 02:02 PM
9

"According to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP): Problems with the penis (such as irritation) can happen with or without circumcision. There is no difference in health and cleanliness (hygiene) with or without circumcision, as long as a boy can handle cleaning and care." The only reason that circumcised is "more hygienic" is because some parents don't want to clean their kid's dick. That's not a good reason, that's shitty parenting.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 11:29 PM
10

My parents aren't religious at all and they still did it to me. It's a cultural thing now.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 09:43 PM
31

Even those are going to get scarce. I can shamefully admit that I was a fuckboi and she wouldn't even be a consideration. Maybe the first few were chad and tyrone, but she has to have been scraping the bottom of the barrel of guys who no longer give any shits about anything for the last few. I'm guessing substance abuse were a part of those guy's lives to go that low.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/22 02:32 PM
10

How many of us can afford to get our teeth fixed though? I take really good care of mine because I can't afford to not take care of them. Dental bills are brutal. Mine aren't straight but they're healthy.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 08:30 PM
29

I've never thought about being a father so I never had a reason to look it up. But this is my first time ever hearing about it at all. Nothing. Guessing a LOT of guys don't. And I'm sure that's on purpose.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 12:45 PM
9

Women have so much slack they don't need to make better choices. Vicky White busted her boyfriend murderer out of jail. Straight up went for the baddest of the bad boys. Threw away her entire retirement. And people STILL think that it's a "whoopsie" than admit a woman made one of the worst possible decisions. "It could happen to anyone!". "Some in the community said they were shocked by the allegations against Vicky White. “This could happen with the best of the folks,” Lauderdale County Distric…
/r/MensRights06/05/22 05:49 PM
1

I was seeing this girl who seemed pretty cool, but it started to become obvious she had a drinking problem. One night she started punching my shoulder because I wouldn't pay attention to her drunk internet friend drama. I'm 6'4, they didn't physically hurt but someone I like hitting me? That fucking sucked. Dropped her off at her dad's house (still drunk) that night. She acted hurt the whole drive.
/r/MensRights06/05/22 02:43 PM
97

I like my friends too much too play Monopoly with them.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 10:45 PM
9

My brother actually bought his wife's dream house. Beautiful spot on a pond off Lake Ontario. But one at a time her friends got divorced and of course the poison got her as well. Now she lives in her parent's basement again, is going to school for nursing, and can't even be responsible enough to get her kid on the bus in the morning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/22 08:01 PM
4

How about we start with getting a vasectomy covered by the ACA before you threaten everyone with it? Do you want us to get them or not? Guess it flipflops based on situation. Contraceptives, including sterilization, are covered only for women as preventive services by ACA-compliant plans. Since sterilization for men is not considered a preventive service under the Affordable Care Act, federal law does not require plans to cover vasectomies.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 03:54 AM
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I can see things going bad enough where that may not be an option. Go back to your home state and they might try you for murder or whatever. I don't see these cases succeeding, but it's a risk of a HUGE headache for a woman who already has a lot to deal with. More than enough to make those who are overwhelmed give up. If a doctor finds someone is pregnant they have to report it to the state, and if the state doesn't see a kid in 9 months they start fucking with your life.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 01:28 AM
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She tried to baby trap two dudes but they weren't dealing with her bullshittery so they're worthless. I got a pretty cynical view there though. At 40 there are so many women that say that they still want kid, or "maybe". They're all looking to have a "happy accident". Stay away unless you got the big V.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/22 02:26 PM
7

I'll admit I'm selfish here. But I'm pro choice because the fewer unwanted mouths my taxes pay for the better. Unwanted kids arent going to have the best chance at a good upbringing either so we well end up with more 14 year old kids carjacking people and getting away with a slap on the wrist due to their age. And those unwanted daughters will probably get knocked up early as well. There's too many awful parents as it is. Rather not add to that pile. Everyones quality of life decreases with unwa…
/r/MensRights03/05/22 09:32 AM
18

Sometimes I get a bit jealous that they fit places I don't. Showers, couches, beds, vehicles (I can't drive most vehicles with sunroofs because the roof is lowered too much). I feel like the ONLY advantage of my height is in dating, and being able to keep stuff on top of the fridge. Even the "dating" part tends to attract shallower people so on Tinder and such I'm 5'11. The fridge part though has bitten me. I'll come over and put my stuff on top so it's not getting in the way. One day I showed u…
/r/MensRights01/05/22 04:37 PM
12

I'm almost 40 and she definitely looks older than me and most women my age. I'm stumped on if she's really 18, or if she's just so uggofuckingfugly she can look double her age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 06:01 PM
3

Don't cry in front of women... Ever. EVER. It's just ammo they'll use later. If you need to cry there's a bro-shoulder somewhere that will give actual compassion. It was hard to cry in front of my best friend but it brought us so much closer. Now we can talk about ANYTHING. God damnit why are women so hellbent on making me gay?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/22 04:00 PM
3

Nope. I've been able to bring far better back to my vehicle when I lived in Walmart parking lots. She doesnt even cut it as a lot lizard. You can do way better even when homeless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/22 02:33 PM
3

Even Jerry Jeff Walker would have trouble slipping that past the parents. And he loves his women on the trashy side
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/22 12:47 PM
3

I believe most of these people tried to baby trap the daddy. They already got burned, they dont want to wife it too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/22 12:36 PM
11

If they have a good job they can't immediately play the whole" it'd be cheaper for me to stay home than to pay for child care" card. They want that quick transition to stay at home lump
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 09:57 PM
15

I saw this so much in the older generations. Guys working late and laughing about avoiding the "ol ball and chain"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/22 09:04 PM
5

She can't afford weed, doordash and her child on uncle sam's dollar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 07:00 PM
9

They ALWAYS say they work out "sometimes" when they're definitely obese.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 06:20 PM
1

I fully blame my brother's divorce on his wife's friends poison. They fell for the "I can be a cool mom in my 30s, it's my husband that is holding me back!" thing and one by one they fell. Misery loves company so they all act like everything is great when they haven't been able to have a girls night in months because of their schedules with their kids/husbands. Plus now they have nobody to drive them and since girls nights are so rare, none of them want to DD! Sucks cuz I actually liked being DD…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 02:49 PM
4

“all men are potential rapists” I used to be fairly liberal but this is the stage that broke me. I had a few friends fall into the woke stuff during peak cis-white-men-bad. Lost 3 friends over them posting "Men, do better!" stuff. I'd call it out, they'd double down, I'd reply "Okay, I'll get one more scary white man out of your life" and broke all internet contact with them. I'm not taking anyone serious who accuses me of original sin. Would have loved to go out with something like "I can't be …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 02:13 PM
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I always assume there's a child until they confirm otherwise. At 40 any woman with "hope to someday" or "maybe" is a landmine. I assume women not listing their child preferences are hiding something. I won't message anyone who doesn't have "Doesn't have, doesn't want" in their profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 02:04 PM
3

Wow. I'm sure her and her kids are going to be very productive members of society.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 07:30 PM
1

Up on a pretty high horse for a pharmacist. Don't get me wrong, I respect pharmacists and they work their asses off just to be abused by the company they work for. But pharmacy schools take around 85% of the applicants, anyone that can get a 6 figure loan. There's so many pharmacists that they're all fucking each other for jobs. They have so much debt from school they'll take positions that give them the shaft because the company knows they're a bit desperate. Pharmacists are respectable, but th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 02:57 PM
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Or the type that didn't give her every single little thing she wanted so they're "abusive" and she's fighting them in court because they want half custody with their whole house and job thing while she's in section 7 housing. I never believe "abusive" anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 11:31 PM
4

I think I have some first hand experience why. There was a time in my life where everything was perfect. Beautiful house with a 2 car garage in an expensive suburb of a good city. I had a car so new I was the first one in the country to insure one on Geico. I had a work from home job back when they were pretty rare. I was MISERABLE. I had no problems so my brain would make some up just to keep itself occupied or whatever. Ended up an alcoholic because my life was so good as stupid as that sounds…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 07:57 PM
1

Which means she's morbidly obese. All my obese friends think they're overweight. My morbidly obese friends call themselves fat/overweight. 350lb people I know wouldn't call themselves "morbidly obese".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 12:59 PM
1

around 30 who is attractive Pretty true for both genders. If there's a "perfect guy" over 30 then he probably doesn't want a relationship. If he did he would have gotten married by now. But he's getting what he needs without marriage so why bother buying the cow? Or I guess you could assume they were just waiting their entire life for some shitty Hallmark moment. A woman with a hard life finds a man who is bored with how rich, responsible, and sexy he is and he will marry her to stir things up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 01:55 PM
1

I see many of them as playing fantasy football, or as a 14 year old talking about their future car/computer that they have zero money for. It's all about bragging about their imaginary partner to their friends. "MY boyfriend is going to be 6'6, rich, huge dick, rocking body, no baggage". Before I got my license I was going to have a dodge viper with spots to attach solid fuel rockets. One of those stupid "awesome" ideas shared with a bunch of other idiot teenage friends. Or there's always that g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/22 01:49 PM
17

single mom friends This 10000%. My ex-SIL's friends all got divorced in the same 2 year period. I'm pretty sure it started as one that wanted to re-live the 20s they "didn't have" because they were in a stable relationship. When she found out that she's a mid 30s fat single mom and her chances of finding someone to her standards were so slim she started poisoning her friends so they wouldn't be better off than her. Now they're all overweight single mothers that can't re-live their 20s because th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 08:43 PM
4

I consider myself more of the "boy" behavior and I gotta say that women prefer boys. They look at their bills and say they want a stable man blah de blah. But being tall and reckless/irresponsible gets me laid more than the guys who have their shit together. My brother is doing everything right and has a much better personality but all he gets are single moms because he's not as tall or "exciting" as I am. He would provide a MUCH better life to his partner than I would, but I'm the one that gets…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 03:10 PM
10

Gotta get us when we're younger, dumber, and hornier. 10 years ago I still would have fallen in love with my high school sweetheart again even though she has at least two kids from two different fathers. I'd still get some tingles if she tried flirting with me now because my lizard brain is an asshole sometimes, but now I've seen enough of my friends/family get screwed for her to have a chance. Once we have something to lose we're significantly more picky who is in our lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/22 12:46 PM
6

That line cemented that she would be the first DNC candidate that I would not vote for.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 12:53 AM
36

When people are uncomfortable they feel a need to change something. It's meant for us to change so the situation will be less stressful, but it can be kinda sated by just changing ANYTHING. Many people will change hair styles when there's a big life change because it's something they can control when everywhere else they're barely hanging on. These women are uncomfortable with themselves so they have to change SOMETHING. Hair, "gender", "sexuality". They're all desperate grasps to change somethi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 11:36 PM
17

I wonder what she really looks like? Those filters are cranked pretty far up. I'm betting she's a pretty ripe example for instagramreality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 06:09 PM
25

If past sexual history didn't matter then we wouldn't be seeing the word "incel" used constantly. I see "incel" or "virgin" way more than slut/whore. Make men spend their late teenage years upset that they're a virgin and it's hard to tell them that sexual history doesn't matter later in life. Men start being called virgins at a younger age than women start being called sluts/whores. They plant the sexual-history shit in our brain then complain when it grows.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 01:04 PM
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I hate the term but I fit their "free spirit" stuff pretty well and can say exactly why it's a relationship disaster. "Free spirits" are very used to doing things their way, to a fault. They do whatever they want to do, go where they want to go. "Free spirits" tend to be incredibly selfish. Relationships are about compromise. They're straight up incompatible with someone who goes where the wind takes them. If you try to help them mature and behave like adults should they're going to see you as c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 01:01 PM
1

I took care of my body and I don't like kids. I think it's fair that I can ask for the same thing. But not according to the 84% of overweight women and the 86% of mothers my age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 04:51 PM
1

When you are young and dumb, you don't know any better. Yup, I lucked out that my friends got screwed over and I didn't have to go through it myself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/22 04:49 PM
1

Getting attention from women is not that difficult for me. What I don't like is women in my country is that they all treat men like a prey: they aren't genuine, at all. They come up with strategies, anything they do or say is just a strategy and their goal is to lock your finances down, but they will also change their views, their opinions just to please you, and they suffer from FDS, they like to be rude, low class, loud, and even brag about it because "They're strong independent women" This is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 02:24 PM
6

I may as well be gay now that I'm in my late 30s. I'm a 6'4 decent looking in shape guy that's never been married and I have no kids. I earn a decent amount but it's not like I'm hitting six figures any time soon. The thirst I get from guys tends to be more crude and horny. It gets pretty old. But women are far more dangerous. The desperation turns them into "tofu people", people who soak up the flavors of the stuff around them. They love the shows I watch, love my awful taste in music, are inte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 07:57 PM
2

It's why I fuck women and only date men. I don't need someone trying to play games with me like a child after a long day of work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 05:02 PM
6

By 40 women have lost all their advantages. Looks have faded, guys are far less horny and dumb than they were 20 years ago. She has 4 types of guys left to pick from. First there's the guys who don't meet her cut on attractiveness. The guy that's "only" 5'11. Guy losing some of his hair. Second there's the guys who are divorced and are burned pretty bad. Or guys who have seen someone close to them burned bad and dont want to make the same mistake. They're going to keep things perpetually "dating…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 09:16 PM
17

Yup, and it works against them both ways. Guys are pretty comfortable in their ass grooves by 55. Gonna be way harder to "train" him to change his life to include a mooch. They dont get it. They gotta get guys during our "young, dumb, and full of cum" days. When we have our hormones all over the place and fall for the tingles. "The tingles" exist to make us overlook all the bad sides of someone to reproduce. If they wait until guys are in their 30s and our hormones/tingles have calmed the fuck d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 04:59 PM
11

But if you asked them at 25 if they were a better lay than a 45/55 year old they'd laugh in your face. Of COURSE they're better than a 55 year old!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 04:55 PM
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There's plenty of 40s guys that would fuck a 40s woman. It's in my age range. But dating? Hah! Gonna have to be the 5% that isnt overweight or a mother. Now cut out the entitled, the "no shorties" (I wont give them the time of day, I'm 6'4"), and the gold diggers and what do I have left? At best 2% of women my age. I'm pretty decent looking and make alright money but I'm not top-2% material. So with women I'm forced to date younger. Totally fine dating guys my age though. Men are human doings, s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 04:03 PM
27

Pretty ironic since they tend to have totally untrained cats.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 02:27 PM
5

Something she can either do from home, or immediately quit when she gets married because she makes so little money it's the financially wise decision that she stays home with the kids instead of paying for childcare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 06:58 PM
9

I'm sure that it's unfair that the type of guys she wants don't respond to single mothers. They need to "Step up/man up" and settle down with HER. Fat single mother. She's far from the prize she things she is. None of her hobbies really involve her doing anything. I'm betting she travels for the hotels, restaurants and entertainment, not hiking around checking the place out. Travel means she gets to be pampered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 01:27 AM
16

A $25 gift for a friend that I worked 10 hours on got more emotional than anything I've given/done on valentine's day. Friend was crying and hugs. Valentines stuff is "Wow! It's so beautiful!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 10:24 PM
37

As soon as she said that I knew it would be the first time I didn't vote for a democrat president.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 03:16 PM
3

My sister in law did that in her early 30s. Her friends got divorced to live the 20s they never had or whatever. All of them. They all got married to high school sweethearts so they want those girls nights they have before kids, but with access to men! Few months later my SIL does the same. Divorces my brother. But it turns out to be difficult to schedule a girls night around 4 people's custody schedule on a friday/saturday night. They're burned out from having to do all the parenting themselves…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/22 03:09 PM
1

It means as soon as she hooks someone for a wallet she'll quit her job because it's cheaper for her to stay home and watch the kid than it is to pay childcare.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 10:31 PM
13

Second she gets a clog she'll date the plumber. She's a whore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 07:05 PM
28

Not only can I not afford a Ferrari. If someone gave me one and I had to go pick it up from the lot I'd wonder how I'd insure it. And registration is done by value in my state so I doubt I could plates on it! I can't afford for someone to GIVE me a Ferrari!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 06:20 PM
4

If she's not overweight and doesn't have kids she's in the 5% in my age range. That makes her desirable even with her past unless she's REALLY crazy. I'm guessing it's a combination of her either being in worse shape than she was when younger, and her expectations must meet the best quality of every man she has slept with combined with none of their faults. Because she could "settle" if she was non-fat no-kids within a month if she wanted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 05:04 PM
2

I lost a bet with myself. Read the first line and was waiting for when she talked about her kids, meaning "family" = money. My boss has to answer every spam call and wait for someone to yell at. Every one. Even when we're busy with something. It is some of the most annoying cringy shit ever. All it accomplishes is making him mad, me frustrated, and wasting time. It's not going to stop the damn calls. If that's someone's hobby I can tell you from experience it's awful. You don't want to put up wi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 03:31 PM
5

The group of men know she's trying to treat them like her harem. You don't be the dude in the harem that buys flowers. Thats the guy who's going to get called more and laid less. Women said the quiet part out loud too many times.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 03:23 PM
2

In the garage we hit something until it breaks, then back off one hit!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 03:12 PM
38

That really surprised me. I thought that was going to be just the Reddit title. Seeing it on Fox is a small win.
/r/MensRights21/02/22 02:33 PM
13

im 33, and I found out about hi protien, lower carb diet 38 here, same thing just a few months ago! I was normal BMI but switching to low carb made me drop about 8lbs really fast. My best guess is that it was a bunch of water weight because I haven't had any trouble with losing/maintaining weight after the first two weeks. Just a quick drop then I was stable again. It shows around my face really well. No more heartburn. VERY regular GI tract. And I just feel good. Because I feel good I'm happier…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 03:18 PM
10

When I was younger I thought it was hilarious on cougars. Now I'm as old as the cougars and it's not nearly as funny as it used to be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 04:37 AM
9

I was really scrawny until 23 or so and got zero attention before then. I was pretty gangly/lanky. It was a very awkward look. In my late 30s I get all the attention and the only part of it I have control of is my weight. I'm 6'4, all my hair, normal BMI. I'm at the bottom end of the top 10% of attractive guys at my age. My brother is a better person than me in every way. Much better personality, lives in a house on the lake, always in a new car, owns two businesses, and spends time at the gym s…
/r/MensRights17/02/22 05:05 PM
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A bit overused, but this is a pretty good example of how the body positivity movement really feels. https://i.imgur.com/Mn5q5fu.png Men have to lower their "standards". Women are allowed to have "preferences".
/r/MensRights17/02/22 04:47 PM
3

Meh, she's trying to compete with her other bimbo fat fuck friends for how perfect her dream boyfriend will be. That's all this is, a bunch of children saying "my spaceship is going to go infinityfast times infinity plus one!". None of
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 02:08 PM
2

I wonder what my first insurance payment would be on one? And my state does registration based on value. I couldn't afford for someone to give me a Ferrari!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/22 02:07 PM
3

Of course if you start seeing her she'll quit her job to be a stay at home mom because it's the financially responsible choice compared to child care.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 06:05 PM
12

fewer single non mothers available in the dating market Yea, can't fault you. At my age 84% are mothers, 86% are fat. Maybe 5% are neither.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 03:45 PM
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Sad that she let her personality hit The Wall before her looks did. Her desperation alone will get her post-wall treatment. Once a woman is that desperate she can be passed around just hoping that someone will throw her scraps, not just a bone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 03:24 PM
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An entitled old hag playing fantasy football with men. She's bragging about how "HER MAN WILL HAVE, he'll be better than yours!". Just like the people who show you a huge list of computer parts they can't afford to try to make you jealous of "MY COMPUTER WILL HAVE, and it will be more powerful than yours!". Or someone with a shit car that swears they're going to do an LS swap or something, "MY CAR WILL BE SO FAST, faster than yours!". There's a better chance of someone giving my old methhead fri…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 01:58 PM
21

The wall hasn't hit her looks, but it has already hit her personality. She's gone into desperate post-wall mode. Desperation is obvious and a turn off. That's enough for her to lose access to the men she desires years earlier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 04:44 AM
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It's one thing to deny the past. "I'm a different person now". But she's denying the present. Her brain is not in this world. Pure fantasy. I'm pretty sure that makes her the definition of insane, and this crazy bitch is having a kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/22 06:51 PM
1

Hah! I'm even guilty of that! 30 minutes ago I bought plane tickets for my first vacation in 3 years and sex is going to be a big part of it. But I'm not going to have a stable relationship. I just don't seem capable of it. I wouldn't be doing this if I wanted to "settle down" and have a family. This is not how a responsible father/partner would be acting at 40. I decided to keep my party years going longer than I should and I can accept the consequences. Dating a player is almost as bad as dati…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/22 01:14 AM
21

“It costs more to be female!” Maybe they shouldn't be spending so much on being female? Maybe they could chill on the disposable clothing cycle to help with the microplastic situation? https://www.inc.com/amy-nelson/women-drive-majority-of-consumer-purchasing-its-time-to-meet-their-needs.html
/r/MensRights14/02/22 07:42 PM
2

My black friend He's not alone at all either. Black men are the least likely to be interested in someone their own race. Black women are also the most desperate, desperation doesn't lead to the greatest choices. That's statistics, not my opinion. https://i.imgur.com/wtAtuSI.png https://i.imgur.com/IGeMozu.png https://i.imgur.com/A8ZERBj.png
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/22 08:23 PM
3

The amount of "Doesn't drink"s with the interest of "wine" makes me a bit suspicious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 10:24 PM
8

I'd be an absolute catch for her. I'd love to go over, flirt with the boyfriend, give her $20 to "go see a movie", then just hang out and watch TV with the guy for an hour. I got no issue with weaponizing my good lookin' gayness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 04:11 PM
9

VR sex toy stuff is coming along pretty well! There's glans vibrators, pocket pussies, cock rings and all sorts of bluetooth stuff you can hook up to an avatar now. It aint sex but it's still sure as hell fun! Should be pretty hilarious to see panties get bunched for people having sex with VR versions of hot women rather than real life Ms. Fatty McSinglemom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 04:01 PM
72

I got it all through high school. I was the only one in my nerdy friends group that was still a virgin. Got people making "he can only love his hand" jokes often enough. It did make me kinda bitter. I was a REALLY late bloomer. I didn't stop having the awkward lanky teenager look until 22 or so. Cracky voice and everything. I've replied on other posts whining about "slut shaming" that guys shouldn't be so obsessed with virginity. Even mentioning that maybe this is a two way thing gets all the do…
/r/MensRights12/02/22 03:41 PM
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She's part of the 5% that aren't overweight or mothers in her 40s. Good for her on that. But you have to be pretty cynical about why someone is still single at that age (I'm not excluding myself from this). Was she the type that went the "Free spirit" route? I can actually respect that. But settling down with an old "free spirit" is a recipe for disaster. They will miss their absolute freedom. They're used to doing things their way. A relationship requires a lot of compromise and life changes so…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:05 PM
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I guess it has to be me. I can't take the second option. My mom's tits are like pirate treasure. Sunken chest. We were formula babies.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 08:22 PM
21

