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1	Men don't get it. Women have moved on So looks life you are asexual. I'm a 33 year old woman Good for you. no one actually cares for age of asexual women, they are non-entity I've never needed a man No man ever needed an asexual Worked for everything I've owned So you are average adult. want pat on the back My friends are in similar positions. Sure bud Most women are better educated these days. A woman with a degree has a chance to have a career and doesn't need a partner for financial help and is much more choice based. True But lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 02:11 PM
1	The biggest misunderstanding about TRP comes from the fact that very low percentage of men who try it actually make it Isnt that life, very small percentage of people will ride a private jet. Thats the thing, all we can do is be selfish and extract as mush value from society while doing minimum work	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 01:59 PM
1	Would you date someone with herpes ? No, contracting herpes will limit my dating pool	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 01:55 PM
1	The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense. You are taking it too personally, they lie its that simple. Why they lie is not really important from a man's perspective. Either its intentional or its not. Women are attracted to what they are attracted to. Either a man becomes one or stays single. there is nothing worse than being a beta bux.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 01:55 PM
4	There's a "What are your most controversial or unpopular dating rule/opinion" thread over at r/AskWomenOver30. What are your controversial opinion about their controversial opinions? I liked the comment about the chick who would not date average dude despite being average herself. She would rather die alone than get with an average dude. That's a double edged swords really. Either woman like this stays alone forever. Women like to compare themselves to other women, so when they will see the average guy married to their girlfriends and their girlfriends having children and being in loving relationship, then they will feel left out. On the other hand if she bags a Chad she sti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 01:48 PM
2	Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality? If he is autistic he constantly masks it Chess is not intuitive especially the level of grandmasters. Its highly based on memory. Basically in the infinite combinations that could happen in chess game they remember lots of them. Magnus Carlson is famous for his excellent memory. These chess grandmasters can tell you the name of the game if you present the chessboard in certain way. They also have lots of memory techniques to help them. So basically you just remember different strategies to situa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 04:33 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 31, 2023 If I want to touch my wife, I do Dont take it too literally though, just because you want to doesnt mean its the right time. calibration is important. Trick is to not take it personally when its not the right time and not fret too much for when is the right time while honing your skills to identify when it is the right time. Instigating shit tests is something I haven't considered. Well there is a book simprecovery, its called the "Book of YaReally". Maybe you heard of it somewhere. You may find…	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/11/23 03:42 PM
1	What exactly is the thesis of The Red Pill? You leave morality behind and look at world at how it is. So women fucks chads in 20 and marry beta in 30s and suddenly beta is not entitled from sex from his wife. Now you can be angry at unfairness of it all or you can except it and become chad or not marry woman in 30s When you see the matrix for what it is, you can create strategies to make it your best	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 09:36 AM
–	Why do men hate sex workers so much? Men dont hate prostitutes, they love prostitutes. But even men who acquire the services of a sex worker will not commit to them. Thats the reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 09:32 AM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 31, 2023 I kept consistent kino and escalation with my wife. Kino should not be artificial. You should not kino to meet a goal that you have made it in your mind. I cant tell if thats what you are trying to do, if you are then you are gonna have to re-evaluate. (see validation seeking) My wife offered a lot of pushback to the kino, and I used this as opportunity for calibration as opposed to being scared off or pissed off as I would in the past I have some thoughts on calibrating kino. Basically game her…	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/11/23 05:46 PM
1	Feminists and People like Tate,Myron and Pearl are two sides of the same coin Tate dates sluts specifically too. His brother dated a married woman knowing she was married, doesn't that also make that woman a slut? I mean tate-types not tate. Tate is a pimp who ran a cam business and then was stupid enough to self incriminate. Then he was able to combine alpha man stuff with trad thinking to create a model to "guide" young men and earn money. Men have this misguided sense of nostalgia for trad times where they work wife stays home and take care of him and they live happily…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 08:56 AM
2	Feminists and People like Tate,Myron and Pearl are two sides of the same coin No These trad cons, tate type guys would never say they hate women, they love them, they like spending time with them. They hold sexist views like women should stay at home and raise kids and stuff. They dislike sluts. They tell men to "protect and provide" for good women. So the hatred in not for women as a whole, its rooted more in sexist or traditional views. Feminists straight up say that they hate men. They want men to die, they write articles that men should be limited to 10 percent of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 08:39 AM
3	Is it over for autistic or socially inept guys, or can they still do something about it? What are the most effective ways they can improve their social skills and personality? Tyler Durden(not the fight club one) is Autistic and he is the only PUA I know who has been able to build a successful business around PUA. So yeah can be done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 08:14 AM
3	Feminists and People like Tate,Myron and Pearl are two sides of the same coin feminists hate men, they hold misandrist views Tate types love woman, they hold misogynist views Thats the difference, tate types, trads etc, dont hate women as a whole, they hold problematic views but they dont hate women like feminists hate men	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 08:12 AM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 31, 2023 Dude think of sidebar as this sub trying to Mr. miyagi you. Many things need to come together to make you succeed. Wax on Wax off, Wax on wax off, wax on wax off. When you loose weight, when you reduce your nice guy programming, when you reduce your validation seeking, when you gain confidence in yourself, when you start to internalize models of game. It will yield results	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/10/23 03:24 PM
1	Attractive women who have trouble finding good men / potential husbands but a lot of trouble finding men for commitment ? Because men want more for commitment. For sex she just have to be fuckable. For commitment, she needs to be much much more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 08:28 AM
1	Does TRP and the manosphere give relationships with age gaps a bad rep? Social engineering does not work in dating market. It didnt work when feminists tried to do it. It wont work if men or redpillers try to do it. If men suddenly started finding older women more appealing then they would go for older women and we have victoria secret models who are 50 years old. So redpill or feminism has no effect on dating preferences. Men like young women because they are more healthy or fertile or whatever and are more likely to give birth to offspring that is healthy and more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 08:26 AM
1	Doubts about the red pill ideology I can’t even respond to it color me surprised	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 05:58 AM
–	Getting upset over the word toxic masculinity is weird First off I'm not even a woke liberal or whatever accusation is gonna happen. Now I am gonna see you as neon haired, hairy legged feminist. Like yeah, some toxic feminity exist. Ya think! People talk about unrealistic beauty standards all the time. Am I mad? No. Why would I be Good, getting mad is bad for you Its true that to be feminine some women ruin themselves with anorexia etc Majority women ruin themselves with obesity. Anorexia is a mental health issue stemming from validation seeking, co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 07:32 PM
1	Does men need to pay the bill? Thats true, I am not wealthy enough(actually I am, but thats because of savings) and I do appear to be thoroughly middle class But I still wear cheap although stylish clothes, i still drive the car that I bought 10 years ago and I live in a small apartment. I am in LTR now but before that fiances of wealthy men would come to me to cheat on their wealthy fiances. Funny how powerful game is. Wealthy men are providers I dont plan to be a provider. I would rather be the guy women cheat on provider w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 07:11 PM
2	Doubts about the red pill ideology I‘m not blaming anyone for suicides men commit suicide at a rate 4 times that of men. Perhaps if they sought out doctors and therapists and actually managed their mental health that wouldn't be the case. I’ve had two attempts myself, so I know full well what it’s like to be suicidal. Well then you know that its hard to be vulnerable enough to get help especially when you are suffering from mental health issues. But men who already find it difficult to get support you blame them that they didnt g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 07:06 PM
–	I don't think it will fix all peoples problems by asking "what attracts men or women" true difficult but not impossible	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 12:32 PM
–	I don't think it will fix all peoples problems by asking "what attracts men or women" she can, she just have to abandon the kid. same way man who is 5'3" can become taller by surgery though its very painful surgery with possibility of disability	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 12:30 PM
