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279

most men will show some sign of male pattern baldness by the time they’re 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:41 AM
128

i feel like i live under a rock and i’m thankful for that. i didn’t realize this sub got the attention it did until one of my posts blew up and i got my face posted to an incel forum 😭. i randomly stumbled across this sub looking for advice on how to deal with a guy i couldn’t stupidly get over lol. didn’t even know it was popular like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:37 AM
26

when i was 17, my doctor asked me if i was sexually active. i truthfully told him no. he just gives me this look and says “you mean to tell me you’ve never had sex before?!” i was straight out of high school and already super insecure about being a virgin who hadn’t even been kissed someone before and now my doctor was accusing me of lying. like wtf lol. i told my mom and she said she’s changing offices immediately. never saw him again 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:28 AM
36

i love this song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:39 PM
5

i used to be close with a guy in college who overall seemed like a decent guy but would say things like “if a woman put me on child support i’d do the bare minimum for her” or “if a woman gets drunk and gets raped it’s half her fault for getting that drunk”. glad i no longer speak to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:46 PM
14

i feel like a good percentage of men are like this 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:08 PM
56

our advice is to only date men who treat you with respect, yet we’re the bad ones?! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:05 PM
3

he’s probably a rapist himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:51 PM
5

i usually just scroll past 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:14 PM
62

i’m also tired of seeing clearly staged tiktoks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:22 PM
15

first of all, piers morgan is fugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:16 PM
25

THIS is the one 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:22 PM
115

yet not a single man knows another man that hits or rapes women... 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:10 PM
16

southern states are so fucking embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:06 PM
11

EW. if the fate of the world depended on me being sexual with my cousin, i’d just let the world perish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:59 PM
8

i’d be giving birth in a jail cell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:09 PM
53

and who just deletes text messages? just delete the whole thread lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:30 AM
95

what was the point of this exchange? like what was he trying to do?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:25 AM
2

this poor woman. i hope she divorces his ass and puts him on child support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:09 AM
6

that shit took me OUT 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:06 AM
12

MY STOMACH HURTS FROM LAUGHING OMFG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:06 AM
34

girl, just delete the app. this will probably be the least trash experience you’ll have on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:37 PM
14

my jaw literally dropped at the forehead comment. but anyways, IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:41 PM
3

be selfish for as long as possible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:23 AM
50

idk if this is a common feeling, but you never realize how young an age actually is until you are that age. i’m 26 and i used to think 25 was the age i’d feel super grown and have it all together. i definitely still don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:45 PM
37

i hope she never loses her love for stuffed animals. i still have a collection as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:21 PM
122

i look back at being 21 and even though legally i was grown, i was definitely still a child. i was very naive and ignorant about a lot of things simply bc i just hadn’t been on the planet that long lol. seeing kids get married and have kids of their own at that age is just baffling to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:16 PM
25

i definitely spent the last two years trying to level up for that reason as well. you’re not alone! my journey has been rough and i’m pretty sure i’ll still make plenty of mistakes in my future lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:46 PM
97

wow, are you me? i’m finally at a point where i’ve accepted singlehood and if i never end up getting married or having kids, i’ll be perfectly okay. i still don’t think there’s anything wrong with women genuinely wanting romantic love, marriage, and motherhood though. i just feel we shouldn’t deem one life path as a failure for women and the other to be what’s expected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:06 PM
15

lol i’ve come to the point where if any unsaved number just texts me out of the blue, it’s probably some scrote and i just block. i don’t even care to figure out who it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:57 AM
44

what kind of shit is that? i think red hair is so beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:18 AM
229

i did not know there was a height limit. i am YELLING 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:59 AM
123

4 days? what on earth... dude needs a psychiatrist or something. not a wife lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:51 AM
28

it’s interesting you say that. i’m an artist who’s getting into animation and i’m developing a pitch for a show, loosely based off of my life, that pretty much embodies what you feel like is missing when it comes women in media. i want to show the main character grow from being and insecure pick me type to a woman who learns that her priorities in life aren’t defined by her proximity to a man and that she’s solely responsible for her happiness. i’m a huge lover of friendship love stories and cel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:22 PM
3

are simply talking about formal white dresses? bc i see casual white dresses all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:52 PM
23