In her age bracket she's doing pretty good. I'm almost 40. 86% of women have kids, 84% are overweight/obese. There's maybe 5% that are neither, she is one of them. Even at 40 it's 10% of men after 5% of women and I'm near the bottom of that 10% But when someone warns you about themselves you LISTEN. There is no "She'll feel safe with me and the crazies will chill". There is no fixing her. I'm saying this because 25 year old me would have those white knight bullshit feelings for a "damsel in dist…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 02:07 PM
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Yeesh. I'd look them right in the eyes and say "If I have a child I'll neglect and beat it, just like my father did". Worst case they kick me out. I'm not mentally stable. I would be an AWFUL parent.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 03:00 PM
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"Contraceptives, including sterilization, are covered only for women as preventive services by ACA-compliant plans. Since sterilization for men is not considered a preventive service under the Affordable Care Act, federal law does not require plans to cover vasectomies."
/r/MensRights10/02/22 02:57 PM
21

Nah, for Chad Pumpanddump she won't collect on the child support because then he'll totally cut her out of his life. As long as he strings her along she'll raise her kid in absolute poverty just for the slightest hope of him throwing her a bone of attention. I've seen this too many fucking times and it's disgusting. People I know grew up in absolute poverty with their father owing $100,000+ in child support by the end that the mother didn't even attempt to collect on. It's pathetic. They don't e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 01:43 AM
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not worry about the biological clock. It's not like we die earlier or anything. Our chance of passing away before see our kids graduate college or get married increases above 40. That sounds like one hell of a biological clock to me. Stupid narcissistic cunt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 01:09 AM
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I'm bisexual and used to be pretty active in LGBT groups, most of my friends are bi or gay. It's really sad to see this happen to my friends, to my uncle. They're good people. They're the type that made up for being smaller by being total sweethearts. But they lacked the confidence to do well romantically. Now they're in their 30s and have never been close to marriage. Foreveralone wears people down. I want to say I'd be there for them if they changed their mind, but I always drift away from the…
/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:24 PM
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Most of the trans people I know were less than traditionally attractive guys. From the people I know it was all guys under average height. Some of them very "mousy". None of them have had good luck in relationships, most have low self esteem. The T cult preys on people like this. They're greeted with acceptance and excitement/pressure that the reason that their lives aren't going the way they should is because they're actually a woman. Once they transition things will be easier! Then they start …
/r/MensRights09/02/22 02:57 PM
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I'd be insecure around her. Crazy cunt that has slept with prisoners? (You know it's more than one). What happens when she decides to hook up with one of those bad boys while I'm out? And if someone is going to make demands that only guys with cosmetic surgery on their genitals, she'd better have a damn hymen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 02:22 PM
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86% of women my age have had a kid. Only (HAH) 84% are overweight. Having a kid makes you more of a basic bitch than being fat, and that's saying something. These women don't want to hear they have the qualifications of a squirrel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 01:56 AM
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Nonono, it's all MENS fault. Those pervs GAVE her the tingles to trick her into having sex with them!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 01:51 AM
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I had someone tell me one of their fetishes was "implied consent". NOPENOPENOPENOPENopenopenopenopenope........... Yea, the idea of just sticking it in if I wake up horny in the middle of the night is fun but if I catch them in the wrong mood they'd hate me forever and I'd have a good chance of legal trouble. I'm not letting my dick get me in that level of trouble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 09:17 PM
3

I somehow ended up with a snuggie. Not sure where it came from. It made a FANTASTIC shitting robe when I needed to use the restroom in the middle of the night when the heat was turned down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 07:40 PM
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She's 19 and already nobody wants to play games with her anymore. But you KNOW if she gets married now she'll want to ditch all her responsibilities soon enough to live the early 20s she "never had". And she'll blame her husband for it. Not herself for squatting out some screamers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 05:39 PM
3

She's speedrunning the usual 35-fat-born-again that I've run into! Usually its the last resort to rope in a man. She's already burning through her last resorts before 20?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 05:36 PM
9

I say my own name because saying the wrong name would be dangerous in that situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 05:33 PM
8

My parents were both alcoholics for my entire childhood. In my teens though there were some financial stresses as our business had been burned down because the woman in the building next to us (shared wall, old block) arsoned herself for the insurance money. That's when they became RAGING alcoholics. They fought all the time. YElling matches, cranking the stereo so they couldn't hear each other yell (but we all still could). My dad hit me a few times during this period. It got so bad that we had…
/r/MensRights08/02/22 05:04 PM
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The religious part of my family would poo-poo on anything they considered non-christian but 3/3 of the daughters had squatted out a screamer before they graduated. I can't even name who the husband/man of the house, not sure if there was one. A single mother raised 3 single mothers and they all still think they're more godly than us. Lucky for me they made some accusations that my uncle was gay and sent out a bunch of "homosexuality is sin" bullshit. My dad has a very close relationship with his…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 06:19 AM
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The male equivalent of the 6666 is "No fats, cats, brats, or tats" but we're not allowed to say it out loud. (I like cats but many women don't think they need to put ANY effort into training them, I don't want to be around a woman's cat)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:51 PM
1

It's someone who doesn't have as nice of things as she does. Yea, all her stuff is on a payment plan/lease/renting or whatever. But if she has an iPhone 17 that she's made one payment on then you'd better have one too. If she's leasing a car that she can't afford, yours still needs to be nicer even if you own yours outright.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:43 PM
2

If she hasn't blocked me when I reinstall it I'll try to remember to screenshot
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 09:05 PM
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My younger brother is ripped, rich, and a total sweetheart. But he's around average height and has a daughter. He has zero luck. I'm a runner and in good shape but far from ripped. I have a slightly above average income but nothing to get excited about. The big reason I have money is I live my life basically homeless. And I'm an ass. Most of the good parts of me have long since turned bitter through my decade and a half dance with alcoholism. But I'm tall and have no kids so I get far more and b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 08:19 PM
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I wish it didn't have to be this way. But it do. I want to think that I'm just a misogynic bitter asshole and I'm wrong about how broken the dating/relationship world is nowadays, but I look across my friends and only one couple is in what I'd consider a happy relationship. The rest are all split/divorced or stuck with a fat girl in an "open relationship" where she sleeps around but he can't find anyone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:24 PM
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I assume anyone who is a king/queen is totally insufferable and thinks way, way too highly of themselves. Queens are always the most basic of bitches.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:13 PM
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I fish off both sides. Women's profiles are worse and way better to laugh at. Guys are more aggressive though and harder to deal with in chat. It can be 11pm on a work night and they won't see the reason why I can't hook up right this second. Every "no" is followed by another try. There's no chill for waiting for tomorrow/later this week. I get it from women too but not as frequently. A month ago we had a blizzard. I was chatting with a woman and she asked if we could meet up. I told her nah, I'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:08 PM
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I used to listen to christian radio on my way to/from work sometimes for that reason. A third was stuff that I agreed, a third was "I can see it from your point of view.. I don't agree with it but I don't really care", and a third was hard "no, that's not how this works at all!". The music was wayyyy more hit and miss.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 04:03 PM
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I'm not looking at the moment, gonna put "I swipe left on filters" in my profile. I'm 6'4, decent looking, no kids, never married, and almost 40. Just a little poke that men are sick of their shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 04:52 AM
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She learned how much love she has to give. But unfortunately that love is only for herself and her child, she's not wasting any of it on YOU.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 09:12 PM
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Because guys are SUPER attracted to women who have given up and are saying up front they will not be improving themselves. Because that personality trait surely only applies to one part of their life, no way it could be a running theme!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 03:58 PM
41

Juggling takes talent. At 6'4 they'll come to you for a quick lay at the back of a Walmart parking lot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 03:09 PM
11

This sub confirmed that I'm right for fucking women but dating men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:54 PM
12

Has a woman's astrological sign ever influenced your perception of a woman Absolutely! If they mention their sign I know to stay the fuck away!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 08:53 PM
14

You did not want me in your prime, I don't want you in your decline. This is the part they totally gloss over. Trying to play it off as "saving the best for last" is insulting. I'm pretty sure it's more for them anyways. They didn't "settle". They're still holding their super high standards. They finally paired up with the "Best" guy. But not even they believe it and then the divorce rape comes when they see what "they could have".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 05:41 PM
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My sexual preferences can be as shallow, racist, ableist, ageist, sexist, hair color-ist, no weird eyebrows-ist, no second toe bigger than the first toe-ist as I want to be. When it comes to touching me I can tell someone no for ANY reason and it's 100% okay. Only predators that don't meet my preferences will argue against it. My body my choice.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 02:28 PM
7

Chinese men have become 3.5" taller on average in the last 35 years. There's more tall people around. I bet they're suffering from the "NO SHORTIES!" bullshit we are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 06:15 PM
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You have to look at it from their narrow point of view. They make shit money. They can't attract the kind of man they want. It's CERTAINLY not her fault that she's poor and unattractive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 06:12 PM
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"Don't lie to me" "Don't hide shit from me" "Don't play games" "Do be honest" She sucks in her face, tries to un-fat herself by stretching her neck out with her chin up, puts herself through filters. She wants someone else's solid foundation of values to put her shitty beach tent on top of. Full time job? I'd like to hear more. I'm guessing it makes less than childcare costs so it would be the financially responsible thing for her to stay home with her kid and uber eats and bong all day (which e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 05:40 PM
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Glad I'm not the only one that tried to wipe that spot off my screen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:10 PM
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I'm listening
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 04:50 AM
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Exactly. You're already going to be the "abusive controlling boyfriend" because you were upset that she's selling nudes. Don't add more words to her pity party.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 10:34 PM
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We gotta take it for our hairline, but we can't give it for their waistline.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:04 PM
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In my age range 84% of women are overweight/obese and 86% are mothers. They're proud to be big and beautiful and a single parent. A lot of guys are only interested in that maybe 5% that are neither. It comes back to haunt them at 40 pretty bad.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:02 PM
1

It's usually a pretty safe bet to not advertise any kind of drugs on your body. Partaking is fine but they're never something to be proud of. I've seen WAY too many people (including myself) have to get sober in their 30s. "LOL Alcohol!" stuff is setting yourself up for trouble if you're still wearing it after college.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 04:18 PM
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Yes I know I have only $50k of debt to offer in exchange
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 04:10 PM
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I'd probably be considered a player/manwhore. I definitely don't place in Chad territory but my height lets me play the game pretty well. I'm definitely not proud of it and I do think it pretty much blew my chance of having a LTR. I'm in it for the rush of the fling. Once that burns out I'm just not interested anymore. I go back to liking money, my personal space, and quiet when it fades. It's pure selfishness and it has definitely damaged me. Worst part is I could see it coming a long ways away…
/r/MensRights31/01/22 02:53 PM
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It could be a good choice, but the chances of me going about it stupider are higher with the tingles. They don't have any chill if they run loose. They have to be enjoyed responsibly.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 02:30 PM
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Definitely. My dating pool is 84% overweight/obese, 86% have had a kid. I'd put it below 5% that escaped both. A fat single mother really is the average woman nowadays. This type is why I'm "only" an above average 5'11 on my profiles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 02:28 PM
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The physical relationship is just as important as the mental part. Shut down one of them and the other is bearing more of the load. If both sides of the relationship are okay with it, things are fine. If people just want to be fuckbuddies they'll be good. If they are both okay without intimacy, that's fine. But if people aren't on the same page about things someone is getting hurt.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 02:07 PM
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Kinda sounds like a weird version of monkey branching.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:57 PM
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I feel like nature just does what it needs to “trick” us into finding a mate and reproducing. That's the tingles/butterflies/whatever. When I get them I know to be super wary because there's a good chance they're pressuring me to do something dumb. Tingles are a blast of hormones so our brains can make us forget their imperfections long enough to mate. They exist to make us stupid! That's why it's so cringey that women chase the tingles. Those are not pushing us to make good decisions in any way…
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:49 PM
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Best advice I have is don't disclose your height or income. I'm 5'11 and make under 50k on my tinder profile. You'll avoid the most shallow types with those numbers. It's still above average height and above average income so you're getting rid of people who won't settle for "above average". Be up front about your thoughts on kids. If you don't want any I really recommend getting the snip because you are a prime target for baby trapping. HUGE target on your back. And watch out for that rebound. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 11:13 PM
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Even if there were laws against it I'd make sure it would be posted everywhere. It's worth the risk. Make sure her job gets it, her family on facebook. If I'm going down I'm going for collateral damage! "A person who violates the federal Wiretap Act faces a possible sentence of up to five years in prison, a fine of $500, or both."
/r/MensRights30/01/22 04:09 PM
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Lady, I'm a 6'4 in shape guy that makes above average money and has all his teeth and hair. You are fuck material, not gonna deny that. No kids, overweight but not obese. Tits. Whore hair. But you're at the bottom of the fuck barrel. That's a personality that I'd need to leave my bedroom before my post nut clarity sets in. Finer things in life? HAH! Your "You give me nice things and I tolerate you until I find someone better" is damn transparent. You're trying to play the game while jumping arou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 03:14 PM
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All I can think about after reading this is the scene in Fear and Loathing where he opens up the cocaine while on the highway. "Did you see what GAWWWD just did to us man?" God didn't do that, you did it! You're a fucking whore, I knew it! The worst part is this will feed the "men are trash" fire rather than than show that women have awful taste in men. If everywhere you go smells like shit, check your shoe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/22 02:42 AM
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I knew my brother was dating a single mother but it seemed to be a decent symbiotic relationship because their work schedules meant there was almost always someone available for the kids (They each have a daughter). I was "Ehhhhh" right from the start just because I know my brother is a prime target for the people scrambling to "settle down". He already lost half his stuff to a divorce earlier this year, he's on the rebound. He's on the shorter size so even though he's absolutely ripped he gets …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 10:11 PM
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I feel exactly the same. I feel like being single for so long as made me pretty selfish because I can do whatever I want. I don't think I could handle someone spending my money or telling me I couldn't spend it on something I want and that's going to come up in any LTR at some point. I don't think I'd be a very receptive team player/payer anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 05:18 PM
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I actually know just one lesbian couple that are in a healthy relationship of all my years in LGBT. It's a VERY masculine/feminine relationship. One would absolutely be dragged into the T crowd if she was 10 years younger but she's a proud butch ex-military woman. They're also the longest married of any LGBT couple I know. Nearly all of my gay friends have practiced their new rights to marry AND divorce! They are most definitely the exception though. They both have good income. They live in a re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 05:10 PM
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I can't figure it out either. The circle looks like it's a cutout from the larger picture of a guy from the top. But it doesn't read like a guy at all. It doesn't even read like it's a shitpost/spoof profile. It doesn't go after any of the standard keypoints. Wanting a virgin and a nice voiceis more of a guy thing but the whole "be smart but dumb" thing is a woman thing. Same with the "talk nice to me, humiliate others". My homometer is going off a little bit in their direction but not hard enou…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 02:47 PM
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They all end focusing their attention on the few select men at the top. Formerly the 80/20, but now more likely to be the 90/10. 44% of women my age are OBESE. 86% have children. That means there's less than 10% of women who are datable. And they all still think they deserve someone who takes care of themselves and has their shit together. At 40 the ratio is 10/90 and they're PISSED that the roles reverse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 03:17 AM
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Reasons why women above 30 aren't finding men their age: Their beauty and fertility are well on their way out. Guys that old have all been either been burned by, or had someone close to them burned by women. They started saying the quiet part loud with beta bux. It's no longer subtle at all. Their standards are still WAY too high. Most guys don't want to be old dads. Having your kid graduate college when you're 60 isn't all that appealing. Guys have established themselves alone. They've had thei…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 01:21 AM
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It's always the women saying so when are you getting married I never realized that until just now. I've never had any guys in my family ask about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:50 AM
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Don't call it punishment. That implies you're using negative reinforcement of some sort. You aren't giving them a reward after they misbehaved. You're not giving a kid ice cream after they were bad. It feels so much better to know that doing absolutely nothing is what's driving them crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:34 AM
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They don't have to take her out on expensive dinners, shower with fake praises and gifts etc 100%. I've never paid for any of that. Never even been on a date and I'm 37. I'm far from rich. I'm not in shape. I half ass cut my own hair. I'm lanky and pretty goofy looking. I've been a raging alcoholic the last 15 years (sober since May!). I don't even live in a structure most of the time! But I'm 6'4 and keep my BMI in check. I've only hit on people a few times ever. I'm too much of an awkward wuss…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:31 AM
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It's our body releasing a whole bunch of chemicals into us so we'll ignore the flaws in someone to reproduce. It's our lizard brain's way to try to override rational thought/choices with "this person makes me so happy RIGHT NOW!". It's how you feel 45 seconds before the post nut clarity hits ya.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:14 AM
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They turned relationships into Calvinball and wonder why nobody will play with them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:09 AM
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So they went through their whole lives picking and choosing men. But now that men want to make sure their a good fit they don't have time for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 12:05 AM
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I'm pretty sure this is a defense mechanism for women. The more women they cause to crash and burn the better their own chances are. But now with the internet there are unlimited other women to burn. They can't make the whole village look worse than them anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:39 PM
21

They want to be able to show off their skills in dildonics. But they don't want the type of guy who still wants them after they've shown their pussy to the world. There's still PLENTY of dudes who want a chance with her. But somehow she thinks she's too good for them. Like someone making cat food then thinking it's too good for a cat. But she wanted a stallion! Why isn't her cat food working?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:36 PM
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It's the fastest way to find Chads with the least amount of work. It's almost like the rewards of something match the amount of effort you put in. Anything too good to be true probably is! But they see a 38 year old 6'4 Chad in good shape with money on a hookup app and think "My dream man!" rather than thinking about how someone with all that going for him probably doesn't want a relationship if he doesn't have one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:26 PM
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He may have been into her at first, but looking down at a cum-haired slut with post nut clarity can't be the best feeling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:16 PM
15

Only if you put "no hookups" in your profile. He's supposed to respect that no matter how much she wants to bang him! She's no hussy!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/22 02:09 PM
13

Why was he even cancelled in the first place? Because otherwise it might look like a popular woman did something wrong? She doesn't deserve to have her life ruined over cutting a measly finger off! I bet it wasn't even in his top 8 favorite fingers! Did you ever stop to think how AMBER feels?!
/r/MensRights26/01/22 02:28 PM
13

The one that sticks out most to be was the mother of 7 on tinder. She doesn't have enough time to raise 7 kids, how the fuck did she think she was going to find any man? And with her giant list of demands!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 01:52 PM
20

Wow. Speedrunning those bad decisions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 01:51 PM
33

She's looking for the kind of guy who walks around grabbing his junk all the time. Scrawny, Goatee, Papa Roach shirt, loose jeans, a past stint with meth and the ball grab. He too always flips off the camera because it's been funny since he was 14, which was 23 years ago. Thats the type that knocked up all the finger-flipping tounge-out girls from my age group in my area.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 01:46 PM
5

Gifts for my kitchen are the same as clothes to me. I might use them sometimes but for the most part I'll use the stuff more my style that I'm used to. But I'm totally a basic bitch dude when it comes to tools. ANOTHER screwdriver set? Cool! Another hammer? I want to say that it's a waste and I don't need yet another hammer but then I'd get called out when I got caught using it. Because I would. An iron is mostly a single use device. I guess you can press leaves and stuff in wax paper. I think t…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 06:59 PM
20

She looks like she could be my 50 year old aunt and I'm 4 years older than her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 06:39 PM
28

It's a pretty good rule of thumb to not get any drugs tattooed on your body (seen too many people with alcohol related ones). A bit of a red flag if a mind altering substance is important enough to you to have it drawn on your body.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 06:37 PM
3

Honestly with how many people he has fucked I'd be interested. He must be doing something right. Sounds like a fun little fling if you're not looking for anything serious. Plus hopefully I could pick up some more tricks myself!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 04:31 PM
5

This is your 6'4" That's the key. I'm broke. I live on the road, so kinda homeless. I don't shower enough. But I'm 6'4 and in alright shape. Plus I think a lot of people have some sort of dirty/gross fetish about fucking in the back of a Walmart parking lot. The anonymous sex factor comes into play. It's not tough at all to get laid. I have way more luck with women than my brother who owns two very profitable businesses and has a paid off big house on the lake. He's a bit below average height bu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 02:49 PM
2

All that bullshit and you know most of them would still jump right back in bed with him if he said "You're not like those other women, you're different!". They still want him. This is all just a cunt quest because they can't have him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 02:38 PM
19

Hah! You ain't fooling nobody. Anyone with a car is afraid for their suspension. Aint nobody letting you grease up and beat up their nice ride.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 08:04 AM
28

My wallet my choice.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 03:39 PM
57

“Feminism may be part of the reason for climate change” https://www.inc.com/amy-nelson/women-drive-majority-of-consumer-purchasing-its-time-to-meet-their-needs.html Women do a majority of the purchasing. They should be buying more environmentally friendly products. Women also buy the most clothing which ends up contributing to our microplastic.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 03:38 PM
5

It's so when she hooks up the first time meeting someone it's their fault. They shouldn't have been sexualizing her. Damn male gaze pressured her into riding all that dick.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 06:52 AM
1

She's going about it in a really disrespectful bitch way. No doubt there. She's a horrible person and will probably end up with some loser who doesn't care how absolutely skeezy the situation is. It's going to happen the moment I'm dead anyways, I may as well give it a shot for my kids even if I saw this garbage unfolding. They're what matter most, my feelings come second to that. I've had to practice that with my niece through her family drama. No matter how I feel about the situation she's the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 07:59 PM
1

One of the saddest parts is that the husband could be wanting her to do this. Lets say that I was on my deathbed due to cancer. Less than half a year to live and my quality of life is going to be pretty bad. I'm racking up a ton of medical bills, I don't have enough life insurance to pay for much beyond my funeral. It would fucking suck to see her with another guy, but at least I'm still alive to hopefully vet them a bit to hopefully give my twins a better life after I pass. I'd use it to my adv…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 05:23 PM
9

He could tell them that he's going to ghost them and 50% would probably still bang him. I'm an average looking guy that would be a nobody if I was 8 inches shorter. I was harassed by a woman last week who was getting aggressive when I was passive about wanting to meet up. My driveway was under 2 feet of snow, my car was 150 feet back in the driveway. Plus my roommate was recovering from COVID so I was quarantined too! Her response to the snow was "I have a truck". So far she only knows my height…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 03:36 PM
18