1	The key to success in love is to not “date” at all, and everyone has perfect “standards” I read it, you are saying to hook up with people in your social circle and go from there. But there are hot women that are not in my social circles. I like to game many women at the same time and if I hit on every women in my social circle it will only generate bad rep for me. So no, get to know each others as friends and then hookup is not optimal if you want to find best quality women. I like to have sex early and then get to know them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:54 AM
2	Does men need to pay the bill? If you need to pay the bill to get a date as a man, you are not hot enough. Hit the gym, work on your style and game. Women have tried to make me pay and I tease them relentlessly. I dont pay, I still have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:19 AM
–	I don't think it will fix all peoples problems by asking "what attracts men or women" I dont think this way. If you want attract someone you will have to become someone who can attract. Otherwise its like wishing pussy will fall on your lap from the grace of god. Its does not work. So a obese dude who works at 7 11 will not find love as easily. Similarly the "curvy" (obese) single mothers will not get love so easily	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:18 AM
1	The key to success in love is to not “date” at all, and everyone has perfect “standards” The basic rules for men in modern times Be as attractive as possible. Dont pay for dates, if she makes you then she sees you as a provider and you will be deadbedroomed. Pay when you are in a relationship and consistently having sex. Have sex early, if she makes you wait for sex, she is not that attracted to you and see you as a provider and you will get deadbedroomed. Thats pretty much it really. Most women have had sex early and without commitment so if she makes you pay for dates before havin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 11:11 AM
4	There’s a sudden surge of openly anti-male content on tiktok/twitter/threads, etc. What does this mean for the future of gender relations? Feminists tried to bring legislation in India that gives one sided alimony in favor of women and women getting 50 percent of assets of men but not vice-versa. Thankfully parliament told them to kick rocks National Organization of women successfully lobbied against equal custody for men in florida leading to governor veto of bill Feminists fought and won against making female on male rape criminalization in UK and India. Feminists support Duluth Model which presumes man to be primary abuser regar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 10:56 AM
1	Doubts about the red pill ideology Eh! . I mean dont get me wrong, doctors and mental health professionals are necessary and stuff and men should seek help if necessary. But men are not built for treading water. They are meant to "explore and conquer". Men are meant to be free.BUT men are needed for proper functioning of society and civilization. Best animal humankind domesticated are beta males. Let me tell you how the life of beta male is They work 9-6 marry a single mother, raise another man's child, stay in sexless marriage b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 10:47 AM
-1	Doubts about the red pill ideology One of the parents have to look after the kids and mothers (I feel) definitely do a better job at that than fathers. Actually no, mothers dont do better than fathers at raising children. Fathers do much better. Children of single fathers have better outcomes than single mothers. Its just that men dont develop skills or they dont need to because wife takes the leading role by default. When they have to take a leading role in raising kids they do it better. I did not say that to not get a job or d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 08:22 AM
1	Improving adult education is the secret to convincing young women to pair up with young men and have families Exactly! these "high value women" went for Chad who pumped and dumped them and did not commit to them. They went for Chad after Chad in hopes that they can secure lifelong commitment for HVM to be dumped for hotter younger tighter. They did not go for nice beta bux who would have commit to them. These so called high value women are only good for sex with chad. Chad do not commit to these women. Not when they are used up and in their 30s	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 04:02 AM
2	People on this sub, do you ever feel tired of being angry? No I don't feel angry. I know how to play the game so I win.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 03:14 AM
1	Improving adult education is the secret to convincing young women to pair up with young men and have families Sure..	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 03:10 AM
1	Improving adult education is the secret to convincing young women to pair up with young men and have families Oh boy I think you contracted the case of feminismitis where you fool yourself into denying factual truth Eg. Misandry is myth Paternity fraud is myth Baby trapping is myth False accusations are myth. Also men who dont settle don't settle for you. They will settle for high value women	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 03:09 AM
-3	Doubts about the red pill ideology Women don't have that high level of testosterone as men. So they feel emotions more strongly than men. Problem is emotions cause discomfort and brain seeks to sooth itself. Women do it through solipsism and other defensive mechanism. That's why so many women are in therapy because they don't have control over their own decisions. What she can do is use a man as a surrogate to stabilize her life and do what she is designed to do, ride the waves of her feelings without discomfort. But the men need…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 03:04 AM
-3	Improving adult education is the secret to convincing young women to pair up with young men and have families Nah women want to ride the CC and then settle in their 30s. You are taking their youth away for betterment of society and better family structure. you cant do that. 20s is for partying with chad, 30s is for hubby who is not entitled to sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 07:51 PM
-5	Women got educations and careers and now they don't have time for men men can't get gfs because women are too busy working all the time See it this way They are paying taxes in increasing amount too which reduce the contribution of men in taxes which are used to help women most of the time. So its not a bad thing that women are working, we can relax and watch women slaving away 10 hour days for their "careers" for our healthcare and stuff. Go to church, Nah only single mothers go there go to the gym, If you have trouble attracting women then go to gym but not to h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 07:44 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 24, 2023 Edit: just spoke with lawyer, he said has long as I don't do something crazy against the kids interest like give them crack during the transition period, I'm getting split custody. Alright, had to ask. 5'7" 189 (20% navy). Fix this, dont stop hitting the gym. Many people who get divorced here slack off, as purpose becomes diluted. Dont make mistake of stopping here. Bachelor life can be blessing or curse. Meal prep for whole week, STICK to your calorie goals. A good physique will make your life …	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/10/23 06:11 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 24, 2023 my wife told me our relationship was over And you believed that lol. If my partner told me that, I would have told her to GTFO. I told her I wanted joint custody and we have an agreement to do a 50/50 split and the person who doesn't have the kids goes and stays at a family members for now until we figure things out. WTF are you doing, DO NOT LEAVE YOUR MARITAL HOME OR YOU ARE GONNA GET FUCKED I sensed that she wanted to back track the breakup when I told her about this. Of course she did she sa…	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/10/23 09:00 PM
1	I've never understood why famous male celebrities chose to date/marry other female celebrities These female celebrities are hot and Rich. Maybe I'm wrong but I feel like a woman who's already a multi-millionare and likely has an inflated ego from the fame is NOT a good option for a loyal wife and good mother to your children When you reach that level of wealth and fame, women are after your money. There is no loyal wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 07:03 AM
6	Do you think you can spot a “red piller” outside of Reddit? What would you look for? Depends on what you consider redpiller. Only tell tale signs I have is I am ripped I am social I am confident I am financially sound. I have well developed style that is polarizing enough to get attention. I am a fuckboy I dont use redpill language or anything. I dont go around telling people I am alpha, As long as I get the girl I dont care what I am. I know when to shut up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 06:59 AM
1	How would you feel if he or she is with you for the money? Depends on how hot she is. If she is overweight single mother, I would feel disgust that she thinks she deserves to breath same air as me let alone expects me to wine and dine her. If she looks like victoria secret model, then sure why not. I can't be gold dug, in the sense that I will not spend money on her if we are not fucking. I mean its fair trade. Once she get too old or too fat or stop giving head she will be replaced. I did the beta bux game right after divorce, I was skinny fat with no …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 06:54 AM
3	Yes, divorce can happen to literally anyone Thats because men have oneitis for their wifes. Thats the mistake men make. Its not healthy to love woman who dont deserve it. When wife divorce husband, she seize to add value to man's life, so she is irrelevant. When man divorce wife, thats because she is not adding value to his life. So she is irrelevant. Men just form unhealthy codependent connection with their wives and think they are soul mates. Big mistake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 06:40 AM
0	Men increasing their standards I would also like to add that it doesnt matter if Indian guy is a Janitor, he will not marry a former slut. Since Indian-American community is so family oriented, even the Janitor will have decent standard of living because its easier to save money when everyone supports each other. Indians-Americans are notoriously frugal and save a lot of money. Couple that with low divorce rate of like 2 percent, money stays in family which directly translates to generational wealth. Couple that with low crim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 06:11 PM