“do you want to get married or do you want to have a wedding?” i just got read for FILTH 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 07:56 PM
84

this comment shouldn’t have made me laugh the way it did 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:08 AM
100

unisex bathrooms would honestly be such a great idea if men weren’t socialized to be fucking predators. they literally ruin everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:44 PM
1

it’s just a dream lol. i always have super crazy dreams where i make decisions i would never do with a conscious mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:24 AM
3

i’m too clingy for this 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:21 AM
10

moto moto has me ROLLING 😭 that’s literally all my experiences with every guy i’ve given the time of day too lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:17 AM
7

i think you need to work on placing firmer boundaries for yourself. also, try asking your friends for emotional support sometimes. don’t become a sympathy leech, but your friends can offer some comfort, support and advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:07 AM
20

i didn’t even watch it. i told my friends if they ever had the audacity to propose to a man, i would jump in the way 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:57 AM
4

i’d block him and delete the app 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:41 AM
18

so your gf just experienced a traumatizing situation and you think it’s a good idea to just disrespect her and betray her trust bc you just have to get your dick wet?!? i just get more and more disgusted by men everyday. they deserve nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:34 AM
7

i really hope this woman finds fds and never speaks to this lowlife again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:26 AM
10

as someone who’s never had a real relationship this makes me feel even shittier about how men see me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:21 AM
10

the mansplaining is what gets me. i told a guy i want to do more solo travel, but as a woman, i have some fear being in foreign countries alone. he told me having an american passport will save me from getting in trouble... like a rapist or murderer will stop simply bc i’m an american. men just don’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:06 AM
16

men have just made sex so unenjoyable for me for this reason. fucking a bunch of randos who don’t respect me isn’t fun. towards the end of last year i was going to hook up with a guy who i had slept with once before but i ended up just making excuses to not see him and ghosting bc i realized i’d actually have sex with a man lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:25 AM
13

i’m so happy i don’t even drink coffee. every time i’ve been asked on a coffee date, i straight up would just tell them no 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:19 AM
4

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:59 AM
8

i truly feel for this woman and those innocent kids. i hope she finds peace and those children grow up to live a life that isn’t full of regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:56 AM
3

i think being a mother can be a beautiful thing, but i’ve come to terms that i’m okay if i never experience it. when i was younger i thought for sure, i’d be a mom at 25 and here i am at 26 and i feel like it should illegal for me to have a child lmao. idk if i’ll ever feel ready. call me selfish, but i love just focusing on me and not worrying about raising another life that i brought into this world. and this goes beyond just being financially stable. i could have jeff bezos bank account and i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:18 PM
20

and then they have the nerve to say women being favored in court when it comes to children is unfair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:32 PM
9

i hope she sells that ring on facebook marketplace and leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:21 PM
3

back when i used to browse through scrotes on OLD i saw plenty of men not use photos of their face like it was some prize to see lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:19 PM
26

$8?! a burrito bowl costs more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:16 PM
10

i got one too a few weeks ago and i was confused as hell lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:10 PM
18

omg i remember watching that movie with my friend years ago and the rape scene was just TOO much. still scarred 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:02 PM
4

thank you!! idk how i came up with it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:56 AM
3

most of us talk about how ugly the men of our past are so this is a lie!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:31 PM
20

even though i understand statements like this are pretty much true. it still makes me sad. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:24 PM
12

i’m so glad having sex with a bunch of people isn’t my whole personality. this just seems exhausting to do. i cannot imagine seeing women everyday and thinking “how can i be even more of a sociopath so i can stick my dick in her instead of just being a good person” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:17 PM
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this is me with love & hip hop or any bridal show on tlc. sometimes i just like some trashy problematic tv. it’s not that deep lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:03 PM
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they can call me an incel all they want. at the end of day, i’m not fucking any of them so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:33 PM
1

i’m an artist. back when i was in college, i told a guy that i liked watching videos of people paint and he told me that was boring 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:15 PM
8

i love cosplaying! i think men in that community get upset that female cosplayers tend to get more attention than they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:11 PM
3

i guarantee you these people live under the poverty line. just recklessly wanting to bring kids into a toxic and unstable environment. just selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:58 PM
21

i mean, most men’s hobbies include wanting to stick their dick in random strangers so you shouldn’t be surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:44 PM
46

i understand the point of this video, but as a woman, if my friends don’t like a man that i bring around it will make me question his behavior on why they have that opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:31 PM
37

we literally are mammals. it’s a great comparison!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:48 PM
6