One of the most retarded lines that can leave someone's mouth are "and I decided to keep it". It's always someone who is going to get government benefits, never someone that has to worry about their own finances. It also usually implies that the baby daddy didn't want it but she went through anyways because "my body my choice". It ruins lives. Her life because now she'll never amount to anything but a welfare baby factory who ends up in extreme poverty once those government checks run out. The b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 11:13 PM
24

It's like their single mother parent never made them pick up their toys. They're just waiting for some adult to swoop in, pick things up for them, and make them dinner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 11:07 PM
37

Seriously. There's so many VR compatible sex toys now. You can stick your virtual dick in someone and their vibrator will go off on the other side of the world. There's even vibrating dick rings and even some fleshlight like toys compatible with it, though those are still in their infancy! Women will see this as a threat. Guys having pregnancy free sexual relations with a constant easy to access stream of horny people? With an initial cost of $800 or so? (Basic setup I have, a current consumer g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 10:28 PM
7

Is she powering up or something? Her single mother thot abilities are over 9000?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 06:57 PM
22

I feel a little dirty about it but I've found it's best to vet them with alcohol. Wait for a night when they're drinking. Stay totally sober. Encourage a few more drinks than they usually have. See what happens. That's how I get "tofu people" to show who they really are. Tofu people are the ones that seem to like absolutely everything you do. Same shows, same music, same hobbies. If it's too good to be true it is, they're flavorless and trying to use your sauce. But they always expose themselves…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 09:42 PM
3

I'm almost 40. I occasionally get people under 25 messaging me. Sorry if I'm hurting the chances for guys who are into it, but I always tell them to stay the fuck away from people like me. Older guys usually do not have the best interests in mind when talking to college kids. BUT THEN THEY KEEP TALKING TO ME! I don't get it! Do they think they're special and it "won't happen to them"? I hope they don't think I'm special/different because I'm "trying to protect them". First, I'd pump and dump jus…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 09:20 PM
29

I wish she was even going for that angle. That one has an almost zero chance of working, but it's a shitty attempt. Instead she just lists all the reasons why he wouldn't marry her. She has no counter arguments. Not even a fake "I'd try to offend him less" passive aggressive stuff. She's straight out saying "Yea, I'm a disaster and I'm not doing anything about it. But he should have married me anyways". That outlook is more disgusting than most WAATGM posts. Most are women thinking they're way b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 07:20 PM
52

Gets upset that husband calls her a drama queen in the middle of a post where she's being a huge drama queen. It must hurt to be that stupid/oblivious. If she had even a moment of clairity she might look at this as places she could improve herself. But instead she doubles down on it all with "He should have married me" rather than "I probably could have been a better mother/partner". Now she's going to spend the rest of her life alone. Her kids already avoid talking to her more than they have to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 06:25 PM
4

If I had to make a name for the filter she used I'd go with "Renaissance Painting". If you need that many filters you're better off just stealing someone else's picture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/22 02:05 PM
15

She blew the dam out of her dating reservoir and is now looking at what she has left. And of course she partially blames her children for it. They're going to get a stink face any time they have to think about their children in terms of finding a partner. She knows she DESERVES what she had at the high water mark but cant have it because of kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 02:52 PM
4

Sounds straight from FDS. She'll throw around "I HATE MEN" and wonder why men don't throw themselves at her. Another wine and cats old maid.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 03:54 PM
12

One of the more recent posts the woman listed the times it would be okay with her partner crying. Death was one of the few "allowable" items. Imagine if we gave them an allowable list to cry about? Hilarious! "Don't cry about this list" cry
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 08:35 PM
2

I feel like the weather forecasters are in on it. They say 8-11", we get 4", and everyone's all "Wowww, there's SO MUCH SNOW! LOOK HOW DEEEEEEEEP" What % of women have used a measuring tape in the last 5 years? They won't know. Guys will. Good bro weatherman keeping women thinking we're bigger than we are!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 07:51 PM
12

A fleshlight bottoms out at 9.5". Most women are not taking that without some cervix impact which is supposedly pretty uncomfortable (and sketchy if there's an IUD). Most women ain't 9.5" deep and they certainly aren't deepthroating anywhere near that much. If someone is asking for a 10" they're either a size queen that's been cramming huge stuff up their flap for a while, or they're so fat that you lose a few inches just trying to get the entrance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:16 PM
15

It's definitely a competition now. Like the wokists trying to get their woke points women seem to be collecting abuse points to one up each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:10 PM
19

It sucks that it has come to this, but unless I know them personally and have witnessed something "abuse" means nothing to me without a police report. Unfortunately "abuse" and "violence" have been watered down so bad by other women that it's turned into a boy who cries wolf situation. I've seen too many instances where someone won't go after the "Abusive ex" for child support because she still wants him in "her child's" life. The total submissiveness to badboy dick is too damn obvious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 03:08 PM
17

is that some adapt, and become less "nice". Feels more like I just had to adjust it. You can still be a decent, nice guy. But you can't let them see all your cards. Ever. When I was younger I thought it was good to lay it all out on the table to try to find the perfect partner. Seems pretty logical. I want to see something before I buy it, of course I want to see the ins and outs of something before a life long commitment. But does that make a good cheesy romance novel? Nope. Gotta keep a story …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/22 02:28 PM
22

If someone describes themselves as a strong person I'm going to take that as "I'm an abrasive person who is okay with pissing off people around me, that's YOUR problem". There's plenty of strong people out there. They don't have to say they're strong people though.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 05:52 PM
1

I know we've beaten this question to death, but what does she offer? What does she bring to the table? "About me" lists nothing about her. Sounds like nothing but a fat mouth that makes people bail within 5 minutes because they can't stand the superficial dribble that spews from it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 03:35 PM
6

She's totally going to beat the odds and not end up part of the 70% of black single parents.!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 01:51 PM
8

She's a kid with a kid. That's what keeps bothering me. She LOOKS like a kid! I'd expect someone with that hair/clothes/braces combination to be 15
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 01:47 PM
56

"open relationship" Every time I've seen this happen it was an "open relationship or divorce" situation. It was a way for the woman to test out their new monkey branch sexually before she bails. Now she didn't technically cheat. She just blackmailed her partner, holding his entire life ransom if he doesn't say yes to her sleeping with someone else. TOTALLY better than cheating! Now she can slip off with a clean conscience. Seen it happen 3 times now. Only one ran away with her ex. One still had …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 11:47 PM
4

Pilots are a prize even if they aren't rich. It's a title women can throw around to other women to make herself look more successful. "I'm dating a PILOT!". I work IT and make pretty good money, but I'd definitely swoon harder for a pilot than an IT guy. Probably because I always see them dressed way nicer than I am!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 06:02 PM
17

We don't wonder. We can tell the cars obese people drive long before they're on the lift. And yea, one side suspension failure is normal on the big ones. Almost always driver side though. It happened the worst on the pre-2000 crown vics. Fatties LOVED those cars. They'd hold so many fast food wrappers before they were tits-deep in garbage! My guess on how the fatties got them is that a grandparent died, nobody wanted a gigantic old fuel hungry car that kinda sucked in the snow unless you put goo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 02:49 PM
44

She's not hiding it. The guy ain't dumb, he's just going along with her "personal assistant" story for his own benefit. He's playing his cards perfect to get a prostitute for way cheaper than usual. As long as he's smart enough to stay away from the baby trap a pilot can string women along forever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 08:45 PM
14

You know what they remind me of? That obnoxious fuck that is constantly "building their new PC" and rubbing the specs of parts that they can't even afford in your face saying that it's gonna be faster than yours. Or the "car person" who doesn't know how to work on a car, but has a big list of parts they want (and can't afford). They talk about how much faster their car is than yours... when they finally buy all the stuff they're just fantasizing about. They put an expensive air filter in their D…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 01:58 PM
5

Uhg. Almost every overweight person I know thinks they're the exception to BMI.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/22 06:01 AM
27

I dont think there's any way online dating could be a good thing for society. Rather than a woman choosing between men she has access to, she sees guys from all walks of life that she would never participate in, but she wants them anyways because they're tall and hot and she can see them now. And for guys like me who aren't very social it gives me access to women I never would have in the 90s. Full access. And that's not good for me because I've totally lost any urge for a relationship. Relation…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 03:50 PM
19

But it's fine for women to have hidden money, just in case they need to leave their husbands of course!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 03:42 PM
9

It's because they think of themselves as status symbols. Like jewelry. We should be THRILLED to have women like that because they're sure they will make us seem even better in comparison. They're always comparing their man against others, they expect us to do the same. And when we compare them against all the other generic single mom THOTS that are just like them, we'll see how much better our lives are! We pay for dinner, drive them, pick out the venue. She picks out clothes, makeup, and looks …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 02:54 PM
11

Never been to a Shoney's, are they as bad as IHOP? A visit to IHOP was the only time in my life I haven't left a tip. I told my friends we should go anywhere else. IHOP is full of entitled old fucks that will run the server ragged so they can't help anyone else, and screaming children. They overruled me, we went to IHOP. I've never worn a serious "I TOLD YOU SO" anywhere near that long any other time in my life. Everything was awful. We could not get ketchup. Our food came out cold. Drinks were …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 02:51 PM
20

"LOL I put in the wrong age and even though it lets you change it and I know that, I won't put in the 30 seconds of effort to fix it. Isn't that a funny accident?! So about your finances..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 02:44 PM
1

But if you don't want to date them because the relationship wouldn't be equal you are dangerous. I'm not going to date a sexist. Hard stop. Guess that makes me dangerous.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 02:20 PM
9

Ask my friend who tried marriage counseling for a year. He'll tell you it's because when you do open up it just gets thrown right in your face next time she's mad.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 02:17 PM
2

2005 sounds about right to me too. I became less interested in dating because I was able too hook up so easily around that time. Internet dating/hookup culture started. Ugly women used to have to go to the bar and be nice to get anyone to look their way. Around then internet dating/hookups was really picking up steam and women could see pages of men they wanted like a catalogue/magazine. It's become way more like shopping to them and that's just not compatible with dating
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 07:03 PM
4

That makes mice and squirrels superheroes with how many screamers they squat out! No, "raising" children and hoping one of them will take care of the rest eventually is not that tough. People so fat that they can't wipe their own ass anymore are "raising children".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 09:03 PM
37

I think the internet really sent their "I can do better, look at the husband this woman has!" into overdrive. Now they can see women around the world and what they have. And they want ALL of it. They've told they don't have to settle for less. Women's hypergamy is just not compatible with the internet. They see so many men "Better" than their husband even though they only show the best parts of their lives on social media and keep their issues IRL. We've caused variable overflows in their brains…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 06:09 PM
68

I always listed myself as 5'11 to try to keep the 6'+ away from me. In my pictures it's pretty obvious (to me) that I'm way taller but people see what they want. It's kinda hilarious that they've made an artificial shortage of men by dismissing short men. That gives us tall guys more power to be more selective. Supply/demand. Competition. We don't need to settle down because there's always another desperate THOT interested.Their list of demands means nothing to someone who is 6'4 and in shape. T…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 05:32 PM
15

Chad could have money but if she tries to collect he'll cut her out of his life. They're strung along too scared to lose their chance at chaddick forever because now they're a single mother. I know a few "relationships" like this and it's super frustrating to hear it from their children. The kids grew up super poor because their dad wouldn't pay child support all because their mother still wanted to be able to hit that. "My children are my world!" cunts are soooo full of it. Tingles will always …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 04:41 AM
2

Not sure what the hell they were thinking. Probably "Somewhere ugly men won't bother us!". But they probably didn't expect to be treated so poorly (for a woman, average for a guy) and felt slighted. This has to be why there's so many people telling gay guys to check their soggyknees or whatever. If a group of guys are having a party/get together they will change their behavior if a woman shows up rather it being just the boys. Women get used to the atmosphere being catered to them. I was at a pa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 06:48 PM
9

One of my favorite nights ever was watching a group of women come into a gay bar for a "safe space" to have girls night out. As they got drunker you could watch them get more and more aggressively frustrated that the gay guys were treating them like they treat men they're not interested in. They were completely invisible. Even the bartender treated them like short guys, getting to them whenever. (Bartenders DEFINITELY serve taller guys first. I've had to "Sorry, he was here first" too many times…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 04:53 PM
3

I gotta do that after my life has stabilized a little bit. It sucks that the government screws us there too. Male "family planning" is not covered by the ACA. Gotta out of pocket for a vasectomy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 04:20 PM
6

I've had kidney stones. I've shattered my arm. The most overwhelming pain I have ever experienced was from tendonitis/gout. Absolutely unbearable pain I could see/hear. Left me a totally helpless mess. Just crawling to the bathroom was so much pain, sweat, and crying. The slightest breeze and my whole foot would be on fire. It was 3 days before I could put even a little bit of pressure on it so I could handhold-to-handhold to the bathroom. Good thing too because my knees were not happy. My weigh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 04:13 PM
7

I knew it was a hookup app back then. It was all me being delusional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 08:27 PM
10

Okay, gonna show how pathetic I used to be. 19-26 I was whorey. Like... super whorey. By 26 I'd had 97 sexual encounters and actually fucked 51 of them. This is not bragging, this was an alcoholic with really low standards. (For example, my sense of smell is very poor. I've slept with some people where the next day friends would be grossed out because that person STANK) I was gross and it's incredible I'm not laden in STDs or a father (to my knowledge). I was an idiot. But when I started to feel…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 07:36 PM
12

My friend who works for sparkies was absolutely amazed when he talked to one that had a useful wife that had her own life. Most sparkies end up with controlling cunts that own the dude's balls for some reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 01:58 PM
37

Our valedictorian had to drop out of school before graduation to have her second kid. First kid at 16/17 isn't that uncommon in my part of New York unfortunately. People in my grade have been grandparents since I was in my very early 30s. My parents used to joke that on friday nights they need to include condoms with any pizza order to someone who sounds under 30. Also shows that not even the smartest woman in our class was unable to keep her legs closed long enough to not destroy her life. She …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 01:53 PM
29

It's also them showing that they're 'modern and progressive'.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:03 PM
14

78,000,000 working men not paying taxes towards children people didn't want.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 03:18 PM
40

Sounds like she's a woke woman with her eyes set on non-woke guys. The woke guys are not the type she wants to date because they're not as traditionally masculine. But the non-woke guys? She doesn't realize that there's a difference between herself and them that makes them completely incompatible. Their way of thinking, their way of the world is so much different form hers on a very fundamental core level. But they must pine over what they can't have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 02:10 PM
36

I dunno. Those kids seem pretty on his side already and it's pretty hard to make someone the bad guy when his response is "Your mother slept with her gym instructor".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 06:24 PM
18

"Whoops! I squatted out a screamer! How did that happen?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 04:37 PM
9

I read "I'm not your girl" and was thinking how at least she didn't do the "my children are my world" trope. Let my guard down. Just another basic bitch NPC.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/22 04:37 AM
20

She's still young of heart and mind. No seriously, she is. What kind of immature bimbo decides they want to pretend they're 10 years younger than they are? That's a pretty childish mind. Wanting to ditch your LTR to go hook up? That's pretty childish of heart.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 02:11 PM
18

Or possibly dump a pot of boiling water on you while you're asleep because she had a dream about you cheating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 09:28 PM
40

Plus with all those filters, wouldn't god have an issue with her lying?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 09:27 PM
8

Already happening to my age group at 38. Most people are divorced. Most guys are "never again". And women lost a bunch of "single and freeeeee!" years after their divorce to the pandemic. The ones who started young have their kids moving out. No kids puts them on standard shit welfare. Female poverty over 40 is about to skyrocket over the next few years. They're about to learn the real meaning of "value".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/22 07:33 PM
21

The person railing her against the dumpster doesn't care about her backstory. Kids never cross his mind. He's trying his hardest to keep it up while dealing with her rank snatch and the rancid fryer oil barrel nearby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 08:15 PM
18

They're not seen as whores, but they are seen as significantly less desirable by women. Their biological need/desire is to have the best life provided for their offspring. Splitting it with someone else's offspring is not something they want to do. Definitely shouldn't be playing the "But only single WOMEN have problems!" when the other side has it worse. Stupid self centered bimbo can spend her life with her kids, cats, and wine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 08:15 PM
13

They want you to know they give off the single mother energy without the kids to show for it. Definitely a red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 06:45 PM
21

I don't think it's her choice about not cuddling the baby daddy. That guy probably bailed as soon as he realized this tatz, fatz, pierced and bratz bitch (sounds like the worst kind of waffle house hashbrowns) was trying to anchor baby him. I can't blame him with how little input guys get in our reproductive rights. I wouldn't fuck that, but that is way, way overshadowed by the absolute awful feeling I get in my entire body thinking about co-parenting with... that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 05:17 PM
2

everything in their power to water down the severity They did it to "abuse". Seems like everyone has an abusive ex nowadays. It's been watered down to the point where if someone says they have an abusive ex, or says they were abused I'm just going to roll my eyes. I feel bad for the actual victims of domestic abuse. I won't treat it seriously unless I've heard more, and nobody should have to share details about their abuse to "prove it". But here we are where not giving a woman what she wants ca…
/r/MensRights31/12/21 03:26 AM
4

Anyone who says guys can't be raped doesn't matter to me. At all. They are sociopaths, far less than human. Their morals are far too fucked up for me to ever put up with them.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 08:51 PM
3

I'm glad they're telling me that they're rocking the single mother personality even if they don't have the kids to show for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/21 06:43 PM
14

20 years ago I was pursuing my first crush. I hadn't dated in high school, so my first adult relationship I was acting like a highschooler. One day while I was frustrated with things one of my best friends pulled me off to the side and asked me "Do you think you're emotionally mature to handle a relationship right now?". It hurt, it really did. But he was right, I was not. It's one of the most blunt, hurtful things anyone has ever said to me but it's one of the most important, and I'm glad it wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 03:13 PM
1

This is one we used. Big ol thing that's like a mixer but with a bowl on top. It has interchangeable blades in the bottom of the bowl so you can use it to mix dough or to shred 20+lbs of cheese at once.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 02:11 PM
1

I'd love to ask them "Would you wife you up?" If they were into women, would they even give themselves a second glance?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 08:56 PM
2

It can easily go the other way too. I grew up in the middle of nowhere New York. There was one (awesome) black kid in town, and the family that ran the Chinese restaurant. The rest were white. I don't think I saw a Hispanic person until I was in my teens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 04:47 PM
1

She's the cashier at a Rite Aid
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 04:43 PM
19

I used to laugh at them but now it's just cringy at how many profiles have "doesn't drink" with interests "wine".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 04:42 PM
30

She's had her fun and made a long series of bad decisions, now she needs someone to man up and clean up her mess. Once it's clean though, he's gone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/12/21 05:36 PM
7

Friend's marriage was a clusterfuck so they started to go to counseling. But whenever she'd get mad she'd use stuff they talked about in counseling against him. Luckily I got him out of that awful situation. He's my roommate for a bit while he learns how to be a normal person again. He still won't use the kitchen if I'm near it because he's so used to getting screamed at over "getting in the way".
/r/MensRights27/12/21 03:49 PM
5

The decades of wisdom have a LOT of really gross stories. Every bodily fluid in places it shouldn't be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 08:14 PM
10

She's at the right age where a life of alcoholism would give her neuropathy. I'm guessing "recovering alcoholic" means she keeps trying to quit and fails. It's probably a big part of what's keeping her neuropathy so bad, it would probably chill out with a few weeks sober. Seen it all. I sobered up a while back, but I'm still part of alcoholic support groups and this is the kind of stuff that you hear a few times a week minimum.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/21 02:26 PM
5

You won't hear anything from the left. They refuse to gatekeep! If there's a dogfucking pedophile trying to make themselves big in the trans community, CALL THAT FUCKER OUT! Don't back them! I call this the "Kim Davis phenomenon". She didn't even slightly stand for the sanctity of marriage, but because she SAID she did she got tons of people to support her. There are a lot of people using trans as a shield and other trans will back them no matter how little they actually support the movement and…
/r/MensRights22/12/21 11:15 PM
29

Friend of mine tried to do marriage counseling to save his marriage.(awful marriage, I tried to stop it, tied the knot for health insurance) What a mistake. Everything they talked about with the therapist she would use against him whenever she was mad. It was awful how bad she'd beat him down. They divorced, he's my roommate while he gets his life back together. Gotta get him used to being able to go into the kitchen without being screamed at.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 02:16 PM
14

stop marrying shitbags. Butbutbut he hid his shitbagness until after we were married! It couldn't possibly have been hiding behind a tingle waterfall, or an "I can change him", or possibly getting to know their partner before taking a cumshot and cranking out a screamer? They really saw ZERO red flags before marriage? That doesn't look good for them. It either shows that men are far, far smarter than them and they are simple minded and easy to manipulate, or she's just full of shit and knew he d…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 01:40 AM
16

List the number of things you did at work during the hours it took to pay for those clothes, she wouldn't want to hear it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/21 01:21 AM
14

Hah, reminds me of this stupid thing. https://i.imgur.com/kx9nq57.png
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/21 07:05 PM
2

Eh, ignore their fembitching and go about your day.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 04:51 PM
1

She's the reason why it's good to get coffee on your first meetup. She's not getting free dinners out of things and anything short of her taking advantage of a guy's wallet is a trash date. She's also a "foodie" so I'm betting the bills get big, fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/21 11:38 PM
19

I don't see things ever rolling back until a serious event happens that shakes mankind to the core. The only way it's ending is dire circumstances where survival becomes far more important, or if there's a major resurgence in religion. That's why we have to let other dudes know that the game has changed forever and not to follow the roadmap for traditional relationships. Women have changed the rules to suit them. Guys have to adapt to the way things are now and protect themselves.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 01:50 PM
183

The legitimate version of "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best". Not the "I'm a cunt and it's your fault you don't like me" it is now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/21 02:47 PM
237

"Please please please I don't want to live with my awful self centered selfish mother, could you please make her your problem again?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/12/21 02:45 PM
5

Anyone this obsessed with their partner cheating is usually projecting. She wants to cheat but knows it could blow up her dream life. She can't imagine that he DOESNT want to cheat because it's a feeling that never leaves her. Now she wants to find his imperfections so she has an excuse to do her whorey thing again. She needs to be fucked out behind the dumpsters to be happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 08:34 PM
61

Within 10 years we are going to have a serious issue with 40 year old grandmothers in absolute poverty. Once their child support stops coming in they'll have an extremely difficult path trying to get themselves back into the job market. To make it worse there's been so many small business owners, the type that would hire these middle aged/older women, that are finally retiring and selling their businesses. So far almost every time it's been to a huge public company that fires all but maybe 3 peo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/21 04:14 PM
16

I worried about that when I found out my sister in law was becoming a firefighter. She's tough... for her size. She's fairly small stature and I thought her becoming a firefighter would be dangerous. But now she's chief and has never been in a building. She's fantastic at coordination and can handle trucks/hoses just fine. She's well aware of her limits and played to her strengths. Because if she DID go in that building the chances of herself and her partner dying would be way, way higher.
/r/MensRights12/12/21 02:27 PM
6