2	What do you think about the small percentage of women who are thugs and criminals? We know women commit far fewer types of violent crime They do commit more violent crimes towards children than men What’s your perception of girls and women who are bigger and stronger than other girls and women and use it to bully them They are human beings What goes through your mind when you see ladies who fight, commit violent crimes like criminal damage and armed robbery? Human beings are designed to be violent, its the civilization that is artificial	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 05:51 PM
2	Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced. Men should only commit to women who respect them, look up to them and fuck them with reckless abandonment, give them frequent hour long BJs. If she refuse to shave their body hair, or refuse to doll up for you, or refuse to have sex with you, or refuse to experiment sexually, you are a beta bux to her, who she thinks she has no need to impress. There are millions of women in search of a beta bux. Men just need to cruel enough to use a woman till the time she is willing to impress him and then mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 05:47 PM
7	Yes, divorce can happen to literally anyone Best advice to men. If you want to get married get a iron-clad prenup Lift weights regularly and keep working on your social skills. Assume marriage can end any time and be mentally, physically and financially prepared for it. When you get divorced you should have visible abs, sound financial situation, and skills necessary to find a woman, younger, hotter than your soon to be ex-wife. Then you dont have to worry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 05:38 PM
-3	Men increasing their standards Thats what happens in other more traditional countries. Even in Indian community in USA virgin requirement in there for many Indian women, and its a very lucrative position to be wife of an Indian husband as Indian community tend to be middle to Upper Middle class with very strong family structures and social status. Does not stop Indian-American women from slutting around and lying about it, but when there past get discovered they find themselves divorced. Once they get divorced for such a reas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 05:23 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 24, 2023 She has come back to bed because she is feeling disturbance in the force by you improving yourself. Get those abs and after that up the dread by gaming other women and she will be begging to birth a third kid for you to make sure that you are too busy taking care of the kid to not fuck around. Then you wont need to say stupid stuff like "well, I guess if I want a third child, it will not be with you".	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/10/23 05:08 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 24, 2023 she may take it literally to try make an argument out of it. This is much more severe after ovulation. You dont see the pattern here. Arguments are good, its the time when emotions run high, its the time when game is most effective.	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/10/23 12:34 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 24, 2023 I have a feeling that you got scared from your disastrous OYS last week and decided to not put in many details to avoid criticism.	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/10/23 12:31 PM
0	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 24, 2023 you can apologise properly when I come back”. Sexy times. Yay!! I didn’t fuck her Oh no what happened? she crossed a boundary yet again Shit test, reasonable she needs to find out whether you are attractive or not. I told her to shut up a couple of times. Failed the shit test. Makes sense. no attraction no sex. One thing I’ve been experimenting with is being a lot more blunt and saying no to small requests And you are expecting her to jump on your dick because you said no to her once? Its not en…	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/10/23 12:25 PM
8	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 24, 2023 5’11”, 221lbs (-5) Fix this first. Had a big ass discussion about a third child. I want one, she doesn’t. Makes sense which women would want to have kids with someone who is gonna die from heart attack from obesity well in his 40s This discussion creates some low quality, overt dread. Nah, it just lowered your value. You are currently the comfortable obese beta who she can fuck once a week to keep in line. Now you are acting out, so you are loosing the value you have for her. I said “well, I gue…	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/10/23 12:15 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 24, 2023 I started off strong, came off cocky and confident, but then lost steam after a few minutes. Read up on Juggler method, also PUSH TROUGH boring parts of conversation. It seems like you seek some kind of validation or response from the woman you are talking to an when you dont get it you loose confidence. Three guesses whose frame are you in. Spoiler Alert-> not yours. Learn to have fun listening to your own voice. Who cares if they momentarily loose interest, I get distracted while watching Inte…	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/10/23 11:59 AM
2	Misandry and Misogyny fuel each other men as victims, They are victims in the sense that their mothers abort them just for being male. I never said that grown man is a victim. Again there is no reason for a college educated feminist to abort a male child other than pure hatred for men	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 07:25 PM
-1	The wall does exist but there are misconceptions I am sure incels will have old, obese ugly women willing to fuck them. Incels are desperate but even they are not that desperate. Honestly its makes more sense for them to pay for decent looking prostitutes So the 6,6,6, guy in his 30s has a choice between a 30 something woman who is soon gonna loose her looks and youth and a 20 something woman who will maintain her looks for greater time. Why would he commit to 30 something women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 06:05 PM
2	Anecdotes are superior to studies in providing sufficient information for forming conclusions regarding entering and maintaining a relationship. Studies are useless for an individuals if they can't produce actionable advice for people which they can test by themselves. Studies like most of academics is mental masterbation keeping feminists in jobs at academia since no one else will hire them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 05:26 PM
1	Men, do you think bro-comedies gave you unrealistic expectations about women and sex? Honestly, when you take the redpill and actually do work, you can live those fantasies. Women are horny as fuck and will go loose when they think no one will judge them. Thats why they go on crazy sexcapades when they are on vacations with their girlfriends. only thing a man has to do is position himself at the right place at the right time, have nice body and good game and he can live his fantasies. Game is about 3 things, Logistics, Logistics, Logistics	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 05:23 PM
3	The wall does exist but there are misconceptions This looks like hamster vomit so lets begin When a woman is 29-32 and single, she begins to prioritize finding a long-term partner for marriage and having children, this two things become her top priorities vs when she was 22-24 and didn't consider such things okay fair way to put it, but thats not wall. Thats hamster puke women use to justify sleeping in 20s and settling in 30s "She can't physically attract any man once she hits 30" For one night stand sure, for relationship and marriage, no. l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 05:16 PM
3	Misandry and Misogyny fuel each other On one side we have people who are brainwashed by their culture, people who can't even feed themselves enough to survive, people who are cant save their children from dying from dysentery, people who do not have clean water to drink, people who are uneducated, people who dont have time to spend on pondering western liberal because if they stop hustling they would not survive. On the other side we have college educated feminists who eat so much food that they have to create a body positivity move…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 02:54 PM
4	Misandry and Misogyny fuel each other I’ve also seen comments that are kinder to men How sweet of them lol. They still support Amber Heard, they still support the writer who falsely accused a black man of rape for which he was imprisoned for 2 decades and she wrote a book about it and made millions. Ironically the inconsistencies of her book led to acquittal of the man. Now since they cant ignore that young boys are lagging behind in schools because of their policies, they blame in on young boys. They vehemently oppose allowing men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 09:22 AM
3	Misandry and Misogyny fuel each other I am familiar with them, female feticide is horrible thing and India I think has predetermining gender of child before birth. These cultures are different, the life of parents depends on their children when they are old, and they prefer male child because they are perceived to take care of them when they are old. So they would rather use their resources on a male child. In India thousands of children die of preventable diseases and malnutrition every year. That level of poverty is very difficult…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 09:05 AM
4	Misandry and Misogyny fuel each other but general feminists do not feel this way. My source is askfeminists subreddit Men are not dehumanized by the mainstream. "The Rapist is you" was the anthem on a woman's march Women do not hate their sons or hate the idea of birthing sons. Feminists do And it’s not boys who are aborted and killed, but girls. Do u know why gendercritical sub was banned? They were bragging about aborting male child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 09:18 PM
6	Misandry and Misogyny fuel each other Feminist misandry is derived from something very sinister and vile. They do this by dehumanizing men, they basically perceive men to be less than human, someone less, someone inherently bad or flawed. Thats why they consider misandry a non-issue, because it is affecting the people they dont even consider humans. They have dehumanized men in their minds to so much degree, that they stop feeling empathy for men. Men killing themselves at much higher rate is chalked up as insignificant, or fault of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 05:37 PM
