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Did you actually "walk" through the mall? Or did you go into stores/food areas? Obviously just walking around the main areas scoping out girls who are probably on the move is not ideal for an approach. You should go into stores and look at different clothes/merchandise or whatever and position yourself near cute girls in the store to approach in an un-forced way versus straight walking up to a girl in the main areas.
/r/seduction03/03/16 03:11 AM
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This is pretty much what I thought, practice makes perfect. Very good suggestions for ways to go about improving. I appreciate it!
/r/seduction03/03/16 02:49 AM
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Thanks a lot for this, I always try to tell myself that there are hundreds of other girls like her somewhere else.
/r/seduction25/02/16 03:31 AM
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Interesting points you make and I really appreciate it. I have always been one to over-analyze things and exercised (which has done nothing but undermine me) an unhealthy level of prudence to avoid rejection. I know that mentality is the opposite of ideal, but it's how I've functioned for 80-90% of my life. That's why I read into her not replying to my texts so much. So are you suggesting that because she has a boyfriend, she is less likely to text back but still possibly interested? I guess I c…
/r/seduction25/02/16 03:25 AM
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I'm not a real alpha and I realize that. I'm working to change it but like I said before, I'm in a really really deep hole of beta-ness and it's going to take time and experience to overcome.
/r/seduction25/02/16 03:18 AM
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Because A. I work with her B. Boyfriend Like I said in my OP, I have NO idea how to deal with girls in relationships, and when I texted her she wouldn't reply. There's several reasons for not asking her out.
/r/seduction25/02/16 03:15 AM
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Honestly that's what I've been doing. I showed her attention for a little bit, but haven't been at all lately. Normally I wouldn't try anything with girls at work, but damn, she is my type. Fuck it though, no point.
/r/seduction24/02/16 09:25 PM
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How old are you? I was raised in your quintessential "bible-belt" strict family in Texas, and I've felt the SAME EXACT thing as you. Once I made them realize I want NOTHING to do with Christianity and that I give literally 0 fucks about what they think of me, THAT was when I began to feel relief. I let it go on for far too long though, 22 years old to be precise. It's amazing how brainwashing religion and the whole 'no pre-marital sex' shit works honestly. Just have to wait it out until your old…
/r/seduction10/01/16 07:44 PM
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You were trying (and I'm assuming failing) to get her attention? So why not just go up and say hi?
/r/seduction10/01/16 07:28 PM
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Holy shit... I've read all the comments on here so far and everything you guys have said is so right. But this... This really stood out to me. That's exactly how I feel, like I'm dead every day. I'm just going through life and not even living it.
/r/seduction04/11/15 11:19 PM
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Thanks for the post! This is really motivational and you bring up some really good points. Appreciate the advice friend!
/r/seduction10/10/15 09:24 AM
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This is really cool. Thanks for posting it!
/r/seduction10/10/15 03:44 AM
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I tried this one night before going out, and I'm not sure if it helped. I don't think it really changed my mindset. But this process of building mental references sounds interesting, will probably give this a shot.
/r/seduction09/10/15 03:14 PM
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Thanks a lot for this response, this is very helpful. I've read multiple places that stock openers are perfect for starting. I'll think on that because I've definitely had times where I was feeling more confident than ever, but I honestly didn't know something to say. Then, I end up waiting too long and she walks away, sometimes even giving eye contact. That's the worst feeling ever right there.
/r/seduction09/10/15 02:59 PM
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I think change might be a big factor in my problem, so thanks for suggesting that. I'll be honest, I like to chill, smoke dope, and play video games. So I definitely realize I can't really live like I am now and be involved with girls at the same time.
/r/seduction09/10/15 02:50 PM
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How does it make you feel like you lose your power? I feel like a comment on their attractiveness makes you seem confident.
/r/seduction23/09/15 04:34 AM
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Is anyone else confused at the reframing example? What does he mean by this?
/r/seduction23/09/15 04:28 AM
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Dude are you me from the future? I'm 22 right now and the thing about women throwing themselves at you is exactly the situation I've dealt with... Literally all the girls I've ever messed with have came to me. And it FUCKING SUCKS actually being a decently attractive guy and not being able to approach EVEN when a girl shows visible interest. Happens all the time, I swear I'll lose my mind if I don't get over these inhibitions... I just don't know what it will take.