Imagine what happens in 10 or 15 more years when they can no longer crank out a new screamer and find themselves totally broke with no job skills and no work history with far smaller government handouts. There's going to be a pandemic of grandmas in poverty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 04:28 AM
13

Guys will fuck most things. Women just stopped listening after that part and ignored the part where we won't MARRY everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/21 04:06 AM
6

South Park it. Get guys to start pissing in condoms, tie them off, then drop them in the teacher's trash can.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 03:55 PM
12

Bets on her blaming her weight on "genetics"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/21 04:03 PM
9

Can't handle that level of entitlement. She could be a younger 9 with no kids and I'd still probably shy away from someone with that much arrogance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 09:32 PM
39

After my grandfather passed my grandmother told me that if they had grown up in today's society, they most definitely would have gotten divorced during one of their rough patches. But because divorce just wasn't something you did back then they pushed through the rough spots and spent 60 years together. She's glad they stayed together. Now that divorce is normalized and there's far less stigma on divorced people everyone just bails when they hit a rough spot. Women think they should always be ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/21 02:42 PM
25

She's the type that puts on a stink face when it's last call because she hasn't found someone to go home with tonight and she has to pick from the "leftovers". But not even for a second will she see herself as a "leftover". She is just given a bad choice!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 03:32 PM
7

"young at heart" Old but still immature.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/21 02:26 AM
25

I'm in my 30s and there's no surprise there. Most people in my friends groups are divorced and have been for years. Some of them are finally free of child support from the kids they had in their senior year. None have re-married. I don't know many of them intend on getting married again but they're in the minority. Most of the men never married at this age have never married for a reason. Marriage just isn't in the plans anymore. They like doing their own thing, or just like casual relationships…
/r/MensRights30/11/21 05:55 PM
11

My brother's ex-wife's mother was like that. Always pretending to be 18 again even though she was in her 40s. She dressed frighteningly similar to her daughter. She was on her 3rd husband. Surprise, surprise. When her daughter hit 35 she decided she was missing out on the good days of girls nights out and divorced my brother to be a kid again. Did not work out when her monkey branch failed and she found herself with her kid or working almost every friday night. Worked out very similar for her ot…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 07:30 PM
3

And she's the Queen ? Yea , the Queen of the buffet ... She wishes. The real rulers of the buffets are older and carry the most intense resting bitch faces in existence. I'm talking about the Crabby Fatties. They're these 65 year old looking blob women who are probably only in their 40s. They sit at their table with the worst scowls on their faces picking through their bowl of crab shells. Whenever wait staff goes past they are reminded "You're out of crab legs!". When it really gets bad is when…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 07:19 PM
159

I feel bad for women who were actually abused because the word has lost all meaning now. Show me the police report, then I might even consider there was a chance of abuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 06:58 PM
25

What they say, "My time is valuable". What they mean, "I lost all my free time between working, doing chores, and raising some random guys kid! How will I find time for myself and dating as I go blasting through the wall?! Can someone just pay for my kid to be with a babysitter/nanny whenever I feel like?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 02:55 PM
-4

Feminism is good by definition, but awful in reality. Ethical treatment of animals sounds like a pretty awesome goal, but PETA... Mothers Against Drunk Driving? Sounds like a great organization! For funneling money into executive pockets rather than doing anything about drunk driving.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 07:53 PM
10

Totally agree, but with so many people living paycheck to paycheck $300 to $3000 (can't find why it's such a wide range) can be tough to budget for, even if the other consequence is $250,000 to raise a kid.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 02:56 PM
27

Government doesn't like men being in control, that's why we get: "Contraceptives, including sterilization, are covered only for women as preventive services by ACA-compliant plans. Since sterilization for men is not considered a preventive service under the Affordable Care Act, federal law does not require plans to cover vasectomies." Gotta be out of pocket.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 02:32 PM
214

https://i.imgur.com/xxZ3AjE.jpg is my favorite example. Women are plus sized or curvy. Men are overweight and fat.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 08:07 PM
1

It's best practice anyways. It's too damn risky being alone with a child. Teachers won't do it, management won't do it. I doubt people would want a video camera on them all the time. If it was me I'd go one step further. I'm not touching anyone's underage daughter without her father in the room.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 08:08 PM
22

Seems to be working out great for them too. It's not like every other tinder profile is a single mother with children that are their world looking for a "real man" to "step up".
/r/MensRights22/11/21 06:22 PM
2

I'm in some pretty left leaning groups. I put "Happy International Men's Day!" as my status for the day. This occurred at the same time as "Trans Awareness Week". I didn't get any shit for it at all. Sometimes the "You need better friends" is the correct response.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 02:33 PM
11

I wish it was funny. This site is actively destroying the lesbian community. I feel really bad for anyone XX who is into XX lately. They're being told its wrong.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 10:05 PM
14

I grew up with two alcoholic parents. For a while they were equally shitty. We'd get new dishes 12+ times a year because they'd both scream at each other a majority of nights and the dishes ended up smashed on the floor. They liked loud noises when they were being loud drunks. Then my dad fucked up bad. He had one of those "sobering up mid drunk" moments and all my mom's "mom stuff" was smashed on the floor. All the shitty clay art class stuff, the little statues and trinkets that kids give thei…
/r/MensRights20/11/21 10:02 PM
31

I've got "Happy International Men's Day!" as my discord status. I'm in some pretty strongly liberal servers and I'm a booster so I'm at the top of the member lists. This is also "Trans Awareness Week" and several statuses are set to that. Hopefully absolutely nothing will happen because most people are reasonable adults. But I won't back down if people stir any shit.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 05:26 PM
13

I had a friend get upset that she wasn't allowed into a gay men only campground! "That's sexist and can't be legal!". Nope, it's a private club just like Curves. The campground is open to anyone who has a membership. Men, women, whatever. But women don't get memberships.
/r/MensRights15/11/21 05:10 PM
1

Yup. I'll always be one drink away from a relapse. Same with my parents. Same with my uncle. Same with a few of my friends. The hoes are even worse because they don't WANT to give up their addiction, they need to if they want to land them a stable guy to pave their way. They're not able to get the quality they want anymore or they wouldn't be stopping. They'll always be wishing they could get another fix even if it would fuck up their life. Ex addicts fear the idea of getting another fix because…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/11/21 01:08 AM
18

It really bothers me that NOBODY ends up happy in these situations. The single mothers aren't happy, it's not a fun lifestyle. They spend their child raising years broke and their adult years dirt poor. The kids dont get a good upbringing. The baby daddies might be broke for the next 20 years over it, and the taxpayers pick up the slack. The single motherhood is a whirlpool of misery that sucks down anything that gets near it. But they do it anyways!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/21 02:50 PM
13

It's why I only stick around for guys. They usually know how to make a pretty solid breakfast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 06:22 PM
36

I love being a loser. Dead end job I've been in 15 years, live in a bus, never been mentally mature enough to have a relationship. I'm nobody's backup plan. But I'm in the top 1.1% in height, have all my hair/teeth and I'm in good shape so even though they'll call me a loser before and after they'll still sleep with me! Win/win! I've been on 0 dinner dates in my whole life and I've been taken out for coffee twice, I don't even need to pay for the privilage!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 05:36 PM
12

Don't forget that you'll be paying for her Monat inventory the whole time she's fucking someone else in your bed. Because leaving her alone all day to go to work is abuse. And not paying for her MLM is abuse. But not earning enough money is also abuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 02:26 PM
14

Even lot lizards tend to "retire" before 54.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 01:52 PM
11

over the age of 25 or so. I would say it only drops to uncommon from 25 to 35. Only because they don't have time to think up sexualities while they're busy with their 3 kids that are their world. Plus 30 is just as bad for LGBT as the wall is for women. It's just called "gay dead" though. Without the attention from the wokesters they stop pretending they care.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/21 01:51 PM
3

you better not even expect a "thank you" You're spot on with that. Nothing but bitchiness from her and no thank you. Her BOYFRIEND was very thankful and made sure to say it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 09:05 PM
14

Thanks! I could not figure out a word for kids that rhymed!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:53 PM
4

I wonder how many other 6'4 guys have been made as bitter as I am about women thinking about our height like that. Women get pretty upset when guys they're not interested in are staring at/thinking about their tits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:36 PM
8

It's the standard thing where nobody wants them, so they say they have these really high standards and THATS why they're alone. It's to protect their ego.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:34 PM
43

Good fucking luck keeping them sober! On that same note good luck finding yourself a sober woman. I don't drink, smoke, and stoners have ruined weed for me. That seems to have shrunk my dating pool to almost nothing. Now throw in no tats, no fats, no cats, no kids (other people's cats are cool but I couldn't do a LTR with a pet owner) and there's nothing left.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:25 PM
19

Fuck that. Anyone who says they're into tall guys gets an immediate left swipe. If they're my age and that superficial they're never going to grow up. I've got a whole life to be proud of. Being tall was something I was born with. Zero work into that. It's not an accomplishment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 05:14 AM
7

Eh, it's pretty common for lesbians to be man haters. Same with gay guys wanting nothing to do with women and saying stuff like "ewwww vagina". I'd even say that it's more common with gay guys because far more women dislike guys than guys dislike women/lesbians. Been that way for a long, long time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 03:12 AM
1

He was the "one that got away", but if he had tried committing to her back then she would have lost the tingles and gone looking for another. Hell, that's probably what she did but after he started seeing another woman her brain said "NOT LIKE THAT! YOU WERE MY BACKUP PLAN! I WAS GONNA SETTLE FOR YOU!" He didn't leave her for another woman. She left him and he started dating again after he got over her. But men don't have feelings, he should have stayed single forever just for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 10:35 PM
3

men don’t get judged the same for sleeping We get it for NOT sleeping around. They'll say that we shouldn't care about their virginity but they'll be the first to throw around "virgin" as an insult. Even if we regularly get laid they'll throw out "virgin" to protect their ego.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 10:32 PM
1

Guys with dicks that big can blow themselves, why would they need her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 09:29 PM
7

She acted like I was inconveniencing her by helping her! I don't know what her plan was. Just sit there until a cop car, or maybe somebody hotter than her boyfriend showed up? (I'm pretty good looking but her boyfriend was damn fine). Thinking is a tool of the patriarchy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 08:37 PM
13

I had gotten off the highway somewhere in MA. There was a car in front of me at the light at the end of the offramp. Light turned green, light turned back red. I wasn't in a hurry but it was before cell phones were really common so it struck me as odd. Light changed, changed back again. I got out of my car and started walking towards her car. She rolled down her window a crack and said her car died, and mentioned she HAD A BOYFRIEND. I don't give a shit. She's too young and too bitchy for me. I …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 08:09 PM
81

You'd have to fake excitement or that's abuse. If she finds out you faked excitement, that's abuse. There's no winning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 07:57 PM
18

Butbutbut bright colors keep predators away! If bright hair keeps you away you're a predator! It's another "You can't fire me I QUIT" women love to use to protect their ego. Men won't date them so they make themselves look worse, then they can blame guys for being shallow and "living in the past". There's someone in a discord server I'm in that's non-binary whatever who's about to lose her apartment and hasn't worked in 2 years. Unemployment is running out so she's been talking about getting a j…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 10:17 PM
12

I'm almost certain he was in better shape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 10:11 PM
57

Unfortunately we've gotten to the point where if a woman or child needs assistance my job is to find a woman to help them even if I'm far more qualified. Too many people would accuse someone else of something awful to take people's eyes off the dumb shit they just did. If they lose track of their kid and a guy finds/helps they'd rather say the kid was being abducted than admit they had a parenting slip/fuckup. Their lives are no longer worth the risk for me. 0 chance I'm giving CPR to a woman un…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 10:10 PM
3

Consequences are a tool of the patriarchy!
/r/MensRights08/11/21 09:25 PM
52

Stay at home mom, 420 friendly, hobbies "wine".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/21 12:21 AM
2

Usually I laugh at the thousand cock stare. Hers is making my stomach upset.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 12:56 PM
2

Ohhhhhh. That would make sense why she looks so much older. I immediately assumed alcohol but I know boozers older than her that look significantly younger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 12:52 PM
2

She has a similar build/face/weight as my friend's mother, but somehow looks older than her. She looks older than a 65 year old that hasn't taken care of herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 12:50 PM
23

Dating has definitely changed. Women decided to make dating/sex far more casual, men decided to make their relationship/sex far more casual. A lot of guys are figuring out that as they change the rules, we should too. We're seeing plenty of pre-wall women complaining about ghosting now. They did it to us long enough and we got sick of desperate women we weren't compatible going batshit bitter after a "I don't think this is going to work" and insulting us up and down. They keep changing the rules…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 04:43 AM
9

My hotdog dove out the fire escape just thinking about it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 12:44 AM
5

I don't think it was healthy anyways. It was pasta, cheese, italian dressing with the peppers/olives/tomatoes being a minority of it. "Tri Color Italian Pasta Salad" but without the meat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 08:24 PM
8

I somehow forgot to mention how much she was drinking. She was well into blackout drunk. She was all over those super sweet alcoholic slushies, and then they were all over her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 07:35 PM
2

"* Don’t ever start a sentence with, “As a woman...” Zero respect when I hear that. Imagine how they'd react to "As a man..." Only one I disagree with is the hair brush one, but that's a personal preference. Send them wild haired lumberjills my way!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 02:17 PM
3

If strippers were just normal women who take their clothes off I'd be alright dating a stripper. I got pretty low standards. But those do not exist. Normal women do not strip. They are high drama. The stripping life is not just "a job", it's being part of an absolutely sleezy community. You wouldn't believe someone if they said "I hang around at the crackhouse all the time but I never do crack!". Drug free? Maybe. But her whole "I'm not one of THOSE strippers!" attitude tells me she's one of tho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 02:13 PM
45

The fattest girl I knew in college was vegan. Most of her diet was carbs. Once she passed out while eating one of those green/orange/white spiral noodle salads. Noodlers were falling out of her mouth between her tits. It was like watching a train wreck. Absolutely disgusting but I couldn't look away because I was laughing so hard. Once or twice she'd wake up just enough to stuff a tit noodle back in her mouth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 01:00 PM
58

"My body my choice" "CONSEQUENCES?!?! PATRIACHY!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 12:21 PM
12

Nahh. She could be a 9/10 with no kids and I still wouldn't go near her bitch-ass attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 01:39 AM
43

You know what women's brains get them? The valedictorian of our class was going to be a woman that had already had one kid at the end of 11th grade. She kept her grades perfect until 2 months before graduation when she cranked out another screamer and had to drop out of school. Now she's the nosiest fucking karen who lives in a double wide a quarter mile from the elementary school. She's single, 38, and works register at the grocery store. Kelly, you threw your life away. For how smart you were …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 01:33 AM
6

5 kids and alcohol is still one of her favorite hobbies. That surely points to a mature responsible parent. I might be a bit bitter on that one though, I had an alcoholic mother.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 08:49 PM
3

That's a look of deep regret. Not regret for the decisions she's made. Regret that her life hasn't turned out the way she was promised. If she could go back 30 years she'd do it all again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/21 08:47 PM
15

I can tell just from the picture that she's "better than me". The artsy pose already gives off snooty vibes, then she greyscales it because the content wasn't interesting enough as it was, or the picture wasn't great but she wanted to use it anyways. She thinks too highly of herself, you will never come close to reaching the bar she wants you to jump over but she can walk under.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/21 03:10 PM
9

I'm in a discord server that has a lot of women in it and is pretty liberal. Even the men there will go off on "my kids are my world!" and step up/man up bullshit. These are mostly guys in their 30s and they're all this bitter towards tinder thots. These disgracefull messes of women are quickly losing ground to even desperate guys. The women don't respond at all. Things get more than a bit sexist and still not a peep. Not even from the two single mothers. One lost custody because she's too insan…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 10:18 PM
5

Reasonable life choices are a tool of the patriarchy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 10:16 PM
11

Then her parent(s) who will have to babysit the screamer she squatted out. No retirement for them anytime soon. Plus the taxpayers who pay into a safetynet that won't exist when they need it because net tax loss scum like this is digging it out from under us. Imagine if we could redirect money from single mothers to our veterans!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 10:14 PM
17

But she puts on filters to make herself a fake woman? I'll pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 10:11 PM
6

She's still in the middle of fucking up and has several rock bottoms ahead of her. I'm reminded of an older Simpsons episode. But without the "helping other people" part. She just wants that full coverage. Bart: I figure I'll go for the life of sin, followed by the presto change-o deathbed repentance. Brother Faith: Wow, that's a good angle. But that's not God's angle! Why not spend your life helping people instead? Then you're also covered in case of sudden death. Bart: Full coverage, hmm...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 02:01 PM
14

It's a little different for the black community. Fewer men there want to have a child/partner in the black community. So there's more desperate black women for the dirtbags to go after. The good guys don't want to play. https://i.imgur.com/wtAtuSI.png
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 02:16 PM
47

There was even a post on AITA about a woman who found out that her husband had a kid with another woman. She asked if she would be the asshole if she went after him first so she'd get the bigger share of money even though the other woman was in a worse spot financially. Everyone told her to do it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 02:12 PM
3

Because they have to go into that thought process to protect their ego. If reality got a chance to slap them in the face they'd be even more miserable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:28 AM
3

Even us knuckledraggers are above this. She stands a chance with the meth head if she uses her government money to buy him meth. Even he'd peace out when the meth was gone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:27 AM
5

"Firmly believe that females are shi*t - Looking for someone who changes my mind" Every response to a profile that said that would be an angry woman that would block you and report you. But this woman thinks if she does it....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:26 AM
2

God damn. They should just get a waifu. The waifu is far cheaper and will treat them nicer. I wish I could get into that. A fantasy relationship probably scratches some of the itch and it's by far the safest kind. Thousands of people can have the same Waifu without getting an STD or child support pinned on them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:22 AM
37

"And I decided to keep it" Has ruined so many lives. The mothers, the children, the baby daddies, any relatives that end up supporting the kid, the tax payers. It may be my most hated phrase ever. I assume anyone who uses it is retarded which makes it even stupider for them to have a kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/21 12:15 AM
6

Maybe on someone really hot. But with Mrs. "My hair is burned worse than the rice I left on the stove overnight" it's -2 each. She starts at a 4 and ends up -2. If it was dividing by 2 she'd be scored too high at +0.5.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 04:44 PM
3

That's dangerous. She's already proved she can and wanted to squat out a screamer without a LTR. She might just want more child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 04:37 PM
19

My brother is a business owner, always has new cars, has a house on the lake. He's a great guy. I've been working a dead end IT job for 16 years, live in a bus, and I'm a fairly grumpy asshole. He's in great shape. I'm in alright shape, dead center of normal BMI at least. But he's shorter and is losing some of his hair. I'm tall. All that matters is the tall. I get so many more matches than him. I've hooked up an embarrassing amount of times (any chance I had of pair bonding is LONG gone), I thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 02:15 PM
19

I'd have bailed the second I confirmed she was looking at "our combined income" while trying to quit her job. I don't need that level of communism in my life. Plus what is she going to do while I'm at work all day? Idle hands are the devil's workshop. How long before those hands are swiping on people because I can't give her the attention she craves while I'm at work? "Neglect" is abusive even if she wants me to be in two spots at once!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 01:08 PM
10

Friggin "tofu women". I started to fall for one last year. They like everything you do, they like your music, they like your TV shows. At a certain point though I could see the try-hardness. Then she got drunk. Drunk her wanted to watch something else. Drunk her hated my music. It really showed that she just wanted me to get her out of her boring home town. Drunk her was addicted to internet drama. She'd try to get me involved with her drunk friends problems and I just would not care. Because I …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 04:13 AM
1

Men usually judge too. "Ick, too tatted up" "Facial piercings? Gross" "Bastard child(ren)? No way" "Fat? No thank you" "I'm going to be the 7th most important thing in your life but you want to be my #1? I'll pass" I'm okay with judging.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 09:00 PM
10

So many play the "I'm hotter, smarter, and better at relationships that most other women. Why am I so single? It must be because men are INTIMIDATED!" No. No no no. There are women hotter, uglier, smarter, dumber, good people, crazy bitches that are in relationships. You are not special. The problem is on your end.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/21 08:15 PM
5

She doesn't want a perfectionist because then she'll have less to complain about and it will be harder to pin "abusive" on him when she goes to monkeybranch. She needs a man with insecurities and flaws that she can use for ammo against him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:48 PM
5

The only one I can get behind is "Never stay out after midnight three nights in a row". But that's not because something bad will happen on the third night, you're just going to be miserable and burned out the next morning. "There’s always another level. Just be content knowing that you are still better off than most who have ever lived." HAHAHAHAHA! HAHAHA! Be content?! That's hilarious coming from a monkey brancher!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:46 PM
5

Give her an inch and she'll take a mile. Pay for a meal or two and it will suddenly be an expectation every time. It sounds like she has already hit his shit filter and he's stringing her along. If a place is too expensive for your budget there's this word "No" that can really help you out! She remembers the word "no", right? Because 20 "no"s and one "yes" does not equal a yes! Women are the ones that have this so engrained in our heads! Unless it's trying to guilt someone into paying for dinner…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:36 PM
9

It's already over. She's not asking if she should break up with him. She's already decided that. Now she's just going to seek out a bunch of people to agree with her so she's less insecure about it. It's like the FA movement. They know they're unhealthy and obese but as long as they are around people who will enable their fantasy they can try to shield their ego from above while the truth eats them from underneath.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/21 02:15 PM
15

It comes from ego. They have zero luck dating because... look at them. But they can't handle that so they play the "YOU CAN'T FIRE ME, I QUIT!" card. They set their standards way too high. Now it's not their fault, its that they aren't to "settle" for someone who doesn't meet their standards. It's men's fault that they are single so it doesn't hurt their ego as much.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 09:53 PM
14

With a P100 he won't have to deal with the smells that come out when the fungi in her folds come in contact with air.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 09:49 PM
55

They compare you to the best qualities of every man they slept with. They also will use "You're just like my ex!" when you do anything she doesn't like.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 07:53 AM
11

They don't even want equality with other women. They always want to be one branch higher than the rest and that's what they think will bring them happiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 04:57 AM
13

I get a feeling he's playing her even harder and I love it. 45 and living with roommates and he has no plans of changing that? He's probably living with friends and having a great time. He likes working at a bar and it gives him all the money he needs to be happy. 'specially when splitting a place with 3 friends. It's the perfect way to keep her wanting him without him ever needing to commit. When she leaves he's still living with his friends. He sounds cool enough where there will always be ano…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/21 04:55 AM
22

