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I have not had my period since Feb of 2018 because of continuous pregnancy and breastfeeding and I do not miss it one little bit. I never want it back again. I was lucky to conceive on the first ovulation during nursing and I don't think that's likely to happen all the time but I would be happy if it did. Being pregnant isn't fun but I hate my period. If I'm not through menopause when I'm done having children I'm jumping straight onto birth control. I don't get how having something that is messy…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 04:08 PM
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Natural cycles have health and personal implications, too. They are more likely to give you fibroids, polyps, disrupt your life physically and emotionally, conditions like endometriosis can get worse over time, you can develop endometrial cancer, acne. Natural cycles are more likely to make you crave male affection and when you aren't in a good place and don't have strong boundaries that's not always a good thing. The ability to prevent ovulation with birth control has given women a very valuabl…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 04:01 PM
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I disagree. I don't want to have to deal with a man's sexual paraphilias no matter how much I love him. I don't think it's my responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 03:53 PM
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Women shouldn't have to involve themselves in BDSM. I would tell him to keep it to himself and that I don't want it to be my business. I didn't grow up in a healthy family unit but I'm not a pervert. I personally think men should learn to manage these issues before they become involved in a relationship with a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 03:42 PM
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I would mention that I'm not into it and wouldn't talk about it again, personally unless he did it again. I simply wouldn't want to be involved in that fantasy. I would tell him to keep it to himself. If your relationship is otherwise good I wouldn't make too much of an issue just tell him you feel uncomfortable with it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 03:40 PM
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I think online dating is really good for women who don't like bars and don't have any hobbies which are male oriented.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 03:38 PM
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I'm not close to my family because and I didn't have the best time growing up and this was an instant deal breaker for men who had a typical childhood and were close to their parents. It didn't matter that I had moved on and was OK mentally and emotionally, they simply saw it as too much of a red flag and would emotionally distance themselves from me. I would only ever end up with interest from men who had similar pasts and family dysfunction to myself as those were the only men who would accept…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/20 03:26 PM
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The first step is that you recognize that you have this emotional baggage. You are already showing more insight than a lot of people and that is very positive. It sounds to me like you need intensive therapy and you need to cut all the negative people out of your life if there are any. I think you need to forget about the red pill because the issues that you are facing are beyond the scope of this subreddit. You are not going to find a healthy relationship with a healthy man when you are in this…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 11:20 PM
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Honestly I spent most of my first trimester in bed, this time and the last time. I was so sick and exhausted the last place I wanted to be was in the kitchen and I was doped up on anti nausea meds which made me feel hazy and tired. My husband has had to give me a lot of help. I'm almost 11 weeks now and things are starting to look better. In my 3rd trimester I had SPD and could barely walk. It effected my feet and lower back. I also became very reclusive pand wanted a lot of time by myself. My s…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 01:51 PM
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I think you are right to feel insecure. Saying 'if you deserve it' sounds very subjective to me and something that is subject to his own interpretation. I think you should have both your names on the lease unless he signs a prenup saying he will support you until you find a job if he decides to leave. You can still sign them after the marriage. You can make fair clauses like he doesn't have to support you if you have an affair or meet someone else. He's asking you to be financially dependent on …
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 05:18 PM
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Does your husband masturbate often? Does he watch pornography? He could have death grip. Is he circumcised? A lot of circumcised men have less sensation than uncut men and need very tight muscles in a partner to feel much. Some men have reported good results after foreskin restoration. You could always do kegels. Do them if you haven't already. You need to tone the muscles up after having a child, for your own health as well. Vaginal rejuvenation is also another option but probably isn't a good …
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 03:23 PM
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Truthfully this is polygamy in every way but name. You are sharing a man with another woman and I guarantee he is sexually active and plays happy families with both of you. I think it's unfair on his wife to expect him to leave her. No woman owes you her husband. They have a child and she was part of the picture when you chose this man. She cheated? That's their business and up to them to solve. How do you know he's being truthful? It's likely that she doesn't even know you exist. Is polygamy an…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 03:06 PM
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It might be a good idea to examine your feelings. Why do you want to go back to work? Does your husband not give you enough spending money? Does he make you feel bad about being a Sahm despite the fact that he expresses that he wants you to be one? Do you fear that your husband could one day bail on you and you need that independence just in case? You don't have to answer to anyone on this forum. This is all personal to you and for you to think about. If your husband is not stepping up as a prov…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 03:02 PM
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Was he on the alt right by any chance? That's the impression you gave. That to me in itself is a red flag. Usually these people have hateful and racist beliefs and that's not something I would want in a husband. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with questioning the mainstream media, a man that is open to alternative news sources and questions things is attractive to me, but the alt right is a hateful and racist movement full of men who have some very harmful views about both women and ethn…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 02:28 PM
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Truthfully the men I have been with who I end up emasculating often lack the skills to make good decisions so I take over that role. In that case I usually lose attraction and the relationship doesn't continue. If a man makes good decisions and is competent I will naturally step aside. For example, my husband is excellent at managing money. I never trouble him about it. I had an ex that was an awful spender and I was constantly challenging him. You need to think about why this pattern appears in…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 02:06 PM
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If that sort of behavior doesn't come naturally to you you are going to look silly doing it. I don't enjoy animals very much. In fact they make me anxious. I would look silly pretending to gush over a cat video. I mean I don't mind birds quite as much, but I don't find them cute. I find moths and crows particularly cute and interesting, they're the only animals I can safely say I like, that's one exception and most of all I love babies, but I don't want to look at videos of them all the time. Be…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 01:45 PM
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You look like a woman, sound like a woman and read as a woman. That's the definition of feminity. Unless people are regularly mistaking you as a male I wouldn't worry about it and most women don't have that problem. It's something that comes naturally to most women. This conversation just feels odd to me. I know I'm a woman and I feel natural expressing myself as one. It's not something I even have to think about or put any effort into. Now asking how you can be more attractive, how you can dres…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 01:35 PM
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Barbie and Sindy were some of my best friends as a kid and will always hold a fond place in my heart. I still have fond memories. My horrible brother used to chew off their feet.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 01:11 PM
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I think women often style themselves poorly as they age and/or gain any weight this is the biggest trap they fall into. A lot of your youthfulness is tied to how you carry yourself and how you dress and style your hair/do your makeup. Short gray hair never does a woman any favors, at 29 or at 50. Same with polyester slacks and an oversized tunic. Of course you are never going to be a 50 year old who looks 18 but you can at least pay attention to your style and be your best self. Compare Ann Romn…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 12:45 PM
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You say it's about fertility and think that's nonsense. Women in their 30s can still have children just as much as younger women can. I am on my second pregnancy at 32 and it took me just one cycle. I was almost 30 the first time and it took just two cycles. My sister got pregnant at 35 and it took one cycle. I'm also a bit heavier than I should be and so is my sister. My mom got pregnant at 30 accidentally when on the pill. Women who are in their 30s have babies all the time and have throughout…
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 12:25 PM
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Men certainly do care about the success of women. You never see a doctor married to a waitress.
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