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urtcheese/r/seduction24/09/18 12:49 PM
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Can't remember where I read it but I remember reading someone saying there should be no more than 50 messages between 2 ppl before you've asked them out. 50 messages total, as in you both combined. Actually works quite well, means you never spend more than about 30 messages of effort without knowing where you stand.
/r/seduction11/05/21 07:33 PM
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Hopefully the first example is a joke related to Dr Mantis Toboggan
/r/seduction19/12/20 12:52 PM
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I'd agree with this. I've been on way too many 'nice' dates which feel like a catchup with old friend or colleague. Small talking about work, family etc. It's very easy to slip into chit chatting for a few hours, especially if you have relatively decent social skills. You gotta make the girl know you want her and you're not here for friendship otherwise she'll start to perceive you in that way. Check out her body while you're talking to her, whisper stuff in her ear, touch her leg while you talk…
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:08 PM
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Tinder etc has always been a shitshow, its purely numbers so don't get down about rejection. 99% if interactions on there never come to anything so you're not the exception here. As someone else says if you want to stop flakiness then approach in person or find some social events you can attend to meet women. Apps are a low effort low risk way to meet people but with that expect people to flakey on there. Sounds like you have a good life, practice some gratitude for what you have and focus on im…
/r/seduction04/10/20 09:23 AM
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And this is why you don't ask a fish how to catch fish. You ask a fisherman
/r/seduction06/09/19 09:22 AM
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4 times an hour is a lot. 4 times a day is fine OP. Be a bit unpredictable, respond as you do currently then don't respond for 24 hours. Switch up the pattern. Give her the gift of missing you.
/r/seduction18/01/19 10:05 PM
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Ok, I agree with pretty much everything here except the whole 'asking' for a kiss. Also, why is it 'crazy'? You've just had a great date, surely this is the natural progression? Just give them the triangular gaze, eye to eye to mouth. Slow down your speech and lean in. A good bit of advice I've read is "If you think you can kiss her, you probably could have 10 minutes ago", as Men we are conditioned to err on the side of caution and not be too sexually aggressive.
/r/seduction15/10/18 09:02 AM
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Important bit I'd add which should go without saying: If you are going to invite a girl back to your house for drinks, food, play video games then actually make sure you have that shit in your house and aren't scrabbling around to do stuff when you get there. I keep a well stocked supply of booze in my house so that I can offer her a drink of more or less whatever she wants, some snacks etc. It's remarkable the amount of people who invite girls back for an 'after party' and then have empty fucki…
/r/seduction15/10/18 08:43 AM
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This post resonated with me. When I'm out dating people, having sex, I feel great. But when I get a set-back such as rejection, finding they are dating someone else I go into over analysis mode. Wake up in the night thinking about a specific girl. For what it's worth it seems common, I just try and focus on my hobbies.. Go to the gym, eat healthy, see friends - all this stuff will have you feeling better soon and then the next girl(s) will come along ;)
/r/seduction05/10/18 08:39 AM
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Lol don't read it verbatim. It's paraphrased
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:32 AM
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Yeah relax mate, it was meant tongue in cheek. I guess it's hard to tell when just reading it.
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:31 AM
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Yeah it's a joke. I intend to remove her from my social media so that I don't get subjected to that. It's not a nice feeling. Take some solace that they tried to let you down gently king. Even though they should know it will just hurt when you see them FB official 2 weeks later lol
/r/seduction24/09/18 06:30 PM
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I've thought about this before. It depends on how much of a double standard you want to have. Would you be pissed if she was dating another person when you went on your 10th date just because you hadn't had the 'talk', if the answer is yes then you probably shouldn't do the same. We don't really need the 'talk' these days, it should be implicit whether you are exclusive or not.
/r/seduction24/09/18 05:32 PM
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Maybe you don't need to do anything, it sounds like you have a good relationship. Enjoy yourself and don't worry. If you're meant to be with this girl then it'll work out.
/r/seduction24/09/18 05:27 PM
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Yes, I do mention that it is quite likely in the post. By this point it's irrelevant though.
/r/seduction24/09/18 05:04 PM
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Errm it goes 1,2,3,4? Or it least it does for me...
/r/seduction24/09/18 04:36 PM
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