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Discriminationurban5amurai/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:01 PM
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2

I must’ve misunderstood reading some of your replies. Good to hear.
/r/seduction01/08/26 08:28 AM
11

From what I understand you propose creating a “roster” of women for whom you are their orbitor, providing emotional and other non intimate support on the chance that once she breaks up with her real interest, she’ll shuffle her cards and hopefully choose you? I mean, it’s a tactic, sounds pretty low and snivelling to be honest. Lots of work and very little sex. Also knowing you’re essentially a 2nd choice that wormed their way in can’t be great. This is not the way.
/r/seduction01/08/26 08:19 AM
2

Sure but professional dommes get paid loads, she could’ve done what she loves and made money!
/r/MensRights31/07/26 02:11 PM
33

Or after the first child.
/r/MensRights26/07/26 11:15 AM
5

I’m in a similar position to you, however I was frankly amazed at how much more attention I got from women 20-60 once I turned 40. I had honestly expected it to go the other way, and then once I started seriously working out/dressing well etc, wow it’s been so validating.
/r/seduction26/07/26 10:54 AM
5

Fashions might change but there are concurrent themes running throughout history: Facial symmetry For women bust to waist to hip ratio For men the wide shoulders to slim waist Basically good genetics, well looked after.
/r/seduction26/07/26 10:38 AM
17

Shouldn’t it more be every woman has an obligation to have 2 + children independently financed from the state? Ultimately, countries do need armies to protect those people that we love, but there’s got to be those people to begin with.
/r/MensRights19/07/26 07:08 PM
1

Yeah, he starts off with that, and then adds the bit extra about flirting in brackets.
/r/seduction18/07/26 03:39 PM
3

Are you serious, light playful teasing, bit of push/pull, these are core tenets for creating a charged emotional energy. I use these with great success. Now, you should be aware that, like with comedy, delivery and timing is everything, and it should ideally come naturally from a place of confidence. Additionally, it really helps if she finds you attractive to begin with.
/r/seduction18/07/26 07:59 AM
23

But they haven’t made more money, and that’s the crux of the argument.
/r/MensRights09/07/26 12:14 AM
1

Maybe every 3-6 months, but I live in a capital city and it will be in bars/pubs.
/r/seduction03/07/26 01:22 PM
2

I’ve flown loads and loads and it’s only happened one time, she was just my type too, but my kid was with me and fell asleep on my arm…
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:00 PM
11

Get the vaccine
/r/seduction03/06/26 04:05 PM
5

Don’t forget your grey joggers!
/r/MensRights04/04/26 03:51 PM
18

Yeah they have, it’s whatever benefits them most from any given situation.
/r/MensRights14/03/26 05:20 PM
2

Thanks, yeah she’s on hrt and it’s brought her to within 15-20% of the person I used to know. Still a bit fucked up all round though, I think she got the full board if you’re gonna play menopause bingo. But that 1 year was fucking hell, there were other health things going on which made spotting it harder, and both of us were totally clueless, we thought menopause was hot flushes, fml.
/r/MensRights28/12/25 12:37 PM
4

Even then, that’s no guarantee, perimenopause can really throw a spanner in the works…
/r/MensRights27/12/25 12:34 PM
5

I don’t have an ear in the community, mind sharing why?
/r/MensRights25/12/25 07:39 PM
14

You’re so afraid of all these other people that you willingly give up your child to a leisure facility worker. As a man and father, you are completely lost.
/r/MensRights17/12/25 09:06 AM
83

I’ve actually believed this for some time, daddy pig is a disgraceful incompetent and basically subliminally influences children to think of fathers as incredibly stupid. When I read the stories to my girls, I edit out his idiocy, but it reaches and helps form millions of young minds.
/r/MensRights30/11/25 11:11 PM
-8

I’m not ignoring this at all and agree it is the case. However, specifically in this case, with both of us knowing what the threat is, I don’t think a single guy getting an uber home is at more risk than a single woman, do you?
/r/MensRights07/11/25 12:44 PM
-8

Because single women have a much higher chance of being raped while on their own, and I would rather wait a bit longer for a taxi if that reduces the chance of that happening. Guys, I’m all for men’s rights and equality, I guess this is one area where being a protective father trumps that.
/r/MensRights07/11/25 07:55 AM
-21