They'd offer to call AAA if they have it. They wouldn't care that you had to camp there for 3 hours until AAA got around to jumping you. They'll just be annoyed with you for getting home so late. They did delegate a man to help you, it's that man's fault, not hers! SHE DID EVERYTHING SHE COULD! Except put on some pants and drive 10 minutes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 09:31 PM
38

I got spoiled when younger because I had an awesome woman as a friend. She would help you with your car, assist in any projects and just generally want to make her friends lives easier. That's what I wanted in a woman, someone that would try to meet me half way unless it was something that required brute physical power. Turns out she was born male. The "perfect woman" I compared others to was actually a guy who was more fun to be around than any woman. Nobody in my friends group had any clue she…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 09:25 PM
49

I only have three women friends left in my life. Two are a married lesbian couple that aren't interested in the monkeybranching man game. They're pretty cool. The third is a schizophrenic who is way more down to earth than most other women I've met. I think it's because her world is lacking some filters that the rest of us have so she gets to see what women are doing from an unbiased view. She doesn't really like other women. Every other woman in my life has made me cut them off. Including my mo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 09:14 PM
5

I'm really curious. At 57 would you settle down? I kinda expected the type of guy who is single at that age is pretty comfortable in their own life and don't have any intentions of settling down anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 12:49 PM
4

Because handsome attractive men are interested in settling down at 47?! If a man like that is single at 47 it's most likely by choice. Good luck with those standards!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 12:47 PM
6

She's not naive and can spot red flags from miles away? I doubt it. She can't even see them in the mirror in the morning. Single mother, bad spelling, knows what she "deserves", and wants to be spoiled (not work again in her life comes hand in hand). Plus the "be sane" probably means that she's a mental disaster so she wants someone stable. Also stable people won't scream back at her when she's being a screamy nutjob.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 02:15 PM
12

But I just can't help but want a woman in my life. I hear you there. I'm irrecoverably far into MGTOW. But I still have this stupid voice that shows up once in a while that says I'm a failure for not having a wife and 2.5 kids. I REALLY do not like kids so I blame this all on "tingles" type bullshit emotions. So I'll half-ass flirt with people just to scratch that itch and get it to shut up. I have no intentions of it going anywhere. But I STILL get a bit jealous/down when they pursue someone wh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 05:03 AM
12

If we're going to be accused of it I may as well take advantage of it and call them out. We lose either way, may as well let their ego take a hit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 04:57 AM
2

No way I'm sharing, I'm going for alcohol poisoning and a blackout death if was in a situation with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 03:25 PM
26

Some women hit the wall, this one drove straight off a cliff while 8 years out. I'm sure her life will take her great places.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 12:54 PM
6

My best friend was in an abusive relationship for years. He married her because she lost her health insurance and she's diabetic. She treated him so bad. It was a "Joke" that it wasn't a party until she was hugging a bottle of wine and fighting with him while he just tried to get away. They were going to therapy but he couldn't talk about anything because she'd turn around and use it against him when they got home. She had him so afraid and whipped that after she divorced him and moved in with h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 02:10 PM
71

She looks older than me and I'm in my upper 30s. She needs someone to cut her hair without any input from her. She needs someone else to dress her in clothes she didn't pick. The glasses need to go right out the window, thems are granny glasses. Someone else needs to pick the glasses. That facial expression straight out makes me hate her, she needs to stop looking like.... that. Then she throws pregnancy on top of it all. It all screams "I cannot make even the slightest good decision for myself"…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 01:55 PM
11

Ew. At least sobriety has its advantages. She must know there's no way we could fuck her without a handle of Kraken coursing through our veins. That alcohol poisoning could get her laid!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 12:30 PM
8

Almost everyone over 30 is single for a reason. Guys need to be aware of it because women certainly aren't. If they're seeing a perfect guy over 30 it's probably because he has no interest in settling down. I'm taking full advantage of it. On the outside I look pretty darn good for my age. But inside I know I blew any chance of pair bonding a long time ago. There's no way I could handle a LTR anymore. I'm straight up bitter and jaded about the dating scene. But nobody seems to see it as a red fl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/21 12:01 AM
44

The way I read it was that he was nice enough to take her home so he could have been a decent guy, but he was not up to her standards. Why else would a hoebag like this feel shame? "This guy was nice but LOOK AT HIM! I'm at rock bottom and can't get Chaddick anymore! Should I get my shit together or keep doing exactly what I'm doing now while hoping for different results?" He was a 10 in her blackout drunk eyes but maybe an 8 when she sobered up. But her old, crazy, alcoholic blackout ass deserv…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 08:13 PM
47

It's like when an employer is being shitty and threatens to fire/punish you over something stupid and you quit. Then they beg you to come back at a higher salary. There's no taking that back. You will always be treated more distant. Things will never be the same and they'll still want to replace you ASAP. They know you'll call their bluff in the future and that's just not acceptable in the shitty way they run the company. The trust is gone. That higher salary will be stagnant.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 08:08 PM
6

Especially as hardly any women are “very thin” anymore They're "just a few pounds away" from the body of the person on TV. Like how most Americans are just down on their luck millionaires in the American dream
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 05:03 PM
2

It should be taught right in high school "Watch how men are treated now, that's how you'll be treated once you cross 30"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 04:59 PM
5

That's like a current day employer saying "I'm gonna pay you $6 an hour, no benefits, you have to tip out to 4 co-workers. You will work nights and weekends and always be on call, and I'm going to keep you at 35 hours a week with no overtime. Time off will be considered, but denied. I'm going to yell at you, creep on you, make your work day a living hell. At least I'm an employer with an honest job description! I know it's a shitty job but we're family here!" then crying that nobody wants to emp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 05:30 AM
3

Are there really men on tinder trolling for insta followers like women do? Nahhh, men have to be able to show they can do something. Have to aim more for stuff like Twitch where they can impress other guys or youtube channels about building/repairing/improving things. Women are trying to make other women jealous and guys horny. That's how they scoop up followers. Just doctor up some pictures to look way better than they really are and you're set.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 07:25 PM
12

men age like wine I think my bottle is corked. I keep getting more bitter and nasty as I get older! Out side of my personality I agree with you. I have so much more to offer in my late 30s than I did anytime in my 20s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 07:20 PM
17

I didn't get a suspension for it but man did I get some people hilarously upset that my profile has "No kids. Ever." and "Must be able to climb a 15' ladder onto a roof" (it's pretty relevant to my life, but it's also the most subtle way I could put "No fat chicks") 6'4, 37 years old, 190lbs, all my hair and teeth, good career with 15 years at the same company. Never married, no debt, no kids, own my own place. I'm a goddamn unicorn to women over 30. Guess it stings when I outright disqualify an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 07:13 PM
3

Guessing you don't have a Cummins. Mine has started giving me so much shit at only 90k. And holy shit are their dealers/repair centers garbage now :/ "We only have one guy that works on that, and he's not in this week" Yayyyy, got to live at the Cummins service center in Mobile Alabama for 3 weeks (also happened at the SAME DAMN TIME as the Texas storm so parts were all delayed)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 07:07 PM
2

Someone was riding her hard through the rust belt without ever rinsing the salt off. She's got a body that says "Winter Rat". Someone was only using her in the seasons he didn't want to mess up his good ride. Smart dude for sure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 07:05 PM
4

Top right I would call "Gave up and moved into a trailer park in Florida" if she was American. The ol' "You can't fire me, I QUIT" of the relationship world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 07:03 PM
24

They've already tried to stop guys from doing that. Guess what one of the very few birth control methods are not mandated as part of the ACA? "Contraceptives, including sterilization, are covered only for women as preventive services by ACA-compliant plans. Since sterilization for men is not considered a preventive service under the Affordable Care Act, federal law does not require plans to cover vasectomies. " They want women to be able to trap men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 07:14 AM
58

It's a pretty universal thing. If you waste your youth you're going to have a harder time as you get older. Men and women. But women are way more likely to think "It won't happen to meeee! I'm more beautiful than ever!". Yea, and a guy who hasn't put in the effort to get a job and is now about to be homeless is richer than ever because he doesn't have to pay rent anymore! She lost her chance at "the one" a long time ago. Now it's 2am, the bar is shutting down and she's looking around thinking "E…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 12:29 AM
76

It would have been easier to talk me into having kids if I didn't know I'd be 50 before they even graduated. Hats off to the older parents that can pull it off and keep up with kids but no way that's for me anymore. Gotta lock down men when we're younger and haven't found out how much we really like money and free time yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 12:25 AM
19

I'm betting that's not happy. I had some addiction issues in the past. You're never happy. You're never even content. You just try to ignore the mess you are and pretend things are alright. Until your health starts failing. She's just an "acceptable" addict. Society doesn't shame them like they should so they don't even see themselves as addicts. But as they can pretty obviously see (but won't accept) is that society treats them like it even if we won't call them out. They'll never get treated t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 11:18 PM
3

I might as well not fuck up kids' lives in the process. With how much of a clusterfuck the world is becoming it's for the best. I don't think I could handle having a boy. I'd have a pretty bad reaction when the school started teaching them about "original sin" of being a "privileged cis white male". I'm sure teaching them "You're a better person than EVERYONE who thinks that. Racists are bad people" would rub the teachers/classmates the wrong way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 02:27 PM
3

They do choose good guys! Just long enough to lock down some long term finances so they can go back to the CC! Because Chad will totally settle down with them now that they've got kids and an ex! PRE MADE FAMILY, JUST WAITING FOR YOU!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 02:13 AM
17

But telling a guy that he's the type that women want to settle down with after their wild years is a compliment! Waiting for your 30s to find a man is an awful gamble. The hormones have mostly worn off, we've already established our lives and we've seen so many guys in our lives burned. Now throw in that women's best years are over by 30. Their only hope is to try to go for ignorant men. Most of us have figured out that we can treat 30 year old women like they treated 20 year old us. Past 30 the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/21 02:10 AM
11

That's when you go to work for a family member/good friend part time at minimum wage and start living on under the table cash. It won't be the prettiest 18 years but it will be better than enabling this behavior. That's what my uncle did when his wife left and took the kids. She moved so far that he never even got to see them (he was a pushover at the start, a pastor, so he thought he must have done something wrong and let family court walk all over him). It sounds a bit shitty but his response …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/10/21 06:12 PM
2

Judgingjudgingjudgingjudging "Unique story"?!?! The same unique story that squirrels have when they squirt out some screamers? You're an animal that took a cum load and got pregnant. Super unique. In the trash with her. I got no patience today, not even gonna give her the roasting she fully deserves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/21 01:38 PM
39

They don't get it. "The tingles" are bullshit. They're your body pumping you full of hormones so you can look past people's faults and reproduce. "The Tingles" haven't had a good use since the Neanderthal days. It's our primal lizard brains trying to get us to perform one of the basic functions of sustaining life without the rational fear of consequences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 09:58 PM
18

I get a feeling they weren't abusive, they just didn't "pamper" her. "WHADDAYAMEAN I can't quit my job, move into your house and watch netflix all day while flipping through Tinder?!?! ABUSE ABUSE ABUSE!" I just have this super strong feeling that "haven't been pampered" means "I still have to work"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/21 12:27 PM
3

"Uhg! Why do guys always smell like shit after running a train on my pootypucker?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 09:03 PM
8

That's how my brother and sister in law are. She left him and then immediately had regrets when her monkeybranching failed. But they still behave VERY civil and are still doing a good job of raising their daughter. My family has decided that she will be a part of our lives until my niece is old enough to start separating things. Initially I was totally "FUCK THAT!". She used to be a very, very close friend of mine that came to a hard stop when she separated my brother to go get a handsome rednec…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 08:59 PM
1

Looking for a woman not a girl, someone who has their act together. I'm sure she would lose her shit if someone said that to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 08:44 PM
5

I would kinda agree if they said girls are forced to mature a bit faster than boys. I think there is a little bit of that between 10 and 14 where boys are still allowed to do whatever while girls are starting to be pressured to be ladylike. But that's just society pressuring them to get their shit together before they can get pregnant. Without outside influence I'm sure they'd be laughing at farts, dicks and boobs just as long as boys do. After that boys pass them pretty quickly. Women claim tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 04:29 PM
6

She looks like she wants to be a drag queen but is depressed that men wear drag better than she does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 04:22 PM
23

They're kinda working against us on that one. Check out this bullshit. "Contraceptives, including sterilization, are covered only for women as preventive services by ACA-compliant plans. Since sterilization for men is not considered a preventive service under the Affordable Care Act, federal law does not require plans to cover vasectomies. " Letting guys get vasectomies takes the control away from women. How will they pin down a baby daddy if every guy who decided he doesn't want kids was snippe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/10/21 05:16 AM
6

Thanks for volunteering, she's all yours! Enjoy!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 04:56 PM
2

If someone is showing more skin than I can totally naked, I'm not calling it fully clothed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 04:10 AM
34

I don't know. The face looks pretty young. I've seen women in worse shape than this at her age, and that's saying something. She looks like she's been a disaster from a really young age. Definitely obese by 14. Morbid obese by 18, then she was suddenly in charge of her own diet and... this happened. We need to bring back bullying. This thing was not bullied enough as a kid so now it's hot steaming shit that thinks its hot shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/21 04:04 AM
10

She'd probably get more responses if she mentioned how many condoms of coke she can hold!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 07:24 PM
28

First two paragraphs were pretty okay. Still way younger than me, bit ditzy but that's fine. Has a reasonable financial/business goal so she has some dreams other than cranking out kids. In decent shape. But then kablamo, that's one hell of a bomb to drop. A woman in federal prison?! She must have done something super fucked to be convicted and sentenced since women get lighter and shorter punishments. If she had even followed it up with "I made a horrible mistake, did my time, and I'm trying to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 04:33 PM
132

The girl I had a crush on up until my sophomore year got pregnant before graduation, then pregnant again shortly after to a bisexual homeless guy who loved him some drugs (he was a friend of mine but he was a disaster). Now her facebook posts are a combination of how strong she is, and how everything is so hard for her. My crush faded after I'd been her beta "safe" guy long enough to hear all the absolutely horrible decisions she was making with her life and the guys she had slept with. That's w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 04:28 AM
2

The older we get the less "She's hot!" matters and we start thinking about what they will do to improve our lives. Unfortunately for them they don't really bring any skills that would help. We already know how to cook and clean. We know we will do it without trashing our kitchen. We're not looking for someone to take care of our children while we're at work. Most of the chores we currently do we'd have to do twice as much. And we like MONEY! I'm pretty bitter on the whole subject so I might be t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 04:02 PM
25

Gotta be real careful with that type. My brother's ex mother in law is exactly like this. Tries to be all young and hip, her photos are so filtered, and she's on her third husband. I'm not going to say she's bad looking. She takes care of herself and looks really good for her age. But there's so much awful that you can't see. Her narcissism and selfishness are a black hole that pulls everything in and gives nothing in return but bullshit few people understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/21 01:47 PM
19

Last time I had the guy version of tingles it didn't even last a week before I discovered that as nice as she was during the day she's a raging alcoholic that would punch me in the shoulder if I didn't pay attention to her, or just throw shit at me. Kicked her right back out. My friends thought I was an asshole so she was able to hook up with and move in with one friend (lasted less than a week) and then another (about 2 weeks before she was sent back home on the other side of the country). If y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 11:57 PM
24

She wants an app that only allows the top 2% of men and directs them only to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 11:49 PM
2

Their idea of "high value guys" is bullshit too. I'm pretty far from high value. 60k a year, live in a bus, not gonna say my hygiene is top notch because I'm often rationing water and only taking hot-spot showers. I dress in carhartt and jeans. I never go out to dinner and certainly not at a place where I'm paying more than $25. But I'm tall and in decent shape in my late 30s. That's their idea of high value because even having a disaster of a life. They never for a second ask themselves why I'm…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 03:28 PM
1

Her father: "Maybe after both of you are married and I die you'll get either of your names on the deed. Stop saying it's your land!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 03:21 PM
95

I'm not saying it applies to everyone, but for a majority dating in your mid 30s is a waste of time. We're leftovers for multiple reasons. For guys once we get to our mid 30s we've all experienced or seen friends and family burned by marriage/divorce, infidelity, divorce rape/locked down with an unwanted child. By our mid 30s we've already gotten kind of set in our ways. We like things to happen on our terms. We aren't going to try to change ourselves much for a relationship. Our hormones aren't…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 04:53 PM
9

I want to harshly judge them for their keywords but I finally pressed the button to add them to my bio. The options are pretty garbage. At least a third are things everyone enjoys, a third is woke stuff, and a third are very generic vague hobbies like "walking". Plus you can only pick 5 so even though I do all my running outside I can't justify putting "running" and "outside". If they pick all generic "everyone likes this" options it's a red flag, but with such a poor selection and vague categor…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 03:24 PM
16

spent her entire 20’s married and now wants out in her 30’s? My sister in law did the same thing. Her friends all got divorced in their early 30s, within a year she was divorced too. She saw herself a tall handsome redneck who has a really fantastic personality. He's in his upper 30s. She separated with my brother trying to monkeybranch to him not thinking even for a second why someone like that is single in his late 30s (he has no interest in LTR). When she missed she swung back to my brother a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 07:11 PM
7

Working and cleaning were her babydaddy's job. She's got a busy day of pracing around in a shitty schoolgirl outfit. Such an adult.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 06:37 PM
13

That's fine, I'd like my dog more than her too. Order of care would be dog=>me=>her dog>her=>her spawn if I was in that household.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 06:28 PM
8

No way. I'd Cotton Hill myself if she had her eyes on me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/10/21 01:00 PM
8

I'll keep the rathberry thpritzther. It would feel weird without it now! Thanks for the promotion!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 08:54 PM
51

I wonder why the hell a single mother wouldn't attract "exciting" guys? Oh, because a child prevents everything she considers "exciting"! Traveling is way harder, going out to dinner is way harder. Every single "exciting" activity is made more difficult with a spawn in the picture. The exciting guy will not be the type that has an interest in giving up his lifestyle for a demanding cunt and someone else's kid. If you wanted exciting you should have thought about that before you started saying "A…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 06:27 PM
22

Because women are ALWAYS trying to trade up. They're an easy target. Guys are targeted on their desperation/lack of luck dating. Women are targeted for their lust and greed. Figure out their type, be an inch taller/longer than their expectations and watch them lose everything all over that extra inch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/21 01:30 PM
51

Husband comes back from overseas to find his wife 5 months pregnant, he ditches her. She tries to stick her fuck buddy with the bill, it turns out he's not the father either. Woman is left there upset that the world has done her wrong. "HOW COULD THIS HAPPEN TO ME?!" she screams!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 02:09 PM
8

When every woman started believing they have the same body type as Marilyn Monroe. Maybe they don't have EXACTLY the same, but they have a cute face so they can use "curvy"!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/21 01:14 AM
28

If she's 5'11 she's definitely over 250. Thats heavier than I got during the year I was working on Long Island and eating ziti/italian food from the coffee truck for lunch every day, and I'm 6'4! I was EMBARRASSED about 250 at 6'4!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 02:25 PM
18

No surprise that none of her "hobbies" requires physical activity. By "traveling" she wants to be brought to the hotel, uber/taxi to restaurants/the beach. You're going to carry everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 02:23 PM
5

She's not much older than I am Same here. She's within my dating range but I look like a late 30s guy, she looks like a mummy. She looks 20+ on me. What the fuck happened?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 12:35 PM
4

That might be why I don't have those drives. I didn't have women in my life when I was younger. My mother was too busy staring at the bottom of a bottle to be a mom. I was fairly unattractive (and had a pretty lacking personality) in high school. I didn't have any women in my friend circle until I was in my early to mid 20s. I'd already established my life by then. I was already doing the "man" stuff and "woman" stuff of my household, I didn't feel like doing it for two people like I was seeing …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 07:08 PM
6

It's more than just brainwashing. There are biological urges in us to do stupid stuff for relationships we aren't ready for. Kinda the opposite of baby crazies. I don't think I'll ever be able to shake "the American dream". 2 story house, 2 car garage in the suburbs with a white picket fence, wife, 2.5 kids and a dog. I would hate every part of that (I like dogs but I'd make a shitty pet owner). I absolutely do not want kids. I don't want to live in the suburbs. I've never had any intention on g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 06:04 PM
8

That has really started to pick up lately. I've seen at least 4 "Sober, but drinks occasionally" at least 3 times in the last 2 weeks. I'm sure she also wants something serious and is not into hookups but has sex with random men occasionally too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/21 03:10 PM
13

She looks like someone's Great Aunt Fanny. That's a ROUGH 29. With her clothing choices and looks I'd assume 45-50 with no wrinkles because she's been gaining wait steadily her whole life to round them back out. Not in a million years would I think she's 10 years younger than me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 01:15 PM
2

But with marriage they get to put their feet up and blame their unhappiness on someone else! Sounds like a pretty sleezy win-win on their end.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 03:47 AM
19

Unfortunately a 36 year old non-toxic woman with no baggage is scarce because there aren't many people who actually want a relationship that are 36, non toxic, no baggage. Both men and women. The ones without baggage who want relationships are married off. The ones without baggage over 35 aren't looking for anything serious. They've either gone spinster or MGTOW even if they don't know it yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 03:35 PM
38

Even at 36 Yup. I'm in that age range. I go on tinder just to laugh at the amount of single women with kids that are their world. All you would have to do to catch my eye even at 36-38 would be to be not fat (don't even have to be in shape, just no blobbin' about), no kids, and not have a profile that reads like an "I WANT I WANT I WANT" shopping list. Oh, and zero comments about guys height. I'm 6'4 but I won't even give the time of day to a woman with a height requirement listed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 12:24 PM
46

They'll scream about toxic masculinity and not even try. That's far easier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/21 12:20 PM
8

You'll probably get "Married to a successful hot doctor with a big house and I'll be a stay at home mom!". Or "I'm going to start my own weed bakery and sell edibles!" with no plan on how they'll afford/get access to a commercial kitchen so they can legally sell them to a dispensary while being able to monitor the THC content beyond "I put a quarter in a tray of brownies!". (Sorry if that's a bit specific, but I'm up to 3 women and one guy who have said that. The only lazier, poorly thought out …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/21 02:17 PM
180

Jesus Christ I hate her. She was so close but instead she's going to choose the path of cats and wine. She seriously cannot look into the future for even a moment and see that's where her path leads her. If she's had a boyfriend for 2.5 years, she's that much older and closer to the wall than when they started. She thinks her value has only gone up because her self esteem is higher. She thinks she won't fall the fuck apart again when she ends up pumped and dumped by the tier of men that aren't g…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/21 03:49 PM
42

PRETEND to give your time and attention to them. Few messages a day, meetup whenever YOU feel like it. The relationship dynamic has changed. Stringing people on is the name of the game now. As long as you're leaving the trail of bread crumbs and they're following you're in the green.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 02:32 PM
15