/r/seduction03/09/15 04:23 AM
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Not until recently did I learn the importance of not hesitating and taking immediate initiative. It's been like this my whole life, I fail to jump on the first opportunity where it's NORMAL to become acquainted. Instead, I shot myself in the foot by forcing myself to come up with alternative introductions with a higher likelihood of sounding forced.
/r/seduction18/06/15 04:26 PM
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Well the other two were in class, so it was different situationally. Honestly I fucked up on that from the start, should have introduced myself on day 1 but now since I didn't we just awkwardly make eye contact.
/r/seduction18/06/15 03:02 PM
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Most likely not while she's talking. There's just that... moment. At least for me, I just go in for the kiss when it feels right. Usually it will be after you've said something to her that makes her pause and you just need to look into her eyes and go for it, or else it's just awkward and you lose the window.
/r/seduction03/05/15 04:10 AM
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Like I said, if it works for you, then great. I'm not saying it doesn't. Good job though. The "fuck it" attitude is great for gaming.
/r/seduction03/05/15 02:43 AM
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Hey, it's just my personal opinion, if it works for you then it works. They make it pretty obvious that they want to be kissed, and being flirty isn't necessarily an indicator. It's all situational.
/r/seduction03/05/15 02:29 AM
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I think any time kissing needs to be verbally mentioned is a fuck up in general.
/r/seduction02/05/15 10:49 PM
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You mentioned watching movies... Like what?
/r/seduction02/05/15 10:47 PM
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But the thing is that he felt taking that chance by saying that to her is worth the risk of a negative reaction. It's always a gamble, but is it really that big of a deal if ONE girl THINKS you're weird? Even if that's the case, and somehow for some reason she tells other students (why?), who cares? It's class!
/r/seduction21/01/15 12:29 AM
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I need this to happen. 22 years old is too old.
/r/seduction03/12/14 04:35 AM
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Yeah you're talking to me as if I've done this before. I don't mind you asking anything, it's the internet, I don't care. That being said, my experience in the game is little to none, the farthest I've gone is one blowjob and she was terrible (which is saying something since I have nothing to compare it to). So yeah, you're dealing with the lowest of the low here. I hope you still try to help, but I understand if you don't want to.
/r/seduction14/11/14 08:47 PM
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I don't escalate at all with friends around. So are you saying that I should decline to hang out with her unless its 1 on 1?
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:10 AM
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Usually the first time we hang out isn't 1 on 1. This could be part of the problem, but even if it is, I need to learn how to deal with it. I really feel like if it were a 1 on 1 scenario, it would be easier, but I can only escalate so much with other people there.
/r/seduction14/11/14 04:35 AM
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This may be dumb, but are you referring to a shot of alcohol? It sounded like you were, until you started talking about hitting/missing.
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:21 AM
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That's pretty risky for me, since most of my friends are better at gaming then I am. It would probably result in me listening to them talk.
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:17 AM
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But that's one of my problems. I feel like I HAVE to plan out some things to say. Otherwise, with my experience level, there would almost certainly be difficulties for me to hold a good conversation.
/r/seduction09/11/14 09:15 AM
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Hey, I'm not knocking you're approach at all, obviously it worked out and you're the one getting ass at the end of the day. I just wanted to make sure I understood.
/r/seduction29/10/14 12:01 PM
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This. Stop second guessing and just go in to it with a "fuck it" type attitude.
/r/seduction29/10/14 05:06 AM
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Are you saying you hugged and kissed this girl when you first met her?
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:43 AM
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I'm unfamiliar with the 3-second rule. What is it?
/r/seduction28/08/13 06:35 AM
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Best way to approach at the gym? I posted this in here a few days ago and got a few replies, just trying to get a few more if you guys don't mind!
/r/seduction16/06/13 04:38 AM
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Unusual answer, but I do agree with it. Most that I see to this question say that you SHOULD let them know, or just say that you haven't for a while.
/r/seduction16/06/13 04:35 AM
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DJ the party. Whenever I DJ at parties the girls love it.
/r/seduction16/06/13 02:57 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/seduction14/06/13 09:39 PM
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Well I don't do classes and I see her there pretty regularly now. I'll probably do it sooner or later I just need some advice as to how.
/r/seduction14/06/13 05:49 PM
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Watching now. This guy is awesome.
/r/seduction14/06/13 05:21 AM
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God damn I love you guys. I'm literally at that point where I've been single for so long I'm starting to not give a fuck.
/r/seduction14/06/13 05:06 AM
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I'm too scared doe
/r/seduction14/06/13 05:03 AM
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All thing's aside, she could have just been a bitch.
