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It could be just you that she is touchy with, and she could still not be into you sexually. It’s not uncommon for people of the opposite sex to hold hands or lean into or rest one’s head on each others’ arm/shoulder while being friends. In fact it’s beautiful.
/r/seduction10/12/18 10:29 AM
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ultimately let her come to you before making any serious moves. Yeah I agree (but wonder if I’m wrong in doing this over and over again, considering it’s a minority opinion), that would be my advice to OP.
/r/seduction09/12/18 01:33 AM
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Hmm. What if she gives a fuck and calls you out (for being a creep)? It depends on how attractive you are, IMO, to pull this off, because confidence gets you to the point of asking, then to maintain that confidence in the face of what ensues is much more difficult. So yeah, totally doable, but discretion is the better part of valour. If those are communal tables, I would just say Hi and go sit next to her.
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:45 PM
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What if the place is only 10% full?
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:31 PM
1

Yes. Move on if she flakes again. It would not be good for you in so many ways to continue.
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:21 PM
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Self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/seduction05/12/18 01:51 AM
2

there’s only you and that girl in that moment. 5 minutes later, it’s gone and everybody will have forgotten about it. Even if you publicly embarrass yourself (for which the chances are VERY slim), in a few days nobody will remember it The worst answer you can get for asking is, “No”. That’s what I used to think. Well, “no”, and then she goes off and tells everybody that you hit on her (then adds in whatever to make you sound creepy) and to avoid you. Public embarrassment is like that too.
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:42 AM
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The first few times your brain will be so stressed by the simple fact you're talking to a cute stranger that you'll not be able to do game. After a few times you'll be less stressed and able to do it properly. Didn't think of it that way, thanks.
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:39 AM
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Good stuff :)
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:37 AM
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Beautiful.
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:34 AM
1

I don’t know man, distance yourself and then re-evaluate.
/r/seduction03/12/18 06:22 PM
5

I read the body language on that one, and 3 years ago I wasn’t even good at it. She was with her friend, and it was her friend that asked, and boy were they both taken aback (they literally leaned back), LOL, like they lived on another planet and couldn’t tell the age of people who don’t look like their own. But then I guess the shock was warranted as I was greater than twice her age, whatever :). She had just gotten into beer, LOL.
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:25 PM
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This Korean chick was so into me and even said she’s always free after 4 PM to hang out as she is a student, and then when she asked me my age, pfft! I fucking hate that. Why did I suddenly become unattractive because of my age? Moving on…
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:16 PM
0

Try romanticizing the situation in your head and then lead with your heart.
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:03 PM
2

Get a drink to loosen up a bit, and go with the flow. Once you are less self conscious because you are less inhibited, things might work out well, and I mean long term in this case. I am inherently not a PUA so I can only give “long game” advice.
/r/seduction03/12/18 04:41 PM
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Yeah, don’t respond. Leave it at that.
/r/seduction03/12/18 04:34 PM
5

What’s to respond? Move on.
/r/seduction03/12/18 04:31 PM
1

The hotel was probably just over $100US. First time she came from fingering, the other three was from tonguing.
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:59 AM
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Mine came 4 times on a hotel bed during foreplay, and then we went to a rooftop bar (with beds and cushions) and snuggled after.
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:54 AM
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Pick a high rise condo with a deserted stairwell, no cameras and a two-way opening stairwell door, LOL.
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:48 AM
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Where are these study dates? At one of your homes? The library? I mean there’s always a deserted stairwell somewhere right?
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:38 AM
0

Someone does not have a sense of humour, ROFL, perhaps I’m just high.
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:33 AM
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One can worship anywhere.
/r/seduction03/12/18 05:28 AM
2

You’re in. Just be yourself and feel less desperate. Calm down. It’s all good.
/r/seduction01/12/18 07:23 PM
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Because when you’re desperate you give out what girls call, “the stink”, LOL.
/r/seduction01/12/18 07:14 PM
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I was not aware of your success rate, objective and location. I am obviously misunderstanding your mindset accordingly. I am sorry about bruising your ego but that was not the intention. You obviously are a seasoned player and my concerns that you might get emotionally wounded seem unfounded.
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:44 AM
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Are you sure you’re not just playing a fantasy in your head? Because the way I see it you’re setting yourself up for disappointment after building this up and over-romanticizing it all. You also seem to want to take on a persona you fantasize about, when escalating, perhaps to distance yourself from the insecure version of you. Can’t say how healthy it is, but that’s not the point right. I have seen platonic relationships of the kind you have described, where the girl is genuinely very good frie…
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:27 AM
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You’re killing me man, why would you want to friend zone yourself? Are you for real or am I missing something? Oh man, this is too funny.
/r/seduction30/11/18 03:45 AM
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Just a thought… how about saving testing your hypotheses as to her sexual interest, to a venue that is easier for her to get out of, but more importantly, familiar and comfortable?
/r/seduction29/11/18 08:05 PM
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Point is, girls don't put themselves in situations they don't want to be. I.E. maybe the OP played the gay friend card up to the last moment "Surprise, I actually want to fuck you" Totally agree with the examples too, thanks for this insight. Yeah and I agree that OP probably played the GBF right up until, “This dynamic relationship going forth gets sexual”, LOL.
/r/seduction29/11/18 07:53 PM
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Exactly. Good man.
/r/seduction29/11/18 05:00 PM
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I don’t believe your assumption that a regular person who goes into the bedroom of another person of the opposite sex is necessarily an indication of sexual desire or consent. Even if it is, I would err on the side of caution, and wait for the girl to initiate any meaningful (in the context of carnal desire) kind of touching. I think it’s just safer and more polite that way. It would be sacrilegious in my book to make a girl uncomfortable in this way. But then I’m not normal, so I’d like to hear…
/r/seduction29/11/18 04:24 PM
3

Chill, the worst is behind you. Give yourself a pat on the back, and wait for whatever unfolds (no pun intended).
/r/seduction29/11/18 06:11 AM
1

Please try – and not concern yourself with others’ opinion of you. I know everyone knows this, but we all need this reminder.
/r/seduction28/11/18 09:15 PM
74

Good for you, enjoy your high :)
/r/seduction28/11/18 05:09 PM
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