I hear you, I think if you’re a single occupancy woman you should have preferential choice for a woman driver if possible. To be fair, I’ve never had a woman uber/bolt driver before, they are all Middle Eastern/East European men (UK).
/r/MensRights06/11/25 11:13 PM
1

Yeah, it took me years and years to understand and then exude it.
/r/seduction02/11/25 01:49 PM
3

To add onto this, I’m afraid guys you’re gonna have keep it up the rest of your life. Married women don’t respect their husbands who lose frame (which is especially hard when she now effectively has you by the balls esp with kids). Gotta become that person for realsies.
/r/seduction27/10/25 05:48 PM
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This is actually quite a common technique used by women. If they’re interested in you they try and find a way to put themselves in your vicinity and hope you get the hint. No hankerchiefs to drop.
/r/seduction22/10/25 10:36 AM
1

They do, hence the proliferation of the tea app and awdtsg fb groups. Although they seem to be more about malicious gossip than “protection”.
/r/MensRights30/09/25 12:50 PM
9

I think the issue for average guys is that most women tend to select the same men, so there’s a very uneven distribution and then over time these women become jaded and bitter because they can’t seem to lock down these guys into relationships.
/r/MensRights30/09/25 11:57 AM
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It’s because your charisma doesn’t match what they like/expect based on your appearance. When I was young I got called out a couple of times, always in a group setting, aloof or arrogant, I was just shy!
/r/MensRights28/09/25 06:17 PM
1

Mindfulness meditation and positive visualisation. Also some box breathing may help. It’s all in your mind, once you stop worrying, relax and be present in the moment it’ll disappear.
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:09 AM
13

Judging by how long individual women hold a grudge, I’m guessing this is never going to be let go.
/r/MensRights22/09/25 12:45 PM
3

It’s both, the company knows the married man has more to lose so is more willing to put in the extra. Is it discrimination or good business sense?
/r/MensRights19/09/25 08:15 PM
-1

How can she slap?
/r/MensRights02/09/25 08:32 PM
13

I’ll be honest, I know this is r/menrights but I don’t care man/woman, it’s all the same for me here. I’ll go further, anyone who does this kind of thing needs to be removed from our society in the cheapest way possible, I’m talking island off Scotland with limited supply drops every 3 months for 20 years.
/r/MensRights31/08/25 01:28 PM
60

I hadn’t heard of this, fuck it’s horrific. Clearly premeditated, clearly with the intent to cause life changing injuries (why the jury didn’t see that I’m not sure). She’ll be out soon….
/r/MensRights30/08/25 09:31 AM
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It’s because the presumption of guilt has changed from one of innocence until proven guilty, to guilty until proven innocent, and even then no one will give a shit and your public career will be effectively over. Court of social media.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 01:29 AM
4

Like I said they can still have sex at will, just the chances of getting into a ltr with someone who ticks all their boxes is reduced, not impossible. Because guess what, younger women like the same things….and when as a man you have abundance of choice, it turns out many end up acting very much like women do on dating apps, I mean you have to filter someway. So you may allude to wet dreams, but I think it’s pretty clear I speak from experience.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 11:09 AM
3

That’s not true, while the wall is certainly way over exaggerated, most older women certainly do experience a large reduction in attention from men as they age. They can still easily get sex, but the chances of locking down that 40yr old good looking dude that has now built himself up to be rich and charismatic, is much lower. He’ll be going for the fertile 25-35.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 08:00 AM
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This is it, it’s not that women don’t like you having options, they like that you have options but you choose her. If you’re being disrespectful and entertaining other girls msgs whilst chatting, I’m not surprised you’re getting the cold shoulder.
/r/seduction16/07/25 09:07 AM
41

Then offer it up after you’ve dazzled them with your prowess.
/r/seduction13/07/25 11:13 PM
8

Not yet….
/r/MensRights08/07/25 01:24 PM
10

Why would they, they are predominantly the same makeup.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 07:11 PM
2

That’s all true, but at the same time you do have to think about her and her needs, otherwise it’s just resentment and bitterness until the inevitable.
/r/seduction11/06/25 06:39 AM
11

Themselves, their family and friends. And maybe some causes you think are just.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 08:43 PM
6