/r/seduction14/06/13 04:42 AM
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I'm 21 and have the same problem. Pretty much everything you are feeling I have or am feeling too. I have a little plan put together to deal with this issue, but I'm not sure how it will go, so commentary is welcome. If the girl is like the one that you described in the first few paragraphs, I will most likely just lie and tell her that it has been a year or two since I have has sex to avoid the possible consequences that you unfortunately had to deal with. Now obviously this will be a tough cal…
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:53 AM
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I agree with you up until the part with hitting on other girls in their sight. I feel like that might just cause problems. The thing is, are you actually going to go hit on another girl in order to make another girl jealous at the gym? I just feel like it's counterproductive. The way I would go about it is to wait for the actual target girl to like do squat (or whatever girls do at the gym) and say something like "You have really good form, finally someone who knows what they're doing in here." …
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:04 AM
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Funny, I was in almost the exact situation today, however, my name is not Nate. Anyway, to answer the question, I think that it may be somewhat because the girls will notice you more, and hopefully want you more if you don't pay them any attention. The girl I saw at the gym today was hot, and she knew it, you can tell by what she was wearing and how she carries herself. But I didn't do anything more than briefly make eye contact, then casually go about my business, doing my best to avoid making …
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:52 AM
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I understand what you're saying, I have a friend that went from skinny to huge in a little over a year. But now every time I comment and say he's getting big, he just says "nah I'm not even big man". Which is complete bullshit because we used to be the same size a year ago. I don't see how they have this mindset, because I put into a comparative perspective to people that have been working out longer than me, but with similar build/body type. I feel like he may be comparing himself to shorter, s…
/r/seduction07/06/13 06:51 AM
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Do you have a link? I'm on my phone and can't see the sidebar.
/r/seduction15/05/13 04:24 AM
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Not sure if trolling...
/r/seduction03/05/13 05:44 AM
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I'm literally in almost the EXACT same situation as you, except I'm an undergrad. All my roommates and friends have had sex and I still haven't. They constantly try to hook me up with girls they know and are willing to fuck just to help me get it over with. I have 2 issues with this, one is that I don't think I would feel satisfied if I took the offer. Two is that I'm not the least bit attracted to any of them. It's now the end of my sophomore year and I just feel like I'm missing the bus. I can…
/r/seduction02/05/13 05:53 AM
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Why do you feel unattracted now that you kissed her? You should be thinking of it as testing the waters! Invite her over for a movie and ESCALATE!
/r/seduction01/05/13 05:29 AM
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Very interesting.
/r/seduction17/04/13 06:18 AM
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Hey OP, just read the story great job! I just have a quick question. When you made this cold approach, did you get any nervous symptoms like the shit that I get? Such as gulping while talking, feel really hot, studdering words at all? Every time I try an approach like this I feel like I crash and burn because of this shit.
/r/seduction06/03/13 06:51 AM
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I know, I know... I never have done a cold approach yet. Just haven't ever grown the balls. I'll warm up to it though.
/r/seduction27/02/13 09:52 PM
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Let us know how it goes OP! I'm interested because I have always thought eye contact and your approach were good, but never tried.
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:29 AM
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This sounds like a recipe for failure to me.
/r/seduction18/11/12 04:30 AM
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Honestly to go up and ask if they are having a good time is a very weak way to talk to them, which is probably why it would be difficult to turn in to an actual conversation. Instead of this, try just saying something funny about something interesting going on with the party, the people, or the environment (music possibly). It could be almost anything, just make sure that they hear you and that it makes sense. This may not always work, especially if they are preoccupied, but if it seems like she…
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:31 AM
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Roofies
/r/seduction19/08/12 03:59 AM
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Thanks a lot for your help! This one in particular was very interesting to read. I am now 19, and am still a virgin. However I do not really mind it because I have had plenty of girls want to do it but I just didn't like them enough. So the part where you suggested that I "flip the script" is actually sort of a reality. Again thanks a lot!
/r/seduction18/08/12 03:22 AM
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I don't mind the harsh feedback at all, in fact, I think it was very helpful. But in regards to number 2, what do you think would have been a better course of action? All I did was tell the truth because I didn't see a reason to say anything else. Thanks!
/r/seduction17/08/12 09:26 PM
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I agree 100%. Looking back, I probably should have just not gone, because I knew it was going to suck. Should have done the first "date" in a more comfortable environment.
/r/seduction16/08/12 03:44 AM
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