1	The Red Pill/Manosphere view on masculine and feminine energy is too simple. Newton's laws are too simple. But that does not mean they are not useful Yes you have to factor other things, but real world implementation does not need to be precise, just be good enough to reach desired goal. There is a reason engineers earn money Descriptive version of redpill has its limitations but they dont have to be perfect. Just a guide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 05:11 PM
0	men need to stop projecting and understand/accept that women’s sexuality will never be the same as theirs Well what can I say, I am not a natural, I had to build myself up. I have seen the world of betahood, I have seen the world of chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 03:48 PM
3	The Lobster - the movie Have we been programed by literature into this "oneitis" soul mate nonsense? It doesnt matter. What matter is how do you get out of this. I am full of faults and I have beautiful qualities Everyone is Should I not give the same latitude to my partner? Again you are looking it the wrong way. You dont owe anyone anything. You job is to find a woman who adds value to your life and your partners job is to do the same. Your job is to become someone who can add value to you partner's life and your par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 03:08 PM
2	Are men with Christian personality traits repulsive: the biblical priority on grace, humility, servant leadership, kindness, gentleness, and many other qualities Christian men are created to serve women, they are created to raise child that are not their. Jesus was "virgin birth". They are meant to serve their wives. They are not supposed to leave their wives if they dont fuck them. They are supposed to protect and provide. RPChristians have disability by being a christian	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 02:33 PM
1	The Lobster - the movie Men see love the wrong way. their love is nothing more than oneitis. Men should be focused on is finding a woman that adds value to their lives. Through sex, commitment, loyality etc. You need to first like your woman then love them. if men are asked whether you love your woman and your answer is yes BUT, she is prude, or she can be a bitch etc etc. then you are wasting your life with that woman. Now can you find a better women, that you need to decide. IF no, then work on yourself. If yes then …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 02:30 PM
4	Thoughts on “the wall” and beyond The wall as a concept was made to explain why a 30 something woman is now ready to fuck a beta engineer, while not giving a fuck about him in his 20s. It was meant to explain that women baby fever ends beta will suddenly not be entitled to sex. It was used to warn men to use Birth Control with women in her 30s because she is more likely to baby trap you. It was used to guide men to marry women in their 20s if they are in their 30s because women hitting the wall have reached their epiphany phase …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 02:21 PM
6	men need to stop projecting and understand/accept that women’s sexuality will never be the same as theirs Women are less visual Yes, but they are visual, ripped men tend to get a lot more sex than not women have lesser testosterone and lower libidos. obviously, Not for chad they dont. How do I know? because I am one. But if you are non-chad, you gonna have to "stroke" her reactive desire.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 02:04 PM
2	CMV: Male spaces are losing because they won’t kick out those who don’t want help. There is a male space that boot out no-gooders, its called MarriedRedPill. Thats the reason it is so good at what it do. There is a reason it is hated even by RedPillWomen. It put male perspective in forefront. Its that because it needs to be, normal redpiller could just next a woman, Merps could not so easily. Which makes them more ruthless and pragmatic and they dont have patience for BS	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 10:19 AM
6	Tyrese Gibson’s Estranged Wife speaks on how influence and peer pressure from friends pushed her to leave him. Tyrese speaks on the matter as well I want to learn about the traits these men give off. They are normal people, charismatic, social, intelligent. They are "more" than others as in people who are good at something stand out. They are skilled at attracting and engaging women. What is their step by step process. Its not exact science, more of a skill. Anyone can watch Jackie Chan, does not mean they can do Kung Fu. I Not because I want to use the teachings but out of curiosity Curiosity is not a sin, but we must exercise caution. Un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:52 PM
11	Marriage is a extended time escort service scheme. And if that’s the case, is it impossible for sex workers to be raped? If sex does not happen its contract violation, so money is not paid or is reimbursed. No one can force them to have sex just like no one can force a waitress to serve you food. But if service is not rendered there will be no payment. So consent exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:43 PM
1	Tyrese Gibson’s Estranged Wife speaks on how influence and peer pressure from friends pushed her to leave him. Tyrese speaks on the matter as well What do you want to learn?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:17 PM
6	Tyrese Gibson’s Estranged Wife speaks on how influence and peer pressure from friends pushed her to leave him. Tyrese speaks on the matter as well They narrowed it down to one strategy. I am not gonna lie it would have probably worked. It was not that complicated. They figured a way out to "train" a woman in a way in a way to "hack" her hypergamy to work for them. It was pretty ingenious. I wont go into detail(and it was detailed) but I will give you the gist of the idea. Hypergamy is comparative in nature, but it is derived from "feelings", they do not need to be positive feelings or negative feelings, they need to be strong feelings, mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:09 PM
10	Tyrese Gibson’s Estranged Wife speaks on how influence and peer pressure from friends pushed her to leave him. Tyrese speaks on the matter as well Oh no, thats not what Dark Arts is. Its the name I have come up with to categorize the strategies the goes into "Dark Side". If you want to understand why they are called Dark Arts then buckle up, because its gonna be a long read. If you venture into the history of Pick Up Artistry, you will come across famous names like Mystery, Style, Tyler, Rooshv etc. They have one thing in common, they all suffered from mental breakdowns. Mystery suffered a nervous breakdown and had to admitted, Style has w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 04:40 PM
34	Tyrese Gibson’s Estranged Wife speaks on how influence and peer pressure from friends pushed her to leave him. Tyrese speaks on the matter as well Whispers Women subconsciously judge the value of a man through social proof. So when all her friends thinks her husband is low value, she fools herself into thinking that its true. But now she does not have high value man so she creates on in her mind. A man who is out there. A man who calls her out on the streets. She hears his whispers. Everything her loving husband does irritates her, she starts to feel the ick when he touches her. This woman is very difficult to reason with. She blames husba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:18 PM
54	Marriage is a extended time escort service scheme. No its not, escort service guarantees sex in exchange of money, Marriage does not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:31 PM
1	Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby? Well, we totally have a different definition of a real man. Did you not see sarcasm in what I wrote, or did I fail to see sarcasm in yours	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 07:07 AM
1	Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby? So "real men" must provide Wait till the "real men" figure out that they don't have to be a "real man" but they can not expect anything. Thats true though, no one is entitled to anything. Where do you people come from? I cum from where men are supposed to cum Do you even hear yourselves? Oh yeah, I got a sexy voice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 06:52 AM
1	Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships? The hierarchy of needs. You can survive without a partner but does not mean you would be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 06:33 AM
1	A thought about male empowerment vs female empowerment. False, men are ONLY satisfied when their woman does everything. Young guys do not expect that. She works full time so he doesn't feel the pressure of being a sole provider, does nearly all the cooking and cleaning Again young guys do not expect that. and goes above and beyond for parenting, Thats true. plus puts his needs over her own I think woman need to figure out how to meet her needs along with her husband. They need to add value in man's life. works to keep her looks Men have to do it too,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 06:26 AM
2	Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby? Beta bux are the people that make the world run. They are the "real men" that takes care of children of other men. They are not entitled to sex though, no sir.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 06:21 AM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 I write a lot of words, some have called it rambling/DEER. People here are very good at separating garbage from gold but it does not mean they like doing that. Don't really know how to improve yet - other than knowing I need to improve. Finally you said something of importance and it took u 3 paragraphs of rumbling to do that. You improve by figuring out your priorities and figuring out what is important for you and whats not. But how do you do that. You need something, some kind of purpose whic…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 05:16 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 10, 2023 You use the advice that sooths your mind at that particular moment and fool yourself into thinking that you are getting your problems solved. There are no shortcuts, there would be very few Aha moments. What will actually improve you is consistent work	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 05:09 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 10, 2023 . I have developed some ability to sift through the advice and see what is useful to me at a particular moment. No you have definitely not.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 05:06 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 I went to take some notes of what had happened. Again, she goes “What are you writing? Something about me and my bad behaviour right? So that you can bring this up later, right? That’s how I feel.” I STFU, literally said nothing I have a feeling that you have been doxxed.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 04:51 PM
