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urbanspun1989/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 09:35 PM
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It is a sad truth really. I have a co worker who has so much potential. He is RP aware and yet he just got a final write up. He keeps chasing a girl at work we’re everyone tells him to stop. So people can’t be reached
/r/TheRedPill21/07/22 08:55 PM
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Look up Andy car sales on YouTube. Be prepared to study and work hard for about 12 months
/r/TheRedPill05/05/22 11:26 PM
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Great post. My sister Is in Hr and that was how I got my current job. She is no longer there but I make sure I do good work under her name. Since I been doing such a great job I have been ask to apply for management. Like a older men told me before. Ride your sister coat for as along as you can.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/22 08:08 PM
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Haha it’s all about time management. Don’t forget about making connections with people.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 07:14 PM
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I agree with this. As someone who is starting out in the dating market with red pill knowledge. I have a FWB who is not a looker but she is nice, makes me breakfast and does not ask to go out. Recently she wants to see me twice a week. I was thinking no but after reading this I will reconsider it. I also have a another prospect who is much better in the face but chubby. But hell I don’t care I like her. I notice this to that there are a lot of good looking average women(5-6) that gives me the si…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/22 05:29 AM
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Something similar just happen with my best friend. Meet his ex about 8 months ago and put almost all his time into her. She just got a job with the county. He called me last week that his boss told him they are about to fire him because he was not doing his work. Smh
/r/TheRedPill05/03/22 11:15 PM
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I am happy you learn your lesson. Being a ex only fans girls should of been a hard no for LTR
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 07:23 PM
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Nice it is great to see someone take action and hit there goals. Keep up the good work, can’t wait to game models
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 05:49 AM
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Thank you for the correction
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 08:56 PM
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Hey guys I see a lot of back and for I like what byteseed has been saying. A lot of guys seriously need to get off the internet and go into the real world. I have been going out a lot more and it amazes me how many beautiful women are out there and are sending me signals. Yes, I am coming to terms that cold approach is something I have to do. A couple months ago I have an older women who is my FWB rub my feet with oil. All we did was go out get food from a taco trunk and she did it on her own. S…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/22 12:17 AM
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I think this is very true and seeing that around me now. I think for the average men Covid has given many people including me a second chance. Don’t waste it.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 06:04 AM
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Maybe deep down that is not what you want. For me I want a women and I know that is normal for me to want. I suggest looking deep down and finding out what you want.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 12:25 AM
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Why I don’t feel compromised, maybe because I was shelter as a kid. Today, I feel excited going out and see women and places I never been to. The little things make me happy, because I couldn’t do those things like I can now. I may not be the right person to help with what you are asking. But for me, I take it 1 step at a time. It’s hard I will admit. When you put the work in and see the results. That is what pushes me. The number 1 thing I been working on is social skills. Looking back, it was …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 11:57 PM
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That will be up to you. I am buying clothes now after I lost the weight. For the last year everything I been wearing is to big😂. If you are trying to lose weight I may focus on that first and slowly replace your old clothes. If you are ok with your body then shoot away. Always always try it on first before buying.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 03:49 PM
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Haha no problem, take your time. It’s starting to come together for me. Also trust your gut. If there is something that you are on the fence about buying. I will walk away and come back to it a couple of days later to see if I still like it
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 03:42 PM
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Hard to say but don’t spend to much time on it. I currently have 4 denim is 4 shades of blue. This Friday I will shop for 3 shades of black. I have currently one pitch black denim. After Friday I will focus on sweaters, jackets, and shoes. And 1 gray denim
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 03:37 PM
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Take your time. I used to rush. Now I am more thoughtful of me buying clothes
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 03:33 PM
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I 100 percent agree with getting out of the house. I am currently out of town and every check I take 100 bucks and buy clothes. I went to a clothing store and the female Clark asked me am I looking for men or women clothes. I stopped looked at her with my hand on my chest and said thank you but I am a men. She started laughing. Keep going out and see reality. Get off the internet guys.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 04:21 AM