Yup, "Controlling" and "Abusive" mean that they were acting like children, you tried to help, and they went off on a spoiled teenage hissyfit because they used to be able to work with their mom to con the stepdad into getting her whatever she wanted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 12:44 PM
11

Her life is a disaster. He was "controlling" because he was trying to keep her shitshow together. He didn't let her do everything she wanted (because she's fucking braindead), by keeping her from putting her hand on a hot burner that makes him controlling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 12:42 PM
5

She's born again sober once per day. Now she's looking for a tradsober man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 03:37 AM
7

Eh, I'd say its 20% being surrounded by alcohol is a bit weird, 80% bars are loud and not very fun when you're sober. I feel like a hypocrite but I'm way less patient with drunk people since I stopped drinking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/21 03:35 AM
6

If kids these days watched educational shows like Ren and Stimpy they'd know what a liver spot is!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/21 01:05 PM
4

She could improve it. Get out more, lose some weight, find some real hobbies. But it sounds like she doesn't want to fight it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 01:38 AM
2

Ahhhh, the type of person that always insists on splitting the bill when out with friends. She got an app, 5 mixed drinks, an expensive dinner and desert. She wants the guys who got burgers and beers to pay the same amount she does then goes on about how unfair it is and she always splits the bill when out with us. (No, she never has. Her idea of "splitting it" is just paying her part if she got something cheap. We usually can't even get her to throw in for someone's birthday dinner)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 01:11 AM
1

She's lazy and I notice that with most women out there. I didn't realize this until I saw the stat that women are supposed to be 67% as strong as us but so many of them struggle to lift a bag of cat litter. They're soooo out of shape that they're not moving a 5 gallon bucket on their own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 01:02 AM
33

"Intimidated by" is their bs way of reasoning why people won't talk to them. It shows that it's not her fault, she's just too far above every one else. In reality people treat them like this because they're absolutely abrasive and don't know any conversations deeper than gossip.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 01:00 AM
2

She can't keep a partner, her kids don't call her and her friends are avoiding her. She's probably not a very pleasant person to be around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 12:54 AM
3

"a waste of time and money" Not always. I see some women who play video games all the time while their partner works. "I like video games" doesn't mean "I want to involve you in my video games". They're not even into vaguely the same genre so they never play together. Edit: Oh, also her partner won't play with her because she smokes so much weed and he can't stand bow bad she stinks up the room.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 04:51 PM
30

I'm getting the vague feeling her "disability" is obesity related. She has a strong "Nothing is my fault!" attitude. It's her genetics! She just skimmed over it trying for the pity card. She's only telling the part she wants us to hear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 04:01 PM
13

This is one situation where I'm okay with it. She can fuck the bad boys because she's a bad person. If nobody wants to be around her or talk to her it's not some party girl that fell victim to the CC. She's gotta be just awful. Let the bad boys do their thing with her. Hell, she might serve as a warning sign that they could do better. They could look down after they climax and think "What the hell am I doing with my life?!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 03:53 PM
12

I feel like the cards are stacked against them because women crab-in-a-bucket pretty hard and they're indoctrinating younger women with "BEING FAT AND SLUTTY IS OKAY! LIFE WILL TURN OUT GREAT!" as they pet their cats and drink their wine. But they're not victims, they're just losers. They changed an old legitimate competition of dating/relationship and turned it into a game of Calvinball. They're upset that nobody wants to play, and the ones who do get out after saying they scored infinity +1 po…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 03:52 PM
49

Don't forget the whining and the blaming everyone else. Something about her is totally unlikeable if her kids won't call, her friends abandoned her during a "suicide attempt" (they knew it was for attention) and guys won't stick around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/21 03:44 PM
7

The matriarchy ruins the lives of men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/21 02:23 PM
26

Yup. He was toxic. Just like every other man she has dated. She refuses to check her shoes when it smells like shit everywhere she goes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 05:07 PM
33

Don't you see all the women lining up to pay for other people's kids?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 04:50 PM
5

My mom mows the lawn every week. It's a pretty big lawn, takes an hour and a half. My dad busts his ass for the business 4 nights a week, she "retired" a few years back because she messed up her thumb smacking the release lever on the Hobart a few thousand too many times. She doesn't seem to mind at all. She's out there with her huge over-ear headphones on singing away with her big travel mug of tea in the cup holder. I think it's purely gender stereotypes that prevents it. Though if I could ges…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:57 PM
15

If someone was paying the bills for me I'd feel guilty as shit. I'd try to keep the house perfect and do all the chores if I ended up broke and unemployed crashing with a friend. They don't feel guilt or shame.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:51 PM
7

But what would the world be without life coaches?! IT WOULD BE ANARCHY!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:49 PM
14

"safe" men that are not "exciting" I'm one of those "safe" men to my best friend's girlfriend. She has even commented that I'm one of the few guys who has never even tried to flirt with her. I really think she sees me as a beta. I still get my grins though. She's safe for two reasons. First I'd NEVER flirt with a friend's girlfriend. Even in my alcoholic years I never once did it. And two she's a fugly hog. But I keep up appearances for my friend. Last thing I want is for her to be upset at me b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:37 PM
9

"You can't get laid" and "Virgin" are totally fine because they know it hurts guys. But their virginity doesn't matter at all!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:08 PM
8

They're weaving a thick web so any thought about consequences or culpability will become trapped and can ever hurt them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 02:05 PM
1

Financial, gym, ability to work a room Be tall. You can be a selfish garbage person with no game. I'm proof. Any profile with a height requirement and "NO HOOKUPS" is shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 01:20 AM
3

They say it for two reasons usually. The first two are to keep her ego happy. She's not a slut because she says NO HOOKUPS. It's to try to make themselves seem innocent when they do hook up. "I don't usually do this but it just feels right". They can also blame it on pressure because she wrote right there "NO HOOKUPS" but the guy still had completely consensual sex with her. That way if he doesn't stick around she can try to be innocent and say he pressured her into it. Third, it's a sniffer for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 01:12 AM
3

It attracts the kind of men who think that they can fix her, comfort her, bring her back from the edge. The kind that wants to save her. But she isn't the princess in a castle that oh-woe-is-me needs rescuing. That's her distraction. She's really the dragon and once you get into her tower you're stuck. That level of crazy lies about birth control and if you leave her "she'll kill herself".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 12:59 AM
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Black women were the least desired group of people on dating apps. So other women copied them. That's the kind of big-brain move these whales are pullin'. I'm sure the rules don't apply to THEM though. Acting undesirable will make men want her! https://i.imgur.com/wtAtuSI.png https://i.imgur.com/A8ZERBj.png
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/21 12:41 PM
6

I bring it up every time there's a post calling out a guy for "slut shaming". In the comments there's always people calling him a virgin. There's comments about how men are wrong about shouldn't care about women's virginity in the same thread they're calling the men who do that virgins. When I say "Stop using virgin as an insult and the virginity stuff might calm down a bit" but nope. We gotta stop slut shaming while allowing them to insult us with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 08:55 PM
12

They love throwing around "VIRGIN!" too. But ask about their virginity and "It doesn't matter, it's not important!". I get downvoted to shit every time I bring it up. You're allowed to virgin shame but not slut shame. Worst part is that all sluts are sluts for the same reason. They had sex with a lot of different people. But virgins? You're going to use their sexual status as an insult for something they DIDN'T do?! But with the downvotes I get shit like "You shouldn't be comparing the problems …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 05:36 PM
4

I really like that quote, never heard it before. Perfectly describes my history. Only dated three times in my life and each time I felt like it was a mistake. I'll admit it. I'm just too damn selfish for a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 02:36 PM
5

Look how dead she looks. She's 420 friendly because she uses it to avoid life and to "take the edge off" her screaming kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 01:40 PM
10

Because a lot of men only get the scraps. The leftovers. The shit from the back of the fridge that's starting to live again. I'm glad I don't have it, but some people also have a very high need/drive to reproduce. They'll go pretty far to try to fulfill that need. Even if it means wearing dresses/makup and calling themselves trans. Many have also been lonely much of their life. If you only know lonely then it seems like the worst thing ever. It's damn hard to show them that there are far worse a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 01:39 PM
8

deadpan it enough That's gonna be damn easy for her. THATS the picture she picked for her profile. She looks so absolutely dead inside. Probably from living her life stoned as fuck, then stepping it up when a screaming child entered her life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 01:30 PM
33

"Must be at least 6'2 if you want want the privilage to pay for me and my crotchgoblins"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/21 04:05 PM
6

They start at 500k and go up to 780k depending on your choice of propane/electric/hybrid/diesel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 03:28 PM
5

...what.. why? Is that a medical condition? It looks like he got his head stuck in a kitchen trash compactor and was only able to shut it off moments before his head popped. I guess they both do now that I look at her face. The fat in her cheeks recoverd a bit but that's a square face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 06:07 PM
3

70%-ish Doing better than me. I have one friend that is still married and they've only been going for 5 years. Everyone else in my life who got married (except my parents) are now divorced. All my uncles. My brother. Two of my really close friends, countless acquaintances. It's over 95% divorce rate in my life (37 years old). There are a few exceptions. One friend's wife died of a heroin and benzo overdose leaving their kid without a mother. Another one didn't monkey branch to anther man as much…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 06:04 PM
2

My fuckin' boss will keep milk in the work fridge for days and keep using it for his coffee after it's obviously bad and starting to chunk. I have no idea how he doesn't barf/gag/get sick. So there might be someone out there for this puke worthy chunky whorebitch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 01:15 PM
6

I would say up to 11 destroyed futures. She destroyed her own by getting knocked up. She destroyed her kids because they're never going to know a normal loving household. Hopefully their fathers (the other 5) provide better parenting when it's their time to be with the kids. Those 5 guys are going to have significantly more trouble trying to meet their potential when they can't save much money because moochybitch takes a third, rent takes half and the rest is trying to keep their old car going a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 01:09 PM
3

Don't forget the constant whines of "Why can't we get a horse?!?!?!" Then when she divorce rapes you she'll refer to you as her abusive ex because you wouldn't let her get a horse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/21 02:23 PM
3

I figure the only way to cut down on that without hurting the children's lives is to make it a loan. You get pregnant and take state aid? You gotta start paying it back when the kid turns 18. If you threatened with 50% repayment or even 25% repayment. I wish I thought that would work, but that would require at least a little bit of forethought and these single mothers seem to be absolutely lacking on that front. We'd just end up with more older women on the streets causing communities to convert…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 04:39 AM
5

I was trying to figure out exactly what was going on there. Is it makeup on top of plastic surgery with a filter to bring it all together? I'm sure she's looking for "someone real".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 02:04 AM
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My uncle used to be a party animal. There were stories about his 4' rainbow bong. He signed up for one of the branches of the armed services and the night before he was supposed to head to boot camp he had a going away party. He got way too drunk and just didn't go. Few weeks later some soldiers and a police officer (maybe MP?) showed up at his door and arrested him. They put him in whatever jail they put military criminals in. Tiny room all by himself with far fewer "rights" than even a normal …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/21 02:03 AM
1

He goes for a jog with the dog in the morning, goes to the gym after work, goes for another jog with the dog in the evening because he likes it and she refuses to walk it even though she got it. He's out of the house for 10 hours a day for his work and commute. He's unavailable for 45 minutes in the morning and evening while walking the dog and showering. He's unavailable for another hour and 15 minutes for gym shower, travel time. If we cut out 8 hours for sleep we have 3 hours and 15 minutes l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 10:29 PM
5

Lifting heavy things A majority of women use "I'm a woman!" as their excuse to be in terrible shape. I know they are physically handicapped compared to men for lifting/carrying, but don't look at me like I asked you to lift a bus when I'm passing a 20lb bag of mulch after claiming to be "one of the guys" all the time. You're supposed to have 67% our strength. Imagine how bad a guy would get laughed at for only being able to lift 30lbs? People would be asking how he's even able to keep his head u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 10:15 PM
5

LET’S STOP SHAMING WOMEN FOR VIEWING RELATIONSHIPS AS TRANSACTIONAL. man trades money for company and sex but doesn't commit because the relationship is transactional. NOT LIKE THAT!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 08:34 PM
20

They're so shallow! But not at all like she was before 30! She was just picky and knew her value!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 08:26 PM
14

Don't shame on Oompa Loompas. They worked hard in a factory that OSHA and the food inspectors have never stepped foot in. Workplace accidents are through the roof. They're putting their little lives on the line to bring you candy and chocolate. She's just a fat fat fatty fat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 08:24 PM
12

Thems used to be the rules. If a guy knocks a girl up the father grabs his shotgun and they get married. But them women changed the rules and now they can sleep around as much as they want. Hell, they're encouraged to. Sex outside marriage was a huge nono so people were okay with Chad and Stacy being punished with being in a lifelong relationship that they wanted to just be a hookup. Now the punishment is the guy gets stuck with child support, she stays a lonely whore. That's as "locked down" as…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 08:18 PM
6

As an idiot who had "no hookups" in his profile it was to defend my ego. I said I was looking for something serious. I was the friggin guy version of some of these posts. Had my fun, want to settle down. The "no hookups" was so when I'd meet up with someone and inevitably hook up it would be part her fault because I did say "no hookups" but they hooked up with me anyways. I'll always feel like a moron about that. But I was getting those daydreams of a house in the suburbs with a wife, 2.5 kids, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:59 PM
16

Her interests are also blander than steamed chicken.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 04:46 PM
47

Bring back shaming in general. I feel like lack of shaming is a big part of why things are falling apart lately. People are allowed to be PROUD of being a disaster hiding it behind blank positivity/acceptance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/21 02:34 AM
4

Gumjobs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 04:37 PM
17

It looks like my friend Curt (a floridaman to give you the image) got drunk as shit and took a pair of scissors to his hair without a mirror then stole a dress from someone's sister's bedroom and put it on. This is moments before he passes out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 02:21 PM
7

I never said that I thought it was fair. I think there should be legal repercussions. But not being able to be around the people they grew up with because they know she's a lying banshee makes me feel good.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 09:04 PM
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Legally. I'm betting in the community what she did spreads and makes her life more difficult/dangerous.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 07:25 PM
3

With gay guys "the wall" has a much more direct term. "Gay Dead". You hit 30 and you're not getting those college kids or 20somethings anymore unless you've got a rocking body, money, or hard drugs. The most attractive guys physically are no longer in their range. For women they hit roughly 30 and the eyes aren't on them anymore. It's not people their age modeling for all the clothing/advertisements they see everyday. The top 20% of guys they want are able to date way younger than them. They wer…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 05:14 PM
3

Even "average" is 176lbs for women in the US. I'm a 6'4 guy and I only weigh 15lbs more than that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 02:46 PM
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Woman lies about birth control, man is still responsible for the child for 22 years. Man lies about birth control he's the bad guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 01:49 PM
6

It has to keep getting worse for them to stay in their fantasy. If they keep raising the bar for men they can stay in their delusion that they're not single because they're an unemployed alcoholic who makes bad decisions. It's because there aren't any men good enough for her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:49 PM
9

Her massive fantasy collection.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 04:08 AM
18

She probably doesn't think she's a 10, but she thinks 9 and 10s are braindead skinnybitches. Plus she "has a pretty face" and "holds it well" so that makes her an 8. She reads BOOKS so she's so much smarter than the skinnybitches. Brains like those deserve a brad movie star.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/21 03:29 AM
11

Plus lots of manatees are dying of starvation this year. She has a 0% chance of dying of starvation in the next year.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 01:22 PM
2

Yup. Been with plenty of loose (morally) women. The only loose (physically)/blown out people were mothers and two that liked HUGE toys. One of them even had a doubleblowout from using wrist-sized toys both holes. I'll even be gross and say it wasn't bad. Totally effortless to enter. No searching at all. Just thrust forward and tada! Inside! No risk of slipping out and bending your dick when going hard either. There's no missing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 08:03 PM
1

Archer: "Whatever. Call it her can't, me won't."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 02:41 PM
3

I have sympathy for them. I think part of it is men maturing slower. In our 20s we still have too much "I'm invincible, I can do anything!" in our systems. If I sat down 22 year old me and tried to redpill him I doubt it would work. I'm sure he'd be thinking "Who hurt me so bad to make me a bitter old man?". I'd tell him it wasn't even me that was hurt, I'd just watched my friends and my brother torn down by women playing todays rules. He'd probably be thinking I'm bitter because I was never abl…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 02:53 PM
1

Craigslist is gold for used panels. Just bought two 380w for $150 each. I put off buying any until a few years ago and I'm kicking myself about it. I'd love to find a good consumer grade wind turbine but it doesn't look like any of them are useful except on boats or in the midwest. Last summer I spent 2 months completely disconnected from the grid thanks to them. Only got one month this summer, so cloudy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 02:43 PM
10

Lost two friends of the "cishet white men bad" thing. They were long time friends, I never saw it coming. I tried to stop it by calling them out on it. Most of their friends were straight white men. All the men in my family are straight white men and they got along just fine. But it kept getting worse. Finally one of them posted a "Men are rapists do better" type thing and when I called them out on it they doubled down about one public incident they had where "I was afraid to say no" (there were…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 02:40 PM
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And of those .005 I'd say it would be 95%+ would be out of her relationship league. They'll toss her a bone here and there but they're just leading her on. This woman would have to meet up with a million men to finally find someone she wants to fuck that wants to marry her and her chances are getting lower with every dick she jumps on. It's bad. Even my grandma who was with her husband for 65 years before he passed said that if she was raised nowadays she probably would have divorced him rather …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/21 01:52 PM
42

They look at that like reparations for what men have done to women in the past.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 11:39 PM
46

It's a shit test. If you actually share your dreams, your fears, your worries they will see it as weakness and use them against you. You are no longer nearly as perfect as the best parts of her least 10 partners. If a woman is going around saying "Men need to open up!" it's because guys have their guard up when around her. For good reasons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 02:23 PM
18

Wow, confirmed it's a bunch of post wall narcissists. Cuz the narcissist apple don't fall from the raisedbynarcissists tree.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 02:17 PM
4

You're only allowed one shot or it's metoo o'clock. Hard to get is built into their psyche to prove a guy is dedicated and persistent, both very good qualities in almost every part of life. So they try to shittest those qualities in ways that used to work, but now the guys just walk away to avoid metoo accusations. Women is left standing there blaming everyone else for this happening, where are all the good men?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 01:33 PM
2

She owns the business but she was such a shitty employee she fired herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 04:57 AM
5

It is a lot of work. She has to sit there and try to think of the absolute best attributes she has. I'd rather work an 8 hour day than spend 15 minutes trying to find something better than "She's far away" to like about that blob.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 04:08 PM
1

Ahhhh, it sounds like you too have ventured to Long Island.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 04:07 PM
6

Ahhh, we have a friend like that. She does more than her part to keep America drug free by consuming them all herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 04:05 PM
27

Most of the people I know who went to school for psychology are fuckin' nuts or hot messes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 04:04 PM
8

When I was younger and dumber I'd send them when asked. Too risky nowadays.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 07:39 PM
13

I think you mean ggilf, at least in my area. Plenty of people got knocked up between 16 and 20. Their 16 to 20 year olds have already had kids. I'm 37 and there's a good amount of people from my class who are grandparents already. Feminists need to change their "WOMEN AREN'T BABY FACTORIES" stance to "NOT ALL WOMEN ARE BABY FACTORIES". Because there are plenty of women that are proud to be baby factories.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 04:12 AM
2

I'm betting there's some serious food stamps involved for a single unemployed mother of 3 and soon to be 4. Really wouldn't surprise me if he was able to buy all their food, including his own on her food stamp card. It's not like she can use food stamps on doordash anyways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 09:11 PM
1

The guy has been going to "Poly Camp" since the 90s. He's getting plenty. Stays the hell away from her though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 07:56 PM
6

Obviously because the PATRIARCHY is unfair and judges them on the person they WERE not the person they ARE! If men don't want what women want them to want they're WRONG!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:56 PM
11

For good reasons. I think it's one of those FDS rules where if a man hunts/fishes he has too much toxic masculinity and likes to kill animals. They only EAT animals, that's OK! Killing them is wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:35 PM
13

Huh. You're right, never thought about that! It must be a trick to attempt to lure manly outdoorsy Chads after they've had a kid or two, or just lost their looks slamming into the wall. "Look! I have hobbies you would enjoy! I totally do that!". Kinda strange since many women say that a man fishing/holding a fish is a huge red flag
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:00 PM
26

She's mooching off her ex husband because she has nowhere to go. Ex husband probably tolerates it because he gets to keep his kids and tolerating her fat ass is worth it compared to the cost of daycare/babysitters. It's not like she can go anywhere since he's not paying for her car/life anymore. I'm sure she's on welfare so his only real cost is sanity and utilities. As much as he probably hates her I'd still expect him to cause drama for new guys for the sake of his children. They get to grow u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:55 PM
39

A litany of health problems She's obese. That's why she's diabetic and losing hair. I'm guessing well into morbid obese by the laziness dripping from this profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:24 PM
2

I took a pretty big hit myself. I was renting half of a huge beautiful home, 2 car garage, in the suburbs. I had a car so new that I was the 12th person in the country to buy that model and the 1st one to insure one on Geico so they had to enter everything manually. I was living a good life. Ended up selling the car for something cheaper (I really didn't need that much car, and got an extra 18k in my pocket for the trade). I moved into a 400 square foot place. I don't have a washer and dryer yet…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:16 PM
7

They finished maturing earlier than us. They're stuck in the part of our childhood where we felt invincible, we could do anything! I'll openly admit I was a dumbass back in those days and made a lot of poor decisions but I got to grow out of it in my mid 20s. They continue this feeling for a lot longer than men do. Many for their entire lives. Once in a while they'll come so close to figuring it out. "Wait, I thought I was invincible and could do anything! Why do bad things keep happening to me?…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 01:45 PM
35

metoo happened. Women re-wrote how you are supposed to pursue them. Women added the rule that 5 "no"s and one yes does not = yes. They set themselves up so they'd be able to quickly dismiss the bottom 80% in a way they'd never try again. But women did not change their game book around the new rules. They still want to play THEIR game which has conflicting rules for the game they make us play. They'll never give up "hard to get". They even love its most basic form where they gently deny sex a few…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 01:22 PM
11

I'm sure she muttered my most hated phrase, "And I decided to keep it" at least once. Her life ruined. Possibly the baby daddy life ruined. Her family will have to bear some of this weight. The kid's life will be fucked, and our taxes pay for it. Just because she's selfish and wanted a little cunt prize for a few years to stave off her perpetual loneliness. Someone who won't realize how much of a fuckup she is for at least 10 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 09:55 PM
2

Shaving and getting a nice haircut would make him pretty attractive! He has the same facial hair type I do, and I've never been able to make it look decent with any kind of length.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 03:44 AM
2

