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Conversationupward_spiral00/r/seduction24/06/20 03:41 PM
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Do you have a garage for your car? If yes, pull her in your garage and hit her with your knowledge.
/r/seduction17/08/20 12:17 AM
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You can start chatting with her and use her for social proof later on when you open another set in the bar/club.
/r/seduction09/08/20 10:49 PM
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I really can't tell. Especially when they have sunglasses on and wearing a mask at the same time. Sometimes they have good eyes if they don't wear sunglasses but their jawline is a complete turn off or their nose. I just don't approach girls with mask. Not only that I don't see their full face but at some point they start mumbling some words that are unhearable when I start conversation with them due to the mask. So I just approach girls casually who don't wear masks and hoping a vaccine comes o…
/r/seduction09/08/20 10:33 PM
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by spiking her emotions left and right and getting her RAS fully centered on you.
/r/seduction08/08/20 10:49 PM
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Reduce time of reaction. Once you see the girl draw a line in your mind where the girl is and what is the fastest way to get to her. This way your excuses don't pop up in your mind. You have to throw yourself out there, and get out of your comfort zone believe it or not, that's life. It is really tough for beginners to do the first step, but when you start doing this constantly it becomes like a muscle. Your emotion is a muscle that you build which gets you desensitized over time. Detach yoursel…
/r/seduction08/08/20 01:57 PM
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Anywhere except going into a restaurant or movie theater. In these two places you won't have her full attention on you. She will be focused on the movie if you go in the movie theater and if you go to the restaurant, the vibe will be weird since you will sit opposite of each other and waiters are going to pass around you/interrupt you. Coffee places, smoothie places, cocktails, going to the park are the best option for first dates. You may sit next to her and do some physical escalation without …
/r/seduction05/08/20 01:56 PM
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unless you start clicking the pen due to fidgeting, lol.
/r/seduction01/08/20 10:22 PM
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Best example of this is Julien Blanc.
/r/seduction01/08/20 10:17 PM
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Tinder.
/r/seduction21/07/20 06:06 PM
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What is "the artistic opener" I assume he opens them saying "you look artistic today, are you an artist?"
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:42 AM
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Yeah right, because opening and interacting with people every day for month and a half using "you look artistic" will definitely improve his social skill in pickup, jobs, friendships, school and more. Lol, please.
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:38 AM
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"The Power of Now" and "The Alchemist".
/r/seduction12/07/20 10:27 AM
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Literally the first 2 minutes of interaction: "are you from ___?" and if she says yes, you tease her saying something like: "god damn i don't know whether i should feel good or bad talking to a person from ____". Asking a question > making a statement from the question > teasing afterwards
/r/seduction10/07/20 09:47 PM
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Also read "mystery method", 200 pages but most of them are pictures and examples so you get the point. (he was the best pick up artist back in his time 2004-5 and was also mentioned in "The Game" by Neil Strauss)
/r/seduction04/07/20 06:35 PM
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just swallow it, full alpha mode.
/r/seduction04/07/20 01:22 PM
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Good luck and don't be in your head, we only live once.
/r/seduction04/07/20 01:21 PM
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Bonus tip: always have a gum with you. No matter how good your hygiene or grooming is, if your breath smells bad you are out.
/r/seduction04/07/20 01:21 AM
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Amazing post!
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:01 PM
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Lmao, back when Julien's game was on it's absolute peak. It is breathtaking how he transitioned from the media scandal to his success in self-help, leading to marriage and having a beautiful daughter. Weird how life works out for the best in the end.
/r/seduction22/06/20 04:41 PM
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Just don't trip out and don't plan what to say. Say whatever you want to say and what comes naturally. Find out if she has a boyfriend first, try to screen her during the chit-chat interaction, for example: "hey what do you think, do you miss your loved ones when you are at work?". And if she has a boyfriend she will respond that she misses him. And if she doesn't she would say that she doesn't miss anyone or that she misses her parents/siblings. It's an indirect approach for screening so you kn…
/r/seduction20/06/20 10:13 PM
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Girls don't care about your accomplishments, they care about the value you offer to them and being that "seducer, attraction builder guy" Have you tried doing cold approaches daygame/nightgame and practice your pick up and social dynamic skill? I bet you are going to be successful if you interact with 5 girls at least a week. Let that be your goal, set it. Why do I say this? Reason is that you are a fast learner, as I recognize from the stated above with your examples. So, decide to get good at …
/r/seduction20/06/20 03:11 PM
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Elaborate your current situation, so we can try to help you out.
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:50 PM
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mind explaining how RSD are scammers?
/r/seduction18/06/20 09:36 PM
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hmm... think of dead bodies, corpses and cemetery before approaching them I guess this may help.