i hope she didn’t give him shit and she just blocked 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:43 PM
9

this is terrifying... a 32 year old man with a fucking CHILD. i hope people are reaching out to this poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:12 AM
4

i’ve always considered myself a girl’s girl as well, but i’m still a human capable of exhibiting toxic behaviors. i definitely haven’t done everything on this list, but reading it made me realize that i haven’t always been the greatest friend in my past. we’ve all done toxic things whether we’d like to believe it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:08 AM
13

i think all of us have been guilty of doing a few of these things... 😕 but i think i’ve really grown up in the past few years and have come to see the errors in my old ways. i’ve also been on the other side and had to let go of friends like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:24 AM
39

even though i don’t online date anymore, i loved when men did this. i knew to immediately swipe left!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:26 AM
9

any man that gets with me thinking i’m going to tie his tie is screwed. i have no idea how to tie one 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:59 PM
39

7 years my ass lol... that girl was a toddler in 2009
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:56 PM
13

i will die on the hill that women are genuinely funnier than men. my female friends and family members crack me up 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:44 PM
3

i’m screaming 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:44 PM
4

pick mes will always side with the man. just delusional lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:38 PM
55

this honestly sounds lit.. goals 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:29 PM
25

he had the best time ever at BURGER KING? lord, send in the floods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:23 AM
2

this made me crack up 😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:11 PM
29

also the perky breast thing... if your chest is naturally large it’s going to sag more bc of gravity and weight even if you’re still a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:05 PM
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men will always say “choose better men” and when they get one they say the woman isn’t deserving of one, but if she were to stay with a man that disrespects her, she’s a dummy. wtf do they WANT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:20 PM
7

if i could force myself to be sexually attracted to women so i could build a beautiful life one, i’d be a lesbian TWO. DAE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:50 PM
63

💀💀💀💀 he literally looks like every white man i’ve seen in western maryland lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:16 PM
30

if a man gets violent and the woman feels the need to defend herself, using a weapon is completely reasonable to ensure her safety. watch me get banned for this... stay safe ladies 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:06 PM
12

keep this man away from black women at all costs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:49 PM
5

poor thing... i really hope she finds a more positive and healthy way to cope with this break up without fucking those weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:07 AM
28

i would NEVER choose to be attracted to a man if i had a choice! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:01 AM
81

i swear being attracted to men is a disease i’d like to be cured of!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:39 AM
2

black men irk my nerves. just power hungry hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:29 PM
3

i think around $50. i gave the shop name in a previous comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:34 PM
3

the ring?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:15 PM
30

i think it’s just genetics, i’ve surprisingly never had an issue with my cuticles lol. but i do put lotion on whenever i feel my hands getting dry 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:37 AM
82

ring is from aquamarise on etsy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:21 PM
2

and most aren’t even nice lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:20 PM
10

i’d rather die alone than do this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 04:58 PM
1

toxicity always starts young 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:59 PM
3

we all make mistakes! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:38 AM
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99% are hideous af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:01 PM
16

i even used to just sleep with men that weren’t that attractive to me... i shudder in horror how i even managed to do that 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:57 PM
3

alot of these men have deadbeat dads and will end up being one themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:35 AM
2

definitely just block in the future, but this is sending me 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:38 AM
27

that’s the first thing i said to myself while reading this. you can feel the sadness in her words 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:40 PM
40

most women aren’t even being raped by randos on the street at night. this advice is tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:34 PM
1

so happy for you💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:30 PM
6

they do by calling other men simps. they tell on themselves everyday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:29 PM
1

now we all know it’s most athletes goal to fuck as many women as possible while racking up rape and assault charges
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:27 PM
3

couldn’t have said this better. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:22 PM
4

apparently being disrespectful and abusive is in their biology as they like to say lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:19 PM
12

i feel this. being a black woman dealing with the toxicity of black men is just exhausting. i know women of all race deal with shit men, but i feel like ours is just different... idk how to explain it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:48 PM
18

sis, not a mcchicken 😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:07 PM
30

i’m not against interracial dating, but calling myself a “swirler” will never happen. if a black women is interested in dating, just need to go where she’s valued. race is secondary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:56 AM
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whats funny is seeing black men who hate black women act like this lol. the weakest links.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:52 AM
2

the gospel truth! 👏🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:37 PM
16