5	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 Finally our hero gets laid. So I leaned towards her. “What are you doing?” she asked. Light shit test. I would have sat up on the bed, grabbed her up from the bed by back of her neck for a deep kiss. I responded something that probably didn’t make a lot of sense about spending time since she's up but kept my hand on her and kissing her neck. Yeaaah.... not great but there is next time. I have gotten rejected in this mode in the past, but I wanted to see what would happen this time. She said, “do…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 04:46 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 Shit tested, with “would I go back to being normal, if I got a quickie.” It was a shitty-comfort test, not a shit test. If you would have handle it differently you would have gotten laid. I said “no I’m good, I need to go check email.” Well nuke passes shit test but fails comfort test. Turned into a torrent As in downloading pirated games and then a double bind manipulation about telling her where I’m going, demanding tell her. Now why would she do that. Its not like it worked for years I droppe…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 04:31 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 My default is to nuke everything - and I do it with anger, a loud voice, and intimidating body language. It's not healthy. Which I then overcompensate with anger to flex my balls so to speak. Nah bro, its not you flexing your testicles, its the little boy in you throwing tantrum. You have a fucked up way of romanticizing your anger. Its like some part of you is proud of it. also find myself slipping back into nice guy shit by trying to get in my wife's head and respond accordingly, to say the ri…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 04:06 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 I don't know how to calibrate 'love' between having oneitis for my wife, and just not caring about her. Nope you are just in her frame. I need work here. There used to be a jacktenofhearts comment about frame, about how to progress on levels. If you can find it. It will help you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 03:45 PM
5	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 6'4" 335# Until this is solved there is not much you can hope for. Fix it, dont cheat. Rest of your life depends on it	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 03:42 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 When mom comes home, is usually when the battle begins She can definitely have legitimate disagreements with you and you definitely should judge her words rationally to make informed decision. BUT(isn't there always) the way that disagreement is done matters. If done respectfully -> think about it, and if its good accept it and if not explain to her why If its not done respectfully and it leads to arguments or "battles" then its a shit test. She is testing you and your frame because she does not…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 03:35 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 She wants there to be spark before sex. Game her I think the mental health (anxiety/depression) had sapped that aspect of me. Never mind Spark and direction in a man comes from forwardness/confidence. Not really Do yourself a favor and not make your finacee your wifey until you fix yourself. dont get her preggo	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 12:27 PM
3	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 My wife shit tests and I fail them a lot Start by not failing them. I am afraid of rejection Doesnt matter if you are afraid. Something have to be done now if you think I should go in more detail here, there is nothing to work with. Your OYS is full of Brain Farts.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 12:22 PM
6	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2023 Last night I also told her I would sleep on the couch - Call me predictable but I would never sleep on a couch. You can always NOT cuddle with her while sleeping on a same bed. Hmmm but why didn't you think of that. Wait! hello there Mr Covert Contract, you are a sneaky bastard. Still seeking validation from wife are we. Can’t tell if I’m on the right or wrong track with these experiments, The track u are on, has destination in her frame. Not a good place to go my friend. Wait a second, its not …	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 12:16 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 10, 2023 Dude you need to go to youtube and look for 1000 calories shake. There is no need to eat when you can drink	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 11:49 AM
-1	A thought about male empowerment vs female empowerment. Let me tell you how a man can have it all. He lift weights regularly(fitness) and prepares his food on his own(chores). Thanks to special diet of bodybuilders its easy to meal prep a month worth of food in 2 hours. ( I do it regularly and boy it pays dividends). So not only man could save time and money on food but also get jacked. He builds his career, he has to do it anyways since it is required for him. He needs to do chores. Actually chores do not take much time properly planned. Takes me 2h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 11:42 AM
–	The single life is great. I recommend it to everybody I get to live for myself while I am in relationship. I dont consult anyone or care about their opinions. I do listen to them though in case I am wrong. Marriage is a fools game but prenups are somewhat of a viable option. There are other ways too. Sex and relationship are not overrated. They are fun and fulfilling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 10:22 AM
–	Should man ask/demand for money for being a "gentleman"? Lol And I can demand money for my boogers. Does not mean I will get paid	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 10:19 AM
1	About Looks and Physical Attraction If “personality” is more important than looks, Its not, it can become something that override looks though Why do people complain about “conventional beauty standards” or pretty privilege? Because its the club they are not part of. Why is it such a bad thing to point out that there are men AND women who struggle with dating because of their physical appearance? It exposes shallowness of women and tend to make betas not want to slave away for chance with a unicorn. If a guy is struggling with dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 10:18 AM
–	Thoughts on not wanting to prioritize sexual compatibility over personal compatibility? Ah! the quest for mythical Alpha Bux. Unfortunately, when men become Alpha they seize to become safe choice. Beta bux are safe choice but they are "low value" so it reflects on women's worth if her hubby is low value. you are overthinking this, the dichotomy of AF/BB is at play here. These women want alpha bux. Alpha Bux are transient in existence. They are Alpha Fux. or Beta Bux in disguise. Women will find out soon which he is by either him cheating on her or her body refusing to get aroused f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 10:14 AM
1	What do women mean when they say they're attracted to intelligence? Intelligence is a desirable evolutionary trait in men. Intelligent man was most likely to survive. Now question you need to ask is how does the cavewoman brain judges intelligence. Its not that most women are hiring PIs to check his highschool grades. Social status, social skills, competency, resourcefulness, spacial awareness, confidence, wit, preselection to name a few. When man is intelligent he develops a behavior that reflect those qualities. He does not take shit from anyone because he doe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 10:03 AM
2	Have you ever seen an all around "low-quality" man in a relationship? If so, why do you think she is with him? shorter, Illusion of tallness can be created, but its easier to get jacked balding, Hair transplant or SMP chinless, Beard or plastic surgery acne ridden, Dermatologist lazy eyed, cucumber pudgy, Gym fashionless, Gym, a lot of gym till he look good in rags squeaky voiced Well can be improved with resonance training dumb, Well that is not fixable boring, Its easy to fix poor, unemployed, Job, FIRE But you are right, one man having so much bad luck is rare. Have you ever seen a man that has the co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:52 AM
1	Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together. If you are man in your 30s and are willing to string woman along with promise of commitment, then yes it pretty much smooth sailing. If you want casual sex then you will need muscles and game. Having a career might work against you as women tend to put men in "stable guy' category and withhold sex while fucking unemployed guitarists. If you want to marry then well, yeah but sex will soon dry up if you only bring beta bux.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:45 AM
5	CMV: No matter how educated, on top of their career or wealthy a woman is, if she is physically unattractive, society never considers her as a subject of envy. People do not give a shit who got the Nobel Prize for physics whether its a woman or a man, they are busy living their lives. Thats what most women who chase high ranking careers fail to understand. Their value is limited to what they can do for others. They are respected by their subordinates because she has power to give them raise. Her bosses praise her because she brings money to company. They are invited to give lectures in Uni with chartered planes and free hotels because it helps universi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:41 AM
2	In what ways is porn addiction damaging for men, and why? Its a bad habit thats hard to break.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:30 AM
15	Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby? They want reliable beta bux so they find reliable beta bux. A woman's husband is reflection of her value. So she has to convince herself that she married a better man otherwise she would have to face the fact that she is low value herself. Big rule of thumb is to not commit to single mothers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:29 AM
-1	A thought about male empowerment vs female empowerment. Male empowerment is to become a jacked, career having, child raising, chores doing ninja. Thing is that can be achieved if men would just get up their ass and put in work. There are many shortcuts and tricks to "hard work" SAHMs do. Men by being empowered add value to his woman's life and improves their relationships Women Empowerment is to become a career having, super mom. They want to have it all. It can be achieved but tend to make a lot of women miserable and torpedo their relationships, be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:24 AM