/r/seduction13/06/20 10:02 PM
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You are lucky to go clubbing meanwhile covid-19 shits hard in my country lmao. Take their number next time and call them the next day so you set up a date, or try texting them on instagram for the same reasons. Don't text them a lot before you make out/have sex with them because you'll enjoy the friendzone.
/r/seduction13/06/20 09:58 PM
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fap before you go out, if it doesn't work and you still get erection, fap twice and you are good to go.
/r/seduction13/06/20 09:51 PM
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\^ this. Went in a cafeteria with two of my friends and we couldn't sit all three on the same table cuz of the restrictions lol. It was so cringe, hopefully covid disappears completely and the life will continue to be normal once again.
/r/seduction13/06/20 09:49 PM
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Lol, you are caring so much about this topic and also why are you overthinking how many young girls are there available? All these calculations are based on your pessimistic speculations. Just go out bro and see it for yourself, you don't know for a fact how many young girls are available, this is just your overthinking scenario. It is better to experience the reality than to make false assumptions of it and living your life based on these assumptions.
/r/seduction13/06/20 12:28 PM
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No. You show man to woman intent obviously, but you don't see them as "having sex with them" goal. Its a mental shift that will change his pov from sex objects to relationship objects, if this makes sense to you.
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:41 PM
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Approach girls you find attractive and delete your goal of having sex with them. Not only your game will improve but they will be wanting to chase you, since you won't show any neediness in the interaction. Don't ever think about having sex with them, take it like you just want to experience her with conversation. It's a game changer and you won't ever choke during your interaction simply because your goal is to talk to her and not have sex with her.
/r/seduction11/06/20 06:35 PM
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No one is watching you don't worry, put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself if you are watching/staring someone else talking to girls, the answer would probably be that you don't watch/stare... you might peek for some seconds but that's it, people move on and they mind their problems and businesses. My opinion on why you did well with approaching in March was that you wasn't in your head and you went fully natural, meaning you was CONFIDENT back then and now you lost your CONFIDENCE (and no…
/r/seduction09/06/20 12:45 PM
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You are overthinking it. Why do you say they get the feeling of you being a loser? If you really think this there's something wrong that you do on your date. When you are on your date the first time, you got more than enough time to show the girl that you are a valuable guy with an interesting life, hobbies and goals. It's true to a certain degree. For example if you are meeting a girl that doesn't know who you are and there is no time for you and her to go on date, then yeah, giving your social…
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:06 AM
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Take it easily, dont overthink and have confidence. When she knocks on your door, greet her with an energetic hug. Stash alcohol in your fridge for you two to drink. I'd say before you do the cheer thingy with her, tell her something like this line: "this is for our work that we have put in, if it wasn't for us, the company would go bankrupt, cheers (smile and you can hug her here too *optional)". Maintain a strong "We" frame during the interaction meaning WE, instead YOU and ME. Ask her if she …
/r/seduction08/06/20 09:17 PM
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You did the right thing in my opinion, those girls didn't want to have sex that night or along these lines... they simply wanted every friend of them to see their new apartment and pass some time smoking weed, drinking alcohol, etc etc... (my opinion) Or you could've taken the second option which is hitting on one of the 4 girls there. Starting off with screening the girl for example if she has a boyfriend, does she respond to sexual jokes and even checking her instagram. That way you would know…
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:26 PM
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Why would you get to a place where you dwell about being happy or sad about you improving? DUDE, you made fantastic improvement, you pulled and you got laid! I suggest be prepared for the worst case scenario, even if that happens and she dumps you, take it with mindset that it's her loss and not yours. She loses a time well spent with confident dude like you and is currently lucky to have you. Meanwhile date other girls if you don't wanna get attached to her. Field reports like these really make…
/r/seduction08/06/20 02:14 PM
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Date multiple girls so you don't depend on her, your natural mindset will feel a lot different and you won't feel as attached.
/r/seduction08/06/20 01:54 PM
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I'm glad that I helped!
/r/seduction08/06/20 01:32 PM
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Depends on what goals you have and how you view your life situation. Do you have an interesting life to share with someone, are you Happy with what you are doing or with your current lifestyle? Because look, girls want guys that are high value filled with goals and who are on their path of pursuing their goals. I was into pick up since 2014 and in 2017 I met my girlfriend which is now my ex. We've been together for 3 years and we broke up this year (2020). Everything went smoothly, before I got …
/r/seduction08/06/20 01:24 PM
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Hey, I know this isn't related to anything but my advice to you is never approach girls when you are drunk or tipsy, only do it when you are sober. The reason why is you won't build your social dynamics that way more effectively as to approaching a girl when being at a sober state. In the end this pick up is all about the self development and remembering what you did wrong so you correct yourself next time going out. It's like taking creatine and going into the gym lifting weights. At first your…
/r/seduction08/06/20 12:06 PM
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