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Hey thank you for taking the time to comment. For me yes it has been the best decision I have made. I did get laid about 3 or 4 weeks ago and it was awesome. I am slowly talking to women, but the results have been speaking for themselves in my life. I have one major thing I want to accomplish in the next 6 months. From there I want to fully work on learning game.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 09:42 PM
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Hey watched the full video and I think it was great. I did get laid about 3 to 4 weeks ago and it was great. For me going monk now was the best decision for me and I continue to see the benefits today. All in all I think it depends on each person if they should do it. For me it was and I have been slowly allowing women in my life. I agree men need sex, when I had sex it felt like I climbed a giant wall I thought I could never climb. I do feel like I am a normal person who is now part of the matr…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 09:38 PM
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If you did the work in 2020 and continue in 2021 and worked hard and did what you are supposed to do. With so many people who don’t want to work, upward mobility maybe a little easier. With that said, you will be fighting inflation. The opportunity to join the rich is now if you develop the right skill. However the window of opportunity is slowly closing. If you did the work all of 2020 or at least the beginning of 2021. getting girls this summer is a breeze. Starting a business now is something…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 02:04 AM
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I agree with everything you are saying now. Doubling down on the side hustle
/r/TheRedPill01/01/22 01:02 AM
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Can you point me to we’re I can read up. So far for me is has been the best thing I did.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 12:51 AM
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Hey I would love to know why you think that.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/21 12:34 AM
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For me I agree that escorts can hurt your game. When I stopped, my social skills started to go up. I am more comfortable talking to women. Just my experience. Yes I am 6ft. When I lost the weight my waist went down to a 36 now
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 09:56 PM
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Hey bro I can understand your sentiments. But don’t let it scare you. Grow and learn. Social media is now part of our lives. You only need Facebook, instagram and Snapchat. As far as being scared of an ex texting her. It just mean you don’t know that game which we have to learn to combat that. Do the work, and learn. I did 12 months and the attention I get from girls today is awesome. Trust me, do the work.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/21 01:04 AM
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Hey I would love to learn why you think that.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/21 06:53 PM
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Excellent job men, I am jealous ☺️. Keep up the good work and please keep us updated.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 10:30 PM
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Hey so monk mode is basically for a certain amount of time you focus on yourself. So health, money, social skills everything. U leave the girls alone. From what I watch from YouTube 18 months is what you want to shoot for. You will be able to completely change your life. I have done 12 months.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 10:23 PM
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haha everyone has there own journey, this is mine and I hope to learn yours as well. Have a great night.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 06:13 AM
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Yes that is the definition, however I know myself really well and I don't have the discipline to go cold turkey. I have always been a baby step guy, it works for me. Even when i did engage with escorts. I still made huge progress in my life. In the end, we are not perfect but i still made progress. Isn't that what matters?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 06:04 AM
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Please do, I think it would be great to see a change in the red pill space. I will be rooting for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 11:59 PM
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For me it was about no longer taking L’s in life as I use to. Change takes time and I know and accept that as a men I have needs. I do agree that doing escorts has a negative effect on a mens game. When I slowly stop, my interaction with women greatly increase.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 11:59 PM
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I guess it is up to you. For me it was more of improving as I was tired of taking L’s in life.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 11:56 PM
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Slowly but surly kicking the habit
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 02:06 PM
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For now I have decided to date and have fun for 3 years. Just to bring my experience up. After I will decided what to do.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 02:05 PM
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Going to a community college now. A Counselor told me the same thing. Currently have 5 class at a jc before transferring. Also will be looking to start a side hustle next month to pay for school. Currently have about 1000 to 1500 each month I can play with and growing. Thinking of starting a cleaning company.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 02:04 PM
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Yea, I remember I said something positive and she was quick to snap. It wasn’t in a bad way but I saw at that moment that men need to fly away from there mother.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 03:15 AM