1	CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days. Oh no, u misunderstand me. I am not talking about numbers game, where you approach 2000 women and sleep with 50, yes you will have above average body count but thats not the point. In its essence game is just witty comebacks, teasing and fun stories delivered in a way for woman to let go of her logical mind and swim into bliss of emotions and at the same time triggering her attraction cues by DHV and balance it with comfort (that you are not a serial killer who will abandon her baby after you im…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:04 AM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 10, 2023 keep a schedule of 'dates' with the wife. Let's change it to something different. I planned a fun night for myself because I am a fun loving person. I invited my wife along. Scenario 1: wife and I had fun Scenario 2: wife was being a cunt so I teased her relentlessly and had fun regardless. the whole thing could have been handled better, The whole thing should have been handled better. Indeed You are an interesting case. Many people see their former beta self in you so you get bombarded by advic…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/23 05:30 AM
4	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 10, 2023 I took my wife out on a date. Date is something you can enjoy independent of her. Thats basic of outcome independence. We hadn’t gone out on a proper date in months on account of her being a bitch at home. Rewarding bad behavior are we now? I thought, ‘this will be good for the relationship,’ because I am a fucking moron. Covert contract, NMMNG bro, blend it up and drink it till it courses though your veins My wife threw a massive tantrum. Shit test I wanted to call it a night right there at the…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/10/23 11:59 AM
0	Men and women have the same attitude toward attraction 0.6 percent of men earn more than 200k so no. BB does not have to earn that much, he just need to be safe choice who can provide.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 03:08 PM
1	Those who have/had trouble relating to the opposite sex, what do you think caused this? Were you able to fix it? if walking is all muscle memory then we can walk with out eyes closed in traffic right. Our brain needs to make decisions every second by processing the information about our surrounding. Thats spacial awareness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 10:58 AM
0	Those who have/had trouble relating to the opposite sex, what do you think caused this? Were you able to fix it? . Muscles don't require a brain to think. You are trolling right. Muscle memory is only limited to practices movements. Where to use that "muscle memory" is decided by brain	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 10:40 AM
0	Those who have/had trouble relating to the opposite sex, what do you think caused this? Were you able to fix it? There's no such thing as being naturally more aware. That is incorrect, awareness comes from noticing small details and being able to pick up observations. Men are less capable of having that type of awareness. Been proven for ages that women are capable of picking up small details, better memory, and multitask far better than men. And being consciously observant doesn't make someone take less risk and play social games, there's different social merit women has in society than men. Having emotio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 09:55 AM
1	It’s not surprising why dating sucks if you look at the statistics a not Married, Good, and non married women keep on increasing as women enter their 20s no children Very good. Asian woman, Not sure what you mean by that, Asians are like 7 percent of US population. So of course asian women will less in percentage. If men want asian women there is not shortage of those in the world at large. between 5’3”-5’4” or 160-162.5cm, who is not obese (I’m a size 6 or S/M), and not overweight (135-140lbs or 61-63.5kg) BMI for overweight women is 24. You are just about not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:57 AM
1	Non virgin men shouldn't ask for virgin women Shouda woulda coulda. I can demand, its for market to supply or not. If I only want to marry virgin, no one can really stop me. I may fail yes. but then I am just not high value enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:37 AM
7	Age gap only matters if you’re not her first option Date young date old, it doesnt matter. Be attractive and nothing else really matters	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:35 AM
7	I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hard Women generally have responsive libido, not low libido. Thats why they can become sexual camels for months and then become shrieky animals with a man who can stroke that responsive desire	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:34 AM
1	Thoughts on the idea that for women attracting men is less about what you are but what do you ? Incorrect its bout what you can make women feel	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:32 AM
3	Are you worried you might be in a dead bedroom someday? Nope I used to be in a DB in my previous marriage. Turns out only thing I need to do was to go out and start fucking other women. I did not do it before divorce so yeah, I was your loyal beta hubby. Now only way am I in a deadbedroom is if I have low libido. Otherwise I will just fuck other women	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:30 AM
–	Society's push to create more FUTURE SINGLE MOTHERS Society creates single mothers by subsidizing their lifestyle. Do you know how we stop single mothers. Financial Abortion, no social security net for single mothers. Make their life as difficult as possible without any assistance . Men should also use single mothers for pump and dump only. Put single mothers on a registry and socially boycott them. Also make abortion free and accessible to every woman. Thats how you end single motherhood	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:27 AM
5	Men and women have the same attitude toward attraction Its because men are lied to. They are told that washed up single mother of 30 is actually attracted to you instead of looking for a comfortable life with your coder salary. Never be a beta bux,	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:22 AM
1	More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgiving Game changes things drastically but not on OLD	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:20 AM
53	Hypergamy mean most men will forever be undesirable. There are two kinds of hypergamy, instinctive and logical. Logical hypergamy is women marrying richer or higher status then them. But that does not mean those dudes are desirable sexually, they are just beta bux. Instinctive hypergamy is a different beast. It derives attraction and arousal. Its also situational. So it can be "fooled". There is a reason wife of a millionaire will cheat with unemployed guitarist. It does not matter what your actual status is. Its what you can make woman "feel" at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:18 AM
0	Those who have/had trouble relating to the opposite sex, what do you think caused this? Were you able to fix it? Women being more cautious in general is usually a sign of them paying extra attention to their surroundings. No, they just take less risks, men dont even have to consciously pay attention, they just naturally are more aware. I was thinking of social awareness Yes women are more socially aware, they evolved to become like that. They would not have survived without playing social game. and emotional intelligence, Emotional intelligence is term used to justify putting hot women in HR which I can ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 07:02 AM
-1	Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards? Good therapist are hard to come by. He needs to hit the gym and work on his style so that he is not rejected that often. Then he needs to go to bars with some friends and talk to women and get rejected over and over again until he learn to not give a shit. Exposure therapy is very effective. Now it wont resolve his coping mechanism, and he will destroy every relationship he has because of his abandonment issues. But by any luck he would be hot enough to land a good woman who can help him resolve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 09:08 PM
1	The SAME man can be a nice guy to a woman and a f.boy to another woman Men age terribly. No matter how hard they hit the gym. Lol. Men age terribly because they let themselves age terribly. The amount of money women spend on their appearance to look like Nancy Palosi or Madonna is laughable. If men hit gym regularly and spend as much money as women spend on their beauty products they would look pretty good. Hell if they just wear sunscreen they would age better then women. Confidence won't fix skin laxity Thats what botox is for. Neat little tricks women have come …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 08:53 PM
2	Those who have/had trouble relating to the opposite sex, what do you think caused this? Were you able to fix it? It's always said that women has more situational awareness than men. Thats incorrect. Its proven that men have more spacial awareness, they can process physical environment faster and more efficiently then women which translates to better overall situational awareness. Its because it was needed for hunting and stuff. Women has more instinctive intuition that tells them what is dangerous Incorrect, women are more cautious than men. Its not that they are more instinctive. Its just that if you are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 08:44 PM
19	More and more women are paying alimony to ex-husbands and they're really not happy about it Feminists in India were proposing no fault divorce. They asked for a law that will give 50 percent of husbands property and 50 percent of his future income and retirement. But it goes only one way. Men would not get anything. Thankfully parliament told them to shove it.	/r/MensRights	13/10/23 08:18 PM
–	Men and women do tell you what they want, its up to you to decide to accept or not you are not saying anything wrong or groundbreaking. You know that you are not high value enough to secure commitment for chads and thats okay. You know it, and want to get a secure committed relationship with man at your level. Problem is when women are not able to fuck their way to commitment of chad and then settles for beta at their level and then treat him bad or hate him. These ladies are not self aware of their own value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 06:31 PM