Da fuck is she wearing? Are those sweatpants you pull all the way up to your titties? And why the pattern from a 70s hotel carpet? She looks like she could be pretty if she put in a year or two of effort to clear up her current "contractor bag full of yard waste" body style. But it sounds like the most effort she will put into something is to dream of it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 11:13 PM
3

She also has a daughter who grew up with this cunt as the adult in her life. So you get not one, but TWO Karens for the cost of 7!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 11:06 PM
9

She spends almost her entire day in her bedroom doing fantasy shit. Now I'm not saying that this 100% means she's fat and gross, but a gross majority of the women that describe themselves as a homebody that loves fantasy have been blobs that rarely wear anything but sweatpants/pajamas. They end up such disasters that they end up non-binary because between their pajamas and their obesity they don't really look like a guy or a chick anymore. They could put in effort to correct it, OR they could ex…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 05:41 PM
2

It's probably a combination of shittiness too. The guy could still be madly in love with her and trying to win her back by continuing to give her a good, stable life while he sadly orbits this hag. They're "taking a break". Or she separated from him and is threatening to take half is stuff and half his pension if he doesn't keep paying her way. She may be too damn lazy to want to deal with adulting herself. Why bother when you've got a manslave that will take care of all the responsibilities for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 05:32 PM
3

I consider myself pretty masculine but her face is definitely more manly than mine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 05:24 PM
2

Thanks for reminding me of the ticket I had last year where I had to find out who on a network was looking at so many granny porn sites. This customer was cheap so they had a solution that would run a report on all the sites visited that day, for how long, how many times and send it to the owner. But that's all he got. No names/computers attached to any of this information. So I had to do that research myself! Turned out to be one of the partners so nothing ever came of it other than the CEO kno…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 05:22 PM
2

Cuz ya motha once toldja when women get olda the muffin downstairs don't stay moist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 05:19 PM
73

create their own personal websites to host it, HAHAHAH! AHAHAHAHHA! Sorry, I deal with women "web developers" all day and if it can't be done in wordpress, it's impossible. Fucking idiots don't even know how to configure DNS to reach their site unless Godaddy does it for them. If they're the type to be showing their asshole on the internet for $5, there's no way they have the skills for a video hosting platform. And no way for them to pay someone competent to do it for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:22 PM
45

Happened to my best friend. She broke up with him when a friend came into town fucked that guy all week, then started getting back together with him. My friend was trying to do it too! He had terrible self confidence when it comes to women so he didn't want to lose his "only chance". I started off liking her, then hated her guts by the end of it. I wouldn't talk to her, smile at her, hug her when she showed up. I made it awkward when I saw her taking advantage of my friend. I spent the first hal…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 10:54 PM
24

Men are bastards for using her like a fuckdoll when she's using them as a fuckdolls. This doesn't just make her a hypocrite it makes her a sociopathic bitch. She wanted, NEEDED to feel like men were getting emotionally involved with her when she was just going to toss them to the side without a second thought when she was done/bored with them. She wanted the guys she hooked up with to pine over her after she left even though she'll shortly delete his number and forget his name. She needs that ma…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 03:52 AM
15

She might be aiming a bit high. She should be happy to get a guy with a debit card, a part time job and a studio apartment on the ground floor (can't be on any higher floor or the neighbors will complain about the noise her hooves make above them). Filters to hide her haggard skin. Her hand holding back her additional chins. Burned out hair, stickers. Lady, someone offering to share some BK with you would probably win you over.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/21 01:51 PM
31

There was this one absolutely useless guy at a company that I worked for. He'd fuck up all the time. One day I hear the manager talking to him about whatever he screwed up and after a bit of back and forth she says "Are you stoned or just stupid?". I could not stop giggling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 01:21 AM
2

My brother and his wife did that. They sold their second car to pay for the wedding. They cut the insurance on their other car to the bare minimum, lower than was required by the bank so they could have absolutely screwed themselves. They spent between $25,000 and $40,000 on the wedding (I've gotten different numbers from different family members). It was an okay wedding. The food was okay. The DJ was the same one that does the high school dances. The venue was holiday inn quality. They were in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 05:38 PM
34

She's the type of artsy-fartsy person who always needs funding for her projects but never has any buyers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/21 10:54 PM
3

There's one part of my family that's VERY "conservative" and "godly". They're your usual "CELEBACY UNTIL MARRIAGE!" "GAYS ARE BAD!" loud type that are involved in every school/community function they can be. They are the stereotype of the conservative family in my area. I'm pretty sure every woman in their family for the last 4 generations has been pregnant by 17 unwed. Conservative/traditional women are sluts without conservative/traditional punishments to keep them in line.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/21 04:28 PM
19

Had a co-worker living out of his car so he'd be able to pay his child support and take care of his kids. Courts somehow INCREASED the amount he was supposed to pay so he was trying to make meals last 2 days and still getting in trouble for not paying enough. He ended up running off into the woods when COVID started because he decided he wasn't going to keep busting his ass and now risking his health just for his ex wife to waste on her middle class lifestyle. One of the kids ended up fucking up…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/21 04:24 PM
5

Maybe if you're at 8 months and trying to give an explanation why you're so fat. But not when you're fat-fat already, you aren't explaining away that many boxes of wine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/21 07:43 PM
6

I'd work part time on the books at minimum wage for my brother while getting the rest of my hours/pay under the table. I'd let her get by on the $170 a month she could get.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 08:50 PM
8

She's the type that would get crying-sloppy-drunk if she went to a party of gay guys. With nobody paying attention to their body and nobody giving them special treatment they'll start drinking, maybe they'll get more interesting when drunk. Nope, the guys still treat her like she's invisible because she can't hold even the most basic conversations because she keeps trying to steer the conversation to the only thing she knows shit about, herself, and everyone is ignoring them. Then she gets black…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 08:39 PM
9

I'm pretty sure I won't play a game if it is absurdly unfair to me 'specially when there's a 50% chance of the "prize" ruining you in a few years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 05:35 PM
1

She looks like she fought 12 rounds with gravity and lost terribly. Laying on her back on the carpet is the only way to try to disguise her droopiness.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 01:30 PM
3

I hate when people start making weed part of their personality. When friends stop greeting you and instead say "Want me to go get the bong?" when you visit them. The friends that have to talk about it all the time, "Weed weed weed weed video games weed weed politics weed weed TV weed weed video games"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 02:03 AM
2

I think this is why there are so many trendsexuals. You never meet a 666 one. It's almost always someone that would be totally invisible to women. There's other species that disguise themselves as a female to get in close to breed if they're a runt. Not surprising it's happening to us. I think they're fuckups, but I also acknowledge that they're a symptom of the current state of things.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/21 03:53 PM
12

Best way for a promotion is to sleep with the dumpy HR lady that smells like cat piss. I'd stay poor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 07:16 PM
16

I used to fill out my sign because it was a simple blank to fill in, why not? Took me a while to realize the only type of person that would use that information is crazy. Nobody else cares. I stopped doing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 07:15 PM
16

I wish I could say windows are the exception but you'll always be living in the shadow of the perfect husband she keeps in her memories. She won't remember the things that they didn't agree on. So you're having to deal with them asking themselves "Is this what Previoushusband would do?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 06:26 PM
12

They'll always choose the birth father. When my sister in law divorced my brother she took off to the other side of the state to be with her absent birth father rather than the step dad that had raised her from a child. She HATED her father. He was banned from her wedding. Even as adults with good guys all around them to give them support they race back to bad boy chad dad. The man that cares the absolute least about her divorce;
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/21 06:19 PM
3

My brother and I fell for that crap. I'd escort his wife and her friends out to the nearest city and take them bar hopping. I don't drink, I was there for all the bar food they'd order and only pick at. I'd get to finish it! A few times they played their trap a bit too well and had to use me as their "boyfriend" to get out of it. I thought it was all in good fun, and I love horribly bar food. My sister in law would take off her ring before she left because it would get her more free drinks. Stil…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 09:29 PM
53

I've seen far too many teenage pregnancies turn into pregnant teenagers in my life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 08:28 PM
67

Gonna have to blame women for making too many men. Their bodies, their choice, their consequences.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 04:33 PM
52

Eh, she still triggers uncanny valley pretty hard for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 06:42 PM
3

It's the bare minimum they can do to get the attention of guys. But that's only going to get her the bare minimum if the type of man she desires.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 06:29 PM
18

Tinder requires only the very bare minimum to get the attention of men. They put in no effort then complain that their returns are so low.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 01:24 PM
2

I put my own stats into it and it says there are 0.0% guys who meet the criteria.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 01:21 PM
2

I got 29.3% on ages 33-42, not married, white, 4'10", no obese and any earnings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/21 01:19 PM
6

They don't want to put in the effort to fill out a real dating profile. They've heard that you'll get lots more "matches" on Tinder but it takes 1/20th the work! But then they complain that low work = low rewards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 10:07 PM
0

Disney Princess Ellen Ripley is on that list now!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 03:32 PM
13

Her poor kid. It's way past the point where it should have enough "baby fat" where its arms still look like an infants stuffed-sausage arms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 03:29 PM
2

I've sunk pretty low while drunk but thankfully I've never sunk THIS low.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/21 03:15 PM
1

That's what my sister in law did. Her friends all got divorced and they poisoned her mind with the idea that she was 22 again ready to go out on "girls nights out" to hoe around and have fun. Doesn't work like that when you're 34, obese, have a kid, and have generic 30something mom layered bleached hair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 06:26 PM
3

It's also used so she's not at fault if she does hook up. She SAID no hookups, but he did it anyways! She's innocent!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 06:15 PM
3

If you're the smaller person being the little spoon you're a "jetpack"!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 04:28 PM
11

Having personal preferences is literally violence/rape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 04:14 PM
3

Fake nails serve a purpose. Without them Debby in HR wouldn't have an excuse to why she can only type at 5wpm. It's not her fault she's slow as shit getting back to you about anything, she just doesn't want to break a nail! It's a way to weasel out of 9/10ths of your daily work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 04:03 PM
35

I have a fairly strong dislike of trump, but I would still swipe right past someone who says "No Trumpers". Gives me a pretty good feel that I'd have to conform to everything they wanted .
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 02:59 PM
8

Just another dick in her hall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 01:50 PM
3

People will say it's to discourage predators, calling people who won't date her because of her hair predators. But this is to defend herself against herself. Predators don't even want her so she dyes her hair blue to give herself a reason why she's alone. It's a "You can't fire me I quit!" situation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 08:15 PM
8

It's an admission that they have a huge personality issue that they have no intentions on improving on. There's so many phrases from women like this where they're admitting that they will never try to better themselves and if you don't like it it's your fault.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 04:36 PM
4

Her body is the meatbag equivalent of thinking hair that was burned out by too many bleach jobs
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/21 04:29 PM
43

A dozen people from my class of 70 had grandkids by 35. So many baby daddies, so few husbands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 05:33 PM
2

If the other guys she has been with were hookups, pump and dumps, and then ghosted her that's a huge sign that she's the type you want to hook up with, pump and dump, then ghost. Except for the whole old-as-shit thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 01:59 PM
2

I got hit by a tofu woman last summer. She liked everything I did. She liked all my hobbies. She loved my music, my taste in TV shows. I was pretty sure I smelled a rat so I kept myself protected and let the situation play itself out a little longer. She was really good at keeping up her appearance as the perfect woman for me. Then I got to see her drunk a few times. Her true self showed through. She tried to get me involved in the drama in her discord channels. She got upset when I didn't care.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 08:37 PM
24

I think it's some sort of subconscious defense system. It's not good men don't want her, there's just nobody good enough for her! A real man would "step up" and treat her like she knows how to be treated! The reason no man is doing it is because they're intimidated by how awesome and queenly she is. Not because they're stepping over the dogshit someone left on the sidewalk.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 06:41 PM
5

I was over at my grandma's house on Saturday. Her husband passed away in the fall after 60 something years together. She told me that if things were shifted 50 years forward into today's society they absolutely would have gotten divorced. They had several difficult patches in their marriage but because divorce was looked down on so badly they always put in the effort to resolve things and repair their relationship when things got rocky. She's glad that she didn't grow up today because divorce wo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 03:32 PM
2

They got upset that the hot smart guys they wanted were no longer flirting with them or giving them compliments because it wasn't worth the risk of a crazy bitch ruining their career. They started claiming men were bad and should stay away, so men started ignoring and staying away from them. Now guys are afraid to ask them out in case they decide they want attention and start posting shit about a guy "harassing" them to their facebook/twitter friends. So now they get less "unwanted" attention, b…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 02:52 PM
1

They got upset that the hot smart guys they wanted were no longer flirting with them or giving them compliments because it wasn't worth the risk of a crazy bitch ruining their career. They started claiming men were bad and should stay away, so men started ignoring and staying away from them. "NOT LIKE THAT!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 02:51 PM
1

I used to feel guilty when I'd visit someone and they'd buy me food on their food stamps card. But then I realized how many people do it. Now I look at it as taking advantage of the taxes I paid into. I'm pretty damn sure I won't see nearly as much social security as I paid in so may as well take advantage of it now. In my area there's so many people that are on food stamps but still work 34.5 hour weeks (30 minutes short of getting full time benefits). I don't judge them at all, there's a sever…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 02:48 PM
2

If you hate sleep, money, stability, peace and quiet, nice things, a clean house, vacations and money(x2) she's the woman for you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 01:24 PM
7

10 years ago I considered myself an ally. Now I know I was just an idiot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 01:22 PM
19

Guys tend to get the tingles in High School. For my age group it was Pamela Anderson. Guys had a crush on her because she was hot and popular without knowing anything about her real personality, and she wouldn't have wanted anything to do with some horny teens. Guys grow out of it when the real world smacks them in the face and shows how hard they have to work to get the attention of women. Women don't grow out of it. They still talk about the "spark", or "chemistry". Extremely shallow superfici…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 05:16 AM
2

ur generation is about to see the biggest amount of unmarried women that men don't want. We're already at that point. Marriage rates have been dropping for a while. Every year we set a new record for the biggest amount of unmarried women that men don't want because it's worse than the year before. It's like saying "We're about to see how climate change can affect forest fires". We've been seeing it since the 80s and it shows no signs of the hot mess stopping anytime soon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 09:48 PM
1

I had to re-check her age when you said "Youth". Holy shit, I thought she was a 55 year old Long Island cougar that's been smoking the last 45 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 05:37 PM
2

She'll travel with you! She'll bitch until you take her to a brewery so she can sit and drink all day. Of course you're the DD every time. She'll nag you until you take her somewhere on a trip where she'll mostly sit, meander around and eat. You have to always be with her, you can't enjoy some time fishing because she's not interested in that and she wants to do everything (she likes) together! She'll want you to take her into Boston. You can drop her off at the restaurant so she can get a table…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 03:21 PM
7

Giving me flashbacks to MITM. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3ouolMALIM
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 02:52 PM
18

I've started off friends with a lot of my friends girlfriends. But it always peters off when you start to see her fucking him over. Then the only reason you tolerate her is to keep the peace. Then you start joking with your other friends about stuff like "It's not a party until they're fighting!". The girlfriends always seem to get super pissed when he's having more fun with his guys than he does with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 05:54 AM
9

beta you cruelly dismissed years ago By the time they try to fall back to the beta the beta has too many friends/family that have been divorce raped so they aren't willing to commit anymore. Or it has already happened to them. The "backup plan beta" is quickly learning that he deserves better and can string them along with the possibility of a stable income/home for quite a while. They're stuck with single mothers but those single mothers will dance like a monkey for whatever scraps the betas to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 11:48 PM
14

I feel bad for my brother about this. He has a kid, had a "nice" wife. His wife's toxic friends who had all recently divorced themselves poisoned her mind with the idea that she deserved more, and that she could go back to her early 20s with girls nights out and shit. Now he's single and has a lot of trouble dating/hooking up. He's such a better person than me in almost every way. But I no problem at all even though I'm poorer, more asocial, and overall a pretty bitter asshole. I'm really worry …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 11:43 PM
1

I doubt for very long. Wouldn't surprise me if she had already died.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 05:03 PM
156

"Stupid" is a huge understatement to how horrible FDS is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 06:27 AM
13

Everyone I knew with nip piercing ended up taking them out after an accident that resulted in blood. They freak me out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 11:09 PM
38

I don't think 85% of women can do that. They just think they can. They get their eyes on a guy with different advantages than the guy they're with now. They'll trade a stable income for a tall exciting guy who makes it pretty damn clear he's just spinning plates. They think they can change the new guy into having the same perks as their last partner while keeping his current desirable traits. They can "fix" him. But they're not finding better guys as their assets deteriorate and their waistline …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:56 PM
33

you have to be tall, That's it. I'm a 6 on a good day. Personality wise I'm a selfish recluse. I live in my vehicle (It's a bus, but still a vehicle). I only earn 55k. But I'm tall. That's all I need to get a Tinder response. Money/career only matters if they're looking for a sugar daddy or a bailout. They're hoping that the guy will be at work as much as possible so they can sit around in their pajamas watching netflix, order from Uber Eats and drink wine/smoke weed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:51 PM
56

Tattoos don't bother me too much, but they usually come hand in hand with piercings. Any facial/tongue/titty piercing and I know they're a nutjob.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/21 08:47 PM
28

Why would anyone in 2021 want to start practicing with an Atari? Maybe a few will plow her for the nostalgia of that 70s bush.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/21 03:52 AM
5

Usually some sort of Italian food from the roach coach/coffee truck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 07:58 PM
19

She was our web developer, but she didn't have that many clients so when she wasn't working she was making her documentation as chaotic and complex as possible so only she'd be able to understand it but she'd be able to show the boss that yes, it was all documented. Plus she kept all the high res pictures she used on the sites on an external drive that she took home every day. So when she could no longer come in I had to take over her job and find a replacement. Her "documentation" still pisses …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 05:21 PM
16

She tried, she really did! She'd eat 3 Lean Cuisines with her lunch to help her lose weight!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 04:09 PM
20

Friend of mine got a DWI and was on an E-bike when he met his current long term girlfriend. He lived in a small house he built on his own land without even an electrical connection. There were solar panels everywhere, a generator that ran for several hours a day, a surprisingly nice bathroom/kitchen sink/shower building he built himself and even a small guest house. No hard line internet, shitty cellular connection, and he had to ride his bike 20 miles whenever he'd visit her which was pretty of…
/r/MensRights15/07/21 02:36 PM
36

I wish I could provide examples of her blaming everyone but herself, but I never saw her again because she lost her job because she can't get to the office anymore. She can't walk, she can't use crutches, she doesn't have anyone to buy her a special superfat handicapped van that will allow a 2.5x wide wheelchair to get in and out of, she doesn't have anyone to drive her places in her fattyvan. She has nobody to help her out of bed into a superfat wheelchair. She effectively (and thankfully) drop…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 01:47 PM
11

If a woman asked how many partners I had I'd tell her and she wouldn't care. She'd see that as "Ooooo, I got someone popular/attractive enough to get with a lot of women!". It's almost like men and women just MIGHT have different interests and care about different things!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 01:36 PM
15

They spend 20 years fucking the spectators behind the bushes. The guys that have no interest in running because they know there will be a bunch of excited women with rampaging hormones from the excitement that they will be the one to "win" the first place runner. Why bother running when you can get in on all the fresh women then go home at the end of the day. By the time they're all standing at the finish line they've been standing out in the sun for 12 hours an are exhausted, bitchy, and sore f…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 01:32 PM
24

I could deal with the physical aspects of aging. I don't mind that much. But the baggage part is dead on. I can't compete with the guy in her head that has the best qualities of all her ex boyfriends combined. That's an unwinnable battle because eventually she'll decide that she wants someone that's got the qualities I'm missing and try to monkeybranch off screwing me in the process. Why should I take the risk when I've already spent the last 22 years making a life I'm happy with? Why would I wa…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 01:25 PM
82

A coworker of mine did this. She was super morbidly obese and her hip were failing. No doctors nearby would perform the surgery on her until she lost weight (we're talking hundreds of pounds) because she was too high risk. She kept shopping around and eventually found someone who would do it a few states away. They did one side, and a few weeks later it got infected. Diabetes greatly increases the chance of this happening. So the doctor had to go back in and remove the hip from the socket and pu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 12:53 PM
2

I don't think I've heard of a "love coach" that has a happy long term relationship. They tend to be divorced or spinsters.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 05:32 PM
1

She'll be lucky if she gets the stuff my mother calls "syrup". She dumps brown sugar into water, brings it to a boil, then lets it cool. I learned to enjoy my pancakes with no "Syrup" because of that awful stuff.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 05:32 PM
3

It's a huge warning sign for both genders if someone is hot and single at 38. For a woman it means their personality must be garbage because she was never able to lock down a man when she's already got her shoe in everyone's door because of her body. With a man it means that he's happy being single and probably has no need for a relationship. He's happy with some FWB or one night stands. He has already gone deep into MGTOW and has his own hobbies, dreams, and life that would just be hindered by …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 05:28 PM
2

Get an uber to drop you off as well, don't want her to have a record of your license plate from her doorbell camera when she decides that you raped her after you finally ghost her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 05:25 PM
2

Grinder and paint makes me the welder I aint https://www.etsy.com/listing/729695877/funny-welding-grinding-discs-universal
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 05:21 PM
4

"I wasn't going to shoot anyone, but then they..."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 05:14 PM
18

I'm sure she used my most hated phrase ever, "And I decided to keep it".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 04:32 PM
36

I don't want to defend her, but there's a chance that the fucked up wrist PLUS her gross incompetence is why there's a wrecked U-Haul and she almost got hit by a semi. Sounds like she didn't have any friends to help her either. I'm guessing her friends are narcissistic bitches like herself if she has any left. She does seem to be good at burning bridges.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/21 02:11 AM
29

Chad can be anything from a tall attractive well off guy who only wants to spin plates to a tall guy with tattoos, drugs to share and ghetto cred. None of them want to settle down with the women they pork, just pump and dump. Chad has an alpha male personality with very little respect for the women they sleep with, but that makes them even more irresistible. Women think they can lock down Chad with a kid, or fix Chad and get him to enjoy/appreciate a long term relationship with them. Chad is the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 08:23 PM
5

My sister in law HATED her bio dad for 99% of the time I knew her. Her stepdad is a stand up guy, a teacher, treated her like his princess even though she shared no DNA with him. When my sister in law divorced my brother he let her come back home and live with him. But suddenly she took a HUGE interest in her bio dad and started abandoning her kid with my brother for weeks at a time to go see him 3 hours away. The guy is absolute trash and hasn't changed a bit. But he's having some health issues…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 04:15 PM
9