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Thank you. 2022 for me is all about independence. For school I am doing a psychology major. I tried business and it is just not for me no matter how much I try. Working on a side hustle while I go to school. Right now I have about 1000 bucks a month I can play with. With me budgeting I can put away 1000 a month. Want to work on building my wealth now.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 12:01 AM
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I do agree with you for the most. I seen both male and females on my friend list that post way to much. I try to post 3 to 5 times a month. All my post are me doing something or with family or friends. I ask permission first
/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 11:43 PM
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Thank you for a great response, I agree with you on that depending on where u go it can get to extreme. For me my goal is to live in reality and find out what reality really is.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 11:42 PM
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Haha with so much time on my hands I coming to terms that you are right
/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 10:31 PM
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Getting married is something I want. Again I don’t have the experience I want. For now my goal is to go out get experience and find out if women are really as bad as the internet says.or I do lift, just barely started to gain weight
/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 10:18 PM
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I found this to be true for me as well and still not used to the attention. I am 6ft was 277, I got no attention. Then did Keto and dropped to 230. Saw immediate attention Spike from the girls even though my clothes are baggy. Been weight lifting for 6 months nothing hard. I noticed girls I thought were out of my league are more receptive now. Just yesterday I went shopping at target and felt like I don’t belong. Been doing better financially this year. But mostly notice most attention is coming…
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:23 PM
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I can’t wait for it to finish
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 05:01 AM
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You can if you want. But keep talking to other girls. Never get Oneitis
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:00 AM
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Can not agree more with you. So happy to see someone so young taking the message and taking action. Currently monk mode now. (9 months completed shooting for 18 months) the difference is insane l. I am 31
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 10:23 PM
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The mom knows what’s up
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 01:46 AM
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Love it currently on monk mode but do this March 1
/r/TheRedPill10/09/21 05:39 PM
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Currently just got to my 30s did escorts here and there in my 20s. In my opinion as someone who leaves in the states. Cali. It’s not worth it. But just my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 04:06 PM
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I wish I learned that in my 20s
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 08:09 PM
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I agree with what you are saying. Found the red pill in 2016. Exited the rage in 2018. Ex dumbed me in December of 2020. I had nothing and moved in my my mom. Started doing the work which I avoid in my 20s. Currently going mook mode for 18 months and my life has increased in all areas in my life. Just got done reading no more mr.nice guy and the book of pook. Both books are life changing to me but after I read the book of pook I just get it. I understand what needs to be done for me to get where…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/21 08:08 PM
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Just brought it last weekend. Almost done. A really good book
/r/MGTOW31/07/21 05:29 PM
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Reading that book right now. A Chapter a day keeps the hoes away.
/r/MGTOW29/07/21 08:51 PM
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Congrats to you. I hope to have boys some day
/r/MGTOW28/07/21 10:29 PM
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Found the red pill in 2016 while in a relationship. Took me 2 years then I accept it. My quality of life increased at that moment.
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 05:45 AM
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Not going to lie kind of feel bad. Sad to see things happen this. Sadly, it’s getting worse
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 05:42 AM
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Bro I worked at a Honda dealership before. Imagine buying a basic level Honda Accord and paying almost 800 bucks a month(2019)I remember my first week and I was shadowing and this girl maybe late 20s was asking for help because she had not made 2 payments and the 3rd one was coming up.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 10:36 PM
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Sure, my dad was going through a divorce when I was about 6. My grandfather I guess feared he did not want me to go through that. When I got to high school he wanted me to listen to Tom lykis. It wasn’t until I was 26 when one day I was bored at home and remembered he wanted me to listen to him. Hit up YouTube and the rest is history. I am 31 now.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 02:51 AM
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Life is good, making great progress. My grandfather was the one that introduced me to mgtow by accident. Men I love that men
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 08:18 PM
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Agree and just work on game. It’s cheaper once u get the magic down
/r/MGTOW12/06/21 09:53 PM
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Happen to me. Ex dumped me a few days before Christmas. Did keto and went from 270 to 220 in 3 months. Got promoted and got 4 debts left to pay. Got 2 interviews lined up for this week. Crazy how fast things get done when you do monk mode.