1	The SAME man can be a nice guy to a woman and a f.boy to another woman I saw JRE episode shorts where he was talking about a pitbull covered in cuts. So owner followed the blood trail and found 9 dead coyotes. The first comment on youtube was Coyotes: who are you? Pitbull: They call me cuddles So I am what you can call a fuckboy. There things a woman can't take away from me. She can fatten me up, but I still have knowledge to get visible abs. She can give me so much sex that I could not walk and no need to approach other women, but I still have my experience and co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 04:33 PM
–	Men and women do tell you what they want, its up to you to decide to accept or not My squishy, cuddly, starfish sex is what my muscular 'Alphas 🙄' enjoy the most. I will take your word for it. but i should note that starfish sex is not cuddly. Its think of london, get over it sex. Cuddles are used for guys with whom women are not attracted to but still "love". So they don't want to be fucked by them, they just want "intimacy". Im supposed to pursue less attractive 'nice guys' Oh no definitely not, less attractive nice guys should hit the gym and emulate douchy behavior until i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 04:16 PM
1	Young women have even more traditional standards than their mothers generation Maybe you never got a taste of it. Most women dont, most women are not hot enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 04:05 PM
4	Young women have even more traditional standards than their mothers generation Being feminine gives women a lot of power over men. But then again its matter of luck. We make habits from positive feedback loop. Ugly women have to develop their masculine side as a defense mechanism. Pretty women have the luxury to develop their feminine side because its immediately rewarded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 11:59 AM
–	Men and women do tell you what they want, its up to you to decide to accept or not You dont have to whitewash a douche into stud. If being douche works, being douche works. I am not judging women for getting wet over a douche. I would rather become a douche then complain about women wanting douche.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 11:54 AM
0	CMV The Concept of „Male Friends“ as a taken Women is completely ridiculous and if you think logically about it, it makes zero sense, and the manosphere is right about this one. Women know what they are doing when they go out with "male friends". They are not only keeping their options open but also in a way testing the value of their man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:51 AM
0	Those who have/had trouble relating to the opposite sex, what do you think caused this? Were you able to fix it? Women are 95 percent like men. We men have testosterone surging through our body. Its does pretty interesting things in our minds. It tones down the volume of our emotions. It create different rewards mechanisms so makes us seek more adventure, challenges etc. It improves our situational awareness. It helps her disassociate things from "feelings" attached to them so that we can think more logically at the moment. It gives incredible clarity of mind. Read about men who started TRT, and they will …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:44 AM
5	Young women have even more traditional standards than their mothers generation Good thing is men gain much more by being masculine then feminine. So it all becomes a moot point. Feminists are not very good at social engineering because they are women with abandonment issues who have poor coping mechanisms so all their policies are defense mechanism against men. Which backfires on them because they have legitimacy because they preach to be about equality which can actually be tested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:27 AM
1	The SAME man can be a nice guy to a woman and a f.boy to another woman They are not fuck bois they are pretending to be. A fuck boy would have used his time fucking other women then chasing you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:23 AM
18	Why does it matter whether someone rejects you, or has high standards? People have poor coping mechanism around rejection. Having narcissistic parents who withdraw affection if you make mistakes can be a reason. Abandonment issues. What can you do? For men only way out of it is radical self improvement. When they get good habits and gain abundance it all goes away. You can compare it to woman keying man's car when she is pumped and dumped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:21 AM
–	Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat". You don't have to be with a guy that leaves you when your looks fade. Thats the decision many women are making, that they would rather have kid by sperm donor than to hitch with LVM. Same with many upper class men, they are having kids through surrogacy because there are not women at their level. People have this Disney fantasy of happily ever after for marriage. Thats why they get married. Question is will a woman be happier single or with a husband who is low value. Because as women age they w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:17 AM
–	Men and women do tell you what they want, its up to you to decide to accept or not Watch what they do, not what they say. if women are fawning over douchebag with muscles, there is not sense becoming a reliable sensitive guy who gets cuddles and weekly starfish sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 07:03 AM
1	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. Thats fair and all and many women leave their husbands when they loose their jobs. I can't blame her, husband is not adding value to her life so she is leaving. Same with cancer wife. She is not adding value to his husband's life so he is leaving. Thats how conditional love works	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 07:37 PM
3	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. no, but most men lie to themselves that they are. When they find out, all hell breaks loose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 06:35 PM
2	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. yeah I am aware of that. But even other men will think that the guy who left his cancer ridden wife is a giant asshole. They would expect him to unconditionally love his wife. So in a way society still expect husband to love their wife unconditionally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 06:10 PM
4	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. The reason why is the simple fact that most men would rather have a woman who sees them as second best than no woman at all. yeah but not as wives	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:58 PM
6	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. Hop on to marriage subreddit. Filled with women who expect man to love them when they get fat, or stop having sex with their husbands or when they get old. I think if men truly understand how conditional woman's love is, they will start loving conditionally too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:51 PM
4	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. I dont understand what are you getting at. Women want unconditional love, they are the one asking their husbands whether he will still love them if they become a worm or a tank.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 05:30 PM
3	Advice on dealing with sexual teasing and validation seeking behavior? Ah! you married a woman but person you wanted was a man.	/r/askMRP	12/10/23 04:52 PM
1	Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a woman you can always approach. Go for it, keep it light and positive. Never block her even if its not done on purpose and you will be fine. Now if you wanna get laid, you need to find woman who is showing signs of ovulating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 04:18 PM
6	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. Men want unconditional love, they are naive like that. Its a myth perpetuated for women, because women NEED unconditional love otherwise they will be left for younger women. Being with HVM is risky in a sense, because woman is gonna get old. In a sense low value women expect High value treatment by not being left for younger women. Our society is a ponzy scheme, it works because people believe in it. You keep LVM working by giving them hope that they would get HVM treatment, or they will just st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 03:25 PM
–	If a woman struggles to orgasm during sex, it's either the guys fault or that's just how she's wired. If a guy struggles to orgasm during sex......... I will try to give u the gist. Trick is to make a woman "feel emotions". You will get best sex of your life after a big argument. There is a reason women tend to feel "sexual chemistry" with assholes and abusers. They dont need to positive emotions, just strong emotions There are many ways to do it, tell an engaging story filled with emotions one way. Most pick up artists are bullshitters at their core. They just tell stories filled with emotions. Passing shit tests is another way. It improves y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 11:47 AM
–	If a woman struggles to orgasm during sex, it's either the guys fault or that's just how she's wired. If a guy struggles to orgasm during sex......... I was talking in more general sense. Most married men gets sex only during time of ovulation. thats why once a 3x a month sex life is average. And most men tolerate it because even if they divorce their wives, they can't do any better either way or they are not confident enough. When I ventured into 24/7 D/s style relationships I found out one thing, orgasm is a mental game. A woman is capable of orgasming very easily if she is mentally stimulated enough. Foreplay starts at breakfast. But it req…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 09:27 AM
2	sex toys Women have very ugly hatred for low value men. There is price to pay when you are born as a low value man. Fleshlight is sign that you can't get laid. So that makes you low value man. Thing is they can't do much about it other then to shame you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 09:11 AM
8	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. Dating market is free market, there is not much socialism in love. Only thing that affect it is demand and supply. So its futile to make dating market fair. Its already fair exchange of value. Only way to "control" women is to become high value man, then you can get choice from the litter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 09:08 AM