this is so touching and warms my heart 💕 little acts of kindness like this give me hope for humanity. my dad sent me and sister flowers for today. my sisters building is kind of difficult to deliver to and they just left her box outside. this woman in the next building got them and found her on facebook to give them to her. thank you so much for sharing ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:32 AM
10

and we all know 5’9 is 5’5 in men world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:21 AM
14

this reminds of women who are newly postpartum and aren’t comfortable having sex yet, but their partners still ask for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:28 AM
8

omg how tall is he? it’s always the uglies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:44 AM
22

i saw one of his photos and of course he’s a man with no jawline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:25 AM
9

pringle’s can is taking me OUT 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:17 PM
6

with the amount of time that it will take to make, it brings up the value of the gift. this is honestly so sweet 😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:10 AM
14

i know we shouldn’t deal with disrespect from any man regardless of attraction, but i think we all know that extra hurt when it comes from an ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:06 AM
2

i wouldn’t even do that honestly. just ghost him. if he has to be pushed against a wall to ask you out, he’s not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:03 AM
24

i’m WHEEZING 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:53 PM
33

i can’t stand a man that texts “how are you doing?” everyday instead of just making plans. it’s so simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:42 AM
6

yep! last time i had sex it was bc i was bored. it was mid stroke where i realized that i never want to do this again. sex was so trash, and i blocked him a few days later. haven’t had sex in over a year and i can say it’s the best decision i ever made! not a pregnancy or std scare in sight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:36 AM
42

it’s all about power dynamics. thinking a 16 year old is attractive isn’t taboo, we all know what a pretty face looks like. but acting on that and going out of your way to date/sleep with literal children is unacceptable. someone that young will never have the emotional/mental capacity to consent. they want someone they know they can easily overpower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:30 AM
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that’s it. this may be naive of me or just me trying to not be completely pessimistic about life, but i do believe there are men that do genuinely have empathy and can express it. it’s a rarity, but i know they’re out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:18 AM
32

how do you safely eat a human being? nvm i don’t wanna know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:11 AM
21

i hope she files for divorce and eats his ass up in child support since they have a child. best of luck to her and the baby. i wish him the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:08 AM
14

omg a few years ago, i met this guy at a bar and a few days later he sent me a full body nude on snapchat and got salty that i send one back... i was like sir, who ARE YOU?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:58 AM
37

i just can’t imagine revolving my whole life around getting sex out of people, even if i don’t like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:50 AM
15

i think it’s mainly due to how men are socialized. if you pretty much raise them from birth to disrespect people and be power hungry, they’ll never really change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:42 AM
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the fact that most men can’t even make women orgasm from clitoral stimulation is so sad. like that’s literally the easiest way to get there 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:36 AM
7

i still enjoy sexy poses and i’m a straight women. i thought the video was nice lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:58 AM
16

i don’t believe anyone is actually really selfless. it’s human nature to enjoy doing things for people when the energy is reciprocated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:51 AM
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if i’m in a relationship with someone, i’d give them a gift lol. cardi is not the person i’d want relationship advice from tho 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:33 AM
2

no... lol 😂 even at 18/19, which i doubt that he is, your bones don’t change that drastically from your late teens to your 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:56 AM
11

you don’t even have to be that attractive tbh. ugly and average men fuck A LOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:50 AM
4

this is why i love this community.. i, for years thought their must be something broken in me, and that it needed to be fixed. i lived a portion of my life in a way i thought i enjoyed for it just to make everything worse and eventually i realized there was never anything wrong with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:03 PM
2

this man looks like an adult. there is no way you can achieve this significant of a jawline reshaping naturally. i think it’s work well done tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:56 PM
23

highly doubt it. that would be “paying for pussy” which they claim they’re too good for... the irony
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:47 PM
4

same... except all the men i’ve ever been hung up on didn’t even want me enough to make me their gf lol. knowing that i’m not alone in this is such a relief yet heartbreaking. i still just want to slap some sense into younger me for dealing with bullshit i didn’t have to 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:45 PM
2

that’s how i pretty much always viewed valentine’s day growing up. it’s simply just a day about love. my dad always gets me something even at the age i am now (i’m 26). one year, me and my friends went out for dinner together and just hung out bc we love each other lol. i’ve never even had a romantic valentine, but i always think of valentine’s day as a cute made up holiday 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:30 PM
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i’d just walk out and take my ass home. what’s the worst he can do in a public restaurant? yell at me lol. ain’t no way in hell i’m letting a man get a free meal out of me to prove a point 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:17 PM
58