/r/MGTOW07/06/21 12:20 AM
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Get the snip at least
/r/MGTOW29/05/21 07:20 PM
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Bro that is a old men in the top left picture. I think she is escorting. That look like a hotel room.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/21 04:44 AM
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What does she mean big family but has 2 kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 05:10 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 03:59 PM
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Got dumped in December Lost weight 277 to 225 Went from no saving to 2500 saved Paid off 6 out of 10 debts Going back to school in June Got promoted and received 2 pay raises. 16 to 25 Starting a side business may 1. 2021 has been good.
/r/MGTOW20/04/21 05:21 AM
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Good good, let the hate flow
/r/MGTOW19/04/21 02:37 AM
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Don't give up. One step at a time. U got this
/r/MGTOW02/04/21 07:14 AM
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Do it. I did it after my break up from my ex back in mid to late December. I went from 277 to 228. Look up the 21 day keto reset diet and follow the book.
/r/MGTOW228/03/21 12:59 AM
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Sometimes I read this and wonder how did we get here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 06:35 PM
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Lol. It amazes me how no self awareness they have smh.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 08:57 PM
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She says and I quote "I am not ugly lol" Case closed boys
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/21 08:35 PM
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When I saw clothes business I thought "here we go again"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 11:29 PM
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U mean 6/10 at best. There are no 7's
/r/MGTOW11/02/21 08:50 PM
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This show is what narcissistic women believe they can do. 🤥
/r/MGTOW08/02/21 11:50 PM
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I just want to say thank you for the sub. Thanks to you guys 2020 was a awesome year for me because I listen to you guys. My ex dumbed me this pass December and it didn't really hurt because I was on my mission. It's February and already things have been moving beautiful. Good luck to you all. I wish nothing but happiness for you brothers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/21 03:24 AM
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Jesus
/r/MGTOW04/02/21 07:25 AM
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I am going to draw my card ESCAPE
/r/MGTOW02/02/21 11:50 PM
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Same here
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 11:06 PM
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Actually a few days ago. A mgtow YouTube channel anthony spade
/r/MGTOW18/01/21 06:32 AM
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I heard another word for grey men is sigma men
/r/MGTOW17/01/21 11:51 PM
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Age 14 really stands out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/12/20 04:08 AM
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Get a vasectomy asap so u don't have another one. I got one and men it is a life saver.
/r/MGTOW16/11/20 02:52 AM
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Look for the salvation army. We have partnerships with hotels. Free room and u get free food 3 times a day.
/r/MGTOW20/10/20 01:50 AM
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Men if you got this far you can do it. You already know the traps that are out there. One thing that saved my ass is getting the vasectomy.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 03:15 AM
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Yea no worries men. Thought I had it all figured out left my job to start a business and of course I lost everything. After the rage period I feel a peace and happy at the progress that I am making now. Its strange now seeing so much Redpill truth.I was doing sales for att before. Found a mentor I respected and that led to another. I now know what I want to do with my life and it is slowing becoming a reality.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 02:54 AM
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I am actually grateful but maybe that is because I am still young. Found the Redpill at 26 wasn't until 29 that I finally accepted it. Just reenrolled back into school and found out I need 4 classes to go to a university. As long as you are not in your death bed. You got time!!!!!
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 02:31 AM
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You just did God's work. May you be blessed
/r/MGTOW12/10/20 02:54 AM
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Del taco > taco bell
/r/MGTOW04/10/20 02:02 AM
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This comment made my day
/r/MGTOW28/09/20 04:03 AM
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Damn sorry to hear that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 03:54 AM
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I agree, it took me about 2 to 3 years to finally accept everything for what it is. Once that happen and when I turned 30 last November and got on my purpose. The strides I made this year has been amazing. It is sad I can’t help my blue pill friends because I really care about them. But I have to keep moving
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