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Yeah, when ADHD comes into the picture it's a whole different story. For as hard as schools are on boys, they're that much harder on neurodiverse kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:44 AM
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Oh don't get me wrong, INTPs can have game, they just need to reach a certain level of maturity with their Fe, and utilize their Ti. Immature INTP guys are repulsive to women though I think (but then again, that could be said of any type).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 12:40 AM
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It seems like it's often INTP/aspie type guys who end up being Nice Guys, so this is pretty good advice. Though honestly some of those guys should face the reality that they won't ever find love because they are too awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 11:08 AM
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That's not always true. Sometimes Nice Guys do make their intentions clear early on, but they keep trying to be friends in hope the woman will change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 09:32 AM
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Yeah, that's true too. No woman is going to respect you if you drop everything for them at a hat. If any woman DID find that attractive, you'd wanna stay far away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 09:10 AM
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As someone who used to have some "Nice Guy" tendencies, I think they are doing a few things wrong. First of all, they're hypocritical about standards. Nice Guys are usually low status men, yet they tend to pine after high status women, or at least women who are well out of their league. Not only are they wasting their time, they are being hypocritical. The Nice Guy method fails even in low status women who lack self esteem though, for other reasons. Secondly, they don't understand what attracts …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:56 AM
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Yeah, I agree. Certain emotions are more acceptable for men to display and others are for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:19 AM
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I actually think being assertive is a good quality. It's different from being cocky, which is an entitled attitude. Assertive people demand respect and demand their peers are respected, what's wrong with that? It's cool to let little things go, but being too passive is often a sign of a lack of loyalty to yourself and others imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:18 AM
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Well school boys are punished for being assertive, I do think the school system is one area that is biased against boys. Part of it probably has to do with the fact that most teachers are female, but I think in general the atmosphere of American school is psychologically harder on boys. Kids in general, but boys especially, need to be able to move around throughout the day. Recesses are ridiculously short and a lot of schools don't even have PE nowadays from what I've read. The fact that boys do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 07:50 AM
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Good stuff. That does make a lot of sense. I do think when men express anger people take it more seriously while when a woman does, people are often inclined to see her as a bitch, even if what she is pissed off about is perfectly reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 07:45 AM
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Ah yes. BTW I do think your standards are totally reasonable, though I would be seen as not good enough by them because I work part time, I am obese by the definition of the BMI, and I don't shower every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 06:56 AM
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Long term, the patterns identified in the study you mention are likely not so cut-and-dry, as most women will eventually learn to temper their assertiveness with the knowledge that their anger will result in the devaluation of their opinions and most men will eventually learn that assertiveness pays off for them. Interesting. Do you think deep down though, women actually feel more righteous anger than men do? I have to say, although my dad and stepfather had physically "scarier" expressions of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 06:55 AM
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Just curious, are you an ISFJ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 06:37 AM
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Really? I'm just a year or so older than you and I still think Carly Rae is super hot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 05:21 AM
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I think it depends on the person. I usually get along better with people in their 40s than I do people my own age. Same with my BF. I have friends in their 50s, so I hear ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 04:37 AM
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When I said "attraction" I wasn't just referring to how they look, but to the whole package.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 04:08 AM
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A lot of people get onto opioids because they had a painful injury or surgery, and can't get off them because they're so addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 01:05 AM
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These people weren't mean to you, but they were a little rude and you were a little insensitive. As you move on, it might be useful to think a little more about your audience and what you hope to accomplish. You probably would have had a better experience asking a similar question on PPD than you would have on a radfem sub. Upon some reflection, I 100% agree with you. I could have been a bit less self centered in my approach (actually what prompted my topic was the way I've seen an autistic woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:58 PM
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Maybe I should work on improving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:57 PM
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I think you find that even normal people have experienced the same. Possibly, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:55 PM
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The reason why they're so annoyed is that men have a bit of a history of showing up to feminist discussions and trying to dominate the conversation with "well what about MY issues" or "As a man, my highly qualified opinion on what it's like to be a woman is...". I imagine most of the people there would be allies on the ableism front, and I think did get some good/civil replies there, just that a radical feminist sub isn't the place for that discussion. I agree. I did make it largely all about me…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 11:52 PM
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Ah yes. I'm not like that when it comes to stuff I hear on the news, but things in my personal life or fiction can definitely move me that way. I hate when people are cruel to others, especially when they claim to be righteous themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:24 AM
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Yeah, I mean lots of people do treat me with respect, but I feel like I have to try a lot harder to earn it. Like at work it took months for people to warm up to me and a lot of effort on my part to be affable, which doesn't come naturally to me. I am not very strongly autistic but I have tics that make my condition very noticeable, and I think a lot of people judge me negatively because of that. I think another thing is that some feminists/SJWs see autistic people, particularly autistic males, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 03:00 AM
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Do you think I was straight up jerky and disrespectful towards the community or do you think I just needed to educate myself a little bit more about who I was engaging with? Also, do you think all the criticisms laid against me were 100% justified or do you some people went a little bit too far? That makes me sad you said my writing skills are below average, lol. Considering I am an aspiring writer. I mean, I'm not that bad am I? At least I use proper punctuation and understand what the words I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:48 AM
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They may lack empathy in the sense that they have difficulty seeing the world from other perspectives To be honest, this could be said about plenty of non-autistic people too! It's funny, as someone with autism I feel less concerned with justice and vengeance than most people. I think people who are excessively hateful towards their enemies lack empathy, and a lot of neurotypical people have a "mean streak", seem to easily get short with others, etc, despite supposedly having these deep wells of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:43 AM
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Yeah. There's an autistic woman I work with and people are so rude to her. I think it's more because of her autism than because she's a woman, but I'm sure both are factors. The people who are rude to her are not assholes either, they include people I am friendly with who are generally very nice. It's similar in people with Down's syndrome, schizophrenia, etc. People tend to think of them as less human than people without those conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:40 AM
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People think autism/Asperger's is a joke because of edgy idiots who don't understand the condition self-diagnosing themselves with it. Or people who think it is the same as being a little bit shy and nerdy. It does a huge disservice to people who actually have the condition. For God's sake, it is a sensory processing disorder, not a personality disorder or a cute quirk. It's sad that even people who are into social justice are like "fuck autistic people, they're subhuman garbage who deserve mock…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:24 AM
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It seems like they don't even like feminist men on r/GenderCritical. Like they think the fact we're into feminism is a form of appropriation or something. It's sort of weird to me. I think radfems are like the "far right" of feminism, they're mostly women who were molested or beaten by men as children and as a result are averse to men as an entire group. It's sad, and I get it, but no matter how empathetic you are or want to be towards women they still are going to view you as dangerous and evil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:20 AM
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Someone there said that they do have male posters, but they are respectful and I am not. But I do think, reflecting more on it, than most of the people there really would rather men did not post at all. I would have posted it at r/feminism but they are extremely selective about what they allow on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:08 AM
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Only radfems are misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 02:04 AM
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I'd do the same for a female singer I liked when I was younger. It's not just women that do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 06:48 AM
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