how do you even find that many people you want to sleep with? men really just stick their dicks in any and every hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:11 PM
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this is why i preach to any single mother, to put her baby father on child support. you gonna care today or go to prison. make your choice motherfucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:06 PM
115

that list line is the male mindset about anything. just disgusting human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:13 AM
11

this is how an episode of snapped begins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:10 AM
7

sometimes i wish i was snarkier to men but i’d rather not be buried 6 feet under 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:19 AM
15

men are DELUSIONAL! i love form fitting and slightly revealing clothes bc i think they look good on me. but i hate when i’m in a space that i know is going to be infested with men, bc i know i’ll get nothing but harassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:13 AM
11

i’m 26 and i wish i didn’t start dating till i was 35 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 11:55 AM
6

yes as fun as reddit can be, it can be mentally exhausting. i feel that way in this group seeing so many posts about dating/men having affected women negatively. sometimes you just want to see some positivity instead of arguing or hot takes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:23 AM
13

i guarantee you these people are habitual complainers in real life too. they just want sympathy instead of hearing solutions or constructive criticism. grown adults just wanting to be babied. annoying af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:09 AM
-1

i’m not against couple tattoos, but DO NOT get their NAME!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:58 PM
2

it’s just feeding into their egos lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:17 PM
11

we’ve all been there before. don’t be too hard on yourself! i spent years being jealous over women being treated “better” than me by guys who were just shitty human beings. those men pretty much never changed or ended up begging for another chance. with time, i got over them and you will get over this doofus too. you’ve always been worthy of love and being treated with respect. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:56 AM
14

i literally can’t even discuss my dislike or negative experiences with men, with my father bc he’s a “not all men” guy. no matter how much i explain it’s hurtful, he doesn’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:43 AM
34

he looks like he belongs in wall-e 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:26 AM
12

almost all of my friendships with men are very surface level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:47 AM
26

years ago on twitter i remember a bunch of guys were bragging about how they like “fucking lesbians”. like it was a game. whatever lesbians are fucking these lowlifes, please stop 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:45 AM
2

everyday 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:57 PM
5

i have a guy friend who i met online years ago who’s like that as well. i’m always shocked when he says that he simply just enjoys me as a person and remembers little details. this just shows how low the bar is for what we find impressive in men. just treating us like an actual friend seems like a big deal 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:01 PM
4

an old situationship i had years ago in college added me on social media last year and tried to “reconnect”. we had one facetime call and i guess he thought i was going to just spread my legs for him like i used to. haven’t heard from him since new years, deleted him from everything and found fds. never been happier 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:55 PM
5

i can smell the stds 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:48 PM
155

and you don’t get quietly hit by a car either... he KNEW!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:33 PM
14

i can’t imagine feeling the need to push off a girl that’s almost a foot shorter than you, simply bc she wants to hold your hand. but you also want to stick your dick in and choke her 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:24 AM
16

i used to be so hung up on guy who didn’t like kissing, would only cuddle after sex if he wanted to, and even pushed me off of him when i tried to hold his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:03 AM
4

don’t feel guilty. at the end of the day that behavior is toxic and can be a lot to deal with. you did what was best for you, and hopefully she did the same for herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:01 AM
9

unfortunately, she probably has 😕. i know many of my drunk sexual encounters are technically considered rape. i try not to think about it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:34 PM
4

i love stories like this 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:28 PM
26

oh god, i’ve definitely been guilty of doing that in my early 20s... low self esteem was a bitch. i hope any of the pick mes that act in these ways will see the light eventually. it’s much better over here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:23 PM
23

reading this really gives me hope. i know they’re a rarity, but it’s good to know these men exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:54 PM
16

skid marks is one thing (still gross), but just straight up not wiping?!!!? this cannot be real. i refuse to believe this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:24 AM
10

i haven’t had sex in over a year and for the longest time i couldn’t even enjoy it unless i was drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:45 PM
10

shit like that makes me so dry lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:42 PM
49

i’m only 5’3 and i swear every guy that claims to be 5’7 is almost my height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:57 AM
18

this brought actual tears to my eyes 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:56 AM
14

i’ve found so much value in my life from hobbies, friends, etc. being claimed by a man is just not a priority for me anymore. even though that wedding i’ve planned for the past 10 years would be nice to have 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:52 AM
219

the amount of men i met in my early 20s who would proudly say “i’m an asshole 🤪” like it was some endearing personality trait that’s cute. being mean or even jokingly mean, isn’t funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:22 AM
11

a toaster... i just... WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:35 PM
14

i personally don’t care if men like that call me a man hater. i don’t like them 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:46 PM
10