I think it’s because whilst technically where you live (and I would venture most of the world) this wouldn’t be classified legally as rape, the people downvoting you feel very strongly it should be.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 07:56 PM
5

I guess if you strip out the magical parts of the story, that’s kinda what happened, no?
/r/MensRights28/04/25 11:03 PM
1

Try it with different ages, the answer is always the same.
/r/seduction26/04/25 09:54 AM
28

Tv for dramatic effect, same with slapping.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 09:36 AM
19

If this is really the way men are, do you think you’d have all the rights and privileges you enjoy at the moment? No, you’d be treated as a brood mare, pumping out children. That’s not the case with our societies is it, in fact, by choice, women aren’t having many children at all.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 09:17 AM
3

Oh in Japans case it’s not really dangerous, more disturbing. It can be easily avoided by not taking the rush hour trains. My buddy and I ended up in a woman’s carriage by mistake, we got a couple of looks before we realised our mistake.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 09:51 AM
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The crazy thing is everyone I know, including me in the past seems to believe it, but it’s such a blatant lie, crazy.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 07:47 PM
4

I would consider F on M domestic violence/sa to be underreported.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 09:42 AM
2

Ah I see, I seem to have misunderstood this whole thing.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 10:28 PM
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As long as it’s not creepy what’s the problem either way?
/r/MensRights25/01/25 03:14 PM
4

I agree in terms of the age/decline in sperm quality chat, but in terms of overall numbers, sperm count has been on the way down for decades.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 03:18 PM
4

From what I’ve seen I think it can be more pleasurable for a woman, but maybe because it’s easy to get or it’s not what their instincts/subconscious tells them, they don’t seem to get as much fulfilment from it. Also whilst they can go through periods of intense horny, it’s not like regular clockwork like for guys.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 11:52 PM
7

I think it’s a 30% chance per egg if it’s A rated, however, by the time they acknowledge they need to freeze the eggs this is often too late. I’ll be honest I know a couple of women like this and I do feel a bit sorry for them on a personal level. They’ve listened to all the bullshit and it’s cost them their opportunity.
/r/MensRights04/12/24 07:52 AM
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I read the spectator article and couldn’t quite believe my eyes. The brazen level of duplicity is really hard to read, even for a cynic like me.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 09:59 AM
4

I guess this is where I start to question the methodology behind the stats. 61% of bi have been raped, it doesn’t seem plausible.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/10/24 07:37 AM
1

Yes, but when they shit it en-mass and surrender. imagine the images and videos that the enemy would post to demoralise the rest of the population.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 05:36 PM
9

I think that’s what frustrates me most about feminism, the constant bending of truth/statistics and language to support their agenda, even when the reality is the complete opposite.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 04:29 PM
3

Well each to their own, I must admit my very high sex drive was very frustrating at times when I was younger, but also a lot of fun, thankfully it’s evened out a bit with age.
/r/MensRights23/09/24 11:48 PM
2

Well each to their own, I must admit my very high sex drive was very frustrating at times when I was younger, but also a lot of fun, thankfully it’s evened out a bit with age.
/r/MensRights23/09/24 11:48 PM
7

No offence dude, but that just sounds crazy to me. Why would you punish yourself with zero sex drive?
/r/MensRights23/09/24 11:27 PM
6

How could the cops do that? Surely it’s like the opposite of what they are being paid to do.
/r/MensRights24/08/24 10:50 AM
32

Or the state doesn’t pick up the bill and she’s got a difficult decision ahead which involves taking responsibility for her actions?
/r/MensRights23/08/24 06:20 AM
2

The uk is very similar.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 02:27 PM
2

Difficult, but not impossible.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 02:26 PM
10

I really don’t get the last part, don’t speak unless spoken to, never make eye contact, be docile, it sounds like you’re promoting acting like a submissive pet, well trained by your superiors.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 12:25 PM
6

This is it, you just can’t listen to this nonsense anymore because what 1 woman says is contradicted by another. Think about asking a woman what she wants to eat and then multiply this across the whole population, chaos! Just do what you think is right within the confines of the law.
/r/MensRights16/03/24 08:57 AM
5

That’s it for me, the hypocrisy and double standards.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 10:56 PM
6