–	Why is it okay for women to mention preferring certain stereotypically masculine traits but if a man mentions preferring certain stereotypically feminine traits, that's SEXIST!? Because women are scared of the fact that they are pretty much born with the value they have and its depreciating . They can improve yes but they dont have upward mobility men have. So either they compensate it with things like cooking, cleaning or they wait till man recognize that they dont have much value to give a man. But that requires effort which man does not have to put in. But that's unfair. But wait a minute, feminists say women can have it all. They can try and some women do. But there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 09:03 AM
13	CMV More and more young Men are realising that Looks is the Number 1 Factor for Dating Success in a developed Country. Its actually kinda crazy if you compare it to the old days. Game is the king, its just that many men try to find shortcuts. Game takes years to learn and is very mentally taxing. Its easier to gain muscles and put your shirtless pics on OLD to get laid. So yeah if you have mental fortitude to approach thousands of women you will become good with women. Working on looks just make is easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 08:50 AM
–	If a woman struggles to orgasm during sex, it's either the guys fault or that's just how she's wired. If a guy struggles to orgasm during sex......... Sex is more than just smashing booties. Its more than pushing buttons. Its more mental for women. Good thing is TRP knows it and tell men how to game and influence women mentally. Thing is though when men start to succeed and gain abundance, they start to experience abundance fatigue. If you can get almost any women you want, why would you care for the intricate mental dance that is needed to make women orgasm. Leo is one example, he can get any supermodel he wants and he is a selfish lover. I r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 08:43 AM
0	Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished place You underestimate how valuable men are. Fuck, men underestimate how much power they actually have over women. A man can improve life of a woman drastically, a man can make a difference between a woman's child going to jail vs going to college. For men to truly understand their power they need to go through anger phase. Anger when channelized right can in background, pushing men to create better habits and future. TRP is a toolbox that help man hone his power. Anger gives him fuel. When he comes …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 08:17 PM
1	Why is drama so widely appealing / why is being level-headed often considered boring? I think you misunderstand me, I am not saying what we should or should not do. I am just merely presenting my views on why people seek drama. I am not saying people should seek drama in lieu of other "positive" hobbies. You are giving prescriptive tone to something that was only meant to be descriptive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 07:16 PM
1	Why is drama so widely appealing / why is being level-headed often considered boring? People cope with boredom differently, some try pottery class, other cause drama. Point is comfort is boring, we still have urge to do interesting things. Positive or Negative. That comes from our evolutionary need for change and exploration.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 06:47 PM
2	I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good looking in my culture celibacy is pretty normal unless you’re married or in a long term relationship) Fair, hookup culture is very new thing. West is weird in that sense I’m not a Victoria secret model (at most a 5) but I take care of myself and appearance. Sure, sure. I also used to work at fast food store when I was younger. I didnt make much but I was honest and hardworking. there’s not a man on planet earth who is physically hot enough to have me sleep with him quickly. So you admit that you didnt f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:17 PM
–	How to become free? On a serous note, I feel we get trapped in how we frame the situation. Holy shit!! you just made an observation that folks at marriedredpill try so hard to beat in the heads of people who come there for advice. Now how exactly to be free? We are already free, but that does not mean freedom is any better that the prison we made for ourselves. So how to be free its very simple really. Make your freedom more inviting than you prison. TRP way of doing that is radical self improvement. Meditation mak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:02 PM
–	Is anyone else amazed at how impactful the internet has become on attitudes to sex and gender? If you see dating as a marketplace you will understand most important thing in market is information. So its no surprise that figertips information changes dating marketplace so drastically	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:57 PM
1	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? Always err on the side of confidence. There is not point hedging your bets in dating market. You get rejected move on. Fear is not way to live life. Now do women like confident dudes, yeah. So what if you can't back it up. All you can do is walk away and work on yourself. Most successful people build their empires on piles of BS	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:54 PM
–	Do women reap most of the benefits of a relationship being single? You underestimate value a good man provide for a woman. Feminists wanted independence from men and got it. Now woman can be independent of men. But some woman will have it better than others. I remember reading article about woman with PhD obsessively reading mormon mom's blog and feeling jealous of their lifestyle lol. Its a market of ideas, some ideas win other loose. A woman can be CEO if she put her mind to it, she can be housewife if she wants, she can never marry and have kids or pop out a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:50 PM
1	Question for all: would you describe your relationship with your partner as Independent, Dependent, or Interdependent? For those not in a relationship, what type do you want? Independent, my partner can always be replaced with hotter, younger, tighter woman so to speak. Thats the power of redpill. I earned it though lifting weights and working on my game and status. Now will I replace her, not really unless I have to. I am technically only dependent on her for comfort of not looking for another. I love her yes, but that love comes without conditions. But my commitment absolutely does comes with conditions. I think she can fulfil mine and I can fulfil her. Worst thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:41 PM
1	There is nothing that can be done about the ‘dating marketplace’. Nothing. It operates how nature intended it to, and this means it is naturally harder for men to date. You are not wrong, all men are not supposed to be successful. But since we live in a society and social contract dictates that there should be something in it for "men who are not supposed to be successful". Otherwise men will stop participating in social contract. Generally society atleast creates illusion that success is somewhat possible for betas. So that they could squeeze out as much from betas as they can before beta gives up. But there is so much carrot you can dangle in front of a mule …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:32 PM
3	For redpill men, What was the moment that made you go redpill I was never really bluepill. I had a wonderful childhood full of love and support. It was a middle class house with thrifty parents. I never had the latest gaming console but I always had good food. My mother is anxious type and quick to anger. She has lots of insecurities. But she is good person at heart. She could never hurt someone, she is just not capable of it. My dad is a mix of beta and alpha, alpha socially but personality of a beta. Moral and responsible, but definitely not someone I as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:18 PM
–	Is the crisis of modern dating also an existential struggle in of itself? More explanation in the op I mean society will adapt. You will loose nuclear families. You will have an epidemic of single mothers who are supported by daddy government. You will have hordes of men giving up and finding peace in videogames or AI girlfriends. Some women who are high quality will be married to high value men, others will be single mothers. Maybe some will find its better to be in Chad's harem then alone, some may be able to rope beta into raising another man's child. Lets hope that this fateful time never c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:10 PM
2	I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good looking I don’t mean spoiling and showering women with gifts Yeah, only stupid men do that. taking care of bills and being a provider. Brilliant. I dont mind being a provider, but woman should look like victoria secret model and fucks like a pornstar otherwise she would be dumped faster than she could say "unconditional love" I tried dating after being celibate for several years Low libido I presume I was most attracted to the man who covered the bills without hesitation and wanted to take care of every…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:01 PM
2	Why is drama so widely appealing / why is being level-headed often considered boring? Not many people can get entertained by reading phone books. We as a species are successful because we were able to venture far and wide. So when a natural disaster stuck one place, our species was already in another continent. We have instinctive urge to stir up shit. Many people left their somewhat safe tribes to venture around the world. Fuck some crazy dude got the idea of using wind to cross oceans, when he could just have stayed and farmed chicken. Its a choice that people still struggle wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:50 PM
4	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up Manosphere is very big and diverse. A general statement cant be made about it. All we can do is try to decipher the truth case by case basis. I am a fan of hyperagency for both man and woman. So I have no patience for women who get knocked up outside wedlock then cry victim. Same way I have no patience for men who got married without a prenup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:43 PM
13	Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anything The point that you are missing here is that, society NEEDS betas. Beta is a good dad, he is the man who will raise another man's kids like his, beta works his ass off to support his family in order to get divorced and pay alimony. Thing is though no man needs to do any of that shit. He can just walk away. One way to keep a man is to actually make it worthwhile. So that maybe regular sex, good social support structure etc. But its not always possible to give a beta that. So he needs to be made pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:24 PM