AN ORCHID 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:44 PM
108

take out the benefits too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:11 AM
231

lord, this is giving me war flashbacks from college lol. these fwbs aren’t even your damn friends at the end of the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:07 AM
12

psychos. just psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:05 AM
8

if his hairline is already fucked at 25, he clearly has trash genetics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:42 AM
47

moments like these make me very pessimistic about true love 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:05 AM
17

it’s so rude. what if the woman had a miscarriage or an abortion? that could be very triggering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:53 AM
132

i think this all the time. if you’re genuinely not attracted to her, just leave her alone. disrespecting people just bc you can isn’t something to feel accomplished about. but i forget, men are socialized to be fucking psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:43 PM
336

i will never understand treating someone you’re supposed to love this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:15 PM
50

even outside of religion, men in general just ask VERY invasive questions. i’m a woman with no kids, and this guy had the audacity to ask me if i’ve ever been pregnant. and he thought it was funny too... i was shocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:00 PM
11

this made me HOWL 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:50 PM
25

i hate when men ask me that. just plan a date and i’ll let you know if it works for me. i hate being asked a bunch of questions lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:46 PM
3

women are pretty much brainwashed from birth to accept all forms of abuse from men bc “tHaTs JuSt HoW mEn ArE!!” even though it clearly hurts our feelings and wrecks our self esteem. but we’re supposed to care about a man’s mental health when they’ve been given a free pass to completely destroy ours their entire lives? FOH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:42 PM
49

do they even get enjoyment out of not cumming? what is the point of this 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:46 PM
58

they don’t want to deal with the aftermath of a changed body from pregnancy. that’s why i hate snapback culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:23 AM
22

it’s such entertaining trash lol. let’s me know what exactly i don’t want from a relationship 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:21 AM
15

“raising another man’s kids” men barely even raise their own kids.. FOH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:17 AM
30

can god just send in the floods?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:10 AM
5

that remark made my blood boil. i would’ve chose violence if a man said that to me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:40 PM
14

i don’t even let men with kids talk to me, let alone touch me. i am not volunteering to be a sister wife in some baby mama harem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:41 AM
9

as a black american, it’s pretty much the same shit with our men. my cousins second baby father was one of those bum men that has multiple baby manas, is abusive, and nothing going for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:39 AM
22

all the negatives that come with sex are a huge deal to me and it should be for men too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:21 AM
10

oh god this is giving me war flashbacks to when i used to drive to this guy around for our “dates”... never again 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:20 AM
22

women that say this call other women “females”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:09 AM
24

i once went down the rabbit hole of teen baby mama youtube and YIKES. these girls believe simply bc they had babies means they magically just don’t have the brain of children. a lot of them go on to having multiple kids and even get married by 21. and most get divorced soon after. you can tell by how they talk about things that they’re immature but they want the world to see them as grown. i understand shit happens, but i will never condone teen pregnancy by choice. you’re only a child for so lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:08 AM
23

most men are so fucking DRY when they message you. won’t make direct plans, just “how are you” “wyd” you TO DEATH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:53 AM
102

these are the same men that will fuck women they don’t even know or like raw. like okay, you’ll risk catching an std or having an accident baby, but a MEAL is where you draw the line?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:50 AM
90

this is actually frightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:30 PM
3

i’ve had men of all attractiveness levels try this “humbling” shit with me. i think i just have bad luck 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:16 PM
9

a size 8 isn’t fat at all... i had a guy who i used to sleep with in college randomly tell me that if i did upper body workouts, my chest would be perkier. men will do the most to tear women down, thinking that they’re helping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:52 PM
3

the fucking audacity men have...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:20 AM
2

i swear nothing is tackier than a professional athlete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:59 AM
14

i straight up just tell my sister that she can call me uppity or bougie all she wants. i’m not the one getting screwed over by bottom of the barrel men who only ask you out on house dates. i’ve noticed she doesn’t come to me crying to me as much whenever some dude acts shitty bc she know i’ll say the same thing and not give her sympathy like she wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:21 PM
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