I bet she wants to take off her ring when she goes out to clubs to "get free drinks". Both my brother and I fell for that. He was okay with it because it was cheaper for him. I was always the DD for "girls night out" because I don't drink, I'm a tall decent looking guy so I could pretend to be their boyfriend if they needed out of a situation, and being women they'd buy a ton of bar food but only nibble at it before going back off to dance/flirt whatever, so I'd get to gorge myself myself on gre…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 04:08 PM
2

Fat girls and gay cowboys give the best blowjobs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 03:10 AM
4

But what happened to all those women who used to cook for their man, keep his house clean, dressed nice for their man, They're on the couch in their sweatpants eating something from Uber eats, watching Netflix and drinking wine/smoking weed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 08:37 PM
35

It's a desperate attempt to get Swedish men to pursue Swedish women. There's a big issue with the men marrying Thai women instead of the locals. Rather than try to figure out what Swedish women are doing to repel men, they try to make it harder for men to have sex outside of a relationship. "Do it for Sweden!" had been used by the government to try to correct it. It all boils down to "Men! Be better!" because it cannot be that this is a consequence of women's behavior. They're trying to lead the…
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:10 PM
1

The manipulators become the manipulated, 'specially after they break 30.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 04:44 PM
8

One of the dating apps I use has stopped displaying ages! I guess not wanting someone within 5 years of you makes you a bigot now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 04:43 PM
1

Wow, this doll faced (not saying this as a compliment, she looks like a cheap chinese knock off doll with her hair and face bleached) is right off the fuckin' sidebar! " think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas,"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 04:13 PM
46

The number of women alcoholics is quickly closing in on the amount of male alcoholics. I imagine that when they're the same or if it ever gets to women drinking more these posters will change to "Why is society making women drink so much?" type things.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 06:44 PM
96

I remember multiple times in my life being told that women were important to the world because they were the emotional part of humanity and that was a good thing that we needed. This sub has opened my eyes to how they've been trying to turn their disability around to try to make it look like a good thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 04:13 PM
3

SLAP THE BAG! (uhg I hate franzia) If these wymonz knew about the Guzzle Buddy it would be the only friend they'd need on a saturday night! https://i.imgur.com/d4sQdkx.png
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/07/21 03:20 PM
20

They weren't willing to commit from 15 to 35, men don't want to commit from 30 up. I don't see where they think it's unfair. Below 30 they have something we want (unless they are a single mother), above 30 we have something they want (unless they're a single mother, then they start younger than 30).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 11:55 PM
22

Everyone I know who uses that is an insufferable cunt at their best. Sorry honey, we can't handle you at your best or your worst. And we don't deserve you at your worst. Nobody deserves your dumpster fire in their life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 03:27 AM
2

After they crank out a kid they claim they're done playing games, and want someone stable and rich. But they'll throw all their requirements out when they see I'm 6'4. Even "good hygiene is a must!" suddenly doesn't matter anymore (I live in my vehicle, showers happen twice a week max). Their requirements are only for betas. I'm far from an alpha, I'm a disaster. But all women care about is securing tall genes , then worrying about who will raise their kid/how they will raise their kid later. Co…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/07/21 03:14 PM
7

Hah! I actually like the flair, it makes me chuckle whenever I see it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 06:23 PM
28

I'm betting she's said/typed "And I decided to keep it" a few times in her life. I have ZERO respect for any cunt who says that. A large majority of them are in no position to raise a kid so it ends up destroying at least 3 lives. Her own, her kid's because their chances at success are far lower, and whatever shmuck ends up paying child support and living in a hole of an apartment while she leaches off his already low wages.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 02:06 PM
133

My friend went to college for a statistics major. He showed me a lot of tricks like this because a big part of the major is learning how to present bullshit information without lying.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 05:16 PM
54

It was a shit test and he walked away from it. It's like when I tell my niece "You have to behave or I'm going home" and she's still a brat to me. She never expects me to actually leave, but unlike her parents I follow through on my punishment threats. She'll cry her eyes out as I get in my car and leave. This woman never got past the mentality of a 7 year old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 01:11 PM
2

Damn, I never even realized it until your comment. Most disney princesses are perfect and they're being oppressed by someone else, then have to overcome the oppression to find their prince
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/21 03:50 AM
10

That saying is old enough where the fat girls were probably the same weight as the average modern day woman. I don't feel like it applies to the obese landwhales of today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 02:12 AM
4

Her kids don't live with her. She's got some substance abuse issues on top of her food abuse issues. I don't doubt 30 at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 04:09 PM
59

If anything this is motivation to keep playing video games if it's repulsive to these awful thots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 04:04 PM
3

I'm a loser with a steamed-chicken personality and at best a 6 on a good day. But I'm 6'4 and have a normal BMI. All my hair and teeth help but it's mostly the 6'4. I have no problems finding hookups at 37 years old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 02:49 PM
3

Yup, and from what I've seen it's usually used by people that are on the heavier end of obese but haven't quite hit morbidly obese yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/21 02:47 PM
12

Sucks that "find the penis" is pretty frowned at during cons now. I used to sit in the hallway 40 feet or so from the bathrooms and try to guess which one people would go into. There'd be several that I just felt were lucky guesses and many that I'd lose "points" over. It was a fun game. Nowadays it would be some extremely high scoring games.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 05:47 PM
46

Women can only think like women. They like to pick bad boys, abusive guys, losers because they're exciting and the chance to "fix" them exists! So they try to be bad girls and challenge a man to "fix" them. Except guys are already busy fixing everything else, and she can't even fix dinner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 05:43 PM
14

My ex sister-in-law fell victim to toxic friends. Her other girlfriends all got divorced within a year. My SIL was the only one married for girls night out parties. So they convinced her to leave my brother. Except they aren't 23 years old and hot anymore. They're 35, fat, have a single mother body and a talk-to-your-manager haircut. Girls night out is much tougher now that they all have to arrange babysitters. It doesn't really happen anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 01:23 PM
8

The only way I can see to divert modern feminists/wokists is if something really awful happens and the western world ends up strongly religious again. Or make people have to pay back the state assistance they used while raising their kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/21 06:57 PM
3

I like the idea that you have to pay it back like college loans when your kids hit 22. I'm not sure if these single mothers can see far enough in the future to understand the consequences, but maybe if as soon as they found out they were pregnant you'd hit them with the debt for having a perfect birth with no issues at a lower end hospital. Maybe seeing themselves being that far in debt where no man will touch them could discourage them a bit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 12:44 AM
19

Another child that will never hear the word "no". Or maybe the opposite, the mother will use "no" all the time but it has completely lost meaning because she never punished her kit for ignoring "no". My niece went through a bitch phase because her mom would say no and make threats of taking away TV, sending her to her room and other standard kid punishments. But she'd never follow through, so my niece totally ignored her! The mom just divorced my brother. My brother has his daughter more than hi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 05:45 PM
7

If it was her before the kid I could give her a pass. But that's something you stop doing when you have a kid you're raising alone. That's total trash.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 02:33 AM
43

At 37 this is painfully true. Sex is easier than ever to find but relationship material is very scarce. Women still single at 37 are disasters, leftovers. Men at 37 have mostly been burned or have had friends that were burned and don't want commitment, they're fine with FWB at best because they've become MGTOW. It's only going to get worse for younger generations for the foreseeable future.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/06/21 01:52 PM
13

They're a socialist about men's money, fast spending capitalist nightmares with their own money. Share yours, not hers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/21 03:31 AM
8

Sing King, Queen, Prince, Princess in a tinder profile is an immediate sign to run the fuck away. None of those people would even be allowed near the castle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 07:39 PM
2

It's going to come back to bite them. White men are realizing nobody cares about them and it's causing them to not care about the people badmouthing them. Tell us we're not invited to the party often enough and we'll start partying on our own and lock the door when they try to get in.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 02:37 PM
1

She's hoping for some of that domestic abuse that police love to dish out so she can use that against him for the divorce and sympathy cards next time she ends up on Tinder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/21 01:05 PM
18

I'm 7/10 on my best day, I count as homeless and I'm garbage at social situations. I don't even make much money. I'd be an absolute garbage father. But I'm 6'4, normal BMI and have all my hair/teeth. That's all they care about sexually.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 01:08 PM
23

She's the reason "fugly" is a word.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 06:57 PM
2

World of Warcraft.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 04:51 PM
20

Definitely. I wish I had any idea how good MGTOW is when I was in my teen years. Back then it was "I'm going to be single forever :( " Now it's "I'm going to be single forever! Wooooo!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 03:47 PM
4

She'll cheat on him after she has secured half his money and is set up to get alimony so leaving him "won't affect her standard of living".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 01:13 PM
5

One of my good friends fell for this. He married this fat girl that played WoW all the time, never had a job, never did anything with herself. Pretty sure she cheated and that's why he threw her fat ass out when he got back from Afghanistan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/21 01:05 PM
7

It's all bad for them but full sugar soda is a faster-acting bad for them. Harder to get their insulin right with how fast it skyrockets. I mean they COULD look up the nutritional information to figure out how much insulin they need before they start the meal but these are not the type that want to do any extra work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 08:36 PM
51

Worked as a model in her 20s. Model can mean a lot of things. A friend of mine was a model. A pajama model. He's a pretty average looking guy but he constantly looks exhausted/burned out/about to fall asleep (drug abuse when he was younger). So he got hired on to wear pajamas and look tired. She could have been a foot model for all we know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 08:30 PM
6

they have a diet coke with their burgers fries and mcflurry. My co-worker made a comment on a woman doing something like that. She whipped around and said "I'M DIABETIC!" Carbonation causes your stomach to dump its contents quicker, and when those contents contain a bunch of full sugar soda it causes it to absorb faster and spike their blood sugar pretty hard. This is why "Diet coke and a pizza please" exists. They'd get the full sugar one if they could, but it causes some issues very quickly. "…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 08:20 PM
3

That's part of why I feel so stupid thinking about it. I don't want kids. I REALLY don't want kids. I couldn't stand an HOA. Hell, I couldn't live in a house in the same place for long without going crazy (I'm a nomad and like it that way). I hate the traffic in suburbs. I think it's my version of baby-crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 05:42 PM
8

Likewise. Pretty sure I trashed my pair bonding with what I did in my 20s. I'm pretty happy living the MGTOW life but I always wonder if I had done things differently if I could have the wife, 2.5 kids, a dog, a white picket fence and a house in the suburbs. I know that version of the american dream is almost a fantasy at this point in time but I still have this irrational feeling that I missed out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 05:08 PM
1

They're trying to change the definition of that to "Non-male identifying people attracted to other non-male identifying people". It's another push to try and force lesbians to like dick.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 03:04 PM
2

Wouldn't surprise me one bit if it's just teenage and 20-something Americans pushing that.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 02:53 PM
13

I'm pretty sure he would have walked away with some very minor road rash if he had his helmet on, and he would have walked away with maybe a bruise if he was wearing helmet and gear. He died doing what he loved. Trying to look cool.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 02:35 PM
7

I call myself a homo/homosexual. The LGBT community doesn't like that word anymore because it's not inclusive or whatever. That's exactly why I use it. It's gone back to being a bad word.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 02:06 PM
10

Plenty of Floridamen fit that stereotype. I probably watched one die last month when he gunned it out of a gas station between two cars to get ahead of oncoming traffic that had just gotten a green light. He lost traction, bike went on its side with him still on it (he didn't get a chance to bail) and bounced his head hard on the asphalt. Huge pool of blood within 30 seconds. He didn't move at all in the 3 minutes it took for my Uber to make it through the light.
/r/MensRights20/06/21 02:04 PM
12

Hell, I don't know what I'd do without being as tall and as strong as I am as a man. I wouldn't be able to live the life I do know because I wouldn't have the physical strength to do repairs on a Freightliner. I wouldn't have been able to get solar panels onto my roof. I couldn't even bring in all the groceries in one trip! What kind of life is that?! I'd feel bad for women except they tend to squander all the advantages they have in life nowadays. They self-handicap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/06/21 01:52 PM
54

I think by 30s/40s the people who wanted to be in a relationship have already gone that route. The single guys have mostly already embraced MGTOW and don't give a shit about impressing/catering to/dealing with leftovers. Many of them have already been burned pretty bad by a previous relationship, or seen friends get burned. They're no longer hormonal 18-25 year olds that would walk a mile on broken glass to hear a woman fart through a walkie-talkie. They've matured and realize that women have no…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 09:35 PM
38

The only negative I've had living with guy friends is that many of them end up dating the cuntiest girlfriends. The worst was when my best friend started dating this horse faced girl who wasn't into any of the stuff we were into. She'd put a damper on anything we did because we had to include her, and we had to do what she wanted to do. I'm pretty sure the only reason he dated her was because she was 28 years old, but if you ignored her butterface she had the body of a 15 year old. Legal but sti…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 12:45 PM
10

without another branch to swing to I've seen several examples of this with my close friends/family. They demand an open relationship or they want a divorce. As soon as the husband/boyfriend agrees they're immediately sleeping with someone that you know they must have had lined up before hand. Within a month they're divorced anyways. Or without the open relationship they are sleeping with someone within days of the divorce.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 05:54 PM
-2

Only because the VP said something that I doubt the democrats wanted to say. I think that if Biden hadn't run his mouth Obama would have left gay rights untouched for the rest of his second term. But after Biden said it there was no putting the toothpaste back in the tube.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 12:26 PM
4

As someone who was very liberal and always voted democrat you're absolutely right. Democrats will virtue signal and say they're going to fix the things that liberal voters want, then they never do it or totally half ass it to protect their investors. Obama said he was for gay rights but he made it 5-6 years through his presidency absolutely ignoring the gay community. It was only when Biden ran his mouth and said he was for gay marriage that Obama was backed into a corner and had to do it. That …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/21 12:01 PM
7

I refused to vote for her and that quote was one of my reasons why. I hated Trump but if I was sent back in time to do it all again I still would have written in my friend's dog's name. There was no way for the american people to win that election. Either way we'd lose.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 09:55 PM
2

The one where he was working as a taxi driver/pimp for Tina's birthday is one of the sweetest episodes ever! He even shaved the 'stache for her.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 09:27 PM
26

Pay VERY close attention to how many of her friends are divorced. I think a significant part of why my brother's wife left him was because all her friends had gotten divorced within a 2 year time span. ALL her friends were divorced single mothers. I'm sure they egged her on with "You can do better!" even though she was living in her dream house on the water with my very well off, hard working brother. He's an awesome dude. Volunteers for the ambulance company and the fire department. He was actu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 04:44 PM
67

Yup, that's a pedophile.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 11:40 AM
20

It's a 10k car that you have to put way too much maintenance and money into with some stuff broken never to be repaired. Even more expensive when it/she breaks down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/21 11:31 AM
60

It's the tongue piercing that really turns me off. Every person I've met with one HAS to stick their tongue out for every picture and for some reason that drives me up the wall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/21 03:24 PM
9

It's also down because I think a lot of people realize that their child is going to have a harder life than they will, and millennials are already struggling.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 12:31 PM
195

Short, fat, ugly and bitchy is looking for a big tall and sexy gentleman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 03:07 PM
3

Yup. So many people I know have had their wife divorce them in the last 5 years. I can't name one of those women who has found any kind of relationship since. Now they're trying to re-live their 20s but now they're all fat, they're not "cute" like they were in their 20s, and they can't go out because they're single mothers who can't afford/find babysitters. I'm 37. By the time I hit 42 I expect shit to really hit the fan with miserable single mothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 03:05 PM
3

I would reverse the second line. The men do not often date these women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 03:00 PM
3

Yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 02:21 PM
2

Wine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 12:40 PM
6

I guess so. It forced my hand on MGTOW which is probably a good thing, but I'll never be able to stop those stupid daydreams about the house, white picket fence, wife, dog, 2.5 kids. I know that american dream is pretty well dead but there will always be the "What if?"s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 11:06 PM
72

And while you're railing a golddigger under the Sunshine Skyway Bridge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 07:54 PM
6

If you don't understand it you're not woke enough. EDUCATE YOURSELF. (God I hate those people...)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 05:14 PM
6

She saw her legs a few years ago when she walked past a mirror and lifted up her gunt. She knows about leg day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 05:06 PM
17

A lot of truth there. Men as well. I had too much casual sex in my early 20s. My count was up in the 60s. Now my ability to pair pond is trashed and I'm not even interested in sex without alcohol involved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 03:24 PM
15

or player I'm glad you included this. People here usually forget this one because it's the most "innocent" of the type of men women go for. They want to MAKE the guy who kicks them out every night at 2am love them and let them stay overnight. They can change him! But he's never been the relationship type, or has been burned in the past and is only in for the pump and dump. But SOMEDAY he'll love her because she's different and special! A lot of good guys turn into players because of getting burn…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 03:20 PM
17

I was FWB with someone who wanted to get beaten up during sex. That was a hell-no from me. Mostly because that's just now who I am and I'd feel guilty as heck and turned off. Partly because I was worried that's how they'd be able to get legal revenge on me if they wanted to. Of course they didn't want to date me, just sleep with me occasionally. Eventually cut them out of my life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 03:15 PM
37

I've only been on 3 dates in my life, but I've done plenty of sleeping around. I imagine that's what she does. Just hookups. Nobody has felt like she was worth spending money on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 04:47 PM
1

They say that because they know if someone tries to hook up with them, they'll succeed. She knows she can't resist, so she wants to put it on you instead so it's not a choice for her. I did the same stupid shit. I wanted more than just a hookup but I knew that if someone offered when I was in the right mood I'd still do it. So I put "no hookups" in my profile. I was a big fat liar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 04:44 PM
3

Except she'll raise insufferable children, who will raise insufferable children. The chain of single mothers will continue. At best she can hope to die between her grandchildren getting married and when they get divorced.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 04:42 PM
3

Welp, I was going to eat lunch but now I have to wait for my appetite to come back. Thanks for that image.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 04:18 PM
14

If I was given the choice between a 23 year old heroin addict or a 23 year old with 5 kids from 5 different baby daddies I guess I'm trying heroin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 03:31 PM
40

"Abusive e-mails" = "Why the hell did you only feed my kids junk food/fast food/shitty takeout all last week?!" and "You didn't make them do ANY homework last week?!" "BUT I WAS SIIIIIIICK BECAUSE I'M ABOUT TO START CLAAASSSEEESSS!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 11:53 AM
17

To try to hide the fact that she's so bad at life she made her 2.5 year old kid fat. She really is a garbage human who is bad at life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 08:38 PM
2

I think we called it "bags". It's been a long time and we only played it at a religious aunt's house that my close family all went no contact with when they sent out a "hate the gays" e-mail blast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/06/21 01:17 AM
7

Nah, it's a pretty common backyard game. I've played it before but wasn't familiar with the name "cornhole". There's a board with holes in it with a point number above each hole. You try to toss beanbags through the holes. The smaller harder to hit ones are worth more points. Think of it like skee ball except throwing beanbags. She would absolutely get winded playing it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 08:27 PM
12

I'll agree with you there. Kids mellow out a lot of people. Makes them more patient and wiser. I'm definitely rocking the moderately-bitter-at-the-world middle age childfree guy. I only have to look out for myself and I feel that has made me more selfish than if I had gone with the wife and kids route.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 03:24 PM
25

younger than her age, This is actually pretty easy for a woman to do. Just don't be fat. Then you'll look younger than 67% of other women! I get "You're almost 40?!" pretty often and I blame it 70% on keeping a normal weight, 10% on genetics letting me keep my hair, and 20% on not having any kids. Kids will age you damn fast.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 02:49 PM
9

I'm pretty moderate politically and I feel like it's opened up my FWB world even more than being bisexual. I'm only incompatible with hard-left and hard-right people.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 02:46 PM
6

It's literally violence and rape for nobody who meets her demands wanting to marry her!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 03:12 AM
2

I was out with some friends at the beach, and one of them went up to my heavy set friend and asked him what scratched his side up so bad to leave scars like that. We had a good laugh about that. I had the same question when I was younger because I had what looked like a massive scar on the inside of my thigh right near my junk. Not sure what caused that stretch mark. I was rail thin.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 04:16 PM
2

Unless she cranked that first kid out at 10, she ain't 23. That kid is a teenager.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/21 04:09 PM
48

I'm not even bothered by women who are no longer fertile. I can even get past how they age as long as they aren't obese or have kids. What shuts me down is how fucking horrible their personalities get when they've reached 35 and are still single. They have a whole "It can't be my fault why this happened, something is wrong with everyone else!" view on life. So if you're going to have a relationship with them you have to get through them blaming everything wrong in their life on you. YOU are not …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 04:54 PM
9

He has her about half the time, my mom has her the rest of the time (my brother owns a business and works a lot). The ex totally collapsed when she realized neither man would take her and she got stuck living in her parent's basement. She wasn't able to get her daughter ready for school in the morning, so the nights she did have her she'd bring her over to my brother's house at 8pm so he could do it. She actually accepts it's the worst decision she's made in her life, and she went to University …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 12:20 PM
3

The claw nails tell me she's the type of person that IT hates if she has a job. They can only type at maybe 4wpm and with the slightest inconvenience they start playing the "I CAN'T WORK" card. They cripple themselves on purpose. Fuck you Debra, there's another printer 10 feet from the one you NEED that's actually a much better printer. Get off your fat ass and go pick up a piece of paper.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:48 PM
5

I'm a dude that's in his mid 70s worth of hookups. I can easily believe a woman can pull in 15x as much as me. We all know how many more Tinder replies women get than men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:45 PM
8

That's what my ex sister in law's mom did. They looked smookily similar. She was on her second husband. Now my ex sister in law is searching for hers. The guy she left my brother for noped the fuck out of there when he realized she wanted to shack up with him. Now she's back on the dating market as an overweight mid 30s single mom who is unable to have any more kids due to a medical issue. She tried to get back with my brother, he asked me for advice. I told him about monkey branching and I know…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:43 PM
8

I'm glad we've crossed the line where those guys are starting to become a rarity. There's so few knights to save so many thots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:39 PM
2

My guess is she got in trouble with the law and ended up on probation. Because she keeps testing positive for weed on probation she keeps losing her kids. I'm betting she's seen a few days in jail (I mean a FEW because she's a woman. Just processing time.), but an ankle monitor has been involved for a good part of her life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:36 PM
1

I know exactly one such case, they are both fat and verry happy. I know one such case as well. He's very happy to make her 4 boxes of pudding in a mixing bowl, and she's very happy to eat it (gag!).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/06/21 06:26 PM
1

I think a big part of this is weight. With a majority of Americans being overweight you can easily cut 5+ years off how the average 40 year old looks just by being in shape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 04:12 PM
2

She's talking about her friends having kids. I guess it speaks a lot for my hometown but I'm starting to realize a lot of the people I know/knew are becoming grandparents and I'm only 37! She's definitely pushing her luck on her remaining time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 04:09 PM
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