Unfortunately the only way to attempt to reach equality here is for us men to start loudly complaining about these types of events. However, it will most probably come off/be reported as petty and alt-right etc.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 01:32 PM
6

In what way, they seem very similar to me?
/r/MensRights26/02/24 09:33 PM
2

It’s part of the reason we don’t have enough doctors in the uk. Actuaries messed up because they assumed women doctors would work the same as men. When in reality working 2 days a week was much more preferable. Not that I blame the women, it makes sense on a personal level, but it does mean as a society we’re paying 2.5 times more for already very expensive education/training.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 12:14 PM
14

I believe that the study showing women were happier alone was flawed in its methodology and based on a very small sample size, happy to be proved wrong.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 07:58 PM
1

In part I understand it because otherwise the lives of prison guards are made 10x worse. What should happen instead is that someone gets 40years out in 24 for good behaviour.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 07:04 PM
1

I'm curious, if you guys divorced and she met another man and decided to move to another country with him, what would happen to the children? Here in the UK, they would would defo go with her, and in doing so you would lose access to your kids.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 11:09 PM
2

Patrice O’Neal has a great bit on dental dams, great viewing!
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:42 PM
2

It’s about £300 in the uk and covers about 60% of the hpv variants.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:41 PM
2

I recall reading an article on this, it's mainly caused by 1 type of road accident. ​ When at a traffic light, a lorry is turning left and indicating so, with the women cyclist on the inside by the pavement, when the lorry starts driving the driver will often start by turning to the right. This is because the lorry is a large vehicle and requires the extra space to make the turn. The women cyclist sees this and takes this as the lorry is not turning left, despite indicating. They will then proce…
/r/MensRights23/06/23 11:47 AM
4

There used to be many doctor/nurse relationships, and for those that argue that the girl is in an unequal position, it's not like they don't realise the possibility that they might marry a doctor. If anything, in many instances they were more motivated than the doctor!
/r/MensRights20/06/23 09:11 AM
5

He seemed to believe the cis white male nonsense still, but to be honest, even if he didn't, you have to almost say this otherwise all your friends will turn on you and say you've become a misogynist etc.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 09:50 AM
5

And knowing female spending habits, I bet that this is at near 0.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 01:09 AM
5

The issue is as long as the lobby groups exist and can exert power and get this type of legislation being considered, there will eventually be an ideologue etc who will agree to it.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 01:34 PM
1

I know it's not what a lot of guys want to hear, but I think it can mean other things: Make more money. Dress better/style. Be more confident/funny (could be potentially achieved by taking some improv lessons etc). It seems with the advent of equal pay women want more from men than before, especially on a superficial level.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 01:17 PM
9

80% gotta choose from the 20% lowest, that's a tough pill to swallow. Or maybe society should try and lean in guiding women to seek a more realistic life partner.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 10:46 PM
6

I've read the Guardian for a while and about 5-8 years ago they would allow comments on their feminist articles. ​ However, many of the comments were calling out the inconsistencies and poor arguments in their articles. ​ They then shut off comments on these types of articles (still churning them out like clockwork). ​ Guess they didn't like what their readership had to say and decided to silence them in true dictorial fashion. ​ It annoys me as I'd like to hear what their readership has to say …
/r/MensRights12/12/22 04:55 PM
1

The guy at the back has a golf club, a 7 iron perhaps?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/22 07:15 PM
22

This constant stream of bullshit is really frustrating, I think men need to organise and get some lobbying and media in place. It's the only way we can get ourselves on the agenda.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 12:12 PM
27

About 20 years ago, I gave a very similar presentation at my uni. The female lecturer was actually really impressed and seemed to revel in the attention from the female students who looked utterly shocked/upset at the subject matter. ​ Being a law major everything had citations so there wasn't anything that they could come back on. ​ Unfortunately however, one of the girls in the class that I was getting friendly with suddenly said she had a boyfriend. I didn't realise my presentation was the pr…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 04:12 PM
2

Isn't it more saying that as a people we are willing to contribute some tiny amount of money so that teen pregnancy and STD's are less of an issue. Seeing as how both ends up costing a lot more than the price of a few condoms/pill. ​ I doubt anyone's suggesting that the manufacturers etc aren't going to get paid for their products.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/19 11:32 PM
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